text: i am going on my second date with a really nice guy but i don't want anything serious, should i tell him?   i disagree with everyone else who's answered.  you don't need to tell him this on the second date - just go out and have fun and don't stress.  then if you still feel this same way at the end of the second date, you can just hint at not being interested in a third date and if he can take a hint he'll probably appreciate that you didn't come out and crush his pride.