text: how do you get an annoying person to stop bothering u? i swear this kid is like a stalker. just won't leave my house and keeps annoying the heck out of me.help!!!!! i've had this happen to me twice. tell them up front that they are annoying you. don't go into too much detail, because it can really hurt their feelings. just tell them that you need some time alone and time with other people, and that you feel trapped. if you see him/her walking around, dont talk to him/her. that will make them think you like them.  just ignore them. that should work.