text: is it okay? i've recently been thinking about using a certain person for just sex?  is that alright as long as they know thats all i want from them? i find myself in an ideal position to answer this question.  recently me and my girlfriend had split up. we had been having sex while dating and now since we've broken up, we've decided that as long as we're single, we should enjoy the occasional sex (which is becoming more and more frequent). most people will tell yo that to have sex you must be committed and it should be for love blah blah blah...  i say this, if you both enjoy it and you both understand the rules, why not?