text: wondering how it feels? this is more of an interactive question. if you are cheating or thinking about it, want to know how your spouse might feel when they find out. listen up.   interested in how everyone feels. wondering if my overwhelming feelings are normal.and maybe someone will read this and rethink their actions and how they affect the other people in their lives. tell your story. i found out that my fiance cheated on me and i was absolutely destroyed. i had a party at my house one night and we were all drunk. a couple of the guys i work with stayed over because they couldn't drive home. while i was sleeping, one of them talked my fiance into messing around with him. it was the worst feeling i have ever felt in my life. i felt betrayed, hurt... i can't even think of any words that can do my pain any justice. my fiance told me about it because she felt so bad when she realized what she did. i am a good enough guy and i loved her enough that i forgave her for it. after all, she was drunk and could not be held completely responsible. i could not be without her, i know now. most people would not have done the same thing that i did. being cheated on is the worst feeling in the entire world. if you are thinking about it, don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!