Not tight enough to be a choker [SEP] It's not tight enough to be a choker on me, and I'm not that small of a person. I'm 5'4, 120 lbs and it's particularly loose on my neck. Even when I clasp it to the tightest part of the chain. I have to pull it from the back in order to make it appear as tight as in the picture. If you're around that size, don't expect it to be a secure fit. Also (and this may have just been my fault), I didn't realize the metal circle was gold in color. I saw it as silver on my screen, but it's actually a gold circle and clasps.