text: how do you ask someone out without getting recjected?   that's impossible. there's always the chance that you'll be rejected, but being rejected is better than not knowing at all. b/c then you'll be wondering for heaven knows how long, if you and that person were supposed to be together. rejection hurts, yes, i know it does. but it goes away in time. like a cut it heals, but the emotional healing is possibly slower than the physical healing. if you don't ask someone out---if you don't risk that, then what is the point in living? it's all about chance. the worst they can say is no. and if that's the case, there's plenty more people out there...also, they didn't deserve you. your significant other is out there waiting for you, you just have to look---and believe. if you believe enough, anything can happen.