text: am i the only one who gets critizised for playing ultimate frisbee in my school by my friends? i play ultimate frisbee in my school and am a second string varsity player but when i encourage my friends to play with me, they label it as a "pansy sport" and a "club hobby" i just wanted to know if i was the only one, and why this happens don't change what you are doing for anyone. you are doing what you love. someday those people will grow up---give them 20 years or so. what you are going through is called growing pains. just let them be. this is very common to.