text: in need of help getting the girl? this girl i go to school with is gorgeous. shes outgoing and doesnt care what people think of her, and lets her opinion be known. i have 6 classes with her and became close friends for awhile. at one point i told her my feelings and she turned me down. luckily she didnt change her attitude towards me so we stayed friends and i moved on. 3 months later i broke up with my girlfriend and we were still friends. one night casually i offered if she wanted to chill at the movies and she turned me down again, but not because of me, because she was "taken advantage of" once in the same situation and felt more comfortable in a group. it didnt hurt, but lately ive noticed her attitude towards me is changing and we dont talk as much as we used to. if thats not bad enough this other boy shes been friends with forever likes her and she likes him but "he doesnt want to hurt her" so theyre in a stalemate where they flirt constantly. what do i do and how can i get her to feel the same? well in my opinion i think that u should just wait to see what happens.. i think that if she turned you down twice that might be a sign that she just wants to remain friends. i dont think that u can do anything to really change her mind, because if she does she will do it on her own without any help. but if u stay close to her and become even better friends i think that it will help change her mind.. hope this helped :)