text: am i shallow? im one of those guys who are approaching fourty and they still look like they're thirty. i just don't look my age and my mind doesn't look my age either. i don't just take my word for it. as it is, im not married so im checking out different women. but, a lot of women my age are aged farther me, so i tend to look at younger or less aged women.  does this mean that im shallow??? ignore carter. you might be shallow, maybe you're not, but alot of guys go with younger women, and vice versa. do what you gotta do.