text: real love answer this only if you know what love is? if a man really love his girlfriend would he sleep with someone else and what do you say about a man that has a girlfriend and performs oral sex on another girl he's messing with and takes his other girl to go see his mom and meet his dad. ohhh not being nasty i'm being real faithfull and truthfulness go hand in hand.  a relationship is based on some of these factors.  if you can be promiscuous then you have not learned and experience true love yourself.  you are still in the infatuation stage.  this is called immaturity.  even though you take your girl to your parents and you are fooling around, what good does it do the person.  you are living a lie and you are also endangering hers.  be sure, be positive and be sincere.  then talk about love.