text: how should u go about it?? my good friend lanie wants to tell  her almost best friend which is a guy  that she really likes him n cares for him.  they have been intimate within the last  year off and on.  how does she go about telling him she wants more of a relationship??  obviously the attraction is there. i have given her my advice  but i need more input for her. thanks for helpin out. i've been through this myself n i noe thats its easy to just say tell him...........................but i can be harder than that................since the attraction is already there, if the guy really loves lanie as well then he would appreciate if she just took him out on a slow stroll n told him in the eyes how she truly adored him n wanted him to be hers.........................being a little possesive will really aid n he'll fall......................................but mostly tell her to be truthfull n ask for mostly trust in return........................i hope i could help!!!! remember trust is vital................it heartwarming to ask for trust in a relationship......................