text: am i a cheater? okay ive been on and off with this guy for 5 years and this time we have been together 5 months well like 3 weeks ago we started fighting and we havent quit yet, well about 20 days ago my brothers, girlfriends brother got out of jail and we will call him j any ways, so we met and we made friends and hes really cool, this whole time i was staying with my brother because me and my boyfriend have been fighting and me and my mom too. anyways so i was staying with my brother and j was staying there too because he just got out of jail and he needed somewhere to stay, so tuesday i moved in with my mom and j went to his grandmas house and ive been calling him, hes been calling me we talk on the phone a lot and every time my boyfriend comes around we fight fight fight. well he caught me talking to j last night and he broke up with me because i said i cheated on him. what do u think? am i guilty by conversation, or is he tripping? i do like j but nothing happend. we havent even touched. it sounds like you want to be with j anyways