text: why do some women show interest, things seem good and then cut all communications with no explanation? i find this incredibly annoying, if someone has changed their mind why don’t they just say something! it is behaviour like this that causes us men to get paranoid and possessive, and you don’t like that either! hi pal, exactly the same thing happened to me - but it was a guy who did it.  i don't have an answer either, except just to reiterate that if someone changed their mind, they should be adult enough to say so.  after all, not everybody is indeed for you, it only takes that special one to make our hearts happy.  i haven't become paranoid and possessive [a little possessive probably... lol] though.  just take it as one of life's realities - you're stronger than this kind of situation.  :)