text: a white girl and her friend? in my cosmetology only dates black men. they told me that its mainly because black men love them for who they are is and not because of her weight, the way they wear their hair, etc. so is this true, white men are too shallow? i  dont think has anything to do with race pepole are shallow no matter what color they are even though i have no idea what you are talking about but i dont think many white guys are shallow just the rich ones that think they are better then anyone else.