text: please help? sex....................? i've only had sex once, and it was kind of an odd experience when i was drunk, now im with a guy i really like and we want to but im nervous as all h e l l!  im clueless! i might as well be a virgin! what should i do? just fyi we're going to have sex tomorrow so it's not really something i can think on, we are using protection adn we are both adults so please no lectures just useful information if you have any, liiike what should i do as far as foreplay? and during? please help! try a simple massage start at his head work your way to his shoulders.remove his shirt,admire his chest,feel his arms ,his stomache,kiss his neck,look him in the eyes.the rest will come