text: he left me when i was pregnant and went and married someone else and had children.comment please?   take him to court for child support and yes you are going to be involed in this man and his wife for 18  years and make the best out of it.  make sure you get sole custody, since he did make sure that you were just the score to get sex and no relationship, he can alos try to get your child.  men are out to get one thing and that is sex,and he does not care about the factors of your feelings or respect.  if women just say no, and stop making it so easy for men to robbed us from our bodies and etc.  we wil get more respect then we got.  unfortunately to many women are not using thier brains, and keeping the legs close and just say and mean no!  you were used, just like so many other women.  don't make it easy for a man to use you just for sex!