text: do you have ashtrays out , even if you don't smoke?   the only ashtrays i have out are outside, no smoking in my house. i am a smoker, but don't want my children exposed to the second hand smoke. i would not think poorly of anyone whom did not have ashtrays out if they did not smoke, and there have been many times when visiting someone that even though they permitted smoking in their house, i still went outside.