text: should i dump my fiance for doing this to me? when i proposed she had blonde hair. now i find out she really isn't a blonde and just dies her hair. and i told her i liked red lipstick but she stopped wearing it. so.... whats the big deal? did you know that she's supposed to be your fiance because of love, not blonde/brunette/black or lipstick? if you did, you wouldn't ask such a kiddish question. or maybe you're just joking, right??