text: is my boyfriend using me? we have been together 1 yr....i do whatever i have to do to please him and make sure that he is well taken care of... everyweekd i have to listen to him complain that he doesnt have money..what do mean you dont have money when you live with your mom..you dont own a car...you only have your cell phone bill..and maybe give your mom like 50-100 dollars..you sure as hell dont spend your money on me...whenever i ask him to get me something he says when the time is right..which means never..he is sweet and he treats me kindly and make me feel good but maybe he is used to idea of me taking care of him..is he using me...i cant stand it anymore..we go out to dinner i have to listen to him add up the meal.. i am not made of money either..basically i feel like  he just feeds me alot of words. a part of wants to leave him and a part of me really wants to be with him..help yes he is using you and playing you.he also is used to everyone else paying his way.he needs to be taught how to manage his fi nances and fend for himself and become responsible like you sound you are.try talking to him and offering to help him.if that fails then do yourself a favor and dump him and move-things will only get worse  and not better good luck to you-you sound like a very decent person.