text: i need some advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!? i told a guy i like him and he started treating me like crap.  but when i told him i didn't like him (which i still do)and hes treats me great.  he even asked me if i was dating anyone! help!!!!!!!!!! according to what you're saying, no matter if you stay with him or not his opinion will remain the same. the reason he act sall kind when you turn him down is just so he can gain possession of you. once he knows you're in the like with him he'll start showing his true colors again.   my advice-find a better man.