text: i'm a 18-years-old boy, but i'd like to be a girl, what should i do to be loved with guys?   i'd say you'd probably get beaten for what i'm about to suggest, but here it goes. you could always go and get counseling like the other girl said and talk to your parents, make sure they understand whats going on. you could try dressing as a girl if that is what you desire, and you could have a relationship with another boy/man. you could also look into a sex change, and no i'm not joking.