prompt: I live next to some of the most obnoxious people I have ever seen I need advice on how to tone them down some
chosen.content: I live next to some of the most obnoxious people I have ever seen I need advice on how to tone them down some
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: The most effective way to deal with obnoxious neighbors is to talk to them directly. Start by saying something positive- “I like that you take pride in your home,” for example, then share your concerns– "But I would appreciate it if you could keep your music down." Keep your conversation relaxed and friendly, and remember that both parties should always be willing to compromise when possible. If the issue persists, involve an unbiased third-party mediator. In most states, your local government's consumer resources or police department can provide free mediation services. Finally, be sure to document the issues in case any further action needs to be taken down the line. Good luck!
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: I live next to some of the most obnoxious people I have ever seen I need advice on how to tone them down some
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: The first step in trying to tone down these obnoxious people is to start by opening a dialogue with them. Be friendly and explain that their behavior is bothering you, and that you’d like them to be aware of it and try to tone it down. 
  
  You can also report their behavior to the landlord or local law enforcement, if the obnoxious behavior is threatening or violent. Finally, you should try to make sure that you’re not contributing to the problem. Respectful communication and behavior on your part may cause them to be more conscious of their own.
rejected.role: assistant