text: why is it okay for guys to watch porn and stuff but not as okay for girls? i mean, it's prefectly normal for a guy to watch porn but not really for girls! i'm ont saying that i do or do not watch porn, i'm just trying to understand this! some one help me (please)!!! society is more open towards men being overtly sexual. i think most women on the whole are less sexual then men....and are encouraged to be less then they otherwise would be even further by cultural moores.  it's the same reason almost no women admit to touching themselves.  most men have no problem admitting it.....even comparing techniques.  personally i find honest women who are open about their sexuality a huge turn on....and women who like porn?  hell yes!!!  i won't have to hide it when she comes over.  i don't think it's even that unusual for women to watch (although clearly less common then in men).