text: how to get over an infatuation? i have to get over this infatuation going on for 3 years. no contact whatsoever just a simple crush or do i have to get over it. he's an inspiration yet i don't want to get involved but i am dying to be close enough.help! that normal...infatuation,but u said 3 years...too long ha...u should be clear to your self is that only an infatuation or inlove???i think infatuation is only for months...