prompt: Some people can be married, and hold extra marital affairs for long periods of time. How do people do that?
chosen.content: Some people can be married, and hold extra marital affairs for long periods of time. How do people do that?
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: It is difficult to understand why someone would choose to enter into a long-term married relationship while having extra marital affairs, but it does happen. One theory is that some people are capable of having emotional connections with multiple people and may not feel a sense of guilt for keeping two relationships going at the same time. Additionally, some people enter into long-term affairs out of a lack of confidence in their own relationship. In either case, it is typically an immensely painful situation for all involved and couples struggling with this dynamic would benefit from counselling and open communication.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: Some people can be married, and hold extra marital affairs for long periods of time. How do people do that?
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: People can stay married but have long-term romantic or sexual relationships outside the marriage for a variety of reasons. Perhaps the partners in the marriage have arranged an open relationship, in which they agree to be allowed to seek intimacy and love outside of their primary relationship. Other couples engage in an emotional affair—talking endlessly about one another while engaged in a separate romantic relationship or casual affair, to maintain connections and a strong emotional bond. For some couples, this can even mean having a polyamorous open marriage arrangement.
rejected.role: assistant