text: do looks matter??? i know we all say not but in honesty arent looks part of the physical attraction you feel with someone...the personality can be the best in the universe but if the look isnt right for you then you're not going to hit it off...im not talking any particular type of look...just what appeals to you...what do you think??? i think both are important ... it's important that you are attracted to his personality, but there also needs to be some kind of physical attraction otherwise the relationship is not going to move forward very well.