text: if you had the chance to live your life as normal by being striaght would you? being a gay person in todays society we have to over come many things that sometimes we just wish we didnt have to because its way to much to take on. would you change you sexual preference if you had the chance? and why would or wouldnt you? no way !!!  if i had push either the "straight" button or the "dead" button, i'd be dead.  sorry, and no offense to straight folks.  i love myself and my gay life, as simple or fun or plain as it can be (like most anyone's) for a long time.  do you get it?  life is hard for everyone.  be the best of you.  gay is just one elememt of you and how your life has value to your family and society.