text: to the men:  how can we as women make you feel like a man? i am always curious to know new ways to make my husband feel wanted, loved and needed.  also, what can women improve on?  serious answers, please! well to be honest. a man always feels like a man. so you want to know how to spice up the marriage. so let me explain what happens. a couple starts off in a relationship and everything is allot of fun. the sex, the hanging out, the vacations, the friends etc. good stuff! but then we get married and responsible life kicks in. and everyone knows that responsible life sucks. someone is always pissed whether it is the bill collector, the boss, the kids, the wife and sometimes even the damn dog. and eventually this starts to wear down the couple. so to spice up your life you need to break up the routine, not necessarily to relieve boredom, but to just get away from the day to day bs for a least a little while.  so breaking up the routine should lead to good sex and a few laughs that bring you back to a time when you couldn't get enough of each other. good luck!