text: my boy freind wants to get married againist my family's wishes? i want to marrie him but my family thinks he just wants to marry me just to make them mad. my mother and father do not like him. but the things is we have two kids together and been together for 5 years and my family been tryin there best to brake us up.it like the more they try the more i love and want to be with him. let me see . . . you've been with him for 5 years and you have 2 kids together . . .  i don't think he just wants to marry you to spite your parents.  marry him already.