text: i am getting married on a cruise to jamica in october, we are eloping next weekend can we keep it a secret? we have to get married sooner for immigration purposes. i am american and he is canadian. all of our family is going on the cruise and i am trying to keep it a secret so they don't get upset for having to be at a fake wedding. can i? should i tell? would you be upset? thanks keep it between the two of you, who needs to know that you two are already married. just enjoy the first moments as husband and wife and let your worries just fade away all will be just fine.