text: why women abuse those who love them unconditionally?   if you think back about your relationship, you will probably realize that she was using and abusing you all along.  it didn't just happen.  unfortunately, "love is blind", and sometimes we are so caught up in the relationship that we can't see what is really happening.  sometimes we are so infatuated with the other person that we choose to close our eyes to all the hurtful things they do, hoping it will get better.  but things will only get worse until we say "enough!"  remember you are of value.  it is an honor to be with you, not a right.  expect more respect from the other person.  if you truly give unconditional love, then you should expect to get it back.