text: in need of advice.......? my ex-girlfriend and i got back together last friday and she told me she has/had a crush on a friend of hers how should i go about dealing with this or approach this sit. i dont want to dump her because i still love her. plz help????????? i'm sorry but why in the world would you want to be with somebody who told you they had a crush on somebody else. i know this hurts but sounds like either she's playing games with you or she's bringing this up to make you jealous but either way it's playing games. you need to tell her that you don't have time for games either she wants to be with you or she wants to move on because she don't need to be throwing up a crush and y'all just got back together. you need to tell her that life is all kinds of choices and she need to make the choice between you or her crush. good luck!