text: need help, ladies please answer? i live with a girl i have been with for just about three years now. for me the feelings just arn't there any more. i love her, but as a friend. and just as a friend. she is the most sensitive girl in the world and takes everything the wrong way and cries over everything. this will break her heart and hurt her so bad. especially since she lives there with me. how do i tell her i feel this way and think we should sepparate???? i think for most sensitive girls (i would say i am one) i think it is best done like a band-aid - really. a lot of the time we fake that we are sensitive and vulnerable so guys feel they can't leave us. also, how do you know that she doesnt doubt the relationship as well. above all - you need to tell her how you feel. i can guarentee that is the only way to go forward. and when you tell her, just say 'we need to talk about us' so she knows exactly what is coming.