flower very nice but birdcage veil difficult to handle [SEP] i purchased this for my upcoming wedding the flower called a fascinator in the bridal industry i am learning is very nice and i will definitely wear it i may cut the wires with the bling off but that is just me i am having a simple summer picnic wedding with a white cotton halter dress and the bling might be a bit too much i am going to ask my best friend before making this decision either way it is a nice piecethe birdcage veil though was not really how it is pictured in the photo it seems to have a lot more conformity to a human head than the actual piece that showed up in my mailbox the real thing starts out unruly and popped up in weird places on my head i tried calming the thing down with bobby pins but it still looked unshapely finally though after watching the companys videos they give you a piece of paper with a link to some instructional videos and keeping it near the shower for a few days to get it to calm down it did actually look good i have a large head with puffy hair and i found that if i put the comb towards the back of my head on the right and allow the veil to come up over top my head from the back right hanging down around my face that the veils large size is actually an asset because it covers my puffy hair without flattening iti was so worried about the veil that i ordered a separate handmade birdcage veil from etsy for see it at pompandplumagecom that i hoped would be more what i am looking for when it arrived though it was too small to wear without wearing my puffy hairstyle slicked back which is not how i plan to wear my hair i actually went back to the cheaper veil i bought here on amazonwhatever you end up doing with the veil portion the flower fascinator is nice enough and cheap enough that it is still worth the purchase the flower fascinators on the same site on etsy where i purchase the other birdcage veil pompandplumagecom are and look similar so even without the veil this was a good deal