 thamamah was ashamed to have someone sit at his table who did not please him and he thought that some of his servants should eat with him. one day qasim altammar detained some of the people he was ashamed of for his lunch and thamamah put up with that in his heart. then he returned to the same thing and he did that repeatedly until thamamah became restless and lost his patience. then he turned to him and said what
كان ثمامة يحتشم ٤ أن يقعد على خوانه من لا يأنس به، ومن رأيه أن يأكل بعض غلمانه معه. فحبس قاسم التمار يوما على غدائه بعض من يحتشمه فاحتمل ذلك ثمامة في نفسه. ثم عاد بعد ذلك إلى مثلها، ففعل ذلك مرارا حتى ضج ثمامة، واستفرغ صبره. فأقبل عليه فقال ما