text: i have a boyfriend but i think i have a crush on one of his best friends. what to do? i've been going out with my boyfriend for a year(nov. 20) but just resently i got the biggest crush on my boyfriends best friend. i know i can trust him and he will listen to my problems because i go out with his best friend. i like both of them but i can't choose and i'm not sure that my boyfriends friend will go out with me if i break up with my boyfriend. that's horrible. you obviously don't care too much about your bf. if you're having any doubts about the two of you after a year, you need to end things. and don't go after the friend. that's a rule i do believe.