text: why do parents frak? ok i told my dad that i was bi and he flipped out. he sid he wanted nothing to do with me and that he hated me why!!!!!!!!!!!!!! many people are uncomfortable with things they do not understand. your father is still family and may calm down after you explain to him how you feel. you may find it difficult to gain his understanding, but if you approach the situation with respect and love for your father and keep in mind that he may be afraid to accept this revelation of yours, you will be more likely to get him to open his mind and accept you for who you are.