text: should i talk with my friend? because someone told me that dont talk with me depends on how close your friend is. is it someone you really care about? is it someone you counldn't be bothered if you never talked to again. if you are friends, and the friend asked you not to talk with him/her, you have the right to know why and demand an explanation. because if it was something you did, you would get the chance to apologize. if it was for no reason, then you know where you stand from such a person. only you can decide that! :) good luck