text: what should i tell her? last week i was down at the senior center,and this lady who is about my age that i've known for over 15 years asked me if me,and my husband would like to do some partner swapping? i thought it was the craziest thing in the world,but i don't want to hurt her feelings. should i tell her i don't wan to be friends anymore or should i try this partner swapping stuff? eewwww!!!!!!!!!!! some things are better kept private like in ur senior center!!!