text: how would you know if a guy is interested in you? i like this guy i work with but to be ohnest i'm not sure what i should do i mean i do feel like he is interested in me but at the same time i feel that he might have another girl out there and i feel like the stupid one for even thinking about him half of the time. what should i do? should i go for it or just let things be and just forget about him? i'm so confused.... "for of all sad words, of tongue, or pen, the saddest are these.....it might have been". if you don't pursue it, you will never know. don't wait until someday and say, it might have been...............if only i had tried, to talk to him, or pursue it further.  you might be surprised to learn that he feels the same way about you....go for it! what do you have to lose????.....and a lot to gain!!! good luck!