text: hey guys help? what is the best way for a friend whose 24 to get back with her ex whom she left 3 months ago - they both had a lot going on in their lives and shes realised hes the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with. i know she stayed down there last nite and he told her she could sleep in the spare room - she didnt she slept with him! he tried to have sex with her and she no she didn't want to feel used and he could either have the whole package or nothing - he still kept trying - anyway nothing happened. he is not worried if people c her car there and he does not want anyone else. if he really didn't want her he wouldn't have let her bunk in next to him even if she said no to his advances would he? they had been sleeping together once or twice a week prior to this. i really feel they are meant for each other! what do men out there think? she never left him for anyone else it was just to see if she really did feel for him. g'day jack,  thank you for your question.  13 messages indicates that he is pretty keen for them to get back together again. hopefully, they will do.  regards