 leave the matter to him and involve him in the special aspects of your affairs and the secrets of your secrets. then recognize his value in your gathering your conversation and your dealings in all your situations and your dealings in your private moments with him and in the presence of your companions for that is an increase in his intention and an invitation to those below him to draw closer to you with the likes of his advice.
الأمر إليه، وأشركه في خواص أمورك وخفي أسرارك، ثم اعرف له قدره في مجلسك ومحاورتك ومعاملتك، في كل حالاتك ومزاولاتك في خلواتك معه، وبحضرة جلسائك؛ فإن ذلك زيادة في نيته، وداعية لمن دونه إلى التقرب إليك بمثل نصيحته.