text: what does it mean if my girl tells me not to see her but keep telling me she misses a bit? i want to meet up with her tomorrow, but she's telling me not to come. she'll be doing something in her new school and i really want to see her there. she's sending you mixed messages, either deliberately or accidentally.  she may not realize that telling you she misses you a bit sounds to you like an invitation to get back together.  she really shouldn't be telling you this, even if that's how she feels.  telling you explicitly "stay away" is bigger than "occasionally i have passing thoughts about you.".  so stay away.