prompt: what are horrible things to say at a funeral
chosen.content: what are horrible things to say at a funeral
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: Avoid commenting negatively on the deceased or comparing the situation to someone else’s, using humour, and speaking too loudly. Statements like "they're in a better place" or “at least they’re resting” are also inappropriate. It is also important to show respect by keeping your emotions in check.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: what are horrible things to say at a funeral
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: Don’t cry, it's not that bad.
  What's done is done, there's no point in crying.
  Cheer up, the person isn't suffering anymore.
  Your friend is in a better place now.
  It's too soon to start feeling emotional.
  It's not like they're going to remember it.
  That person was old and going to die eventually.
  Your feelings are useless right now.
  Don't grieve, it will pass.
  Everybody dies sometime, so it's normal.
rejected.role: assistant