text: my grandmothers not exspected to live long...what do i need to do to make things better w/ our relationship? she's 91..and i feel like i have been irritable w/ her and i think im in the wrong i hope she has a will. if not, you better get yourself a lawyer because there's going to be a family feud.  to make things better with your relationship, you can spend time with her everyday. take her out to flower gardens or do something she likes to do.