text: mismatch couple????? i starting talking to a guy at work who i thought was my age, he looked 21, you wouldn't believe he was over 22, but he was 30. after becoming friends with him, i went to his house and met his who i thought was his mom, but she was the wife, she's 30, but looks 40something.    is this weird? they are both 30, one looks 21, the other looks 41. she made have had a rough upbringing or some serious health issues, both of which can take a toll on one's looks. at least she has a husband who can look beyond the physical and can appreciate the beauty inside. lucky lady!