text: does she like me? or are we friends? i just graduated college, and today i got this message on facebook from a girl that i was friends with. she said she wishes me the best for the future and misses me. while we were in college we had to work alone on a project several times. during this time, we came to be fairly good friends. i would often walk her back to where we parted toward our own apartments. a lot of flirtation went on between us, but she and i never admitted probably because our social group does not date much. we see each other as brother and sister, and so she calls me her brother. but why the heck does she miss me? nobody else has written me anything. are we good friends, or are we more than friends? if you need more info, let me know. thanks! first off, do you know if she's single or seeing someone right now? she could just miss you as a good friend, what i think you should do is ask her yourself. either get her number or meet with her if you're in the same area. do it casually, don't make it seem like a big deal. just reminisce about old times and casually bring up your relationship back then. ask her if she ever thought of you as maybe more than a friend or if there was ever a possibility of there being more between you two. the worst that she could say is you're just a friend, and you'll never be satisfied until you find out for sure. trust me, i'm learning the hard way. hope this helps a little.