text: what do u look 4 in a girl? 4 girls & boys!! well, i'm older now.  i looked for something totally different about fifteen years ago.  i'm 35.  i want a woman who is intelligent (hopefully a freethinker), a little shy, wants children, someone who shares my ethics and values.  someone who isn't afraid of adventure/travel/roughing it.  someone who is non-materialistic and cares about philosophy, politics, the environment, etc.