text: i would like to know how all the 16yr. old girls look at life, this is coming from one.? i fight with my parents alot, drink here and there, and i like to smoke. am i alone? i mean i'm not a bad person, i'm an independant. i enjoy life by the minute. here are some rules:  1. stop smoking, so you can enjoy life by the century, not the minute. 2. make good choices, don't be friends with druggies no matter how good they are to you- and if you care for them enough you should try to stop them from smoking/doing drugs. if you fail to do that, find a new crowd of people to hang out with because with the druggies, your life will go straight down the tube.