text: i feel like my relationship with my bf is falling apart what can i do?   you haven't explained the reasons why you feel the way you feel.  if you experience tension in your relationship then i'm sure there are reasons for the same.  all said, try to analyze your situation and weigh the reasons in the right perspective.   in case there is something you need to amend to make the difference, then do likewise, else if you think that he needs to amend on his front then discuss the same with him with an aim to salvage your relationship. do it in an amicable manner so even he would understand the need of doing the same.  it could also just be that you're going through a lean phase in your relationship and need to let go of your inhibitions as in due course of time things will come back to normal.   just remember that where there is a will there is a way…and if there is a problem, there is also a solution… it’s just about understanding the problem right and you’ll sooner or later come up with the right solution too.  hope you soon get to the crux of things to determine why you feel the way you do and rationally decide to take the right steps to change things where required to salvage your relationship.  wish you all the best.