text: how do you deal with a guy that is arrogant?   say, "are you aware that you come across as very arrogant?  (yes/no)  oh.  well, you do.  i just thought if you didn't already know, i should point it out." and walk away  :-) or you can tell him he's out of your league, or tell him you don't like the way he acts & refuse to have anything to do with him as long as he acts that way.... lots of options here. sometimes you just need to put someone in his place  :-)