text: any comments, as long as they are respectful are more then welcome.? ok, i'm 26 years old, and consider myself bi sexual. i have never been with a woman, but that is because the opportunity hasn't came up. well it did once, but i thought the girl was joking. anyways, as i get older, the thoughts of being with a lady are getting stronger, but i am not really sure how to go about meeting women. a lot don't take me seriously because i'm a virgin in that sense. to that i have to say that its not just a fantasy, i would love to meet a guy or girl to have a meaningful relationship with, but can't seem to find any of either. what is wrong with me??? i've been where you're at and after 27 yrs of boring straight sex that did nothing for me, i found my current partner who i really love and we've been together for almost a year. try going to a gay/lesbian bar or club. or go on line to find out whats hot in your area. even if you dont meet anyone "special" that night, its always good to network, and they can introduce you to other people and invite you to other happenings and events. but beware...being bi-sexual in the lesbian community is seen as "confused" and "not knowing what you really want"...i hope it all works out for you :)