fighting is ordained for you even though you dislike it. but it may be that you dislike something while it is good for you and it may be that you like something while it is bad for you. god knows and you do not know.
كتب عليكم القتال وهو كره لكم وعسى أن تكرهوا شيئا وهو خير لكم وعسى أن تحبوا شيئا وهو شر لكم والله يعلم وأنتم لا تعلمون