michelle obama hands-down divisive first lady ever occupy nation white house woman never proud country husband elect president live comfortable life first lady nation white house take regular 5-star vacation include tax-supported live-in mother friends relatives course daughters attend best school washington dc long years act first lady unite state america actually quite sad see michelle travel around venue venue explain audiences still victim racism sexism tuesday pennsylvania conference women former first lady michelle obama say attend state union address would notice republican side men white argue many people color trust politics speak diversity obama say work actively mix get real broad range perspectives every issue shoot would see congress explain state union address room see real dichotomy feel color almost one side room literally gray white literally color palette one side room side room yellow blue white green physically difference color tone one side men white side woman people color continue look go wonder wonder struggle wonder people trust politics even notice room look like breitbart watch divisive former first lady michelle obama let go race-obsession people trust politics republicans white men