text: have you helped any orphan or disabled children recently?   a few days back i was ask'd to help a cousins boy friend. the kid needed help putting a sound system in his car, so i said ok. to the conterary he had no clue what so ever about what i was trying to teach him, then later that night i was told this kid never had a father.............and my heart sank......so the following day i contacted him and had him get every thing we would need to get the ball rolling on this sound system, and to my amazment he got every thing i said we'd need. later that night i spent some 5 hours showing him not only how this task was done and doing it too, but i even had the chance to teach him a few basic mechanics on his car, even greater, this was all taking place in my father in-laws garage then he came out when we ran into a slight problem during the wiring proccess and saved the day, this floored me so emotionaly, by the time i got home and had a chance to reflect i balled like a little baby for hours! it was that great to of tought some one some thing for free and to have my father in-law come out in the middle of it and just jump right in and lend a hand was such a break through for all of us........tramendus is the only word i can use to discribe this whole ordeal...........and mam this only happend with in the last 24 hours. and ironically the last answer i gave before resopnding to your  was regarding some else needing help with there car audio system.