text: how do you know if a guy likes you??? sometimes he acts like he likes me and other times he completely ignores me.  i'm confused!!  help!! guys and girls are equally just as strange in their tactics for courting.  there are some different possibilities for your situation. i definitely need more specific information about how this guy is acting. but i’ll give it a shot.  guys are afraid that if they act like they like a girl too much that they will be turned off and ditch the guy.  guys are also afraid that if they put them selves out there to much they don’t want to get used by the girl.  some guys ignore girls for an ego boost. acting like they don’t give a poo about it. mainly because it makes your more of a player if you act like you don’t need girls cause you already have so many.  i doubt that this guy might be ignoring you because he is afraid of rejection by you. some guys just ignore girls they like so they don’t have to deal with rejection. i’m guilty of that.  or he could just be a dick and not give a poo about you. and he could be just using you for whatever it is he might get.  another option is he might just be really busy, caught up in his life. i go to school and work and girls don’t get to see me all the time they tend not to like the fact that i don’t have a whole lot of spare time to see them.  well i think that kinda covers some ground on the subject. i hope that helps. good luck.