text: i did not choose to be straight. it just is. can someone tell me how and when i chose this? i've been thinking this over and i cannot recall the time, day or event that made me choose to be a straight woman.  it just is...and i can't figure out how to determine where my choice came from. very queer dilemma you have there. maybe if you would stop criticizing other peoples spelling and concentrate more on your own problems you could figure them out.  sounds to me like you would rather be queer.  well...... homosexual,  you are queer.  oh.......and learn to read a little better, if you would pay attention to what you are actually reading you would be able to understand it better.