Yesterday I got a XXXX message from a cousin in another state, whom I, not even yearly communicate with. She writes me " Hey the police are looking for you, they keep calling you. '' I immediately thought it was a joke and responded with a laugh, telling her I think she has the wrong person. She responds saying, " No, they keep asking for ( my name ). '' A few minutes later I get a text message from my brother that shows where she XXXX messaged him stating, " Can you tell your sister the police keeps calling for her at XXXX house ''. Then I knew she was n't joking. I gave her my # and asked her to call me. She tells me that a private investigator from Texas has been calling her mom ( who I have n't spoken to in many years, lives in another state, and I would only know how to contact through my cousin - on XXXX ). She says this person has been calling a lot. Being XXXX mos pregnant, and not a criminal, I became immediately concerned -scared. She continued to tell me that this person happened to call when she was with her mom, and once her mother said my name ( married name that my aunt does n't know of ), she told her mom, that 's " -my nickname-! ". I was/AM completely embarrassed, humiliated, confused as to why someone was calling her for me, and scared of being arrested - especially with my XXXX. I remembered I got a call that same day from a Texas number. I told my cousin I would validate the number, and to give me the number she has. After getting off the phone with her I checked my voicemail. It was a person who said they were an " Investigator '', asking to speak to MY HUSBAND, and that he has a CASE FILED AGAINST HIM. Again, feeing sick to my stomach, I immediately called my husband, and then sent him a text. I eventually forwarded him the voice message I received. He later tells me it is a collector for Wells Fargo Dealer Services, and that he spoke with her last week, and made payments last week. I am highly upset that she would go through such tactics to get him to contact her. Though he is my husband, this debt has nothing to do with me, and to call ( harass ) my distant relatives - who I do not keep in contact with - stating the police is looking for me is EMBARASSING and defaming of my character! Why go through such tactics to get in touch with me??? It is not that hard to find me. No one gave her permission to call these people. I am angry! And how do I clean the situation up with them ... just tell them it was a bill collector calling for my husband? That he has been out of work for months, I am the only XXXX working, - oh, and by the way I am XXXX months XXXX! That is none of their business - and EMBARASSING. 
