text: am living and working in my  hometown and hate it. should i move now or wait to see what my boyfriend? as i said, am living and working in my hometown and hate it.  have a boyfriend whose job is going to be up in june.  he doesnt know where hes going to head to in july.  am so ready to leave here, but dont know if i should. if you are thinking of moving someplace else to be with your boyfriend, i wouldn't recommend it. if you split up, you would suddenly be alone in a strange place. not a good situation.