text: bi curious? i am a 23 year old female. i have been with my boyfriend for four years and love him to death. him and i would love to try a three some. i think i am more curious than he is. i just don't know how to go about it. how do i find a female and how do i ask? please help. i know how you feel.  woman are so beautful.  i am a bi female.  woman are much better kissers than men.  i can give you suggestions from my personal experinces.  never invite a woman into your bedroom that is involed in your personal life.  you want someone that has no connection on a daily basis w/ the both of you.  because this is all new to you it would help if the woman you invite has had some kind of experence.  it is hard to find a female.  so if this is the first time for you and her go for it.  you and your boyfriend need to talk openly and honestly about this.  leave no dought or confussion between you guys. how far are you willing to let your boyfrined go?  2 woman together should be about the 2 woman. not what the man wants.  a lot of times another female joining a couple will not want to have sex w/ the male. sometimes a bi female will put up with a man just because she wants to enjoy his girl.  your wanting to enjoy a females body and touch.  try a strip club that has a lot of contact dancing or nude dancing.  if this excites you both then your both on the same path.  not all 3 somes work out.  you might do more sexualy to the other woman then she is willing to do to you.  if you find out at some point during a 3 some you just can't do this, stop.   a lot of woman will not speak up.  if you feel that you are being pushed aside by your boyfriend and this other woman. another words they are enjoying each other not you don't hang around for that. it may take 3, 4 ,5 times before you have a 3 some expierance that is even worth remembering. it ia all about what you and the female want to enjoy.  most men will agree to just watch, because they want in on it. check out a escort bussiness. escorts are on a different level then eveyday people. you get what you want. she wont steal your man.  and she never has to see the both of you again. escorts also know how to take charge and will.  try kissing another female and if you are left wanting more than you are ready.