text: how, exactly, do gays threaten your marriage? how does one marriage have any bearing on another? who are these secret folks with their hidden agendas to end your marraige? can you provide a list of casualties resulting from this "assault" on marriage? are you really that insecure with your own marriage? good question, i too would like an answer to this.  as far as i'm concerned gay marriages have nothing to do with my marriage, of course, neither do other straight marriages.  i'm more concerned with home wrecking tramps who think a married man is a challenge.