text: why isn't there a personal site just to meet new friends in our area.? i live in wichita,kansas, and am happily married so i don't need the personals to find a date. i don't cheat on my husband. i don't really have any friends to hang out with, but would like to just meet new people like myself in wichita,kansas, but just as friends, not to date. may-be just to go places with or have coffee, or just to talk. why isn't there just a "friendship" personals there is yahoo chat room for each state. try that.