text: i  want my love of my life back? i love her we have 3young kids,ithink she is getting attention from another man she iswanting a seperation i dont i want to show her how much i love her but she is being hard on me the kids hate all this tension i would do anything to save our marrige/family life but i feel like i am pushing her into a corner and she doesnt like it.we went to a marrige counciller but that was not that great.i truly care for her and dont want to loose her help first off stop pushing her into a corner, she is getting defensive.  try to talk to her and explain how you feel do not expect her to answer and do not make her.. leave it open. tell her you just want to explain how you feel and when she has had time to think it over you will be waiting with open ears.  secondly, if she has sought attention from another, why? i am guessing that she is not receiving what she needs from you.