prompt: I have a former best friend whom I used to like a lot, but she doesn't know why I don't like her any more.
chosen.content: I have a former best friend whom I used to like a lot, but she doesn't know why I don't like her any more.
chosen.role: user
chosen.content: It might be difficult to explain your changed feelings in a clear and concise way. However, the most important thing is to explain why you don't like her any more, so she understands why you acted the way you did. You should focus on your feelings and your perspective of her, rather than what she has done. Acknowledge that it is likely to be upsetting for her, and take responsibility for how you communicate the changes in your relationship.
chosen.role: assistant
rejected.content: I have a former best friend whom I used to like a lot, but she doesn't know why I don't like her any more.
rejected.role: user
rejected.content: It is understandably hard not to like someone who used to be a close friend. You may want to start by simply explaining how you feel now – that things have changed and that you are no longer comfortable being in contact with her. You may find it helpful to explain your reasoning, but it’s ultimately her decision whether to take your side or not. If she doesn’t accept your explanation and you feel that the friendship is really not salvageable, then it might be best to end the relationship. Be sure to remain civil, even if the friendship ends, and make sure to let her know that you’re still open to talking if she changes her mind.
rejected.role: assistant