text: you did something you were ashamed of, do people forget after time? got drunk and did something bad, how long is it gonna take them to forget if your action consisted in getting on your knees and giving a b  job to the bartender in front of all the patrons of the bar... i may conclude the following :  if your were that good, chances are that he and they may never forget  if you were bad, relax, he does not even remember your name..  take care and remember to do it safely..whatever we may guess it was..