text: how can you tell someone you think they have bipolar disorder (kindly)?   first of all i think you should leave that part to a professional. but, to tell someone you think they may need to see a shrink/therapist can be very tricky. start by telling the person how much you care about them. tell them that you've noticed they are having some difficulties in their moods and you'd like to help them but that you think they should go see someone who is better qualified to help them. don't push the conversation but try to let it come naturally. they may get offensive but stress how concerned you are for them. alot of times the one talk won't have an effect so if it doesn't don't get discouraged. don't nag but bring up on more occasions when you think your friend will be more reseptive. maybe you'll luck out the first time and your friend will be relieved that you care enough to notice and seek help. good luck.