text: how important is sex in your relationship? and why? if you could only get sex once a month, would you be happy with that when you have a strong sexual desire? what would you do no-matter how many talks you had with your partner and you seem like she ignores your interest in sex? i only get it once a month...twice if i'm lucky.  it drives me mad not to be able to get it whenever i want.  kinda makes me feel like my man isn't attracted to me.  but, there has got to be a good reason behind it.  my man had medical issues.  i can respect that even though it drives me mad.  besides...there are other ways to please each other without sex!!!  i know this!!!