text: what should i do? about this boy? i already went out with him and we went out for 3 months and we were so perfect and then a few days after being together for 3 months he broke up with me, and says he still likes me but he got a new girlfriend and do not mention getting over him cause i cant ive tried and it doenst worrk, ive gone out with 2 other people and it just didnt feel right i still want him, and im not sure what to do about him? i want him to be happy i just wish we could be happy together again..xo    -a brokenhearted gurl i think that your relationship lacked a proper closure.  you were left hanging at that moment when your feelings towards him were still fleeting.  i believe that talking to him and focusing on the reason/s as to why the whole thing did not work out for him would give you that sense of understanding that you lack at the moment.  ask him to be as honest as possible and don't make him sugarcoat his explanations.  just make him give you the hard truth about the matter.  if, after all of his explanations you still don't get where he's coming from, then my suspicion may be true altogether - he is not the kind of man who you should be wasting your time and affection with at all.