text: how can you tell if you had an orgasim? i cant seem to tell the difference if i ever had an orgasim or not.  i've had my boyfriend tell me that  when i do he can feel it cuz it squirts? i know when it really feels good but im not too sure if thats an orgasim? how can i tell? i know this is strange but, this is the best way to describe it: a wonderful pressure builds up inside you. when it lets go..it feels like a good sneeze. you know, the tickle, the anticipation of a sneeze,, then..achooo!! you feel better? an orgasm feels like a sneeze between your legs.