text: what wud you do if you had somebody always putting you down to make them selves look better then you ? i work with this girl that im pretty close to her we went to school together but she is always saying things that put me down and its all to make her look better. i have put up with it to long now and i am getting sick of it.shes not the easiest person to approach either.  what do you think i shud do?? the next time she says something insulting, look her right in the eye and ask "did that make you feel better, because you just made me feel like crap"!!  hopefully there are people around to witness it.  she'll look like the ass that she is.  hopefully after that you can work things out together and keep the friendship.