a faithful man or woman may not have any option in their matter when allah and his apostle have decided on a matter and whoever disobeys allah and his apostle has certainly strayed into manifest error.
وما كان لمؤمن ولا مؤمنة إذا قضى الله ورسوله أمرا أن يكون لهم الخيرة من أمرهم ومن يعص الله ورسوله فقد ضل ضلالا مبينا