text: guys why why? sooo difficult!? ok well there was this guy he liked me then stopped liking me then he did.when we started going to the same school high school he liked me again but he would only talk to me on text.....i liked him...but i am old fashioned so i was like he makes the first move and everything...well he didnt and he pretty much was like flat out no i dont like her to one of my friends.....it really made me mad like i was kind of just a toy to play with. usually i dont get turned down like this, it is weird. now i just keep on seeing to see if he is still looking at me(sometimes he does). everytime i see him i get mad just looking at him or i kind of try to get his attention....i thought i got over him but i doubt know i just cant i am not obessed or anything but u know what i mean? how do i deal with this because sometimes i think he still has something other times it doesnt seem like he likes me! maybe he felt toyed with as well?  this will of iron he puts on around is you is rooted somewhere in jealousy.  can you see yourself taking down the "just friends" sign if he's nice with you again, or do you have a wall you're determined to keep him out of.  i'm nicer to my single female friends and talk longer not because i'm an ambitious pig, but because the 'happier' girls have set their parameters, there's nothing new to really explore.  it's a hard, mean question to ask yourself, but "how am i worth his time and energy? what can i do to calm his stress, not add to it?"