text: how can i tell my boyfriend that we should come back when i have call off the relationship? we have been together for 3yrs now, but suddenly due to sometime problems between us; i call off the relationship. it is because he has not shown he really want the relationship to growth more than what is has been. and also he does things concerning our relationship to please his parents and siblings inrespect of his own feelings. and everyday its so hard for me to get him out of my mind. i love him with all my heart. i have to bitter say that life is about being responsible to what you have said. you call it quit, then you should consider if he's worth for you to call him again or not.  but whatever the reason of your break up, 3 years is not a short time. a lots of feeling, love, time and life consideration already involved during this period. i think if both of you could call it off easily then this is not a good relationship you should bet for. break up after 3 years relationship will need more than just that.  another advise: to love somebody is to accept every aspects of his life. if you can't, then stop thinking of him and move on with your life. you can change people but yourself.