text: because of the fact that no one on the net can see you if you don't want them to, do you lie about you are? of what you look like? i don't lie but i don't get into physical characteristics. i like chatting with people etc. because of what they are saying and vis-a-verse. that is what is neat about chatting on line and not in person. you don't feel judged by any flaws that you may have.