text: help me please...? ti'm 14 and a freshman. this girl i like, my friend just broke up with her about a month ago. i dont know what to do. i really want to go out with her. i think she kinda likes me. how do i know if she likes me and what do i do about my friend? do i ask if its alright with him? simple.  talk to her over a coffee and explain what you want.  be honest and complimentary about her.