text: is being a nice guy hurting my chances getting women's attention? i was raised by my mom to be a nice guy and recently i have learned nice guys are a turn off for young woman. it's like any woman under 35 wants nothing but bad boys. seeing how i have never been able to get a date i think this philosophy is probably true. should i try to become more of a bad boy or what? don't don't change.   this is to all of the girls in the world who can't accept the nice guys for who they are:   i'm sorry that i was raised with respect; not to sleep with you when you were drunk   i'm sorry that my body's not ripped enough to "satisfy" your wants   i'm sorry that i open your car door; and pull out your chair like i was raised to   i'm sorry that i'm not cute enough to be "your guy"   i'm sorry that i am actually nice; not an asshole   i'm sorry that i don't have a huge bank account to buy you expensive things   i'm sorry that i like to spend quality nights at home cuddling with you, instead of at a club   i'm sorry that i am always the one you need to talk to, but never good enough to date   i'm sorry that i always held your hair back when you threw up,and didn't get mad at you for puking in my car, but when we went out you went home with another guy    i'm sorry that i am there to pick you up at 4am when your new man hit you and dropped you off in the middle of nowhere, but not good enough to listen to me when i need a friend   i'm sorry that i don't understand that he cheats on you but you take him back; but i'm not good enough to understand that he loves you   i'm sorry if i start not being there, and being used as a door mat, only to be thrown to the side when the new asshole comes around   i'm sorry if i don't answer my phone when you call, to listen to you cry for hours, instead of getting a couple hours of sleep before work   i'm sorry that you can't realize i've been the one all along; but hey....now you're sorry   i'm sorry that you tell me how much better i am yet i am not good enough for you   i'm sorry that im attracted to your personality, instead of your body   i'm sorry if you read this and know someone like this but don't care   but most of all....  i'm sorry that you can't accept me for who i am   p.s. i married a "nice guy" i am only 21, and so is he. i love him more than i could ever say