text: me and my ex just started talkin after 8 months, and now he is asking me to date him again...? when we were dating he cheated on me but now he is telling me that he has changed and that he realized what he lost. but their is one big problem...his ex-girlfriend is pregnant with his kid, but he said that she wont effect our realationship...i like him alot...but i dont know what to do??? ok first of all...he hurt you. why would you be willing to get with that again? second of all...if you think a pregnant ex-girlfriend will not affect your relationship you are so wrong. she and their child will always be a part of this guy's life. how can he guarantee that they will not affect your relationship. and do you want to be a step-mama? to someone who isn't even with his pregnant ex....ask yourself why he is having a child with someone he doesn't want to be with and then ask yourself if you want that to be you....don't fall for this one girl. there are plenty of non-loser guys out there just waiting to meet you.