text: whats up with kids having sex?? i know a lot of kids; preteens and teens having sex...girls mainly. i ask them if they get anything out of it and they say no....why r they doing it then?? like i have this friend, and she kinda sleeps around with guys.....she doesnt get anything out of it when she has sex with them....no offense, but who wants 2 be sweaty, wet, and well, i guess, if sex has a smell,smelly and not get anything out of it?? not me, lol i know! that puzzles me. for a 13 year old to have sex is way too young! emotionally, they are not able to handle these things too well. and they're young, they're gullible. media -- is number 1 to be blamed -- sometimes i could see that there are things on tv that are not censored and kids would see this and think, it's ok. hormones -- is another thing. it is at this age when the body starts producing hormones. i remember when i was this age, it's like i wanted to bang any guy i see. but i went to a very strict school, and also i grew up in a strict religous upbringing. im kinda glad i waited to be an adult -- because you make better choices and these choices are not based on what you feel.  i think it's disgusting to see 13 year olds having sex nowadays. if i were their mother -- they will give a whole new meaning to the word: wrath