text: ok...my boyfriend has chatted to females online and has a strong porn habit. other than counseling any suggest he doesn't apologize to me about it, he's apologized to the other girl though. he secretly downloads porn. we have a family together, 2 girls. i love him. we start couples counseling in 2 weeks. you should research other people that have problem with porn such as kanye west and kirk franklin. see how they dealt with this addiction and what helped them through that time.