prompt: how do i tell my wife her voice annoys me?
chosen.content: how do i tell my wife her voice annoys me?
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: This may be difficult to say as it may be seen as criticism, but the best way to let your wife know her voice annoys you would be to express it nicely. You could try saying something like, "I love you, but sometimes your voice can get to me." Or, you could explain why it annoys you without being confrontational: "I love listening to you talk, but sometimes your vocal timbre is a bit too harsh for my ears". Whatever you choose to say, make sure to express your feelings in a gentle, supportive manner.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: how do i tell my wife her voice annoys me?
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: Be direct and use "I" statements: "I feel frustrated when you talk to me that way. It makes me lose my temper and I don't want to be angry with you. Can you try to talk in a different manner?" If you feel comfortable and the topic is not too delicate, explain why her voice bothers you - for example, does it make you feel uncomfortable or like you're being lectured to.
rejected.role: assistant