powerful story courageous young woman fight right women children everywhere america feel safe public bathrooms locker room must read share story.a months ago kaeley triller keep locker room safe organization victim rape register workshop call story workshop allende center seattle primarily aim help survivors sexual abuse find purpose weight fracture personal narratives conference promise intense deeply healing.i know exactly expect naively hopeful would get good write tip would enable beautify past approach like one aesop fables third-person fiction perfect little moral end story.that happen one pre-assignments write 700 word painful childhood memory surprise one choose heavy hitter speak write polaroid picture keep rediscover shoebox parent house inability figure look make want rip shreds.i ten years old picture scraggly hair pale skin vacant expression wear mom oversized knit sweater oxford shoe dad buy hand piece green felt cut shape new york school report u.s. state coincidentally new york place abuser recently move think want close try understand still t.my small group dissect story grace insight could offer speak horrific language shame rage grief felt nothing speak remember say commit ambivalence group leader brush away tear say kaeley story break heart hate little girl picture much access understand empathy recognize accuracy assessment know change it.later even one workshop presenters task us seemingly benign activity instruct play crayon miniature tubs play dough table front us hat type exercise think waste time reach purple crayon reluctantly comply draw picture flower roll snake play dough burst tears.the invitation engage child reveal whole dilemma hate little girl photo hat need hat anonymity hat visible proof love abuser hat know good take another ten years figure still sleep light shower underwear vigilantly line crack bathroom door beach towel destroy teeth gum relentlessly chew mean escape recollection breath face hat fool fool everybody really good wake want scream see go something desperate inclination fight today everywhere read news talk another school gym business boldly adopt progressive new locker room policies design create equal right people identify transgender policies allow transgender individuals use locker room consistent sex identify regardless anatomy.while propose third option transgender people single-occupancy restrooms shower option largely strike employees prohibit suggest consider discriminatory emotionally damage group people work hard fit solution anyone use whatever restroom want without questioned.i read report heart start race serious let clear say transgender people predators long shoot say countless deviant men world pretend transgender mean gain access people want exploit namely women children already happen google jason pomares norwood smith burn taylor buehler starters.while feel deep sense empathy must difficult situation transgender people begin end day nothing short negligent instate policies elevate emotional comfort relative physical safety large group vulnerable people.don know anything predators know number every 100 rap two rapists spend much single day jail 98 walk free hang midst know predators know intentionally seek place many prefer target gather group perpetrators addict commit fantasy stop nothing achieve know 99 percent single-victim incidents commit males experts rationalization minimize number victims know insurance company highlight locker room high-risk area abuse carefully monitor protect know one every four little girls sexually abuse childhood without give predators free access shower know women experience sexual trauma find courage use locker room freak badge honor many women view life kaleidoscope shame suffer post-traumatic stress disorder depression dissociation poor body image eat disorder drug alcohol abuse difficulty intimacy bad would people knowingly invite exploitation create policies safeguard place protect injury zero screen options ensure biological males enter locker room actually identify female could woman sure person star exploit okay make wonder wake want scream see go something despite many report sexual abuse assault exist world even large number victims never tell reason afraid one believe even bad terrify reality already innately know true even people know anything help worth protect even silence feel good that.there way make everyone happy situation transgender locker room use priority ought find way keep everyone safe much rather risk hurt small number people feel ask transgender people use single-occupancy restroom still offer safety risk jeopardize safety thousands women kid policy give would-be predators free pass.is ironic one progressive actually set women lib back century right darndest insist first time daughter see adult male form choose force upon emotional physical right unless line bathroom door towel protection tell risk there.for heal look like star little girl polaroid photo validate need see hear protect instead hat look like tell story even part never make pretty hop help break anonymity survivors create sense responsibility others act.i still battle powerlessness anything feel substantial affect change good lord bring egypt set feet upon rock could stand idly face danger even little article facebook post ultimately change world good silent resignation negligence harm feel sense urgency invite people consider not-so-hidden dangers policies get cement place happen way change innocent people get hurt.even hundreds abusers rush locker room dozens question keep ask one little girl get hurt would enough make people reconsider little girl question really want ask god grace enable value face photo enough realize even like answer least silent.author kaeley triller via federalist powerful rape survivor explain men never allow women bathrooms locker room