text: how can i win her heart again? should i move on? hi i'm 24 yrs old, i started dating this girl in january.  thigs were going pretty well until i started noticing that she was changing.  something in me sensed that she wasn't the same.  well it turned out to be true, a friend of mine saw her getting kissed by another guy.  i was heart broken and sad. she didn't know i knew.  i pretty much did not answer her calls or text messages for a day or two.  then i decided to write her on email expressing my feels and pretty much breaking up with her.  she replied back saying that i was wrong! that a guy tried to kiss her but she'd pushed him away.  i wanted her to tell me why everyone knew about it except me and she did not have an answer.  now she claims that i broke her heart and all i was trying to do is protect myself from getting hurt. i love her with all my heart! now she won't even talk to me.. what can i do? maybe i was wrong for acting the way i did but everyne deserves a 2nd chance! it hurt me that i heard this by other people. leave her alone my friend. if she caused you pain the first time imagine what it will feel like when she does it again.