text: relationships? i am the only girl in my band and i like my drummer and he likes me but my new band manager said that relationships inside the band could destroy the band. is this true? yes, it could... but it totally depends on u guys... in the time of business u may be lovy-dowey or flirty with each other... if there is an issue of voting u guys will say the same thing to make the other person happy.. if u break up, then it would be so hard to keep the band together....