text: why am i gay? i am kinda confused. ask and you will know not ...the way that you are gay is not in question ...for the answer is not in the mind but in the heart...now go seek and your heart shall follow, into the  forests and meditate for 7days, then hence forth climb the mountains of rock only retreat if the answer fails you.  dude its just because you are, there is no answer just go with what you feel in your heart and you will be happy and ignore all those that try to bring you down and that goes for all the people who are told they cant be who they are, gay or straight-be happy with you.