text: for lesbians  can u tell me some tips on giving my girl an orgasim !? im a guy but im sure u would give me the best answer i'm not a lesbian but i'm a girl so i'll tell you what feels good for me (but you should ask her if she likes what you're doing as you're doing it since evrybody's different).  kiss her "lips" as if you were kissing her lips (the ones on her face). well... depends on how you kiss, actually.  well, lick every part of her pussy but not too fast and don't make your tongue move too fast as this is just annoying!  use one finger (or two) in her vagina. suck her clit as if your mouth was a plunger (that's to be done at the end)  here's a website that's very good i think:  http://www2.freedomacres.com/library/cunnilingushow2.html i read it and thought that was the best advice i've ever read! try it! but don't forget that's everybody's different.  that's for oral. for penetration, it helps if your pubic bone is rubing her clit at the same time.