text: is he interested in me or am i imagining things? at work, there's this really hot guy,and we just started talking.. we dont talk that much, cuz we hardly know one another, but im already attracted to him.. he started talking to me first, and is the one that always starts our conversations.. what do i do? i know nothing about him, so what if he has a gf, i got no clue what should i do.. ask him if he wants to join you after work for a drink or go to lunch, you will be able to talk more freely outside of work and then see what happens. females should remember that they can take the first step, some guys are also shy, they may be friendly but are scared to make the first move from friendship / general conversation. good luck