Indlela yokuthola isoka noma intombi?
Ukuthola umngane kuyisihloko sokuphila. Abantu bathandana ngezindlela ezingafani. Abanye abantu baqala ubuhlobo nabangane ngemva kokwazi omunye nomunye iminyaka eminingi, kuyilapho abanye bethanda umuntu abebengamazi nhlobo izolo. Abanye abantu bathembela ngokuphelele enhlanhleni ukuze bahlangane nomuntu omusha, kuyilapho abanye besebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola ukuze bathole umuntu abangaba naye othandweni ngezinhloso ezicacile. Azikho izindlela eziqondile zokuqala ubuhlobo, kodwa ubuhlobo obungemuhle bungalimaza bobabili. Ngakho-ke, kufanele uthathe isinyathelo sakho futhi ungalokothi ugijimele ebuhlotsheni obusha. Amanye amacebiso okuthola umngane womshado: 1. Izinkomo Bamba iqhaza emicimbini eminingi ukuze uhlangane nabantu abasha. Ngokwesibonelo, amakilasi okuvivinya umzimba, amakilabhu okuzilibazisa, ukuvolontiya, namaphathi kungaba isiqalo esihle. 2. Izingelosi Cela abangane bakho ukuba bakuncome othile abamaziyo. Abangane bangaba umthombo onokwethenjelwa ngoba banesizinda nokuhlangenwe nakho okufana nokwakho. 3. Izindaba Ezinhle Yiba nomusa, uthembeke futhi ube usizo kubo bonke abantu ohlangana nabo. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuba wakhe idumela elihle phakathi kwabangane bakho ukuze abantu bakhangwe nguwe. 4. Izidakamizwa Yazi umuntu kahle ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwakha ubuhlobo nothile. Abanye abantu bangase bahluke kakhulu njengabangane uma beqhathaniswa nalabo abasebudlelwaneni. Kungcono ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi uthandana nothile, wazi ukuphila kwakhe ngaphambi kokwenza isinqumo.