text: you've just starting dating a guy, do you have any rules that he needs to follow and why? let's say there's a guy you've just started dating or going out with and he seems pretty decent.  are there any things that you absolutely expect him to do or things that would totally turn you off?  i'm wondering what women have as potential deal-breakers for men when they first meet each other, assuming he's good looking enough. - he shouldn't fancy my sister, or tell me how good looking she is