text: when a lady says she loves you, does she really mean what she says.? i one time got a lady who said that she really loved me but on the second day of our proposed date i got her with another guy. now what is your advice i think it is time you moved on.   it could have just been a whim for her, but you should maybe find out who the other guy was it could have been a friend.   you should be asking her this question don't leave it up to us.  we don't know her or yourself.  see how you feel about the relationship if you want it to go further than ask her, otherwise move on.