text: will u ever fight for the guy u love? i mean even if u knew that he is someone 11 yrs older than u or let's just say he is ur highschool teacher. he likes u but only sees u as a student and socializes with u like a very close friend and makes u feel welcomed and opened towards him but he is single and u know that this other girl is with him but u have a crush on him will u do whatever it takes to fight for the guy eventhough he is ur teacher? it's quite embarrassing but someone i know is in this situation. the old head of of my old college would up marrying a sixth former he taught.  numerous people (one or two that i know) wind up in some kind of relationship during the five to seven years that people are in school. it's human and statistics dictate that out of all the kids and teachers and all the time they spend together you will get relationships blooming... it's inevitable.  the results too can be disastrous or really beautiful.  the teacher has a unique power over their partner because of how the relationship is likely to have developed. that's why it's frowned upon, because that kind of influence can wreck someone's life. i think the situation might be moot because you don't know what they teacher thinks about the girl as opposed to what he thinks about his job and his reputation.. there are just too many variables to give a sensible suggestion about what to do.  girls have crushes and crushes come and go. she will embarrass herself or not as the case may be. she might succeed in snaring him....  good luck to all parties concerned! :-)