text: help please!  i don't know what to do.? well i have this guy friend.  i think he might be gay and i think that i might really like him.  he says he likes me but i find it hard to believe.  he changes who he likes so often and i don't know why he would pick me over all the girls that like him.  i get really jealous whenever he talks about girls.  i feel that i'm not good enough for him.  i just don't understand why he would pick me and we like different things but i really do think that i like him.  we are total opposites.  he makes me feel happy and he's always there to hold me when i feel upset.  i have asked him if he's gay.  he denied it and hates when peopple say that.  i guess he's just really sensative.  if you call him gay then he will have a big fit and say that he's not.  i think that he's crys more than me.  i don't cry that much but i still get offended easily and so does he.  and he watches will and grace, not as much as he used to but he still does.  so is he gay or not?  should i go for it and ask him out? no, doesn't sound like he's gay, sounds like he's actually one of the nice guys! my bf watches will and grace cuz it's funny, he loves karen, that doesn't make him gay cuz he watches it. a lot of guys are sensitive and he may really like you and if you are asking him if he's gay your putting a damper on his hopes with you! i would say go for it and ask him out, it sounds like you guys are already friends so why wouldn't he want to be with you? he is there for you and you guys make each other happy so ask him out!