text: i got myself into a relationship with so-called - "shy girl" what to do if...? so. we talk for allover a year through msn messenger, we already planned to meet up - but i never asked her for her phone number... i suggested her to come over my town - we got a great pool, we'll play some tennis... in the wrost case - i'll pay for everything if you're really short with cash...  i asked for her phone number and she seemed to be 'accepting giving it to me' she asked for my mobile number and i gave her... but when i asked her she said 'i dont have any' and 'ppl that want to talk to me call to my home phone' i asked for the home phone and she said "ok, i"m shy!"  what can i do. what should i do to finally get to see her. what do u say - she's a fake? that what it seems to me...  please gimme the best answer u can :) i can relate to shy...i am shy...however her behavior seems a bit odd and is this something you would be willing to deal with throughout a relationship with her (assuming she's for real)? i'd back off and let her take things at her pace at this point. leave the door open for her if you like, but don't pass up other opportunities that you feel may have potential. if she's really interested in you, she'll suck up her shyness and join you in taking the steps to meet and explore a 'live' relationship.