text: is there anyone out there who is gay, bisexual , straiht or al esbian? see i have a friend who is bi and she is always touchy touchy and i don't want to be rude or anything but it is kinda freking me out if you are uncomfortable by her touching you, by all means, let her know.  for some people - it is their way - but for others, like yourself, it is not part of your personality.  just explain very calmly that you would appreciate it if she did not touch you as she does simply because you do not feel comfortable.