text: if a couple seperate, is it respectful to tell other mate if they have been with someone else? or to ask them? my wife and i seperated 3 months ago.  i am staying faithful, but wonder if she is.  she has given me an answer as to what she wants to do, but told me she will date.  is it nuts for me to ask if she has been with someone else during this time? sorry, but i say it's none of your business if you're not together