text: what do you do when...? my fiance and i have been seeing each other for a little over 3 1/2 years. all in all, our relationship couldnt be more perfect. however, he has a bad habit. he smokes weed. i didnt know he smoked weed until after we were steadily dating- sometimes i feel like i was tricked. anywho, the only thing we've ever argued over in our relationship is weed. why wont e stop, why so frequently? i guess it doesnt help that his best friend is a total weed head. no job, no education, nothing. and what's worse is that his friend is rude to me. and my future hubby just makes excuses for him. what the hell is that about? they've been friends since they were in 5th grade and now we're in college- what the hell do i do. my hubby doesnt live day to day with the thought of "broes before hoes" because im not a hoe- we've only been with each other. what  can i do to make him see, im not going to stand for this. i asked what he'd choose if it were me or the weed- he took a moment to think about it... if the addiction is more important to him than you it is over. you need to get away from him and see if he comes back clean and wanting a married whole family relationship or you are wasting your time. and dont take him back with the weed.  it is a great day to be alive!! good luck and god bless!!