text: i lost my girlfriend that i love dearly because of my lying what do i do to get her back? i love my ex very much and i would do anything to get her back but i dont know what to do. she is in washington stae now and i am in illinois i am lost without her and i feel helpless what do i do? i am sorry to say, but once you break a girl's heart you leave room for another to come mend it. now i am not saying that she's off with another guy, but i think you pretty much ruined your chances of getting back with her, long distance relationship or not, when a girls hurt, especially by lying it's hard for them to believe anything that a guy says to them afterwards. if you really loved her, you would have treated her better while you were still together, wouldnt' you agree? just move on and try to do better in your next relationship. good luck to you.