text: can you be in love with an ex for a year, while at the same time maybe loving your current guy? confusion!!!!! the ex still loves me, and the new guy does too. i think there has to be a guy that you love more. maybe you are holding on to past memories and you just need to let go of them, if that's what you really desire. sometimes is just better to be alone untiil you are ready to dedicate yourself to just one person. you wouln't want your current boyfriend to have strong feelings towards any other girl, you want him to respect you and for you to be the only one in his heart... right??   if you aren't sure about something, think throught it, is better to make wise decisions now, then to later have to be stuck in a relationship that you are not sure of.