text: is it right to ignore her? so we just decided to just be friends, but i wasnt over her yet..within a week after that i never called her at all, or call her back only when she calls me..even when i see her from afar, i no longer approach her and go somewhere else to avoid her...ive made the best of my time away from her...making new friends and hobbies...sometimes i feel guilty tho...i think she really wanted to be friends, but im afraid to get hurt so i avoid her..is this right??? additional details  ps we never really had a relationship..we just realized we have no chemistry but i still had those feelings...(she kind of dumped me) when girls dump you and tell you they want to be friends, they don't really.  they are trying to spare your feelings. she is probably glad you are avoiding her because it saves her the trouble of actually pretending to still be friends with you. move on...she already has...