text: please help!!! i am very confused? it started like this. i knew him five years ago and we were friends since then. a couple of years ago we use to flirt with each other and one day he asked me for a kiss, and i gave it to him with the condition to remain as friends and that's it. i saw him again a year after graduation, we talk for a while, he wanted a kiss and i gave it to him. i liked the feeling i got when i kiss him, that is why i did it. after he told me that we are better off as friends and i agree with it. later on he tried to go for a kiss but i did not let him. another day he tried a second time, this time he was a little more aggresive by insisting it and moving towards it, even though i said no. my "no" was weak so he took it as a yes or maybe. i asked him why is he doing that he said because he wants it but relationships are complicated. so yes besides kissing we went on to further things like when he placed my hand on his penis and his hands we going through my breasts and my vagina. i know i was a fool why worry about something that hasn't happened?