text: should i forgive him? should i forgive my dad who left before i was even born and who never even gave me a chance. he never once has contacted me or neither has his side of the family. its all sorta a mystery to me though. im almost 16. my mom remarried when i was 2 and he adopted me and now is my dad. do i forgive my biological or what. its not a good feeling either to be unwanted by your dad. jesus says to forgive and forget! even though you may treat him differently for what he did to you; don't hold on to those grudges, they slow you down in life!! so forgive him forget it and show him what he missed all these years!