text: what is it about nice girls/boys why do we always finish last? i was raised that you treat others the way that you want to be treated.  so now i am in the dating scene and i always end up the little sister of the group.  mean while i watch as my friends and the guys that i like end up with just horrible people.  enough so that i decided to take a break.  i am just so frustred with this that i dont know what to do. hi, finish last? relationships are built on trust, compromise, love, caring, and wanting to make another happy; doing everything you can to make it so. i've been married now for 29 yrs to a wonderful woman. first marriage ended in divorce after 7 yrs. i am one of the "good guys"; respecting others. don't change yourself; be honest and open. ending with horrible people is their choice!!! if you are selective, dating can be fun. chose someone to date who has similar likes as you....who seems to be trusting and honest. you can't lose! don't jump at just anybody. please rate my answer, and just be yourself. good luck.