text: how do i fix my relationship with my boyfriend? two years ago, a girl met a boy and they fell in love for each other.   today, that girl and that boy doesnt exist anymore. there are me and my boyfriend instead. (we grew up and became other people, understand?)   we are very different now, and i miss so much that boy that i met 2 years ago, for whom i fell in love.   i still love him. i'm addicted to him. so, my question is: how can i have that boy (from 2 years ago) again? i have been married 1 year and i dated my husband 2 years and i know first hand that the newness of a relationship wears off.  the lovey dovey hang all over each other gets old.  you get to comfortable with each other.  i would try new things.  it seems to work for me and my husband.  like sleep in the living room a few nights, stay in a hotel, try being silly with him like grab his butt when he least expects it.  well i'll stop blabbing.  hope this works for you.