text: on my last question..? he just told me he loves me....why is he doing this? he tells me he loves me, but we never had sex, he never asked to have sex, so its not about sex. its about something else....  i think he does love me, but i dont understand..  god will give me an answer, but id like to hear from you all..  weve been going out for 3-4 years. from the way you spoke about him in your first question, he doesn't act like he loves you.  guys will say they love you, but what matters is not what they say, but how they treat you.  if he really loved you, he wouldn't treat you the way he does.  (and it isn't always about sex).