text: is it better to not ask for anything on valentines day, and just see if he remembers, or tell him what u want? i really want to see if the guy im with cares enough about me to get me something for valentines day on his own with no help from me. but i will be very upset and disapointed if i don't get anything. well i am kinda in the same boat but i think i am just gonna wait and see if he really cares enough to buy me something on his own he did on xmas but if he asks you what you want tell him