text: is it better to just love rather than to be in love? if you were in a commited relationship with someone you love and you met someone else you that you fell "in love" with , what do you do with those feelings? well if that is the senario, see how compatible u are in both the realtionship, relationship is not all just about commitment, its about how compatible you are with each other and thats what you'ld love each other for.