text: am i gay, must i come out again but as bisexual? since i was 16 i've always considered myself gay. i knew i was when i was in school. now i am 22 i'm having doubts if i really am or not. i have never had a relationship with a girl, although i have considered it & as far as having sex with one, it was disasterous to say the least! got nothing from it & it happened once when i was 19, 3 1/2 years ago... afterwards i shunned it aside (hurt her) and i came out shortly afterwards as gay when i was 20. i have had many boyfriends in the past & recently split with one. i kind of find some girls attractive, sexually... does it mean i am bisexual but yet to explore the other half of my sexuality? i came out 2 years ago as gay... would this mean i have to come out again but as bisexual?  one of my gay friends says i am bisexual because he's never experienced sexual feelings for a woman.  i have, but alot more so guys.  my other gay friend says it's a phase and if i try with a girl, it wouldn't work and i'll end up back with a guy.  help? labels are for toothpastes or canned food, not for people. be you and enjoy your life as you like.