Wells Fargo Mortgage contacted me regarding an escrow overagecaused by non-payment of real estate taxes. I notified them that thepayments should be spread out in the next 12 months. I am male. Theco-borrower contacted the lender and spread it out for 60 months. Icontacted them and stated that this was not what I requested. Thelender stated that it could be changed verbally by either party. I said tochange it back. They stated they would. They called today to state thatthey would not. The lender stated they did not want to be involved. Istated they already were by spreading it to 60 months. The lenderrefused to change it back. So, it would appear the female co-borrowerhas the right to change my decision, but the male primary whose incomethe mortgage is based on has less rights on my own mortgage. 
