text: is it time to say goodbye? i have a good internet friend for months, we also talk over phone and he has been there during really tough times. i like him. we had phone sex for a few times. but lately he is busy, gone abroad actually. but i have never met him though we live in the same city, or seen his photo. he never mails me. sometimes he does not respond on im too. i have stopped contacting him. do i need to say a formal good bye? do you really want to say goodbye? you think it will ease what ever heavy emotions you're feeling right now. if yes, say it! but mean it!