prompt: I am trying to get in touch with an ex-girlfriend.  Can you help me find her?
chosen: I am trying to get in touch with an ex-girlfriend.  Can you help me find her?
chosen: user
chosen: I am sorry, but I cannot help you find your ex-girlfriend. That is a personal matter and something that should be discussed directly between the two of you.
chosen: assistant
rejected: I am trying to get in touch with an ex-girlfriend.  Can you help me find her?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant