text: how can i react if i my brother has made me upset ?   well i know that ur first reaction will be bursting out and yelling at each other,then both of u will leave the room and will feel like u don't want to talk to each other,then u will both calm down and find urself unconsciously talking again and solving the problem. belive me try to skip the yelling phase and just try to leave him for a while until u both calm down...believe me this will save u from stress and losing energy.