text: more about the no obituary question? this woman was my mother by the way.  i know my mother had life insurance from the hospital where she worked.  i know that her husband had her insured for a minimum of half a million dollars. i could have sworn my mother told me many years ago that she was going to have her children as beneficiaries of that policy from her employer.  (she knew her husband had her insured for a small fortune)  so is it possible he got that money without our knowedge?  and could it be possible her kids were on the life insurance policy to get a portion of that policy too and he did not tell us about it?   we were not even allowed to have a memorial service for our mother.  and he shipped her body to another state to be barried. it was like a nightmare after she died.  could he have distroyed her will?  i'm at a loss for the way he is acting and treating our deseased mother and her children.  it has been over a year and he has not made any attempt to contact us.  we've tried 3 or 4 to contact him... you can find a attorney and contest the will if there was one. it doesnt sound right to me. if it were my mother, i would be kicking some ass.