text: for gay, lesbians, pro-gay and lesbians only. some advice please. those religion/bible die-hards... stay out!? i have 2 friends, one gay one straight girl. thay are both liking the same guy that lives on the next street... they are always telling me how sweet he is, how kind etc. but they don't know that the they love the same guy. and worse, the guy they are talking about is just playing with their affections! what should i do? should i confront that guy and explain to my 2 friends all those things? or should i just hit the guy in the head with a frying pan because he's fooling my friends? that is very sweet of you to look out for your friends.  there is a good chance that nothing will ever happen between any of them.  if by chance, any of the two friends does start to get more serious with this person, then it would be best to warn your friend - but the stars may be in this person's eyes, and he or she may think that you are jealous.  that is why you are warning her or him.  keep a close watch on them - as you are - but don't make a move until they get into the line of fire.  your friends will also have to learn who is truly sincere and who is a phony - so you can't always protect them - they need to learn this on their own - even if it hurts - because otherwise, they will make the same mistake over and over again.  good luck and god bless you all.