text: we dont use condoms is this safe? me and my fiance have been together for 2 years and are living together. we have both had std tests and have recently stopped using cnodoms (i am on the pill so i wont get pg). do you think i am safe considering we had the tests? please advise. if you are in a committed exclusive relationship then yes it's as safe as it can be. no-one can ever guarantee 100% that their partner won't cheat on them but you trust him and that's all you can do. i have been with my partner for 5 years and three years ago we stopped using condoms and i take the pill and have had no probs so far. good luck