text: do  you  think its fair to ask your married friend to keep a conversation private between yourselves private? example: i asked a friend something in confidence regarding two of our other friends...he told his wife i think that if a question was asked and answer was given and it was suppose to be private. you are not suppose to tell anyone. my husband sometimes comes and tells me stuff that his freinds tell him in cofidnece that he wont tell. i wont listen nor retain that info. cause in my opinion if his friend wanted to tell me he would. and it's just something private. that should be kept privaite if requested. i think it is very wrong and you should let him know how you feel. cause he probably thinks that nothing is wrong with it.