text: is it considered sexual harrasment? today i wore to work beige velour sweatsuit, and i sat somewhere and got a little light stain on my bum, very light the only way to notice it was if someone where to stare at my bum. well one of my co-workers (a man in his late 40s, i'm 26) told me i had a stain. now maybe i'm making too much of this, but i was kinda offended. i felt like first of all "why is he looking at my butt?" remember, i said that the only way to notice if someone where to gazed at my butt. no. it would be sexual harrassment if he had made comments about your butt. keep in mind that just because he looked at your butt it doesn't mean that he finds your ass particularly attractive.if you are standing 10 feet away from someone and they are facing away from you, you can almost always see their butt.you really need to get over yourself.