text: how do you ask someone out....to be a gf? i am a teenager and asking someone out can be tough so could you help me out... i would like creatvite ideas or wild ideas..(nothing too wild) just dont make it a point to ask her directly.  focus on stuff other than going out with her...to talk about.  the weather, nascar racing, or the cool people you saw at the mall.  then after you are fairly comfy talking to her, and she knows you dont spit when you talk...just say...hey ive gotta go get some errands done...you wanna hang out sometime...like maybe meet at the mall next rainy day ?  heres my home phone/cell.....just be confidant....but keep it real...be yourself...not someone you arent.