text: domestic abuse of men? the domestic abuse of men is not as well documented as the domestic abuse of women. why? are you a man who has been abused by your wife or female partner? are you a man or women and know men in your circle who have been so abused? please share your stories with researcher into domestic abuse of men. i think men don't speak out because they feel like they will be made fun of.  i think that no one has the right to abuse anyone.  i am a woman and my father always told me to respect men and never ever push, shove or slap a man.. a man is no diffrent than a woman when it comes to domestic violence.  it's domestic violence period.