text: i've never had an orgasm during sex!!? i'm always able to reach orgasm through other stuff, but never during sex!! i have tried different positions too but it doesn't work. is there anything wrong with me? or is is possible that i just couldn't get there with those guys? i've only been with 2 people. i couldn't do it for the longest time either.  i thought i never would.  then i was with a guy that actually cared to find what i like.  it was like the mental block was lifted!  i get off more often than not now.  you just have to know what you like and go for it.  just get lost in the feelings.  deep grinding works well for me, but the g spot is the best. a little messy at times, but definitely worth it.