text: for gay parents? don't you think if you saw your own dad or mom making out with some one of the same sex as a kid that would mess you up mentally. wouldn't it give your kid a unfair bias towards being gay, seeing how they observed their parent, their role model doing it? my moms are lesbien.. i found out the hard way.  when i was 8 years old, after my mom and dad got divorced, i was walking to my room, it went past my moms room.. and i saw her and a women flirting with eachother in a weird way.. (like touching and stuff) i just starred for a little bit, then they started kissing... i went to my room and started crying.. and it was really depressing.. i've never been the same.  but i've just come to the conclusion that i have to deal with it.  i can't change my mom's sexual preference.. and i actually think her girlfriend is really nice.  at first i hated her because i thought she was the one that turned my mom into a lesbien and ruined my life.. but later on i found out that it was my mom's choice.  she wanted to be a lesbien.  i only want whats best for her because i know before this she had a very hard life.  but this still doesn't make me normal.. i get teased a lot at school.. and sometimes i really wish i had a "normal" life.  i hope this helped you!  and my moms dont make out in front of me... and i am not a lesbien.  they've raised me to be straight!