text: what should i do...please read...:(? i really like this guy that i am talking about (see my previous questions) but my 'friend' just told me that he held hands with her on the way back and that she might try to get him! i don't know if i believe her about the hand holding thing but what should i do? this is so unfair...she is so pretty and skinny she could have her pick of any guy she wanted and she has to chose the one that might like me. how do i find out if he likes her wi/ out directly asking? help please!!! the first thing i think you should do is to talk to your friend about this.  explain to her that you like this guy and you don't want her to go after him.  that's not a good friend if she is going to go after the guy you like.  you need to make your move for this guy now before it's to late.