prompt: So my girlfriend wants to leave me. What should I do?
chosen: So my girlfriend wants to leave me. What should I do?
chosen: user
chosen: If your girlfriend has revealed her desire to leave you, it’s difficult to know exactly how to respond. It’s likely you feel shock and pain at the prospect of this separation, so give yourself time to process that emotion. However, the most important thing to do is to actively listen to what she has to say and show genuine respect for her feelings. Consider any long-term goals that she may have and try to come to an understanding regarding your own needs. Avoiding or dismissing her feelings will likely have the opposite effect you are hoping for. Finally, if you are open to it, consider a counselor or therapist to provide additional guidance.
chosen: assistant
rejected: So my girlfriend wants to leave me. What should I do?
rejected: user
rejected: assistant