text: how do you not hate your neighbors? mine are contacting the city about me, they told them that i have alot of "unauthorized" people living here (i dont) and causing me problems. i dont know who is doing it, and really dont know any of my neighbors well. we bought our house over a year ago and only one neighbor has even talked to us. we live close to a church and i believe that most of the neighbors go there, we are not members though. how can i keep myself from wanting to hurt them when they call the city on mr for no reason. i cant help but think that it might be because my husband and i are in a biracial marriage. any suggestions? i'm in the same boat,we just bought our house in sept. and the neighbors have decided for whatever reason that they don't care for us.at first it really bothered me, but i've decided that i'm the better person for just ignoring their stupidity,i wave at them tell them to have a nice day,and just go about my buisness.i'll be damned if i'm gonna let them ruin my happiness with my new home,or rain on my parade.hold your head high,alot of church-going,holier than thou are the biggest hypocrites on earth,they don't know the first thing about being christians.their shallow and jealous,just go about your life and the good ones will come around.good-luck.don't feel like you have to preach to them or win them over,like i said just walk with your head high,if you try to preach at them it will only feed their ignorance.please paul,find a congregation that wants to hear all that!