prompt: what do i tell my girlfriend, she has really let herself go
chosen.content: what do i tell my girlfriend, she has really let herself go
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: you can tell her that you still find her attractive, but that you want her to do the things that make her feel good about herself, like eating healthy and getting enough rest and exercise.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: what do i tell my girlfriend, she has really let herself go
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: Your girlfriend cares about her physical appearance and might be embarrassed that she has let herself go. Try to be kind and encourage her by praising her efforts, however small, in caring for herself and being healthy. You can also suggest things that she can do to take steps towards feeling better about how she looks, from wearing makeup to getting regular haircuts, or even taking up a new hobby.
rejected.role: assistant