text: i think that i have lost the love of my life.... should i try to get him back or just let it him? i felt that he was trying to fill my head full of bull sh*t. long story short.... i left him. he was only my man for 3 months.  help now i'm second guessing myself... see what happen when a man messes with your head really messy you up. smart girl - move on to someone who treats you like you should be treated. how do you see your life? do you really want him in it? if he really wants you, he will let you know. ..sooner or later!