text: i need to know help? how do u french kiss a girl i need tips bad plz help. i remember the first time i did it. first off get real close to her (close enough where if you get wood she'll feel it) and most importantly close your dam eyes!!! i can't stress that enough. then simply kiss her on the lips once and then put your tongue in her mouth the second time around. try to swirl yours with hers and hold it for around 10-20 secs. if you guys are into it, you can bite her lip after ur done and have her bite urs. it's rowdy. don't worry with practice u'll be a master frencher. (although it loses all meaning once you move up to more sexually satisfying things) (like head)