text: how can i tell my best friend he is i don't want him to come to visit me? he has being my best friend for 6 years i love him but now i have a baby and he wont even ask me how she is doing that realy makes me mad because my baby is everything to me now i live in an other city 3 hours away from where he lives and he wants to come and stay for a weekend i dont know what to do i miss him but he dont undresstand me anymore and iam always put my baby frist. he probably ignores a baby because baby is not his. and he wishes he had had baby wih you. :)