text: hurt by the ex? ok guys, i was with my ex for 4 years and he seriously hurt me by cheating on me and i did not know this until i went over to visit him and i met the girl there....cuz i wanted to surprise him...tried to beg him and ask him back but he refused....now i am with someone else and i absolutely adore him but i am not sure if i am in love?....now my ex wants me back...so i am so confused and the thing is my boyfriend now loves me so much but i can show him that i care as much cuz i don't wanna get hurt?...what do i do?...am i being mean or should i show my emotions....i am so scared...help stay with the one that loves you and show him you love him too. don't even think about the ex, he will cheat on you again.