text: i really fancy my bisexual friend? bisexual blokes, help!? i am a woman and he is a man. he is highly successful with both sexes. however, i never see him interested in women, only men. he told me a few times that he likes me but when i tried to create intimacy he was called and once pushed me away saying that i am his frind and that's it. but he often makes comments that he would definetely sleep with me, and touches me in a fanny way when we go out....and said he is in love with me... but all this in "half a joke" tone. i like him a lot but i don't understand him. if he is gay, why is he teasing me...? be very careful, maria.  i know it is difficult to think of, but i think he just wants to be friends with you.    whatever the case, i think it is time you loosened the bonds between you two and that you use your energy on relationships with men who are serious about you in a sexual/intimate way, not just as a platonic friend.  and by the way, remember, it is one thing to be gay and another to be bisexual.  from your question,  it is sort of obvious that you are not sure what this fellow considers himself.