text: be honest!! are you faithful to your wife/husband? have you been married long?   i have been married for almost 12 years and until about 9 months ago i would never have thought about not being faithful. however, sometimes in marriages things change and needs are not met whether physical or emotional and when this happens people find they will cheat.  because the needs were not met i found someone who will meet them, be discreet and no strings attached. by the way these are emotional not all physical.