text: one for the ladies about long hair on guys? would you prefer your boyfriend to have very short, medium gel-able, behind ears, or long hair  or a certain style that you love to see. ie the beckam mohawk  i have long hair and used to like it, but not sure anymore, i don't think any girl is going to let her relationship with you depend on the length of your hair.  wear it how you like, but too long it starts looking like a mop.