text: how do i get him to talk to me again? to make a long story short: i confronted this guy i have been talking to since february about some girl he has been talking to. the reason i did it is bc she already is attracted to him and when i asked him if he has ever talked to her he said "no". i found out monday that he has talked to her and i asked him about it and he said yes. another reason i am upset about the girl is because she was having sex with this guy i use to talk to...so of course i feel like she is competition and i don't want her to have someone i want.  he got so mad at me about it and i've tried to talk to him yesterday, but he just ignored me. what makes it worst is that i am not upset if i have to lose him, its the fact that i was going to go visit him next month and already have my plane ticket (he and i live in 2 separate states).  will he ever talk to me again? i was thinking that maybe if i just not try to contact or talk to him for the next 2 weeks, then maybe he will have calmed down and he'll stop hating me.  i even sent him a message asking him if he was mad at me, are we no longer friends and if so to tell me so i could do something about my plane ticket....he just ignored me.   help :( this is too complicated and convoluted to even care about. just go do something productive and forget all of this crap.