world generation oyster china class 2012 mostly ambitious pragmatic want life 's husband others apartment city still others happy stable job travel new experience wang siyue product specialist internet education company honest imagine happen next five years make plan world unpredictable ... good say luck man balance balance good luck begin less luck late believe fate hu ruixin computer technician talk dream university 15-year-plan first five years open advertise studio next five years let studio develop company five years grow company finally graduate university go world find hard realize many restrictions difficult give important thing life responsibility get child since become parent feel responsibility really important zhang weixuan assistant secretary software company recently manage get beijing residency covet hukou china dream simple hope establish big city last year get beijing hukou successfully get want get marry start family work field hope well two years time even buy small apartment establish think pretty good qi jing township leader communist party youth league grow wuhan think dilemma reach certain age less less opportunities especially woman choices work choices work family face give lot things maybe something want young think give shoot feel slowly give focus stability aspirations young chinese seize day seize hour