text: what is considered flirting?  my boyfriend and i disagree...? at a party last night i found my boyfriend who was drunk and high on weed cookies to be flirtatious with another girl.  i realized the girl wasnt even looking at me even though i was standing beside him.  my boyfriend put his arm around her, and i told him afterwards that i thought that was inappropriate.  later on in the night i found him flirting again with this girl, he kicked her "playfully" in the bum.  he tells me she used to be friends with him, its not that i find her to be competition, she isnt his type at all.  its just i expect him to treat me with the same respect i show him, and this has made me feel upset.  i wonder if i am overreacting?  we have been going out for over a year and we currently live together. i think the flirting is the least of the problems here.