text: is he not attracted to me? many, many times i have told my husband about how i feel about porno but, he still looks at it when i am not around. am i not appealing to his eyes anymore? is he still attracted to me even though he looks at porno? men just like looking at pretty naked women, it's like getting away with something that you couldn't as a boy. i would say he is still attracted to you. if he becomes an addict, you may run into problems. if he catalogs it and has his favorites he is an addict. which still doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you , he has an addiction like any other drug. it like an escape from the dreary life that binds him. it's fantasy.