text: what are some good things to say or do to break the silence with a new boyfriend or girlfriend?   well it depends on the situation. not matter what the deal is, be yourself. sometimes there is no ice to break and that is when you know its a keeper. often there is ice when you shouldnt even be where you are. so relax and catch a movie, or rent one so you dont have to pay so much for popcorn and bring a v-day gift instead. remember to smile, you are a likeable person! he or she will see that and want more if it is meant to be!