text: i recently split with my gf and she knows i was ill we havnt been getting along should i tell her my health is i recently split with my gf and she knows i was ill we havnt been getting along since then should i tell her my health is getting worse and more to the point i want the past behind us and be friends? depends... how bad was your breakup?  you may need to give both her and yourself some time apart.  i'm sure she still cares about your health and would want to know, but make sure the timing is right...  good luck and take care.