text: i cant break up with my boyfriend no matter how many times? ive tried he always twists what i say then i end up back with him without even realising it.  have no friends now because he controls me and takes all my time and is jealous if i go out. i have been honest, ive never cheated, i want out. i would run away if i didnt love my job so much.  i really like someone else, but thats almost ruined now because of my situation!  how can i get out of this rut? leave that chump immediately, do not return to him, he's a jerk, you need to show yourself some respect.  you don't need to be treated like that and you don't deserve it neither. he's not that special if he has to control you, definitely not the guy you want to be tied to.  find someone else that will show you some respect also and treat you like a woman, not a piece of slavery.