text: im i invading my husbands privacy? .my husbands chats online for hours with his friends in french and when i ask what they are talking about he gets all mad and says "aw come on giveme a break" i dont see what im doing wrong?? i was just courious.i love him so much but he always acts like he's hiding something. he tells me im always suspicious but he is always doing suspicious stuff like closing windows on the computer, putting a password on everything, im not allowed to ask questions. is this my fault what should i do? i could not answer any better than "smw" (above)  she is on the money!