text: what do you think? my bf....? he told me that one of the reasons he did not pursue the marriage he promised me is because of my weight. he said that if i would try to lose weight, then maybe he would be more into marrying me. i knew then he did not really love me. what do you think? oh, honey. run away from this man. he needs to love you and respect you for you and not what you look like on the outside. it seriously sounds like this man has control/domineering issues and you'll only get screwed up by staying with him. listen, i know it's hard to be alone- you're harder on yourself when you feel that you're all by yourself, right? but the torture you'll put yourself through by staying with a mentally abusive man is far worse. learn to believe in yourself-- lots of good things will follow, you just need to get to know 'you' first!  ;)