text: every one thinks i'm a gay but i'm not.? i just moved to a new city and i am a tomboy but every one thinks that i'm gay.not like theres anything wrong with it but i'm treated diffrent and get food thrown at me please help. unfortunately, kids can be jerks, and bullies.  a lot of people get picked on, and you need to just ignore them, and do not give them the gratification of knowing that it bothers you.  if they don't think it bothers you, they will quit in time. you can try to soften your look a little, and maybe dress an little more "girly," which may help, but i don't think that you need to, unless you really want to.  you don't want to go around changing the real you, based on what some dumb kids say.