text: need help from women....? i am getting married in couple of months to a indian girl , she is very shy. we have never made love before and we are going to wait until marriage .... because she is shy , she won't talk about it ..i want help in finding out what should i do before marriage or the night of marriage . she is virgin and i m not , i have never done it with a virgin sooo i don't know . tell me ur experience . did u do it the same night ? how would it feel to her ?what else should i do ?? ... in detail if u can .... thx in advance the kama sutra has excellent advice on how the groom might conduct himself on the wedding night. i strongly suggest that you read it, and i do mean read, not just look at the incredibly beautiful and erotic illustrations. congratulations and may your marriage see long years, great joy and small troubles.