text: the elusive orgasm. . .serious answers only!? i have been with my fiance for about 3 years, and i love him so much! he is a fantastic lover, very sensitive and caring, but i have trouble reaching climax with out a vibrator on my cli*oris.  supposedly 70% of women have this problem, so i know there are some of you out there! please let me know what you can do to enjoy it a little more and possibly climax more often with out the use of toys (kinda kills the mood). look on the net for positions designed to stimulate your clitoris. there are many! good luck.