text: i think i am falling for my friend... should i tell him? i spend a lot of time with my friend, and i miss him when i don't,but he has girlfriend. they have been dating for almost a year but he is always telling me how he doesn't think it will work out, and that it isn't working out. they fight all the time, often over how much time he spends with me. we are just friends but i really want more from him, would it be innappropriate/a bad idea to tell him how i feel? i don't want to be "the other woman" but we conect in a way i haven't felt in a long while. i could easily fall in love with him. help! the fact that he's confiding in you that it probably wouldn't work out with his current girlfriend indicates that he trusts you, that, and it could also pass as a hint : he's going to be available.  he could also feel the connection if disagreements arise over the amount of time spent with you. it means that he isn't exactly agreeing with his gf that he should spend less time with you. go for it, girl.