text: what is going on...? ...i have a bf but recently, all of my guy friends have been crazy flirting with me. they poke me in the stomach and have this nickname for me, and always talk to me. they also push me, and other ways of physical contact (nothing sexual)that doesnt actualyl inflict damage, but just to touch me or something. would this be considered as being hit on? also they are all friends with my bf, and this happens even when my bf is present. i really don't mean to be a flirt, but also do you think my bf cares? it always seems the moment a girl gets a boyfriend they get a whole lot more attention from the other guys in  their life.  i'd think it's just playful flirting and maybe trying to assert themselves a little as men...or perhaps to keep you and your bf from not hanging out with them (like to show they're comfortable with you- maybe now that you're off limits)