text: my guy tells me he loves me but?!? ok my guy is a bit more than a few years older than me so i dont get too see him as often as i would like and i love him soo much but the problem is is that he tells me he loves me but a "friend" told me that he told her that he told sum girl that he loved her so what the hell is up with that and its like he ignores me when hes home and its very hard to get ahold of him anybody know whats up??? dear friend, you know your friend that told you what he said might be lying. think about it! best thing to do is comfront your guy with this question, remember communication is essential in a relationship right along with love and trust. you'll never know till you ask him about the other girl. watch out for warning signs too! have a great day and keep on searching til you find the truth. good luck