text: i think i'm a lesbian? how do i know for sure?   eh... for me all i have to do is picture sleeping with a man or picture sleeping with a woman (when you are not horny or in the act of sex) in a regular situation and the choice is obvious.  it just depends on whether you are only sexually/physically attracted to women and whether you would rather have a relationship with women than men.  for myself i could never be with a man sexually or relationship wise (and never have) and that is how i know.  i guess growing up i should have had a clue when all my friends had boyfriends and i never did.  i thought i was asexual at the time because i didn't know any different.  i didn't even know what a lesbian was until high school and now it feels as natural as ever.  why do you think you are a lesbian?  could you explain more?