text: help only females please.......? i  like girls , but i hate my pn when it is irrect it looks ugly and big i like when it is not irrect it looks good . what should i do to keep it unirrected for long time or permanently ? bcause when it irrect it remains irrected for long time more than 1 hr. i feel very uncomfort ? what should i do to avoid that ? i am a vergin boy of 14 yr. and having pnsize 6.5 inch ( without irrect ) and 8 inch (irreced) is it normal accord to my age ? if it is small ? what should i do ? how i can get organsm without irrection ? it is very hard to be 14. your whole body is changing, some parts slowly and other parts at a high rate of speed. the only solution to your difficulties is time, unfortunately. eventually your penis (which is quite large) will settle down and not bother you so much, and then you will be able to enjoy erections. but for now, there's nothing to do but try to keep your mind busy elsewhere. if you are working hard at schoolwork or a volunteer position, you will have less empty time to worry about the odd things your body is doing. good luck - you'll be fine as soon as this crazy time of your life settles down.