 perhaps love is for a reason and that is destroyed when its reason is destroyed. so whoever loves you for a reason will be destroyed even though it has passed. and in that i say 
وربما كانت المحبة لسبب من الأسباب، وتلك تفنى بفناء سببها، فمن ودك لأمر ولي مع انقضائه، وفي ذلك أقول 