text: friendship or love? i have worked with a woman for 2 years, we were strangers when we met but over time grew really close, now i cant get her out of my head! help!! thats really cute, and from what i have heard it sounds like you have a little crush . = ]  if you feel that way she probly does to . i mean its too easy for girls to start thinking about someone. just  ask her out on a date and see what happens. good luck ; )