text: how long should you wait after a relationship ends to pursue another?   i think you only know that.  were you very in love? or not? some advice tought:  1- if you just pursue a relationship for the rebound, you will fell worst and end up hurting someone.  2- why does it have to be so drastic? you can date as much friends as you want, without getting to serious first. let your own heart and mind dictate you that.  3- trust what you feel.  4- dont do stupid things, do not feel down. never.  5- time is your best allie.