text: should i quit smoking weed in order to keep this special girl in my life?   depends on the girl.  is she worth it?  i dumped a guy recently because he couldn't give it up.  obviously the weed was more important to him.  i tried to explain how his personality had changed when he smoked it (he became a chronic user) and he went from being a funny, animated, quick witted person to someone i didn't even want to watch a movie with.  the choice is always yours.  what do you want more?  the girl or the high?