text: girls only, do you think my girlfriend is cheating on me.? ok here is the deal.  because of work i've had to be away for the last 6 monthes, but now i am back.  my girlfiend and i have a very good relationship and we are close to being engaged.  she is very eager to be and i am close to asking her, but i still have questions about while i was gone.  my gf is a very trust worthy and loyal person, i have never had reason to doubt her before, but she is very idealistic and lives in her own world.  to the question though.  while i was away she likes to go dancing.  she would often go dancing until 3-4 am with her friends.  (mostly she has male friends.) if i were to call her after 4 she would be home, but it jsut seems strange to me that she would go dancing this late especially on week days.  like i said though, i've never caught her even lying to me once before, but it seems strange.  what do you think girls? i think you should trust her-you don't have to wait till 3-4 am to have sex she could have had sex at any time but she just likes to dance don't be jealous of her [boy]friends that's just what they are-friends-if she wanted one of her male friends she wouldn't be with you and i think she would be hurt to find that you have doubts about her