text: becoming asexual? if you do not know what i am talking about a link is below. i'm sure i am not the first ask this but latley i've been thinking of something, like there isn't anyone out there for me, and thats the right choice. not because i can't find someone, but because i don't want to anymore. on the 25th of this month it will have marked 4.6 years since my last and only relationship, so i ask a question to those who i belive think as i do, or at least feel the way i do.   would you mind sharing your story of how you knew being asexual was "you"? sharing some of your thoughts, and giving some good resources?  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/asexual  oh and one more thing, no i don't mean asexual reproduction like some people are going to say is the "real" def of asexual. dude, you sound like you may have asperger's syndrome.  one of the symptoms of aspergers is asexuality or at least a low sex drive.  here is an online test that you can take to find out: http://www.wired.com/wired/archive/9.12/aqtest.html  but there are a lot more symptoms as well.  take the test and see if it says you are one.  if so, read up on aspergers and see if you have any of the other symptoms.