text: period help for me? okay im gonna be 12 in a month, i havent had my period yet, and all my friends have, i am getting upset, but i would also like some help on:  1. what to expect. 2. what kind of pad to use. 3. when i should use tampons 4. how much blood flow and how long, on average  thanks everyone please help! this webiste is perfect go there u will get all the info u need. trust me u don't wanna have ur period it's horrible and miserable!! u get bad cramps and u get moody. there are so many things to worry about when u get ur period so be happy that u don't have it yet...