text: why does this happen all the time? please answer!? why is it that all the perverted, egotistic, selfish guys email me in yahoo answers, and not the nice, decent guys who i like?? recently i got messages from a guy who has been chatting with me for some time because he's looking for a wife (potentially me) and he was always giving me hints at that, and the disgusting part is that he's 30 and i'm 18! can you believe it! i've talked to some other guys and some of them seem nice but, most of them are old except for one, and he seems to be a very decent guy, but that's only one guy compared to all the 100 perverts! why is that i can't seem to connect to nice guys but seem to lure the bad ones!!?? why is that nice guys never take me seriously even though i'm serious, (well, most of the time)? hello,    my name is rod and i'm 36.  i think that part of the problem is that a lot of guys just dont have respect for women,  or they disrespect thinking that they are cool and they are not even putting the shoe on the other foot because if they were being sincere and some women started bashing them i dont think that they would like to be treated like that.  kinda like the pot calling the kettle  black.   hope this helps and good luck in your search.