text: what should i do if i'm not attracted to my partner anymore? he's gotten so damn ugly and thinks he's so cool!   i strongly believe that his "ugliness" is more related with the change of behaviour towards you or others than it is related with physical appearance.  in any case, if you are "not attracted anymore" it is usually because of that you can't see the person you firstly loved. i think you just started to know him better, or that he's going through some big changes related to his character.  couples who love each other usually doesn't care much appearance.