text: why can't i make female friends? as soon as they find out what i do for a living, females are no longer interested in talking to me. forget their boyfriend's too. they are usually forbidden to speak to me. gee! this is really tough to figure out. why would a female expose her boyfriend to a sexy exotic dancer with all the connotations that go with that lifestyle?  i don't know, you've got me. i guess maybe because of the temptation that would be present. do you think that might have something to do with it?