text: out of curiosity.......? why is it that men(who are straight) have a hard time dealing with gay men, but are willing to see lesbians get it on. it seems to me that there is a major double-standard here.........why? i swear to god , its cuz of all the lesbian porn that are around....! they watch it and they actually think that its the same in real life..... try putting a stone butch making love to a lipstick femme , i think they'd head for the nearest exit (no offence butches, love you guys but i need to make a point)  because they are soo used to what the adult film industry or rather their own male ego and chauvanism tell them....women are created to pleasure my d!ck and the world revolves around it! so the idea of "lesbians" having sex with them is stroking (pardon the pun) their egos. ie: they are so good in bed that even lesbians will make an exeption for it  anything that threathens their male supremacy is a turn-of. so this explains them not wanting to watch two guys make out.... hence explaning the stone butch situation too. butches are a threat to their ego, so it will not be tolerated... as for why do they like to watch it, i think if you cant get the real thing..... stimulation would do just fine.... lol  hope this makes sense