text: can i trust my mate? my ex best mate text me the other day saying she wanted to be mates agin, i said ok and then she tried to hurt me again today by saying stuff about my ex it didnt work cos im over him, i sent her a text saying that i knew what she was plannin and she text back say wtf, is she trying to hurt me on purpose or am i parnoid if she is really hurting you, leave you mate. i don't think your paranoid. maybe tell your mate how you  really feel.