text: can we kiss? my girl friend said that it is to early to kiss but its been 2 weeks, do u think that she would be happy if i gave her a surprise kiss anyways? or what? omg, if you go by what the gurls say you'll not do the right thing at the right time and in the right place. s'ppose i tell you, in all affirmation, that she wanted a kiss from you - oh! you're surprised cos you've not really understood women. one big mistake you're making is that you're revealing your plan for her ahead before making a decision. women like to be taken unawares. and that's the time they respect you as a "real guy". let me tell you this (please don't forget), the next time you're with her move close and touch her hair and tell her she's got a fine hair. while doing that, be looking straight into her eyes while talking about some other things but still caressing her hair. the next time she looks at you straight into your eyes, give her a kiss on her lips. you'll be surprised that she'll move close and subconsciously demanding for a deeper one - trust me, it works like magic.