text: my friend thinks shes pregnant bt she would be dead literally what should she do? i dont live near her anymore away at collage she is still in highschool 1 year to go i cant be there to help her what is the best thing for her to do with no support wow.. this is huge... whatever decision she makes is one that she will have to live with forever.  having a baby is a life, long commitment... and, terminating the pregnancy can be hard... she needs someone to talk to.. the biggest deal.. support her in whatever she does..  now that you have said that she does want to continue with the pregnancy-- i would still say to encourage her to--- if you guys are very young-- she just needs to prepare herself for the hard road--- finishing school will be harder (but not impossible!!!)-- the stress will be overwhelming (but, there are ways to deal)-- and she needs to remember that there are no vacations-- it is what it is-- the love that she will have for this baby will be like no other she has ever felt... there will be days that she will feel like she has made a mistake-- then she will hear " i love you mommy!"-- and it is all better... be strong!!  it will not be easy!!  good luck!!!