text: should i go to my cousins wedding? i really do not get along with my family and there is a lot of negative energy. my cousin that is getting married personally invited me but i dont know what to do. i dont even talk to some of my family members. how should i act if i go and should i go? the wedding is saturday and it is going to be a religous ceromony. i dont know if i want to sit up in there with all the phony church people. help i love my cousin but do not want to see the rest of my family. i think you should go, it will help you to see your family in a open environment. it is better than seeing them at a funeral.