text: would you tell? my best friend, another friend and our husbands/boyfriends, were all in a hottub the other weekend.  the clothes came off, and we were all having fun. however, my best bud's guy was rubbing my back under the water, he "flashed" me when no-one was looking and he made a comment that he would "do anything for me".  he has mentioned to my friend that he thinks i am georgeous.  i told my husband what went on, and i told my friend too- for the most part. i did leave out some of the details, but i feel weird now. he was testing you ...seeing if you might be receptive to anything further at a later date. he probably thinks you wouldnt say anything..thats how some men operate who are after women that are already married or involved. you were right to mention it.