text: what does he want? my citizenship status or me? so i am dating a guy, 25 years old currently holding a work permit, for the second time today. still, we don't have so much in common and we stayed quiet for some of the time. so i thought may be we are not very suitable for each other and he is, too, not that into me. but in the second date, he played with my hands, placed his hands on mine, put my hand on his lap and held my hands (ocassionally). i don't know what that means? he also talks about how he wants to get into serious dating and get married. i was a bit scared cus i thought it is a bit early to talk about this. so, i built a wall between us and don't have a lot of trust in him. at the same time, i still have feelings for him. he did point out one thing: he feels that i don't like to share my feelings with him and i don't like to express myself.   i feel very frustrated and afraid to get cheated on (for using me to get citizenship). green card. don't jump into anything. if u marry him it will always be on your mind if it's the real thing. take things slow. if he starts to get impatient, than you know the answer.