text: should i accept this guy's love or not? please help.? i know this guy for about 3 months now. we have gonne out 6-7 times but just like friends. this last time he told me that he doesn't see me just like a friend, but that he feels something for me and that he wants me to be his girlfriend. i don't know what to do because there are some problems: 1.we work in the same place and i don't like this. 2. he is 1 year younger than me. 3 and the 3rd i think he is too young (23 years old) to want smth serious, whereas i want smth serious. i like him very much, but i'm not sure about this. please help. what should i do???????????? strange question. but simple answer. you know about him only 3 months. please take some more time to know about him personally. you were working with him. this is a good chance to know about him more. just have a look around him, like how he interacts with other workers? if you feel good, go along with him.  => working in same place. you raise this question directly to him. let him to say his opinion. if you like his reason then, he goes well. you can understand his thinking/knowledge when you raise it to him.  => younger it is just one year. so, never mind. basically, girls will have a less period time(sexual periods). but guys will have long period. to compensate that,  a guy have to marry elder girl to him. its not at all followed today. since, most of them are not interested in sex after one or two decade. after that they are fully interested to think in real love. so, don't worry about the age. (and your case you are 100% eligible) ==>too young. this is another good point. you are having years. this time you could know him fully. you could understand his real love by his patience. if he fails, you could ignore him easily. you just ask him to achieve more.  ==> you love him: good. congrats for you both. have a better thinking before moving further.