text: is it just me, or are marriages more trouble than their worth? so many fights. drifting apart. screaming kids. bad bad bad. marriage is a beautiful thing. a marriage is what you make of it. it's your choice whether or not you have the fights and screaming children. i have a wonderful marriage. 3 (very well discipline)children, ages 12, 9, & 4. my husband and i may have a disagreement once a month. that's it. if i had to do it all over again. i would. so the answer to your question is: it's just you.