text: why do i get sooo jealous of girls who talk to my boyfriend? & its only with a few girls... its not like he's with girls all the time but why does it make me jealous? sometimes i feel like im seeing things that aren't there but i cant help myself. does anyone have any tips on how i can control my jealousy? because you don't have a very trusting relationship with your boyfriend!  you have to trust each other completly to be happy.  my man & i will sit at some places & he'll look at beautiful women & say wow she's hot & i'll agree with him (no, i'm not bi)...or i'll say wow he's amazing & he'll agree with me.  it's all about trust.