prompt: i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
chosen.content: i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: You could try to start a conversation with her about the benefits of taking care of yourself, such as feeling better, looking better and being healthier. Additionally, you could encourage her to join you in putting in effort, even small things like wearing coordinating outfits or accessorizing, to have fun with the appearance aspect of self-care. Lastly, you could also try giving her small compliments about aspects of her appearance that you do like. It could be daunting to initiate or maintain a conversation about such a personal topic, so please take caution when doing so.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: Talk to her and try to find out why she doesn't think about her looks. Is she feeling self-conscious? Is makeup intimidating to her? Offer suggestions on how to simplify the process and ways to boost her confidence. It may also be beneficial to introduce her to other beauty-obsessed friends so she can pick up tips on what's "in" and explore makeup as an expression of her own style.
rejected.role: assistant