text: should i about a dating question? my bf & i have not really gone a "date". we have always gotten together with his kid & mine. we were moving too fast so monday we decided to slow down. now my question with this decision should i asked him if he wants to go on a "date" wednesday night. (now mind you we are going out of town with his parents & our kids this weekend). i am not sure what to do? you want o slow down but you are going out with his parents this weekend. thats doent make sense. slow down means going out once or twice a week, talking on the phone, hanging out without the kids