text: how can i be as good looking as my friend? i think that i become invisible next to her.  all the dudes like her just cuz she has a nice ass.  she rubs it in by bragging about the same old things over and over again like how "tough" she is.  and if the guys dont pay attention (probably too distracted by her ass) she pouts and starts putting those guys down with insults.  i just sit there and listen to how stupid she sounds but i dont say anything.  she also cant stand it when some guys compliments me and not her, she buts in and tries to take the spotlight.  ugh! i cant stand it.  how do i start standing up to her. you just have to tell her that she's acting way too desperate. this girl doesn't sound like your friend...she just sounds like she wants guys to flock all over her. if she gets mad when guys compliment you, you need to just tell her that the whole world isn't going to think she's all that and she needs to get over it. she doesn't sound like a friend to me...or she just sounds like she's very insecure of herself.