text: do you think she still loves me? she has been my girl friend for the past year now, and i really love her, and she loved me too. but 4 weeks ago we got into a fight. she was irritated by me studying and only doing my homework. and not taking her out enough(i used to take her out every week on fridays and saturdays). she continued to bug me for 2 hours and i had enough and i told her to mind her own business about that. and she started making a huge issue out of it. i was sick and tired of it and told her to keep her fuckin* mouth shut. as soon as i said that i realized my mistake. she walked away and started crying. she even didn't come to our next class. her friends almost the whole high school girls came to me and started to scold me and abuse me. i just didn't do anything and kept quiet while my friends took care of the other girls(i don't know how this became such a big issue). but during our school trip we patched up again. i told her i loved her and she said nothing, then the next moment we were kissing. but.... people only have the ability to upset us if they mean something to us.  so, obviously, she definately loves you.    she may be deeply hurt at the extent at which you lashed out, especially if she's never seen that side of you before. which would also add shock to the equation, by the way.  personally, i would ask for a sit-down time with her, and just get it out on the table, the what happened, the why, and the how not to let it get to that point again.  even couples need time to themselves as individuals, in order to make the couple work better.  honesty, and open-minded communication- the 2 most important keys to a good relationship.  oh, and let's not forget mutual respect.  good luck.