text: relationship with wife? i am 37 years old. i am married for almost 10 years. i have two kids. i have never had sex with any woman other than my wife. recently i find that my sex drive has increased and the love towards my wife has increased. i don't know why there is such a change. is it normal at this age? though i think about other women, i am trying to be honest to my wife and i dont want to do anything against my wife. i think everyone should be honest and loyal to his wife. i want to have sex with my wife at least thrice a week. is it normal at this age? well, yes it is normal. everybody knows that when it comes to men... "life starts at 40." =)