text: suspicious of boyfriend? i think i may have reasons to be suspicious of my new boyfriend. he's a really great guy,kind,loving and treats me well. but when i was with him yesterday his ex girlfriend kept phoning him and leaving him voicemails. she's only become like this since she found out he was dating someone else(me),but they split up months ago and she cant seem to let go. anyway,me and my bf work in the same building and i was in a room by myself and i heard him outside talking on his phone, he was saying things like,'we will meet for lunch next saturday' and he seemed like he was trying to be secretive and i could'nt hear everything what was said. you may think i'm being jealous but my ex bf cheated. should i wait and see if he mentions it or if he doesnt see me next saturday i'll know right? ouch... if i were you i would definitely ask about it... just kind of lean ito it with questions like, "why were you outside talking on the phone?" "who were you talking to earlier?" or go straight out and ask him who he is going to lunch with next saturday and when he is   at lunch give him a small phone call. you have every right to be concerned i know i would be. normally when a girl becomes suspicious of her boyfriend she is usually about 60-80% right about what's going on so definitely ask him about it before you drive yourself crazy. leave him if he is keeping into too much touch with his ex. it'll become a lot of trouble in the end. good luck.