text: my girlfriend broke up with me and said that is was because she wasnt ready for a bf yet is she lying or not? im only 16 years old but i really love with this girl and hav been for a while. we went out for about 2 months and she said she didnt feel like she was ready for a boyfriend yet. i really dont know what to do or think considering she broke up with me about 2 months ago. i went to france over christmas and when i got back my mom and hers were talkin durin my b-ball game and her mom said that she was depressed while i was gone and even said it was because i wasnt with her. then 3 days later she broke up with me. what should i do and how long do u think it will take for her to be "ready" for a boy friend if u think she is telling the truth? thanks it might not be easy because you still have feelings for her, but you clearly should move on. actions speak louder than words. if she is crazily in love with you, do you really think she will break up with you? it's more like, "hmm, i may not be ready for a bf, but i love him soooo much... xxxx it, i'm going out with him!!!"  don't let her confuse you bro. let's say she were telling the truth, well the girl is not ready man (and she never will, because she really is not interested in you), go find some other nice girl who is hot and appreciates you. you will be happier.