text: i recently started using match.com. do you think the profiles are sincere or are just interesting reading? some of the self proclamations of all the good traits sound like nothing more than a good ad.  if you have gone on the website, you might agree with me as well.  i would love a relationship through this medium, but is scared about 'a puss in the bag' ideology. some are sincere, some are not.  you have to use your judgement.  talk to them for a bit first, you'll get to know somewhat their personalities.  if they seem ok, then agree to meet him in a public place.  on line dating is risky but can be fun!  i've been using yahoo personals for a while and have met some wonderful guys, and have had some, well, interesting ones as well lol.  trust your instincts!!!  and good luck!