text: boyfriend issues...? okay, i'm a fourteen-year-old ftm, pre-t, and unlike most of the ftm's i know, i like guys. right now i have a really sweet, accepting boyfriend, but i haven't told him that i'm ftm. i'm sure that he, like everyone else, just thinks that i'm a tomboy. like i said, my boyfriend seems really accepting, and he and i are great friends, but i don't know if i should tell him. i'm beginning to transition, so it's going to be evident, but should i tell him the truth and hope he's okay with it, or just break up with him? even if you break up with him, chances are he will see you again, right? so, he's gonna know eventually. if he is sweet and accepting of things and you feel safe telling him then you should. even though it will be hard. maybe he will accept you, maybe he won't  but you should give him the chance. good luck! and remember, if he doesn't accept it, someone else will.