text: should a person get personal on here? either with hate or contempt?? i owe everyone on yahoo answers an apology, i wrote some hateful things about banana bean 01 , i let her get too me with  her remarks,i was wrong  and i just want to say i am sorry...i am not that kind of person and i think i should just let you know!!! i think hatred and contempt gets in the way of the debate.  fyi banana bean had an impostor for a while who was over the line. i don't know if some of the things you reacted to were things the impostor said.  a couple of decent people got their accounts suspended as a result of the impostor, and since then i haven't seen much of it (although there has been an upsurge in patently fake 'mexican' radicals).  nice to apologize, though.