text: getting hold of someone? i'm in year 9 and i feel uncomfortable being one in a small crowd of people who hasn't got hold of a girl yet. the thing that puts me down most is one i dont have a girlfriend, and i crave a decent lengthy relationship, and two, if i ever got to the stage where i was to get hold of a girl, what the hell do i do, i'm sure others have this problem, so my question is, how did you handle your first kiss (not just a peck on the lips, i've done all that!), but do you have any tips of just to take it easy and not be totally bad at it, i hope you sort of know what i'm asking, and can give me the sort of answer i need! look you take your time, find someone you want to be with, don't go for someone just cos your mates are doing it, u'd be letting your principle's down and yourself, and if your mates take the micky they're not such good mates after all... and as for every thing else you've asked advice on it'll will all come to you naturally i promise.. you seem very cool for your age and you'll figure it out.. when kissing don't have wet lips and for god sake don't stick your tongue down they're throat straight away.. take it slow u'll be great good luck