text: is it true that if a guy is soo against gay men that he might be gay?   that is very possible and also he may have been malested in his life and is afraid because societies belief is that if this happened to you that makes you gay [not necessarily true].if this is the case he doesn't know and may be confused.my belief is that if he's involved with a female he may be running from what it might be and trying to be a real man.