text: how do i tell him its over? my boy friend and i dont make a great coulple he always tell me he loves me but he's a total slob his locker is so nasty he is always spitting and he so cute and every one likes him and girls are always giving him money which he gives to me but i think he is cheating on me with someone eles he is always doing such sweet things and sometimes i go home and cry cause i think he's cheating on me and once i caught him cheating on me but that didn't brake my relationship i'm 15 and he's 16 what do i do don't receive anymore money from him.  don't take any gifts from him.  concentrate on your education.  live life as a 15 year old and not as a 30 year old want-to-be. as long as you accept money and gifts from him you are committing the worse sin. for you are using him as he uses girls to get money to give to you. this all comes down to how much you respect yourself.  do you think enough of yourself to not allow the immaturity of a person to control how you feel?  are you confident enough about who you are to make decisions about what you do by what you think in your heart rather than by what someone else does or does not do? you are 15 and life only gets more complicated the older you get.  use this time in your life to prepare yourself for success in your adult years.  education is so important.  stay focused on what is productive and not on silly whims of silly boys.