text: i make her smile and make her laugh is that enough or do i need to do more?   trust me, being a sweet guy and respectful will only get you the opposite.  if you are no challenge to her, she will throw you to the wolves. there are some things that men need to know- that is, no matter how much a woman tells you she likes a sensitive man- never show that you are. its good to be respectful, but always be strong.  they dont respect a man that is too sweet, or sensitive.  ladies, quit telling guys what you fantasize about, because when you get it- you always change your minds!