text: how do you seduce a man? assuming he is a heterosexual man (i ask for educational purposes only!) this is an odd question because every woman has her own way of approaching and seducing men. we each come into this as we grow and mature and gain confidence in ourselves.  i for one am one confident female. i often give stares, and mysterious smiles and when he approaches i shoot him down before he knows what hits him. i'm blunt and brutal and many guys find me a challenge. i can hang with the boys, and i can sit and trade insults with the best of them. many guys find me intriguing because i am both tomboy and girlie girl. they attempt ot pursue and i laugh them off. before long he's working towards something he doesn't even know about. thats how i meet him, grab his attention and once i turn on my charm i've won him.   but thats my way, and its taken years to develop. i don't even know why i am how i am, but its the way i behave 24&#92;7 and it makes men flock to me.