text: i like a guy, but he has a girlfriend, what do i do? also, how do i get him to go with me to the dance?   depends on how close he and his girlfriend are, maybe you should dtart out being his friend and if it doesnt work out with his girlfriend , you could be the one to pick him up when he needs comfort, also , he might take his girlfriend to the dance , maybe you could get a double date going for the dance or something like that , if he rejects just going with you and goes with his girlfriend