text: why are guys so mean around girls?   well, sister, let me tell you for sure it's not a one way street. its not just guys being mean to girls or girls being mean to boys. i think it's being mean to nice people in general. believe me, i've been overly nice to my fair share of ladies who treated me like i wasn't good enough to be the doormat they walked in on. in the same breathe i've been nice to guys to make friends and they step all over me too.  don't give up on us boys and label us all "meanies". because they're some of us nice boys looking for you nice girls. i think we all need signs. *puts on his i'm a nice guy button* ;)  cheers!