if there appears to be discord between a wife and her husband and if they desire reconciliation choose arbiters from the families of both sides. god will bring them together god is allknowing and allaware.
وإن خفتم شقاق بينهما فابعثوا حكما من أهله وحكما من أهلها إن يريدا إصلاحا يوفق الله بينهما إن الله كان عليما خبيرا