text: need help with my friend and getting her? i like my friend thats a girl i told her that i like her 4 weeks ago and than she said see only needs a friend for now. her ex broke up with her 3-4 months ago they were going to marry and all but he was unhappy. than she moved in with her mom here in colorado a month ago she used to live with her dad in portland. so back to the point so it her 19 b-day a week and a half ago and we kissed and made out and she stops and say sorry and leaves and went to bed. we each had 2 shots that night but she asked me to kiss her neck and that lead to the mouth. and cest than we hanged out and all but she wants to forget the whole thing and just be friends. so my ? is when she over her ex do i have a chance to get her? i care for her a lot i would do what every she needs me to do. also a second ? why do all nice guys finish last? are we to nice or you girl just dont know you got a great man there? just give the girl some time. that could mean a month or a year. but if she was engaged to this guy than she had to have some real serious feelings for him. if you really like this girl than stay by her and be the friend that she needs you to be right now. even if you want more just give her the space that she is asking for.  you 2 may slip up every now and then and do something here and there but until she is ready to come out and say that she is ready to take that next step again than it will never work.  just remember that you can only wait as long as your hart will let you. she is not the only one making the decision. you both have to make that choice and not have had anything to drink. don't push it unless you want it to fail.