text: richard is a boy in my class? why is he so mean to me??alwyas hiding my snappl i think hes gay and looking for a friend many guys, (depending on how old he is...or not) will be mean to girls they like. there was this guy in my 3 grade class with me. he kept pulling my hair & hiding my lunch. he would even say mean things to me, but it turned out that he liked me. as i grew older it seemed like the guys were just as immature. they would do the same things, but they would act wierd around a girl they liked.