text: i been with this man for 8months and i can never get him to tell me how he feel about what can i do?   i would say that he is not wanting to commit to a relationship, all out.  telling you how he feels about your relationship may, in his mind be committing himself for the rest of his life.  there are some guys out there like that.  if you truly love him, time will tell.  he will open up to you.  good luck!