text: do good girls finish last??? well, i'm 23 now when i was 21 i had my first relationship and i lost my virginity, we were together a year and a half, and two weeks ago i found out he cheated on me. i love this guy but i think i need to move on, but it's hard, i can't even imagine being with someone else, my question though is how do i stop feeling like i gave him all of me and i don't have anything special left to give anyone else, and where do i start so i can move on? and it doesn't help i'm shy, i don't even know where to meet guys well men i don't like little boys.sometimes i feel like i should just try to work it out with him because i love him, but i don't want to live my life in that "comfort stage" where you need to move on but can't, i don't know what i want , well to be treated with love. yeah they do