text: if an attractive female who smokes asked you to have sex would you refuse if you are a non smoker?   well all you could do is tell her that you dont smoke, and if she could please not smoke before you get intamate with her. after is one thing:)! but, if she cant respect you because you dont smoke, then tell her that you are not interested and keep it movin.  if she agrees to not smoke around you when you are there with her (whether both of you are doin' it or hanging out) then she has respect for you. dont ever let anyone make you feel that being a non-smoker is a bad thing. there aint nothing wrong with not smoking. at least you wont have to worry about coughing up a lung or something...lol... i smoke, but i dont do it around people who dont smoke. i respect other's wishes, and im pretty sure you respect her and in turn she should respect you.