text: what does this mean? poeple are so vague sometimes. the guy i'm going out with says he's having some doubts. he says things like "i don't want to hurt you" which i get ebcause he's older and more experienced than i am *cough* and i'm not ready for certain things. but he also sometimes goes into these cryptic speeches, saying things like "i don't know how long i can keep getting high off of you." i really wish i understood him better. anyway i'm tired and i know i'm not explaining this right, it's hard to say what i mean. i think he really wants more from me and i'm not entirely sure if i'm ready for it or not. i'm worried about losing him. i can already tell this doesn't make any sense, it's past midnight and i'm exhausted, running on three hours of sleep and several cups of coffee... i guess what i need is some reassurance. sorry for... not making any sense. somebody's been watching too many woody allen movies. i never heard anyone talk like that. it sounds forced, contrived, totally fake. cryptic speeches don't usually come into normal loving relationships. at worst, it sounds like he's setting you up for a fall. at best, he's trying to sound overly impressive, but he's either going way over you head, or he just sounds precocious. many people would use choice words like "prick" to describe this stuffed shirt. and no, it's not because he's older, it's because he's in love with the sound of his own voice.  my advice would be to distance yourself from this guy and look forward to the day you meet your prince.