text: why is sex such a great and important thing to guys? my boy friend won`t stop doing things like turning down the light,buy sented candles and lay on the bed saying "lets go baby" all the time! now i have a chair that stays out in my living room so i can wait till he is done playing around. i think it's because sex calms them down so that they have enough patience to actually sit and talk with us like we like them to do!