text: hey i'm 16 years old and i'm wondering if my girlfriend is as into the relationship as i am? i've been dating this girl for 6 months that i've been friends with for over 2 years. we've gone from caual friends to all over each other in school but ever since summer has hit she's been acting different. we never do anything together and all she ever wants to do is talk on the phone plus i want to be more in her life. i know her better than to cheat on me but i'm just wondering if she want's out. i know that she would not want to hurt me so she is probably just trying to push me away. but the more i try to real her back in and i start thinking everything is okay we go right back to where i started as soon as summer came. i need some serious advice on what i should do. i love her and i thought that she was the one but now i just don't know. i try to explain my self to her but she just get's pist off and we get into a fight when i do so i just avoid it now. i am soon leaving for 3 weeks to australia and want the comfort of knowing i have a girlfriend back home b4 i leave. please help ok i understand where ur coming from i had the same problem. i first met my dude in 6th grade and from there we became very good friends we had everything in common and had fun with each other then when we were n 11th grade. we decided to date and it was good at first but then he started acting different just like u explained with ur gf but i think u should just break off the relationship because u need to explore other options in dating... i know u love her and i know she loves u too but i think shes not ready for that commitment like u are so thats y shes pushing u away...but i know 1 thing if u 2 r meant to be then u guys will get back together in the future and it will be when ur older and ready to settle down from all the other relationships that dont work out...but for now just enjoy ur teenage life because ur too young for serious relationships because there might be other girls that u think is the one for u but not so just chill  continue being friends...good luck