text: what to do found great guy but stuck on my x? just got divorced meet a great guy dont know what to do  and i am at the point in my life where i want a baby o my goodness ...guess we are in the same boat huh.....i found a new great guy but i cant get my old one of my mind...i asked this ? about a few days ago and i got an anwser back saying to for get the memories and focus on the new guy dont do the same to the new guy as  you are doing to yourself..i dont know if thats any help to you but,it kinda made me think that i am bring my new boyfriend down wit me and its not fair to him...just think about it ...take some time out for your self think let  everything lose erase your memories with the old guy and start with the new guy...i am not saying it is going to be easy but,as i learned if you really love the new guy then the old guy should not really matter ...memories are hard to let go and you dont have to let them all go just the ones that are standing in the way of the new guy and you......i mean common if you are like me and dated your old guy for 2 years.you would have memories to... anyway i hope i helped a lil bit considering that i am in the same possition....good luck to ya girly...... mack