text: urgent!!!!!!!!!!!! should i ask him out or not? i have this guy friend, well he is more than a friend and has been for a while now. we have a kind of have a special relationship. we always talk on the phone and say how much we love each other but if he really liked me wouldnt he ask me out by now? i really like this guy but i am deadly afraid of rejection. should i just ask him out or not?! p.s im pretty sht and i need and answer urgently!! you know, "no" is not the end of the world but "yes" can be a new beginning. would you rather sit in silence waiting and wondering or would you rather take a chance on happiness. suck it up and ask him. you don't want to sit back and wonder what it could have been. you can do it!