and he falls in love after this after trust has been established and familiarity is complete sending an ambassador. he must be chosen sought out improved and sought out for he is the guide of a persons mind and in his hand is his life and death his cover and his disgrace after god almighty. so the messenger should be of a good appearance skillful content with hints discerning the unseen improving his own self putting down from his mind what his sender has overlooked and conveying to the one who sent him everything he sees on his face keeping secrets keeping the covenant content and giving advice. and whoever transgresses these qualities his harm to his sender is in proportion to what he lacks from them. and in that i say a poem from him 
ويقع في الحب بعد هذا بعد حلول الثقة وتمام الاستئناس إرسال السفير. ويجب تخيره وارتياده واستجادته واستفراهه، فهو دليل عقل المرء، وبيده حياته وموته، وستره وفضيحته، بعد الله تعالى، فينبغي ان يكون الرسول ذا هيئة، حاذقا يكتفي بالإشارة، ويقرطس عن الغئب، ويحسن من ذات نفسه، ويضع من عقله ما أغفله باعثه، ويؤدي إلى الذي أرسله كل ما يشاهد على وجهه، كاتما للأسرار، حافظا للعهد، قنوعا ناصحا. ومن تعدى هذه الصفات كان ضرره على باعثه بمقدار ما نقصه منها. وفي ذلك أقول شعرا منه 