text: 2 years dating, break-up, then what? my girl friend has just dumped me after 2 years as she feels she wants to be a lone and that we have our differences. it's been a month now and i'm still thinking of her, haven't spoken in 4 weeks now. she did say to me that she wish she had me as a best friend still when she broke up with me. is it possible to still be friends and even class this break up as a learning curve where two people can get back together? i really want to contact her but i'm not. well learn from your mistakes.