text: i'm 23,my date's 36.we love eachother but i have lots of doubts about what will be in the future.to go for it?   take one day at a time, and don't worry about the future. unless he is not willing to have kids with you, then you shouldn't worry about the age differnce. if he doesn't want kids, and you do, then i think you need to decide which is more important to you, your boyfriend, or children. for now enjoy your relationship, and take it day by day.