text: should i feel intimidated????? my younger brother has a girlfriend. i have never had one, and while i may have liked one it has never been a priority for me. should i feel threatened and am i lying if i tell myself that i enjoy being single?? i have 3 sons.  the two older ones had 'girlfriends' from about age 5!  the younger one got to 21 and had never had a girlfriend (but lots of pinups on his bedroom wall).  he has now been in a committed relationship for about 4 years and has two littlies.  when you're ready, you'll be ready