text: i don't want to be with a smoker!? my husband quit smoking 5 years ago when we were dating. in march he started again. he's promised me a thousand times he going to quit but i see no effort on his part. i worry about his health, i hate the way he smells when he comes in. we have 2 young kids who need a father, and after losing 2 grandparents to lung cancer i'm scared. he blames me for his smoking which is bullsh*t. i stress him out, i didn't cook him breakfast so he couldn't wear his patch, his smoking is none of my business. i didn't marry a smoker, so why should i be stuck with him now? i feel he loves his cigarettes more than me and the kids. is this wrong of me? it is his choice to buy cigarettes, light up and smoke them. no one is holding a gun to his head and forcing him to do this. he keeps that smoking up and it will be the death of him yet. he is not immune to lung cancer or emphysema, these diseases are not prejudice.  he has his top priorites all wrong and he needs to decide what's more important...his smoking or his own health and his family.