text: am i being logical about my choice to this situation? my husband wants to start a busniess with his friend promoting djs at clubs.  i told him that i support him in whatever he is doing but he should try out the first event first to see how the outcome is.  well, the first event costs only 2000.00 and hasn't happen yet and he already has the second event planned out and will cost him 7000.00.  when i found out about it i was furious.  i told him that if he doesn't get anything out of the either one of the event, i'm leaving him.  am i being logical or selfish here?  oh we have two children too. absolutely not. he is illogical. hope he;s a good dad. but 9k on a venture? get a grip. put your foot down. do the 2k, see how that goes. if it blunders, then what??