text: what does continious eye gaze & smiles  in first meeting  mean? can i ask this for a lip kiss?   if you are a man, start with the kiss test.  touch her hair (like a couple of strands hanging in the front or something not creepy) and say something nice about it like: i like your hair, or your hair is so soft.  if she is open to this and seems to like it then she is open to a kiss.  go for it.  if you don't kiss her on the first date, you are likely to get the "we are just friends" disease.