text: seeking advice on relationship? i'am at a verge of breaking up with my college sweetheart and the only woman i ever loved in my life. she was my love during four years of college, and we kept talking to each other every week over the phone from last two years and met occasionally ( as i moved to a different country ), every time we met i loved her company and hated to let her go.   she madly loves me and wants a final answer from me about marriage.problem with me is although i love her, every time she is not with me i feel the urge to run after other women, it makes me happy, and brings me up if i feel down.  it's a long realtionship, we both have been through alot, and understand each other, i feel at peace with her. is the urge to meet diff. women and fear that i might start liking someone else in her absence, worthy enough to let a thing so precious slip away ? i don't mean to be mean but, if you really love her let her go because your going to hurt her.  this poor woman is in love with you and wants only you.  you on the other hand can only love yourself.  if you want to make this work you need to think with your heart and brain and not your d i c k.  please make up your mind and keep it in your pants if you want to be with her.  oh yeah and make sure she knows that your with god knows how many other woman so she can go get her self an std test.   grow up, use the college education you are paying for, stop looking for sympathy from everyone out here, and start being a man not a little spoiled boy.  when your selfish choices start hurting a good person it makes you a loser.