text: would you ask your dad for your inheritence before he died? my parnter and i want to buy a house or land and build , was just wondering do you think it would be hurtful to ask for the money before he died? he may be around another 20 yrs yet.. and i hope he is..  im not a greedy sadist or anything..lol  just want everyones opinion!!the money is just sitting there gaining interest. just ask your dad if he can help you out on buying your house.  then book that trip and go with him, tell him you'd love to accompany him on this trip and spend time with him before you get busy building your dream house.