text: how can i pick girls in discos or pubs as i am in wheelchair? i am disable live in uk almost goodlooking take your wheelchair on to the dance floor and "dance" with it. i saw a guy do that once in a dance bar and it was great! lots of girls came up and danced with him and he made lots of girls laugh (good naturedly) i will never forget that! he just moved his wheelchair back and forth to the beat of the music.