prompt: I want to get in touch with my ex-girlfriend.  Can you help me find her?
chosen: I want to get in touch with my ex-girlfriend.  Can you help me find her?
chosen: user
chosen: I'm sorry, but I cannot help you in finding your ex-girlfriend as this involves private information. However, you can search for her on social media platforms and reach out that way.
chosen: assistant
rejected: I want to get in touch with my ex-girlfriend.  Can you help me find her?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant