text: is it possible for a guy that you think is into you, to be taking his time to ask you out?   no...you should read the book "he's just not that into you"  if he hasn't asked you out yet, it's because he doesn't want to and he's not going to...  if you have minimal suspicion, then ask him out...if he turns you down then you know that he isn't into you.  if he says yes, than it was just cold feet.