text: what should i do about her? my best friend is the biggest flirt.she would flirt with guys she doesn't even and after she said that she was playin around.she would seem so into it though.most of the guys were the ones i was dating.but the main thing is that i think she was so determined to steal them away from me.i never let it get to me until one night we were with this guy that i really liked(and he liked me but we weren't together).but it was a lil cold out and she had a sweater that she refused to wear.she went right up to the guy and put her hands in his sweater pockets and left me to talk to his brother and friends.it's not that i didn't trust her but i kept lookin back at her and him.since he wasn't doin anythin with her she grabbed his hands and held them in his pockets.he was drunk so he went along with it.when that happened i left.she ran after me and said she was only doin it to ask him questions for me. she's about a year younger than me and the guy was too old for her.should we stop bein friends? in my opinion, your "friend" is just searching for attention, albeit negative.  something must not be right in her life (ie. no father figure in the picture) because she sounds desperate for a "man's" acceptance. sit her down and tell her how you feel. it's not just her "doing you a favor", she's being self-destructive.