faint not in seeking the heathen if you are suffering they are also suffering as you are suffering and you are hoping from god for that for which they cannot hope god is allknowing allwise.
ولا تهنوا في ابتغاء القوم إن تكونوا تألمون فإنهم يألمون كما تألمون وترجون من الله ما لا يرجون وكان الله عليما حكيما