text: am i too picky? i am a divorced 33 yr old man who is looking for a ltr.  one of my past gf who was a friend prior to that, told me that i am one of the greatest guys who knows and showed me all of my strong points.  in her opinion i need to find a woman who is at my level and not settle (hence my divorce).   when i look at a woman to see if i like her i not only look at her exterior i look at everything.  class, charm, intelligence, drive, determination, family values, religion, independence, goals, pashions, social skills, dreams, desires and many more things.  overall i want a woman who is my equal and we co-exist on many levels.  most women i have found do not have it together enough to give me that wow! feeling.  there was one but she did not seem into me cause of her work and family.  now i do not care if she is a size 4 or 10 but i do want someone who is active.  i would rather have a woman who weights 20 pounds more and is active then skinny and lazy.  so, i ask....am i too picky? nope you're definately not picky. i think everyone is looking for that perfect one that fits what they are looking for. but its true - you do need to be really patient because my momma said 'you can't hurry love, ooo, you just have to wait, because love don't come easy, its a game of give and take'.