text: men...is intercorse the ultimate? the ultimate for me, is a guy going down on me, only way i orgasim. so here is the question. would most of you guys enjoy a b l o w job better then sex? i love bj's, but i also love everything else about sex. i love giving my lady multiple o's while i'm easting her out. love when she rides me, and love being behind her too!  too tough to pick just one.