text: is most cross dresser gay? i was just wondering is most cross dresser gay? and if not, why on earth do you do it? most cross-dressers are not gay.  most are heterosexuals who feel sexual excitement from wearing women's clothes.    gays sometimes cross-dress also.  but most cross-dressers are not gay.  but you won't find out because they don't do it in public.    gay guys are more likely to go in drag in public, in my experience.