text: what to do when your ex is getting married? i was with my ex for a year and found out that he was seeing someone else as well. he is getting married to the other woman in a couple of weeks and is still trying to keep contact with me. i have tried to cease contact with him and he still keeps coming around. i have even threatened to contact his fiancee if he does not leave me alone but he still wont go away. although i am very irritated with him and do not desire to be with him, i still have not gotten over the feelings of hurt. the wedding date is coming up and i am nervous and unsure about how i will handle the man that i still have feelings for marrying someone else. any suggestions on what i should do on his wedding day to keep my mind of off him and the situation? thanks in advance for your feedback. it's simple. show up wearing something absolutely stunning. sit through the boring service then at the reception have a drink, laugh with your mutual friends and make it clear your over it. bringing a date is a great move. if you're asked for a speech make sure you're funny but also take the opportunity to dish some dirt. also be sure you leave early before the bride and groom do. you wanna cut your ties so make sure you get things out of your system, and show him that he's giving you up for good and show him what he's missing before you go!