text: is this truly feasible? can you carry on a healthy relationship with your ex whom you dumped years back?i'm married for 5 years and broke up with my the boyfriend for my husband. my ex now wants us to be friends. he is married as well. however am afriad it might create problems in my relationship. whats your thought on this? it's possible. i'm dealing with it right now. just reassure your husband that he's the one your with and there is nothing beyond a friendship with the other person. my guy had a problem with it in the beginning, but is fine with it now that he knows there is absolutely nothing to worry about.