text: guys what would u do? or feel if u found out ur x gf got raped? u didnt love her but u cared for her? would u be turned off and look down on her for getting herself in that situation? or wanna b there for her and care more about her?  weird question i know but my friend is going through it and wants to tell her x bf go and find out how she's doing. she needs as much assurance and caring as possible. just like in the recent movie 'war of the the worlds', only here it's a socially accepted 'divorce'. i believe that an ex-girlfriend is still a human after all. of course, if the spark wasn't there in the previous relationship, it won't be there a second time either, so a reunion is out of the question.