text: he's older and already has adult children. do u think he would want to have children with me? im crazy about an older man who already has adult children. i still haven't had children or started a family, although i really want to. im not sure if i would be wasting my time falling for a guy who has already gone through it all. he's an adorable man, and we get on extremely well, but of course its way too early to be asking him these kind of questions. time for me to have children is beginning to run out...what do other people think? i think that if this man really loves you and this is something that you really want then my answer would be yes. but only if it is a true love