text: help me!!!!? i have a friend that is always mean to me but i dont do anything to her. i wrote a note to heer and asked her to be more nice and stuhff and she just ignored it! i was mad but i didnt say anything becauase she has been my "friend" for 3 years. i dont want to loose her as a friend but i cant stand hersometimes! but we have been "friends" for 3 years!!!!! what should i do???   help me!!! if i understand this correctly, you have a "friend" who treats you like crap, right? exactly how do your enemies treat you? with friends like her, do you really need enemies? cut your losses and find a new friend. friends respect eachother and protect eachother. they are there for eachother. doesn't sound much like the girl you described, does it? you can do better! you deserve better! that's whats supposed to make our friends different from the rest of the world. they are supposed to always have your back!