text: is my boyfriend gay? my boyfriend dont have sex with me and he got all these girls who are friends & he talks 2 them & hangs around only girls & never has nothing to do with me. i think hes secretly gay & 2 afraid to admit it. he also motions his body like a gay man does & get this, wears a lot of pink! just ask him. it is obvious that this is something that you two need to talk about. just bring it up and the reasons why. don't insult him if he really is that way, b/c that is who he is. i wouldn't be insulted, but if he isn't gay, then you all may have probelms or he isn't mature enough for a sexual relationship. just bring it up.