text: is this fair? my ex boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years, on valentines day, he told me he wanted to move in mar 1, he knew i wanted our relationship to progress.  from feb 14 - march 1st he didn't say one more word about it.  i made room for him, told family & friends.  i asked him 2 days before and he had a really bad attitude with me, i then assumed that he wasn't ready so i told him we needed to take a break, i was devestated.  2 days later, he couldn't live without me and low and behold, he was going to move in!  he backed his van in the driveway and it was never unloaded...he backed out again!  so i broke up, he was playing too many games.  he then tells me that he has way too many things in his life that he has to resolve before he can live with me.  now he wants me to wait while he gets his life together.  well i consider myself single and he still acts like we are going out, we rarely see each other but he tells me he loves me constantly, i am so confused! it sounds to me like he has very very big problems with committment.  some guys just have a problem committing to one woman and it terries them when it happens!  he may have said he was ready but when the actual time came for the moving in- he totally freaked out!  this doesnt mean he doesnt love you!  he could love u more than life itself.  he may just be scvared to death!!!!  go with your heart!  if u think you can work thru it eventually stick with him if u love him!!!  good luck to u