text: should i go for the guy? there is this guy at the college i am going to next year and i live next to and go to all the time for basketball games.  this guys plays basketball and plays guitar and is totally amazing.  i also play basketball and sing in a band.  he seems like the perfect guy for me and the funny thing is that i think he likes me too cause he stares at me all the time.  the one problem is that he has a girlfriend.  they don't seem very into each other though.  should i flirt with him?  or should i back off because he has a girlfriend? well if you really like this guy then you should wait for him!! never break up a relationship!!