text: how do i know if it's true love ? been together for six years. he is a recovered alcholic, but just resently he had a slip. i put him out because it was the only way to get him back into aa. we still see each other. he wants to stay out for a year to make sure hes back on track. should i continue to presue this relationship? i have 3 kids from a previous marriage and i don't want to make the same mistake twice. confused. how do you know he won't slip up again? you say you have 3 children from a previous marriage. do you really want to put your kids lives in danger with this man? i think its best that you just let him go. find a man that was never an alcoholic and who can be there for you and your children.