text: ok why not...girls this only applies to you? ok, about 3 years ago i met a beautiful girl, i wasnt seeing anyone at the time, i liked her a lot and we spent a lot of time together, even sleeping together, but no sex. she called me at strange times in the morning ¿like at 2 or 3am? and occasionally she would make me get up to goto her house and cook with her ¿this is usually after she was out clubbing?. she often picked up guys in the clubs, and i just did nothing because i wasnt sure what to do. we always stayed very good friends, even though this happened. about a year ago was the last time i saw her ¿i moved abroad? but the last night i saw her we kissed for the first time and i havent seen her since. now i wanna know what the hell was going through her mind through all of this because its left me confused as hell for the last year. did she like me or not? btw im 26 and im with someone but its just out of curisity now. well no, i still think i love her but hey what can i do? my guess is that she had some feelings for you but not ones she wanted to explore.  it could mean that she was afraid of commitment at the time, or it could mean there is something about you that she isn't sure about--like you have a serious side or it would hurt to lose your friendship. or it could mean that she liked you so much and she is such a idiot with men that she wasn't going to let herself hurt you.  the kiss--enjoy that it happened--but live your life now.