text: why was jermiah in the bible not allowed to marry?   because god wanted to spare him the sorrow of seeing his children killed or taken away into captivity.  "the word of the lord came to me: "you shall not take a wife, nor shall you have sons or daughters in this place. for thus says the lord concerning the sons and daughters who are born in this place, and concerning the mothers who bore them and the fathers who fathered them in this land: they shall die of deadly diseases. they shall not be lamented, nor shall they be buried. they shall be as dung on the surface of the ground. they shall perish by the sword and by famine, and their dead bodies shall be food for the birds of the air and for the beasts of the earth.  jeremiah 16:1-4