Kungani ukubonana ubuso nobuso kudala ukuxhumana okunomthelela kakhulu kunobudlelwano obusekelwe emihlanganweni ebonakalayo?
Nakuba ukuhlangana nomuntu ngezingosi ezinjenge-Zoom kuvumela abantu ukuba bahlangane futhi bakhe ubudlelwano bangempela, ukuhlangana mathupha kudala ubudlelwano obunomthelela futhi obuseduze. Umuntu uyakwazi ukwazi abanye ngemihlangano ebonakalayo, kodwa kunezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuxhumana ezingekho lapho abantu behlangana ngokoqobo.  Njengoba uSherlock Holmes ayengathi, ngokusebenzisa "amandla okucabanga" lapho abantu ababili bechitha isikhathi ndawonye ekamelweni, ungabuka futhi ufunde ukuziphatha komunye umuntu ngezindlela ezingeke zenzeke ngempela ngezobuchwepheshe obungokoqobo namuhla. Lapho umuntu echitha isikhathi ubuso nobuso nomunye, uba nokuqonda okujulile ngomuntu akanye naye. Lokhu kuqonda okunemininingwane eminingi ngontanga yakho, kukuvumela ukuba wakhe ubuhlobo obuqinile.