text: how can you love someone that hates you? how can i stop someone from hating me, even though i dont know why the hate is coming ? no religious quotes just tell me your human opinion you cannot stop someone from hating you. you cannot make anyone feel any certain way.  you can be yourself and make the decision to treat that person with respect and dignity.  when someone treats you well, you will appriciate them, and that is the best you can hope for from someone else.