text: what would you say to and old ugly woman who's super picky with men? i know a few women at work, who are over 30, completely out of shape, not pretty, and somehow have the highest of standards. the type who's over 30, but want to marry some 20 something man with a ripped body and a boyish face, and has the personality that satisfy every single one of her long check-list of qualities. i would tell her, i see why you are old and still single, not to be mean but tell them the truth.