text: should i meet someone in person that i met online that is 3 years older than i am? ok well i met this one person on the internet (3 years older than me) should i meet them?? my mom did and she knew then for like a month and as soon as she met him in person she got engaged i hated it! i mean comeon but that long ok and if she's cool and everything.  accutaly i changed my mind i didn't see that if your 14 no offence but noooo not at all not until you at lease like 18-21