text: wife seems confused to me? needs to be alone to figure things out? needs to see if she misses me!? my wife of 15 years seems confused to me! she told her sister she doesn't know why she feels the way she does, because i'm a great guy a good provider and a good father. however she says she's lost her love for me. for the last 3-4 years we've given all our time to the kids and forgotten each other. she told me that she felt unloved and alone in the relationship and that now she needs to be alone to figure things out. could she be overwhelmed with everything, she works two jobs was going to school and all the house work cause i didn't help much plus the kids... could she be going to some kind of crisis? is there anyway i can get her back and save our marriage?  we have 2 kids 10 and 8 years old, she says she knows she is destroying my life the kids life but that she still needs to be alone. she also said that if she starts to miss me that this could be a good sign! how could she not miss me for the last 15 years we've done everything together with the kids! seems like the two of you have grown apart, you need to dedicate time to each other, go on dates, reconnect without the expectations and responsibilities you currently live with...counseling may help...but be prepared, you simply may have fallen out of love...good luck