text: girls!: "shall i confirm with her?....."? hey everyone,  i'm a guy whose having a crush on my besst girl friend.  she and i both know each other well and are really close as friends.  her brithday falls day after tomorrow. i got her b'day from her friend.  i need to confirm this with her, rather than wishing her a happy brithday suddenly as she may get confuesed. (what happen if it ain't her b'day!... a mess!)  so thought of text/sms her regarding this.  what could be the best way or approach to achieve my goal? (cause we ain't going to meet tomorrow!)  any good way to get that day confirmed from her???.... a very nice way?....  girls help me as usual!  thanks!  siri! no! don't turn your friend be your girlfriend! it would be awful if you break up and you may even lose her as a friend!