it does not behove a believer male or female that when allah and his messenger have decided an affair they should exercise their choice. and whoever disobeys allah and his messenger has strayed to manifest error.
وما كان لمؤمن ولا مؤمنة إذا قضى الله ورسوله أمرا أن يكون لهم الخيرة من أمرهم ومن يعص الله ورسوله فقد ضل ضلالا مبينا