text: i just began dating this guys for a month,  how much should i spend for our *first* christmas-kwanza-hukah?   i can relate--i was recently in the same boat.  i bought mine a cool ornament--he loved it! (i got the 'thumbs up' from my guy friends before purchasing it.)   whatever gift you give, make sure it's fun, not expensive, not serious (no engraved ornaments with yours and his name)... would recommend running whatever you're thinking of buying by some guy friends. (or even us real folks at yahoo! answers :-)