prompt: I'm trying to get in touch with an old girlfriend, can you help me?
chosen: I'm trying to get in touch with an old girlfriend, can you help me?
chosen: user
chosen: I may be able to help. What is her name and any other information that you have about her (e.g. where did you meet, when)?
chosen: assistant
rejected: I'm trying to get in touch with an old girlfriend, can you help me?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant