text: do you think women are more sexual now than men? when do men loose there drive? 23f dating 34m he's getting there. i dated one that was only close to thirty and it was going downhill. if you really notice a decrease, and he would like to do something about it, have his doctor hook him up with a testosterone patch/pill/gel and he'll feel like superman again. and the first part of the question? possibly, but as long as that double standard exists, nobody is talking about it...