text: when my bf was out with his friend without me he was at a skatepark checking some girl out. is that ok? he kept looking at this girl on a bench and he kept riding past her even though she was sitting with some guys.  my bf is 22 why would he keep looking at some girl?  is it ok for a guy with a gf to keep glancing at a girl?  my bf always looks at girls but when he keeps looking at a certain girl whos hot.. is this bad? i'm curious how you know this info if you weren't there. did his friend tell you or someone else?   i personally think that if he's that obvious about looking at other girls, then he doesn't have much respect for you. reverse things for a moment. how would he react if you did the same thing? i'll bet he wouldn't like it and would be sure to say so. you should do the same ( letting him know you don't appreciate being disrespected ). if he keeps doing it, then dump him. i'm sure there is a guy out there that would be more than happy to have the opportunity to give you 100% of his attention.