I have a joint checking account with my mom. I keep it open because it allows me to have free checking on my individual bank account. I went to Bank of America in person with my original marriage license in order to change my name on my accounts. They will not allow me to change my name on the joint account unless the other person is at the bank with me, yet they will allow the other person to close the account and take the funds without my knowledge. As a joint holder I should have XXXX access and be able to change my name with the proper legal documentation. 
