text: ok i have some [[friend]] problems!help!? ok well see i have this friend and it seems like she always thinks of her-self and never has time for my problems,but she expects me to help her with hers.im am the kind of person thats not mean,not a backstabber,and nice!and everytime they take advantage of me or they use me and im tired of it!im totally out of answers and need advice on how to handle things like this!  thanks so much ♥jordan she's not your friend. you're hers.  the difference?  you are at her beck and call, and she could care less about you.  it doesn't even sound like an honest mistake.  she's not a very nice person and isn't giving you the respect you deserve.  i would suggest that you tell her how you feel.  it may sound aggressive, but your friendship is long gone.  so calmly tell her how you don't like that she doesn't help you, and see what her reaction is.  if she makes a change, she is a true friend.  if she doesn't, hang with nicer people.