text: hey women! what is the best way to approach you and ask for your phone number? is there a wrong and right way of going about talking to a women that has crossed your path, that she has got your attention, and that you would like to get to know her?  i see women that i would love to just go up to and talk to but i always feel that women would hate it lol. first, u gotta go up, b a gentleman & introduce urself. 2nd., have a nice chat until both persons r comfortable, 3rd., observe her vibes & c if she's kinda interested a not, usually u can tell after a small chat, eye contacts & other lil' gestures, last, end the night w/a polite summary of the conversation, say thank you for the good time & nicely ask if it's possible for u to get her # to con't tt good time on another time & place ! just b honest & tt will bring u a long way.