text: all guys and girls who have had a prob like this please answer-- would you go out with her again? i went on a really good date. he even told a mutual friend it was good. i don't see him often and am not into him anymore. i just want to know this info. for future dates. be honest... we went out and had an awesome conversation. it was never dull or anything. it was the best convo ever. we had a lot in common. anyways i didn't really look him in the eyes because i didn't want to put myself out there so i wouldn't get hurt or fall too fast. anyways we hugged goodbye and he hugged me really tight. since i didn't make much eye contact, do you think he thought i wasn't interested and decided to blow me off? or by not creating any eye contact i got put into the friend category and since we went on a date he was scared to pursue a friendship. i tried to make contact so we could be buddies but he never responded. thanks a ton!   let's say i wanted to pursue it. would u drop him a note a month later? i did try to make contact up to two weeks after the date. i dropped him two notes on msn if you have tried to contact him twice, but received no reply, i think it's fairly obvious that he is not interested in pursuing anything with you - friendship or otherwise.