text: hi, i am in love with a boy from different caste & my parents r dam against us. wat to do? hi, i love a boy who is 28yrs & i m 25yrs of age. we both are from different city. he is from bangalore and a south indian and i am from goa. their caste,language is totally different from ours. i spoke to my parents bout our relationship but they are dam against it, we both love eachother diply and i reali dont want to hurt my parents & also dun want to hurt my love of life. my parents are against coz he does not have a proper job and i have a gud job. but for me money does not matter but love matters a lot, i reali dont know how to convience my parents, they are forcing me to stay unmarried but not to marry the person i love. i m reali in tense dont know wat to do to & wat step to tek. my boyfriends parents are very supportive to me. my parents are more worried of me coz they feel i choose a wrong person but my heart says i have got the right person whom i can spend the rest of my life.i dont know wat to do coz my parents wants me to marry a boy of their choice which i juz cant. questions like yours make me want to run outside and hang my american flag...{hang on..be right back}.......ok. your 25, good job, ???? move out!!  be with your 28yr old broke guy who doesn't speak your language..i know plenty of people that get married with less going for them than that.  it's your life you poor sweet thing. your parents will get over it...and if they don't.. you will. be happy!! good luck!!!         or, listen to your parents..marry some idiot you don't love, and be miserable the rest of your life and wonder...what if? the choice is easy.   oh, and one more thing..you'll get over that "money doesn't matter, love matters"  thing...maybe that's why his parents like you so much... they want the bum out of the house! {just kidding}.