text: im turning 14. what would be a good idea for a birthday party? dont suggest something cheesy, im not turning 9. 1) go to a roller skating rink and get some pizza, ice cream, cake, and soda...bring a digital or polaroid and make some memories with friends...and go at night...therefore it has a more grown flirty effect and more teen. think jessica simpson's "public affair video"  2) bowling is fun too..  3) take a few of your friends shopping with you...  4) house party...go easy though..if you have restrictions with guys-then only gilrs..a girls nighting then. well have some chips and good music later on some other grub pizza-cake..some innocent fun games..try twister, truth or dare, karaoke, dance battling...even make up party games..or have a trivia about you..see which one of ur friends know you the best  5) laser tag is cool too, grab some guys and girls make it a boys vs.girls type thing...flirty competition.  6) movies very casual take a few friends see a movie  7) ice skating...be total chick get your gal pals and learn to ice skate with them..falling down is the fun part...bunch of laughs-unforgettable moments and all..bring a throw away camera though for this event.  8)depending on where you live or whats near you-you can always do a family fun center like: espn center dave and busters jillians  for arcade fun,great food, and cool scenery to keep you pumped the whole night through.   9) a very hip restaurant. like planet hollywood hard rock cafe  those places are pretty hott for bdays...there packages are cool.  10) if you live near the beach-rent out a beach house..it's kinda of cold i know..but the ocean view never gets old and you can have an all nighter with all your friends.good music..madd food and madd gifts  11)slumber parties never get old  12)road trip witht he family and bring a friend along..just go visit a different state..it should be fun!  13) go to a pizzaria that allows you to make your own pies..thats fun!  14) mini golfing  15) go carting  16) haunted mansions are a thrill of fun  17) go all childish and hit up build a bear  18) take your friends to a craft shop you guys can design t-shirts, hats,pants, ect. valuable keeps.  19) go see a sports game if your a sporty chick. whether it be a local college game, or a major league one.  20) hold a modeling party..get star struck- lets say everyone draws a peice of paper from a hat which holds a celebrity..welll who ever each person gets is who they have to dress up as...before each person reveals there celebrity play a game of sharades to figure our who's who. then play dress up just make sure you have the right props for this activity. take pics.  21) have a hawiian party- yupp in the fall..it can be held where ever..play a hott game of limbo with some hilarious consequences lets say losers have to___(you feel in the blank) you can give out lais and have fruit salads and pineapple pizza. have some cool reggae music..like seanpaul and you can even find a local dance instructor in your area to teach you how to hula dance.  22) you can have some friends come over and you guys can just hang out and make a cake together for you.  23) helicopter ride!  24) rent out a hockey rink..play hockey!  25) take your friends and learn some kung fu for the day..it'll be mega fun and once your done learning..do some battling..catch it on camera, go home, have pizza watch rush hour, cake then watch what you guys recorded during lessons.  26)be a gymnast..some gymanstics arena's have birthday parties there. you guys can jump on trampolines and learn cool stunts.  27) batting cages are fun.  28) go to a concert  29) have a spanish feist..play reggaeton..have spanish food..flan as ur cake. pinatas(sp) a little oldschool but it will be cool. you can even get instructors to teach you tango, salsa, bachata, ect.  30) take your friends to a dance school to learn how to belly dance. she'll teach you the basics then a routine then you guys can record it eat cake and watch the how it came out.