the second is that he becomes accustomed to seeking a livelihood before he has settled into a state of sufficiency. we have rarely seen wealthy sons who are safe from relying on their fathers money and what he has prepared for them of sufficiency. when he becomes dependent on that it cuts him off from seeking a livelihood through craftsmanship and from adorning himself with the garment of good manners. so if the boy earns through his craft then it is a matter of management that he should marry and set aside his own journey.
والثانية أنه يعتاد طلب المعيشة قبل أن يستوطئ حال الكفاية فإنا قل ما رأينا من أبناء المياسير من سلم من الركون إلى مال أبيه وما أعد له من الكفاية فلما عول ذلك قطعه عن طلب المعيشة بالصناعة وعن التحلي بلباس الأدب فإذا كسب الصبي بصناعته فمن التدبير أن يزوج ويفرد رحله