text: should i take it as one of those things? i have been having a crush on this guy for almost 2yrs now, we became friends kind of 9mnths later after we saw each other.i even knew him before i hooked up with my boyfriend .we work for the same company but different buildings. so we have been exchanging looks since then. however, we finally kissed on the way dropping me off to the bus station. i don't love him and he doesn't love me, we just lust after each other. so did i do something wrong since i am still with my boyfriend. it depends on the relationship you have with your boyfriend, are you both open to see other people. how would you feel if your boyfriend kissed another female? i don't know about you but i have zero tolerance for that stuff.