text: need help! :s ladies please.. give your opinion.? hi there =) ! so my situation is i met a girl in a party from university (2 months ago) and we start to talk like friends. i've asked her to go out for a coffee but only a month after i invited her she finnaly have time to go on a date (in my opinion she was testing me and testing if she was really atracted for me). the date was good, we talk and laugh for like 4 hours without stop. i know she is atracted to me but it seems to me that she is a little shy when she see me in the university. she's like the kind of girl who knows a loooot of ppl because she's really sweet with everybody, but not the kind of girl that go out with much guys, and with me she's shy. so my problem is how to get the girl :) i really like her like no other girl i've ever have fallen in love. today i was talking with some other girls and when she arrived i was testing her and it seems to me that she was jealous. is that a good sign? we have saturday an exam. should i ask her to study together? thanks :) well trying to make her jelous and acting like you are interested in a bunch of other girls is immature and mean.  if you truly love her, you won't do things like that.  just keep going slow.  at least she has morals and isn't trying to sleep with you and marry you on  the first date.  just keep talking to her, getting to know her, make her feel comfortable.  ask her to study and have a nice picnic or nice dinner while you study.  be romantic and take your time.  if you love her she is worth it.  but quit acting immature and palying games.