text: i may be falling in love with a married man.? i may be falling for a married man.  i know it is wrong and we started out as friends. we have been friends for a long time. we just started spending more time together. we have both been going through rough times and depend on each other as someone to confide in. i do not want to break up his marrage but in his eyes the marrage was is trouble long before we started spending more time together. he is miserable but will not leave because of his daughter. he lives child. i do nto blame him but i can not help the way i feel. i find my self thinking about him all the time and worring if he is okay. he is affectionate with me when i see him most of the time but we also work together so it is kept so quiet. i do not know what to do. please help? okay, check out my profile on the questions asked section.  i know the feeling.  however, in my situation, we have crossed that line over 2 years ago.  as for being my best friend, he has been my best friend for 6 years.  it doesn't start off as "oh, yea, i am want to steal this man from his wife", or visa versa.  it is a connection.  you will receive judgment, like i did, but not from me.  if you ever need to talk, feel free to e-mail me @ ammutdevour@comcast.net. - i read your other asked question.  please e-mail, i might be able to give you advice. consequences, benefits, etc.