text: love on the net? i'm married but i'm having a romance with a chinese woman (married too) on the net. we never have met in person and we'll probably never do it. i'd like to read your comments about it. are you living a similar situation? thanks in advance. here's the thing emotional infidelity is just as bad as sexual infidelity.....you did say you are married right? what will your wife feel if she accidentally walks in and finds you exchanging emails with someone who you're having an affair with.....trust is something that is so easy to break but so hard to earn.