text: is she trying to avoid me? i met this girl on the net n we arranged to go out last wk. but she cancelled on me last min cos she said her dog was sick.   we've postponed it to this fri but today she told me again she might not be able to make it!  wats up? am i being too pushy or is she just tryin to play me? its a pity that we dont get to know each other better cos i really enjoy our conversations :( maybe she's just not ready or she's afraid of what you might think. i say just keep the conversations going until she's readyor until your ready to move on.