text: my boyfriend is too shy to kiss me - could it be too soon for him? we are both 16. i have had a few serious relationships before, but he has never even had a girlfriend. he is sooooooooo shy. we've been dating for a month. he asked me out, but i have had to be the one to grab his hand, and hug him. since he is so shy and innexperienced i am afraid of pushing him into anything, but i really want to kiss him. is it too soon? he probably wants to kiss you, but he's afraid because he doesn't know how. make sure he's in a good mood, try cuddling with him in the dark (being in the dark may make him feel more comfortable), ease him into it by getting close, softly rub the tip of your nose on his, then on his lips, then you can rub your lips on his, then kiss him. remember--do all of this slow and gentle (it will make hom feel more relaxed). good luck!!!