text: is it possible to hate someone but still be in love with them? my ex dumped me for no reasons,  and i think i still love him,  we dated for almost 4 months... have you ever heard the line "there is a thin line between love and hate"? they are both strong emotions. it is definitely possible to still love someone who has hurt you, but my prediction is that it will fade in your situation. just try to move on and focus on a new guy, and i promise that you will feel better.