it is not fitting for a believer man or woman when a matter has been decided by allah and his messenger to have any option about their decision if any one disobeys allah and his messenger he is indeed on a clearly wrong path.
وما كان لمؤمن ولا مؤمنة إذا قضى الله ورسوله أمرا أن يكون لهم الخيرة من أمرهم ومن يعص الله ورسوله فقد ضل ضلالا مبينا