text: i really like this girl.....but she is always busy and just flies away after the concert practice.what to do??   write the words in your question verbatim on a very smart piece of card and pop it in a gold envelope and leave it in her bag, so she opens it on the tube on the way home, or while she's waitin for the bus. women live for attraction dynamics like this - it's far better than openly admitting anything to her - that should come on the first date during dessert and coffee. trust me, girls love a flutter of intrigue or mystery in these matters. for an extra twist, spray the card with your cologne! and initial it at the bottom. good luck t'ya!