text: would you prefer a partner that when you disagree? 1) you have "discussions" with but the sex is boring 2) you "bicker" with but the sex is good 3) you have "screaming matches" but the sex is out of this world 4) the police are sometimes called but the sex redefines heaven and hell i've had number 3.  it's a roller coaster but it was fun. number 4 will never happen because if the police come then he goes for good. number 2 is acceptable. number 1 bores me to the arms of another partner.  besides if i am involved then the sex is always great.