text: does anyone else out there wish that getting married were like grocery shopping? sometimes i just wish that i could find what i want on the shelves....okay this is what i want and this is how i want it...and i want it today! have a question more than an answer - where do you look for guys?  what are your true interests in life and do you try to meet men while doing those interest?  one final question - are your standards so high that no one can possibly meet them?  yeah, i guess if you could just place an order and zap, there that person is might be nice.  i don't think there are ever any "perfect" matches, but that is what makes life truly wonderful - experiencing what either has to offer.  he is out there for you - you just have to be patient.  in the meantime enjoy life's ride and pleasures along the way.  best of luck to you! joe