text: what kinds of things do nine year old girls enjoy? recently reunited with stepdaughter after three and a half years of drama with meddling in-laws probably you should ask her what would she like to do may be she is'nt into barbies 9 year old girls and up they are going to a stage where they are fragile and want to be spoiled, loved and have the attention take her somewhere fun or just maybe she likes to read take her to a book store buy her a book but dont let her get the best of you