text: should i tell this guy that i like him? he's very shy the opposite from me but he talks to me some so should i. i'm stuck in a hole and if he finds out by his lil. sis i don't think that would be good so please help!!! it all depends on how well you know him. find out everything about him, but do it discretely. only then will you what to do, and it wouldn't hurt to find out from his friends if he likes you as well. cuz there is no point to baring your heart to him, if he doesn't feel the same way about you, now is there? just sit back and relax and do your homework on the guy, it will be that much better, trust me.