text: should i move on? i dated a guy in high school for 4 year, on and off but mostly on. he left to college in the middle of our relationship. i couldn't tlak it. we ended up braking up. for the first 6 month after we broke up we still talked on the phone all the time. he even still told me that he loved me. i never said it back when we were not together. we have since grown apart. i think about him all the time. ever were i go and look i see something that reminds me of him or i just see his name. he calles me every now and then but some time i wish he wouldn't. yes, i think it is time to move on. in your mind it is over however because you were together for so long you don't want to lose him completely out of your life, you want to at least be friends and from the sounds of it your not sure you even want that anymore. you need to get involved in your own life and just keep the communication minimal and slowly it will fade away.  but, you need to live and get back out there into the dating world...there is a lot to see...and it is passing you by..