text: am i going to be back with jonathan and is he going to come see me when i get back home? we broke up and he hasnt called in a while and he all of a suddened called me he was my frist true love should i wait or move on why did you break up?  a lot of times after you break up you remember all the good and forget about all the bad they did.  people rarely change.  i've had to learn that no matter how much you love someone, the bad never goes away, and you always will break up for the same stupid reasons.  hence the "we dated off and on again for 4 years" statement people always use.