text: give me some reasons to go on living? having found out my wife having an affair my 2 kids don't care if i'm around or not,i have no where else to go, no family or friends, and i'm to old to start dating all over again and don't want to as i still love her. so guys can you solve this problem, i've had 2 unsucessful tries already at saying goodbye, if you get my drift. time heals all wounds, its just too early to think about dating again. i dont think it's much about women vs men...both can hurt and feel pain just as much as the other. try to get ur mind off of things, spend time with ur kids to build a more solid relationship with them, ur parents, go out and have fun with ur friends...truth is that although u think no one cares for u, u will be leaving too many ppl in alot of pain, feeling guilt, feeling like u could have done so much more. life is a b*tch no matter how u see it. but u cant run away from it, u have to find ways to build up strength and a place where u know u can be someone in this world...even if its for 2 kids that supposedly dont care for u right now. dont give up...make it right for urself. god did not put u on this earth to take the easy way out, so dont focus on dating and finding someone else because u dont feel like anything else is worth living, try making what u have work for u...and think of how fortunate u are to have the little u have. work on ur life, u have so much and u dont even know it, somewhere...but u have to want to find it, and learn to appreciate how much ur place in the world is important to alot of ppl.