text: why bother having children and giving them a home? it makes no sense to have children; if when your children grow up, they feel you are meddling with them in their lives when they marry and have children.  how are this generation going to react when their children have children and they are told that they have no rights. and that they are meddling, but hand over the money and baby-sit or you are a bad grandparent! most usa children have become disrespectful to parents when they feel they have grown up and get married.  who got you to where you are?  and why should we, as denied grandparents, leave an inheritance to you when in fact you deny us our legacy and our grandchildren their heritage? who do you think you are to tell your mature parents to get lost? or to tell your spouses parents to take a hike? good question, most children growing up now have no respect for their elders. something to do with the parents of the peroid i would imagine.