text: should i be the one to call him? if my boyfriend and i had a fight and i know i'm right, should i call him today 'cause it's valentine's day? we haven't talked in like 2 days. this can be tricky, very tricky.  on the one hand, you don't want to give in or suggest that you may have been wrong, but on the other, there is thia nagging thing called you care.  it does no harm to call and say the l word, but avoid what ever you were fighting about.