text: serious answers only please? ok, these is strange.  my brother's girlfriend lives with us.  she just came to me and asked me if i ever heard anything strange.  thing is, i have.  i have also seen a male figure all around our house for the past four years (she just moved in few months ago). this man has clearly spoken to me once, but appears on a regular basis.  but he harrasses her in the shower.  i am really worried about her.  he also watches me and my four year old sleep.  what can we do?  i told her to tell him to go away and the remember that he can't hurt her, but trufuly i am scared he could.... ok- assuming this is a real spirit case and you are not crazy, the best thing you can do is not be afraid. he never hurt you before because you were never afraid before. it is like the movie skeleton key. second: do not try to contact him. you have no idea what you are doing, and you could get in way over your head in which case you could get hurt. i don't have an old family recipe for protection against spirits, so i could help you know more than a book or a google search on specifics, but there are plenty of books on protection. if you feel you need to call someone like a physic, but be aware that most are just frauds, and don't pay anything up front. i don't really have any better advice for you than that. just don't fear him and he cannot harm you.