text: another question... about my boyfriend..found out something...? thanks to everyone who helped me. my boyfriend told his best friend that the reason that he was treating me, and pretending to be something that i wouldnt like because he thought he was ruining my life. the thing is being without him is the worst... he loves me, and i've prayed for him...jesus told me to keep on praying for him. he cryed to me, telling me he loves me, but he doesnt want to put me through pain anymore, because i dont deserve it. i love him! and being with him brings me happiness. as well as jesus in my life. what do you think he should do? and what should i do? he truly loves me!  pray for me!  god bless ask him why he thinks he is ruining your life. if you believe he is not, then tell him so. tell him to lighten up and that you love him also, and you want him to be happy with you and not worry about ruining your life.  the two of you should be more open with each other. talk openly about your relationship, your feelings, your struggles.. it will help.  and keep on praying :)  god bless, devan