text: my wife and i, have a past of having other partners, she is making my life a living hell for that, what to do? i have known my wife for practically all of my life, but i have been married to her for 4 years.  we have had other relationships before, we both are 24 years old, i know that she had a long relationship with this other guy that she started screwing since she was 15, i have been a man and said nothing to her about that relationship because i "love" her and that wouldnt be right.  she recently found out that i had a similar relationship and now i cant get her off my back... she insults me in front of other people, she screams at me for no reason, she tells me that she hates me, and that she is going to stay with me because she wants to make my life a living hell... what i am bumed about, is that whatever we had in our pasts is past, or should i also start bitching at her for screwing that guy for that long before she married me?? i dont know what to do should i just try and play along to save my marriage....  