text: would you stay with  a man if he wasn't going any where in his life and you are ? i meet a man after leaving my husband. he has one child (1yr old) and he is in the army . curently i have paid every expense we have inquried. i moved him here from another state to be with him and know i am having seconed thoughts . i want to go home to my ex but the change that i have mad may make it impossible. please help me. you've really gotten yourself in a pickle, huh?  grass wasn't greener on the other side?  hell...doesn't even sound like it got mowed by that lazy bastard.  listen, you've messed up people's lives by making the choices you made.  my personal opinion is that you more or less deserve whatever garbage comes your way.  you should leave that lazy son of a bitch and move on with your life...and think about the decisions you make from now on.  believe me, there's a whole other world out there beyond the tip of your own nose.