maxine water tell tmz reporter secretary state rex tillerson put threats aside appease north korea give things ask respond leave upscale steakhouse beverly hill tell reporter afford go war pretty rich person want spend unlimited amount everything else important u.s defense want us careful alert happen avoid war think diplomacy get tillerson secretary state get position fill deputy assistant engage north korea think things want us find whether work things ask exactly obama years exactly position today read wfb ha maxine water say must give north korea keep peace video