text: do you think it is really rude to tell the childless couple that true happiness can only be found with kids? i think it is a major piece of nasty behavior. i am happy you are happy but don't tell me i can never be truly happy unless i have a baby. you don't know why i don't and you make me and my hubby sad. it's a personal thing between husband and wife,no-one has any right to tell you what to do here.  it amazes me that others will harp on this.  there's really nothing wrong with it.  having children is so life-changing-it's not about them(people who tell you this)-it's about you and your hubby.  they're not the ones who will invest their lifetimes bringing up your child,you will.    please!  they just want you to be miserable with them!