text: my crush hasn't been coming around why? please help! there are too many possible reasons why he has not been over.  some might show that he still has interest but has been in a position where this just is not possible right now.  some might prove that he has lost all interest or is now seeing someone else.  just remember that crushes do not last forever.  no matter how intense, they tend to lesson with time.  if you need to find out what is going on, call him, just to say that you have been thinking about him.  you should be able to figure out what is going on by how he reacts.