text: my girlfriend has dumped me! i want her back as i cant live without her or her kids. what do i do? my girlfriend for the past 2 years & living with her for the last year or so. last year we split up for 1 month because she claimed she was having feelings for an ex. we made up & everything was fine. she stopped work in july last year & i moved in with her & financially supported her. i also paid for her eldest child to get private education. in january this year my brother was around & i confided in him that she was acting strange & that money was tight. he then ripped into her for being a gold digger when we were all really drunk. she said that she could never forgive me for pouring my heart out to my brother. i work away from home & one time i came back recently & found that she was taking her mobile phone into the toilet & shower with her. i checked her phone & found messages which she claimed were innocent but from her ex. i went back to work & a day later she asked to go on a break. after 5 weeks i asked for decision and she finished it! i love her & want her back. what do i do? you should probabably give her sometime...because the way it seems is that she either really has feelings for her ex or shes just upset with you and is trying to get back at you...just give her sometime..and give yourself sometime to find out if shes really what you want and to make sure that u r not just attached