text: what to do? i have a b/f (im bi)... in the middle of our relationship i started thinking more and more about chicks. everything was cool when we first started going out but now i seem to be just way more interested in chicks :( we barley have sex or do n e thing n e more...beause of me. any ideas why? maybe i unconsciously felt bored in my relationship and need exitment or maybe im gay? please help. rude people stay away! it sounds like the relationship just isn't working out. it happens. people change, get interested in different things, no big deal. if you feel you are ready to, end the relationship and try dating other people.