text: help!!! my lady is aggressive what should i do? she used to ignore me( my messages and phone calls) because she said she was hurt from her previous relationship. i had decided to leave it as is.  i can't change someone's mind. then she started calling me, telling me she wanted to see me and that she wanted to hang out.......i'v been going out with this girl for about 3 three weeks now. she is aggressive i slightly speak loudly and she blows up.she thinks i'm yelling at her. she always wants everything her  way. most of the time i give it to her , it doesn't matter what we are doing as long as we're together i'm happy. well what i need is advice about how to tell her ,or what to do about it?  sorry i couldn't phrase the question differently hmm. i used to be like this with my bf (still am a bit, it's just my personality, but i'm learning to deal). just let her know how you feel and tell her that her 'tude might be hurting your relationship. let her know you are an individual who has nothing to do with her exes and if you really want to stay with her, let her know this as well. she will appreciate the honesty. good luck!