text: i might see him this weekend!? i might see my ex bf this weekend and after him saying he dont even want to be friends any more should i try to talk to him or what/ because i have been try ing to get back with him for a long time now cuz i love him!! how can you love someone who said that to you?  he doesn't even want to be your friend.  what kind of relationship would that be?  it certainly wouldn't be very good for you.  he would use you for your love.  your feelings are hard to get over.  i've been there.  trust me, they will go away in time.  just keep yourself busy with other friends and activities.  if you can't avoid seeing him, and i strongly suggest you do until you get over your feelings, just be calm and polite.  don't initiate conversation other than "hi", and if he asks you questions, answer simply.  as far as he knows, you are doing just fine without him.  that will make him hurt, just a little.  don't throw yourself at him, because that will just make him run.