text: ladies do you know if a guy is gay just by looking at him? well here's the deal i am a 22 year old gay cross dressing man i have a lot of "girlfriends" and was wondering if you can tell that man is gay just by looking at him and if so what gives it away?  thanks brian/bridget   p.s. i'm also on messanger my screen name is boy_2_princess if you want to chat of course.  body language betrays your secret.  plus, being a gay women, i have gaydar.  lol  i can always tell, regardless of gender.