text: should i or shouldn't i?? i have this friend (male) of along time--we always call eachother and tell eachother our problems--he called me today and told me that he wanted to have sex with me--should i go for it--or would it ruin our friendship???  please help i need answers. my best friend (female) and i have sex all the time, and i living with someone else (girl friend)...best friend with benefits. is it because he's just needs a release or is he really in love with you? are you turned on and would want sex (not love) with him? then go for it...