text: he said the ''l'' word? 2 weeks ago at a  party my man built me up all night, telling me he had something to tell me but it had to wait till we were alone. so after the party and pretty wasted when we got home he told me he loved me (i said it back ). well he hasn't told me again and being asked why not, he said he didn't want to be saying it all the time? wtf? btw, we're 22 and have known each other since high school? does he mean it or not? if he can only say it when he's wasted...there's an issue.