text: been friends with this guy for years he is engaged and i'm head over heels for him, what should i do? been friends with this guy for years, he is engaged now, and i'm head over heels for him, i've told him how i feel, and everytime he has a g/f i dont have a b/f and vice versa. he has asked me out in the past and i was stupid and blind an turned him down. now this chick isn't great 2 him, but he says she makes him happy... and if he is happy then i'm happy for him, but should i just stay away and hope for the best, that maybe one day i will get a chance with him? should i bug him? still be friends with him? try 2 break them up? i'm so lost! we have alot in common, and i'm in love with his family, and i know his family cares for me too...something that they dont have for his fiance....help!!! i've left my ex for him, i've quit smokin' for him... well and for me, but i dunno where 2 go now, i dont want to wait for him, becuz what if i never get a chance with him... but i really truly deeply feel that he is my soulmate!   help...please... tell him.... i was in the same boat with a girl i knew many years ago.... i fell in love with her as a friend..... then, as we got closer and closer... i fell in love with her completely... and i knew she cared about me but, neither of us every told each other how we truly felt....  though we stayed friends.. i ended up moving away and we didn't keep in touch often enough.. next thing i knew.. she met a guy and they got married... i told her several years later after she'd had two children...  she told me she was in love with me but didn't think i liked her that way. she would have married me... i would have married her... but we didn't tell each other how we felt until it was too late.  we're still friends.. but we don't see each other now because i think we both know what would happen.  don't wait until it's completely too late... tell him now....  if your friendship is powerful.... it'll remain that way regardless... if he feels the same way... maybe his 'current' relationship will end and he'll be with you....  but if you don't tell him, you'll regret it for the rest of your life and will always want to know.....  i hope it works out for you!