text: how can you train proud arrogant men to be humble?   if it has to be done, there is a way. it's not easy, but it works. take him out of his comfort zone. he has to be put in a situation where he is not the "top dog". were he's not the smartest, sexiest, strongest, whatever." when he learns that he will not allways be the top dog in every or most situation, he will be as humble as a baby.