text: why is that people always like to judge a person ? i am just curious to know what people think i honestly try to treat everyone the same way. i admit sometimes a persons appearance gives you a good or bad judgment. answer plz freely.. i don't know why, but i could list about 50 things i don't like about you.  i would strugle to get out 5 things i like about you. it seems easier to judge people in a negative way.  it might be something in our nature or instinct, like a defense mechanism.   think like a wolf.  if another wolf comes in your territory, will you go over and play?  hell no, you'll snap at him before he snaps at you.  you will try to show him your the biggest wolf around. we try to immediately tear people down before we even meet them.  we will snap before being snapped at.  it's human nature.  it takes lots of training and practice to overcome that. good luck.