text: what is the best revenge for an ex husband debt beat dad that wants to make your life as a single mother hell!   hire a private detective to set him up and find out stuff he does that may be illegal blackmail him get him fired at work go back to court and make him pay more or get him arrested for not paying get a restraining order on him and ask the judge if you are going to just be another statistic of abused and dead wives because he is a mean ex-husband.