text: do i have to give him access? my ex wants to see our daughter but i don't want him to have any thing to do with her.he can't even afford to take care of himself and he's a drug user.i don't want any support payments or anything i just want him out of our lives.what can i do? when i was raising children and went thru a divorce ...i had abated all child support and drew up an agreement between the ex an myself. of course thru an attorney. he was to have no contact with the boys until they were 18 yrs. of age. and he had to pay no child support.