text: how did you catch your man or woman cheating? was it through? cell numbers or e-mails or what? what did you do about it when you found out you had been cheated on? did you confront the cheater and stay or did you dump him or her?? i found out that my man was cheating through one of his friends wives, who overheard them talking.  so she came back with details for me, and i put his butt out!  and it didn't help that about 2 weeks later, i got a std.