text: if you love someone how can you tell that person? i love this man but its a four year age difference. he told me that he had feelings for me. he can talk to me about anything but icant really talk to him because iam very shy and its hard for me to talk to him.he gives me butterflies and i get week in the knees when i see him. is this love or what its hard to believe its love sounds more like infatuation, just try to spend more time with him he will get the idea. 4 years is nothing