text: why are there so many games in dating? is this relationship going anywhere? help guys n gals? i dont date since i believe there is too much hassle into it. met this guy at a mates wedding and he just somehow convinced me to give it a shot... (it took 3 dates for him to convince me i should date him, hehe) the problem is.. i cant see him much anyway due to other commitments at home and work (am working full time and also a carer for my disabled grandmother and teenage cousins) a recent incident where we were spposed to go out together on a group date has confused me it was spposed to be our 6th date (in 3 months) and my frnds all wantd 2 see him, but he never turned up !(being stoodup sucks) he claims that he couldnt wake up, wouldnt pick up the mobile since he'd lost it(i was worried sick), but found it back ! the thing is... his reasons dont make any sense. his apologies sound sincere enuf  but i am having second thoughts. he wouldnt call me after this and claimed it was because he was ashmed to have done that to me. should i say good bye? i still feel attracted 2 him. do as ur heart says. if u r attracted 2 him, then give him another chance. u need 2 believe the 1 u love!  understood?