text: ladies, how would you react? you met a man who appears to be okay. yall hit it off well. yall spend alot of time conversing and during those conversations anal sex keeps popping up. he tells you that he likes vagina sex, but he brings up his desire to have anal sex with you even more. soon you start  to wonder if he has gay tendencies. so you question him and he says no. but that lil inkling in the back of your mind tells you something different.  ladies when guys bring up anal sex more than vaginal sex is this a red flag? not necessarily a red flag, some men like it. but it is up to you to decide whether you would like it, or even like to try it.  how well do you know the guy? i mean, if you are getting serious you would want to know if you want anal sex or not, as he seems to enjoy it.