text: should i believe him? i think my hubby may be cheating!  he swears that he isnt when i confront him about it. he has admited to thinking about it but swears he wouldnt act on it, because he loves only me. i dont know what to believe anymore! alright...something i've had experience in.  you know...if he's been cheating on you, sweetie, he wouldn't have even told you he'd thought about it.  that would be something he would be keeping to himself if he'd actually followed through on it.  try and let the paranoia ease a little.  as long as you're afraid of it, you'll never have any real belief in the man that he'll ever really do right thing.  he's still there...he loves you.  this is the best security you have.  if we constantly pick cat fights with our men, there's no reason to be shocked if he's ever found in the cat house.  ease up...love on him...build on what's in front of you.  god bless:)