text: girlfriend has left me after 6 years? a week ago my girlfriend left me as she says she doesnt love me and cannot see us together forever. this has come as a complete shock as everything did seem ok. we met 6 years ago on the internet i lived in manchester she lived on the isle of man. couple months after meeting up i left home & moved to the iom giving up everything. i just dont know what to do as i have always thought that she was the one who i was to spend the rest of my life with.  now she has totally changed in person and after talking to friends the first thing they ask is does she have someone else? ive asked my ex and she says no as she wants to be on her own to find herself again. im 26 she is 23. we booked a holiday about a month ago for september and she still wants to go with me? she still has belongings at our place but wants to leave them here. what is she thinking? she doesnt want to know me is there someone else what can i do. i dont want to move on as i love her and i know she does deep inside. i am a female from the usa, and i can tell you , that is so not right, what she is doing to you is so wrong, and that is what we call "keeping you hanging"  she doesn't want you right now, but she doesn't want to chance that you might find someone else, so, if i were you, i would not take her on that holiday with you, tell her you are not waiting on someone who doesn't love you, and tell her to come after her things, if she sees that you mean business, it just might change her mind about her feelings for you,  why would you want to be with someone that says they don't love you? it sounds to me, that she just wants the holiday, and not you.  and you don't deserve how she is treating you, you are too good for her.