text: i have been invited to many partys this year but end up just sitting on side and not dancing, any suggestions? you can call me a shy guy but once i feel comfortable with people i'll blaber the whole night. im just not good at small tallk or picking up girls. i've already had 2 gf but it took along time to finally ask them out. i just want to go out and have a fun time without worryinmg what other people think of me. thanks for your help is your name jeremy? well the only thing i can say is to just get in there and have fun. dance with your friends.when your at a dance, no one cares about what your like or what your wearing(unless your naked). besides,only god has the right to judge people. and that day is coming very soon.