text: how come i can talk dirty to guys online but not to love of my life? idk its weird i can talk dirty to all guys but my bf (whom i love) and i dont know y sometiems i think he will judge me the guys online dont really know you and you arent serious about them. you are serious about your boyfriend, and it matters to you what he thinks of you. maybe you feel like you still have to be the perfect girlfriend for him, or maybe you just arent comfortable talking to him like that yet. maybe sound him out and see where he stands on it. maybe its something that he would like, or maybe its something he wouldnt. it couldnt hurt to ask though, right? i think this is a very normal way to feel, so dont worry!