text: if i go out alot with my male best friend is it consider cheating if i have a boyfriend already? go like to the movies, out to eat, clubin, or just rent movies and watch them at the house no definitely not! one of my best friends is a guy, we hang out all time! my boyfriend is totally cool about it (but that is because he is the greatest guy on earth! teehee) just don't lie to your boyfriend about it, or he may get the wrong idea, and make sure you still spend more time with your boyfriend, and make sure he knows he is more important to you!