text: i am in a very difficult situation, i am in a love triangle.? my ex that i haven't seen in almost 3 months, is working at the same store i am, but different departments.  i have talked to him and he explained that he did mess up and would like me back.  however, i am with someone who lives with me and i am not totally happy with the situation.  the one who lives with me hasn't worked in 2 1/2 months, sex is okay, and he has always focused on working on the computer.  i still love my ex and i really care about the one that's living with me. but, since i've told him that i wasn't happy , he wants to change and work it out.  i've already have told him what i wanted 3 or 4 times and nothing at that moment changed.  i don't like hurting anybody and i just need some sort of feedback.  please help anybody you need to back it up!! first of all why are you living with someone so quickly after breaking up with the first guy? you seriously need to slow things down before you get yourself in another mess. why did you and the first guy break up to begin with? obviously there were problems in that relationship and you need to work those problems out before you dump this other guy--who to me sounds like a loser. if you really want an opinion that will help you, you need to get rid of both guys and try to figure out what you want and need in life. you must be young because you act very impulsively, so you need to slow the sh** down!