text: ring dilemma? ok plain and simple i found what i thought was the perfect setting for an engagement ring. i pretty much fell in love with it because it was so different and it was not something that you would see on another woman’s hand. not saying it is a 1 of a kind because its not. just saying that i want to give her something different. its from whiteflash.com and it’s the  u-prong 'champaigne' diamond engagement ring.  my problem is as follows. if i purchase the setting from them i have to get the center stone from them. of course i also know a jewelry who would take good care of me if i purchased a ring from him. what do i do? i am so torn and do not want to spend $12,000 without some other opinions  thanks i'd print the picture from the website, and take it to the jeweler you know, and see if they can get/make you something similar. still... $12k is a lot to spend on a ring! you better be 120% sure the answer is yes before dropping that kind of money! :)