text: how long should it take a chic to make up her mind about dating a guy? its been "on" for over 2 months now, she seems to be dilly-dallying but still re-assures the guy that its going to take "a little longer". what do y'all think? if she does not know immmediately its not going to happen. good luck though. sometimes we all want something we cant have and that makes us want it even more. is she really something you want? that is the question. or is it just the chase?