text: am i being hated?? i had met a guy a month ago, and we had a lot of chemistry, and we started dating a little, until i found out he had another girlfriend, though she was never there for him. but i still liked him, until i realised it was not a very healthy relationship.i felt i had to apologise to his girlfriend and mailed her. she got wild and mailed the contents of my mail to him and he grew wilder and fought wih me. he's off to another country, leaving me guilty about what i did, and feeling ignored, and waiting for his calls. lesson to learn...next time when you know someone is attached, he isn't worth your time because he is living a lie. and never get involved with his partner because that makes everything ugly. yes he does hate you and so does she. forget about it, they're not the only two people in the world. leave him alone and move on.