text: i have three great guy friends that like me, what do i do? they're my best friends in the world. if  i went out with one of them, my friendships with them could be ruined. what should i do? first of all, do you like any of them. if you do then it might be problematic if the 4 of you dont sit down and discuss whats up. if you dont like them then at some point you will have to tell them how you feel. they certainly have made it obvious to you how they feel. the more important issue is to keep the friendship first; that is what all 4 of you need to look at. sit down and make sure that the 4 of you understand that at the end of the day you want to be each others best friend. now there is no guarantee that can happen. what can be said is that by talking it out you know how everyone feels about the situation.