text: why does love hurt so much? i've been in a relationship with this female for 2 yrs and last year around this time she cheated on me and now she's doing it again. how can someone say they love u and do the same stuff to  hurt you again. i know i need to get out but it hurts so bad. please help, what should i do? sorry to hear that but you need to let her go if she is doing the exact same thing again. second chances are deserved by everyone but for her to do it again just means she has no love for you and no respect for your feelings because if she did she would have been truthful instead of sneaking off to get something on the side.. it hurts to be let down...wasting time denying the inevitable is not fair to yourself. move on and keep hope in the fact there is someone out there who will respect and love you it takes time but you will  find her.