text: what do u say to a lil brother u didnt know ur dad had with another woman? specially if he is 8 yrs? i am 19.? i'm meeting him for the first time, what gift do i bring? what do i do? i don't want to ignore him. my sisters and brothers are all grown up, will it be hard for us to communicate? love him as the little brother that he is now.  that would be the best gift.  can you find anything out about him before seeing him?  my 8 year old is into baseball right now, perhaps your new little brother is into something similiar.  try to learn about him before seeing him.  most of all, accept him as your little brother now.  it's not his fault your dad did what he did.  it will be your choice however, on whether you accept this boy into your life.  people come in and out of our lives for a reason.