text: do you think that it is alright for a man to have  a wife and as many girlfriends as he wants? i work for a man that thinks this way and i wonder how many other people think this way.  i know my husband tells me it is wrong but agian that is my husband telling me that. i know most women think that this is wrong. what do you think? the guy shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. a marriage is a union between two people to promise to love and honor each other. repeatedly cheating on your spouse is not a part of love and honor.