text: why are girls shy when they have to do salsa on their date with their boyfriends?   first we are talking dancing ? if the question is dancing, then here it is in nut shell.dancing is a very sensual and sexual expression , many women do not feel comfortable putting it all out there for a guy to see, men sometimes assume a woman whom dances that freely , must be the hottest thing in bed, if this is a first date, i am sure she does not want to feel as if, she is leading you on, choose another type of dancing next time for a first date.