text: how can i forgive my guy for lying to me? so i posted that i went through his voicemail..there was a chick that left a message..i spoke to him about it...he continued to lie right in my face..finally he confessed and said that he gave the girl (she works in our building) money to buy him a sneakers..and that she liked him he doesnt like her..he told her that he has a girlfriend... later in the day i approach the girl..she said that he is a friend and that she knows about me... i cant help but to think that if i didnt catch him ..how long he would have continue to keep this from me..i cant forgive..because she should not have his number to begin with..and the messages that she leaves on his voice mail..would have you believe that he had something with her..any advice *** i'm w/ her ^^^^^^^^.  move on.  if he's lying about this what else might he be lying about?  if not now then in the future?