text: what can i do? i have this habit that breaks up all my friendships, and the problem is that i love to argue with people. especially if i get jealous or angry at them, and its wrecking all my friendships, and i'm finally in a friednship i don't want to lose, but i'm already starting to lose it...what can i do? as hard as it may be, don't argue with them. if you really need someone to argue with, argue with the new on tv (sounds dumb, but it works for me) or even go into a chat room and argue with some random person there.