text: how come divorced fathers are automatically assumed guilty in family law issues? i am a divorcing father. i have a wonderful 8-year-old daughter. unfortunately, my x-wife is evil and has falsely accused me of abuse, molestation, and other nasty things. i have been found not-guilty of all things but the accusations continue and, after 2-years, i am still in divorce court and still not allowed to see my daughter without supervision. i have spent $15,000 for one lawyer and now dumping $10,000 into a trial lawyer. my x-wife has been playing the court system all the way. why doesn't the judge see the malicious behavior that is going on? i went through moderation, a cps investigation, a psychological evaluation, 8-4 hour sessions under parewntal supervision with my daughter and i have passed all tests with flying colors. yet i still can't see my daughter because my x-wife fired her first attorney when the psychological evaluation stated i should have 1/2 physical custody. she fires him and gets a new lawyer which has led to a trial and another 6 months of delays. a joke! well yeah men get everything dont they nice lie they tell you. i would almost say just talk to your daughter and tell her the whole story but thats not real fair to her. i would take her to civil court for defimation of character personally and try and get back some of that. and then i would prepare a statement for the court about what has been going on. something like your honor in the past few years (insert the story) all i want is a chance to be a dad again and not a pawn in this womans game the marriage didnt work out but i am still a father and would like the chance to do that.  then you can sick your lawyer on her. hire a private eye and all that hold nothing back tear her a new one if you can. i am positive that you can drag her around for a little while just like she did to you. but i understand that you most likly want it to be over with.