text: how do i get my ex husband to stop harassing me through the court systems? i am married to a mexican and he hates any one who is not white . our two boys can not speak spanish or he slaps them and then he tells them that they can speak german.  he studies german history and history of hitlers rise and fall. i would call child protective services on him about the abuse and i would file a malicious litigation about abusing the courts system.