text: how can heaven be "heavenly"? if you went to "heaven" and found that even just one of your dearest, most cherished, most loved family members or people in your life (your mom, you dad, your child, your brother or sister, your best friend) didn't make it and was sent to hell to suffer for eternity -- would it still be heaven for you?  could it still be heaven for anyone? of course not, and it confuses me how any right-minded person could consider that kind of situation "heaven." i've also heard of a theory that god supposedly makes you forget about all your loved ones that are burning in hell, but i don't see how that's any better.