text: he likes me what to do pls read...? i have a friend since chiled hood he was very close to me till iwent to study abroad then when icame home after i met him many times he told me he loves me and he want me to make love to him but i dislike this type of relations i'm a man and he olso at lest he looks like a man in my eyes and i want only the love to my wife not for him pleas help i dont want to heart him also. i had the same situation w/a girlfriend and i am female.  i told her the truth that i wasn't interested in being that way or even experimenting. just be honest and tactful and tell the truth about how you feel....you care about him but are not interested in those type of relationships.  you just want to remain friends but that if that were going to be a problem for him then you will understand if he can't be friends with you. it may hurt him too much to be friends and see you but not 'be' with you.  so be understanding and hope he will be too.