text: should i feel upset that my husband gets his hair cut by his x wife? im not a jealous person by nature, so when im taken by the green eyed moster...its really ugly. i think what im feeling is jealousy or something... im very upset that he is letting her cut his hair tho. we bought a hair cut kit for at home so i could cut his hair (did this 2 years ago) and i've cut it every time since then. well, he wants to get his hair cut before thanksgiving and i wont be home. i could do it tomorrow night, but not till then. but when his x started cosmetology school 5 months ago, i told him then that it would bother me if she cut his hair, so if i ever couldnt cut his hair, to go somewhere else (not her). so then... he schedules an apt to go there at her salon...and get his hair cut. and then proceeds to tell his x that i dont want her cutting his hair! that just makes me so much more mad! im so mad i could scream!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! am i wrong..??? no, you're not wrong. unless hers is the only salon in the radius of 100 miles, he should respect your wishes, and go elsewhere. there's no hard feelings between myself and my ex, but i would never ask him to do a house remodel for my husband and i (he works in construction). this would be in bad taste; there are plenty of other contractors out there.