text: is too much sex bad? my wife does not have a sex drive ever since we had our daughter.  and it turns out that i want it alot more than she does.  but when she does not want it, i have to use my hand.  but when i start complain about not getting enough, she says that i need to go to the doctor to get my hormones taken care of.  i fear that if i do go to the doctor about it that it will kill my sex drive all together.  what do you think i should do? too much sex is not bad!