text: i am trying to get along  with my fiance but i don't know how to settle our difference.? well we like different things. we have nothing in comment but we are tired of dating different peolpe. we just wanted to settle down but now it seems like things are changing. i tried to see the positive side of things and he sees the negative side. i feel like i am no good for him. know he don't want to spend time with me. first off, i am sorry you are in that situation.  i was too, and i did marry that guy.  i do love my husband but we still don't get along any better. we were forced into marriage because i was pregnant and i had just left an abusive realtionship and wanted a steady thing.  don't settle with someone just to settle down.  sure the idea of a husband is nice, but what is the point if you can't get along?  your happiness is of the utmost importance.  you need to sit down and have a talk with him about your feelings, he at least deserves that. he may feel the same way. good luck!