text: why a guy does this when a girl is interested in him? ok what is it that when you like a guy and you show it by flirting with him (with stares, gestures etc) and seems that he likes you back, but when he is with a big group of guy friends and you walk by they laugh and stare at you breast. i feel disrespected. are they doing it to make fun of you or they are just immature? its boyish behaviour and a "macho" thing.    when they 'grow up', they will learn how to treat a woman with respect. until then, they will be thier own borish selves, interested in only what they, (as a group), will collectively be focued on.  it takes awhile, for them to be "grown up", as each will come to term in his own way as they grow up to be the "man you want" him to be :)  i wish you well...  jesse