text: ok please i need more help i have a really big problem? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ammh.wlez4cerxyuq2azrebzy6ix?qid=20061113160640aavufle that is the link to my question so please help me a few books for you to read up on,  how to win friends and influence people by dale carnagie & you should read the five love languages by gary chapman.  these two books should answer all your relationship questions.