 fighting is obligatory for you though it is hateful to you. but you may hate a thing although it is good for you and may love a thing although it is evil for you. allah knows and you do not.
كتب عليكم القتال وهو كره لكم وعسى أن تكرهوا شيئا وهو خير لكم وعسى أن تحبوا شيئا وهو شر لكم والله يعلم وأنتم لا تعلمون