text: he wants to marry me...should i give him a dose of his own medicine? he is an asshole, i know that. he had the nerve to ask me to marry him "to prove to me how much he loves me"  even though he behaves poorly when we are out.  he is the one who gawks and gropes other women when we are out...still when i tell him how he makes me feel...he professes his love for me...with that special phrase "there is no woman out there that could measure up to you...". yet he continues to behave in the manner i find degrading to me...i get tired of the whispers...form other women..they judge our relationship because of his actions and still he claims it is innocent and wants to marry me to prove his love for me....does he think i am really stupid or should i give him a dose of his own medicine? you need to dump his sorry butt and move on to a guy that really appreciate you - at least enough to look at only you when you are out. sounds like a jerk