text: how do you know if you've found "the one"?   evaluate how you feel about your significant other. do you love him/her more than you thought you could love anyone? if so, that's a good indication that he is "the one." can you imagine yourself with someone else? if so, then maybe he's not "the one." just stand back and take a good, long, hard look at your feelings towards him/her. if you really love being with him/her and can't imagine life without him/her, then chances are, you're all set.  good luck!