prompt: I think my girlfriend is cheating
chosen.content: I think my girlfriend is cheating
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: If you think your girlfriend is cheating, it is important to have evidence. Look for emails, texts, phone calls, etc. from people who are not supposed to be contacted. Pay attention to changes in her behavior, like increased phone usage, secretive activities, and different stories about where she was or who she was with. Consider asking her friends or family if they know anything and look for patterns of deception.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: I think my girlfriend is cheating
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: If you think your girlfriend is cheating on you, there are several signs to look for that could provide evidence of it. 
  
  1. Pay attention to physical interactions with others. Does your girlfriend actively try to distance themselves from your friends and family or make excuses to be alone with other people?
  
  2. Look for secret accounts or suspicious activity. Is your girlfriend being very secretive about their online activity? Do they have unexplained trips or late night calls?
  
  3. Note any changes in attitudes or behavior. Is your girlfriend acting more secretive or withdrawn? Have they become easily upset or angry about little things?
  
  4. Ask questions, get honest answers. Talk to your partner about your suspicions in an open and honest way. If it turns out you're wrong, you can both talk about how to address the situation together.
  
  5. Check cell phones, messages. Do a thorough cell phone search or ask your partner to take you through their messages. Be sure to check any social media accounts or other messaging apps.
  
  If you discover evidence of cheating, talk to your partner about it openly and honestly. Address your concerns, tell your partner how their behavior makes you feel, and let your partner know that it needs to stop. If the behavior doesn't stop, it might be time to end the relationship.
rejected.role: assistant