text: i don't want to, but i have to.? i hate to be one of those people who pushes the abortion debate (as it will undoubtably begin once i post this), but something has been bothering me.  why do members of the religious right automatically assume that an unwanted pregnancy is the product of having sex sans protection? why do they think that people who have been raped should have to live with that trauma? do they not realize that partial-birth abortions are all but completely outlawed, that an average abortion is simply a miscarriage, carried out before a heart has even developed?    and most bothersome of all, how many of those who insist that adoption is the best way, have adopted a child themselves? how many have saved children from the black hole that is the adoption system? thought so. some think all life is secard, some do not, you do not seem to think life is important to each there own