text: i believe my husband cheated on me i put him out should i be worried about where he's staying now? my husband has been being an a**hole to me and the kids and i found some evidence that he's been cheating on me i made him leave. my kids are worried about their dad i've assured them that he's fine they have talked to him. the kids know that their dad isn't with either of his parents i'm kinda sure where he is but, i don't want to worry them. should i be worried about him? we have been married for 10 years together 14. he's going down a path that he needs help finding his way back but, i can't be there for him anymore. i love him i'm just not in love anymore. i'm really confused if i should worry about him out there in the world or does it make me an awful person cause i think i need to worry about myself and my kids? it is only normal to worry about someone you've been with that long and that you have kids with.  however, this marriage is over, and it is not your job to save him.  the best thing you can probably do for him is to let someone in his family know what is going on and let them try and help him out.  you have enough on your plate trying to do what is best for your kids and for yourself.  you will still need to be sensitive and aware to some degree what is going on in his life for your kids sake but you need to accept that you are not responsible for what he does, he is.