text: my boyfriend wants me to move out, so he can have his freedom,but he still wants to comeand see me?   he wants to have his cake and eat it too.  he wants you to move out so that he can have a place to bring other women.  when he gets a chance and doesn't have anything better going on, he'll come see you for sex.  move out and don't tell him where you are going.  that is just unacceptable.  don't be his doormat.