Ungabona kanjani ukuthi othile ulandise ihlaya elihle?
Ungabona ukuthi umuntu usho ihlaya elihle uma limenza ahleke noma agigitheke ngemva kokuba ekhulumile. Ungase futhi ubone ukuthi ihlaya elihle lashiwo yini ngokusabela kwezilaleli kulo, ukuthi ziyahalalisela yini, noma ziyabhonga yini. Ukubhodla kuwuphawu lokuthi ihlaya belingelimnandi kangako, futhi ukushaya ihlombe kuwuphawu lokuthi ihlaya belimnandi. Ukungaphenduli lapho kunehlaya kusho ukuthi ihlaya aliqondwanga. Uma wena noma izilaleli ungawuqondi umongo wamahlaya qiniseka ukuthi ucela ukucaciselwa ukuze ukwazi ukuhlanganyela ekushayeni ihlombe noma ekubhuleni kuye ngokuthi uphendula kanjani.