text: what should i do? i just have relationship 2 month...i saw his ex girlfriend photos are still in his computer and also have their making love home made vedio one shot at his place and one shot at his ex place..i asked him why you still keep those.he said no time to delete..past is past..but i was sad and i do't know what i should do..when he went to work i watched that vedio many times ..is anyone has that situation ??boyfriend and his ex make love..he said they had great time before.and.i have no right to tell him delete them...how do you feel? really, why should you care? its is no concern of yours what he has stored in his computer! you are invading his personal space, if it were me, i would slam the door on your backside, on the way out! you are so childish and immature to believe that this man should not have any memory of his previous rendevous' or trysts, before your time! you can only control your actions, and it seems that you cant even do this if you are skimming through your boyfriends personal archives. maintain you own space and stop disrespecting your mates!