text: is she a ho? is a girl a ho if she sleeps with me on the first night or does that mean she just likes me a lot? i think people need to stop labeling other people as a ho and they should just enjoy each other, even if it means just one night.  why dont you ask her how she feels about you? you can usually tell if she just wanted to sleep with you for that one night or if she wants to see you again. i think it could be a little bit of both. i am sure she liked you enough to go out with you, i think sleeping with you just topped the cake! do not label a girl as a ho just because she gave it up....you did the same thing, dont forget that.