text: he left her for me, he leaves me for her. he propsed to me recently. is it real love or what.? i moved 450 miles away to get away from the turmoil and now he has come here and proposed to me. he says that he has to go back to tie up loose ends and he will be back for us to start a new life together. we have been together two years and it has been a regular ball of confusion. i love him dearly but i doubt he will change and i am afraid. should i trust and believe in him or what? no, you got away from him, don't go back there. tell him to stay away and never call you again. he made a big bad mistake and you will never be able to trust him and relax again. it won't be worth it. have you ever heard the saying "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me"? don't let him fool you twice. if you already feel you can't trust him, listen to your intuition. why would he change? it's too late. respect yourself and get on with your life. sorry for your pain.