text: my mother found out...? my mother found out that i lost my virginity a while back, and every time she starts to think about it, she tells me "it kills me to know that i'm not a good mother" and stuff like that. and it really hurts, because it's like she feels guilty for this. and i just want her to stop already. it's life, that's how life is. things don't turn out the way they're supposed to. how do i make her stop? because every time she says things like that to me, it makes me feel like crap. and i get enough of that with every day life, because i'm depressed, and i have low self-esteem. tell her to face it...u thot u are adult enough to do it..now actually be adult enough to face it..