text: why would a married man with kids be attracted to a cute single professional girl? by the way there is no physical contact at all. i think most of these people's answers are trying to judge you and think you're talking about yourself in this situation and not answering your question, i think that's funny!!!  and since this is yahoo answers i will now answer the question posted!!!  i think men are attracted to cute single professional girls because maybe it's a release from the busy married life of work, children, and keeping a marriage together, which i'm sure can be very stressful at times.