text: i need help. my sister is 14 and she wants to get married? ok my little sis has a crush on this boy who’s 15 and he wants a wife. we’re muslim so in our religion there would just be a small ceremony tho not recognized by the states. we are not to have sex before marriage and i feel that this is the reason that he wants to marry. she doesn’t even know him but she saw him and ever since now she wants to marry him. also she has not spoken to her mother or my dad (they’re married) about this. she is only discussing it with the boys’ mother. she needs to be sure that this is actually what she wants but i guess she doesn’t pay me much attention because now she has been talking to the boy (she didn’t tell me so i think she knows what’d i’d say)and she still hasn’t talked to the parents.not telling our parents is showing her immaturity in this matter.. i don’t wanna have to tell our parents but it is looking like that is what i am going to have to do. we are both born/raised americans. i am gonna talk to her tonight so i need all the help i can get. yeah i agree that the parents need to know. she is only 14 and does not know what marriage really means at that age. girl tell your parents now! she will be mad but eventually she'll get over it. for her not t tell your parents that says something in itself. sorry but she is a minor and parents have to know this information.