text: ebay problem with a seller-advice please? i bought tickets for a stage show from ebay on tuesday night. the seller had listed in her description that the tickets had not yet been delivered to her, but she had a confirmation that they're on their way and would send this to the winning bidder. i haven't received the confirmation so i haven't yet paid. by this morning i'd already had two rude messages from her sent through ebay, saying that she has sent the confirmation to me already, she wont send it again, and that she will relist the item as she cannot afford to wait for me!  i've been using ebay for years and i always thought the buyer was allowed three days to pay? this seller has very low feedback, although they're all positive and all for tickets.  am i right to be wary of her? or should i pay without seeing the confirmation? any advice would be appreciated, thank you. i would wait.  notify ebay of what is going on so that they too are informed.  and it is rude of the seller to be hounding you.  it sounds to me as if the seller might need your money to pay for the tickets themselves.