 as for the invitation to these types there is some that is blameworthy and some that is praiseworthy. the blameworthy is the naqri and the praiseworthy is the jafli. that is when the host of the banquet and the one who is inviting when his messenger comes and the people are in their quarters and clubs and he says answer the food of soandso and he makes them all one jafala which is the jafala then that is the praiseworthy. and if he pecks and says you get up soandso and you get up soandso and he invites some and leaves out others then he has peckish. alhudhali said
فأما الدعاء إلى هذه الأصناف فمنه المذموم، ومنه الممدوح. فالمذموم النقري، والممدوح الجفلي. وذلك أن صاحب المأدبة وولي الدعوة إذا جاء رسوله، والقوم في أحويتهم ٣ وأنديتهم، فقال أجيبوا إلى طعام فلان، فجعلهم جفلة ٤ واحدة، وهي الجفالة، فذلك هو المحمود. وإذا انتقر فقال قم أنت يا فلان، وقم أنت يا فلان، فدعا بعضا وترك بعضا فقد انتقر. قال الهذلي