text: why is britney spears partying so much when she's got two little ones to care for?   it's very simple. she cares more about partying than she does about her children. she can say whatever she likes--that they mean the world to her. that they are the most important thing in her life. that she would do anything for them. anything that doesn't interfere with her partying, obviously. that's where she has drawn the line. behaviour is more indicative of what one feels and believes  than what comes out of their mouths.  leaving kids with a trusted babysitter is sometimes necessary, but each instance carries some risk. and the more frequently you leave them in somebody else's hands, the greater the chance for something untoward to happen to them.   on second thought, in some people's cases, their kids may be safer in other people's care. this may be true for spears. either way, she's probably not on the short list for "mother of the year".