text: bachelor/ette limo? i'm thinking about getting a limo to tak everyone in the bachelor/ette party from place to place, but due to where we live (katrina disaster area) limo's are unbelieveable! is it right to ask everyone going to the parties to put in on the limo, since its to ensure a safe trip for everyone since drinking will be happening? are you the bachelor/ette? if so you shouldn't have to pay for anything. it is more typical now that the maid of honor/best man don't pay for the whole party. it is totally alright to split the bill. for my bachelor party that is what we did, everyone paid for themself and split up the bachelor's expense among the group. it worked out very nicely.