text: i cheated...? i cheated on my boyfriend w/ his room mate several times, i got pregnant and my boyfriend came to believe it was his, i didn't say anything at all to make him think otherwise. we got an abortion and now his roomate won't let "us" go. he loves me and misses me he's now in the army..... i feel bad, should i tell my boyfriend the truth? i love him so much and were thinking about a future together if you are considering a life together with this boyfriend i believe it would be best to be honest with him, or this will be eating away at you forever.