text: asking on behalf of a friend.? i have a girl and she ask for my advise on a problem she is having,ok she is with this guy for 4 years she love him and it seems he love her too but up to this day he have not taken her to meet his family and he met her family, her mother adores him. i told her he is unfair and he is not serious about her. i am wrong to say that? what do you say? the fact of the matter is that he may not want her to meet his family because he's embarrassed by them.  he might have a very good reason why he doesn't want her to meet his family.  she should just ask him why she hasn't met them yet.  there is no use speculating when you can simply ask him and find out the truth.