text: if you are 24, would 45 partners be considered alot? hypothetically?   i got married at 21....and lost my virginity at 16.  in that time i slept with over 50 men.  i'm not proud of what i did....but i'm not ashamed either.  i always took the proper precautions, and have never had a disease; and only one unwanted pregnancy(which i miscarried at 7 weeks).  i have never hid my past from any of my partners, nor have i felt a need to.  as soon as my husband and i started dating i told him straight out how many partners i'd had, he doesn't have any issues with it, so why should i?