text: how do i get my daughter home from s korea so she can be with her daughter. the army has both parents remote? my daughter is on a mission in s korea and i am raising my granddaughter. they also sent her father and step father and  she needs her mother. she is 3 and the pain and sadness i see her going through everyday is not fair. i believe that we need a military but not at the expense of a child. how can i get my daughter home? i've tried the red cross. the army has ignored them. i have my family here in korea.  your daughter can choose to take your granddaughter with her as well.  not living with your granddaughter is your daughter's choice.  nowadays even troops stationed north of seoul can bring their families and receive an allowance for off-post quarters.  my suggestion is to try to reuinite your family by taking the child to her mother, rather than bringing the mother to the child.