text: is the way to win women over not to try and sleep with them? i met this girl and went over to her house. she said that i was trying to sleep with her and i was but since she said that i didnt want her to know that. so anyway i stayed the night that night cause we were both drunk and i kept to my word and didnt try to sleep with her but instead just held her. this type of thing continued for like a week and by the end of the week she seemed to really, really like me. so is the best way to get a girl to like you to not sleep with her? that's the best way to get her to be your friend. beyond that, i don't know.