i guess i just do not know how to use this unclear [SEP] i guess i just do not know how to use this i put some on my hair in the shower and it did nothing i used it with my shampoo and it felt like it dried my hair out even more so i purchased this product because of dry hair so i am confused about why it would make it drier perhaps if someone has suggestions for me on how i should be using it to make my hair feel softer please i am all ears