text: how do you get a guy to like you without embarresing yourself?   first you must like and respect yourself. be current on the news. work on some hobbies. read books---even travel books. smile a lot---sincerely. take up at least one sport. be kind and help those who need it---old people, pregnant women, the disabled. shower everyday and keep yourself well groomed. always stand straight and don't slouch ever! wear feminine clothes, decent and not revealing. don't always have a band of girlfriends around you. all these will help you gain more confidence. then you can be spotted a mile away.