text: i recently told a girl i like to go bk to her ex and she did but i have fallen in love with her what do i do? this girl said she loved me and wanted to be with me but someone else had said she loved me so i told this girl to get bk with her boyfriend but all the time when i was emailing this girl who said she loved me i could not stop thinking about this other girl who was bk with her boyfriend she says she still loves me but is with her boyfriend i really love her and have fallen for her big time i dont think a relationship can work if the girl wants to be with another person - and she obviously does want to be with her bf cos she's gone back to him. and would you really want to be with someone who is telling you that she loves you when she has a boyfriend! how could you trust her - she could be telling some other guy she loves him when she's with you?!!??