text: my friend needs help and i don't know what to do!? she met a guy and they spent a week together. after that they kept  a long distance relationship for a couple of months. eventually he broke up with her, saying that is not fair for her to wait for him for such a long time. he was unable to visit her for a very long time. my friend believes that there is another woman involved. however she thinks that she lost the perfect guy.. its been 3 months since then and she is still totaly obsessed with him. she constantly thinks of him. moreover, she keeps crying all the time when something reminds him. she is in a really bad shape and im afraid that she shows signs of depression!!! what should i say to her? how can i help her? i have tried everything and she keeps getting worse! your friend may need to talk to a professional to help with her mood.   i do have to question why she would think this guy is perfect when she believes he was cheating on her? tell her you're worried about her, don't trash the boyfriend, she will only feel the need to defend him.  if she feels like talking about him tell her you're willing, but only so much, be careful of "poor baby syndrome".  try finding something fun to do that will lift her mood.