text: when did you...? when did you lose your virginity? either answer this or tell me when you had your first sexual experience with a person of the same sex if you lost your virginity to a person of the opposite sex. i mean tell me how old you were, and if you don't mind, tell me who was it with?, did you like it? i was married, with one son. i met and came out with another married guy when i was 28. the sex was strange, but exciting....sort of came used to it...we were together for 16 years. both ended up getting divorced, but remained very good fathers to our kids.