text: why do non-muslims say we muslims man treat their wife badly?you witness this personally?muslim neighboor?pal? i do not understand why non-muslims say we muslims treat our wife badly. personally i got married 4 years ago. i treat my wife like a queen. i bring her flowers every week. we go out with our children to the park to play. i help her at home with taking out the trash, buying the groceries, cleaning. i even go with her when she has to do shopping. last night she was sick and i stayed at home to take care of her. i guess we muslim man do not speak enough about these things so non-muslims assume we treat our wife badly. no i do not have 4 wives. i think a man with more than one must have a lot of patience  and be really fair.  and i think that is very hard to (i know this will be raised) that is why i answering in advance. my wife and i love each other very much and our children and we raise them just like any normal family would. so i still do not get why do non-muslims say we muslims man treat their wife badly?you witness this personally?are you neighboors or friends with a muslim? salamaleikum:  finally!!!!!!!!!!! a muslim man spoke up! mashallah about time!!!!!!!!  thank you! i get the same treatment from my husband!!!! my husband is the best husband in the world!  thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you!!!!   the rights of muslim women are clearly stated in the quran: they can vote, be president even, i myself own a business... so all that other *******  people are writing is just made up and false!!!!!!!!    thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you,thank you!!!!  (see no one spoke up about having a friend or a pal, because they really do not know... how good we muslimahs are treated)    elhamdulillah!!!!!!!!!!!!!