text: what should i do? my b/f and i have been going out for the past 3 1/2 years i love him so much but all most eve time we talk he brings upwhat would you do if we splet up i cry and cry and after that he kisses up and than tells me that he loves me. please help love:april you are in a weird relationship with a bizarre dude. break up and find a healthy relationship. yours will go nowhere.