text: my wife won't do things with me? i'm not talking sexually, i mean she just won't go to the movies or go grab coffee or anything.  she has no problem driving for hours to go have a night out with her friends doing stuff that she says she doesn't like but barely even tries to find a baby sitter for us and that's only if i bug her about it.  we've only gone and done something once this year and that was because her mom offered to come watch the kids.  i'm not a bad guy and have always been extremely loving and understanding (when her friends complain about their husbands/boyfriends they say they wish they were more like me) and happy to do things that she wants.  she still acts very loving at home but just won't go out with just us. its gotten to the point to where i don't have any real desire to do things in the bedroom with her at all because i don't know if she's that's bored with me and/or she's so boring she's unattractive to me and i've gotten to the point i just don't even care anymore. hey, you stole my screen name!