text: why cant i get over this guy? in high school, i got together with this guy for a bit but, dumped me because he couldnt take the pressure of the school's gossip since we are of diff. race. a week later, he got with another girl and everytime he made out with her or walked with her, he made sure that i saw that. after hs, he said sorry and we became friends. throughout the next couple of years, i keep bumping into him. it is just weird! lately, ran into him and he kept calling me that weekend, saying that he wants to see me before this party he was hosting in the same week. we saw each other two days later & he kissed me. i was more shocked then anything else. the last time he kissed me was about 4 years ago in hs. i really thought that he would like me again but then after that day, he doesnt call me anymore and of course i didnt go to that party. why cant i get over this guy? he isnt that cute from what my friends say, shorter then me, and he does treat me like shit unless i was physically with him...help! he is toxic for u . surround your self with people who love and care for you. this and having lots of activites will help you get past him. you are too good for him anyway. let him be immature and you can move on and become fabulous!