text: would a woman be turned off if a man revealed he was a virgin?   it would depend on how old you are and why, and if your reason was believable. i am not saying how you are or anything but i know how most men are about sex, and i think honestly in the back of my mind, i would wonder why nobody else wanted you. if you were young, then it would be different, but if you are like 40 and still a virgin then i would wonder. not that everyone else's opionion really matters that much, but its just something i would consider.