text: my wife left and has been gone for a week. she still wears her ring and tells me she is coming home. is she? we had a fight and she decided to go with her family. she keeps telling me that she is coming back home. but something always comes up is she really coming home... unless any of us are a legitimate fortune teller we can only speculate. but being a woman, myself, and from a woman's point of view, if your wife has told you she is going to come home, then try and relax. have faith in what she is saying. maybe this is a flaw in your marriage that needs to get worked out. you are going to run your self mentally crazy, if you can't believe your mate. quit wasting precious energy being suspicious. channel this energy into thinking what you are going to do differently when she comes home to work out the original problem. tell yourself, you have nothing to fear, but your own suspicions. i promise you, that most break ups are caused by one or the other, accusing them of doing something. they figure if they are going to be accused,  they might as well do it. not good logic, but we are talking about love, and there is no logic in this emotion. keep faith!!!