text: i'm 20 and my dad is still trying to run my life!? okay, my dad has been nit-picky all my life, but he's gotten worse now that i'm making decisions on my own. i'm engaged to a wonderful 22 year old college student at the top of his class; well its been 8 months since we got engaged and my dad refuses to tell anyone i'm getting married. i also recently left college because i had no clue of what to do with the rest of my life; i'm now employed as the book department manager at a large warehouse chain store. well, he says he's ashamed that his daughter works in a place like that (he's worked maintenance most of his life). i love my job and was hired on the spot for it.  keith and i just pushed the wedding up to a simple ceremony at the end of the summer and dad's furious. he kept pretending it was never going to happen before. keith is a great guy, he works hard, treats me right and has a great future ahead of him.dad still gives me a hard time about stupid little stuff, demanding that i do it his way. when it doesn't even affect him! your still his little girl and he is scared of loosing you. its hard for a parent to let go he is in denial sit down and tell him instead of loosing you he will be gaining a son in law.