text: what do you do if you love your boyfriend but want to be with someone else? i dont want to be with him because he makes me feel like crap but on the other hand i love him so much ! someone help me put things right. simone... there is an old saying. if you straddle a fence, all you get is a sore crotch! step over to one side or the other! by the sounds of it, if your b/f makes you feel like crap, then you should be looking to move on and find someone that won't. a man worth having lets you know and feel that you are special, and important to them. so, if your current b/f makes you feel like crap, then take your dump and move off the fence. good luck!