text: how do i get my dad to spend more time with me? my dads girlfriend wont let himd o anything without her! therefor they never do anything and it makes me want to not spend time with my dad.but when they do do stuff she always makes sure im not there and its really p***ing me off. i never see my dad anymore cause i cant stand her. well first of all  tell your dad  i  undestand  u are wiyth  blah blah blah now  but dad  i  would  like it  if u can spend at least this  saturday  with me  just u n me   , and  let her know as well  tell her  hey  im glade   my  dad  makes  u happy  and   u make him happy  but  i would  like some  time  with  my dad  without  u   , another thing  if   your dad   is  like on a visitation type schedule   or what ever   joint custody  , then  tell your  mom  and  let her talk  to  him alone   or even  with u  , your  mom dont have to let the new  gf  in the  house  but  it will look beter  if she does  , another thing  u can also  have your  mom  contact the courts   adn if  u r  old  enough  u can  make a reasonabl  request that  your dad spends  at least  one day out  of the month   with u and  only u  but  dont make  it more than  that one day