text: why is it that several "str8" guys i know say their str8 but actually are so gay they hit on me?   join the club buddy! you seem to be one of the guys that seem to arouse the gay feelings in supposedly straight guys!  i am a member of that elite group myself. actually most of the boyfriends i had identify themselves as straight. unfortunately, they freak out when their feelings towards you move from the lust slot to the romance slot. they usually bolt out of the door before you know what has happened.  human sexuality is ever so complicated. no one can give you a straight answer on this issue, pun intended! ;)