text: i go out with a guy that smokes weed..? hes the nicest guy ive ever met and i can really be myself around ihm... but he smokes soo much! it makes me soo mad and hurt and confused and i just push everyone away.. i dont know what to do im soo confused hes my first real love.. what should i do?? did you know he smoked weed when you first started going out with him? you probably have no right to expect him to change for you if you knew the situation up front. only you can decide if you'll accept the behavior or walk away. this is not anything against you - the guy simply likes getting high!