text: my husband hit me and i'm not sure what to do? we have a healthy relationship otherwise, we both ae well educated andlive a comfortable life, he was really stressed and i told him i would make dinner, but i came home ate from med school and i fell asleep. he feels really bad, i'm pretty mad too.....maybe i should have hit him back.... i know the feeling.  i went to nursing school and my children were lucking to get a home cooked meal.  my youngest father bite the shit out of me one day.  we were together for five years.  i forgave him and that was that.  then one day he came at me again and before i was able to do any more damage i punched him so hard in the eye he could barely see.  we split up after that.  then four years later he marries and i was talking to his wife.  without me saying anything she told me about how she has bite marks all over his body.    i would give him a second chance.  you are just as stressed out as he is.  he could have walked out the door and bought you guys some dinner.  he should understand that when entering med school there is barely enough time for yourself.  you eat, breath and sleep med, med terms, and everything else involved.  if he tries again i suggest giving it right back to him.  it will surprise him and get him thinking that you don't allow that.  good luck in school