text: rude neighbors? i rent out my basement, and i haven't had any problems with the people down there before, but yesterday, i was trying to do laundry (i share the washer and dryer with them) since i only ever have 1 day a week to do laundry for 2 adults and 2 kids in diapers, and every time the washer would finish and i still had to wait for the dryer to finish, she would take my wet clothes out of the washer and put them on top of the dryer and put her own clothes in the washer. this person does not work, (her husband does) and has all the time in the world to do her laundry the other 6 days a week that i am at work, but only wants to ever do it when i am doing mine. and she never cleans out the lint trap. how should i confront her about this? or should i jsut make up a laundry shedule? i'ts not what you say, but how you say it! simply ask her if she can refrain from using the washer and dryer on that day.  and remind her that she has six days out of the week in which to do her laundry! or maybe just maybe she can be a real friend and do your laundry for you while she dosen't work outside the home!!!