text: answer me please? ok i been with this guy for about 5 month, we work together, i am in school he is not i go to his house and hung out there most the time when i have time. i told him he had to wait to have sex with me, so we just have oral sex and kiss and huge most the time; however i always have to stop him from going further always. my quaction to u guys is that? does he really love me or he is after sex or he just loves me and he wants me? my second question is that he said he want to get me something and i told him don’t tell me what u are going to get me just surprise me, and he said he is going to get me something , but he went to new york these weekend and he bought him self louis vuitton wallet, and nothing for me. hello why would he say he wants to get me sothing then????? i need help should i give him a hint of what i want or just leave him? it is going to be hard to leave him because i like him. it just i don’t really now what i like about him and i work with him but i don’t now what i a doing plus he always tells me he loves me and cares about me and all that good stuff. on the other hand this other guy i work with have a gf, they only been together for 9 month he buys her diamonds, flowers, take her out to dinner and all that good stuff? you're having oral sex therefore you are having sex. it's called oral sex after all. if you don't want to have sex then don't even do the oral. it seems like a tease to me. you're all hot and bothered and oral is normally the lead into the sex. there is no in between so if you're not ready then don't have oral sex either.