text: i have friend troubles and i need advice!!!? my friend (who i am not sre i want as a friend still) is mad at me for a really stupid reason but before she got mad at me i was mad at her because she likes someone and she knows for a fact they don't like her and she has made it very clear that if i go to the dance this fall with him she will never speak to me again. well i really like him. should i ditch her and ask him? (i am also mad at her for other things too) or has our friendship already started to sail? (she also annoys me to death sometimes, b/c she is a perfectionist) well if shes truly your friend she will be happy with whatever decision you make..she should be happy for you..it sounds like all your friend cares about is herself and it thats the case i would ditch her and she will eventually realize how stupid she is.