text: what is your favorite recipe for disaster in life choices?   sleep with your best friend's husband, don't use protection, get pregnant, lose the best friend, have the baby, the husband ends the affair, reconciles with the best friend, he sues you for custody, wins, he and the best friend raise the baby, you get visitation every other weekend and one month in the summer, the child calls best friend mommie.  this hasn't happened to me, i just thought it up, but that would be one hell of a mess, no?  do i win 10 points for best answer?