text: why do i hate dr. calhoun so much?   likely because there is a discrepancy between your normative standard (the way things _ought to be_) and your factual obervation (the way things _are_), and you have externalized this discrepancy, deciding that it is dr. calhoun's fault and not your own that this deiscrepancy exists.  oh, wait a minute.  was that a rhetorical question?  my bad.