text: my sister and i were up for the same promotion and i got it, should i feel guilty.?   no not at all. if you got the promotion your boss probably thought that you were better for it. i mean don't go rubbing it in her face but be happy about it. it's a step up for you. maybe this wasn't the right move for her. but encourage her an let her know that she will probably get a promotion of some sort soon enough. hope i helped.