text: why are guys quick to get up and leave after 4 yrs ? after a little fight and maybe some small hurtful words . in relationships i tend to play mind games  ,and i know i shoudn't . i do that to make sure someone is truely all for me . but, recently me n my guy got in a small quarrel and i said some stuff i  shouldnt of . i said harsh things and said i wanted to leave .i didnt mean it i was angry !! .. if he really cared would he have stopped me . please help am i lying to myself !!? maybe  you are the problem-i hope that he stays away from you and that everyone stays away from you until you grow up- you put blame on everyone else, you portray yourself as a victim. you are wrong !!