text: why does my boyfriend stay with me if he thinks im ugly? okay i may sound lame saying all this but oh well.  my boyfriend always looks at females. no matter what they look like. he used to say i was beautiful and pretty all the time.  so i guess it was ok when he would look around so much but it still hurt. but he got fed up with me catching him always looking at females(he denies he looks at females ..) and now hes mean and he says im not attractive and when we fight he tells me im ugly.  ok.. sorry but hes not very attractive either.  hes not that good looking but since i fell inlove with him i think hes so hansom and sexy.  but for some reason hes alwyas looking at females that are unattractive girls who just are not pretty.  it seems like only unnatractive females look at him. but i see him make eye contact with girls he works with who are extremely not good looking. so he says im ugly yet he looks at females who are slobby and barely speak english, or anything with a vagina. i dont get it? why do you stay with you boyfriend if he thinks you're ugly? he's treating you soooo badly.. even if you do love him, get out of that relationship, he doesn't deserve you, and you're suffering!