text: what to do to get your men back after you cheated on him two days before he proposed? we are sexually very open couple we have involved women in our bed and if i would have asked him that i wanted to sleep with the other guy he would've agree, but he had told me not to go out with that guy... he hates that i lie to him and cheated when he was the most inlove with me it seems to me that you had something very special with this guy there are not many guys that will allow you to share your bedroom with others seems you had the best of both worlds. well what can we do to get you back in, right now he is not going to trust you right away so get use to that your road will be a hard one when you are not togather he will assume that you are with someone else can you handle that if so hang in there for as long as you can if it gets to be to heavy for you try to just be his friend/sex partner but tell him what you want from now on good luck........