text: why do women write better porn than men? well, go back to the story of ). or look at the top reps on literotica.com. not much evidence they are avid readers of porn, but lots of writers. i think men tend to take a mechanical view of of sex.  compound that with an egocentric point of view (in other words, what is it doing for me?), and you get boring writing.  i think women are more able to step out of the situation they're describing and write about the pleasure from the viewpoint of both/all participants and write about how it feels physically and emotionally.