text: how can i make my boyfriend and i relationship better? me and my boy friend has been together for a long time now. going on 4 years and for the first year it was all good. until my folks started tripping and me and him been having a lot of problems. we constantly aargue and fuss. and he has been through so much for me . how do i better our relationship and how could i show him my appreciation? ok i know exactly what you are going through im going through it too ,and what i have learned is-  if you two find yourselves in the begining of an argument stop before you say anything think to yourself if its a big something or a little something if its something your not even going to be disscussing the next day from the argument then simply  let it go if you love him enough you will ,because if you dont all the little things your fussin about will one day eventually lead to a big something fight and could possibly jepordise the whole relationship. if hes the one fussin and it aint nothin big, let him finish throwing his fit and soon he'll get over it. try not to involve your parents in your relationship keep it personal the more they know whats going on with you two the worst it is for you because then they will forever have an opinion dont give them anything to talk about. hopefullly things will get better for you two mabey all you guys need is a little vacation from eachother. hope i was of some help just try it>