text: how weird is my husband.....? my husband and i have a great, loving relationship. sex life is "so-so". my husband will only give me oral sex....after we have had intercourse. that is the only time he will. i've never had a guy do that - let alone do it just about every time we are intimate! my husband was involved with a married woman before he met me - and i guess he gave her oral often after she and the gals husband had sex. is this just a fetish? do other guys do this?  any other gals have a husband/boyfriend that does this? i would think that would be the last thing a guy would want to do after intercourse. it could just be a fetish of his. personally, i keep my oral persuasions for *before* penetration, but that's just me.