text: what do you do when you love someone with all your heart but your not in love like you use to be? i,ve been with my husband for 9 years and i love him with everything in me weve been thur alot good and bad easy and hard times. but i,m just not in love with him like i use to be. i dont want anyone else. i want some of the romance back i push him away not meaning to but to be honest he likes sex and i just dont get into it a hole lot cause of medcail reasons but he dont push me. i just want to make things better if you love him with all your heart then that's the best thing you can ever give him. as for love making, you should let him know that your sexual preferences have just become different and he should try to understand.