text: how do i know if my boyfriend is cheating on me , how do ii know if it's meant to be forever? he's sweet when he wants to be  sometimes he hangup  on me on the phone when we argue he's always bus y because he just started a job and have to be there at 7:00am so he wakes up extra early so we don't talk on the phone late at night anymore cuz he's tired alot plus at night he plays in a urban go-go band 3 days out the week he has practice from10:00pm - 12:00am then on weekends nights he has shows to attend to. he says he loves me  he shows it all the time he lives down the street from me, i can see his house from mine i never caught him doing anything wrong i just thinking since he don't have time for me alot  maybe he's spending it with someboody else i' ve asked plenty of times is he cheating on me he tells me no he don't even like when i think like that. because his last realtionship he was cheated on and he really cared about her. i'm just wondering would he most likly do the same to the next to get a better feeling. give him the old "sniff test".....when he's been out late and you don't know where, snatch down his britches and smell his grion area to see if he's been having sex...he won't try to stop you cause he thinks you are going to do something else!  if it's funky, it's someone else's monkey!