text: should she get a second chance? well i've been with her for 10 years, just found out she cheated on me for the 2nd time. i have cheated in the past but when we got married i stopped. we've been married for 2 years. she just had an affair but we are seperated now. she still keeps in contact with him but tells me it's not serious. she told me to move on but we have kids. they are young and need me. should i accept her back into my life or should i just let go? they are not together anymore but are still friends. what should i do? no-dump her