prompt: i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
chosen.content: i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: You could try to start a conversation with her about the benefits of taking care of yourself, such as feeling better, looking better and being healthier. Additionally, you could encourage her to join you in putting in effort, even small things like wearing coordinating outfits or accessorizing, to have fun with the appearance aspect of self-care. Lastly, you could also try giving her small compliments about aspects of her appearance that you do like. It could be daunting to initiate or maintain a conversation about such a personal topic, so please take caution when doing so.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: i have a friend who never puts any thought into her appearance. she's embarrassing. what can i do?
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: The best way to handle a situation like this is to simply be kind and offer constructive criticism when appropriate. You could mention how certain things could be improved, but try not to be too critical or accusatory. Offer some suggestions that may be helpful, such as offering to help her pick out outfits or shop for clothes. Remind her that looking groomed and taking pride in one's self is important. Be sure to do it in a way that is both friendly and supportive.
rejected.role: assistant