text: i need sme serious help...my bf recently broke up w/ me & it tore my heart out!!:(? i was dating this guy for 3 mths then on nov. 2nd i texted him 2 see if he was @ work, he asked who it was and i told him tht it was me he then told me 2 stop texting him becuz he was now single...my prob. is tht i still like this guy and i might even love him my mother thinks tht i do cuz i told her tht when i'm with him i fell safe and when i'm n his arms i fell like no danger can harm, get 2 me...my mother then started 2 hold on 2 me cuz i started 2 cry my eyes out...she told me tht i am n luv w/ him?! i've knwn the guy 4 3 yrs. & he used 2 work w/ my mother. i want him back but i don't knw if i should or not so my question is do i get back 2gether w/ him or do i leave him alone?? (on sat. night last weekend he wanted 2 hang out w/ me does this mean tht he still loves me??) give me sme advice so tht i'll knw what 2 do the next time tht i see him...:( no one should be treated as disrespectfully as that ... with a text msg? saying he was now single?. he sounds colossally immature and doesn't know what he wants or what he had with you. the way you are feeling now will subside and new and more exciting things will come to you. if he loves you, he will find you and be all that he should be and more, but he is not going to do it while you sit there and wait on him, allowing him to treat you like a part time pal/gf. move on, make your own decisions and stop letting someone like that control your heart, head and choices!! this too shall pass my dear! :)  good luck and thinking of you!