text: should i give her a try? i have took this girl out for times in 3 weeks because i like her and get on with her. last friday she slept with someone while she was out. she told me and she said i would hate her for it.  i really get on with her but should i persue this any further. i dont know really because i dont know if we were in a relationship or not. does going out and huggin and smooching constitue a relationship and  should i stay away now? well...after a guy and i started dating for a couple of weeks, i slept with a previous boyfriend.  that was the last time i ever slept with another person.  i told the guy because i didn't want him finding out from someone else, and i felt the need to be completely honest with him because i really respected him.  everything worked out, and the guy and i have been married for 15 years.