text: is this really bad? how bad do you think it is to get with a boy who has a girlfriend even if you really hate her and don't get on with her? it's bad for everyone. bad for her, even if you don't like her you should have some basic human decency.  it's bad for him because he's a cheater and cheapening himself & the two of you.  it's bad for you because you're the other woman, you're a cheater along with him. & you could never trust him. the saying "if they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you" is true. if someone lacks integrity then you can never count on them to be honest or faithful. do you really want to be with someone like that? quite frankly you don't have much integrity if you're wiling to be in this situation either. so why would he want to be with you? or maybe you're both a-holes & you deserve each other...  sorry i get angry about infidelity. it's wrong. it's cowardly. tell him if he doesn't love his girlfriend & wants to be with you then grow a set of balls & dump her before he starts seeing you. that's the proper way to do it, for those of us who have a conscience.  good luck.  this attack of conscience & morals has been brought to you by amp, girl campaigning for an honest tomorrow!...