text: i love a man  that has two kids and still lives with his wife is that bad?   yes, it is bad... this is a "no-win" situation and can only lead to pain, maybe just for you, maybe for you, him, his wife, his kids,their circle of friends, his parents/siblings, her parents/siblings, and everyone else involved with them as a family. run, don't walk and don't look back... it will hurt like major surgery, but it will save more heartbreak down the road.