text: we broke up, now he keeps calling me? i am american, my ex is from istanbul.  he said he didnt want me to come and see him. so i didnt. he didnt technically break up with me but i did with him. he was ignoring me. now he keeps calling me. it is like he forgot about what happened yesterday. he said he didnt mean to hurt me and that he hopes i can trust him with my feelings again and that he would love for me to visit. with our language barriers he thought i didnt trust him and didnt want to move to ist. he says that is what upset him. what should i do??? take a step back from the "moving to ist." bit.  maybe go visit, after you establish your relationship again.  you should meet and visit there before you just decide to move there.  talk to him for a while and see where he is really.