text: what should i do? since we first met we have always had a right laugh together. i think about him alot but he has moved away we still speak every now and then but we always said we couldnt be together cause we r so much alike, we both like our freedom and it was just meant to be fun with no strings attached as time has gone on i have really fallen for him and don't know weather i should tell him or just carry on beating myself everytime he goes!  normally i'm a strong person who dosen't let men get under my skin but he is different my problem is i don't wanna come out and tell him how i feel incase he dosent feel the same and i never see him again! you can do one of two things, follow your heart and let him know how you feel, or don't say anything and allow things to continue the way they are. i mean how would you know if he feels the same way? maybe he is beating himself up over the fact that yall agreed to be friends and he doesn't know how you would react when he says he wants more? who knows? try suggesting it indirectly see how he reacts....that way you will know what you are up against.  good luck!