text: what is wrong with my relationship? please help!? i have a fiancee, we have been together for more than 5 yrs. we also have 4 yr. old son together!! lately, we have been having constant fights! we get along for a few days and fight all the time. we can't seem to get along. i give her everything, but she doesn't seem to appreciate. she tells me that she wants to continue living with me, but when i explain and advise her how to lead her life, she does the opposite. it is getting really frustrating!! what should i do? why are you telling her how to lead her life?  maybe that's what's bothering her.  no one likes to be told what to do all the time and a partnership is about working together, not one person being in charge.  ask her what she wants besides living with you.. you may be frustrating her as much as she is frustrating you!