text: what can i do to get my ex- girlfriend back? she hasnt really talked to me since we broke up i need to know how to break the ice and get things back like we had for a year and a half make sure you remember: you can't make someone like you. if you broke up, there is probably a reason - but then again, maybe times have changed, and back in the day you weren't compatible.........well maybe now you are compatible.  remember, you do have a history together, so don't go into this hoping "i want a relationship", go into this thing hoping to get a friendship out of this, get to know her again, then maybe you will start to date again.....i'm not gonna lie, most likely you won't get back together.  just try to talk to her and meet for coffee. that is the best way to do it. it sounds a little too easy, but that's the best way. but remember, if she doesn't want to....well then don't pursue it too much, or else you'll just get yourself hurt.