text: why is it so hard to let go of someone when you know they will never be who you need them to be...?? i just don't know how to let go, i keep trying but one little thing he says or does that gives me hope makes me let him back in as soon as i'm trying to move on.i know i can do better but i don't want to 'cause i still live him and i keep thinking he's not as bad as he could be.... u answered ur question...u love him...and when u love someone...u dont see the flaws...u see perfection...and although u are influenced by society as to which man is perfect...deep in ur heart u know that  ,u care for him that much...and if u have all reason to stay...stay and enjoy his love....but when it get to the point that u just feel pain and  hurt all the time...then u have to move on....