text: honey, am i fat? men: have you ever actually answered your wife/gf with a yes? and not be joking and she actually is a little on the "chubby" side? how'd she react?   women: has your man (or woman,if your les) actually said yes to you? if you are,would you want him to admit it or are you simply looking to know your still sexy to him? i've asked my husband, and he was honest. i've gained some weight since i've been stationed here and he said that i have "some chub" i said straight out, no i'm fat. (10lbs is a lot for someone as small as me. eventhought no one else in the world will tell me i'm fat. my family and friends all think i'm crazy, but i do have chub on my belly. i'm so glad he's honest) but i think guys should always always be honest. i want him to tell me i'm fat so it'll motivate me to go to the gym more. or have him tell me to have less unhealthy foods when we eat. it's helpful. it's embarrasing, but don't punish him for your own mistake!  too many women get so sensitive about being fat, but the truth is, you probably are fat! so don't get mad if someone says you are. the average amerian is overweight. being fat is gross. if your man can tell you that you are overweight or say you could do with losing a few pounds, you should love him more for being honest. and stop being so hard on them for being honest! it's not their fault that you are fat!