text: should i tell him how i feel? this is bothering me sooo much!!!? so, when i moved in my neighbor asked me out. it went well. we hooked up, and the next week it was like were were dating. then it stopped. we still hung out, occasionally hooking up over the next couple months. it went both ways too. he would come over to just hang out, i would go over there...occasionally he would invite me out to dinner. we stopped hooking up, but for a little more than a week now, he has come over to see me almost every night. another friend tried to set me up with some guy and immediately after i got home that same evening, he came by to see how it went. he invites me to dinner, to watch football, order in, just to talk....what is going on? do i have a shot with this guy or have i found myself in the pit of "friendship only"? yeah tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way then that frees you up to date other guys and at least that way you have someone to talk to and a guy perspective.