text: do you think a lonely housewfie should stay lonely? do you think a wife can have a social friendship without being unloyal to her husband?  my hubby works like 60+ hours a week 6 days and he has no interest in me at all when he gets home, but i believe someone would.  i don't want to cheat i just want to think that i have value again, is that wrong? you can't let your soul die because your husband is not meeting your needs. get what you need from whatever source you can. marriage should not do to you what you are describing and you have to do what you can to help yourself.