text: confused about boyfriend? ok, so the guy i've been talking to for the past 3 and a half months on myspace/net/phone is now my boyfriend - we met and went out to see a movie a couple times and we get on well. i know he obviously likes me alot, to talk to me for nearly 4months and take the time out to get to know my personality, but now he is asking about the sexual side of things.   recently he asked when i would be ready to have sex, (were both virgins -hes 20 i'm 19) i said i didn't know only because i like him so much and don't want to tell him i want to wait until i'm married.  the thing that makes it confusing is that he's not rushing me- if he was it would be simple -dump him- but he just wants to know it will be in he near future and not 'never'. but i don't see us getting married(anytime soon), and i'm scared he will go somewhere else or if i tell him, he might freak out and think i want to marry him or something.  help please, what exactly should i say? should i tell him in person? from a guys point of view, i would say to tell him the truth and don't hold back anything.  anything not told will eventually end up hurting the both of you.  depending on how he accepts the facts you tell him, will determine whether there is a future for you two.  telling in person is better because you can tell if that person is lying or how he accepts the news by body language.