text: where can i find a date with me working 50+hrs a week where would be a good start? i really would like to start dating but i work so much i dont know where to start i'am 33 yrs old and told i'am good looking but still no date why on earth are you working this many hours? no job is worth your life. cut back on the hours, or change your job. work in leisure time into your schedule.  participate in activities you enjoy and you're bound to meet someone who shares the same interests who you could possibly be friends with.  it's good that you're thinking about where to start. now go out and make those lifestyle changes. consider this: even if  you can get into a relationship as you are now, where would you find the time to be with this person?