csatka hungary thousands roma hungary beyond flock every year shrine virgin mary chapel among undulate hill pray good health happiness luck love actually find love like adam vidak wife nikoletta meet huge party holy mass last year return want newborn christen shrine main roma mass year take place saturday meet facebook arrange date come like get car go say vidak 22 20-year old nikoletta cradle baby boy arm next day call parent tell together shortly afterwards wed hungary estimate 700,000 roma one large roma minorities central europe live poverty roman catholic chapel csatka around 120 km 75 miles west budapest main place pilgrimage many non-roma hungarians also come pray roma families come carry big candle statues virgin mary draw water sacred spring next chapel believe magic heal power arrive traditional outfit like zoltan sztojka 42 wear yellow silk shirt black vest embroider richly gold come 40 family members soltvadkert eastern hungary roma come 150-200 years everybody come lay sin pray luck strength health say show enormous silver ring finely engrave horse coat arm family chapel build 1862 time hermit live site even hungary four decades communist rule 1949 roma come horse-drawn cart huge park lot cars caravan people camp weekend hill large family set camp cook tripe stew campfire child sandor jakab 60 use come cart parent bring family three days year village erd fridge freezer full meat drink say true many roma families seek wive husband children pilgrimage jakab reply brother-in-law stand next let say example suppose two us know would drink daughter son .... would chat would ask whether go see daughter potential bride say promise make csatka carve stone agree huge party loud music dance follow prayers hillside family go ... pray spend time together music place say roma seek luck love catholic shrine hungary