text: exactly how long should you wait for the mythical soulmate mr /ms right? till you go ** it & get what u can? so many talking about waiting for mr right, miss right, soulamtes, things being specail etc...  but where are the contracts and gurantees and compensation if you dont?  exactly how long should you remain this pure virgin before you realise you been conned and lied to, ain't going to happen so get what you can whilst you still can if you can?  16,17, 18, 19, 20,21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27,28, 29, 30, 35, 40, 45, 50, 55, 60, 65, 70, 80, 90 ....  looing for speficis here...   bearing in mind...  you are only surrounded by inexperienced and first timers all you own age in high school,   nly surrounded by lots let off the leash and experimental with lots of parties in uni/college,   then can only go clubbing/bars after 21, but you have to make perfect impressions in seconds and be outstanding at chatting up and seduction and looks in bars and clubs  or stand no chance against the competition who honed the art with prevous experience.  then from late 20s most are couple up they just come alone u never know when