text: is it crazy to look up a love you haven't seen in over 5 years? he contacted my grandparents a few months ago which was the last known number he had. but he didn't leave a way to get in contact with him, he was my first love, and my grandparents don't like him, so i can't ask them to give him my new number because they won't go for it girl.......if he's calling your family, that means he wants to talk to you....he probably thought your grandparents wouldn't give you his number, that's probably the reason he didn't leave any! it isn't crazy at all, trust me that's perfectly natural...follow your instincts, you'll never know unless you try...life is about taking risks and about experimenting, how bad can it be? go for it!