text: showing up at my home with no invit or call? does anybody have any problems with people just showing up at your house un-announced, and expects to hang out there all day.  what happened to respect, when you called before showing up.  maybe we have things to do or just wanted to spend time with the family.  happens alot on weekends. i have a huge problem with that. i also have a problem with people expecting you to change your plans to accommodate them. i just refuse to do it anymore. if i were you i would tell the person/people when they come over "i'm sorry, we were just on our way out. i'll call you later ok?" that way you're rid of them, and maybe they'll get the hint without you having to come out and call them on coming over unannounced and uninvited. hope this helps...