text: i am 23 and i am 5' 7" and weigh 160 pounds, am i too fat!!? my husband isn't  attracted to me no more coz of my wieght, ma mates say i look fine but i think otherwise... i hardly eat and i exercise and dont drink soda either,  how can i loose ma weight ...i was on infertility treatments for a year and since then i gained weight. for your sex and height, your ideal weight is 135 pounds but the ideal weight range is 127 pounds to 159 pounds. so you see you are just one pound over the range so you are hardly overweight. http://www.healthstatus.com/calculate/iwc your weight does not just depend on exercise and diet. they are very important and other factors such as genetics, medical conditions, hormones and drugs come into play as well as your mental state. some medical conditions are related to infertility such as hypothyroidism, polycystic ovary syndrome etc.  i think you need to have a chat with your doctor if you want to do something about your weight although as i have shown above, you don't really have a weight problem yet.  i agree with your mates that you look fine. is your husband backing off because of your weight or because there are no kids? i think you need to have a good chat  and thrash that out. he is supposed to stick by you through thick and thin and so far as you are not doing anything to wreck the marriage, he has no excuse for his behaviour.  also remember that true beauty is not just your looks. people will be attracted to you because of your character, how warm you are, how friendly you are etc.  lastly, don't let anyone put you down. you may have gained weight but you are not overweight.   all the best. if no one loves you, god loves you so forget about everyone else!