text: do men understand women? my mate and i  have these arguments that just doesn't make any scence to me and it's always about what he thinks nd it's never about my point of view. i feel there should be some type of compromising going on. right? there should be compromise,and if you guys are thinking that the relationship could possibly be a marriage thing, think long and hard cause right now it seems as if you are on   a one way street to separation if the arguments dont stop and the understanding and listening dont kick in. but ask yourself this also, are you yourself being a good listener, non-confrontational, and reasonable in your answers and conversations with him. if you arent then you have found one problem and once you solve that  things will definitely be easier.