text: any advice for a 13 yr old girl about guys? i'm 13, 5'4", chubby, green eyes, dark blonde-light brown hair.i'm a very shy girl and not very confident. i can be a fun person to be around,but usually at school see the shy sad part of me. some things happened so the guys have seen me cry. could that have scared them? there is a musician that i really like and i don't know why i'm so attracted to him, but i am. i also like jocks. every guy i like is so far out of my league that is isn't even funny. how can i maybe increase my confidence and maybe (and thats a huge maybe) get a guy to like me? thanx in advance. i'm 16 4ft 11in never had a boyfriend but i get asked a lot my secret is not to want them act like you don't need them guys will be here for the rest of our lives we may want them now but they will come in time i promise just keep your cool!!!!