text: what would you do when your husband wants to have anal sex and you dont? we have tried it about 4 times and it always hurts...but i want to do this for him. he really really wants it bad will he go somewhere else to get it?? if u are willing to give it another try there is this lube called @nal ease and you can get it @ lovers lane or any store such as that. it numbs the area so it isn't as un comfy when he slips it in. (start w/him using one finger then move to 2 working your way up to his c*ck) it also helps if he goes down on you first. you need to be relaxed for this.  if you don't wanna try that and are not comfortable at all have a talk w/him about it. it is totally a subject that can be worked out. he shouldn't be looking to go some were else.