text: if someone says it is difficult for him to move on...is that his way of saying he wants in or wants out? does a person stay in a relationship because it is difficult to 'move on'? and if it is difficult to move on, does that mean the relationship has a future or ...what? please give me some points of view!!! maybe feels guilty on how you will cope if he moves on, so therefore yes cares, but at the same time thinks a lot about  his  future.  lack of communication here. you need to talk.