text: what if she says she loves me but needs to have fun before settling down?   then she's obviously not as in love with you as she says she is. that's the whole thing about "denying others for the one you love". she's selfish. and you do not need to marry her. move on. do not be her faithful dog and wait on the side with your tail wagging. eff that. find a woman who actually appreciates what you're offering. move on.