text: why do somr people like to sit and talk about their boyfriends when they dont really like them at all????????? my friends do it all the time how do i cope with that? i think there are certain people in the world that live solely for complaining. if there isn't something causing drama in their lives, they make some up; and if they can't make some up, they're unhappy. ask them,"i can tell you don't like the guy, why are you with him?", odds are she'll say something like,"oh, he's not so bad."  or you may cause her to rethink her situation.