text: i just wish i had someone to talk to about my marriage.? i just wish i had someone to talk to about my  marriage.  i'm  feeling like i just want to leave, by myself.  i have two  children ages 4 and 2, and i want to leave them too. i am depressed and have low self esteem, what should i do? with the depression and low self esteem, the best person to speak to would be a professional counselor. a psychologist or social worker can assist you in making better choices than just leaving the situation.  it is possible that medication can help with the depression, but you also need counseling to understand yourself and the self esteem issue.