text: why do people judge you before they know all the facts? i only got out some of the problem. i read a mean message from a person answering my question. i know online dating is wierd but we was going to meet but i got hurt got sent into the hospital thats when he cheated on me so i canceld the trip.  so im not on a crazy train ....so why are there mean people in here send a answer that hurts why? 1st thing mean stuff you shouldn't even read. people do this to make themselves feel better, like, "oh ha-ha i told him/her/them off see i'm cool they're not!" but the only thing is they may seem so to themselves but how long does it last? i mean can anybody remember what you typed into a yahoo answer box that made you feel sooo cool a week later? or the next day. nah this is human nature...  http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/