text: miss being attached? for the obvious reasons, it's great being single, but don't you find you start to miss the comfort of being in a relationship?  after 2 years of "singularity" (although often filled with great fun!), there's nothing more i want right now than to cosy down with a cool girl that i can share everything that is me with.  and yet, meeting the right person is so damn hard...  i'm only 29 but sometimes i wonder whether maybe i'm one of those destined to drift through life with only flirting encounters. know what i mean? have you  ever heard the expresion"you have to be a friend to have a friend". women can tell when a guy is seeking to find someone. i know that is hard to find someone in this day and time. try to find someone that interest you. don't always base your preference on looks. start out by being friends.spend time together with no pressure to date.that is a good way to get to know someone. no sexual contact or pressure.sex always changes your relationship. if you can be friends then you have found someone to try and bring your relationship up one level with them.do you know a girl that has the same interest in sports or art or what ever you like. and try to be honest in a relationship.always speak your mind with love not sarcasm. i my self always found love when i wasn't looking for it!