text: 2 cars stolen and two girls dump me...why am i the victim? july 4th my car and cell phone is stolen--that same day my girlfriend dumps me. 4 months later almost the same thing happens to me---i meet a new girl and novemeber 20 i buy a car on ebay and send $2400 to the seller and he runs off with my money and i dont get the car and i dont get my 2400 back. a week later my girlfriend dumps me saying "my situation needs to improve first." lawyers and ebay refuse to help me get my money back.  im out a total of $7500 bucks. thieves wreck my life and both girlfriends dumped me. women are like rats jumping off a sinking ship. when the going gets rough women are the first to bail out on a man. when the money goes---women go right along with it---even if they claim they dont. i dont have faith in women and i dont have faith in the system. why is this happening to me? i'm sorry buddy,  sometimes things getting nasty, sh*ts happen dude, but it can't rain all the time, what can i say ...