text: confused, which way? i'm dating a guy which is 6 yrs younger than me,we geta long great and live together. my daughter nearly 5 yrs also gets along with him very well, although she told him that he will never be her dad. her father wants us back, he moved with his girlfriend about 6 hrs drive from where we are, they broke up and now wants to reunite his family..what to do? what will be the best choice for my daughter? we live in a city, where helives now at the coast. pls help.... do what your heart think is right. i think that either way your daughter will be happy. i also think that she will understand that she will always have her dad.