text: my ex and i are still in love, what can i do? we are in different  countries? well i think he is still in love with me because when we talk by phone he says that he miss me and by email he writes thinks like: love, miss you. but sometimes he doesn´t write for a while, and when we talk again he tells me that he had been very busy at work (doctor, that is why i belive him). but sometimes i feel like i should forget about him and move with my life. how can he be your ex if you two are still in love with each other?  if he really loves you there will be no excuse for being busy.  if he really wants to talk to you even if he is busy he will talk to you anyway.  i think you better make sure if he really loves you, baby.  you see, my husband has been working in a different country for quite a long time now but in 9 years that we've been together, believe it or not, he calls me every single day.  not only that, in a single day he calls me not less than 3 times a day just to check if i have already eaten and many small thoughts that really counts.  he also e-mail me.  no matter how busy a guy is, if he really loves you he will not think twice in talking to you whenever there is time and he doesn't mind spending his money just to call overseas.