text: girls:  when you have a boyfriend, and he's not around and you dont have a ring on, and a guy hits on you... how do you react ....  do you immediately tell him you have a bf?  or do most girls just not say anything and enjoy the fact that someone is intersted in them????   what have you done and/or observed other girls do, and why????  (there's this girl i've been flirting with and i'm not sure if she has a bf or not ... could she just be 'havin fun with me'??? depends..girls like attention and flirting. if she does not like you, she would probably tell you that she was involved with someone right away just to get away. if she responds to your cues, then there is no doubt that she is interested. be careful though, too much too soon can destroy everything. so take baby steps and do not act desperate..disappear for a day or two..she will come running simply because she could not handle a sudden shift in attention.