text: why are people da way they are? why are people so 2 face. they act one way in your face and when u leave they talk a lot of s**t but don't have da balls 2 say it to ur face???????? i can only speak for me i have no problem telling anyone what i have said none.... i may change words to defuse the impact when telling them.... but i always tell them if there is a problem i make sure though i pull them aside and do it.... now just to be clear you can not always listen to what people say they put their own spin on the statement trying to cause friction.... the best thing to do is talk to the person alone to get them to tell you exactly what they said with no one around it will diffuse anger or prevent people instigating up the situation