text: why in peoples anwsers theres mostly accusing and less advices.? why must they judge before really knowing something. that observation hasn't been lost on me either. it does seem a lot of people's priority here is to be judgemental first and helpful second, but you get what you get when you ask a question. you can't control people's fingers from typing what they want to type. just ignore the answers that bother you and focus on the good ones from the nice folks out here :)