text: what do you do when you have a man and your not happy? when he states that he loves you but the love that you once had is now gone. love constantly evolves it is never what it once was. it is like you constantly adapting, changing. it does not mean the same thing or even fell exactly the same. you fall in and out of love. there are fights, you do stupid things it is hard to let go of things. love is a verb and requires constant attention. showing you love each other and want to make it work are vital. the grass is always greener on the other side, and you may experience alot of the same problems. i have been with one woman for 6 years ansd i think i am in love with her more now than ever, even though less than a week ago i aske the same question. good luck, you will need it.