text: confused and scared? me and my guy been together for ayear and a half now we also been living together also he said he wantss a roommate now and the person he chose i dont like because he cant stay with one girl im just afraid that when he moves with this guy our reltionship might be over because he's gonna let someone else ruin what we have if your guy is dedicated, loyal, and faithful to your relationship, then his roommate (player or not) is not going to influence him to cheat on you. if your guy goes out and messes around, it is because he wanted to, not because his new roommate is like that. you can't control him and you can't prevent things. you just have to trust and have faith. if you are really secure in your relationship, then you should be secure even when the circumstances change. good luck.