text: should i dump my boyfriend if he is being a jerk to everyone but me ?   probably. eventually he'll be a jerk to you, too. why would you want to be with someone who is a jerk to everyone, anyway? don't you want a social life? don't you want your friends and family around? he could be a controlling person who wants you all to himself, so he tries to drive everyone else away. i'd avoid him like he was poison... because he is.