so what a great mercy it is from allah that you are lenient towards them and if you had been stern and hardhearted they would have certainly been uneasy in your company so forgive them and intercede for them and consult with them in the conduct of affairs and when you decide upon something rely upon allah indeed allah loves those who trust .
فبما رحمة من الله لنت لهم ولو كنت فظا غليظ القلب لانفضوا من حولك فاعف عنهم واستغفر لهم وشاورهم في الأمر فإذا عزمت فتوكل على الله إن الله يحب المتوكلين