text: am i bisexual or lesbian? umm...i only fantazise alot bout gurls, but a little about boiz. i think gurls r gd 4 sex and for love too...but i seem to think about boiz in a more romantic and loving way. it seems like gurls attract me more than boys, sexually and sometimes in love, but boiys only attract me by their sweetness, not body nor nothing... i seem to turn down guyz too much, but open wit gurls, but still like guys....so, am i bisexual? or lesbian? if you have ever seen something called the "kinsey scale," it describes people who are mostly attracted to one sex and somewhat attracted to the other. judging by everything you say here, it really can't be said what, of those two labels, you are. you seem to find women more sexually attractive, but men more romantically interesting. frankly, i think you are putting too much stock in the label. while i know it can be hard not having a set identity, you should just be with someone who you find both sexually and romantically interesting and who treats you right, whether they are a man or a woman. if you really need a label for your peace of mind, i would say you are bisexual, but you are also rather young, give yourself time to figure yourself out. you already understand one point better than most. you know it is not all about sex and sexual attraction, otherwise you would have settled this question a while ago. just give yourself time, you don't need to know every last little thing about yourself by the time you finish high school, trust me.