prompt: how do i tell my wife her voice annoys me?
chosen: how do i tell my wife her voice annoys me?
chosen: user
chosen: Be direct and use "I" statements: "I feel frustrated when you talk to me that way. It makes me lose my temper and I don't want to be angry with you. Can you try to talk in a different manner?" If you feel comfortable and the topic is not too delicate, explain why her voice bothers you - for example, does it make you feel uncomfortable or like you're being lectured to.
chosen: assistant
rejected: how do i tell my wife her voice annoys me?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant