text: how do i start dating after being married and divorce three times? it seems no one is interested or i have something on my forehead that says no if it were me, i would focus on other things, enjoy getting to know 'my self' again, and see if fate brings someone my way.  i wouldn't go looking.    join a club, or take up some hobbies. go about life differently than you have in the past.  what you were doing doesn't seem to be working, so taking a different path might be the most advisable course of action.