text: my ex continues an emotional relationship w/ me,he has new gf,what's this say about his new relationship? if he never called me  it would be just fine. he calls me and talks for so long . he lives with his girl but he can't seem to completely cut me out of the picture.i don't ever call him or contact him in any way. why does he do this?i have only had sex with him one time since we broke up 8 mths ago, and i refused the other times he asked. but he doesn't seem to care. he still calls to talk and spend time with me. i don't feel the need to tell him not to do those things because it doesn't bother me, it's just confusing since he has a girl. what does this girl mean to him and why does he feel the need to stay in my life. is he cheating on her? he just wants to have a sexual experience with you. if you want a serious relationship, you might have to drop him now. if he's still around, the good guys attracted to you will freak out. you will loose your best opportunity. as a rule, you can't go out with more than a guy at one time. so you have to choose the best guy and spend time with him.