text: im really shy? and occasionally talk..... but there is this guy that i like at church how do i start talkin more and stop bein shy? ive known them for about 3 years:) well, keep up being in the choir that will help with your being shy and talk to people in the church dont be afraid to say hello, start with the older ones first if your more comfortable..and work your way up to your age group. also vounterring for vbs and nursery in church will help also.