text: need serious advices .? i am male 37 married. for the past few months, i got to know a married women 43 as well as her husband, family and friends.  i need to know if you could advise me her feelings towards me.  1) if you visited her home, she will chat and laugh with you even the present of her husband and friends.  2) once, a tiny spider drop on my shirt and she just use her hand to remove it (on my chest) though she are afraid of it.  3) she called me once a week .. sometime if i don't call her and she will ask me whether did i miss her .   4) her eyes contact with me are strong and she like my present on gathering.  5) recently, her father passed away and i visited his wake. she don't really want to see or talk to me but turn to others. we do not have any eyes contact at all. she did not call me for a week during the wake.  6) when she called me to attend friend gathering but i told her i am not attending and she starts to telling that do i afraid she will not be eating if don't see me? i think you should be more concerned about your wife's feelings then the feelings of this other woman.