text: is it time to pull out the ol love shovel from the shed and bury my feelings? theres this girl that i just started to like alot after she went to homecoming with me because i was just stunned by her etiquette and maturity and on top shes beautiful. now i bombed it cuz i showed too many insecurities and yeah i basically just threw myself in her friendzone on my own terms.   is there a bitsy chance here? cause shes special and i dont want to just move on or is the best way to handle this if "bombing out" means showing your true self then keep on keeping on, if she cant stand it you dont want her.