text: i am in love with a girl who has a boyfriend? i like this girl from my school, she likes me too, we only talk on msn since she doesn't want anybody to know about it. her boyfriend is this gangster guy, and her sister is dating her boyfriends brother. i think thats why she doesn't want him to find out. what should i do? it is more up to her to do anything about it. if she doesnt want to be with him and he is threatening her, then that is police issue. you have no issue against her actual boyfriend, but seems as if he might make it against you. you should not do anything about it until she makes some first step. each step she makes toward you, you should grab and hold it as your sacred territory, as it is. if you have layed your heart upon a girl who goes out with tough guys (!!!! and !!!! for her sister) and you want to undertake the risk of such foolishness, then you should either be wise or tough enough, or a movie scenario writer. but, the reward could be plentiful. be sure that she is not into gaming.