text: i think the guy i'm dating is trying to break up with me. should i confront him or just let it die naturally? when we first  starting dating, he pursued me full on now, he calls once in a while, i see him occasionally.  i'm mystified by his behavior.  he was the one telling all his friends about me, text messaging me valentines and now nothing.  i'm pretty sure it's over.  i just  need to know whether or not to confront him or quietly move on.  what will have the most impact? if you confront him you will be able to move on quicker.  it is also nicer knowing one way or another.  good luck