text: how old were you when you first had sex and how was it , were you shy ? was the guy you did it with a virgin, was it weird at first?why did you do it? honestly i was way to young. it was the summer that i would be goin into 8th grade. yeah it was the guys first time also. it was actually really not that bad. i thought it would be worse, but it wasnt. then it was an everynight thing. but let me tell u, make sure it is the right person  because i havent seen my "at the time bf" in about 5 years and i am goin on 20 in june. i wish it wasnt with him seein the fact that we are no longer even in contact but at the time i was in love with him and still have alot of feelings for him even though he was always in trouble and not well liked. please make sure its the right person..dont rush theres nuttin to hurry about. save urself