text: confused about friends with benefits? i dont really now wut to call this guy... i am not dating him, coz we havent gone out on any dates, at the same time i cant say that we r friends with benefits, when there is only the benefits part, no friends. we have never talked about ourself. he would just come over and talk for a few mins and then we make out and stuff. i am ok with friends with benefits, but then i want that friends part too.. i want to talk, hang out .. outside my room, do other stuff. but i dont know wut to do now. should i tell him that i want more, or should i just feel happy with wutever is going on or not think too much abt the whole situation?!!!! he's using you.  you're giving him everything he wants with zero expectations in return.  its not really his fault though, because you let it start off this way, so he has no reason to expect you to want anything different.  don't be suprised if he bails after you ask him for more.    if you want to go with an option that will hurt you the least:  be the first to end it and don't look back.  if you want to continue to torture yourself and feel miserable: 1.)  continue making out with him 2.)  demand more from him 3.)  accept things the way they are when he says he can't give more 4.)  continue making out with him regardless...