text: i know this boy and he is really fun to be around and my friend said that we would make the prefect couple? and i think so to but he hasnt ask but we have kissed twice and we hold hands and i need so adive do yall think u could help i think you should not look into it deeply.  if you focus on the relationship aspect, you're going to ruin something good.  i think you should relax, go with the flow, and let things develop.    thinking about being a couple or any other relationship thoughts and analysis is a big nono right now.  you shouldn't talk about it.  you don't go up to your friend and analyse your friendship or even make any assertions such as "you're my best friend".  you do that only when things are down and people need encouraging or simply you evaluate your friendship if you have a "friend" that isn't really treating you like one.  the same can be said about relationships; when things are down or not going well, you have to start thinking where this is going.  most women with some sense think at some point if it's worth continuing on or just simply ending it just to avoid future problems.  don't do it yet, just go with the flow and see what happens.