text: he has sex with another woman bcoz i choose to wait to sleep with him? i'm currently dating this guy. he really is a great guy and we have this connection that came so naturally between us. i like everything about him except that he seems to be so needy of sex. i on the other hand choose to keep my dignity and wait until we're married before getting in bed with him.  he tells me he will respect that however to satisfy his needs for the time being he thinks there's nothing wrong with having casual sex with someone else only to "release the pressure" and nothing more.  i really really like him and i think he's worth it but i'm not sure what to do with his need-to-have-sex problem. i would greatly appreciate any advice.  thanks. girl,........kick that one to the curb! you deserve better. you said you have your dignity which i believe to be true but wheres your dignity with this situation? dump him.