text: yup what attracts a guy to a girl? versus a girl to a guy? not just romantically--but in every way--emotionally... opposites attact, correct, but there are plenty other factors in the mix. i.e. how you act around him how you talk to him how you treat him and others how you carry yourself how you treat and take care of yourself 70% of human communication is non-verbal  all these and more is what he see first of all. if you act the way he likes, you don't even have to say anything and he'll feel attraction towards you. now when the conversation begins between you two, it's up to you to keep your relationship going. a good relationship takes to people to work togethr towards the same goal.