text: if your not gay why do you care if gay people marry?  stop and really think about this for a minute....? ask yourself if your married or planning to get married how will allowing gays to get married change anything?  i used to be a homo hater but one day i just stopped and thought about it.  i'm not gay so why the hell should i care what two consenting adults do sexually.  they don't bother me and i don't bother them.... everybody is happy! i am not gay and i believe that they should be able to marry. i am glad you were able to grow up and realize that it doesn't effect you, or me or any other straight person. i just wish the rest of the world you see logic instead of religious ideation.