text: why is it much harder for women to have an orgasm than men?   sorry i can't answer your question but i wonder the same thing and i also did research on what's the best way for a female to have an orgasm and every answer i got was concerning the clitoris and...well... its true, licking, rubbing, or touching the clitoris in any way during intercourse will help a female have an orgasm. lol didn't mean to be so x-rated