text: is it wrong to be with a guy who treats me nice, but the action in bed is lacking? i told him what i think is exciting but he think  yuck i wouln't do that. but he is so good with me and the two kids which he is not the father.  sometime i wonder if he is gay. nice men is rare, maybe he's just conservative. you can teach him step by step so your sexual relationship will be more exciting. teach him too to be open-minded.