text: myparents just got divorced and my mom cares about her only how do i talk to her? my mom is wraped up in her new boyfriend and doesnt care about me or my siblings she cheated on my dad and now expects us to give her money, she sucks up to me and i hate it.i dont ever want to see her again but i have no choice. what do i do. i need to talk to  her.when i do she gets upset an hits me. what do i do? sorry to hear about that. from what i've read, it appears that you are the adult and your mom is the child. what is the relationship with your dad? if you can talk with him about your concerns, do so. he probably has a lot of hostile feelings towards your mom, and it sounds like he's justified in doing so...but remind him that he is the parent and you are the child in need of answers. someone, somewhere in your family has to act responsible. otherwise, i hope you have access to family counseling..it may help you learn how to respond to your mom. i doubt your mom would be mature enough to recognize the fact that she needs professional help...but you could suggest it to her. i wish you well.