text: okay boys, whats the difference between a girl you want to get to know ...? and a girl you want to just have sex with.. ie persontality, looks, status..? the answers where other have stated what is the difference is not far off to what the true answer is.   initially, most guy has  the urge to get laid but as they get older they should start to change.  remember that me are visual creatures and women are more verbal creaturs.  as you get older men want start to change.  i think your question can not be truely answered due to every man is different and do not all want the same things such as sex (yes, it is true all men are not male chovanist pigs).  i think the best answer to your question is that if you have a conversation with a guy and he calls and or continues to show interst then your traits are what he is looking for.  i personally enjoy a woman that can have fun and is strong willed due to i do not want a woman whom i have to babysit and reassure her that she has self worth because i do not have time to that but other guys may want to have a girl that they want to baby and to be the provider.