text: wat do you do when you say all these "dirty" things to your boyfriend and you find out later that you did... not mean what you say and you want to take it all back but you cant without telling him its a lie. i need help was really tired and i told him all about my personal life and i dont know what to do and i need to have some major help i don't know what you mean by "dirty" but once you put it out there you can't take it back. he can't possibly unhear what you've told him. if it's to much for him he'll move on. if he now knows to much about you , you might think about doing the same. don't start lying to cover it'll just make things worse.