text: he said he loves me!? i posted a ? recently about my sitch and got some answers . my bf wants to do the nitty gritty but i dont know if i should. my heart say yea but my mind is sayin no . im going crazy . what should i do bcuz i love him and he says he does to. if your not ready than dont do it! wait as long as u can. i was 15 when i did it for the first time and i still regret from this day. and i use to say i loved him too! now its 10 years later and i dont even care if he exsisted. you have plenty of time. your virginity is sacred. if you mind says no than follow it.