text: does losing your virginity hurt? ok i've seen lots of posts but everyone says differant things.  i'm 23 and i'm just scared it will hurt bad.  just looking for some honest answers.  i just don't want to admit i'm a virgin at 23 because i'm scared of the pain.  is it possible to fake it your first time so he doesn't realize you were a virgin? well i have heard all kinds of things but what i have heard that it's not as bad as you may think. just think about this, if it was really that bad, then there would be alot more virgins in this world lol.   and being 23 and a virgin is nothing to be afriad of. so don't worry yourself over this, it will be fine.   i hope you find this helpful.    -void