text: im 13 and wanna have sex so bad? is this normal cause i know all about it and im a boy. i really want it so bad man, but its impossible 2 find some hot gurl 2 do it with. is this normal?? so who doesn't? but you are intelligent enough to ask the question, just control your body instead of letting it control you. notice how much more difficult this is for you when you feed your brain with songs about sex, visual images of sex, and locker room stories.it really is true that you can work off sexual tension with regular physical activity. also keep busy with studies & hobbies, ie. don't let yourself get bored.  you do determine, to a great degree, how much of a constant battle this will be by the choices you make to either feed lust or not. i am certainly not putting you down for being a normal, red-blooded american male. just telling you to respect your body by not getting involved sexually until you marry, and make it easier on yourself along the way by keeping a glance at a hot girl at just a glance, vs. a lingering stare that gets your motor running. small choices are where you win or lose most of the struggles in life. a few hundred small choices add up to a ton of push in whatever direction you are headed to.be normal and wise with your mind & body, you will be disease-free and and free of many regrets.