text: have u ever told someone u loved them and not really known it was true?   yes, and it was wrong to do so.  i've never told a girl i love them, to get sex -- never.  but i have responded to an i love your, by saying i love her back.  it still isn't right, as women are definitely more emotionally tied to a guy they are having sex with.  but life is a some of your experiences, and sometimes you make bad decisions, and if your smart, you learn from them.  so...girls, never tell a guy you love him during, or after sex, if it has not already been established that you both love each other.