text: how do i deal with my boyfriend being friends with a girl i don't like? we were both friends with this girl and then him and i broke up. he remained friends with her and they developed feelings for each other. they ended up kissing one night but nothing further came of it because of me and other reasons. he is still friends with her and it causes problems for us because i am uncomfortable with their friendship. i want to stay with him but it is difficult because he refuses to stop talking to her. it isn't fair of me to ask him to stop talking to her and i want to be ok with it. if i was u i wouldent really care cause he my man and after that lil accident he is now come back to me for kisses and hugs if anything you should rub it in her face and show you dont care if you show jealousy she gonna use that againt you and really try be friendly with him more and also show you aint mad at the game or the player and stop askin not to talk to her because all he gonna think is that you jealous and he gonna tell her and she gonna be likeing that and she gonna tell him to brake up with you and stuff so just do what you do and pay no attention to her