text: my girlfriend sent me this email, she is breaking up with me or asking for a break? this is the mail;  it's not that i want u to stop bothering me, but my phone and internet has been turned off and i could lose my house.  my parents paid my bills. my life is a mess and i need to get it back in order.  i don't have the money to keep coming back to ur country which means not being able to see u, which could mean not someone here when i need someone, i think for now things are better for us to be friends because this is not what i forseen as a relationship i care about you and still have a lot of love for u, but right now i just can't go on like this!  i do want to keep in contact with yu and see u when these issues eventually go away. mom says hi, that's where i am at now.  i have been over here a lot to try to stop thinking about all the bills i have and to not be so depressed.  with all my heart.  j  my q is,she is breaking up with me (the be friends sh*t) or what else? im 21 so im kinda clueless when dating older women. i can't believe u just posted that for the whole public to see.