I’ve met a lot of men, drink, smoke, vape. I tak suruh diorang stop. I just suggest if you can stop, stop. But if taknak, I can always walk away or if sayang, I compromise. But if dah tahu dia memang macam tu dari awal, you have the choice to say no to the relationship kan?You’re given choices in life. Stressing over things you can’t control is your choice too.