text: what is the key to having mind blowing sex. it seems like sex is getting boring. what can i do .?   sex is all about desire. and after you want someone so much, and you love who they are in their entirety, sharing it with the one you love is the best answer. sex is not just a game, and it is not just a physical thing, there is so much more depth to sex. sex is 90 percent emotion, 10 percent physical driven. once you have found the one who you love and cherish, and want to spend the rest of your life with.. you will feel more "mind blowing" physical reactions. sex isn't about the feeling, it's about pleasing your partner, and them saying thank you, by pleasing you back. making love, is making music with your body. not just two people all up ons.