text: it's a church thing.. for all you christians...? hey okay my parents are thinking about switching churches and well i am in a relashionship right now and i dont know what to do...should i break up with this person  or what? help me! go to people you know and who seem wise. trust your parents who love you and ask your pastor. trust the lord to work things out for you. he has promised that if you seek his ways he will make your ways good.