text: do you guys believe that homosexuality is something that you are born with or is a chosen life style?   it makes no difference whatsoever, if homosexuality is inborn or chosen.  whatever the reason for the desire may be, it doesn't matter.  the desire has never been the issue.  the issue is what any given homosexual chooses to do about that desire.  does he choose to follow it, and have sex with members of the same gender, or does he not?  the desire can't be helped, but the actions certainly can.  he (or she) has no less of an obligation to live a christian lifestyle than anyone else does, and that includes all aspects of sex as much as it does anything else.  it might be harder for them in that way, but it's no less necessary.  that can't be watered down.