text: friends hairstyle? how do i suggest to a friend to change their hairstyle.  they have attractive features etc, however the way they do their hair is not doing them any favours and i'm trying to think of some way to suggest they do it differently without upsetting or offending them - i mean my friendship with them is worth more than what i think of their hairstyle, but i love them too much to not say anything.  any ideas?? if u really love her and care about her then just tell her that her hairstyle is not good....or u dont like it....trust me she wont me mad at you....she would say thank u for helping me....if she is a good friend.