text: how would u change a guy so he will shares his problems with you? i dated this guy for a month.  i know he likes me alot.  at one point he said that he wishes to marry a girl who has all my characteristics.  he is honest guy, so i do believe him.  well he has pressure of school and me so he asked to take a break from us.  i could understand that but what i don't understand is how certain guy don't like to tell you their problem. i mean i would understand if he tells me that he needs space and that he will not have alot of times for me.  i can deal with that but he has to break up us.  he said he doesn't think he is ready for a relationship until he finishes school.  i don't know how he just drop me like this?  are guys different from girls in this situation?  he said he feels like he is a loner in this worl when it comes to solving personal problems.  what i need to ask advice on is how to make him share that with me and that he can confide in me and he not needed to break us up?  sorry if some of this doesnt make sense. but thanks!!! u haven't fully gained his trust until then u'll never get him to b fully honest with u