text: i need to have an ex refinance and convey the deed over to her. how can i do that with little or no money? my husbands ex-wife will not refinance the house that the bought togrther over 7 years ago. we need to get his name off the deed and mortgage loan. with little or no money. can anyone help me. this is in jacksonville nc, onslow county. thank you for your help.. if he just wants out of that, he needs to make a quit claim deed and record it at the county recorders office. after it is recorded have him send a copy to the mortgage company and have them take his name off the loan.