text: how can i ask a guy out and not make myself seem stupid or dessprate?!?!? i really like this guy in a grade above me and we talk sometimes on the phone but i do want to seem over-likative or annoying but i want him to find out the real me and ask me out what should i do?????? why you saying that 2006 woman ask males out all the time i work as a cooler and women ask for mens for phone numbers, ask them to dance, buy the drinks times has changed better go ask before someone else stop being negetive after the first date he will ask you out hurry and lets us know how happy you are.*