it was narrated that muawiyah asked amr ibn alaas one day and there were young men from quraysh with him and said to him o abu abdullah what is pleasure? he said order the young men of quraysh to stand up. when they stood up he said the loss of chivalry.
وقد روي أن معاوية سأل عمرو بن العاص يوما وعنده شباب من قريش فقال له يا أبا عبد الله، ما اللذة؟ فقال مر شباب قريش فليقوموا. فلما قاموا قال إسقاط المروءة .