text: how can a shy guy find a beautiful girl to call his and how can he approach her to make known his intention?   you first in some way need to let the girl know that your interested in her. try being just a little outspoken. no one wants to talk to someone that has nothing to talk about, so you might need to come out of your shell a bit. if she knows your interested in her she will show it in some way or form. do some nice things for her. after that, if she pays you no attention she probably just is not interested.