text: i'm facing worst time phase of my life, it seems as if i'm stuck in a quagmire & slumping down wid each effort ya i tell u... i dont know what's wrong but i'm in the state of fix when nothing seems to bring motivation, inspiration... i cna't visualize my career goal, i'm employed but unhappy with what i'm doing... sometimes i feel as if some people are trampling over my personality, they are eating away my confidence, their criticism becomes so daunting... i know my job and work efficiently, but i guess i lack aggression, the punch, i never had a social life, been all the while an introvert... living in my own world, it seems all this have snowballed into such travesty which i'm facing today... i want to come off this rut... can anyone help me out...please..... see if there are any speed dating events in your area.