text: should i tell my best guy friend i'm in love with him? we've been best friends for four years; i asked him out when we first met but nothing ever come of it. we decided to just be friends, but i feel like i'm betraying him by feeling like this for him!do you think i am? you are not betraying him by having feelings for him.  the best advice i can give you is something i heard on tv: "if you tell him how you feel what can happen? sure he may not feel the same way about you....or you can have everything you ever wanted" take the risk and tell him...its better than never knowing at all.