text: is it wrong to want to get pregnant just to keep your man around? this friend of mine wants to get pregnant by december, she thinks that she only can keep a man if she's pregnant with his baby. she's been pushing for me and my bf to have sex (we're waiting til he gets back from kuwait) how wrong is what she's doing? or is it just me? its sad to me that there are so many selfish people out there thinking that having a child is the answer to fixing there lagging relationship.... she is already selfish thinking only of her self, not the poor innocent baby, not caring about the guy who is clueless to her sheaming, and not caring about the consequences of him as well. wow.. tell your friend to get her head out of her ass, get a little dignity and respect for herself before she tries to provide that to a child.....tell him now!!!