text: please help i am totally miserable!? what should i do? my boyfriend told me that he loves no other than me, but yesterday, i had one of my friends three way him and ask him out on a date, and he said yes! he said what she don't know won't hurt her! than, i hollered that he wasn't nothing but a jerk and hung up! he beeped me and told me that he knew i was on the other line b/c a girl just doesn't call him up out of the blue and ask for his cell number like that and then ask him to go on a date! i don't know if i should believe him or not! i graduate tomorrow and i am soooo stressed out! i love him with all of my heart, but i am extremly scared that he wasn't playin and that he will cheat on me when i go off to college where i will be tryin to do all i can for us 2 have a good future! pleasse help!!!!! i am a guy and i don't belive him.  dump him, he's playing you.  besides, you are going off to college, you are going to meet new guys there.