text: am i pregnant? i stop taking my birth control pills because i missed to many days in the packet. a week later i started having sex, two days after that i came on, could i be pregnant, i am having real bad stomach pains and back pains, i am having lots of discarge. am i pregnant if ur pregnant you shouldnt be having stomach pains that hurt really bad. when you are pregnant you get these mild cramps that are like menstral cramps, they come and go instead of being constant, and not so sharp. although you do get discharge while you are in the first trimester, its like raw egg white. its clear, slimy and there everytime you wipe. usually there from the first week of a missed period till about 3 weeks after. by then u know ur pregnant. you should consider taking a test if you really think you are. get a good one. ept is the best one there is. each test picks up different levels of hcg. the further along u are the more hcg there will be in your urine. if nothing ever comes of the test i would see a doctor soon because something is not right especially with the back pain and stomach pains. i have heard of some std's giving the same symptoms. make sure you talk to ur partner about this. this is all about ur life and his, from raising a child or an std no matter how you look at it. hope things  go ok. good luck