text: why can't guys see the good in a girl even if she's fat??? even in high school????? ok,im very different then the 14 year old people in my high school.  i'm not skinny-mini, i'm ,the dreaded word, fat!!!!!!!!!!!!!  but, i am okay looking, but still, guys have never asked me out.  my freinds have b.f.'s and i dont. i mean, they'll be telling me sumthing about having a boyfreind,or being kissed, and they will say,"you know?"   but i don't!!    i mean, ive really tried to lose weight, dieting, and everything else, but it doesn't last for long..... i just need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! first things first, don't be dieting unless you are obese. if you're just overweight, it is a very bad time in your life to be doing that to your growing body.  second, since you're 14, you're probably a freshman. i have to say, you really don't need to be going out with guys right now. not only is it just too young, but guys are really not finding themselves yet, and until guys find themselves, they won't be able to see the beautiful, true you. i hate how it works, but i also strongly dislike shallow people and avoid them.  so basically, it is unlikely that there are many guys your age who can actually see behind the mask, which i know is a travesty but it's just what media does to us.  plus, having a boyfriend at this age, although is scattered with good times, is wrought with bad times and hurt feelings. just wait for a little while, and when the right guy comes along you'll know.  best of luck to you!