text: ok, preferably girls answer this question? ok so i really like this girl. ive lliked her for about a year now and we talk alot and lately ive been wondering if i should tell her i like her. i flirt with her alot, but its hard to tell with her if she is flirting back or just being her. i really want to tell her but i don't know what she would say or do if she doesn't see me the same way.  i am hesitant to tell he because a few years ago, i was in the same siuation with another girl, and i told her but she didn't like me and we haven't talked at all since. try to flirt by sitting near her and kick her leg (lightley) and say sorry if she kicks back or crosses her legs towards you she likes you!