text: i have a girlfriend who won't talk to me should i leave? i'm dating this girl who has depression problems but talks to everyone else. she never talks to me about what's wrong. should i break up with her? i can't stand to see her upset and not be able to do anything about it. have you asked her about her not talking to you?  maybe you should give it some time, maybe a few weeks, and try talking to her about it. ask her what's wrong and why she doesn't want to talk to you about it.   i think, maybe, if you keep trying and things don't improve, you might consider breaking up with her. but who knows, maybe she's ashamed or something and doesn't want to tell you? it's hard to say when you don't know what's wrong with her and how she's feeling about whatever it is.  i say keep trying, but don't be too pushy, and think about it some before you make your final choice.