text: why is it that married men stiil look for other woman? is there something lacking in their wives that they were able to find on the other woman? is it true that men love their mistress more than their wife? one thing more, whom do you most enjoy to be with? an honest question for all you guys out there!!! validation is a big part of it - they want to think that they are attractive, especially to younger women. usually in marriage, sex declines in frequency and intensity over the years, especially when there are children to take care of. men may look elsewhere to re-experience the excitement and passion that they had earlier in their relationship.