text: what is your view on this? you get to know someone over in a foreign land for only a month then he wants to get engaged to you but you hestitate to get engaged that quickly, but his parents dont want to give you time, and you dont want to lose him so you say ok to the engagement but then after a few hrs your conscious starts to bother you and ask the guy i need more time, but he gets upset and breaks up with you. is it my fault for changing my mind or his fault? my mom says its my fault what do you think? it's half your fault for saying yes when you didn't feel right about it and it's half his fault for not being understanding about the situation.