text: oh no...friends for ever or not? i planned a huge partyy for xmas, where everyone is invited. it's a joint partyy with a good friend. one problem. i have spent the last few days with this friend, planning it. i dont think its a problem. she's really close and ive always hung around her. but my best friend is a problem. she is always trying to start a fight with me and talking about to my other friends. she says the partyy is a scam to become popular. but i'm already really good friends with the popular girls. ive known most of them before middle school. and ive always been invited to their parties and get togethers. so i dont need to use this party. and i wouldnt want to. is my bestfriend just jealous or am i doing something wrong?   please nothing mean i just really want to know. you are not doing anything wrong. it sounds to me as if your bf is a little jealous and upset because you are doing something with someone other then her. don't let her get to you, just let her know that if she can not control herself and act like a bf and be supportive then you don't need her to be at your party. not trying to be mean but the purpose of a party is to have fun and you can't do that if you are constantly defending yourself and your other friends to her.