text: should i be mad???? how should i react when my husband comes back to the house is 2am and hes not back yet?? from reading other posts, you have many concerns about this marriage and do not feel a desire for your husband any more because you are in love with another man. this sounds like it may be another sign or symptom that your marriage is unhealthy. if one or the other, or both of you are not willing on working on the underlying problems, then the signs will continue.........and so will the hurt feelings.