text: how do you know when you are in love? ok see the love of my life called my house drunk and we are both under age and hes three years older than me but he cussed my dad out and he dont even remember.my dad told me that i am never allowed to talk to him again but he said hell quit drinking and smoking pot just to be with me! i love him with all my heart and i want to be with him for the reat of my life but i talk to him in the mornings an the bus and sometimes at night even though im not supposed to. he said he'll wait for me until i turn 18 but thats a while from now and i dont think my dad will forgive him.i dont know what to do or if he even loves me.any suggestions? please take what i'm saying to heart. when someone is involed with drugs and alcohol it makes things worse. if he is really into this stuff he will never ever pick you over the drugs he will go back to them time and time again. your parents can see this being older than you and the fact that he disrespected your father and doesnt even remember is troubling to me. i spent a long time with someone like this and it only turned out bad. your younge and you have so much life to live still, try living it and having fun with your girlfriends. forget about this jerk, or see if he can really change. things will come together once your older. you don't want to waste the best years of you life crying over some drug infested jerk.