text: should i be concerned? my fiance and i have been engaged for 1 month and plan on getting married in 6 months.  he is a nice guy and loves me.  but: at his job, he talks a lot about his gay co-workers who act like they are interested in him.  he also has a neighbor who lives in the apartment under us who he hangs out with a lot who also happends to be gay.  i have nothing against gay people, but it seems like my fiance spends more time around gay people than straight.  he hardly ever spends time with any straight guys.  should i be concerned? yeah,  he is probably gay and just doesn't realize it.  or he doesn't  want to accept it.