text: how do i ask a girl out of my league..out? im a pretty shy guy when it comes to the women...and too nice to actually have something happen. kind of affraid ladys what would you recommend me doing? just be genuine, and a genuine gentleman.  although many women are independent these days, many of us still like to be treated like princesses: delicate.  so open the door, kiss the hand, and above all respect.  don't expect "anything," just feel lucky when it happens.