text: for the girls-whats the first thing that attracts you to a guy for a good first impression? say if you saw some guy at a club or a party, what would be the first thing that attract your attention towards that guy enough for you to approach him and make the first move i might be asking for the secrets of the trade but hey this just makes the chase more interesting...... if it is in a club the guy who has fun but still remains calm (not a wild party soul wanna be)that who dresses neatly and simple & has nice eyes and defenitly not someone who drinks like a camel at a desert!