text: i really like this guy, anything i can do? we have seen eachother 4 times now and today he said "i don't think its gonna work out" i am 21 and he is 23 and he doesn't like the fact that i am that much younger than he is.  he says we can be friends - is there no hope for me with him?  what should i do?  im so bad at this time of stuff. honey, your age difference shouldn't matter--that isn't much and it sounds like an excuse to me.  i think that is his hint that he's not interested in you as a sexual partner.  you could remain friends if you can tolerate the situation, but don't expect more.  look elsewhere for someone who deserves your affection and devotion and returns it in kind.  it's very difficult trying to find your soul mate  and you've only just begun.  in my experience, it takes gay men alot longer than lesbians to find their lifelong partner.  good luck.