text: how do i deal with a guy who i would like to date who wants a sexual relationship from the get go? i have recently begun talking to this guy who wants to be my boyfriend, but he wants to have a sexual relationship from the get go. i am in my twenties so age is not a problem the only problem is we have yet to meet face to face. we have seen pictures of each other but i don't think talking via the internet and phone is enough to decide if you want to have a sexual relationship with someone. i would like to get to know him and date a little while before i enter into this kind of relationship. i have nothing against this type of relationship, but i am scared its too soon. how do i tell him this with out burning bridges and ending any chance of a relationship with him. this is the only problem i have other than this he is a great guy. please help!! he's prolly more mouth than action since it has been anonymous to this point. meet the guy in a public place and do what you want.  most of us are big blowhards and chickens in person.  if he really is this way after meeting him. be afraid. be very afraid. have an exit route. and hey this is comming from a very oversexed guy. sex is good but there are an aweful lot of guys out there that are psycho.