text: is there any thing i can do about it? when me and my ex split it was very bitter,now she keeps makeing totally unfounded and unproved allegations of domestic violence against me.i never once layed a finger on her,in fact it was the other way around.she spreads gossip and rumours about me to her freinds and family and has even had the police arrest me about it,but droped the charge's and took no action because there was no evidence of her claims.im takeing her to court because she wont let me have access to my son and im sure she's doing this to discredit me when we get to court.its been a long while now and she has not been able to prove a single thing that she "claims" i have done.im sure her mother has a lot to do with this aswell.is there any thing legal wise i can do to stop her making such allegations against me,and to stop spreading gossip and rumours about me? that is terrible!!! some woman are horrible and bitter.  when u go to court i am sure that they cant mention anything that wasnt repoted to the police at the time like domestic violence. i do hope that u get access to your kid and wish that all fathers where the same.   good luck