text: i get ill after sex. everytime.  itchy eyes, fatigued, achy muscles, flushed skin (ears bright red) what's up? it lasts for about 3 days.  sore throat, tight head muscles, oh and right after orgasim, i can tell you exactly where a canker sore will break open in my mouth.  go figure that one out.  it's not psycological at all, its physiological.  it's been going on for 1- years.  i found an article online about being allergic to one's own neurotransmitters and horemones, but it's not widely known or studied, so no cures yet.  any leads for a cure? ever heard of it? got it? i find myself avoiding sex with my wife, and she knows about the problem, but she doesn't really believe me, and thinks it's about lack of desire towards her, but no.  everything else works in me and for me ("it" works and , but i know something is wrong here.  help! here is your answer:  get books by ellen cutler, md (i think it is called the food allergy cure) read about bioset treatment.  your body can react to other peoples body, you are not crazy.  bioset is alternative medicine.  take a leap of faith...you will be glad you did!