text: is it true guys are always looking for the next best thing... (supermodels)?  and that's why they won't commit   no, we aren't all looking for the next best thing, just scared to hell, we might make a mistake, and end up divorced. it's also being commintment phobic. nothing to do with the girl you are dating at the time. but when she starts to talk about marriage, it can scare the hell out of a guy, if he isn't ready to commit.