text: whats going on with him? my ex has been texting me all night asking me to text back and he's been calling asking me to call him. hes called my cousin to telling him he's been trying to call me cause he needs to talk to me.i havent texted or called him back. i dont understand him, he's broken my heart so many times and i kept taking him back and now im trying to move on and here he comes again trying to contact me. im tired of the changing your mind thing he does where he wants to be with me and hes sure and then the next he doesnt want to be with me anymore ive been dating and now he pops up with this. why does he continue to do this to me why cant he just have stayed with me or moved on and left me alone? what's going on with him is guys are weird!lol he isn't sure he wants you but he is sure he doesn't want anyone else to have you. the male ego is a very strange thing. most guys think once they break up with you that you should never date again. my advice is to tell him you are through playing games. tell him he had his chance again and again and again it sounds like and he didnt' want to commit. by confusing you he is hoping to keep you alone and available just in case he finally grows up. better to cut you losses now and if you two are meant to be you will find each other again. time tends to heal all wounds but you obviously haven't had enough time yet. be nice about it but be clear with him that it is over! good luck!