text: i have two guys that are right for me with different things. how do i choose? i met two great guys online and they both have qualities i am looking for. how do i choose the right guy? you date them both, get to know them better, and see where things go. ya don't have to pick right now. besides, they are online. you can't be sure either is "right" for you until you've actually met them and dated them in the real world. it's really easy to hide our unattractive qualities when we're online.