you may defer any of them you wish and receive any of them you wish. should you desire any of those you had deferred there is no blame on you. this is more proper so that they will be comforted and not be grieved and be content with what you have given each one of them. god knows what is within your hearts. god is omniscient and clement.
ترجي من تشاء منهن وتؤوي إليك من تشاء ومن ابتغيت ممن عزلت فلا جناح عليك ذلك أدنى أن تقر أعينهن ولا يحزن ويرضين بما آتيتهن كلهن والله يعلم ما في قلوبكم وكان الله عليما حليما