text: how do u know if a girl likes u likes u? how do u get a girl to really like u so that she would want to kiss u. you could always invite her out as a group, like ask her to bring a friend and you bring a friend, and you all go to the movies. let her learn some things about you and then ask her out on a date for just the two of you. you could always ask for her phone number or give her yours. you kind of have to just put yourself out there and see what happens. don't rush her, girls usually hate that. good luck!