text: help!   i am living with my bf of 3 years and in that 3 years we have? produced a kid.  anyways i finf myself not liking him these days.  he is moody, bitter and negative.  he cant enjoy things without picking out all the negative things about whatever.  he is also a huge procrasinator.  before i moved in with him his home was dump (litterally) he had dog shit in his basement form his dogs and his mother (who lived in the suite in the home) was a pig.  there were maggots and bugs and cat piss and dog shit everywhere. when i came into into the picture i got his mother out of the house and she got her own apartment.  the house got a total redo.  it now looks nice. anyways i am not happy with this person, i feel bitter and i never was this way before.  i am tired of living with such a bitter man, yes he does have his moments of normalcy but then he changes and because bitchy.  we have a kid and that is the only reason i am here, he is too young for me to really leave. we have done councelling and i am really fed up with him, i dont know what to do? this environment is not gona help u or ur child in the future, u deserve better, so move on... u'll find someone better