text: should you be friends with someone ...? that your friend wants to date. if a  friend meets a guy at a party that she has fallen head of heels in love with and introduced you to him the next day for your opinion. is it wrong for one to be independently friends with this guy as in having no romantic interest in him but as you live 10 miles apart in a sleepy town and get on very well that you meet up for the odd drink or two. is this being disloyal to the friend even if you think the friend may not like it. said friend lives about 100 miles away from the boy bu the does seem interested in her even though has suggested meeting up with her friend to hang out. i would tell your friend that you and him are friends. be honest. don't keep anything away from your friend. no guy is more important than your friend.