text: could my man be cheating on me? my man and his friend always hang out and text each other like crazy. he don't even text me hardly. we don't do anything together. we don't hardly have sex no more either. should i be worried? i have a kid with him and he won't even watch her most of the time! we been together for almost 3yrs. plz help me figure this out...i need to know if it's possible he has someone else secretly or what possible? throw his phone away and tell him to be a real man, take his parenting responsibility seriously, and become a real partner.