text: where can i learn to kiss passionately? my boyfriend and i have been together for months now, but then i still don't know how to kiss.. he is already experienced in kissing and i am not... we have been kissing but not yet torrid or french kissing... how do you kiss passsionately?? hehe the good kiss would be one that involves the right feeling and the right guy. at the beginning, it'd be nice to just suck (or gently kiss) his lips, top lip first, then bottom lip next, and up again. once you both feel comfy and warmed up, you can try using the tongue if you're comfy.  give him a little hint that you wanna use your tongue by slowly opening your mouth and slowly stick ur tongue in... what i used to do was to suck on his tongue. also try the "tongue wrestle"! can also explore by licking around his teeth and tongue... some additional stuff you can try are: iced/cold water (the sensation of cold lips on warm is really wow!), cordial drink, soft drink, and also... pop candies! (that popping sensation really feels like fireworks in a passionate kiss!)