text: i love 3sums but my boyfriend says they are bad for a relationship. is that true? how do i make it work out? is wanting my boyfriend to eat girls out with me bad for our relationship? why do i want to do it? does it make me a masocist or low confidence? does he really want to and is just pretending that he doesnt? i dont want to be with other guys just him and girls.. doe he think i want ohter guys because of this? thanks for your answers:)ps, what do you think it makes the girls think of me? no, it's actually good for your relationship. yes, he's lying when he says he doesn't want it. make it happen anyway, he'll thank you for it.