text: response, is it worthy it? i just asked a question and i have one response to the question. here is the original question.  i am a first year in college. there is this girl that i like in my hall. at first, i thought she might like me so i just waited to see if anything more developed. it has been several months and now i am about 95% sure she only likes me as a friend. i think there is a better chance that i will damage our friendship by telling her how i feel. should i tell her how i feel, is it worth it?   if i wait there is a chance that she may get a boyfriend, not me, or we may gradually loose touch. should i still just wait and see? hello i think what you should do is give her hints that you like her more than friends action speaks louder than words and soon enough she'll get the hint and , you will eventually know if she likes you the same way ,because she will react on it, you will soon know if she likes you more than friends, if you tell her how you feel and she dont feel the same way towards you might loose her as well by making her feel uncomfortable around you, so you dont want to do that, at least by giving her hints you will get the answer without asking her or making her feel awkward. take care and goodluck