text: what should i do if this boy asked to marry me but i didnt give him a answer. im not sure yet but i luv him.? please be specific with the answers please this same situation occured with my wife and i.  i asked her to marry me fairly early in our relationship, and she was not prepared for marriage yet.  instead of rejection, however, she explained her feelings (that she did love me, but was not ready), and we agreed to wait a while longer.  after another year we had both found good jobs, finished school and settled in nicely together.  we then had a wonderful wedding (plus she got a much better engagement and wedding ring! ;) )  just be honest and straightforward.  if he loves you as much as you love him, he will wait until you are ready.  hope this helps, and best of luck!