text: what do i do if i am gay but do not want to be?  i get no pleasure from a woman, but do from a man and hate it   what do you mean you hate it?  because a lot of stupid straight conservative people hate it?  if that's who you are then who the hell should care whether your gay or not!  people who are discriminatory against gay people are themselves insecure, narrow-minded, unpassionate, and have no respect!  there is nothing unnatural about loving someone of the same sex, there's no harm being done.  like the saying goes make love, not war.  stand up to what you believe in because it will make a difference someday, to not just yourself but the world!