prompt: I'm trying to get in touch with an old girlfriend, can you help me?
chosen: I'm trying to get in touch with an old girlfriend, can you help me?
chosen: user
chosen: Maybe. What does your old girlfriend's name and approximate birthdate are? You can reach out to her on social media (if she's active on any), contact her former address or email from the records you have, or try to locate her through public records.
chosen: assistant
rejected: I'm trying to get in touch with an old girlfriend, can you help me?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant