text: hi.i m newly married. just want to know how long does the sex act lasts from the time the penis is put in? i have a 2 recently married friends and their sex act(from the time the penis is inserted in till the ejaculation takes place)lasts on an average 5 mins and 10 mins respectively while my hubby can go on for about 35-40 mins on an average..so is there any problem with my hubby or is it normal for him to take that long?any help regarding this would be highly appreciated...thanks dear"newly married", don't feel bad or upset if your "hubby" last for 35-40min. he's the "god" of all men. all other men only last for 5-10min on adverage cause they think all the time befor marrage on "that night" or all the "free sex" they are getting and don't have to work for it so hard on "pleasing" the other half. if your hubby is "pleasing" you in that 35-40min then feel lucky and live like you've never lived befor!!!!!!!!all hail the lucky newly wed!!!!!!!!!!!!