text: i 99% sure that my live-in boyfriend didn't do anything for me for valentine's day, do i? still go ahead with my plans? or would that just make him feel bad that i got him something and planned a romantic night in? yes.  do something for him. whatever you planned.  maybe he is just really good at surprises.  lets hope so!  but..... if he really didn't do anything for you then you need to kick him to the curb!  it is valentines day !!  the day for lovers.  if he didn't think enough of you to do something then he is lazy and not worth your time and effort!  i bet he takes you for granted in other areas, right??  i bet you are the one that is holding up the relationship.  i bet this is not the first time he dissed you.  hope for the best -- expect a big surprise -- but also be ready to kick him to the curb!  respect youself or he never will.