text: t do you do when a old grlfriend frm 20yrs ago pops up out of nowhere and you start to have feelings again? i mean like i really thought i would never ever here from this perso on a civil let alone a personal level at all. trippy. i understand the confusion perfectly... (went through it myself) but remember - once your paths separated and you have a new life, stick to what you have, and forget what you might have had if you and this girl were together. if you are married, it is not worthy to destroy your marriage for some 20 years old fantasy (because holding up or trying to revive the past is a fantasy). you might have feelings towards her - actually towards that girl you knew 20 years ago - not the woman that she is today. you have changed, she have changed... be careful! keep you heart safe! take care