text: if you can't stop thinking of someone no matter what..is it love or obsession?   i'm in the same situation. i'm not obsessed.you only need the dating tips if you can't funtion because of thinking about this person.that would be obsession. if you can't express how you feel to this person and be with them,then literally get yourself a life.no disrespect.you just have to refocus.this person isn't spending (or waisting) their every waking hr thinking about you.remember then fondly & love them from afar.