 it is said may god bless you the happy one is he who is admonished by others and the wise one is he who is wised by his experiences. it has also been said what you dislike from others is enough for you to discipline yourself. it has also been said it is enough for you to avoid hearing him badly. it has also been said the awakening of understanding to the preacher is what calls the soul to beware of error and the mind to purify itself from dirt.
إنه يقال أكرمك الله إن السعيد من وعظ بغيره، وأن الحكيم من أحكمته تجاربه . وقد قيل كفاك أدبا لنفسك ما كرهت من غيرك وقيل كفاك من سوء سماعه ، وقيل إن يقظة الفهم للواعظ مما يدعو النفس إلى الحذر من الخطاء، والعقل إلى تصفيته من القذى .