text: i have been in love with a married man,what do i do? i know i am the skum of the earth. but i love the guy. i kept him from my real life and sort of tucked him away when he was n't around.  now, i want him, he offered to leave home and buy a place near me. we made plans. we were both thrilled. then he backed out on me and i was defistated. i knew better. but why why why?? kharma!   what goes around comes around!    never ever ever date a married man....  its just wrong.