Nikeza uhlu lwezinto isigebengu esincane esingazenza lapho siphuma ejele ukuze sishintshe ukuphila kwaso
1. Izinkomo Hamba uyohlala nomkhaya wakini, yibo kuphela abakufisela okuhle 2. Izingelosi Ukuxhuma ngokuphelele nabangane bakho bakudala, ufuna bacabange ukuthi ufile 3. Izindaba Ezinhle Thola umsebenzi ngokushesha, indawo yokudlela izoba lula kakhulu njengoba bengenzi ukuhlolwa kwemvelaphi ngakho yebo, qamba amanga esicelweni kulokhu 4. Izidakamizwa Yiya esikoleni, uqale ekolishi elincane uhlele ukudluliselwa eyunivesithi, hhayi isikole esinenzuzo kodwa eyunivesithi eyaziwayo 5. Izingelosi Ungakhethi isiqu ngenxa yothando....khetha isiqu esizokukhipha emgodini ozimbele kuwo....noma yini ephathelene nebhizinisi efana nezimali noma ubuchwepheshe obuhlobene nesayensi yedatha kuyindawo enhle yokuqala Isiyisithupha. Ukufakwa ohlwini lwabahlonishwayo, ukwenza noma yini edingekayo, yebo, kudingeka ufunde izincwadi 7. Izingelosi Hlala phezu kwempilo yakho yengqondo nokululama, funa ukwelashwa uhambele imihlangano yenza lokho okumele ukwenze ukuze uhlale usendleleni efanele 8. Izingelosi Gwema zonke izidakamizwa notshwala ukuze uhlale ugxile...ikakhulukazi phakathi nesikhathi sakho sokulingwa seminyaka emihlanu futhi ikakhulukazi uma unokumiswa okuhlangene Isigaba 9. Sheshisa izifundo zakho, uthathe amayunithi angu-21 uma ukwazi ngenkathi ugcina ama-A<unk> aqondile (lokhu kungenzeka) Eyishumi. Yiba matasa ngangokunokwenzeka, isithukuthezi siholela enkingeni 11 - Izindaba Ezinhle Faka isicelo sokudluliselwa eyunivesithi yangakini, awukwazi ukushiya idolobha lakho kuze kube yilapho uphuma ngaphansi kokuhlolwa ngakho-ke kungcono uhlale endaweni Amashumi amabili nambili Lapho usungenile, sebenza kanzima nakakhulu, uhlale usohlwini lwabahlonishwayo futhi uzame ukungena kunoma yiziphi izinhlelo zokuhlonishwa ongazithola 13 - Bheka umbhalo waphansi. Khokha yonke imbuyiselo yakho nokubuyiselwa kwakho ngokugcwele 14. Yini eyenzeka? Isikhathi sokugwetshwa siqala lapho ugwetshwa ekuqaleni kwesikhathi sakho sokugwetshwa....ngakho uma ugwetshwa kahle ungaya enkantolo ukuze ukhanselwe ngesikhathi esifanayo lapho uzobe uthweswa iziqu, ngakho qaphela isikhathi Amashumi ayisihlanu. Uma ucabanga ukuthi uphelelwe yimali futhi awukwazi ukukhokhela u-$10 - $15 k wommeli wokususa icala....qala ukubheka i-California Penal Code 1203.4. 16 Izinyanga. Yehla uye enkantolo...uthathe amafomu uma ungawaphrinti kakade bese ubuza imibuzo 17 - UJohane 17. Hlanganisa yonke imininingwane yecala lakho bese ugcwalisa amafomu Iminyaka engu-18. Thola usuku lwenkantolo yakho 19 - Ingabe uyamthanda uNkulunkulu? Qoqa izincwadi zokutusa ezivela kunoma ubani obalulekile omaziyo, ibhokisi lezincwadi lebhizinisi lihle ukuba nalo kodwa akubona bonke abantu abazokhululeka ukuba inkampani yabo ikuqinisekisele. Yiya koprofesa, abaphathi, umndeni, "abangane" abahle, abeluleki njll. Lezi zingxoxo zingaba nzima, ikakhulukazi uma laba bantu bengawazi umlando wakho...kodwa kufanele wenze lokhu Amashumi amabili. Bhala incwadi eya kumajaji, emfushane kodwa enamandla, into engase ikhale izinyembezi 21 - Izindaba Ezinhle Ngosuku lokuqulwa kwecala lakho... gqoka kahle Ngineminyaka engu-22. Mema wonke umuntu ozokuxhasa ekulalelweni kwakho, uma usekela kakhulu ijaji lizokholwa ukuthi awuyena umuntu onenkinga futhi wawudukile ngesikhathi esithile Amashumi amabili nantathu. Yiba othobekile futhi ube nenhlonipho lapho ukhuluma. Bonisa umusa nokuzola. Amashumi amabili nane. Kukhona kuphela u-6% wezicelo zokususwa kwecala ezivunyelwayo ngakho uma ijaji likuvumela....bonga. Ungase ungakwazi ukuzibamba uwele phansi ngamadolo futhi ukhale Amashumi amabili nanhlanu. Uma ungayiqondi, lalela lokho okushiwo ijaji bese uzama futhi Iminyaka engu-26. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani yazi nje ukuthi ayikho into efana nenhlanhla, ungene kulenkinga ngokwenza izinqumo eziwubuwula, futhi okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma kuyo ukwenza izinqumo ezinhle ezihlakaniphile kakhulu. Amashumi amabili nesikhombisa. Uma usususwe... kuthatha cishe izinyanga ezintathu ukuba irekhodi lakho lisuswe kokubili eCalifornia nase-database kazwelonke ye-FBI, ngakho-ke linda. Iminyaka engu-28. Qala ukufaka izicelo zemisebenzi, gwema izikole noma noma yikuphi lapho kudingeka khona i-Livescan. Ungadlula kuzo zonke izivivinyo kodwa lezo....futhi uma ugcina usebenzela inkampani yezokuphepha okuyinto ongayenza ngokuphelele....ungalokothi uthathe indima edinga imvume eyimfihlo noma eyimfihlo kakhulu 29 - Izinsuku. Uma usufinyelele kule ndawo usanda kuqala, bese uthola iziqu ze-master, bese uqhubeka ukusuka lapho, uthole ezimbili noma ngisho ne-Doctorate, akunamkhawulo lapho uzoya khona Amashumi amathathu. Sebenza kanzima ngangokunokwenzeka usuku nosuku. Khumbula nje....kwathatha isikhathi eside ukuba wena uhlale lapho ukhona kunomuntu ohlala eduze kwakho. Lihloniphe, lazise futhi uhlale ukhumbula ukuthi uvelaphi, kodwa ungalokothi ubheke emuva