mexico city tear flow lady carmen saint joseph parrish thursday night families two dead children kill powerful earthquake topple school block away inter ash crush victims 7-year-old eduardo diaz 8-year-old francisco quintero two 286 people report kill quake mexico deadly 32 years tell 17 dead come parish worship lady carmen roman catholic church near enrique rebsamen school nineteen children six adults die collapse school one earthquake emblematic tragedies family friends lean mass outside mexicans thousands millions find another way combat sadness come aid total strangers offer time earthquake recovery volunteer overwhelm 50 collapse build sit mexico city many bear food water others offer pair hand go work good deeds help lift spirit grieve families say father genaro chavez priest lady carmen first faith secondly tremendous solidarity people show mexico gather focus place right chavez say back step church fill palates bottle water foodstuffs block away school hundreds rescuers labor odds find survivors 48 hours quake many police army personnel others average citizens show hard hat human chain take rubble disaster site team men haul heavy beam laminate steel prop weaken structure volunteer include doctor psychologists trash-sweepers sandwich-carriers one man hand chocolates anyone path express desire help mexico hour need makeshift medical station grass median close street doctor physical therapists tend rescue workers injure job patch send back work physical therapist jose juan galvan apply ultrasound treatment back doctor injure move patient day next doctor white coat tap knee man hard hat treat send back action galvan say psychologists fabiola jimenez paulina bustos come aid parent teachers rescue workers deal emotional trauma counsel three father show thursday one lose daughter son rescue bustos say normal parent return scene hop find children belong recreate final moments tragedy confuse shock mourn bustos say part process less lionize trash sweepers also donate time group six sit curb eat sandwich take break haul away barrel litter lot trash say ana ramirez say group convince boss allow clean staff report rescue site instead regular job mexico need us mexicans respond faith charity hope fade quake survivors