text: reflections? i have this friend named shara and we have been friends since fourth grade(in seventh now). we both are friends with this guy ryan and shara doesen't know that i have a crush on him. although ryan thinks i like this guy named robert(robert and i are just  friends). ryan and i walk to our classes together and there has even been a few rumors that we are dating. so everyone thinks we are together. ryan has a lot of friends that are girls but i am the only one that pulls through for him. since shara and i dont have any classes together ryan and i just found a deeper relationship.i really want to tell him how i feel about him but i just cant heres why:we might isolate shara from she friend ship, we would be forming an interratial relationship(i dont have a problem about that part but his parents do)he still has a crush on that erica girl. and he has too many friend that are girls adding more complications. please tell me what i should do. leave ryan alone.  you want him to show all those other girls that you are superior.  you are a shallow person for this.  you really do have a crush on robert, and should try buttering him up a little.  stay friends with shara and stop gushing all over ryan- everyone can tell you are a punk.  take shara out for dinner, or invite her over for a slumber party.  don't ignore ryan- treat him as you treat shara. good luck and don't try to be superior- it gives everyone a better view of your rear end.