text: how do i deal with his baby's mama drama??? my boyfriend has 2 kids with 2 different moms. 1 of them, i am fine with. the other, she had him falsely arrested for domestic violence last october because he told her he didn't want to be with her, he just wanted to see the kid. he spent 3 weeks in jail during the trial and was found not guilty. she has a restraining order against him and he can't contact her to see the kid. taking her to court for visitation. no contact since october, but suddenly, she reappeared last week. he has been meeting her so he can see his kid (even though there is restraining order). she will not leave kid with him. she still wants him and i know he doesn't want her, but i worry because she uses the kid as bait and dangles it over his head, and she does this successfully. meanwhile a) i am scared he will say the wrong thing and she will have him arrested and b) i don't like him hanging out with her all the time. am i jealous, out of line, or justified in telling him i can't take it anymore!!! he needs to go back to the family court and request that the visitation order be modified to include either a neutral party delivering the child to and from visitation or that the child be exchanged at a neutral location, like the local sheriff or police station...it's the only way to enforce the visitation order without the constant fear of her pulling some kind of bs.