text: if you have a male friend and you are in love with him,but he has a girlfriend how you know if he wants u?   i notice u didn't say he was in love with you. but i also notice you said he has a girlfriend. this is what you need to do  put yourself in his girlfriend shoes and another woman is trying to come between you& him. how would you feel?  and if he wanted you is that gonna make u happy to know that he had a girlfriend but dumped her to be with you, he'll do the same when he see another girl he likes