text: if my husband wants to live with his sister but not with me and keeps wanting more time should i stay married? we been seperated secveral times in 4 years he keeps saying he loves me but can never show it no affection tuchy feely or wont live with me, but continues to say i love you to me and i know he does not cheet on me what should i do sounds like your husband has some major issues he needs to work out and deal with!  just curious, how do you know that he is not cheating on you? is it because he said he hasn't?  something is definately going on and if he can't live with his wife, show affection, live with and be married to the woman he married then if i were you i would sit down with him confront him and then give him 2 options.  either he wants to be married to you and live his life with you or boot his butt out of your life and move on.  i know that it is easier said than done, and that it is easier for an outsider to say this but in reality he is taking advantage of you, taking advantage of your big heart and you deserve better than this.  do what is best for you!!