text: married guy flirting...? i don't mind the flirting - but sometimes he talks about how his wife bugs him.  i can't tell if it's meant to be just a conversation or if he's trying to take it beyond flirting.  i was wondering how i can find out, because if he wants more than flirting, i'm going to back off. you need to back off...although, i don't think you are doing anything to cause him to behave this way. it is no longer innocent flirting when he chooses to complain about his wife to the woman he flirts with...keep a safe distance, i think he's trying to be a bit more than a flirt.