text: a friend?? i have a "friend" and she is giving and kind, i can tell her anything but when we're around guys she always wants attention and she always wants my boyfriends attention and it pisses me off. why is she like that? is she really my friend? really you do not have nothing to worry about you said your self your boyfriend thinks she annoying.....and so do other guys.... your best bet for this is take her under your wing, teach her how to be.... act and think.... i am not telling you to controll her or change everything about her.. sit down talk to her as her friend.. if she is your friend and you talk to her as if she is and respectfully tell her what is bothering you about her.. and ask her to tone down on all the stuff that annoys you... she will thank you and hug you and respect you as well, she may even try to learn from you..... and tone down more then you think... i have had plenty of friends like her and each one today have taken the harder lesson.... i have talked to a few of those friends and it brought us closer and she was able to actually find a boyfriend. or more on the simple advice of "hey you know we all love you but.... could you please stop this.... or instead could you maybe do that... your my best friend and i hate to see you hurt so as your friend let me be the one to help you tone down "etc: it may seem hard but once you start and watch her rections then you maybe be able to sence where or what to say... to her to help her on yourself... in any event good luck with it...