text: my fantasy is to have a threesome with 2 men. how do i get my man to go for the idea? i have asked him in the past (jokingly) to see what he said. i don't think he would be up to it. there is no way i could do a threesome with him and another woman though! yuk! lol suggest it to him during lovemaking, how a touch here n a touch there would be nice if there were two, but please think of returning the favor, i have done it all, i wont go into details, but being with 2 women was great, being with a woman and another guy was great...one on one with both was great. if you don't like it at least you did it and know. sex is trust and trust is key to a lasting healthy relationship, it is not about taking only, so give back and let him know you are willing to experience the extra women with him if he is willing to experience the extra man with you. if he agrees then lay the rules down to be sure there will be no jealousy or certain boundraries won't be crossed such a bisexual areas or if they do happen that there will be no judgement on the other or embarassment.  it is a learning experience. good luck and enjoy.