text: okay, so  i got this letter.? i come home and there's a letter on my doorstep.  it's addressed to me and all, but i have no idea who it's from.  it's a really, really sweet letter and all, it's signed 'secret admirer' but, it seemes to good to be true.  should i answer his letter like he asked me (he gives me his e-mail) or should i just go for guys who i can actually see and talk to? thats sooo sweet !!! of course you should e-mail him . why not ? it is so hard to find guys that are  romantic anymore . i say go for it whats the worst that can happen . i do suggest however that if you do not actually know him well that you only meet him in a public place .