text: please help me, i don't know what to do? i hav liked this girl for about 2 years. i used to be realy shy 'n whenever i said somethin it was realy stupid, but she was like always realy tense round me, 'n would always be watchin me,unless i caut her ;). anyway, recently (after 2 years) i caled her to say bye, cause she was goin to africa for a mont, 'n i figured i said a bunch of stupid stuf like "i'm just caling to say by, hav fun etc." so i caled again (she was extrmely nervus, which kinda shoked me) so i said stuf that was even more stupid "why are you even goin to africa" "**** about her friend" "sounds pretty cool" 'n then i wait 10 seconds 'n say "i gues that's all" like..completely idiot right? so recently she returned 'n now she's not lookin at me anymore,i realy mis it :( 'n stuf so i play smooth 'n get her to smile 'n give her a chance to look at me, but whenever i look back she insatly looks away! (not like before) then to mes things up more i asked her out.now she is mor scared so i caled again "sory etc." now what? sounds like shes a little shy too and maybe even likes u...i was shy so i know i could never talk to a guy easily...instead of trying so hard to ask her out or let her know u like her, just try doing things u both like and u will feel more comfortable talking with each other...but i do know that if u both continue being too shy to talk or express ur feelings then u will not go anywhere...good luck...:)