text: what should i do? i live with my aunt and her 6 kids one of which being a girl an she's older than me so its kinda like being the only girl an im adopted but she's really strict on me ive only had 2 boyfriends one of which was online an now she tells me i need to stop dateing what should i do should i follow her rules or follow my heart? an yes im old enough to date at least i think so if you're living with your aunt, and under her roof and care, then you have a responsibility to follow her rules.  period.