text: whats wrong with him!!!! why hasn't he ask me to be his girlfriend? i've been talking to him for about a year. i'm in love with him. he told me he love me. everyday he calls me on the phone. we talk for hours about every thing.  last summer we always went on long romantic walks.  he was my first. the problem. but he hasn't ask me to be his girl friend. why!!!! i think he still in love with his first love. just ask him if it really makes you upset then why don't you just leave him. there's plenty of other guys out there.