text: is something wrong with ,enjoying  to have clitoris orgasm opposed to penetration? when i have sex with my husband he tries to make me *** but it takes a while every time ,so he goes down and i am pleased, but now it's a habbit i have to have it each and every time is that o.k. i have this same issue. i find it helpful to give myself clitoral action with my hand while he's inside. it actually gets me off twice as much as i get the stimulation in both areas simultaneously. and it turns him on even more as well!