text: how do you find a boyfriend? im lost...i have the worst luck in the world! of course it doesnt come easy 4 me cuz im gay but i need help...its like hard...hmm...i really want a boyfriend!!! well get involved in stuff in your area. where i go to college there is a gay straight alliance, and i know that there are things like that all over and even in some high schools for support (im not sure how old you are) and a place to meet other people with your sexual orientation. this will help you get to know other guys that hopefully share similar interests with you and maybe you could develop a relationship or find guys to date there.