text: is it ethical to send a great love poem to her when the feeling is gone? i sent my former "love of my life" (she broke up w/ me already) a really great poem about how i felt when we were together, but i dont feel that way (as described in the poem) anymore. was what i did wrong?? shouldn't a poem be a free means of expression, but is saying something i dont feel anymore unethical? no way, jade. you'd want to know and you'd probably appreciate it. especially if it came with some communication.