text: whats the best advice for raising 3 kids,2brothers that fight all the time and a stepdaughter.? just trying to keep the peace.if i spend time with my husband my kids feel left ouy,if he spends more time with his daughter my kids feel left out.help constant discipline, and what i mean is not hitting them all the time, but never letting up, lay ground rules, and punishments for those ground rules, and stick to them, stay firm, i teach parenting classes at church, find a good church, and take a parenting class