text: i am 17 years older than my partner; is this really a problem?   this is a major age gap.  this could run into problems later.  especially as you get older...not her.  it's your choice, as long as she is of age.  if not, you better run for your life!  but honestly...yes.  it is almost a whole generation apart. i find men go after young women to make them only feel young.  there is nothing worse than seeing an older guy dress like he is younger than he really is and drives sports cars.  personally, that is a turn off.