text: (women only)... which guy would you choose? generally speaking....if you had to choose between a guy who was sweet, caring, treated you well, good looking and chilvarous but was quiet and boring or a guy who was hot, cocky, not chilvarous, treated you bad sometimes, but outgoing and funny...which would you choose and why?  not that i'm in this situation but a conversation with a friend made me curious about other womens opionions on this subject. i am soooo lucky...  i found a guy that has it all!