text: what do i do if i am not gay but half of my friends are? i am sure i am not gay but the only problem is everywhere i turn, my friends are turning gay. i wouldn't think this to be a problem at all cause they are good friends, it's all cool with me but the problem is is that they all seem to have the hots for me. i am not sure how to handle this or what to say. everytime i see them they start to mess with me and do all this stuff like there all comeing on to me. everytime they bring up a conversation about this subject or something happens that starts to lead to a sexual area, i freeze and get really really nervous. not only do i start shaking from toes up but the nervousness gets so intense that it actually transforms into a fear and i start to get really scared. they know i am not gay but that isn't enough. what i am trying to say is how am i suppose to deal with a situation where half of my guy friends are suddenlly trying to get into my pants? this has been really bothering me and any sujestions as to what to do would really help. thanks i can understand your problem but if this matter bothers u so much then u need to talk to them coz this is your life and u need to deal with all this  i hope u understand and try to talk to them