text: why do korean parents want their kids to date/marry only koreans? i'm white and have been dating a korean guy for three months.  he's 27 and i'm 37.  (he persued me.)  we have fallen in love.  he lives with his parents and is going to school.  his mom is upset he's dating a 37 yr old white woman.  his mom wants him to find a "good korean girl." his father's upset that he's not moving fast enough with his education and wants him to work more.  my boyfriend told me he needs time to think and feels stretched.   his parents don't like him dating me.  are there any koreans who can help me understand this situation? korean parents are typically old-fashioned, very traditional. more often the korean son or daughter will bend to the will of his or her parents.   it's a cultural aspect.   the only thing i can say is patience and time. try embracing more of his culture. find ways to connect with his parents. they need to realize your beauty and what you provide for their son.  it will be hard, but if you really want this relationship and love this person, mountains are simple hills. keep strong and stay on course. support your love. don't disrespect his parents. if you do, you will more than likely drive him away.