I would like assistance in getting NC State Employee Credit Union to review my loan for a one month deferment of the mortgage payment. I called the Credit Union on XXXX/XXXX/2015 and spoke to a person named XXXX. I explained that my mother died unexpectedly and I had to come out of pocket {$4200.00} to pay for a burial plot and autopsy. Because of this I am behind in making my mortgage payment by about 3 weeks. He said he would research if a one month extension could be done and call me back on Monday XX/XX/XXXX. I did not hear from anyone Monday XXXX/XXXX/15 or Tuesday XXXX/XXXX/2015. I called back on Wednesday XXXX/XXXX/15 and spoke to XXXX. She said that she would pass my account to XXXX and ensured me that I would get a call back. I did not hear from anyone the rest of XXXX/XXXX/2015. I called again on Thursday XXXX/XXXX/2015 and spoke to XXXX who said that the policy is that I can not get an extension if it was to pay an expense and if my hardship was under 30 days long. I explained that I was not requesting it to pay an expense, I 've already paid it and that is what has strained my cash flow. I explained that I was on unpaid leave from XX/XX/2015-XX/XX/2015, to which he said was n't a long enough time. I explained that I have XXXX checking account with the credit union, have XXXX auto loan currently, another car loan paid in full, a credit card, my mortgage, and a savings account. If I experienced a cash flow struggle in order to bury my mother, I think that deserves an exception to the guidelines. He agreed that it was unfortunate that the guidelines were not set up to assist my issue, but he had to go by the guidelines. He said that if my mother was on the loan, if I had experienced a medical harship instead of my mom, or if my mother had been sick 30 days instead of 21, they would be able to assist per the guidelines. He offered to approve a loan for {$950.00} to make the XXXX payment I 've behind, which basically increases my expenses even more and is no help. I would like to see if someone could review my situation looking at it from a " human '' standpoint rather than by a paper book guideline. I paid out {$4200.00} but only asked for one month ( {$950.00} ) worth of help. I could n't even get the Credit Union to honor their word to call me and talk about my situation. And when I get someone he says " your mom was sick long enough '' -- I think its beyond unfair, unreasonable, and flat out insensitive. 
