text: help!!!!! urgent!!!!!!!? i've a net friend n' he's married with a kid......he's completely truthful in his profile.....at first, i thought it was nothing but just casual chats....but things are getting worse as he shows interests in me via msn messenger..............he's also some kinda pervert......i'm scared i'd mess things up......should i tell him off or just delete his contacts??? thanks!!! never escilate the matter, never!  give him 1 hint that your not interested, that's all you need to do. after that, it's pure "ignore him till he goes away"  do not under any circumstances agree to any meetings or get-togethers with him.