the blame lies only on those who ask leave of you though they are welloff. they are pleased to be with those who stay back allah has set a seal on their hearts so they do not know .
إنما السبيل على الذين يستأذنونك وهم أغنياء رضوا بأن يكونوا مع الخوالف وطبع الله على قلوبهم فهم لا يعلمون