text: how can i convince my wife to le me go down on her.......? my wife loves when i go down on her. but i want to take it a step further and go further down to her "other hole" but she stops me. she admits that it feels really good, but doesn't like it cause it is too "weird". what should i do. i really enjoy doing that for her. i want to do anything that makes her feel good. gosh, i wish i had a man like you! well, i say just go for it as you have been doing, but don't stop when she says to do so. if it does feel too good, as i know it does, and you are enjoying doing that, she will eventually let up. slowly, she will (hopefully) just let you do more and more each time, until she feels so excited that she wont let you stop. good luck with that! :o)