text: how do you get out of a 16 year marriage that is going nowhere? or do you stay? and live with arguing 24/7? married 16 years to a scorpio that has been divorced twice, likes nothing more than to be mad 24/7. truely tries to have everyone around him hate him. i don't even think he likes himself. but,,,,, he loves his kids no matter what.  good provider,responsible, no communication, no nothing, we even sleep apart. time for it to come to an end. life is too short to be unhappy. just tkae the step and file divorce