text: what is it like loosing your virginity? im a 17 yr old girl virgin wondering about it? the farthest ive gone is given head and so now i wana kno wat sex is like but i ahvent found the 'right guy', theere have been guys that wanted to get in my pants but i havent felt they were the right guy or that there was a special enough bond between us. now i am wondering if when u loose it if everything changes. this is what i hear at least. i also hear it sux ur fist time & it hurts. true or false? true.  first time there's not much in it for the girl.  the guy gets done too quickly, and there's not much lubrication which means a lot of pain and just overall horridness.