text: my boyfriend was calling a stripper on his cell phone for months and says they were just friends talking stupi he says they were just friends talking stupid, he needed someone to talk to since i wasn't showing him the attention he says he needed.  i found this out from getting a copy of his cell phone bill. he wouldn't give it to me voluntarily, i had to call the cell phone company and pretend to be him and have a copy sent to me.  he was calling her 4-5 times daily every day of the week and on xmas eve and new years eave.  these calls ranged from 1 min. to 33 min.  they were mainly placed after he left my apartment at night around 8:30pm.  a few months ago one of my best friends informed me that he had broke another girls heart.  i know this girl myself.  how do you break somesones heart if there isn't sex involved.  of course he denied it, says he just talks to people. she had told her best friend that she went out w/him twice.  he denied that too.  he's been very controlling with me, has checked my cell phone, wonders why it takes me how ever long it takes to do errands, etc trust is gone. common sense.*  i'm not going to tell you something unless its only the truth i'm a cooler i have work in strip bars and believe me they don't take the time to talk to someone that long unless there's something going on.  i wish you the best in your choice's you make.  ichoosetotellthetruth