text: open marriage is a good idea? my hubby is my 1st love in my life. we been 2gether for 8 yrs and have 2 wonderful kids. my marriage is bad for the last 15months but i try to work it out. he always on the computer and didn't care about me and the kids, i slept in the room alone and waiting for him all night long. the past 2 months i found out that he is seeking for women in my area for wild sex on adult website. and few days ago i checked his email, i know that he might be cheating on me with some other women early this yr. but whenever i asked him do he cheat on me, he always say "no". but it been 15 months in the bad marriage, i'm very tired and i ready to give it up. but i really love my kids, i wanted them to have a daddy. i always give my hubby many chance, but always disappointed. so i told him that if i don't make him happy then he should be with someone whomake him happy. but please don't get divorce and wait until the kids is older. now i don't love him any more. should open marriage is the good idea for now i agree with jen u. and i am sorry, but open marriages is a contradiction in terms, if you want to bang wahtever comes along, stay single. marriage is aboiut a committed relationship to one person. if you can't hack it get out.... but really, this isn't what you want anyway. it's what he wants and you just gave up and let him do it.   your children may need thier daddy, but they also need thier mom to be a strong role model, not a door mat. find your backbone, get a good lawyer and get a divorce. when you are ready, you'll find someone who apreciates you. be strong. good luck.