text: wht will happn? my girl frnd is still a virgin and does not want to loose her virginity!!!  we planned for oral sx this sunday i want to suck, finger fuck, tounge fuck and all tht is needed to get a gal an orgasm but i am feared tht does this will break her hymen  i wont reach her hymen but during her climax r there ny chances of hymen breakage  please advide shld i go for it or not speacially gals who did not have sex and r masturbating wihout hurting thier virginity and getting all the pleasures of a climax  i dont want to hurt her feelings  but want to have oral if you want to finger her, please be gentle, don't exert so much finger force on her genitals.  if you want to tongue her, please be as gentle also. if the tongue is so forceful, tongue-ing thru her hole would most definitely break her hymen.