text: how do you know when it's definitely time for some kind of change in your life? after 5 1/2 yrs. my life seems to be stuck in a personal rutt! i don't even remember how it got this way. now, i feel like the only person in my family(two sons 3 and 12 and my husband) who seems to have completely lost myself. i'm sure somethings got to change, with myself and the people that surround me, i'm just not sure where to begin to find myself again. you have been giving to your family for so long you lost a connection to yourself.  go take a class at a community college or something, find your passions again.