text: why does he make comments? i like this guy from work we were friends before he got a job there. then i took him to work when he did get the job. we had a chance to date when i was seperated from my boyfriend. he even spent the night with me well day we work thirds. just so nothing bad would happen to me. anyways, i have gotten drunk and drunk dialed him one time leaving a nutty message. lately he has been saying to others at work if i would leave my boyfriend then i could have him. what do you think he means by that? did he mean sex or relationship? i do not know i also have three kids my boyfriend is their dad and all i can say about him is he has a job. he likes you! he wants sex of course but if that was it he would try something whether you had a bf or not. he has a crush and wants to date