text: my boyfriend of two years moved out of state one and a half years ago. should i leave everything to be with hi i have gone to visit for four months and i became unhappy. my family and friends were back home. plus he still lived with his parents. it sounds like a bad idea if you couldn't even make it four months.  love and relationships are a combination of things and sometimes little things like being near family or living in a certain place are part of that combination.  in your case it sounds like it is important that your close to your family and friends.  maybe he should move to where you are instead of you doing the moving.