text: too late to have wedding? my husband and i have been together for 6 years, married for almost one, and have a one year old child. we are in our early 20's and our parents(neither of whom have ever been married) said that we didn't need a wedding. we are both in university still, so we couldn't afford a wedding on our own. we had a courthouse wedding, but feel as though we were robbed of such a wonderful celebration with friends and family. is it too late for us to have a wedding?? you weren't "robbed" of a wedding. you chose not to have a large wedding and reception. giving yourself a wedding now -- after a year and a child -- is just tacky. why not give yourself a first anniversary party instead?