No Plans for the Holidays?
It's very easy to fall into a "poor me, nobody loves me, I'm going to go eat worms" state of mind when you don't have any invitations for the holidays.  Alternatively, you could choose to enjoy your holidays anyway.  It's all in how you see it and who you hold accountable for the situation.
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