text: please help me :( why am i so worried? ahh, okay here i go. i know this may sound stupid to most of you, but i don't know :( well, i was with this guy from september 8th -12th and although we did not engage in sexual intercourse, i gave him a handjob and he fingered me. although his fingers weren't like "dripping" with his semen or anything, i'm worried maybe there might have been *some* of it on him. he also never went inside of me, he was just rubbing "down there"  well, i got my full period three days later (on sept. 15) and got my period again on (although it was late like 2-3 days) october 16th. usually, i spot around ovulation, but this month i didn't. my breasts hurt a lot and stuff, and have been hurting since when i should have ovulated (oct. 31st) i should have my period next week some time, if everything is "normal"  the question is, is there any way that i could still be pregnant? i am so worried, i think maybe the guilt is getting to my head. i understand i am not ready for this stuff. any help is appreciated. i'd say yes, everything sounds normal. you sound a little young. when you're younger, you're period will be irregular, and could be on an off schedule until you're around 20 or so, then it should be the same every month. i'm still kinda young and sometimes i'll go for 2 months w/out my period and beleive me it scares the crap outa me. my doctor said not to worry about it, and that sometimes your period will only last 2-3 days whereas other times it'll be like 8-9 days! or atleast untill your period regulates. it's a slim chance you're pregnant, very very, so i wouldn't worry about that. as far as your breasts hurting, well mine get reallly tender right before my period, so that may be happening to you, which would be good meaning you're not pregnant! just to be on the safe side, if i were you i'd take a pregnancy test a week after you were supposed to get your period (or a week after you do). good luck and try not to be such a nervous wreck, enjoy yourself!