text: guidelines to becoming a foster parent?   check with your local department of family and youth services. depending on your state the guideline will vary but usually you will have to sign up for a 3 month class that meets once a week. you will discuss the family role, the potential issues and problems your foster children may have after being taken from their homes.   you will then be evaluated and ask to write testimonials as to why you want to be a foster parent. the state will ask for testimonials from a few of your friends and family - which you will designate who you want to write.  they will do a background check on your - arrest records etc to make sure there are no drugs, felonies etc.  it is a process that takes several months to go through but if your heart is into it - it is worth it. good for you.  i dont believe money is a factor in considering whether or not you can be a foster parent. i think single people can foster children and i'm not sure about sexual orientation and fostering. but these are all things that would come up in your classes.  they will also set up your own personal case worker to help you and be available for you for education, help, support etc.   good for you - there are children out there who need you!