text: when does your man say i love you? hi, i need some advice, ok me and my boyfriend have been together for four months now. well two months ago we had went out and when we were back in the car there were fireworks going off and everything. i grabbed his hand and said "you know i love you dont you"? he said, "yes i do", and he said to me "you want me to say it back don't you'? and i said yes and he said give it time, dont push me, i have been burned twice and i said to him " i would never burn you and i also wouldn't say i love you unless i meant it. he said he know's that? he still hasn't said yet, but we have a lifelong contract together that is more equivalent than the traditional marriage and it states that on the contract and he is going to sign it when i see him and he says he is soo eager to sign it. i am his slave and mistress and he is my master and slave as well. am i just being patient and unreasonable, or does he love me and is waiting for the right time? any answers or advice i will gladly appreciate thanks. i was with my man for almost a year before he told me he loved me. i tild him like 3 months into the relationship and yes i did want him to say it back, but i didn't push him. i still told him everyday that i love him but i didn't push him to say it back. just give him time i am sure he will figure it out that you aren't going to burn him and he will decide when it is right for him to say it back.