text: at what age should a woman start to worry that she's not married? if you definitely want kids but not out of wedlock, at what age should you at least have started dating your future husband?  also, you'd want time together as a married couple  before rushing off into having babies right? and most of all, you would not want to have the kids when you are like donald trump's age becuz that's just silly. yeah, probably early 30s.  i wouldn't leave it much longer than that, because there are risks associated with being pregnant when you are older.  trouble is, i think men can often sense the biological clock ticking, and feel the desperation coming from a woman in that situation, and they get frightened off.  i wouldn't like to be in that position at all.  i would say if having children with someone is high on the list of priorities, do it sooner rather than later.