text: ill take anyones advice :(? my x and i broke up for good now and ended up not talking for 2 weeks..to my suprise he called me and told me he still wants to be friends..which is fine with me i guess...i just want to know can someone fall out of love with someone in a month? and i also heard hes seeing someone else and wondering how that would make him look at me now? our relationship didnt work out and im fine with that...but idk if hes trying to play mind games with me or what the hell is the deal? if you are still sensitive to what your ex is doing and what his intentions are, you need to explain to him that you are not comfortable with him at this time.  whether he is genuinely trying to be cordial and remain friends or he actually has ill intentions, this course of action should keep the two of you civil.    if he is trying to be friends, you explain to him your position, with severe honesty, that you arent comfortable.  as a friend, he should grant you your distance until you are ready to begin a friendship type relationship.  if he has ill intentions, he will feel 'spotted' when you ask for time and should lay off.