text: i really need help !!!!? cause we had some problems, i sent an email to my boy f about my decision for our relation ( friendship or couple) and ask for his decision. but i haven't got reply from him for 01 week. i want to ask you what is he thinking? does he mean breaking up by his silence? note: his business is becoming very bad, but i only know it recently.  what should i do? note: i don't wanna call him instead of adding additional problems, why not give him a couple more days and then call him and ask if there is any thing you could do to help him out with his problem.  don't push him away by asking him to make decisions about your relationship with him when you know he is going through a hard time.  doing this will only push him away and is very selfish on your part.