text: is it only a guy , who has to take care of himself and his family ? whenever i am away , my wife just says me two things 1} daughter is not feeling well or 2} there is some big problem. and she never sends apart from this any sms on my mobile, then i in work forget everything and start worrying about this,  i just thought to try this on her, 1} i said her am having a back injury, and not feeling well, she said go to the doctor, as i have to take care of myself and both of them .  i wanted to tell her, we both have to take care of each others, but is it right what she is saying.? is it a universal thing .? is it that only husband is responsible for whole family"s care and what does wife do for this? 50/50 both should be responsible for the family.