text: my wife and i have been married 8 yrs and she has never had a orgasm.i tried everything,is she nonorgasmic?   she may be frigid i guess. is she comfortable with herself sexually ? do you guys ever talk about this ? because you really need to. does she maturbate and orgasm on her own ? if so, then you need to watch her and what she does. talk to each other. if this doesn't help then it may not be physical, it may be emotional or psychological. go to couples therapy.