text: advice on choices in life how do u make the right ones when at a crossroads in life??   toughie. seek out people you trust and don't have a vested interest in your outcome other than to see you happy.  for example, if you are trying to decide what college to attend, sometimes parents don't make the best advocates, because they let their own desires get in the way.  life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.  good luck