text: i want to know how can i trust a man again? i want to know how to trust a man again i am always mean and distant from men i wonder why ??? obviously one has deeply hurt u as is always the case. but in all honesty from experience i can say it's hard!!!! all i can say is u can't judge them all by what one has done to you. if u must keep your distance until u feel safe but try not to push them completely away and most important give yourself time to heal.