perhaps the lover follows his desires and gets carried away so he attains his satisfaction from his beloved and deliberately seeks his pleasure from him in every way whether he is angry or pleased. and whoever is helped by time to do this and his mind is steadfast and fate makes things easy for him he will attain all his pleasure his sorrow will go away his concern will be cut off he will see his hope and he will attain what he desires. i have seen someone of this description and in that i say some verses including 
وربما اتبع المحب شهوته وركب رأسه فبلغ شفاءه من محبوبه، وتعمد مسرته منه على كل الوجوه، سخط أو رضي. ومن ساعده الوقت على هذا وثبت جنانه وأتيحت له الأقدار استوفى لذته جميعها، وذهب غمه، وانقطع همه، ورأى أمله، وبلغ مرغوبه. وقد رأيت من هذه صفته؛ وفي ذلك أقول أبياتا منها 