text: i need some advice? i have a question. this fellow co-worker and i have been hanging out at work a lot. we email each other all through out the day. funny emails, just to make each other laugh. i am really attracted to her but i don't know if she is with me. everytime i go into the break room she follows me. we start talking and joking around. a couple of times we've hung out after work, going shopping. i've noticed a couple times she's called me babe. i've never had someone call me that before. to be honest i like it. yesterday we were at the store looking at pop trying to decide what to get when she walked up to me and put her elbow on my shoulder and said what she wanted and then called me babe again. she has said she had an ex-boyfriend and as we were walking by this one guy she said he had a nice smile. but when she was told he thought she was cute she said she was totally not interested. she doesn't want to date. r u a girl?