text: im so confused!? my ex boy-friend wanted me to give him my virginity, but i always said no. it's not that i didn't love him i just got tired of my mom and sisters telling me that he was a dog, and that he wasn't going to become nothing in life. i always feel like they really didn't know him. i understood him. i really can't get over him. i broke up with him because i didn't have the energy to fight with my mom about how i loved him and she just didn't understand. when i cried i called him and he would sit there and listen to me. everytime he call me i feel them same feelings coming back. i dont want to go through that again, but i love him to death, or i thouight i did. he lied to me and he cheated on me, but i forgave him, sometimes i feel like a fool for even taking him back, every time he had a girl friend he would always come back to me. i dont know no more, sometimes i want to pick the phone up and call, but i want to be stronger and get over him, but i just dont know how. i dont know what to do. pray. it always helps. you really do love him. you are able to forgive him for his flaws his mistakes even though they hurt you deeply. it doesn't matter wat ur sister or ur mom thinks its wat you think. ask ur self. wat do you want the most. and wat do you want right now. love is confusing  i don't even know about my situation. but does he love you? its not you that has the problem its him is he willing to commit to you. you've shown ur love.  his there to listen.. ppl make mistakes and thats a part oflife but... he has to be willing to sacrifce his flaws and try to be better to you.oh and the virginity thing. you'll know when the time is right.