text: i am in deep sorrow, and i need a help?!? i met someone , a gentleman and i gave him my numberphone. he shows me for the begining that he likes me and he said it to me and i love him. meanwhile an other man ' ready for marriage ) wants to marry me and he is gentleman but i do ont know him, i do not even see  his face, i ve heard that he is good guy. i m confused, the first guy likes me but he is not ready for marriage , should i wait?, and i m not sure of his feelings towards me, i m afraid if he is lying on me, and he wants to pass  time with me (just words). and  i do not know who is the good one for me , the one who i can liv e  happy with him. simply, should i wait the first one if he is really wants me or marry the secnd one' i do not like him and i do not want to know him' ?. i believe you have answered the question yourself. when you say that you don't like the second guy and you don't want to know him then he is basically not a choice anymore. however, since the first guy is not ready for marriage, a good way to test him would be to tell him that you have been proposed by someone else and since he is not ready for marriage so you are confused about this relationship and ask him for a definite answer. in the meanwhile, i would suggest to at least meet the other guy once. as far as i know seeing is believing. you never know what good may be waiting for you there. no need to give him your contact number or anything else in the first meeting just keep it to the introduction and to general topics. if he tries to advance too fast then obviously he just trying to get into your pants. think i have written enough. will be good to know your decision and progress. take care