text: is love marriage better or arrange marraige better?   i'm sure my parents think they have some better ideas of people for me! :)  those countries where majority of marriages are by choice of the couple have the most broken relationships and lonely people wandering around.  just thought i'd bring up the other side, stir things up a bit!    from the film "bride & prejudice":  darcy: the groom looks pretty happy. did his parents force him into it?    lalita: no, he asked his parents to find him a bride, actually. he was busy running his company. he just wanted it to be simple.  darcy: i see, and so he came here.  lalita: is that what you think, too, that india is the place to go for a simple woman?  darcy: no, that's not what i meant.                     lalita: americans think they've got the answers for everything, including marriage. pretty arrogant, considering they've got the highest divorce rate in the world!