text: let me rephrase the questionbefore my best friend is gay and his parents wont except what should he do ???? please answer sorry for the confusion before ^_^ .... not from the us our terms are a bit different!!!! not all parents accept what their kids want.  you friend has to do what he wants.  if he keeps following what his parents want, he'll never be happy.  you just be there for him, as it seems you have been.  sounds like you're a very good friend, and that's exactly what he needs right now!