text: what planet should i look for when thinking about romantic relationships? i always thougt venus was the planet of lovebut then an astrology site told me that mars is the planet that talks about the opposite sex.so,which planet will determine my romantic relationships?(i included my birthchart,in case it will help)  sun-pisces26degrees moon-aries5degrees ascendant-capricorn4degrees mercury-aries9degrees venus-aries27degrees mars-gemini21degrees jupiter-leo3degrees saturn-aquarius3degrees uranus-capricorn13degrees neptune-capricorn16degrees pluto-scorpio20degrees traditionally mars is the male and venus the female. a partner with his mars in leo or sag  and his venus in aries, leo or sag should be perfect. those planets also vibe well with some of your other important planets. you have a lucky chart for love.