text: how do i get about asking someone out?? there is this one girl i really like, i have know her since 4th grade! i no she likes me. others have told me and given me not that stated so. how do i get about to asking her. i asked her onece, she siad she didnt like me, but that was wen we were yonger. now im just afraid of the answere i will recieve. can anyonw help me? it makes since to be afraid of the answer you will receive, because it hurts to hear no...but you'll never hear the word yes if you live in fear of the word no...when and where do you usually see her?  is there a time when the two of you are ever away from other people?  just be honest and say something like, "i just really want to ask you out..." and see what she has to say.  it's way more scary before you do it, but you can ask her!