text: who do u value more : ur family or ur love? often, we have to choose between ur family and ur love?  with whom wud u go..ur parents, family etc. who brought u up or ur partner whom u love the most? what is the diff btw the two. but then i guess it may b different for differnt cultures and may change depending upon ones lifestyles. ok so the question is about me let me tell u my ans. i am an indian and in india family relations are give tremendous value.and family relations are made of love and respect for each other. the relationship with ones partner is also of the same nature. i love my parents i respect them they mean a lot to me.they hav sacrificed a lot for me and often they have made it their dream to see me have my dream realised. and i owe a lot to them.currently i am single and just the thought of leaving my parents for someone who just walked into my life with no guarantee that he shall stay seems impossible. but then from others who hav had experience i hav learnt that ur whole world changes once u r in love. so i may change then. but now for me it is my family. ok so thats my ans. now i hav a quest for u........why did u ask this quest?just so? or is it coz u r havin a hard time deciding in ur own life?