text: my brother will not talk to me in the past 15 years? my brother will not talk to me.  i have been dating out of my race for the passed 12 years.  my brother will not talk to me because of it.  he has recently got married in oct. 2005.  i got married oct 15, 2005 a week after he did.  i was not invited to his wedding.  no one was invited to mine because i married a black man.  my brother is a police officer for a very small town in virginia.  he is racist and does not like black people.  his wife is not expecting a baby.  i do not have any kids.  i want to me in this baby's life and be a great aunt to the child.  but how can i be when my brother acts like this.  how can i convience him to let me be an active aunt? your brother better be careful. there may very well come a day when his child(ren) could marry a black person or his grandchildren could. things have a way of coming back and  biting people in the ass.