text: how do i get a boy to notice me i have done everything i am 19. what to do? someone please help!? someone please help im hopeless. i have tried dressing up, puting on makeup i have even changed my walk.  girls and guys please respond! i know this sounds crazy, but it worked for me and everyone else i know. you need to go do your own thing. immerse yourself in what makes you happy. try to keep your mind off of finding a boyfriend. let them come to you. when you do your own thing, you'll meet a guy that has the same interests as you. however, that does not mean to start doing something that doesn't really interest you because you want a new place to find a guy. do something that honestly interests you. it might not happen right off and it may take a while but it will happen. also, ask yourself if you need the added stress of a boyfriend and a relationship. another thing, guys can sense when a girl is feeling desperate. maybe you are sending off desperate vibes, and they are picking up on that. boost your self-esteem. guys like girls with confidence and they also pick up on the fact that you may have low self-esteem.   i wasn't trying to be mean when i was talking about the low-confidence and desperate thing. i was just stating a fact, something you may want to evaluate about yourself.