text: during loss of virginity, what happens to a girl?   during the process a girl may or may not feel a sort of twinge of pain.  and sometimes there is blood.  but with me, i only spotted the day after.  so it really depends on the girl if she bleeds alot or not. but losing your virginity is a big thing.  it's something you can never get back.  and it means alot to most of us.