text: are the eyes the window of the soul? because some men's eyes tell u one thing but their words and actions tell u another. yes, the eyes are the window to the soul. could it be possible that you are mis-reading their eyes? get a guy friend and talk to him one on one about it. see what he says....even have him do some things with his eyes, and see if you can "read" him correctly.....just for practice. best of luck to you!