Martha Brockenbrough, “Is Your Partner Emotionally Abusive?” Women’ s Health Magazine ,
January 26, 2010, http://www .womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/emotional-abuse. 2. Andrea Schneider , “Unreality Check: Cognitive Dissonance in Narcissistic Abuse,” Good
Therapy , October 7, 2014, http://www .goodtherapy .org/blog/unreality-check-cognitive-
dissonance-in-narcissistic-abuse-1007144. 3. Ibid. 4. Kellie Jo Holly , “CrazyMaking: Domest ic Abuse Intended to Cause Self-Doubt,” Verbal Abuse
Journals , http://verbalabusejournals.com/about-abuse/crazymaking/. 5. Cited in Sarah Klein, “9 Things Your Brain Fog is Trying To Tell You,” Prevention , July 31,
2015, http://www .prevention.com/health/brain-fog-and-your -health.6. Dr. Steven Stosny , “Emotional Abuse  (Overcoming Victim Identity),” Psychology Today ,
November 18, 2008, https://www .psychologytoday .com/blog/anger -in-the-age-
entitlement/20081 1/emotional-abuse-overcoming-victim-identity . Chapter 10: Change Begins with Y ou
1. Marc Perry , “Five Stages of Change Mod el: Which Stage Are You In?” Built Lean , October 14,
2016, http://www .builtlean.com/2010/06/01/5-stages-of-change-model-which-stage-are-you-in/. Chapter 1 1: The T ruth W ill Set Y ou Fr ee
1. Aubrey Sampson, “The Most Dangero us Lies Women Believe,” Today’ s Christian Woman ,
November 11, 2015, http://www .todayschristianwoman.com/articles/2015/november -11/shame-
you-are-not-enough.html. 2. Ibid. 3. Winn Collier , “Do You Want to Be Whole?” In Touch Ministries , January 15, 2015,
https://www .intouch.or g/read/magazine/features/do-you-want-to-be-whole. 4. Brian Grazer , A Curious Mind  (New Y ork: Simon & Schuster , 2015), 7. 5. Julia Cameron, The Artist’ s Way (New Y ork: Jeremy P . Tarcher , 1992), 53-54. 6. Scott Peck, The Road Less T raveled  (New Y ork: Simon & Schuster , 1978), 15. Chapter 12: Maintaining Dignity with Boundaries
1. Fred Hoyle, The Intelligent Universe  (New Y ork: Michael Joseph, 1983), 19. 2. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Contr ol
of Your Life  (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1992), 33. 3. Donald Miller , Scary Close  (Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson, 2014), 206-7. 4. Kellie Jo Holly , “Personal Boundaries Are Important for Abuse Victims,” Verbal Abuse Journals ,
http://verbalabusejournals.com/how-stop-abuse/setting-personal-boundaries/. 5. Joyce Meyer , Appr oval Addiction  (New Y ork: W arner Faith, 2005), 207. 6. William Bridges, The W ay of T ransition  (Cambridge, MA: Perseus, 2001), 53. 7. Ibid., 58. 8. Robin Norwood, Women Who Love T oo Much  (New Y ork: Pocket Books, 1985), 261. 9. Lundy Bancroft, Should I Stay or Should I Go? (New Y ork: Berkeley Books, 201 1), 257. 10. Ibid., 266-68. 11. Jordan and Margaret Paul, Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? (New York: MJF
Books, 1983), 1 15. Chapter 13: Rediscovering Y our Godly Self1. Brian Morton, “Falser Words Were Never Spoken,” New York Times, August 29, 2011,
http://www .nytimes.com/201 1/08/30/opinion/falser -words-were-never -spoken.html. 2. Henrik Edber g, “Gandhi’ s 10 Rules for Changing the World,” Daily Good , June 28, 2013,
http://www .dailygood.or g/story/466/gandhi-s-10-rules-for -changing-the-world-henrik-edber g/. 3. Mysia Anderson, “Self-Care Is Resistance,” The Stanfor d Daily , May 21, 2015,
http://www .stanforddaily .com/2015/05/21/self-care-is-resistance/. 4. Viktor Frankl, Man’ s Sear ch for Meaning  (New Y ork: Beacon Press, 1959). 5. Stephen R. Covey , The 8th Habit  (New Y ork: Free Press, 2004), 5, 40. 6. Henry Cloud and John T ownsend, Safe People  (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1995), 29. OceanofPDF .comABOUT THE AUTHOR
Dr. David Hawkins  is a Christian  clinical psychologist, a bestselling
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struggling in these areas, includ ing a four-day men’ s small-group intensive,
weekly online group intensives, and individualized personal intensives for
men. Dr. Hawkins’ team also leads four-day women’ s intensives and offers
a subscription group called Thrive, both designed to help wome n heal from
narcissistic and emotional abuse. Dr. Hawkins is a speaker for the American Association of Christian
Counselors and writes regularly for Crosswalk.com , CBN.or g, and
Believe.com . He has also been featured on Focus on the Family , The 700
Club , Time for Hope , the Trinity Broadcasting Netw ork, and Moody Bible
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Summarize the following text section accurately and concisely. Maintain specific details and numerical information, and use anti-repetition mechanisms:

        Martha Brockenbrough, “Is Your Partner Emotionally Abusive. ” Women’ s Health Magazine,
January 26, 2010, http://www. womenshealthmag. com/sex-and-love/emotional-abuse. 2. Andrea Schneider, “Unreality Check: Cognitive Dissonance in Narcissistic Abuse,” Good
Therapy, October 7, 2014, http://www. goodtherapy. org/blog/unreality-check-cognitive-
dissonance-in-narcissistic-abuse-1007144. 3. Ibid. 4. Kellie Jo Holly, “CrazyMaking: Domest ic Abuse Intended to Cause Self-Doubt,” Verbal Abuse
Journals, http://verbalabusejournals. com/about-abuse/crazymaking/. 5. Cited in Sarah Klein, “9 Things Your Brain Fog is Trying To Tell You,” Prevention, July 31,
2015, http://www. prevention. com/health/brain-fog-and-your -health. 6. Dr. Steven Stosny, “Emotional Abuse  (Overcoming Victim Identity),” Psychology Today,
November 18, 2008, https://www. psychologytoday. com/blog/anger -in-the-age-
entitlement/20081 1/emotional-abuse-overcoming-victim-identity. Chapter 10: Change Begins with Y ou
1. Marc Perry, “Five Stages of Change Mod el: Which Stage Are You In. ” Built Lean, October 14,
2016, http://www. builtlean. com/2010/06/01/5-stages-of-change-model-which-stage-are-you-in/. Chapter 1 1: The T ruth W ill Set Y ou Fr ee
1. Aubrey Sampson, “The Most Dangero us Lies Women Believe,” Today’ s Christian Woman,
November 11, 2015, http://www. todayschristianwoman. com/articles/2015/november -11/shame-
you-are-not-enough. html.
A Christian clinical psychologist.
What is Dr. David Hawkins' profession?
Narcissistic and emotional abuse.
What is Dr. Hawkins' area of expertise?
Helping individuals and couples find lasting freedom from narcissistic and emotional abuse.
What is the focus of Dr. Hawkins' work at the Marriage Recovery Center?
A four-day men's small-group intensive, weekly online group intensives, and individualized personal intensives for men, as well as four-day women's intensives and a subscription group called Thrive.
What are some of the resources offered by Dr. Hawkins' team at the Marriage Recovery Center?
The importance of not sacrificing one's own growth and happiness to please others, and finding joy and peace in serving others from a place of abundance, not need.
What is the main theme of Dr. Hawkins' book "When Pleasing Others Is Hurting You"?