text: just got dumped? i'm a hot engineer who is going to be travelling the world soon. about few 3 months ago i met a resident doctor who insisted to date me eventhough i will be leaving the country soon for work...we had a good time, and i thought everything would work until he broke it off...he came up to me with loads of excuses such as stress and family problems and told me he cant date me long distance and he wants to be my friend, because he really likes me...he hasnt called me since he told me this stuff and keeps avoiding me...i dont understant why!!! was he just using me? he was either just using you or this is his way of dealing with the fact you will be leaving.  either way it is pretty sad thing to do.