text: is it wrong to email an ex boyfriend after a few years w/o knowing if he's got a girlfriend? this guy is really cute, but since i like someone else...i just wanna talk to my ex again and become friends like before and i don't know if he has a gf or not and if she would hate him talking to an ex gf....but since he was my aunt's brother in law, and my aunt and his brother divorced, do ya think that he'd wanna talk to me after that situation? i doubt it but you could be the first to offer him an olive branch.  just because your relatives can't seem to get along doesn't mean the both of you can't.  however, be prepared for the eventuality that he may not want to resume ties with you.  there is a reason why the past is past. but you can try. usually though, they don't like hearing about your present love interests.  if you haven't been in touch in a couple of years, that means he's moved on and so should you.  why don't you just get perspective on your love life now with your other girl-friends instead of your ex?