as for a neglected woman and a man who exposes himself they are both ruined and destroyed. that is why it is forbidden for a muslim to take pleasure in listening to the tune of a foreign woman. the first glance is for you and the second is for you. the messenger of allah may allah bless him and grant him peace said whoever looks at a woman while he is fasting until he sees the size of her bones has broken his fast. and in what was reported about the prohibition of desire in the text of the revelation there is something convincing. and in the occurrence of this word i mean desire as a noun with meanings and in its derivation among the arabs there is evidence of the inclination and desire of souls towards these stations. and the one who clings to them is fighting and combating his soul.
وأما امرأة مهملة ورجل متعرض فقد هلكا وتلفا؛ ولهذا حرم على المسلم الالتذاذ بسماع نغمة امرأة أجنبية، وقد جعلت النظرة الأولى لك والأخرى عليك، وقد قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم من تأمل امرأة وهو صائم حتى يرى حجم عظامها فقد أفطر . وإن فيما ورد من النهي عن الهوى بنص التنزيل لشيئا مقنعا؛ وفي إيقاع هذه الكلمة، أعني الهوى اسما على معان، وفي اشتقاقها عند العرب دليل على ميل النفوس وهويها إلى هذه المقامات. وإن المتمسك عنها مقارع لنفسه محارب لها.