text: has anyone else ever lived like this? my wife and i just got married in march after 2 1/2 years together.we both work 2 jobs and go to school.sometimes we don't see each other for days.my family says we will not last living the way we do.has anyone else out there ever been in mine and my wife's situation and how did it work out? lots of couples don't see eachother for days. you have to be agreeable on what you expect. and make time for eachother - do something when you do have a moment. make it special.  and know that you can't do this forever. make plans on when and how you are going to slow down - together.