text: why are most guys jerks?? so i was hangin out with this guy ( a friend) and he told me that we had to be all or nothing. that if we weren't going to be together then we better not be friends and hang out? and i didn't want a boyfriend, so now i've lost a friend =(... i'm a senior in highschool, and we were going to a dance together and he told me that we shouldn't go to the dance either, so now i'm dateless.... gr.... stupid boys, why are guys like this?? no not all guys are jerks. some guys do eventually grow up and realize what life is all about. if l was you l wouldn't worry too much he is obviously still young and immature, give him time ( if you want to ofcourse) maybe he will grow up and learn how to treat girls with the respect they deserve. find yourself another dance partner and friend and leave him be. his loss you will be fine, trust me !!!!!!!!