text: hearbroken question revisioned 4 months.? you guys took it the wrong way, i meant it as i dont want to be in a relatinoship with her atm-- i just care for her and wish the best.. the question is how do i get rid of that unconditional love. it add's stress to my life, and im entiring a relatinoship, so its going to be extra baggage. will it go away or will i have to deal? you have to go into this new relationship with all of yourself. if you can't do that it's just not fair to the other person.