text: my girlfriend says south african guys are the hottest on earth. lots of answers please need to know what to do my girlfriend says that white south african guys are the hottest guys she has ever seen on earth. is this a myth or is this a fact. will she leave me for the gorgeous south african guys ? what is yur view on this ? lots of answers please ! i need to know what to do ! if she really loves you she will not leave your for another guy simply because she deems him "hot."  my husband is from sa and i didn't marry him cause of hotness (btw though some sa men are hot he's not) i married him because i love him and we have a lot of beliefs in common, his wit, and his caring.  besides if she does leave you for a guy from sa simply out of hotness she is either not really in love with you and/or shallow. if she's shallow you don't want her anyways.  when i was shallow an immature (back when i was 17-18) i dated a few guys cause they were "hot" then i grew up. either she will or your better off without her no matter how much it may hurt.  good luck