text: what are the qualifications on becoming a foster parent? and how long is the process? my husband and i were put on a list to be foster parents to a nephew of his, that is why i am looking for suggestions, qualifications, or advice from all of you. call your local child and family services office, the requirements vary by state.. they usually have classes to become a foster parent. good luck. my husband and i were foster parents for 10 years. we have adopted two girls that we received as foster children as infants.