text: what do you do when that special "spark" is tapering off in a relationship? both early 20's, 5 month relationship. i'm worried that we're losing interest and we're running out of things to do/say with each other. any suggestions- what do you think? good question. in many relationships, after a while they loose their 'spark'. how do you fix it? easy! find something new to say/do! go to a theme park, so snowboarding. talk about school memories, talk about parties. talk about anything! find something new to do, and do it!! good luck!