text: do women find shy guys attractive? well, do they?  btw 17 in highschool and i'm decent looking and somewhat-fashionable, very smart, and good-natured towards people. the only problem is that i dont have very much confidence so i don't talk to girls much.  do women still find me attractive? some do...but they won't notice you as easily.  i bet there are lots of girls who like you, but are, like you too shy to make the first move.  so you have to dig deep inside yourself and muster some confidence...otherwise wait til college.  there are tons of girls in college looking for a shy quiet guy because they are all played out on the loud, full of themselves, guys from high school.