text: i gave in to our first date now he's not calling me so i did and he said sori what am i gonna do?   you are just going to have to forget about it. he used you, and has the idea that you are easy since you gave it to him the first date. sex on the first date is never a good idea, and now you know why. this doesn't make you a bad person, alot of girls fall into this and have to live with the consequences. and sometimes, the consequences are a lot more than the guy not calling (pregnancy & stds) learn from your mistake, and don't do it again. be pickey about who you date too, guys talk and if his friends are under the impression that you are easy, it is likely that they will ask you out to try to get some too. guys aren't looked poorly upon in general when they do something like this, there is a double standard, when they sleep around their friends think they are a stud, when a girl does it she is a whore. it's not fair, but that is the way it is.  so, if i were you i would not try to call him or seek him out in any way. he obviously got what he wanted and isn't interested, so he isn't worth your time or effort, and by calling him and chasing after him you are making him think that he is more than he is and makes you look desperate. try to keep in mind that sex does not equal love.  chin up, walk proud and learn from your mistakes. good luck:)