text: how cum men act so stupid after the first 2 months?   that is the whole prmise to the mtv series the real worth "its what happens when people stop being nice & start being real"  the first 2 month men - and women - are on thier best behaviors - then the real person just cant be held back any longer - and they show thier true selves - be friends with a guy for a while before you date him - see how he treats other girls first