text: what is your opinion about "outing" someone who is gay or lesbian? "outing" is revealing someone's sexual preference to other people or the public at large without their knowledge or consent.  i have to write a brief paper for a sociology class on this subject. i know what my opinions are regarding "outing" people; though, i am very interested in knowing what other people think or feel about this process.  some things to think about—for instance:  *is it ok to "out" someone if they are living a hypocritical life? [if they are secretly engaging in homosexual activities while publicly denouncing homosexuals.]  *is it ok to "out" someone because everyone has the right to know who is gay for their own protection? [in the interest of health, such as hiv concerns.]  *should people never be "outed" because they have the right to privacy and live their lives as they choose, just as everyone else?  thanks for your time and thoughtful answers. i think people have the right to privacy.  also to chose if they want to be a closet gay or open as it is a personal choice.  everybody has different standards of what they think is acceptable.  who are we to force our standards on someone else. although i would be very tempted to out someone who if they are living a hypocritical life.  if you are a closet gay, keep your mouth shut, otherwise you are asking for trouble.