text: what type of pressures do bright students have in higher technical institutions and how to handle them? studying in one of the prestigious technical institute and ranked 2 at present. gets upset when he gets one less grade, but insists upon that he is not worried with grade, but not happy with the system. he is my son. especially in higher institutions, the pressure to do well is huge (i'm at an ivy, and the competition is ridiculous).  i'd say just be there for your son, say that you're proud of him no matter what his grades are.  also, perhaps try to put things in perspective for him.  such as "what do you think would happen if you weren't number 2?"  no one can be the best.  they can just do the best they can, be happy with what they accomplish, and learn and grow from every experience they have.  also, suggest doing some sort of physical activities, that can ease a lot of stress, and put people in really good moods.  eating well at school is very important too, to be awake and alert.  school can be very stressful, but just try to help your son realize that there are other things to enjoy in college, so much of it is about the social lessons you learn, too  good luck!