text: help me plzzz...? i know this guy lets call him "batman" i have known him for almost a year and we became really really really good friends well i fell hard for "batman" and after 6 months we "did it" several times within a week or two some times we were alittle drugged but others we weren't but i could not get him to date me he told me he wasent wanting to be in relationship right now then this best friends ex girlfriend moves into town and looks him up and she starts coming over all the time and before i knew it they were dating within like a week and i had to find out from the big mouth i work with he did'nt even have the balls to tell me!!!!and on top of it all the b*t*h has a f*c*ing kid and she ugly as f*ck...what do i do? i'm at a loss... well i don't mean to be mean, but all too often people get what they ask for.  did you take time to get to know this person?  did you make clear the level of commitment you expected?  did you wait until you had a committed relationship before you jumped into a sexual reltionship.    you deserve better but, until you relize it and insist on that from the man you choose to have relationships with, you will be treated just as you are.  being a strong woman doesn't mean being agressive, it means insisting on only the best for ourselves.  this trash talk is beneith you and so is this man.  but luckily each day is a new one. you don't have to choose to be a victim tommorrow.    stand strong sister!