text: i love a bj but my wife does not want to give me?   she loves you. and because she loves you she feels more free to do things with you. maybe it's you. hygine down below? is it a jungle down there? try trimming above the tree line and shaving below, ya follow? showering an hour before sex is good also. because a little walking and a flight of stairs or so is all it take for big jim and the boys to get ripe. hair and dark, warm areas are notorious for moisture and odor. (look at your arm pit) here's something else that might be a contributing factor: the taste of your baby batter. if you take suppliments such as ripfuel, or if you eat a lot of fast food or greasy foods. or if your diet is high in saturated fats, you smoke and drink a lot, your yogurt will be toxic. here's how to fix this: on monday stop eating anything else other then pineapples and water. that's right, you're now on a pineapple diet. the water will help clense your system and the pineapple will sweaten your taste. (( ladies, this works for you too )) by saturday night after you've trimmed and shaved, showered and prepped yourself for lovin, tell her you've been doing something new to make things a little better for her down there. if she's a loving, caring, attentive wife she'll be atleast a little interested to see if there's a difference. if not and you unknowingly married an oral-hating wife (or she did the bait and switch by "loving it" when you two dated but "hated it" once you bought the farm) then you're stuck. at this point you should sit her down, explain all the trouble you went through and in a concerned and non-accusatory tone, discuss your desires and wishes for intimacy. (( sometimes you have to give some oral to get some oral)) if she blows you off (and not the way you want her to) then you'll be at a crossroads of sorts with the left path leading to you just giving up any hopes of oral for the rest of your life or the right path to a girl on the side who has an oral fetish. good luck!