text: advice please.? my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months and today i wanted to go to the movies and he didnt have 20 dollars because he just paid his phone bill and car insurance so was it okay that i just paid? he pays all the time for me anyways. that was awsome and a great gesture from u.... remember that guys don't always have to pay for everything.. sometimes u have to help out... it's not bad.. but don't let him put that as an excuse for next time... or for some "other times"