text: do most women "mature" to the point where they do feel they should give nice guys a chance against bad boys? my former girlfriend and i broke up in june of 2005 - two weeks later she was sleeping with my best friend, even though he has a reputation of loving and leaving women. i was a devoted boyfriend for three years. i am pretty young (20) and did provide for her almost like a husband. i've been emotionally extremely mature for a very long time, and i wanted only the best for her. her relationship with my ex best friend lasted four days, but she looks back at those days and sometimes will still tell me she has a crush on him. she says she loves me, but that i am just not for her right now. i want to know if there are women out there that do look for someone that adores them for who they are, that enjoys cuddling more than sex, but who still really enjoys sex. i'm willing to try anything once, and i'm very willing to sacrifice so my loved ones don't have to. i love women - they are the poetry of life. i'm a pretty nice, relatively handsome man. is this ever what women look for? yes,  more mature women or even women who love themselves will look for a man who cares for her and provides safety and security for her.  she will especially want this when thinking of marriage and raising a family. hang in there you will find someone worthy of your love.