text: my bf is cheatong on me......i think? ok so me and this guy have been going aut since like last week and then in my science class my friend tells me that he grabbed this other chiks (that i hate) butt...im worryed. but then my best friend told me that the girl made him act like he liked her or she would slap him and that he didnt want 2 be slapped!!!i dont know if i should dump him or try 2 find out the truth..help me please!!!! you seem kind of young. so, i am going to try to give you advice for what i am assuming your age group to be... without... trying to seem like the other people by lecturing, or demeaning you.  there is something that you need to realize... at your age most guys are jerks that are mainly trying to scheme on young ladies like yourself. i think you need to realize this because i don't think you will get the answer you are looking for if you decide to confront him and ask him the truth, because he most likely is going to lie.  i know that you seriously don't believe the this young man slapped the girls booty simply to avoid being slapped... i'm not saying that your friend is lying, maybe she just doesn't know the whole story.  in the event that, that is the truth and he was doing no wrong maybe you should find out if he is just committed to your "relationship" as you are, because a week doesn't seem to be enough time for any couple to know if they want to be together or not. in a  week most people are still just getting to know each other.  the answer is simple. you are young, and there are going to be plenty guys for you in your life. so i think you should still be cool with this young man, just don't put so much focus on him and him only :)