text: i'm one of the 4 hostesses for an afternoon bridal shower, what are my responsibilities? do i help pay for certain things? do i buy things, or do i just help prepare and clean-up. please help as this is first for me! thanks! all of you need to get together and decide who is doing what being there are 4 of you decide on if you are going to set a budget and work from there or if each person pays so much on one thing if not you will have 1 big headache in the end (1 person in charge of food, 1 for games , etc. )