text: i'm not happy with my bf, and i want to go out with my best guy friend. well, what should i do? i want to go out with my best guy friend who cares about me alot. my bf now only hugs me and nothing more, but he was just telling me how long we'll be together. what should i do? just be frank to your boyfriend that you're not happy already with his company...but think many times if your best guy friend really cares for you or are you just pretending that he cares for you...?your boyfriend seemed to respect you in any way he wanted because as what you said he just only hugs you and nothing more.. i really don't know the whole story between you and your boyfriend. but maybe he's just asking you how long you could handle your relationship even if there are so many temptations around..honey, if you're going to decide on what to do, just be careful to avoid regrets ok! then think about it seventy times seven..