text: do you believe that homosexuality is a personal choice or something that is beyond an individual's control?   it's not a choice someone can make. someone can no sooner choose to be gay than someone can choose to be straight. you can fight the feelings, but you can't change them. you are who you are. you just need to accept it. it doesn't make you a bad or evil person. you didn't choose this lifestyle, just embraced what you had. i think people need to realize this.