text: does your dream really mean the opposite? i heard that if you dream that someone that your love one boyfriend g-f husbad whoever is cheating on you, then that they really means that they are really in in love with you.  here is more   birth-death cheating-love dying-birthand  we think, therefore we dream. not everyone is brought from the exact same way or culture, or environment. i think dreams are just compositions of various fractions of your mind.   things that are bottled up in your mind, things that bothered you, things that made you happy, anticipation of events etc, are the stuff that made up your dreams.   they are not premonitions of future events. they are like little sticky notes that remind you of things that you may have forgotten. thus, drive you to do things that you may not realise that they are necessary...  the mind controls our action. but we can control our mind by not letting our "destiny" be dictated by the contents of dreams.