text: what are the examples of love in your life? i find my personality most like my grandfather, the man was a nuerosurgeon, so for him, science was his profession.  he was prestbytarian and married a catholic in a ceremony off to the side since he wasn't catholic, although this i don't believe.  he would tell jokes, and when smoking his pipe would ask questions about the nature of the universe.  we would sit on his knee and he would make letters in our backs. he praised us for being right.  he smiled and hugged.  the church, a catholic church, wasn't big enough for all the people who gathered for his funeral and there was a standing crowd.  i don't think i will have that, since im only some dope in payroll, as opposed to a man who saved peoples lives after an accident.  this was for me love.  i suppose i emulate this by smiling and asking my "questions" to the world.   i wish i could do it better and not be "contreversial", but if i asked fluff questions, would jim_darwin be the jim_darwin you would want to answer for me it was my grandmother.  she was 76 when i was born and almost 87 when she died.  she had alzheimer's, although in 1975 they did not use that term - it was just 'senile' then, and had to live the last four years of her life with constant care in a nursing home.  i visited her three times a week and even though she didn't have her mind i think she always knew who i was because even though she didn't verbalize at that point she always got upset when my father (her son) visited without me (he stopped every day on his way into work).  when i visited my grandmother i noticed the many other men and women in the home who did not have anyone visiting them.  being the young child i was i started visiting them too so that when i went i had my 'rounds' to make.  it caused a lot of happiness in these people to be remembered even if it was only by a small child who was not biologically connected to them in any way.  it taught me a lesson in love that to this day i will never forget.  it also taught me that every human life has value and should never be forgotten.  i am thankful for the lesson that that experience has taught me.