text: i was just trying to be honest with him...how do i get him back?? after 6 months of us being together i found out that for the first week we were together he was still with his ex. of course i got really upset so i broke up with him. about two weeks after that one of his friends and i started talking and after that we kind of developed a "relationship" but to me it wasnt serious at all because the only reason why i even stared talking to him was because i was hurt about my ex at the time had "cheated" on me. we eventually got back together and i decided to tell him about me n his friend. he took it extremely out of proportion and broke up with me. a year and 1/2 of me n him was all thrown away because i decided to be honest with him. what should i do i love him and i know hw still loves me but he said that he doesnt think anything can make up for what i did. when in reality i didnt really do anything...kind of. oh yeah and he called me last night but i missed his call and when i called back he ignored it. i need help asap!! ok...this sounds like the same stuff that i have went through before..bottom line is ..it was ok as far as he was concerned to do what he did..but when you got him back and was honest he had a problem with it...girl..im glad to hear you did this to him. he is a jerk that thinks its ok for men to just f around on women but you showed his a s s didnt you..you go girl!! i know you still care for him and thats normal...just stay cool..he will come around..but in the meantime talk to as many guys as u can...