text: ok i have a question how do u get pass the whole online dating thing......? when you have finally met the guy that u think could be the one how can u get passed the if i meet him hes not going to talk to me ever again? realize you have a head start when you have already been talking to this person even if it is on line.  just walk in there and be yourself as i hope you have been while talking to him on line.  if you are then you have nothing to worry about.  if its your looks i hope you walk in there being proud of who you are because there was something about you that got him to the point of wanting to meet you.  relax and enjoy the time