text: i know it was a crush.but how can i stop loving her? she might be the one.help me.?   love is a difficult thing to master. i'm afraid love takes time to get over. if she treated you well perhaps you could ask if she would consider trying again and tell her exactly how you feel about her and how it is painful without her. if you already know that your relationship with this woman has completely ended then i'm afraid it will hurt you for a while longer, but i would recommend doing things to take your mind off of this love for longer periods throughout the days, perhaps doing activities that you will enjoy with friends and trying new things that you would not have considered doing before, but nothing that will remind you of this relationship. evenings i presume will feel the hardest, i'd recommend resisting the urge to contact this woman and trying to find something that will bring you some comfort and joy for a little while. apart from that i'm afraid it's the waiting game that is difficult to overcome, but it is not impossible. good luck and i hope that you will start feeling a little better soon. x