text: dating several girls! any idea i can expect to keep juggling before they find out?   depends on how good a liar and juggler you are.  wouldn't it be easiest simply to mention that you're seeing other girls?  the ones that stick around will find you much more attractive ("he's a player and he'll break my heart, but at least he's got a code of honor. . . ")  i have a friend who has had a lot of success juggling several girls, and it's because they know he's a player, but at least he's honest about it.