text: my family is not happy that i will only have one birthday party for my daughter? recently my uncle shot my husbands aunt. i know sounds crazy but it's true. my uncle is in jail where he should be. i am having a birthday party and am inviting every body. some are mad and said they won't come if others are invited. i told all of them that it is not about my aunt and uncle it is about my daughter it is her birthday... what should i do? i can't afford two parties. maybe you should have one party that lasts all day. one half of the party can come in the morning and the other half can come in the afternoon. you can also make it a pot luck so you don't have to supply all the food. good luck!