text: is it ok 4 someone to brk their promise? dear frds,           my husband is economically mentally unstable so i asked him 2 stay with me with my parents i am also the only child 4 my parents also he is 4m brokn family and has no home as such was stayng with his brother(married) so far on all this basis i askd him b4 marriage itself 2 stay with me till he can establish himself now he says he cant and also tortures(tells that my dad is a villain,pulls my hair,sits at the room corner and weeps,!)and says he loves his mom so he stay with me says he will go away but when my parents ask say that he nvr said that at all!says that my houe is a drty place where he does not get sleep!  what ishud do i dont want to b on the strts tomorow he does not spend a pie on me he has no responsibilities both my parents work and dont depend on us my dad opened abuisness 4 him but evn after 6mts he asks me 2 pay rent 4 it he gets up morn at 9a.m do u think he is unstable or he is doing it deliberately 2 hurt me? if he has a mental or physical disability,i don't think he is doing it to purposely hurt you. i do think that he needs counseling and therapy though.