text: how do i know if he likes me if i am a bisexual guy? so...i am 19 year old bisexual guy is very damn confused at the moment!!! okay....so i really like this guy who works with me. we flirt so much and its driving me insane because i don't if he really is flirting with me or just be nice. he usually makes fun of me but in a cute way, he never means what he says, its all in good fun. i was thinking that maybe i'm confusing the signs that he is giving me. but i just flat out don't want to go up to him and tell him i like him because what if he freaks out and doesn't want anything to do with me. i really like him. plus to add to the problem i don't know if he really is flirting with me even though i think so because i have never been in relationship(i know i'm a loser!). also how can i go about in telling him i like him without possibly freaking him out. please help!!! do you know if he is gay/bi or not?  if he is, why don't you ask him out "as friends" to watch a movie or for coffee or come over to watch tv or something - some show or sport you have in common.  just feel out the vibe from there in a non-work environment.