text: i need advise about this girl i want to ask out? see i'm friends with these two girls and their both sisters and i already ask one of the sisters out and she said no because she didn't want to ruin are friendship.  well since then we haven't really talk much and i think it has ruined our friendship and now i want to ask her older sister out but i afraid if i do i'll ruin our friendship for good. what do i do i really like her and i can't stop thinking about her and i really care for them both. and i don't want to ruin this great friendship we have togather  