text: why do guys have to make the first move? seriously, why do us guys have to be the ones to start a conversation, keep up the conversation, flirt & ask them out?, why can't girls do it more often?, well i'm 18, gonna be 19 in a month, & i'm still virgin & haven't had a girlfriend, been out on a date or a one-night stand, i know that girls make the first move sometimes, but they never make the first move on me, i'm a shy person, but that doesn't mean i never approach girls, i usually approach them when they are alone, i'm not comfortable approaching them in front of people or if they are with their friends, plus i'm always scared of asking them for their number cause i don't wanna get a fake one or a made-up excuse that they can't give it out, which is obviously a rejection. sometimes i wish it was a girl cause it seems more easy for them, cause in my opinion, if a good looking boy is shy or won't make the first move, he won't get girls, but if a good looking girl is shy, she willl still get a lot of boys because it's natural human and animal behaviour, males have to make the first move ,hence better chance of passing on thier genes.