text: can somebody help me please i dont get it.? i know her for 5 years. i use to hangout with her all the time. in college outside the college and almost all the time, people were thinking that we are in a relationship, but it was noting more than a friendship. 1 day she asked me if i like her and i said yes as a friend. after that she started acting strange all the sudden, and she stoped calling me and stoped spending time with me, when i asked her what is wrong she said she is busy with school. i told her that it is fine and i really understand her situation. any ways i stoped calling her and stoped spending time with her as she wanted me or as she was showing. after a month she called me the other day but i was at work so i couldn't pick up the phone, next day i called her but she did not pick up her phone. today i saw her at school, she looked so sad and upset, and she was harldly talking to me. i walked her to her class and she was quite and she was not talking. why is she acting stupid? what should i do? i think she liked you as more than a friend and you shot her down. the last thing to do in a situation like that is stop talking to the girl because then she thinks that it's all her fault that you aren't talking to her. she's sad because she got her heart kind of broken by the person she considered her best friend. if you don't like her, you don't like her, but let her gently. she isn't the one acting stupid honey, you are. especially since youcouldn't tell that she really liked you. i think she got embarassed whe you told her no basically, you didn't like her so she hid from you. then, she thought she was a horrible person because you didn't call her. then, when she gets up the courage to call you, you guys don't get a chance to talk. just go up to her and say, i want us to still be friends and you're really important to me so i hope we can start talking and hanging out because i miss you.