text: a girl liked me then i liked her, now she stares at someone else? she still like me? i found out she liked me in the beginning of this school year. i only started to like her because i knew she liked me. i asked for her e-mail and she gave it. on the weekend, i went to www.ecrush.com and sent her an anonymous e-mail. then i looked up her phone number in the white pages and i called her. i pretended i didn't know it was her number and i pretended i was surprised it was her, then i hung up. back at school she barely stares at me now and she would often stare at someone else. i'm jealous now and upset and i think i deserve it because that must of been how she felt when she liked me. but she would stare at me now and then. and before she stared directly at me obviously and i ignored because i'm shy. that must have been a signal to her that i don't like her cause she was like only 2 feet away from me in class. i'm trying to talk to her but maybe she might like the other guy, i'm not sure, what should i do? he mikes te other guy, she stares at him a lot...i don't know.. if she has liked you before...she at least somewhat likes you now too.  one idea you could try, is talk to her and tell her you can help her get the guy to ask her out (the one she stares at).  she will probably be happy that you are helping her and will talk to you a lot more.  ask the guy who he likes and try to hook him up with another girl.  then when the girl you like is upset from this, you will be there for her.  she will start to like you again because you will become closer and she will see that she can trust you.  if you feel guilty about doing this though, you can follow through and tell her what you did and say you were so sorry you didnt mean to hurt her but you just liked her so much and would do anything for her.  i dont really have any other advice, but you can also get some friend girls to ask her who she likes and whats going on.  good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xo