text: should i continue to go after one of the boys on my rowing team? it's agenist the rules he dosn't want 2 break there is a boy on my rowing team that i just started coxing and i have a baby crush on him. he is adorable and a really nice guy. the other day after we just won the race he tilted his head over and said, "we won this race for you" (it was my first time coxing a race)  @ the party afterwards we all got very intoxicated and we start dancing are lips got extreamly close and other boys in the boat pulled him off me and out of the room to start yelling at him for even trying to kiss me.  the coaches told the boys about ten times and myself that the rowers shouldn't hook up with the coxwain cause it can cause drama. (i have maintaned myself well the alcohol got to me)  later that night after the party i want to his dorm room and got close to kissing him but he stopped me and said it wasn't a good idea but he wanted to really badly.  do i just try to pretend that i am not into him and he isn't into me, cause i see him everyday @ pratice.  would you give up or maybe secreatly try? if he is worth persuing, he'll be worth persuing after the season. the fact that he follows rules is a good thing. he has the quality of being faithful which should be valued. if he can be true to his team, he'll be more likely to be true to you too.