text: ex- gf's birthday party??? i had not seen my ex-girlfriend for close to two years.  she messaged me online and asked if i wanted to go to her 22nd birthday party.  i happily agreed and went because i still like her.  however, when i got there, i decided to talk to her privately and just say how much i missed her and how good it is to see her.  she responded with, "i'm glad you're here.  but i have a boyfriend."  futhermore, he was at the party and she did not tell me she had a boyfriend before i came.  i had no idea.  i said, " well that's great hope everything goes well."  and she responded with,"  well i don't know what's going on between us."  the conversation didn't really go further then this.  so, what does this mean?  should i hope the best for the couple and not think too much about it.  or do i still have a chance here?  thank you! you might still have a chance.  she is still interested in you.  i don't think she knows what she wants.  try to talk to her.