text: how do i get a guy to like me for who i am  and not what i look like? guys alwys ask me out for my looks and not my personality. a guy won't even take time to get to know me he just likes what i've got so desides to ask me out. i want a guy to get to know me and care about me and not look at me like a piece of meat but i don't how to do that. what do i need to look for?how do i know what a guy is like? plz someone help me out try asking guys out for a change. go for the type of guy you want.