text: please time to tell the truth? can a man ever  really change  to save his relationship and family your question seem not just about male alone, but it is rather an universal issue.  the truth is, that every individuals makes mistakes. if one can step back a bit and see their mistake in a objective manner, having know the need of changing and developing which is good. it is possible to repair what is damaged or broken. all we need to do is to develop our empathic ability, and use it in a constructive way. and yes, one can change. it is just matter of time.