text: i just found out my wife cheated but its not even the worse part of it what should i do? the man she had been sleeping with has been living in my attic for a month and i had no idea. when i say living, he has a furnished room.. i came home early from work last week and heard something and then caught them in the act. when i told him to go home, he went up to the attic. i followed him to find that the storage room had become a bedroom. i went to confront my wife and she had already left (i haven't seen her since).   in order to get him out of the house i have to evict him...according to the police. i am so upset right now. since my wife left, i have no one to help with the bills.. should i just charge him rent so i can make ends meet? he doesn't have anywhere to go.  