text: i have little money,  and even less creativity,  i have a wife that needs some romance, any suggestions? possible datting,or  gifts, this is a repeat answer but its very important to understand your wife's love language. read the five love languages. according to dr. chapman, the five love languages are quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service and physical touch.   wow warrior im very  impressed!    quality time refers to spending time together as a couple. people who have this as their love language feel loved when they are taken out on special dates, when their spouse clears the calendar for them, or when the television is turned off in order to have a conversation.     others prefer words of affirmation as a way to be shown love. telling your spouse how you appreciate them, encouraging them, and general words of praise and acceptance all show your love.     if gifts is your spouse's love language, then you need to understand that for them, gifts are not simply material objects -- they are expressions of your love.      if your spouse's love language is acts of service, they will appreciate your help more than anything. give them a night off from cooking or other household chores. repair that leaky faucet. help them with the yard work. prepare them a nice lunch to take to work.      some people prefer physical touch as their love language. a simple touch on the arm, hug or backrub will convey your love to them.       problems occur when spouses do not recognize each other's love language and attempt to show love in ways that are less meaningful to the other spouse. for example, consider if your spouse has the love language of acts of service, but you assume they would rather have gifts. they might be appreciative of your presents, but your love would be more obvious to them if you helped them around the house. to them, a cleaned house means more than a box of candy.     so find out what your spouse's love language is and show them love in the ways that they can best understand.