text: i need advice about girls. i need a pen pal who can give me advice regarding girlfriends. please help.? here's what happens - i meet a girl whom i like, we talk, we go out and we become friends. she calls we make plans, we go out several times. i have no bad intentions (really). i am looking for a serious relations - not a one night stand or things like that. i'm polite and respectful. then comes the change - they stop calling etc etc. so, i also stop, then they start again. i really don't understand, i am not here to play games. this has happened to me a number of times with a number of girls - thats why i think it must be that i am doing something wrong, thats the problem. it is really very frustrating. any advice - anyone. if your the serios one in the relationship, then your not doing absolutely anything wrong. trust me... therefore if its not you, then its definetly the slutty chicks your seeing. im not a play girl, i usually stick to serious relationships and dont go around calling and then not calling, so trust me, its not you, its simply the non worthy ones.