text: isn't this messed up?? i told my boyfrien'ds cousins that we all go out to celebrate his birthday. they all came over my house and had drinks. then we got them in free at the club w/ passes my bf got. you would thik they would have treated for drinks or something, but my bf ended up shelling over $200 bucks! of course i was mad at him for doing that, but damn, it got me mad that they didn't pay for anything... i guess i expected something different. if it was my friend's or family's bday i would get them at least something! happens once shame on them and him, twice shame on you and your b/f.  there is a line between nice and stupid with yoru money.  i work ina  bar, and know how easy it is to rack up a tab, but some people will do anything if they know they can drink for free...you know..when in rome.