text: how does one cure indecisiveness?  i'm 20, and i can't seem to make up my mind for myself.?   are you a perfectionist?  that might cause delays while you are seeking an answer that satisfies on every level.  by the way there is no such thing, in my opinion.  are you fearful of making a decision you won't be totally happy with?  that one stops me up.  i just decide that i am going to be wrong sometimes and that i can always change my decision when i get more information.  or, there is always the advice i have gotten in the past, "don't be so wishy-washy!  just do it!".