text: guys....what do u notice? what do you notice in a girl? i always notice the way a woman conducts herself from the first step. the way she moves her feet and the hips, if the shoulders stay parallel or do the slump and sway, where she has her hands when she is walking towards you, is her lips smiling as if she likes you or are they over exaggerated and she wants something from you, eye contact is probably the most important. when she first says anything to you if the eye contact stays during that first conversation, normally she speaks truth and that's a good start.  her style of clothes, the make up she wears and her physical condition tells you how in control of herself she is.  once all of that is annualized, then its the sensuality.  i saw a woman just today that everything about her said sexy ... except for her eyes. i soon learned she had a small problem with her car and needed someone to help her. the eyes will always give it away.