text: is she worth pursuing? i have alot of info and not much room so here it goes. a woman contacted me through an internet site about a year ago. we have talked on the phone every month since then. we have never met!! she lives about 60miles away. we talk about personal thngs all the time and even have phone sex. she has a respectable job and is not a scammer. the girl has a habit of not calling me back for weeks at a time. she says that she is very busy. she has also told me that she is not dating anyone. we have made plans to meet but then she will never call me back to confirm. i asked her point blank the other day if she wanted a relationship or just wanted to be "penpals". she told me that she would love to have a relationship but doesn't know if she can put enough time and energy into it because of the distance between us. she said that we need to talk about it and come up with a plan, so i haave called her for the last three days and she never answers or calls me back. is this worth pursuing??  