text: young divorces? i'm 20 and divorced...got married b/c of an unplanned pregnancy....we divorced b/c he became violent....i've been on a few dates and i'm very upfront about having a daughter and the guys seem cool with it until the divorce word pops up....as soon as they hear i've been married i get looked at like i have the plague....why and is this going to be a dang trend...because it irritates the p*ss out of me... i say good for you to divorce at a young age. there is a stigma to it for some reason but, really, you chose the harder route which i commend you for. ironically, it would have been much easier to stay in a violent, abusive marriage. not all guys will run from the d word. you just haven't found the right "one" yet. you're only young so don't sweat it!