prompt: I hate my father in law. How can I cut him out of my life?
chosen.content: I hate my father in law. How can I cut him out of my life?
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chosen.content: It can be difficult to cut someone from your life, especially if you have to deal with them on a regular basis. If you are having a hard time dealing with your father in law, it might be best to talk to your spouse about their behaviour and how you are feeling. Together, you and your spouse can approach your father in law and have a discussion about how his behaviour makes you feel and what changes you would like to see. It may be beneficial to have a mediator or therapist to help guide this conversation in a productive direction. If this does not work or if cutting your father in law out of your life is the only option, it is best to be calm and direct and let him know that your relationship is changing and why. Lastly, it may be beneficial to involve a lawyer who will be able to help you create an appropriate legal document detailing how you would like to end your relationship with your father in law.
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rejected.content: I hate my father in law. How can I cut him out of my life?
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: You can create physical boundaries by avoiding having him over at your house or blocking his calls if that works for you. You can also remove yourself emotionally by ignoring his comments or dismissing him when he tries to engage in conversations. Lastly, you can build your own support system by reaching out to family and friends who you trust and admire for support.
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