text: my co-worker asked me out....? i am the new girl at work.i conversated w/ a co-worker about our children one day, it turns out that we both had something in common he was a single parent at one point in time as i am somewhat now. the co-worker is about 45y.o  white male w/ 19 y.o daughter away at college, i am 29 african-american female with 3 kids 8-2.long story short, he asked me out to dinner w/0 my kids. this guy has a vietnamese wife who just came to the u.s he talked about it briefly.he has asked me out, but didn't mention bringing his wife.i  have a boyfriend i live with and he doesn't know about this.i am leeary b/c the co-worker is white, older, & married. it makes me wonder why he went overseas to get a wife,is he looking for concubines and why is he asking me out?  i am nervous about seeing him out of work. i am not opposed to white guys but i wonder what does he want with me? am i just being crazy? maybe i just watch too much bad porn with old white guys and young black girls.what do you think? he is married and u r in a relationship u don't want 2 mess that up turn him down and say that u r faithful 2 your man and if he keeps asking  u out after u have explained 2 him then i would get your bf in it