text: am i the only guy in that feels unappreciated? i work 12 hours a day everyday.i am always tired and sometimes stressed.my wife works sometimes 4 hrs per day sometimes and we have no children.she doesn't cook clean or anything around the house until the house is a mountain of mess.i want to be the sterotypical macho caveman but i would just like her to take care of house enough to be presentable to visitor or friend that might stop by.i help when i can but after 84 hrs a week it doesn't leave with much time. what should i do? read the book   his needs, her needs, by willard harley jr.   sounds like one of you is retaliating due to an unmet need in the marriage.   god bless