text: i can't do seem to have the energy and motivation for school anymore. please help!!!? after i broke up with my girlfriend, i have been really down and it seems like i am losing interst to school. i a junior in college and most of my courses are my major courses. it is crucial that i do good, however i just cant concentrate. is this normal? or am i overreacting? hey buddy, just take it easy, women will come and go....snap out of your funk!  forget about her, it does suck, bad timing, but you have to remember that your actions now could have a big affect on your life down the road.  when i found myself in a similar situation, i was able to pull out of the funk by reminding myself that "well, if i can't pull this together and make something of this class work, that is the reason why she doesn't want to be with me".  so, in short, proove her wrong (if only in your head).  be the man that god made you to be,,,,,our country is one of the few that allow women to have so much power over us, think of it like that, don't let this chick mess your life up by being this distraction....then she really wins....kind of a double wammy...don"t let that happen!  good luck, keep the faith,,,,turn to god for guidance too...adios.  don't give her more power than she deserves to have...