text: does he like me???...plz help very confused =(? theres this guy at my work i really like..im confused because there are signs that he likes me too but im not sure if the signs are what i think they are... here are the signs...  * he knew my name when i never told him * he asked 4 my mobile number * he always smiles and says hello to me * he invited me to his 21st party even though we werent close and wouldnt let me go home * texts me in the sweetest ways * calls me sweetie/cutie * says his been thinking about me * when i asked him out on the weekend he said he couldnt because he had work, but asked me to accompany him at his friends bday party dat friday night after work * texted me letting me know his going on a holiday..  theres many more, im confused because im not sure if he likes me, my friend talks to him about me, he told me he doesnt feel comfortable talking to my friend about me because he finds it more affective if he told it to me himself =) plz help..i dont know if he likes me...should i make the first move? do you need to be hit over the head with a sledge hammer my god what else does he have to do