text: do you think it is easier for a girl to get a bf than for a guy to get a gf? i think it is a lot easier for a girl to find a guy do you? please pardon my language when i say...... hell yes !!!!! good guys like me are under so much pressure, that it's almost heart-stopping. it's 2006, and it would be nice that women show their independence and make the first move, and relieve some of that pressure we have bottled up. it's very hard for some guys to get a gf, because we're not jerks, and we try to show women that we're after the total package, and not just sex.