text: is it ok if ur son is playing w/ ur bf new bf? i have a one yr old son. his dad is having a gf right now. we're not married so its ok for me if he have a gf right now coz i know i dont have the right. i told my ex-bf that while i am alive and my son doesnt know how to decide her new gf cannot play nor touch my son. is it ok? do u think im so rude? you cant stop the new girlfriend from playing with your son if he is visiting dad...even the courts would say you cant say anything about it unless there is abuse going on...