text: was i lied to? guy gave me job offer on april 5th, said he sent an offer lettter via email 3 times, hadnt heard anything, said hed snail mail it, havent heard anything. i am insulted. should i bitch at him or just give up that was a long time ago! i think it's time to give up and move on.   yes, you were lied to--you know you would've received at least one of the offers if he had sent it.  i'd probably give him a piece of my mind, but that's me!  good luck!