text: am i suppose to have white-thick discharges after intercoarse? when my hubby and i are done having intercoarse and he has already let his sperm into me, i always have this thick white discharge. i think it could possibly be his sperm just trying to come back out. am i right or is it from myself? help!!! also, we've been trying to conceive and unfortunately it has been unsucessful; maybe the white discharge can be the problem? also, i always have to urinate after intercoarse. does anyone know if that's normal? i understand it could be that my body is cleaning the vaginal area out. i would appreciate any sincere answers. thanks in advance! it's his sperm.  just lay there with a pillow under your bottom to help move the sperm along to help you conceive for 10-30 minutes :)