text: is it right to have a boyfriend who's in tha 5th grade and your in tha 8th grade? that's what happened to a classmate of mine when i was in tha 5th grade. this girl knew she was in tha 8 th grade and she fell in love with a boy in tha 5 th grade. they went out for 2 whole years! and then tha boy finally said hat it was too humilating for him and they were never seen togrther ever again.so i want to know is that right? caus e i'm really confused. maybe someone in 5th grade should instead be playing with forts and baseball?