text: what do women want in men?   patience, gentleness, kindness, thoughtfulness, but also be willing and able to fight for the girl (not literally), and be her warrior.  girls want a guy that will love them even with all of their faults and shortcomings. a guy that will take care of them when they are throwing up sick with puffy eyes, and he'll still tell her she looks beautiful.  yep...i got my guy.