text: why do i have to deal with al these medical problems?   are you talking personal medical problems, or the ones asked in yahoo answers?  obviously, you can take yourself out of the yahoo link if these are the medical problems you are asking about.  i pressume the problems actually are yours personally, or belong to a friend or family member....correct?  the answer is you have to deal with life good and bad, because the alternative is death.  waking up each day is the first hurdle for everyone.  after waking up, we have a whole day of opportunies, some we make for ourselves and some life will hand to us whether we want them or not.  the opportunity may seem and act like a whammy, but we still have to get through it/them the best we can, go to sleep, wake up and start a new day.  like i said, the other choice is death and for most of us, this is a definate,  unacceptable choice....at least for today.  sometimes the best we can do is take one day at a time, or one hour at a time, or one moment at a time, get through it and face the next.