text: should i call him even though......? a guy at work is interested in me and vice versus.  he asked me for my number and i gave it too him.  he, in turn, gave me his number even though i didn't ask.  he's been hinting around for two weeks now for me to call him.  he hasn't bothered to call me.  should i call him?  i'm not into calling guys until after i get to know them some.  or should i wait.  i figure if he's interested enough, he'll call.  what do you think? i agree, if he's intersted he will call, but honey, its ok for women to break the mold and go for what they want.... if you find him attractive and you want to get to know more about him, call him but make sure you make it completely slear that your not always going to make the first move and find out why he got your number if he wasnt going to use it? most likely he'll say something like he wasnt sure if you were feeling him and left the ball in your court... be alittle agressive and make that first move adn let him make all the next.