text: confidence? when you woman/girls say you like a men withe some confidence in what? best answer!  daniel, my friend.  i am a guy and when a lady say she wants a man with confidence she is referring to his ability to express himself and decision. she wants to know that you believe the thoughts/conversation/ actions you take when with her or are you just running game to impress her.  basically she is saying are you full of sh!%t or sincere to your method of communicatiing.