text: is it wrong for a christian to seek help with fertility? me and hubby have been trying 3 yrs and no success, 1 child, 9 yrs, we are in our late 20's, been checked out so far tests have come back normal, we are going to see a fertility specialist  in a couple of days, i keep hearing, wait on god, in his time and i do believe that, but is it really god's will for 12 yr old to have babies and throw them in garbarge cans? am i wrong for wanting to see what's wrong and getting doctor help? i would say no.  there is nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it, as far as i'm concerned.  however, if god is putting a different conviction on your heart, that is a different story.  darling, i will pray for you to receive wisdom in your decision.  my best suggestion is for you and hubby to pray together and seperately about it.  search the word, ask god to give you an answer to your problem.  don't forget, as a christian, anything that is on your heart is also on his.  only he can tell you what he wants you to do.