text: is this true love? i have been in a long distant relationship for two and a half years. we communicate with letters, poems, cards, and the phone. he generates feelings in me that no man has ever done.  i think of him day and night, and when i hear his voice, i get all tingly, fuzzy, and warm inside.  we have been discussing marriage, and i do want to spend the rest of my life with him but i am afraid the thing is why are you asking.  there should be no question in your heart as to the rest of your life.  if your heart really feels as thought his is the person for you then the rest of you will fall into place.  there should be no question.  i'm not saying no but maybe you need to spend more time with this person before you make a lifetime promise to another person.