text: can i please have some advice.......? i have met and fallen for a man online and he is 13 years my junior. my daughter is finding it very hard accepting that i would like to keep talking to him and eventually meet him (she's 13) she says she thinks i'm cradle snatching but i think there's a lot more to it than that. i'm really worried about this because i believe i've found my soul-mate. please give me some good advice, i don't know what to do. i think 13 years younger is a bit young  if you are 40 he is 27 & yeah he is far to young  you don't know what he is like ! & if your daughter is upset it is not worth it she is more important   wait until your daughter has grown up before you go out with men just put your energy into raising your child