text: dealing with looks? i am not the worlds most attractive person (i have heard comments regarding it a few times) and this is seriously affecting my love life.   i have friends and have no personality problems and have never recived a complaint before about that and have no problems at all with tlaking to people i am quite confident.  however whenever i try to go for a girl i am always massivly nervous about being put down because i am out of their league. its not even like i go for the good looking one its just i feel they are all out of my league.  i have been with women before but those relationships have just 'happened' and it been about 6 months i have been waiting around for another and i need the confidence to try and jump start another one.  i was just wondering is there any way to tell if a girl is offended by your looks before asking in a way or just any ways i can get my confidence up to do this as i enjoy life i would just like someone to share it with. do you really want to be with a woman who you think is 'offended by your looks'?