text: how do i make best use of commonly bundled programs with xp like :? netmeeting, windows messenger, netwaiting,hyperterminal remote desktop connection, program compatability wizard, remote assistance, backup, synchronise.  i have never used these....do u use  or r there alternatives? i dont use anything bundled with xp.  i will use 3rd party programs because the programs that come with windows have been known to have major security leaks and flaws.