text: to stay or not to stay this is the question? i find myself pondering the question is this it. is this as good as it will ever get, am i content enough with my life to stay this way or would i be doing my partner and i a favor if i was to end it now.  though to end it would mean that someone will get hurt. or to stay and make the best of what i have got and forsake my happiness for others. you may want to take sometime and think about what you feel is best. it sounds like you want to please everyone but am afraid of sacrificing you own happiness. this is a decision that only you can make and be happy with.