text: relationship help? ok, i have been with this guy for about a year we leave together, i just recently kicked him out because he has lied to me several times about his drinking problem... he also has many legal issues. i have been so stressed out and couldnt take it anymore, so he got kicked out 3 days ago, in 3 days i met up with my old elementary school crush we were friends growing up and talked off and on all the time... we hung out the whole weekend and now all those feelings are coming back that i had felt for him. my question basically is should i give my boyfriend, who i know i do love, another chance and try to make things work or should i try to be with my old crush and try to something new? try being by yourself for a while. nothing is worse than carrying old baggage into a new relationship.