text: why, when i need to pee badly, i cannot go? sometimes even when i am home and need to empty my bursting bladder i can't. especially when i am in a doctor's office and asked to provide a specimen i can't go. when i am out and try to use a public urinal, i never can pee. anyone else have this problem or am i some kind of weirdo? what can i do about it? enlarged prostate