text: i have wanted to have sex on my 16th birthday for many years should i go with what i have wanted to do or not?   if you are ready and you are with the person that you love and the person that you would want to give that gift to. you can only give that to one person and you can never get it back. just make sure that he is th right person because that is the person that you are going to remember for the rest of your life. it don't matter how good or bad he will be, you are going to remember it for the rest of your life. so you should want to remember the person that you love. right? i lost my virginity when i was 17. i loved him alot and still i wish that i would have waited. there is nothing to rush into because the first time is not much fun anyways. well just think about it,  its a decision that you have to make and as long as you make the one that you are comfortable with, that is all that matters. make sure you use protection and if you are going to go along with it don't regret doing it. make him make your first time perfect and memorable. well congratulations on making it to 16 because most girls start at 12 and 13.