text: my friend's guy...? one of my really good friends has this boyfriend---we'll say his name is chase. anyway, at first me and chase didn't get along and were always arguing. now we get along better, and are actually friends. lately i've been noticing some flirtation from chase and this afternoon i was talking to him just the two of us, and he moved really close to me and i seriously thought he was going to kiss me. i pulled away really fast and ran up the steps and out the door. i swear i was'nt trying to lead him on... i have no idea what happened!!! hi, i personally would not tell my friend.  i hate to be the bearer of bad tidings, and sometimes friends don't believe you(don't want to believe it themselves.) you know that old saying, "kill the messenger"?  what i would do however, is stay away from her boyfriend and not put myself in a situation where the two of you were alone.  if he continues to come on to you, out of loyalty to your friend, i would tell him what he is doing is not acceptable to you.  your poor girlfriend.  it is just a matter of time before she sees through him.