text: how and when do i tell my bf that im cheating on him?   you are a b*tch in my book. sorry but if your cheating you should have just left him b4 that all started. tell him now. not when now. god respect him a little bit! for gods sake your profile here even says you are single. hopefully any man you want will see all these and not talk to you again. sorry but thats just wrong. you dont cheat and lie to ppl. if it isnt working you just break up. very very simple! oh let me guess you cant you love him. no you dont! or you wouldnt want some other totem poll on your burial grounds!