text: what if he might die? paul may have cancer. what do i do. force him to go see a doctor of just support the fact that he wants to just let it grow and do nothing about it. help?... the guy i love is maybe dying and he wont get help from anyone.... sorry to say.. you cannot force someone to get medical treatment  but may have cancer? he needs to find out for his own piece of mind most are curable if treated at the first stages and depends what type of cancer and where its located  good luck