text: can two opposite sex become a good friends? i always end up with most of my male friends misunderstanding me that i have a crush on them. i didn't treart any of them special. i treat them as i treat others. if i kind to one of them, that's mean i kind to rest of them too. but they always think that i like them; so when i make a distance from them, they always end up to have a conclusion i just toying them. how can i avoind such things happen again? actually, many of my closest friends are male. yeah, sometimes they do expect more from me then what they are going to get. but i would just flat out tell them that you aren't interested in that. also make sure that your kindness can't be mistaken as flirting. its a fine line, but it is there.