text: hated them at first... love them now...........? i was just remembering the beginning of my relationship with my current guy, the love of my life.  i had forgotten that i disliked him.  we worked together.  he was pushy and unreasonable, a jerk.  nobody liked him.  then we danced at the office christmas party and *zap - i got that lightning bolt feeling when we touched.  then later when he kissed me, i was a goner.  i've been in love with him ever since.  it was just that chemistry i guess.  did you ever start out not liking your current guy or girl then fall in love with them? yup!  just wanted a piece from this girl in school.  5 years of dating and 27 years of faithfull marriage and we are still going strong.  the zap is... more like a zip!  but didn't i know i was going to marry this girl when i was 15??? no!  so be grateful. you got lucky... and it sound like he did too!