text: im a straight male, if i had sex with a male to female transsexual, would that make me gay?? i met this really hot chick at a club and she turned out to be a 'he'.  she was born a male, but is taking hormones and pills to be a girl. shes really hot.. and she likes me... im honestly confuzed, if i slept with her or even took her out, would that be considered gay?? the "girl"  (gwen/eddie araujo) you are refering to was not a transsexual, but a transgender person who presented as a female.  she/he was not on female hormones, and as a result, had no female secondary sexual characteristics (female breasts, softer skin female-pattern body hair, female body-fat distribution).  she/he was a boy who eiether liked dressing like a girl, or possibly couldn't afford hormone replacemant therapy.  and no, being with a transsexual woman doesn't make you gay.  by definition a gay guy is a male who enjoys sexual relations with a male who looks, dresses, and acts like a male.  you may be classified as "queer" in many circles, but you are definately not gay.