text: how can a girl have a orgasm during intercourse?i will be 30 in 1 1/2 months and never have!?   try stimulating yourself during intercourse. you will get yours and your man will be incredibly turned on from watching you. the best position for this is you lying on your back and him between your legs, kind of like missionary, but on his knees. if you aren't comfortable with him watching at first, do it doggy style and just reach back there (this is also a great way to stroke his scrotum, just the touch will drive him crazy.) some women just can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation and there is nothing wrong with doing whatever it takes to get yours!!