text: members of the armed forces:  do you ever feel sexually objectified? i know a lot of women who'll go out with a guy simply because he's in the armed forces.  a few of them will even sleep with a guy, especially a marine, no questions asked, just because he's a marine.  i would think it's not too hard to tell when that's the case.  i know some people find it flattering, but i would think it would be insulting too, as if if you didn't wear a uniform to work, you would just be another guy.  what do you think?  i'm attracted to men in uniform myself, but that doesn't mean i'd slut myself for it, or overlook the fact that a guy is an ass just because he looks good in his uniform. its a cliche. its like why people have to wear like polo or nautica or have coach purses. its a cliche and its a style they "want' and they think they "need"   women think that they feel secure with a man in the military, when in reality, we're just another guy. yeah we work in bigger "corporations" where we have weapons, and special traning blah bah blah, but in reality, hello? we're just men. men are men no matter what.   again, not all military guys are a ss holes. and not all of them are jerks. you have to be the judge of that. no way you can just judge them on their uniform. and think, "wow that guy has a lot of medals, he must be really good." sorry it doesn't work that way.   women, no offense i think in my own opinion, they just want to be flattered. have bragging rights, yeah my bf was in the military or is in the military and he's some big guy. kind of in those ways.