text: do you have sex on your/her rag? i do on the first 2-3 days but will not on the last 4 gross days.  my bf doesn't seem to mind since we do a lot the 2 days before and the first 2-3 days of.  i just call those 4 days his time to rest.  am i alone in this or do you feel the same way or differently? it depends on how comfortable you are....how about using a 'today's sponge'(which can be purchased the drug store), in place which will leave you free to have fun for a couple of hours!!!