text: hi, i have a stalker, does anyone know the easiest way to get a new identity, legally? i'm mainly looking to change my ssn, i am moving to a new state, and once i get a new ssn i will do a name change the first thing you have to do is create a paper trail for the police and then get a restraining order and then get a home protection device weather it be pepper spray or an alarm system or a gun if thats what you want and you are of age. then get into a self defence class. protect yourself first possesion second and the rest will be fine. good luck.