text: why is it that two people can ask the exact same question - word for word ...? and others will say one is critical and negative, but treat the second one as being curious and intersted?   i'm not worried over it, defensive, or insecure. i'm just simply asking. i find it odd that so many people ask questions that are easily and more reliably answered by doing a regular web search. opinions are fun, but if they really want a true answer, this isn't often the right place to get one.