text: how do i deal with a pervert without going to the  police or violence ? my daughter is not in danger now but i want revenge on this man but i cannot do anything physical and i dont want to do anything ilegal. please help me with ideas try and get a photo of him and then print some flyers off detailing what you know about him and put them up in public areas where you live. on the poster put if you know this man keep your children away from him, he is dangerous.  if he sees it, it will shame him into leaving or maybe if you are lucky he will go down to whitehaven docks and throw himself in!  good luck.