text: how should i ask the girl next to me in class out on a date? im a junior in high school, and am taking spanish two. the girl next to me, who happens to be a freshman, is a great person and i would love to become closer to her. i am attracted to her both physically and mentally (corny i know). we are always helping each other with spanish(in class) and i dont want to ruin our current "friendship" relationship by asking her out, if she isnt interested. how should i go about asking her on a date? you're learning spanish...ask her in spanish as you hand her an envelope with two passes to the movie of her choice (of which you asked her earlier 'what kind of movies do you like?' and 'is there anything good playing in theaters lately?')...it's a sweet jestuer, shes' sure to say yes. but if you're not sure if she likes you as well; you can always throw in 'just as friends'. it's always better to be friends first anyway, it'll make your connection stonger for when you decide to make your move for relationship status.