text: if you have a best friend and she...? messes around with the boy that you love would you forgive her and still be her friend? i think thats totally bogus...she did you dirty..best friends are supposed to watch out for you and be there to support you not to be messing around with the boy you love..i think it would be hard to forgive someone after they did something like that....but if you guys have been friends forever than i guess you can try to put the past behind you.