text: i need advice about a boy i like!!!!? hey i've no-en a guy 4 about a year. he's my cousins mate and i mostly see him at work. he new i used to like him and he would always flirt with me alot. he started going out with this girl but it only lasted two days. he then went with this other girl but it only lasted a week or two. he is now single and i think i like him again. what should i do go with him or not?????? the fact that you mostly see him at work, that is a great opportunity for you. please don't be too forward with him - like asking him out on a date or telling him straight that you like him. he could be one of the guys that find it a turn-off. instead try to show more interest in what he does at work, ask him "neutral" questions like: "what challenges are you currently facing here at work?", "what are your future dreams?" after about a month of chatting with him, start buying him lunch (but not too much) maybe once in two weeks, and say "i like this dish so much, i just thought of sharing with you." be creative ... good luck!