text: why is it so hard to find a good woman? is it an awul trait to want a woman who has everthing you want?  looks are important but so is personality.  i have had my fun but want i real woman. who likes a door opened or a chair pulled out, who like to be treated like a lady.  someone that you feel that instant connection with.  i have a 6 year old boy and do not wnat more kids - selfish - yes - but the truth.  i can't meet them at the bars, the grocery isn't much better, and the net ( i have seen enough porn).  where can good fun loving people meet others? i am a hopeless romantic who believes in fate and there is someone for everyone.  i am not hot but i get the occasional compliment. i want a woman with a great personality, great eyes, great sense of humor, and who can except me for who i am, do they exsist?  my son watched sleepless in seattle and told me i should be on a radio show - what do i do? eventually you'll find a woman where you'll find yourself thinking "hey wait just a cotton-pickin minute....she doesn't have all of the traits i want in a woman, and by golly i love her anyway".  you'll find that with enough time and with the right person your 'laundry list' will lessen and the things that truly matter will surface.  (just be careful to not let them get lost again when you get comfortable in the relationship) and by the way.....if you don't want more children that isn't selfish, and the right woman won't care and will support your decisions and accept your 6 year old and love him as her own.