Tshela abanye ukuthi kungani usekela oncishwayo noma othandwayo kwezemidlalo, nokuthi kungani kuwukuhlakanipha ukwenza kanjalo.
Sekela abahluphekile ngoba balwela ukudlula okulindelwe. Sekela ozithandayo ngoba baye bazuza ilungelo ngokusekelwe ekusebenzeni kwabo kwangaphambili. Ukusekela ongaphansi kwegunya kuyindlela engcono kakhulu ongayithatha. Ukukhuthaza iqembu/umuntu ngamunye ukuba adlule okulindelwe futhi abe umncintiswano ongcono yilokho sonke esizama ukuba yikho. Ukusekela ongaphansi kwenza umncintiswano ube ngcono. Ukusekela abahluphekile kukwenza ukwazi ukucindezela ukusebenza ngokweqile ngokusekela kwangempela. Ukusekela ongaphansi kukwenza ukwazi ukuba yingxenye yokugubha okusha kunokumane nje ukhethe elinye ibhokisi. Ngisekela ongaphansi ngoba kuyiphupho elikhulu ukulibona ligcwaliseka