text: how do i confront the situation? well about 4 months ago we broke up for about 1 month and it was the hardest thing i’ve ever gone through in my life. to make a long story short, i ran into a girl that he was friends with a while ago and he contacted her shortly after we broke up i guess. she works at our local mall. he told me that he only saw her once at the mall and ran into her- that was it. they never hung out or anything. she’s told me differently. this girl has no reason to lie to me, she’s religious and i’m starting to think i believe her more than i do him. she says they stopped talking because he was irritated with her one night and that was that. i guess she was paying more attention to her cell phone than to him. she said they hung out a few times.it wasn’t so much of what they did or didn’t do together, it’s the fact that he lied to me about the situation. i feel like i cant trust anything he says no. what do i do? do i confront him about it? we’re having our first baby this april. i'm so lost. confront him, but don't make a big deal out of it, because it's not like he cheated on you!