text: should i leave my boyfriend? please help!? i am expecting a baby by him i'm due in january! but i don't know if i can be happy with my bf he is too controling and has serious anger problems.honestly i don't feel safe around him when he gets mad i feel that he will beat me (he has when i was about 3 months pregnant) i am confused because sometimes he makes me feel so good and i loved ; i feel he will be a good dad. try to give him a chance. there's always hope. have faith and be patient. as long as you and he are still alive, there's always something good that will happen.  kindness begets kindness. violence begets violence.  if he hurts you again physically, time to give him another thought. make sure if you decide to leave him you are physically strong and financially stable to support yourself and your baby.  also, a little prayer and asking of help from the man upstairs won't do any harm. and when you are helped, don't forget to thank the universe.