text: if your a player and your with someone who really loves you but you cant lose the game what do you do? i lived in a big city all my life then just one year ago, i moved to a little town where everybody knows eachothers business....well ive always played around on my men because they always did it to me. well i went out with this one guy whoes not a player at all, and i didnt play him at all until our 1st mounth aneversery...it was so bad that he told me it was our 1st mounth i didnt even kno. well i met these guys who were from the city and i cheated on my man and he found out but still wanted me after that. well now what do i do i cant stay with him all i do is hurt him and if i break up with all hes gonna say is no i dont care i still want to be with you i care about you that much...its getting sickneing ouch. sounds like you've got yourself a clinger.  if i were you i would just break it off with him and tell him that it's not working out and that you don't want to see him anymore. be a bit** if you have to so that he doesn't keep pursuing you. don't take his calls, refuse to see him, and don't give him any reasons to think that you might get back with him. good luck girl!