text: why does it seem like nice men always come in last? it just seems to me that nice men always comes in last on the dateing scene. hi kenneth, i know what you mean.  i am a nice woman and put try to take advantage all the time...i mean actually i am a converted bitch!  i decided being a bitch wasn't good...i am now respectful; of all things, being a wiccan.  but so many idiots try to take advantage so i put magickal shields around me ...it bounces off me and goes back on them!   the other thing is that so many women say they want a nice guy but are attracted to the proverbial "bad boys."  its time ladies to take stock of that!  the bad boys are going to be bad to you too...eventually, not at first while they're still lusting strong for you...but after a few years of marriage...you go way down on their list!  ladies you need to rationalize that and give up that bad boy attraction.  when i did, i began to recognize all those wonderful loving nice guys around...previously they were invisible to me.  then i married one great nice sweet guy...not a bad guy...but a really nice one.  and we live happily ever after now more than 11 years!  try it you'll like it.  i think it is all part of our cultural stuff here.