text: how many guys out there would turn down a big girl just because she is big even though she is very pretty?   i love women, i have dated big girls and small girls. different races and different creeds. it has always come down to, not how she looks, but how she makes me feel. i pity the guy that limits himself to barbies or big girls for that matter. so much of attraction is not just with the eyes. ultimately it is how someone touches you or how they make you laugh or how easy they are to share silence with. to any of you guys out there that limit themselves to a body type when seeking mates, good luck buddy.