text: guys please tell me what you would do. need advice on relationship? have seen this girl off and on for over two years never officially a couple but tells me that she isnt looking for anything but wants to be with me in future, i asked her if i was ever gonna be with her exclusively and she said yes in the future i asked her how long that would be and she told me soon not to wrry i have heard this before and i do love this women with all my heart and soul even accept her kids as a part of my life, am i crazy in thinking this is the right thing or do you think thee is a game being played i know she hasnt been with anybody else ok...this is what you should do...(you might not like it but do it) act as if you dont care one bit...always act like your busy doing stuff or whatever...when she calls,tell her you have to call her back later because you are doing "the whatever" and wait a while before you call her back...strike that...make her call you back a couple of times but dont answer,then answer the next day or hell it would be better to wait a few days.and just explain how busy you are...i know you will hate not talking to her,but if she is the true one for you,she will be hounding you constantly and calling or coming over or whatever.   but if she dont then you know that it just isnt gonna happen and you need to start over...i know its not easy...i've been there,trust me i know!   but do these things and if shes the one she will be hounding you all the time...and do not...i repeat,do not give in!  stick to it and if thinngs dont go your way dont let her know your hurt because she will use it against you later. but i do hope that things will work out for you and i will say a prayer for you.  good luck