text: is it rude when someone throws stuff onto your desk? at work, there is this woman that i work with who will sorta throw things onto my desk (past my outstretched hand if i see her coming) instead of handing me whatever pieces of paper, etc. she wants me to have.  i'm sitting right here at the desk most of the time.  i've even volunteered to take things from her pre-toss (so it doesn't smear everything on my desk around) but she doesn't get it.  lol.  i think it's weird and while not serious i am wondering if it's generally considerd rude to do this.  i would never interrupt someone like this. of course its rude, but shes trying something i refer to as being passive aggresive, try it back on her a few times. never let her see you sweat kiddo