text: masturbation or sth else? a friend of mine, when masturbating, doesn't insert any kinda sex toy in her vagina. but instead she presses her thighs together hard against her vagina. she says it puts pressure on the vagina but w/o breaking the hymen. is this same as masturbating? and is it true doing it this way won't break the hymen? after all nothing really gets inside.. i cant believe any of you havent said this yet...most of the time what makes you achieve and orgasm is putting pressure on the clitoris....so if you squeeze your legs together or use your hand sit on a wash machine...whatever floats your boat...you can achieve an orgasm too with out inserting anything or breaking the hymen