text: tell me this guys? i know my bf loves me a lot but isnt so expressive, but i am and he tells me that i shd do all the talking cuz thats the way he likes me better! but i wud like him to talk too, which he does but not always. while i wud certainly like him to tell me wat he feels abt this thing or the other, have talked to him about this, but he always replies that he just cant get expressive. his way of loving is subtle and mysterious, anyway, its good , but it also causes some misunderstanding, he cares  a lot, i know that but at times i feel since i talk more and he does it less, i feel i am like imposing myself on him. i feel, my god, is he actually liking wat i am saying or not? he never says he likes or doesnt. wat shd i do cuz wenever i feel this "imposing " thing, i hate myself and we fight over this thing then and things get bad. he is busy with studies and work and we as it is dont have time with each other, and wen he doesnt express himself properly, i get unsatisfied and angry, wat shd i do? just keep on talking. he isn't the only one who is queit. he is likely just enjoying hearing you talk. it sounds like he is really trying to show his love but he is having trouble putting it into your terms. if he is paying attention and especially looking you in your eyes, let it be.