text: i'm incredibly flirtascious, and i have a boyfriend! what do i do to stop it? i've been dating my bf for 10 months. i absolutely love him. we fight sometimes, but nothing abnormal. we're pretty much a perfect couple. but i can't seem to help flirting with my boy friends when my bf isn't there, not majorly, but i realize i'm doing it. sometimes when we're in the mall i try to avoid holding my bf's hand when cute guys walk by so they think i'm single. i don't understand why i do this to him. i don't want to date those boys, i just want them to think i'm hot. and because of this, i always get jealous of my bf's girl friends because i figure he's doing the same things when i'm positive he's not. we get into fights about my jealousy all the time. he doesn't know that this is why i'm so jealous. and i can't tell him without him thinking i'm some kind of a slut. i really want to break this disguisting habit of mine. i love him so much and i want to be with him forever. what should i do?? youve been with your boyfriend for a long time so it sounds like youre trying to get attention from other guys just to kind of prove to yourself that you still have it ad that you can get other guys, even though u dont want to. its normal as long as youre not doing anything that would hurt him. even if your boyfried is flirting with other girls like you are, if u think what youre doing is harmless then he probably does too and it most likely is.