text: sex change help? im a 20 year old man who has resontly had a sex change. my souther strick bible driven father dosnt know im afraid to tell him. im not sure of him reaction that his little girl is now a man. any one i really need advice the best thing to do is to go to his house and tell him. do it face to face. you should have told him before you got it done to give him the chance to adapt before seeing you that way. however this is not an option now. if you put it off things will just get worse with time.