text: early dating? i started dating this guy about a month ago. we haven't seen each other for the past two weeks, eventhough, he has asked me out; i went away last weekend, and this week i've had a lot of work, so i had to turn down a request from him to meet for dinner.  however, i really want to see him.  the thing is, my brother is coming over from out of the state with his family and they are stayin at my placefor the long weekend; i don't get to spend much time with them.   would it be too much to ask the guy i'm dating  to come over maybe one night? would he freak out? i just want him to know that i really like him and want to spend sometime with him, if you know what i mean... any suggestions? there is nothing wrong with explaining the situation to him and asking him if he would like to join you some evening.  this tells him that you care enough to not only explain what is going on in your life but to include him.