text: ???? stay or go home? when i married my husband i was 7 mo. pregnant. when i had the baby i let my brother move in with us for a while. things quickly crashed for us. i couldnt stand it anymore between the both of them ganging up on me and being assholes. while i took care of my new son. they expected that i stay home to clean spotless and keep my mouth shut. i left in feb of this year with my son and moved to another town. my brother moved out and my ex is alone. i cant help but feel that because we had no time as newleyweds that that is the reason our marrage failed. i love him but was so hurt. should we try to work things out? think about how far you have come, all the good things in life now, how you can walk into a peaceful home and not feel that tension. how hard was it to leave? to start over? to rebuild your life..... is it worth risking that all over again if your marriage doesn't work?  if the answer is yes, then go back. no one here knows if it will work however, a man that belittles his wife rarely rarely changes. he should have defended you when your brother picked on you. he should always be your hero!