text: the man i have been seeing and i are joining a gym together.  is this commitment or best friend stuff? he is a bit of a commitment phobic. this was his idea - something he knows i enjoy doing. joining a gym together is best friend stuff, if you ask me. it's still probably going to be fun and it's certainly a great encouragement to go to the gym (all good stuff), but if you're looking for some signal of commitment, this most likely is not it...