Ngibasa kanjani umlilo?
Ukuphepha kufanele kuhlale kuza kuqala lapho uqala umlilo. Qiniseka ukuthi unamanzi noma enye indlela yokucisha umlilo etholakala kalula. Sebenzisa indandatho yomlilo wekamu, umgodi, noma ukhiphe indawo enkulu ezungeze indawo yomlilo wekamu. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi imililo ivumelekile endaweni ohlala kuyo.  Njengoba ukuphepha kungasekho, umlilo udinga ukushisa, uphethiloli, nomoya-mpilo kuphela. Noma iyiphi into evuthayo iyokhela umlilo, kodwa imithombo emihle kaphethiloli womlilo wekamu ihlanganisa inhlansi, umlilo, nezingodo ezomile.  Sebenzisa izinto ezinjengezinaliti zikaphayini ezomile, amaqabunga omisiwe, utshani, nezingcezu zokhuni ukuze uthole inhlansi. Ungase futhi usebenzise iphepha lephephandaba (noma elinye iphepha), i - lint yomshini wokomisa, noma ikhadibhodi. Ukuze ukhanyise, sebenzisa izingcezu ezincane zokhuni, njengamagatsha nezinduku ezingekho ngaphansi kwamasentimitha angu - 1 ububanzi (cishe ubukhulu bomunwe wakho). Izingodo ezomile noma ezivuthwe kahle ziyoqinisekisa ukushiswa okuhle. Beka izinkuni ngendlela eqinisekisa ukuthi umoya-mpilo ufinyelela kalula emlilweni wakho. Abaningi bakhetha ukwakheka kwezindlu ezakhiwe nge-teepee noma ngamapulangwe. Manje, sebenzisa umthombo wokushisa ukuze udale ilangabi noma inhlansi bese usebenzisa lokhu ku-tinder yakho. Lapho isibani sesivutha, kufanele siqale ukuvutha, futhi ekugcineni kufanele siqale ukuvutha izingodo zakho. Uma konke kuhamba kahle, manje kufanele ujabulele umlilo wakho.