text: is my boyfriend cheating on me? he has this x girlfriend that is a pest it seems impossible to get rid of her. she is constantly in our business and he allows her to get away with hurting us especially me and i find that he always has an excuse for her presents and her calls. i feel im being cheated on but cant prove a thing. we been together for 5yrs now and so has she(she has been in our business for that long). i discovered that he had called her from my mobile and lied about it, when i confronted he had another excuse i tried to gether the courage to call her and find out what is happening but chickened out last minute. am i being played. yes.