text: how do you go from seeing someone to being in a committed relationship? how do you go about asking about being exclusive? just let it happen naturally is how.  if it's meant to be that's what it will turn into....and will do so w/o you really realizing it.  just enjoy getting to know him and take it slow.  i know that can be hard to do when you really like someone but taking it slower and getting to know eachother will build a much more solid relationship.  just because you've not had some big talk too doesn't mean he's seeing someone else. who says he's dating around?  bet you have nothing to worry about! don't dare try to have that "talk" either.  just let him do the chasing and have fun with you're together.  if you start hinting/asking him about being exclusive you're gonna not only get on his nerves but drive him away as well.  just let nature take its course....live and enjoy!