text: is my husband gay or bisexual? i have a question to ask you and i feel i have no where else to go... i hope you can help.   my husband and i have been together for 5 years and have a baby girl. after i fell in love with him, i found out he wore thong underwear. i told him i hated them and he said he wouldn't wear them anymore. i then found a bag full of them, they were outrageous underwear. some with metal rings, some with sparkles, some with ties on the side. i was mortified and asked him if he was gay. he said he wasn't. i told him if he was that it wasn't fair for me to live the rest of my life with someone that wasn't truly happy. he said he was happy with me. i got rid of all of the underwear.    i went on the computer and saw that he was looking at transsexuals, i asked him why and he said he was just curious to see what they looked like. i was angry and then told him again to be honest with me. he didn't get angry, he just said he was happy to be here with me.    i then noticed he shaves his pubic hair now in a line down to his private area... i am wondering if that is also normal.   i just got off a website that he was on and he was going to order more underwear... the company emailed me his order. there were no thongs, but he did order "spider front" underwear in baby pink... is that normal? am i losing my mind or is this all normal for a straight man?? is he being honest with me/himself?? i was just wondering what you thought about it... can you help??   thank you, amber give the guy a break // i have a girlfriend that ive had for 7 years i wear thongs and tights and sometimes pink thongs i also shave from neck to toe even in my pubic area i think i know what he wants i think if you did him in the azz all that tv stuff might stop. my girl friend dose me in the azz all the time with her strap on and it feels great.