text: why does the gay community have such a strong dislike for bi-sexual people? what if you truly like both sexes just the same?? why is that so wrong? like other people have stated, i don't think that the whole gay community thinks badly of bisexuals. those who do probably think in black or white, male or female, gay or straight. they probably feel that bisexuals are gays who use bisexuality as a way to still be socially acceptible because they can be out with members of the opposite sex, and yet in the privacy of their bedrooms, are sleeping with members of the same sex-the whole having your cake and eating it too. they also want to believe that these people are lying to themselves, of course it doesn't help when there are a large amounts of married people who are looking for a same sex lover when their husband or wife is away. and the rise of bi-chic girls-the type of girls who make out with each other when at clubs/parties/ on videos such as girls gone wild, or the  "i'm 100% straight male, until i'm drunk and horny, then whatever is available" guys, they don't quite paint bisexuals in the best light.  there is nothing wrong with bisexuality, love is love no matter who is it with. the things that make you sexually attracted to a woman is completely different than those that make you attracted to a man. i think as long as you and your partner/partners have no problem with your bisexuality, then you have no problem at all, and never mind those people who don't understand about you, straight or gay!