text: how should i feel? i was getting over my ex and then met up with him and had an amazing time? we broke up in september and 10 days later i spent a weekend with a great guy. we just kissed and slept next to eachother and it was a great break for me after all the drama with my ex who i have known for 6 years now (long distance relationship). i had left him for someone else 2 years ago when i didnt feel the same and i can never understand why i hurt him when i really love him. last week we met up in same town, we live 9000 kms apart, and he obsessively called n wanted to meet up. we spent an amazing night together and there were talks of what next when i knew it wouldnt work. he was into it again and he hacked into my email for some odd reason!! he read an email to my best friend about my weekend with that guy after our break up and set up this entire scene trying to ask me to marry him just to then read this email to me! thank god i said one day but not so soon! its completely over and instead of being happy about it i dont know why i feel sad! i am lost! yeah, he's not over it either.  if you want to get over him, you have to cut off all contact, at least until you feel like you don't want to see him anymore. it's probably going to be longer since he still has feelings for you too.  and if you were talking about what to do next but you know its not going to work, i wouldn't even put in the effort.  if you think it won't work it won't.  i think you're just sad cuz you hurt his feelings, because you know it wouldn't work out anyway.  just move on.