text: navy personal and spouses? my boyfriend and i are getting married after bootcamp. i am curious if i could move with him while he is in a-school or would i have to wait till he goes to his duty station? if i have to wait then how are visitations at a-school? it depends on how long his a school is going to be.  my ex was in a school for nearly two years, (during which we were going to be married), and we would have had base housing. (thankfully that relationship didn't work out).   my hubby now is in also in the navy..must be the uniforms, lol. from my knowledge, you can visit anytime you want. check to see what his base offers. there should be a navy lodge there (although it does cost money per night, but has discounts on weeks), or maybe some temporary apartments to house family members when they visit. also, you might be able to stay with him in the barracks since your married, however, that all depends on how strict his bpo is (building petty officer).   this part doesn't pertain to your question. since you are marrying a navy guy, i suggest getting involved with some of the support groups they have at his base for navy wives, and checking thing out on line. get all the information out there that you can. this is something i should have done, but i didn't. now that he's out on cruise, i regret it. it's a tuff life, and the long seperations totally suck, so prepare yourself for it ahead of time, and make sure you have a good support system in place.  here's a site i really like: http://www.military.org they have a part under navy for spouses.   i wish you the best of luck and much happiness in life. if you have anymore questions about it, i'd more than happy to answer you the best i can. just contact me through my profile.