text: straight vs lesbian? my best friend is a lesbian and she told me that she has feelings for me... long story short we are getting together within the next 24 hours to talk about our feelings. i love her and i never want to loose her. i want to try dating her but i dont want to hurt her ever. how should i communicate this to her with out sounding stupid. i want to be with her but i dont want to hurt her and i think that if we dont try being together that we will both regret it in our futures. i am not scared about losing her as a friend and i have been doing a lot of thinkin and i want her next to me. i want to be the one to hold her when she is down and i want to be the hand she has to hold when its cold. i have never felt this way for a female before so i guess that is why it is harder than usual. when i am near her i just want to hold her and kiss her soft lips and drift away into a place for just the two of us. help me think of the right words to use to tell her i want to try this with her. just tell her whats in your heart. it will know the words. the fact you are so nervous is not only the right way to feel but darn cute. that's how most women feel at first. being with a woman is the best feeling in the world. when you are all shy and giggling. then a small shaky kiss.. aw to be young and new again.  just tell her what you just said and you will do fine sugar