text: what to do about this man??? ok i am sooo confused. i just found out last week that i was pregnant by this man i was with for 6 months. we broke up about a month ago and i started having symptoms so i went to the doctor and found out. they say i am a little over three months. i am so nervous. i have an idea about what im going to do... but not so sure. anyways this guy treated me bad so thats why we broke up... and now that i told him the kid was his... he wants to be back in my life... he tries to be so sweet to me and takes me out all the time now. he even calls me every day and night to see how everything is going and he comes to see me every day at lunch time.... any ideas about what all i should do??? i would let him back in my life as the baby's father but for now that would be it.  you have enough going on right now you shouldn't deal with personal men issues.  after the baby is born and your life has settle down a little bit then think about the next step....but no matter which way this goes make sure to get child support. your baby deserves it.