text: weight loss? hi i am 20 something petite women that stand at 140 and i need help right now! i’m   40-35-40 i feel that it is to much for woman that is short like me i just had my last child and all this pop up.  with my other 2 baby my weight was the same 120-125 but the breast was still big i feel like a cow but my husband say it ok(maybe he will not tell me ) but i know that  i’m fat. i need help with an effect way to loss weight mainly in the stomach and breast . the hip and thigh just need to be tone (i guess )my dream body would be 36© 26- 36 at 115-120 what can i do help this matter. question   does any body think the weight loss tea would work in this matter i am 5'4" 145 pounds and a 55 year old grandmother. i have no idea what my measurements are. i haven't taken them in decades! i know as one gets older one's butt tends to disappear and flatten out. my point is, as we have kids and age, our bodies change. that does not mean you can't change some of it, but be realisitc with your "ideal."  there is one basic principle for weight loss-burn more calories than you eat. exercise burns calories and shapes the muscles, so that is a good thing.  here are some basic tips for reducing calories.  read food labels.  look for foods that are low in fat, low in calories, high in fiber. avoid most processed foods.  pick low fat or non-fat alternatives. stay away from all fast food. one normal fast food meal has all the fat and calories you need for an entire day. this goes for fried chicken and fish, pizza, hamburgers, etc. plan your meals the day before so you have healthy choices. eat more fruit and vegetables, at least 5 servings a day, more is better. avoid all things with white flour and white sugar in them. soups that have lots of veggetables in broth are good. creamed soups are not.  no chips, unless they are baked. pay attention to the serving amounts on the package.  go easy on rice,.pasta and bread. 1/2 cup (measure it) is a serving for rice and pasta!!!  good luck! i have found that weight watchers works for me.