text: hi rommies,gay and lesbian only answer please? what would your reaction be if when you told your mom you were  gay  and she had to go tell everyone she could think of that i was a lesbian    if i wanted that person to know,  i would have    told them  myself    p.s.she has a best  male   friend   who  is gay  and she never disrespected him like that ], i lost what little respect i had  left for her after that i dont believe it was  her position to tell anyone  its mine if i so choose to tell someone thanks for the help. let her know how you feel. if she continues to treat you like crap, move on. she's the one losing out.