obama convince black communities across america victims true victims victims fatherless culture white man cop barack obama would like americans believe men communities start take responsibility raise children grow men start take active role raise children lawless sometimes innocent kid get catch line fire never opportunity grow realize full potential entire communities boys girls grow without dads expect different result one see today think street artist hit home run powerful message community fox detroit mix reaction controversial tag contentious catchphrase highland park slogan apartment build woodward pilgrim message cogent today right especially particular area lot black dads actually father one person said.stacey calwise speak 4-year-old children dads black around far black dads matter case said.watch black residents happy street artist make one brutally honest change divisive message video