text: how soon is too soon to get married? my boyfriend and i have been going out for two months and he is dropping hints about starting a family (5 kids and two dogs!!) and about getting married. hes got the wedding and everything planned out down to the caterer.   my heart is saying yes to everything because i believe he is my soul mate but the logical part of my brain is saying hes only doing it because he scared of going through another tough breakup (previous relationship)......i need help!!! girl u are crazy if u get married after two months! trust me--give it time. there is no way on this earth that you know enough about this person in order to marry them. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and we still learn new things about each other everyday. just wait a while and find ways to really learn about each other. you are still in that lust, crazy about each other, wanna kiss all day phase. although it is fun, it will eventually fade, but the true love will last if it is meant to be. just give it time, dont rush it. good luck