text: im in love with a man who is very specail i am scared to tell him i love him.im scared what do i do????????   well, how long have you been with the guy? if a week or two, then you fall head over heels way too fast. if months and months have gone by and you're sure that you love him, go for it. the worst that can happen is him leaving if he doesn't love you back and if he does then he's not worth your time. you need to be with someone that you love and that loves you back.