text: my husband and i are going to get a devorce and he has a new girl-firend and how do i get alone with her? because me and my husband has kids and they are going to get married after the devorce. just act nice she is his new problem not yours. you have a past with him not her. there is no reason to not get along with her. she has to except that you have children together and if she is good with that then all should be ok.