text: what do we do with our 9 yr old.? i wish i could understand the mom wants to see her son (just  got out of prison for prescitption fraud) she wants to take her son for a vistit to the oldest daughters house 3 hrs from here and says she will bring him back oldest daughter says she will bring him back and also then says yes this is home home but in a few yrs maybe he can live with me what should we do. the boy is 9 and has been with me and his dad for the past 3 yrs. go to court and have a judge decide