text: i need advice about a guy i am dating...? when were together we have a great time. we have even discussed marriage, kids, etc. but because of work schedules we go a week a more without seeing each other. he has suggested moving in together so that we would have more time together. i can't do this because it is against my religion. i am 25, he is 36. i have 4 year old twins from my ex-husband and he has a 10 and 13 year old from his ex-wife. we live in the same city. what would you do? do relationships like this work? i think it very much depends on how long you have been going out.  both of you are from a relationship, and my worry is that the possible raison you want to move in together is because you both miss sex. once a week is not too bad for a relationship!  my advice is to take some time before moving in together and i'm sure you would want to balance your religion with your personal life.  if you don't at the end you will get hurt and loose the confidence of your friends.