text: here's a love question.? there's this guy at school that i like. but he's been burnt badly by his ex-wife and he's scared to date anyone because he don't want to get in trouble anymore. but what am i supposed to do to get him to notice and like me? depends on how long it has been sence the break up. you want the guy to see you as a friend some one he can not live with out slowly he will warm up it takes time there is no time limit for a healing heart keep this is mind good luck