text: how can you mend a broken heart? you've been in love with a girl for long time, and the reason why she break up is that the family would not allow the girl to have a boyfriend.  is it possible that the girl just have  a new love?  she's just giving reason to the guy so the guy will not be hurt?  they are so inlove before. try meditating on top of a tibetian mountain...   if the girl gave a firm "no", get moving, its no longer worth the while. otherwise, elope with the girl if its only the parents... if the guy is so ready in love with the girl