text: bf is silent during sex!!!! am i pleasing him?? a little embarassing but it has never happened with previous boyfriends. i make noise coz i'm excited and it feels good. no matter what i do, he never makes a sound!! he says he enjoys it, but how do i know? he stays silent during the whole thing, even oral. is it just the way he is or does he not enjoy being intimate with me? anyone else experience this or does anyone have any advice? i would love to know if he's enjoying it and getting into it. i just want to hear a moan!!! any advice would be welcome. thanks!! crikey, look at the amount of interest this question is having.  nah, he's probably too overcome by pleasure, that he's dumb struck.   it's working well, ain't it? why fix it? at least you have an unsual thing in your sex life. many people don't even have half as good sex as you do.  he says he enjoys, good, do you? if yes, count your lucky stars.  one day when you're old, you can tell your grand-daughters of "the adventures of the silent sex partner".