you may put off whichever of them you wish and consort with whichever of them you wish and there is no sin upon you any whom you may seek from among those you have set aside . that makes it likelier that they will be comforted and not feel unhappy and all of them will be pleased with what you give them. allah knows what is in your hearts and allah is allknowing allforbearing.
ترجي من تشاء منهن وتؤوي إليك من تشاء ومن ابتغيت ممن عزلت فلا جناح عليك ذلك أدنى أن تقر أعينهن ولا يحزن ويرضين بما آتيتهن كلهن والله يعلم ما في قلوبكم وكان الله عليما حليما