text: when i have sex with my boyfriend, i urinate when i have a big orgasm is that normal? and is there any home remedies that can stop that because when i do that it ruins the mood,  i just need this answered real quick...plz help me relax my dear for you have just expierenced female ejaculation.  many women expirence this and most are not aware of it but it is caused from the g spot being stimulated.     the released fluid is not urine but an alkaline liquid secreated by the paraurethral glands. the paraurethral glands produce an enzyme called prostatic acid phosphate and glucose.  these substances are found in much higher quantities in female ejaculate than in urine. the fluid from the paraurethral glands is released during orgasm as a result of pelvic muscle contractions. this occurs from stimulation of the g spot.   so relax and let the juices flow.  for more information about the g spot check out  www.the-clitoris.com.