text: how do you know that a man is flirting? i would prefer for guys/men to answer this question, or women who have quite the experience. what are indications of a man flirting? for instance, if i am the girl, how do you know that you are already actually flirting? what signs would assure me that you are interested in me? flirting is an easy thing to tell. especialy in these days where chilvery is not quite as dead as people make it out to be. amorous words, or closeness can be a sign, or if mayhaps you have been around this man for quite some time, he may have a small crush on you. flirting is diffrent than love itself, so keep in mind: flirting cannot allways lead to a long lasting relationship. depending on your age though, it may be quite difficult to tell the diffrence.