text: should i marry the first guy i fell in love with n hav been together for 4 yrs or  some1 my family chooses? i am from a very conservative family.so i am really scared of going against my family for marrying a guy of my choice.i m really unsure should i go for love against all the family dignity.its really scary making this decision.should i marry some1 i like or some1 my family chooses from the same financial status n have an easy n luxurious life which would be the practical approach or go with the flow of love n marry the guy i like but is not as well off as my family n have a little hard life.and i am also scared if i leave him n wait for dat perfect guy according to my family which would give me a happy life might not be able 2 l;ove me as much as he does.is love more important than financial standing for a good life? would i be happy with his love only if he cant provide me the riches.will i regret if i leave him now.talking to my family would be the ideal sitiuation but i cant gather the guts to talk to them n i want an unbaised opinion. it depends, if you are used to the riches and cannot handle the hardship then it might cause problems in the relationship later on. but if you can give up the riches, and realize that there is more to life than money...then i would say, go for who you love. money is fading and even if you are rich it can change in an instant. love...if it is true and you both are willing to talk things out, comprimise and work together....can be until you die. no one can take away what is inside of you unless you let them. that is a constant in life. money is a variable. if it were me, i would go with my heart, but that is me...i am not a big money person. i would rather live with love and live on a beer budget than live in a cold house without love on a wine and diamonds income. =)