text: what if your crush ask you to be his girl friend will you answer that???   well, if i get a crush, it's normally on someone i know very well and i've developed a close friendship with and really trust and respect.  so, in my case, yes yes yes!  but if it was a crush on a new guy that i didn't know as well, i would take my time.  i'd agree to maybe go on a date with him and i would definately make time to spend with him...but the girlfriend part would have to come after we'd developed a good friendship.