text: i love a boy but i'm not sure did he love me, how can i tell him?   one of the best ways to find out if someone truly loves you, is to think about if he or she is truly looking out for your best interest; nowadays, love is totally misinterpreted. look at his actions and what he says and think, "are those actions and words motivated by him looking out for me, or for his own interests." hope this helps, ....from a guy's point of view, by the way. as a guy, i know that many...no....the majority of guys are in relationships for there own personal gain..