text: why are people today so confused about their gender roles and identity? isn't confusion the first thing that satan wants for us in his plan to try to drag us all down to hell with him? you know, most people are not confused about their role or identity - usually if there is confusion it is on the part of society with the role or identity an individual assumes.  it's a wide and wonderful world and it is great that each of us can be and try anything we like - and every experience comes with a great lesson or bit of wisdom.    and personally, i think the enemy is our own self doubt and fears - we drag our own selves down enough, just look around.  we don't need a horned little imp to make our lives hell, very often we do a fine job all on our own.