text: how the dangers of date rape been exaggerated? pros and cons yes they have.  most of the time: "i was date raped" really means: "i was a hooker last night and i regret what i did".  i think it's ironic that when guys get drunk and have sex with some cow their buddies make fun of them.  but when girls get drunk and have sex with some ugly guy they can whine about how they were "raped" and get sympathy from their friends.  who then eat icecream with them and cry about how horrible it was later on.