text: how do you tell a guy no with out making him take it personally?? well, i'm 14, & i have a boyfriend & we have been going out for about a year & a half. but for about a month, he's been trying to get down my pants. each time he is close, i either move position so he can't, or i just get up & kind of walk away by pointing something out. but i'm kind of afraid to tell him no because he always tells me i'm to straight for him. but i don't want a guy going down my pants at the age 14! if u think that is bad a boyfriend tried to rape me before.....if u say no and he isn't willing to wait till u r older then he is not worth it