text: ladies, what is the perfect (or good) first date? where to go, when to go, eat first or after, how long should the date last, ect... usually i would say skip the movie but my boyfriend took me to a horror film on our first date.  it doesn't sound very romantic but it gave him the opportunity to grab my hand/put his arm around me when i got scared ;)  yes it sounds very high school but it was sweet and i'll never forget it