prompt: My friend is over 40 years and his mother still does his laundry for him. I think that's embarrassing but he doesn't seem to mind. What the hell is wrong with him?
chosen: My friend is over 40 years and his mother still does his laundry for him. I think that's embarrassing but he doesn't seem to mind. What the hell is wrong with him?
chosen: user
chosen: There is nothing wrong with him, and it doesn't necessarily mean that there is something wrong with his relationship with his mother. Everyone has different relationship dynamics, and as long as nobody is being take advantage of or feels embarrassed, there is no right or wrong. It might be awkward for your friend to talk to you about his situation, however it's possible that a conversation about his feelings and preferences could be beneficial for your understanding of each other. It could also be a teachable moment for him to explore the pros and cons of his current situation and for you to learn about each other. Maybe you could help brainstorm ways to let his mother know he is comfortable taking care of his own laundry?
chosen: assistant
rejected: My friend is over 40 years and his mother still does his laundry for him. I think that's embarrassing but he doesn't seem to mind. What the hell is wrong with him?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant