text: my bf enjoys sex topic but i'm shy to react and share my thoughts because he might misinterpret me for being a my bf enjoys sex topic but i'm shy to react and share my thoughts because he might misinterpret me for being a flirt or for being not sincere with him. he asks me questions regarding sex too.  i'm shy, should i open up or what? sex talk can be uncomfy at first, but if you want to have a relationship with him, you need to talk about it. its a fact, no matter how you look at it, it will come up often. he wants to see how you react to some talk to guage what excites you and what doesn't. that way, he can try those things to better please you. try and get comfy with him, it'll bring you closer when you can speak openly about sex.