text: do you think some people are just incapable of falling in love? i'm 23.  never been asked out.  i've had crushes, but please, like that amounts to anything.  i'm thinking that i'm far to independent to ever fall in love, which really kind of concerns me. there are certainly people incapable of loving anything or anyone. you don't sound like one of them. my guess is you just haven't turned the right page yet. glory in your freedom and the knowledge that you day will come.