text: when's the right time? when begining a new relationships with someone, dating, at what point is it the right time to ask him/her, "are you seeing anyone else?", and when is it too soon?  what are some good signs to look for to tell for yourself? better not ask unless & untill your partner himself discusses this with you.  if he doesn`t take any initiative that means he is still not serious with you and if he himself comes forward and discusses the same with you, baby he is serious with you now, nail the cat.