text: what do i do? my boyfriend is in jail.. his bond is $55,000 and i so can not afford that.. i am going crazy without him and im serious... this man has helped me in so many ways.. he lives with me, my mom, and step-dad.. me and my family dont get along but when hes around we seem too.. and now that hes not here they've been really ignert kinda.. they are the only ones helping me out with  money and stuff but still.. n-e ways my problem is none of his friends or family will help us out with money... what should i do??? let him stew in jail.  he got into trouble and you aren't responsible to get him out of it.  what if you did bail him out and he skipped or didn't show up for court??  you would lose whatever you put up for bail.  dump him, he's not worth the trouble.  he's just been using you and your family up to now and will take advantage of you more if you don't put a stop to it now.  i suggest you attend a bible believing church and find a nice guy who will treat you right.  most of the guys there won't be winding up in jail and you just might find the prince you have been looking for all your life.