text: husband &i are going to grave site of our daughter tomorrow as her gravestone was put in last wed.? what do i expect?i know i will cry alot.we are taking flowers etc.her daughter age 10 doesn't want to go so we will take her when she is ready someday.our only daughter was 32 when she passed in jan.her 4 brothers haven't gone there yet to cementary. my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. i kow how hare it is, may 31 will be the one year anniversry of loosing my infant son. it will eventually get easier, just remember that she is in a better place and with our father. don't try to force her daughter to go. she is still greving in her own way. i also have a daughter, almost 5, she still talks about "her" baby all the time.