text: how soon is too soon? i've been together with my boyfriend for three months and was wondering, if in your opinion, it was too soon to say "i love you". i'm sure of my feelings but don't want to get the "thank-you" or just a blank stare. should i wait until he says it to me or should i take the risk? sit on it another month. if you still feel that way, do it. waiting for the guy to say it...you will be waiting forever with most guys.  just say it.