text: what do i do when a man i am in love with wants me only for my money.?   turn away from him, as fast as you can.  whenever he meets somebody with more money, you will be history or he will double dip.  then you will feel terribly used and low, because he took advantage of you.  i was in a similar situation, so i speak from experience.  i was too blind to notice until i found out he was going out with two more people.  man can perceive this, and they really take advantage.  i wish you meet somebody with good feelings towards you.  there are plenty of men in the world.  good luck.