text: help needed w i-chat - i live in china, and wife stays in hong kong, but we can't use i-chat.? although we both are .mac member, we should be able to use i-chat for video conference, but never be able to connect properly.  anyone has experience with apple i-chat and live in this part of the world?  thank you. ichat has connection speed requirements.  if one of you has a connection of less than 100k, it won't work.  as of july 1st, yahoo has stopped it's webcam support for their messenger for mac, otherwise, yahoo would be a good choice for slower connections.try jabber or mercury messenger.