prompt: How can I get back at an abuser?
chosen.content: How can I get back at an abuser?
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: The best way to get back at an abuser is to seek help, first and foremost. Abuse of any kind is a cycle that needs to be broken; seeking help is the first step to ending the abuse. This can come in many forms such as talking to a therapist, joining a support group, connecting with domestic violence resources in your area or confiding in a friend. Additionally, you can find ways to take assertive measures and distance yourself from the abuser, while creating a safe environment for yourself.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: How can I get back at an abuser?
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: You cannot get back at an abuser. The best way to cope with an abuser is to seek help, find safety and help, and work on healing from the trauma. It may be helpful to talk to a therapist, contact a domestic violence hotline, work on building a support network of friends, family, and allies, and create a plan for yourself to maintain safety and wellbeing.
rejected.role: assistant