text: a question for guys only!!!? i really like this guy but the only thing i'm not friends with him i'm really shy and sometimes i see him hanging out by where i hang out and he looks at me all the time with his friend i dont get the way he acts and my friends think that he likes me help!!!!!! ok, if he's looking there has to be a reason. first off check your nose, if there are no boogies, then assume he thinks you are nice to look at. once that is confirmed, you must get over your shyness. shy is cute but not when it's paralyizing. be coy and be sweet but don't be a stone wall. strike up a conversation with him. when you catch him eye-balling you, ask him what he's looking at. this does two things, one, it puts you in a position of control, two, he has to answer. even if he says he's looking at nothing you can run with it.