text: what would you do? my friend, her husband and their 2 daughters came for a visit. they traveled 180 miles, spent a total of 3 days, didn't supply any of their own food, personal needs items, etc. .he was drinking heavy .and they were constantly fighting and argueing, and he got so drunk he was beligerent blaming his alcohol problem on his 11 year old step daughter.  i took 3 days of this before i gave him the choice of no drinking in my home or leave. he got real nasty and started cursing at me so i told him i was calling the police to ask him to leave, they left and went home but left the oldest child with me for 2 weeks,because she wanted to stay, should i call her real father and tell him how his child is forced to live or leave it alone?  i'm half tempted to call child protective services on them i saw things i did not like. cruel treatment, emotional abuse and physical neglect....i could use some advice.... call the real father, child services, and welfare enforcement. this family is one deranged group and everyone is suffering, especially the children. you were 100% correct in demanding that he stop drinking; it is your home, you make the rules. and it was very kind of you to rescue that girl for two weeks... now take a stand for her!