text: boy troubles...? my boyfriend is really great..only he keeps asking me to kiss him.  i say no and he says ok...but he keeps asking.   we have been going out for 2 1/2 months, so is it wrong for me to say no. plus he asks me at school, so i really dont want my first kiss to be w/ a whole bunch of ppl around...but everyone at my school kisses. im so confused if you are not ready there is nothin wrong with that. the first kiss should be special and if your not ready it wont be special. others may be kissing already but half of them proubly gave in to pear preasure becuase they figured everyone else was doing it. dont be afraid to stand your ground. always listen to your heart. if you do it just to make him happy he will think that anything he wants he will eventually be able to make you give in and thats not the kind of girl you want to be. be proud of yourself for standing your ground.