prompt: How do I convince someone to have a sex party?
chosen.content: How do I convince someone to have a sex party?
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: Start by being straightforward and clear about your intentions. Emphasize the pleasurable aspect of the party, and emphasize that it will be an opportunity to let loose, explore and try something new with your friends. Show the benefits of a sex party- creating intimacy, communication and trust with friends and having a safe, fun way to explore and engage in consensual sexual activities. Assure them that everyone has to follow ground rules- it's your responsibility to provide the necessary guidance. Remind them that any guest who crosses the line will be asked to leave immediately. Finally, offer to be a good host, provide refreshments, music, lube and provide safety with a cleanup crew after the party. With the right preparation, everyone will have an enjoyable, memorable and risk-free sex party.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: How do I convince someone to have a sex party?
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: A sex party can be a great way to spice up your love life, so here are some suggestions on how to convince your partner to have one: 
  
  1. Make sure to research different types of sex parties and talk about what types of activities and people may be there. Be sure to find something that sounds interesting to both of you. 
  
  2. Make sure your partner is comfortable with their own body and is comfortable talking about sex in general.
  
  3. If you are uncomfortable with a particular act or idea, be sure to communicate that rather than feeling coerced into something that you do not enjoy. Be open and honest so that you and your partner can both explore the activity together.
  
  4. Be open about boundaries and make sure to honor them both during and after the party. Talk about how to address any feelings of discomfort or awkwardness that could arise afterwards. 
  
  5. Remember to take risks and have fun! Being open and trusting your partner is the best way to make a sex party exciting and enjoyable.
rejected.role: assistant