text: how do i break up my ex-girlfriend and her current boyfriend without turning her against me? - my goal would be to get back together with her so i can't turn her against me or appear too needy or weird!   -i know she is not 100% happy with the guy she is dating because she has called me multiple times in the last 4 months and told me she thinks he is a loser but she says she loves him and she has stayed with him.  ps.: she and i broke up originally because we were long distance, so its not like we were incompatible or didn't get along you cant break them up. if she isnt into him, she will leave him, or they will break up on their own. i hate to tell you this, but you should move on.   there are lots and lots of really great women in the world. get out there, and meet them!