text: ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh? ok i have mentioned before that a guy i met at a party told me he doesn't want a girlfriend but told me he really liked me. i didnt know what to think so i decided to see what happens. but lately i have been thinking well mabay it aint worth the hassle. the other night we texted for 4 hours solid and at one point he asked what i was doing over the weekend i said i was going out my mate was trying to set me up and he texted back saying "tell your mate you dont need another man you have one right now" what am i supposed to think? its driving me mad you need to be up front with him and ask whats going on. there is nothing wrong with you wanting to not play games with him. men are so complicated they never say what they are truly feeling and half the time they don't know what they want. so don't leave it up to him to tell you because it might never happen. so just ask him and see what happens