text: when i masturbate, i can't really feel anything...is something's wrong? people say that masturbating feels good, but i just don't get, why can't i get the pleasure. my friend said i just have to pluck my finger (haha) but sadly i don't feel anything.  i'm 16 and i think i'm too young for sex and scared i will regret it, but my intentions for sex are high...don't know why, maybe because i'm lonely.  sooo... i think masturbating is useless for me and sometimes i got this feeling that i don't like to masturbate or touching myself. i can't imagine why girls are moaning or say that it's a great feeling while having sex. how does it feel like? (for ppl who have had experience it) sometimes when i'm studying i can hardly concentrate, coz i'm thinking bout it all the time (really disturbing & irritating but can't get away from it) pheww...need to pure my mind! have you tried using lubricants? dildo? shower head? there are alot of different ways to masturbate and everyone has different kind of stimulations. yours may not be clitoral. as far as sex goes, i promise you that sex is not all it is cracked up to be, but love is great.