text: help! i have a girl friend and she have told our love to her father. her father was not accepting likely w 2 d have spoke to him 3 times and i have also told that we had sex and i wl not marry other girl as i feel she is my wife. though telling this her father is telling that he will take this issue to his relations and if they accept he will accept for our marriage else he will not. iam unable 2 think a life without her and she loves me like anything. for the past 20 days they are not letting her outside(even to office) and not giving the phone calls to her. she also not made any call still now and iam getting mad. iam a typical guy who always think only one girl in my life and i don't want to take my life with some other girl. her father told to me that he will go to his native in april and let me know the output in the month of may. i think he will prob take her to native and live her there. i don't know her native place also. i want to talk to her but if they come to iam in the line the problem will explode much. pls advice what to do in this regard. thxin advance for ur help and advice. hopefully, you are both over 18.  if she loves you like you say, then as an adult she is going to have to make a choice.  he can't force her to go somewhere without her consent.  while i realize that her culture is different, she is going to have to stand up to her father.  unfortunately, if she doesn't stand up to him and goes with him, then there is not a lot you can do except forget her.  do not do anything drastic or stupid.  you could end up in trouble.  the next step is up to her.  good luck!