text: how do i fix this? i thought that my exboyfriends (we are working on things) ex girlfriend was at his house sunday, and i confronted him.  he said she was not there, that he was at his nieces b-day party. (which was confirmed)  i had a slight attitude, but didn't want to bring it up.  he kept asking what my problem was, so i told him what i thought.  he got mad, and told me once i get this girl out of my system then to call him.  the thing is i caught him lying before about him and her talking. so i asked him was he seeing her again.  he said no.  i want to get past this issue, but it's hard.  how do i do it?  how do i express my apology w/o looking like some sappy wimp? giving him up is out of the question.  so don't suggest it. if you have to ask the answer on here you have problems work it out let it come from your heart not someones you dont know