text: help i'm having a problem with ebay..my 2nd transaction? i won an item..seller said they preferred paypal. i paid it within minutes. they accepted..2 days later they refused payment. said they couldn't take paypal..the fees were too expensive. asked me to take bidpay. i didn't know what it was. i eventually paid voa bidpay. i was upset that the seller broke ebays rules (as first seller did same and put me  through the winger) .i think seller was scared i'd give negative feedback and apologized and offered a free gift; said i'd have within a week.it's been 20 days..no item. i just emailed and she said it was shipped on the 2nd day after i paid. said she'd check on it. is she trying to scam me. she also added after i bought it that she takes bidpay which was not on there before.  the date i paid it (25th) she moved up to nov 7th..i don't know if she's trying to cheat me..she had 100% feedback but now she got two negatives (about not using trackable sites but i think bidpay is trackable) dropping her to 94% after i bought from her... file a complaint with ebay. contact your credit card company and file a complaint with them also.  ebay should help you.