text: how many times an average married man makes love to his wife?   that is very hard to say. it depends upon the marriage and the sexual desires of everyone involved and your meaning of love making. no two marriages are alike. you can make love all day and not have intercouse. take my fiance and myself, well we are hot and heavy because i just have to touch him all the time. i mean all day. we are sexual that way.   that however, doesn't mean that if your not having sex 3 times a day your marriage isn't working.  take my advice, foreplay, is the one of the keys to a healthy marriage.