text: should you care about sex if he loves you? my husband and i have been married a few years, he loves me very much, he likes to take care of me a lot and is always on my side whenever he is not at work. we do pretty much all of our activities together and we never seem to be bored of each other, it seems like the more we spend time together, the more we don't want to be apart from each other. i get lots of compliments from him too about my appearance. the only bizarre thing is just that he is not into sex at all, we rarely do it. we have discussed it many many times but nothing seems to change him. any advice? should i leave him alone and live with the fact that that's the way it is and just enjoy the time together doing other things and loving each other or is it something that has to change?(i feel irritable when we don't do it more often) go to the toy store, buy a few *things, let him catch you, then he will get jealous, let him fuss (or drool excitedly as i would), but either way he will get the message. or if you have a particular girl to spice things up (at least for yourself)...