text: how should i go about letting other know that i am bisexual? the only other one that knows is my spouse if your spouse is open to 'letting you play' with others of the same sex.. then i guess that would be a personal decision.  i would make sure if you are female that he doesn't have the hidden agenda of 'hoping for a 3some'.. since that is 'man's #1 fantasy'.  if he does and you do too, then it's fine for whatever you two decide as long as it's honest and open.  as for telling someone else.. i would ask them.. if they have ever had a bi experience.  their answer would pretty much tell me, if it was 'safe' to tell them.  for example if they went no, i haven't had one of those, but i have a lot of friends who have.  or no, that's wrong.. (i don't agree but it's an example of when i wouldn't share that)  or yeah, bi is cool, i have done it and with the right person it's great!  any positive answer would open the door for you to say that you are.  :)  i wish you the best with that :)