text: i don't think i am really bi? i finally meet this girl that really likes me sexually. she is 3 years older than me and she wants to take it to the next level she always touchin me near and around my navel and pullin me closer to her. we dont even go together. she knows i'm a virgin with girls but she insits on makin me horny but im afraid that i'll do something wrong and i'll losea really good friend. should i jus give in and let her take it from me or set ground rules like " no is no and if you cant handle it then maybe we shouldn't be friends" you say "should i jus give in and let her take it from me or set ground rules"...  do not let someone else pressure you into something you are not ready for. it is your choice as to what you want or do not want to do.