text: is it time for a new girlfriend? ive been with her for 1 year and 1 month...i have no problem with her. but she suggest i change myself to make it work out. im off to college in july and im just not sure if its worth. if she suggested a change, she's not happy.  do the right thing, bow out now before she ends up bitter and resentful.  you can find someone else in college.