text: the other day i was looking and i felt kinda bad but this question is for woman? do you ladies know the biggest crime a man committs to a lady is actually a thought in our head when we fatisize? depends on what you are thinking about. if it's something violent or harmful to a woman, then yes it is a crime -- but it's all relative because your moral standards may or may not justify those thoughts.  but fantasies are fantasies, not meant to be acted out.  the good thing is that if you think about women in a fastasy-type way all that means is a) you are human and b) congrats, you have an imagination!