text: how to survive after break-up? my bf said that he want to break-up with me. we are from a different country.    he says that it is hard to speak on different languages. he says "our love is very difficult"     he is my first bf i'm 21 now. what can i do? i didnt think we'll break-up like this, this way. he said it on the phone. i was planning to visit him.  we met 2 years ago, we lived together. at the beginning he said "i'll teach you what the love is, but i won't marry you" i thought he said it not meaning it, but now i think his plan was to just have a good time with me.   and i can't stop thinking of it. i gave him my everything. i now i feel like a used toilet paper. what should i do? there is nothing difficult about "love". to love unconditionally means that there is no strings attached. it sounds like he was just playing games. having long distance relationships are difficult on the heart, unless one actually moves there. to teach another what "love" is....there is no such thing. it happens. its there.  you need to let it go because he doesn't sound like a very caring person. get on with your own life. there is always someone compatible that comes along. there is more fish in the ocean.