text: i'm trying to fix the problems with my gf? i have been dating my current gf for 3years and i really love her to death.the problem started about two months ago when i missed two very important days.the anniversary and her birthday which were all in one week of each other.i work the nightshift on the weekends and trying to get a day off is almost impossible.on top of that work got real busy and i could not get the chance to call her for one week. now she feels like we are not dating and that i don't love her which is wrong because i really do.i told her that iam sorry over and over again because i admitted that i messed up. we are supposed to have a long talk on saturday and she said it could go either way, which i really don't know what to say now. i asked her if she still loves me and i get "i don't know". but if i say "i love you" she says love you too, iam soo confused what to say or do.i just sent flowers and a sorry card to her work maybe she will see that iam really sorry. can you help me even though i messed up bad.jeff you messed up but its not worth ending a 3 year relationship over.  buy her something nice, explain to her what happened and how you feel.  if she can't accept it she is just being difficult and its not worth the effort.