text: why do guys act like they don't care but then tell you they do? all the guys always wanna be with there guy friends ya know, bros befor ho's.  well then why are they always with them and never with you when ur there girlfriend.  if you don't care don't lie and say you do.  guys why do you do this to us? it's because they don't care.  at least when they're with their guy friends.  guys don't talk like "oh, i miss my girlfriend" or, "oh, i gotta call and see how my girl's doing" when they're hanging out together.  when guys say something like this, his friends call him "p**sy whipped". so they simply forget about you during those times and act all tough or at least unconcerned about you, the girlfriend.  and when they're with you, oh yes, they really care about you.  it's just something young guys do.  being male requires a lot of pretending to be respected.  it's really tough on guys, so give him a break.