text: am i being used? for people with a similar experience. i recently dated this girl who has a beautiful baby girl. the baby is not mine, but i would love her as if she was. this girl was dumped by her x when he found out that she was pregnant. i met her at a friends house and we hit it off. she would invite me around regularly to visit her at her house and we had a great time just me, her and her baby. we laughed joked and had fun. then her landlord decided to sell the place and she needed to move out. she does'nt have a car so she got a lift to work with a freind. her freind could no longer offer her the lift service because she had moved in with her best freinds parents. i then offered to take her to work and drop the baby off at the sitters she accepted. once she was in her new reidence it became very hard for to see her again. i saw her for ten min in the morning while drivingand ten min at night when i dropped her off. when i asked her to do something with me she brushed it off.  is she using me ? i think that she may be using you....and maybe she feels guilty thats whys shes brushing you off. sorry buddy but say you cant drive her to work anymore unless she starts paying you gas....but say you would like to see her otherwise. see what she says once the tables are turned.