Ngiyintombazane eneminyaka engu-12 ubudala futhi ngifuna ukuba nomakhalekhukhwini wami siqu ngoba bonke abanye ekilasini lami banawo. Ngifuna nje ukuba yingxenye yaleli qembu futhi ngihlanganyele ezingxoxweni zabo. Umama akazange enqabe isicelo sami, kodwa wangibuza ukuthi ngingaxazulula kanjani ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngokuthi ngangingalimala. Yini okufanele ngiyenze ukuze ngimkholise ukuba anginike umakhalekhukhwini? Nazi izinto ezikhathazayo: 1. Izinkomo Ukusebenzisa umakhalekhukhwini ngokweqile kungalimaza amehlo akho. Ikakhulukazi intsha, enamehlo asakhulayo, kulula kakhulu ukuba nombono oseduze ngokushesha. 2. Izingelosi Ukusebenzisa umakhalekhukhwini ngokweqile kungadla isikhathi sakho esiningi, futhi ungachitha isikhathi esincane ufunda izincwadi, wenza izivivinyo, udlala ngaphandle, ukhuluma nabantu, okulimaza ukuthuthuka kwakho konke. Abantu abadala abanjengami base befunde izincwadi eziningi, benza izivivinyo eziningi, futhi bakhuluma nabantu abaningi lapho ngisemusha, ngakho ngase ngiwatholile kakade lawo makhono. 3. Izindaba Ezinhle Ukusebenzisa umakhalekhukhwini ngokweqile kungakwenza uzizwe unenkinga yokugxila entweni eyodwa. Ulwazi oluhlakazekile lwaluyokushukumisa ukunaka kwakho, futhi lukwenze uzizwe ujabule ngokuqukethwe okucashile, futhi ungacabangi ngokujulile. 4. Izidakamizwa Kungenzeka ukuthi ngephutha ulahlekelwe umakhalekhukhwini wakho, futhi uyozizwa udabukile ngakho. Ngokuvamile intsha ithambekele kakhulu ekulahlekelweni izinto kunabantu abadala ngokuvamile.
Sawubona mama, ngicabanga ukuthi ngiyakwazi ukubhekana kahle nezinkinga ozikhulumile. Ngizozibamba futhi ngeke ngisebenzise umakhalekhukhwini kakhulu, futhi ngiyathembisa ukuthi ngeke ngilahlekelwe umakhalekhukhwini. Ngicela unike umakhalekhukhwini, ngiyabonga mama!