text: why do she want him? i have a friend.  she has been dating this guy for five years now.  i think that he takes her kindness for granted.  before they got together he had just separated from his wife, and he told her that when him and his wife had separated, they would get married eventually.  well, these years has past, and i'm like if your not married by now, then your not getting married.  they have a three year old child, and if he was serious about the divorce and her, he would had gotten the divorce by now, and married her.  she should have seen a ring at least, that's what i belive.  i told her how i felt, but she is in love i guess.  what other things should i tell her, or should i leave it alone.  am i even wrong for voicing my opinion? what do you think? shaunee always voice your opinion and unfortunately you have to let her learn on her own.