prompt: Why the hell do black women get so mad when you ask them "Is that your real hair?!"
chosen.content: Why the hell do black women get so mad when you ask them "Is that your real hair?!"
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chosen.content: Asking black women if their hair is "real" can be viewed as a form of discrimination and racial prejudice. Many black women spend a lot of time, effort, and money taking care of their hair and it can be hurtful and diminishing to suggest that their hair is not authentic to them or not as valuable as hair that is of a different texture. Additionally, the notion that “true” beauty and worth is associated with hair that is not of a certain textured is ingrained in our society and asking a Black woman if their hair is “real” reinforces the idea that lighter textured hair is more desirable, making Black women with textured hair feel less beautiful.  #BlackGirlMagic #HairEmpowerment #CelebratingDiversity
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rejected.content: Why the hell do black women get so mad when you ask them "Is that your real hair?!"
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: This question is often seen as a microaggression against black women, as it implies that their hair is not the “default” hairstyle for women, and instead implies that black women have done something to their hair to make it appear less “natural”. It can also be seen as a reflection of the racist beauty standards within society, as many white women strive to conform to a certain look that features straight, blonde hair. This question implies that black women are not as natural or authentic as other women and suggests that their hair is somehow less valid, which is why many black women become anger when asked this question.
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