text: ejaculation time? some people say proper ejaculation time is three to four minutes after penetration some differ and say it isabou 20 to 25 minutes what is exact real time for a healthy man to ejaculate. it varies from time to time, i can come between 3 to 6 minutes or longer, if you want to last longer trying the hold and release method sometime can works too.before you come hold the base of your penis until it relaxes and go at it again keep trying that method repeatly.now also you let your girl or wife have her orgasm first then try this method or do it in between her orgasm that will make it last abit longer. if you want a quick and fast one then yeh 3 to 6 minutes is the average.sizes doesn't have to do with anything with orgasm.it all depends on your libido and mood.