text: i have erection problems while making sex with my wife, but not another , why ? during sex sometimes i cannot satisfy my self with my wife but with other paid girls or friends i like a panther, i am so sad about this coz i love my wife. i think it's incredible guilt.  why are you cheating on your wife anyway then have the nerve to say you love her. you should be ashamed and confess your mistakes. after she finds out what you are doing she probably won't want to have sex with you either!!!!