text: do girls look in the money factor when choosing for long term boyfriend? just asking whether money is a important factor when a gal choose a boyfriend? well, we look at it and consider it a lot. fortunately, there are still girls willing to look away from a guy's financial difficulties. take note, this happens when a girl is already decided that she loves the guy. just try to take it slow before confronting the long term issue. that way, she would have seen a lot of good character from you and it would be easier to put the money thing aside. show her that you can compensate for that with something else :)