text: how can i make my dad understand that i want to be a good person and help around the house and be a good girl. my dad does not understand me we have notseen each other for over 11 years and he does not know how to take a joke from me will someone please help me understand what his problem is. also if you can please give me some tips on how to be a good daughter to him he soes not know me very well and i want to get reaquanted with him girl you make him understnd how old you are and you say that he don,t listen to you  you chat to him then you e mail me then i,ll help ok guyebalderson@yahoo.co.uk