text: what are the steps to owning a home and how do u know if your being cheated? my friends and i have been renting for like 3 years and paying rent we want to take the next step to owning a house since weve done really well with renting and want to pay to own now. does anyone know who i need like real estate appraiser or mortgage broker im completle clueless and dont wwant to get eaten alive by the voltures that is why you should get a realator.  it might feel like you are paying a lot up front, but in the long run, you will save money.  to find out what you can afford take your rent and compare it to what you would pay for mortgage + taxes + repairs.  now you have to look at the growth rate in your area and figure out how many years you are going to live there.  if you live there 10 years and the cost of your home doubles- then you made a lot of money, if the price is stagnant, then you lost money by paying taxes, paying for repairs and paying more $ than you would have rent.  the good news is you didn't have to ask anyone if your could paint the kitchen pink.