text: women make fun of my penis size (small length & girth). what should i do? i am sick tired of women telling me 6 inches (when fully erect) is not small, but then they go to the bathroom with their girlfriends, and when they come out i hear jokes like "it's not what you have but how you use it!", and sometimes they also throw their pinky fingers up in the air as if referring to a small penis. i also notice some apathy from their part toward me. well, if they do that, then you should know with who you are having sex with, because that is not okay for a partner to tell you that because if they love you then they must accept you the way you look or are. kick them away.