text: if you like a man, will you go abroad to be with him? i like a man who was introduced by my friend three months ago.we meet on line,we talk with each other,but not so frequently,sometimes happy and sometimes not.i have no chance to know him more because we are not in the same country,we have no chace to meet face to face.i like him very much though i just know a little about him,it is strange,right? the only way i can know him more is to go abroad and be a person in his real life.what should i do? study hard and work there after i gain my degree? i need help. well, from what you're able to say here, it really sounds like you need to cool off and focus on getting your degree.  after you've got that, then you can think about meeting him.  maybe by that time he'll want to come here to visit you.  but don't be looking to move and work over in another country without having met the guy in real life yet.  slow down and think rationally.  it's sweet that you're so willing to do anything, but come on, think about it first.