text: if your mate is addicted to internet porn? and it is affecting your intimate relationship, including deception and lack of physical contact, what would you do? define "addicted".  are they looking at it every day for hours on end, or is it more of a preference (i.e., they're choosing the porn over you)?    if they're looking at it for hours every day, then he/she has a serious problem and should probably seek therapy.  if they refuse, say goodbye and don't look back.  however, if it's the latter, then this is a problem you could potentially work out on your own.  rather than condemning your significant other for looking at porn, why not try to get involved?  how about initiating a fun night of porn surfing together?  odds are they'd much prefer have someone else pleasure them than pleasure themselves.