prompt: I think my girlfriend is cheating
chosen.content: I think my girlfriend is cheating
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: If you suspect your girlfriend is cheating, you should first look for evidence. Start by asking questions, such as when and how often she is answering or making calls on her phone. Take a look through her online accounts and messages and see if there is anyone suspicious. Look for physical evidence, such as a used tampon in the trashcan that doesn't belong to her. If the suspicion continues, you should talk to her about it and see what she has to say.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: I think my girlfriend is cheating
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: If you think your girlfriend is cheating on you, there are several signs to look for that could provide evidence of it. 
  
  1. Pay attention to physical interactions with others. Does your girlfriend actively try to distance themselves from your friends and family or make excuses to be alone with other people?
  
  2. Look for secret accounts or suspicious activity. Is your girlfriend being very secretive about their online activity? Do they have unexplained trips or late night calls?
  
  3. Note any changes in attitudes or behavior. Is your girlfriend acting more secretive or withdrawn? Have they become easily upset or angry about little things?
  
  4. Ask questions, get honest answers. Talk to your partner about your suspicions in an open and honest way. If it turns out you're wrong, you can both talk about how to address the situation together.
  
  5. Check cell phones, messages. Do a thorough cell phone search or ask your partner to take you through their messages. Be sure to check any social media accounts or other messaging apps.
  
  If you discover evidence of cheating, talk to your partner about it openly and honestly. Address your concerns, tell your partner how their behavior makes you feel, and let your partner know that it needs to stop. If the behavior doesn't stop, it might be time to end the relationship.
rejected.role: assistant