text: if you've ever had a threesome...? how did you do it? no, not that silly, i took health class... i just need some tipes on finding a girl, for me and my guy? i've been told that they're are willing women all over at bars, but i just don't know how to approach them.  also, not that this *should* matter, but we're a biracial couple. if your trying to pick up a girl at a bar, even as a couple, try buying her drinks then asking her out on a date.   you might find out after one or two drinks that she isn't worth your time or that this could be the one.  ask her sexually charged questions to find out if she would ever consider it, some difficult ones to gage if she is honest. then ask her on a date. or if your not looking for friends just a no strings attached one nighter try joining a swing club. there are plenty of men, women, and couples at these clubs who are clean attractive, willing, and open minded enough to accept an interracial couple.