text: should i try and save my relationship? i love my boyfriend, but it seems like that past month we go either from one fight to the next or from one major drama to the next.  i spent two hours today crying and now he won't answer my calls or text messages.  should i hold on or walk away. i would look at the fact that he might be under some stress my boyfriend and i just went through that and i finally sat him down and told him that i was tired of fighting and if this was how we were going to live that i would leave. needless to say our relationship is back on track, but you need to establish communication that is the back bone of a good relationship. i can talk to my man about anything we are friends and lovers.  you also have to be true to your heart at the same time. i know the answer sometimes doesnt match your heart but sometimes a little pain reminds us that we arent perfect. dont stop loving though you can miss the best things if you dont let people in.