text: why doesnt my boyfriend tell me he loves me 1st anymore? he'll say it back tho when i tell him first.? we haven't been together that long. in the beginning things were perfect. we have everything in common, spent alot of time together, basically too good to be true. i asked him is he loosing interest in me. he said he wasn't. but i just dont get why he doesnt tell me first anymore like he used to all the time. sometimes he'll even be on aim and wont even im me. idk maybe im making more out of it than what it is. im confused. what am i supposed to think? i had that issue also, actually asked it on here. but i asked my boyfriend about it, and really... in a guys mind, he knows you know he loves you. he doesnt feel he has to say it all the time. it may actually take the spark and meaning out of the words.  as to aim, my boyfriend was like that also. but for he and i, he likes to see when i notice him (which is always immediatly xd ).  dont worry about it hun. if hes lost interest in you he wouldnt still be with you. he loves you, and he knows you know it.  best of luck.