text: i have a boyfriend which i care for and i know he cares for me too, but....? then theres this other guy whom ive been seeing lately and i feel very attracted to. we have the same friends and we've gone out to the movies and clubs and we get along good, just that he's taking things really slow. sometimes i feel he wants something serious with me but sometimes he doesnt seem so interested. should i risk breaking up with my bf of 2 months which is a good friend too to try and work things out with this other guy, or should i say fuck it and stay with my bf? if you are that unsure, you really should be discussing your feelings with your current steady.  he would probably prefer you bring this out into the open instead of stringing him along.  you also should be asking yourself which person would make you happier.  no matter what decision you come to, being honest with yourself and everyone else involved is key.  you risk losing a friend, but in life you are solely responsible for your own happiness.