text: is it true?? is it really true that the way to a mans heart is thru his penis as some men would have u believe??? they make you believe that, and i am glad you said it... they call it love, but it is just a way to get sex... honest, if they wanted a real relationship, they would be after more important information about you and your family and your lifestyle and your likes and dislikes... sex should never be the first concern in any starting relationship...