new york u.s. society uncomfortable powerful women unite state yet elect woman president president barack obama say sunday obama eager see fellow democrat hillary clinton succeed office tell fundraiser new york election former secretary state republican businessman donald trump close however political polarization country would make tight say first african-american u.s. president tell group donors think woman never hold office reason woman president say society still grapple mean see powerful women still trouble us lot ways unfairly express sort ways obama often speak role strong women life include mother grandmother wife daughters poll tighten clinton former u.s. senator first lady trump real-estate tycoon close election obama say reason hillary flaw rather structurally become polarize society say president hide disdain trump one leaders movement question whether obama bear unite state trump concede friday obama u.s. bear obama tell donors trump unlike two candidates face 2008 2012 general elections run john mccain deep differences say qualify president unite state obama say 2008 opponent say elect mitt romney would unmitigated disaster guy trump qualify president obama tell clinton fundraiser u.s. still grapple powerful women