text: my family (sisters) live 7 hours away.  we're not close, should i be the one always going to see them? my sisters never want to come up and see me.  they only want us to go to their places.  we've been stressed with my husband's cancer and i don't feel like playing their games. they should come to see you too.  i always have to drive to v.a from n.y about 8 hour drive with two young kids and they haven't came here to see me.  i feel the same way.  anyway, your family should be considerate about your husbands condition.  you don't want him to always be traveling and you don't want to leave him either.  i'm sorry, i hope they will visit you from now on.  i refuse to go back home anymore, it's too much of a hassle, my mom and i always fight too.