text: how does a person let someone know they hate them without directly saying it to their face or starting uproar?   why do you think it matters so much what the hater thinks about anyone? if someone hates another person - he or she is the one with the problem, regardless of what the other person did. you don't have control over another, you only have control over yourself. if this is where you want to invest your energy, don't expect the person you hate to give a damn. as a matter of fact, given your attitude, the other person may have beat you to it, but doesn't think you are worth the effort of displaying the hatred. grow up, and get your own life.