text: i have a date with my frnds this sat& i'm not allowed.if i don't my frnds'll think i'm a dumbo.what do i do? my frnds r all gals. i have'nt told my parents about this yet. are you being grounded ?  or, do they not know your friends or don't like you friends ?  if  it because your parents don't know that you're having a girls night out, then tell them that it's just the girls.  if they still say no, then tell the friends that you have a cousin who is getting married.  go window shopping for the outfit with them.