text: does he really love me??? we're friends.friends have been teasing us from seventh grade and in nineth grade all the teasing started taking effect... and finally we told [me first n he same time] each other about our feelings. it was going gr8!we came up into tenth grade and it was like ..i donno falling apart or rather we stopped talking so much... now theres another girl in our class [really bad n horrible n she also looks like a hippo!] shez completely crzy abt him...shez trying to use me to get into his contact...as the whole skool thinks we're made for each other n eternal love n all tht [rubbish] im sick of her n im avoiding doing everythng to get away n he is in the conditions he hates her absolutely...then recently he struck on a plan n asked me indirectly [thru a common fren[gal] if i would like to be his gf..i mean just an act kinda thing so tht horrible girl [shez not bad at studies though..better than us!] keeps her distance. i took time but said yes...he was happy but nuthin after tht its sam cond. i can't say, if he really loves you(he might). why don't you sit him down and talk to him (man to man), see what he says. it's your relationship, not the school's. if he's not serious about you, then don't let him make a fool out of you, no matter how much you like/love him. you all have been friends for a long time, how long does it take to realise you care about or love someone. all the best!!