text: i dont know what to do? i really like this girl and she likes me but we are still on shaky ground. how do i make it less tense? try hanging out with eachother more so you will get to no eachother more and eventually feel more comfortable around eachother. of course at first you will both be nervous, but just loosten up go one step at a time. your first step should not be only with her go to the movies with her and 2 other friends. that way it will be less tense because it wont just be the 2 of you. then the next time you can go somewere together alone. eventually you will feel more comfortable. dont wry!   plz choose me as best answer!