text: i think i'm in love with a close friend who is gay...? i'm a 16 year old straight girl and i think i'm falling for one of my closest friends who is definitely gay. he hugs, kisses me (on the cheek), and also tells me he loves me just about everyday so it's that much harder to get over my feelings for him. i know he'll never love me back the same way...so what should i do? you can love someone in a non-sexual relationship. friendships usually last longer than relationships, and you should accept your friend for who he is. your friend does love you, but he is just attracted sexually to guys. even though you are close to your friend, it is time to start looking at the straight guys who could be interested in you.