I was given a pre-approval and the green light to start looking for a home with Suntrust around XXXX XXXX 2015. Made an offer on a home on XXXX XXXX and the process " started ''. Was given the closing date of XXXX XXXX 2015. Went through all the inspections and the whole XXXX to get this home. My seller is/was starting their process to move and find a hime out of state. On XXXX XXXX I got an email ( not even enough respect for a phone call ) stating that I would not be closing on XX/XX/XXXX. Once I make a few phone calls to figure out why, I find out that my loan officer and the processor forgot about me and never even sent me to underwriting. After my sellers agreed to an extention, and Suntrust " doing everything they can '' I find out on the XXXX of XXXX that I was denied. Reason was because of my self-employment relocation. This is something I told Suntrust the very first day I walked in to get pre-approved. I find out after this, that this is something that was known the whole time that I would never have been able to get a loan through them and was just strung along through the whole process, so they could " exhaust every resource ''. It 's a shame that such a large bank and a loan officer that holds the position of VP of the mortgage dept. here locally, can lie to someone and put a huge burden on them while trying to make a major life decision and change. I have been XXXX miles away from my wife and XXXX young children during this whole thing and am now XXXX as I already sold my home in Florida. I must now scramble to find a home to rent as my seller will not sign another extension. All due to Suntrust not doing their job. They have agreed to refund me any money that I have paid out of pocket for inspections, appraisal, etc - and to me, just shows that they know they are guilty in the situation as they are not obtained to do so ( because I should have never made it past his desk in XX/XX/XXXX with a pre-approval letter ). I feel Suntrust should make it right with a customer that they have had for over XXXX years and see that I have the credit, cash, payment history, and income to support a loan from them. 
