text: my dad has terminal cancer, whats keeping my brothers from calling him and coming to see him?   denial, i went through it when my mom was diagnosed. if i didn't go see her, she couldn't get worse... i guess time would stand still, but it didn't and she got worse. that's when reality sunk in for me, but there may still be hope for your dad.  i am currently in the bahamas with my mother who has terminal lung cancer. there is a clinic here that has been in operation for over 30 years. (www.immunemedicine.com) we have been here for 4 of our 8 week stay, everyday is really neat. a lot of the patients stick around in the meeting room/ waiting room to visit, and share stories and catch up. there were 40 people all talking and laughing, talking about cancer and life, the returning patients talk about how bad their cancer was 4, 8, 10 even 18 years ago when they started coming to the clinic, the cancer that has since disappeared. many of them did not come here until they had exhausted all other options and were considered terminal, some with only weeks or months to live. there is nothing dangerous or foreign to the treatment, just building up your immune system in a very effective manner so that it can identify and fight the cancer. if you want to know more contact me or go to www.immunemedicine.com i cannot tell you how impressed i am with what i have seen and how my mother has already improved. i know one man who was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, he skipped all us, conventional (poisonous, dangerous) options and went to the bahamas and is doing great now. another man who has been coming here for 18 years that had prostate cancer. people with just about every type of cancer. but, they are honest here, you send them your medical information and they will tell you whether they believe they can help you or not, and they will send you home if they don't think you are benefiting.   my mom has shown drastic improvements and is feeling so much better. and we are in the bahamas so we are having a good mother-daughter vacation.  i have also done a lot of research on the cesium chloride/dmso treatment and think that it has merit and you can do it at home.  the clinic here believes that a supplement/liquid called vibe works really well in addition to other treatments, i am going to look in to that some more.  most doctors will tell you not to try alternative medicine and some will refuse to even see you again if you do. to some degree they are not to blame, they have not been taught anything about it other than that it is evil and wrong and they would be rejected by their colleagues if they suggested alternatives.  tell your brothers that time is not standing still just because they are not there, maybe give them this information, if they are involved, that may help.  one very helpful website is www.cancertutor.com  good luck!!