text: what does this mean? i've been with this guy for a long time, and right now we dont live near eachother, and his ex girlfriend has been at his house and pick up his phone. he says there just freinds and he's in love with me not her he wants to be with me not her, he tells me that he loves me and everything like that and to not wrry about her. but i love him with all my heart and i know how she is, i dont trust her. adn he and i have broken a few times cuz of her and i dont want to leave him i need some help plz!!! i don't hang out with my ex girlfriends.  i have other friends.  he probably does too, so if he's hanging out with his ex there's probably a reason that you wouldn't like.