text: simple question? with all the bull i read on here, i'm just quickly wondering if we are not the norm or the majority anymore. are you married?  in love with the person you are married to? have relations only with the person you are married to? how long have you been married? happy holidays to you and your families. you are probably right, we are not in the norm. yes i am married and i love my husband more than i thought was ever possible to love another human being. we are true and faithful to each other and we have been married for 19 years this past august and have 2 wonderful teens. we love telling people how long we've been married when asked and  hope to have many many more years together. thanks for asking and i hope you are happy and in love as well. love is a very precious and wonderful thing, if you have it you are truly blessed!  hope you have a happy holiday season as well!!!