text: am i a lesbian? hi there! i'm a woman and i've fallen in love with my teacher (a woman of course). she knows that and has become my closest and best friend. now i've fallen in love with another teacher (a woman naturally). both have black hair and are quite tall like myself. but i don't want to be a lesbian because i cannot imagine that a woman, i've fallen in love with, will love me. that's quite impossible, isn't it? what shall i do? am i "normal" or a lesbian? i think i love both of these women now but i cannot imagine to love a man. what do you think? give me a hint or a lot of advice or help! please! i don't know what to do! ok, first: "normal" vs. lesbian.  there's nothing, imho, abnormal about being a lesbian, so be careful about how you use that term.  it's not "uncommon" for a woman to have a crush or fall in love with a woman such as a teacher.  whether that's your orientation, however, depends on you and your make-up.  you say you cannot imagine "to love a man".  why?  are you simply not interested in men?  if you find that all of your emotional and sexual attraction is to these two women, then, yeah--you're probably a lesbian.  as for whether a woman will love you in return....love is a strange, many-faceted emotion...and you may be more loveable than you give yourself credit for here.  be ready to have your heart-opened, perhaps broken, and re-opened again.  peace.