text: this is for men, when you look for a woman is body size a big deal?????? what attracts you to a woman? personally and this is just me.....i think that people in general are way to shallow and always judge people by their outsides... when in actuality it is the insides that really matter..... face it when you are attracted tot he outside and that is it all the person is thinking about is sex...... but sex alone can not keep a real relationship alive.....it's what is on the inside that really matters.