text: do you think that sex one time per month isn't enough? if my husband would i would like to about 5 times per week. i think that it depends on the length of your relationship, your ages, and other deciding factors.  talk to him, ask him why?  maybe there's something medical or maybe he's just not intune to what you want.  let him know!!! about 3-5 times a week is good (my opinion)