text: visitation/divorce advise?!? i have been seperated for 4 years now.  we had a "mediation agreement" last oct (2005).  when his lawyer drew up the divorce papers she added several things so i didn't sign them.  nothing has been done since then.  since it's been over a year for the mediation and nothing has been done is there any legal document requiring me to allow visitation? he doesn't pay support regularly and is stalling this divorce so i want to cut off visits in an attempt to get reg support and the divorce finalized. fyi, if you nee access to your legal rights, please contact me. i can get you in touch with an attorney/law firm in your state. you will be able to pick up the phone and contact an attorney 24hours a day. get the "piece of mind" you deserve. hope to be of service to you and yours.  sincerely,  jd