text: help me with my sister!!? okay so maybe i didn't provide enough details..   so my sister is being very mean and i get the vibe that she totally hates me and doesn't want to have anything to do with me.   she is saying i haven't been a brother to her and she is really being heartless . keep in mind i am in my 30's she is 16.  i didn't live in the same city as her when she was growing up. we had developed what i thought was a good relatinship over the past 3 years, she was in my wedding, i invite her out to do stuff.... but all of a sudden she lashes out at me. has this happend to anyone else? let me just tell you that 16 year old girls are a pain in the butt to anyone that is close to them......i wouldn't worry about it...just  don't make a big deal out of it and keep inviting her to do stuff...if she is still difficult then talk to her about it and say....you know i try to be a good brother but you are a pain in the *&^...  just be honest with her....16 year old girls think they know everything but they know very little about real life....