text: which would you use when you love, the brain or the heart?? i wanna know which is the most commonly used since some people use their brain while others their hearts! help me answer this age old question everyone! =) it's been my experience that the heart will mislead you.. we often find ppl attractive who are completely wrong on so many levels.. perhaps i'm biased because i'm in the beginning of a divorce, but i think one's brain is a better guide.. relationships boil down to practical matters, and a division of labor.. the sparks and butterflies don't last very long.its wiser to follow your brain..   "it's not always rainbows and butterflies, it's compromise that moves us along"