text: help me!!!!!!!? i'm 17 and i've been going out with this one boy for 3 years and i finally had sex with him two months ago and now he calls me every 3 days and when i call him he ignores my calls or his mommy says he's gone. i still loves him but know i feel stupid because i gave it up to him and know i feels that he got what he wanted and know he dont want me nomore. he told me he still loves me but he dont have time nomore. yesterday i found out that i was pregnant. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!! hi,  first of all let me tell you that there is something wrong with both of you since you haven't used obviously any protection!any haw this is another discussion you should have with him...  then, talk to the guy! either way you have several ways ahead: 1. become a 17years old parent (alone or not) 2. stop the pregnancy 3.give the child for adoption  considering that you are just 17, and the entire life ahead of you and i seriously doubt that the guy will be responsible(i hope that i am wrong), i will stop the pregnancy, do some counseling and go on with my life.  either way, is a big responsibility, and should be taken only after consulting the father...  keep me posted please with your decision. maybe i can help. no matter what you decide.  hazzard