text: we're both married & dating but no sex involve coz we're both scared, lately he asked for it but am confused.. should i give my self? we're both in an unhappy marriage, we enjoy each other's company. i've never felt this kind of love for a long time it feels strong he said he feels thesame, but finds it hard to leave his wife but he calls me everyday when we dont see each other. does he really love me? should i stop seeing him? i know its wrong, but he's given my self confidence back coz my husband always lets me down he is very domineering. what should i do?  your advice will be very much appreciated. i'm really confused coz we have a son, plus his wife is a friend of mine & so is my husband they know each other. his wife always tell me they're always fighting, that's before we started dating until now... don't have sex with him and stop this involvement with him before it goes any further.  if you are unhappy in your marriage, you should seek a divorce.  your reputation is intact right now so keep it that way.  if you commit adultry with this man or another, then your name could be dragged through the mud and your kids will be affected.  once you have that divorce, then you can see any available man that you desire just as long as he is not married.  god bless you and good luck!