text: why is it when a girl thinks she has something good it turns out bad? my ex said he wanted me and only me!then he goes and see's another girl then he came to me saying he was raed with hickys all over him! i told him rapests dont leav them trust me i know! then the next day hebroke up w/ me and says "i wanna be single" heends up w/ anoter girl that same day!! sadly, some girls are attracted to 'bad boys' and often get hurt as a result.  when i was younger, i used to be friends with many very attractive girls who were 'in love' with guys that just hurt them over and over again.  i, of course, was just screaming inside that i wanted them to notice me as more than a friend, but they were obsessed with these guys.  they often moved from one bad boy to another.  sometimes it is because of the way their fathers treated their moms...women tend to be attracted to people like their fathers.  some girls are rebellious and they look for guys that they know their parents won't approve of. as for being raped, guys can't really be raped...guess you know that.  all i can suggest is that you learn from your mistake and look for someone with more positive qualities...ones that these ex b/f's don't have.  good luck!