text: how should i make my husband's cousin go out of my house as he got a new job in our city? we have been helping him n letting him stay over a month as he dint get his salary yet. but now its more than a month and he told us he's planning to stay atleast one more month, now that has become very uncomfortable for us, no privacy , is there any way that we should'nt even hurt him by telling him directly and he should leave happily and take another apartment for himself don't tell him to move out. just start helping him look for a new place. also don't worry to much about hurting his feelings.  if he is getting a pay check and he is still there. he knows he is spunging off of you, and is trying to see how long he can get away with it.