1) i think he is referring to what abu tammam said she went out to visit me angry and advised her imagination to visit me to bring the camels to me and she said the marriage of love spoils its appearance and how many have been married for love and it is not corrupt. the general meaning is that she advised her imagination to visit me and look after me and she said the marriage of love spoils its appearance but the marriage of does not spoil it . 2) i tried to find this meaning in albuhturis diwan but i did not succeed despite the frequent recurrence of looking at the diwan.
 أظنه يشير إلى قول أبي تمام .غدت مغتدى الغضبي وأوصت خيالها بحران نضو العيس نضو الخرائدوقالت نكاح الحب يفسد شكله وكم نكحوا حبا وليس بفاسدوالمعنى الاجمالي أنها أوصت خيالها بزيارتي وتعهدي، وقالت ان نكاح الحب يفسد شكله، ولكن نكاح لا يفسده .. لقد حاولت أن أجد هذا المعنى في ديوان البحتري فلم أوفق، على كثرة ترداد النظر في الديوان.