text: my bf's dad had a heart attack-feel like i should do somthin-i dont realy kno his dad,but somthin for the bf?   i think you just must be there for him. he needs your support now more than ever. he may be a proud guy and don't accept your help, but try to understand him. he doesn't need your pity. he needs your love and, once again, your support. if his dad is still alive, help your bf take care of him, try to get to know his father better. this will show him your love and he'll understand that he may base on you. best wishes, sweet_orhideea