text: adults only? i am told by a friend that it wont hurt me to take a shower head on the strong part thet hurts and use it on my clit will it hurt e my clit is not sensitive and fingering does no good so can i use this without hurting myself i really get there with it but i want kids and dont want to hurt myself no you won't hurt you ability to have children but you may find your self less sensitive after a while. why not go to an adult store and buy a good vibrator.they come in all shapes and sizes. some are very discrete and others not so much. you can even get ones that have varying speeds.