text: how do i tell if this girl likes me or not? a friend gave me a note today that said "do u want to go out for coffee with me and talk sometime?" does this mean she likes me or is it just a friendly offer? true, but take everything with a grain of salt, she just may be friendly. if u have that mindset and act that she's being friendly way. cause then u will keep the ball in ur court and act like u really want some coffee and then you have her