text: my boyfriend complains that i'm not attracted to him anymore? he's gained a lot of weight bc he started eating tons of junk food & stopped exercising. he's also growing his hair long & it looks really bad on him. i loved the way he looked before - he was so hot when he was thinner & had short hair!  he knows i don't like his long hair. and he knows that he's gained weight & is unhappy about it. yet he refuses to do anything to change it. he won't exercise & continues to eat tons of junk food.  and he won't cut his hair bc he likes it long. yet he keeps whining & crying about how i'm not as attracted to him now as i used to be.  it's true that i used to be a lot more attracted to him than i am now. i don't rub this in his face; in fact i rarely mention it. but i guess he can sense it.  how can i get him to stop whining & complaining?  he could easily cut his hair, so isn't it his own fault? it's like if i didn't shower for a year & then cried when he said i smelled. you're not supposed to cry about it when it's your own fault, right? "... it's like if i didn't shower for a year & then cried when he said i smelled ..." - good one! lol  seriously, your man may be facing serious issues right now that may have caused this 180 degree turn in his lifestyle.  help him cope up with things rather than telling him to get a hair cut.  once personal issues have been resolved, then he just might bounce back and look even hotter than before.  don't be the girl that dumped her man just because he wasn't cute anymore ;)