text: how do you know if your love will last forever? if the relationships become dull and unromantic, how long can you last?how optimistic and hopeful one should be to make love grow stronger? should bad times bring people closer or make wonder "if this is for me"? can commitment shake?(supposedly not married yet) i believed in love so much,but in front of major challenges, the desire of unconditional love fades away.  after some period of time, either love takes a new route and either grows stronger or doubts?what do you think? both must want it to last both must take responsibility for their part in problems