text: kissing on the first date, sends what kind of message?   this is just an inkblot question...  what it appears is different to each person  what do you mean by it is the question.  when its me, getting a kiss on the first date, tells me two things.   1. she had a good time 2. she wants a second date and wants to keep us exclusive at least until that time.  so far i havent been wrong on those two things.  but!!!!!  i have male friends who think a kiss on the first date is a prelude to sex on the first date.   it will all have to do with who you are kissing.