text: what should i do.......? i have a crush at high school. i've loved him for quite some time now but i really never had the chance to really talk to him, or know him more in that matter. he's not to say good looking, just your average teen. i'm really attracted to his gentle personality....i don't know how to approach him, so i just look at him form afar, and my love for him gets deeper and deeper. but one day, i found out this heart breaking news; he has a crush on a popular girl, my arch-enemy. everytime i think of this, i feel like crying...i feel so depressed....in a way i feel happy to see him that happy, but another side of me feels as if its being torn into million pieces. what should i do? i asked my 15 year old son about this so i could give you expert advice!  he is a very smart kid-honor roll-football- as well as trak.  the guys like him that are smart-funny- and average looking-cute but not super hot always seem to have a crush on that popular skank that all the other girls hate with a passion!  he says its a guy thing.  he says you should find activites that he likes- ask his friends-or yours- and find ways to be at the same activities he is at.  if he skates- show up at the skating rink- if he likes video games-learn his favorite game and ask his advice on it.  make his likes your likes.  dont jump him and scream i love you!  my son says he will run like crazy!  lol  let a friendship with him start and then he may begin to look at you in a different light!  good luck!