I guess I just don't know how to use this ? unclear! [SEP] I guess I just don't know how to use this. I put some on my hair in the shower and It did nothing. I used it with my shampoo and it felt like it dried my hair out even more so. I purchased this product because of dry hair, so I am confused about why it would make it drier? perhaps if someone has suggestions for me on how I should be using it to make my hair feel softer please I am all ears!