text: should i go to meet my gf last time? i am in us and my gf is in india, she worked there. she just moved on from my life because of my big stupidity. please search below subject for real issue regarding breakup in yahoo answers: “how do i get my gf back .. serious issue.?"  however, i realized and decided to stay away from her. my job always kept me out of home and my gf, our love was mostly from distance.  i am going to meet her last time, though she is saying me not to come but i want to go because i hurt her so much probably this will give her some healing.  i don't know what i should say her on meeting. i might start crying to see her. i planned to stay there a week, see her daily and come back. i'm afraid if my little long visit would infuriate her. what’s your view?   thanks, youve stated already.. she has said 'no' on your visit! that should be enough, right there!   theres a reason why she is not wanting you to come. have you thought about, this could possibly hurt her even more? she's needing to move on, her distance is part of her healing... let the poor girl go. let her heal... you wont be helping her!! she needs this distance.......