text: what's up with this? people say i'm prettier than my friend but guy's alway's seem to be attracted to her 1st  after they date her they alway's want to date me accept 1 he dated me then her then me again but other than that all of my boyfriends have been hers 1st she doesn't care that i date her exes but it's wierd - what the hells up with this i suspect these guys are intimidated by your good looks.  sometimes, a guy looks at a girl who is extremely attractive, and assumes she would never give him the time of day.  he then approaches the girl who is less attractive, but less threatening.  if you tend to dress in a way that is very provocative, simply toning it down a bit, and dressing more conservatively, might help.  you could also experiment with different hairstyles, and see if that affects the way guys react to you.  alternatively, you could look at this thing as a blessing.  we all need some way of filtering out the people we don't want to meet, and you might simply decide that the men who aren't intimidated by your good looks are the only ones you're really after anyway.