text: what do you do when a relative of your husband approaches you in a sexual manor? on father's day of last year, my husband and i went to a father's day dinner at his aunts house.  he left with a few of the other dad's to ride their motorcycles while i stayed with the mothers and the children.  unfortunately, i had to work that day and i was rather tired.  i went to lay in one of the childrens rooms with a couple of the little children that were already asleep.  while i was sleeping, i was awaken by someone rubbing my shoulders and stroking my hair.  i thought it was my daughter because she does that from time to time.  well i went to sit up and saw that it was not my daughter, but my husbands cousin.  i jumped up and started cursing her because she made me rather uncomfortable.  she goes on to tell me that she has been wanting me since she first met me, while my husband and i were just dating (12 years ago).  she also tried to go on about what she wanted to do to me.  this is my hubbys family and i am not comfortable around her.  what do i do? you have been open with her that you do not want her attention.  you might let your husband know about it so he is aware of what happened but not push it further.  she most likely will leave you alone from now on, give it a chance. if she doesnt, stay away from where she is going to be if she makes you uncomfortable.