text: i havn't talked to her for a year should i just ask her out? i use to go to school with this girl, but i havn't talked to her for a year. i passed by few times, but she didnt notice me. i want to ask her out, but dont know how to pop the question...any suggestions? i think better to get in touch with her earlier than the day you ask het for a date. that way, it won't sound like the invite just came out of the blue.