text: did you ever try to do something romantic, and it turned out very embarassing?? what happened?   i can't say that this was embarrasing, but it surely was a disappointment. i was a newly wed of only 1 month and made a nice romantic dinner with candles and wine in our very small apartment with the thought of afterwards making love on the floor in our living room. after dinner my husband says he has a headache and goes to bed...alone.  i was left there alone, feeling like a complete idiot. keep in mind we both worked that day, it wasn't like i was home relaxing all day.