text: how do i write a letter to a judge to read befor sentencing my friend to life for murder? friend has been convicted of murder.  i need to write a leter to the judge about the good character of my friend to be read the day of sentencing. i would start with an outline to make sure you cover all the important parts.  you don't want to forget a key part.  make it structured and try to include facts.  such as if your friend did charity work or if they positively influenced the lives of others.