text: my boyfriends bestfriend hates me. what to do? my boyfriend and i have been together for about a month. he lives 2 hours away so i just had the chance to meet his bestfriend the other day. i said hi to him and he just looks at my boyfriend and says 'i don't like her' and walks away. now my man is acting weird and distant. before this happened we were happy and talked all the time. what should i do? okay, this best friend of his is extremely out of line, not to mention hes immature. don't take him or his actions personally. however, if "the best friends" actions are making your boyfriend act differently to you, then you need to be having this conversation with your boyfriend-right away. if your boyfriend is influenced by his best friends immaturity, something is indeed wrong. i would second guess your relationship with him. however, give you boyfriend the chance to explain why he is acting out like this. then you decide what is best for you to do!