text: how do i get my husband's attention? i mean really get his complete attention. my wife gets my attention in 2 different ways.  1)  she says "honey, we need to talk."  that always gets my attention...cause that means i've probably done something wrong.  :-)  or  2) she says while bathing or showering "honey, i need your help scrubbing my... [insert area that needs attention]."  so either way she "really" gets my attention.