text: how do i let a guy know i like him without actually telling him. (giving him the hint)?   flirt with him.  it's playful, it's giving him a slight hint, but not being too forthcoming.  it's fun, it's enjoyable, and it's not serious but has potential to be.  it's flirting.  it's perfect because if he's dry and can't flirt, do you want to waste your time with someone boring?