text: my girlfriend is albanian i'm australian, she says she has to be with the first person she slept with? my girlfriend tells me that in her culture and religion she has to be with the first person she sleeps with that being me. is this true her religion is catholic. i do love her and want to be with her. she says if we ever split up that she can never be with another person again . are you insinuating that she might be lying to you? if you love her and want to be with her, then where did the trust issues come from?