text: in a relationship do you think that finding another person attractive is a sign of the relationship wont work? can a person still find other people attractive and look at them and admire them with out being in fear of the spouse's jealous reaction? or is this just a sign of insecurity? honey, just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean that everybody becomes ugly. you are still alive and you still have eyes but if you partner is jealous and insecure that might cause the relationship to end, why would you want to be with someone that you always had to hush fears. good luck