text: should i have sex with my roomate? i am very attracted to my male roomate who is also my best friend of 5 years.  recently ive noticed him returning the attraction through subtle touching and sometimes kisses on the lips.  he only does this when hes drinking though.  if he ever makes the next move i am scared of what i should do.  i want to be closer to him but dont want to lose him the next day because  things are weird, if they would be at all.  i dont know! what i want to know is.... why do you have a male roomate??