text: parent help? my dad is soo over protective. i understand that hes just trying to protect me and keep me safe but its just too much.so i asked him to get ym belly button pierced and obviously he said no since were not goin on holiday this year or next i was thinking of getting it done and not telling him ? ihf your daughter did this what would you do ? i know you might  be different from my dad but i think its my choice and just wanted to hear some opinions? it's not your choice if he carried insurance on you.  belly button piercings get infected very easily and that will mean a trip to the doctor and medication.  its not fair to put that on your parents when they said no to begin with.  if my daughter came home with it done anyway she would have to remove it and then be grounded... at least.  when you have your own job and insurance then by all means, have at it.  pierce whatever you want.