text: i've been with a girl for about two years and we finally shared an intimate moment. why? here's the gist: her and i are friends now but we've dated for about two and a half years. the final six months of us dating she shared alot of personal information and was finally opening up to me. well, she cut it off but a few months before hand we shared an intimate moment. could it be that she is afraid of commitment or did i just do something wrong. were good friends right now. it's not that i'm obessesed, more like curious, yes, i still yearn for her, but more as an ex then anything.  thanks for the fresh perspective. not enough info... it depends on how old you and she are... it depends on if she has any moral or religious beliefs against sex before marriage... it depends on if she's got issues to sort through...  wish her well... and move on with your life.  if you and her are meant to be, then it will happen.  nothing wrong with staying friends.