text: how can i pleasure my new boyfriend without having sex? ? i don't want to have sex with my boyfriend, till we get married but in the mean time what are ways we can pleasure each other by other means? do men have certain pleasure zones? how do i start without seeming to dominant and aggressive? there are many ways, you can cuddle, you can feed him exotic foods,   your g-spot is inside and toward the front, he can stimulate that for you. there is always oral for both of you, full body oil massages finished with 2 party stimulation, toys included will bring you 2 too climactic heights. you can hand massage his manhood also with special oils. both of you with climax. as long as you do this together. some at the same time.  good luck and i believe in what you are doing, a little praying wouldn't hurt either, need more advice on this matter: strawberry_nocturnal@yahoo.com