text: whats going on? i have not thought this was a problem until latley and mabey its not. thing is when im involved in sexual actions with a women, it takes me a long time to climax i dont know what it is mabey ejacualting a ta young age or somthing, during sex its great for the girl but when getting a hj or bj it seems to take a bit longer and i dont want them to get irritated any adivce or anything you think would speed this up pls post. i have sex with men, it gets embarrassing sometimes, but if i think to much about it it makes me go soft.  it's natural, and it's great to last longer and give your partner more pleasure.  probably better for you, once a man is done he's done and doesn't want to wait for me.