text: is it bad to talk to your ex fiance'...........? we ended out engagement about 11 months ago....were engaged for 2 years, and together for 5.........i have a guy, he has a new girl, but he always calls me and tells me how much he misses me and loves me, and will never love anyone else like he does me!  i never innitiate these conversations, and dont call him!  he is always the one doing the calling......we have not seen each other since it ended, and we dont have any financial ties, or any children together!  what should i think about all of this....... his affection is nice, but i can see it's unwanted. it must be hard for him to move on after a long relationship like that. it's not bad to keep talking to him, but if he's being pushy about getting back together you need to say something about it. especially since you have a new guy and he's with someone else. he needs to focus on that new relationship before she finds out that hes still focused on you.