text: why do guys say that they don't want to be with you  when they come back crawling to you? i had a bf and he trieted me like crap and know he wants me back yeah, he had a new girl to run to but things turned out to be hell, so now he wants you back.. i had a guy like that.... i did every and any thing for him and he just treated me like crap... he said we should be friends and started dating someone about two months later.... she turned out to be controlling and crazy.... so he comes running back to me and telling me he loves me and he didn't realize how good he had it with me... and i told him to kiss my a**.... it was hard because i really loved him, but i had to do what's best for me...if he's not worth it, then don't waste your time with him...