text: is it wierd that i really like my gay friend? theres this guy who is gay and my really good friend but i really like him...its wierd what do i do? i'm sorry hun, but if he's gay, not much you can do. i'm gay and from experience, it's not him you like, but the way he treats you. he likes you for your mind, not your body. your best bet is not to let him know, cuz that's when things will get weird. if you wanna persue a relationship, just know that he will be lookin at guys. your best bet is to head to the mall and scope together. enjoy what you have.