text: he has a baby momma, wut do i do? ok listen this boy that i really want to get to know is 18, a jr. in high school(yr.behind because of alll the fights he had been in).  and he has a girl pregnent.i really want to be with him and i was going to make it offical untill he told me bout that, i aint got no prob with him being in high school but my main concern it the baby momma.   he says that he dont talk to her, and that he dont want to be with her or anything, the only time he want something to do with her is only if it has something to do with her pregnacy and after the child is born(he want something to do with the child not her).  im trying to advoid the baby momma drama.   but where does that leave me? can u all give me some advice, should i be with him, and not worry bout hte baby momma? you can be with him as long as you know and understand that he is going to be a father, and he has a child that he wants to provide for and be in that child's life, if you cannot accept that, it never will work.