text: going to fast? me and my boyfriend are really close and we are both moving to north carolina. we plan to meet and continue to date he we have had sex twice and i am only in jounior high do you think i am going to fast ineed some advice on what to do.he even said he wants to b my baby daddy what should i do. yes, you are going way too fast.  having a kid takes 100% of your time.. since getting my two year old sone, my wife and i have been out, alone, 4 times.. in 2 1/2 years.. wait untill your an adult to have a child.  enjoy life, travel see the world.. you will not be the same person in 10 years as you are now, and neither will he.   slow down before you screw up 3 lives.  -htj