text: guys---if you "get down" with a boy once, will he expect it from then on? if you have sex with a guy after the 3rd date (not in a cliche way-just happened that way) and you think it was too soon, is the guy going to expect it every time you two are alone together? depends on the guy and how good you were? but this is a gift from you and should be shared only when you feel the time is right!