text: mixed race relationships?  why are people so judgemental? i am dating an african man who is very dark skinned.  i have never been so much in love and he is my perfect match.  we want to get married. he is inteligent, moral, hard working and decent. regardless of some nasty comments we will get married cos i lov him.  our families are cool with this, why is this still an issue for some people? people are just responding to this situation negatively because that is what they were taught growing up. don't worry about it. just stand by your man and be happy you found someone to love and that loves you back. pretty soon the world will be all mixed anyway! good luck!