text: when you are 'seeing' a guy, how long is appropriate for him to wait between calls? i am new to dating because i was in a relationship for a long time. when you are 'seeing' someone, how long is appropriate for the guy to wait between calls?    i am seeing a few guys. all but one calls, texts or emails the next day after a date, but the one i like does not follow such rules. he does not call the day after a date, and sometimes waits up to three days to call me. i simply cannot tell if this one likes me or not. when we are together, he is extremely affectionate and talks to me as though he wants to develop a relationship, but as soon as we part, i never know when i will hear from him again. often he calls just to say 'hi', but not to plan a date. i cannot figure out if he is just independent or just 'isn't that into me', or possibly seeing someone else?!  we see eachother once or twice a week....but i feel like i am constantly waiting on his word. any insight? hopefully he is really into you.  maybe he thinks that by playing it cool means he has a lot of "class"( i personally don't think so).  he shouldn't make you wait; but you shouldn't rush into things either.  if you don't feel comfy making the 1st move, don't.  find out what you can until you feel like he is really into you; he might ask you if you are "dating" other people, & then maybe he'll ask you to be being exclusive w/him.  always leave the ball in his court.  if he's a gentleman or the right guy; he'll let you'll know.