text: how can u tell if a girl is faking or not under the sheets?   i gotta say, there is only one reason a girl fakes it...and that is to make you feel good or feel better about yourself...cause she is worried you have too fragile an ego to deal with the fact that she might not totally enjoy being w you. so>>> i think you gotta talk to her and somehow gain a little confidence in yourself and your ability. the problem isn't her. if she is not faking it, great. if she is, i think you gotta turn the mirror on yourself and ask why. in either case....she is not the issue here!