这其中包括接受儿子或孙子决定不用来之不易的大学学位成为日后家庭主要的经济支柱，还包括理解女儿或孙女所要的可能不是一个传统意义上的“经济支柱 ” ， 而是一个愿意牺牲自身事业推动她事业发展的丈夫。
This means accepting the decision of a son or grandson not to use his hard-earned university degree to become the primary breadwinner in his future household. And it means understanding that what a daughter or granddaughter needs may not be a traditional “provider,” but a partner who makes career sacrifices to enable her to advance hers.