it is part of the mercy of allah that thou dost deal gently with them wert thou severe or harshhearted they would have broken away from about thee so pass over and ask for forgiveness for them and consult them in affairs . then when thou hast taken a decision put thy trust in allah. for allah loves those who put their trust .
فبما رحمة من الله لنت لهم ولو كنت فظا غليظ القلب لانفضوا من حولك فاعف عنهم واستغفر لهم وشاورهم في الأمر فإذا عزمت فتوكل على الله إن الله يحب المتوكلين