text: explain to me, why are females catty? i am a fairly attactive female.  i say this not  because i'm vain, but i have recieved comments from a lot of guys. i mind my own business and i treat everyone well. i am  modest. so why is it that almost everywhere i go, i get negative reactions from other females? that is something that i do not understand because i am not catty, like most females. i get the same thing girl and it all boils down to one thing, one word...jealousy. girls like to be the most attractive girl in the crowd and when we come around we make them self consious and take the atention off of them. i am also not vain, but i realize this situation all of the time, and i am not the only one, my guy friends notice it also.