text: boss has me doing crappy personal things? i work for a very successful attorney. he is one of the most arrogant people i've ever met in my life - but he pays me great.  i mostly work at home doing billing, but when my husband schedule allows, i go into the office for a few hours a week. he is married and his wife doesn't work and they have an 8 year old.  i spend my days calling to find massage places that offer a shower afterwards (he doesn't like feeling oily), finding places that his daughter can have private tennis lessons on specific days and times, calling his house maid and complaining that she didn't clean the master bath good enough. this afternoon i got an email from him asking me to get hanukah wrapping paper.  i hate doing these things for myself, never mind for someone else. does anyone else do crap like this? or maybe i'm just not used to doing this kind of work for someone else? or maybe because he is just arrogant? should i just suck it up and think about my upcoming paycheck when i get annoyed? it may not be the job your applied for, but the money is. nothing your write is illegal or immoral - presuming he and not the company is paying your salary. if you report him to the company, you get sacked and he will get his fanny tapped. you do the same thing - do you think the grocery stocker likes turning the cereal back around after you studied the back? how about the retail clerk who has to refold the shirt you held up to hubby?  in our own way, each of us inconveniences others. when it becomes intolerable, we need to move on. i know, i used to have to pick up bulletins in the pews after preaching at 3 services.