text: what is the best book for self help? there are so many out there that i am completely lost!!! if you want to feel better overall and motivate yourself you can read anything out there by tony robbins.  i liked "unlimited power."  they are all pretty good.    if you want to organize your business brain and focus your plan a little better, you can read "think and grow rich" by napoleon hill.    if you want to improve your dating life you could read "double your dating" by david deangelo.  (ebook only)  if you wanted to become more of a man you could read "the way of the superior man" by david deida  none of these books will change your life just by reading them.  you have to practice what they say, evaluate what each one has done for you, then tweak it a little bit to fit yourself.    i am currently interested in the concept of being congruent on the "neurological levels" of neuro-linguisitc programming (nlp).  this is the path that i am on to get rid of conflicting drives.  you know when your like "i want to be healthy but i don't feel like exercising or eating right."  that is a conflicting drive.  nlp may be something to look into....