Chazela indodana yakho eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala ukuthi kungani kulungile ukwehluleka izikhathi ezimbalwa ukuze ube ngcono kamuva
ndodana ethandekayo, lapho uzalwa wawusemncane kakhulu, wawungakwazi ukudla noma ukuhlala. Kodwa umama wayelokhu ezama ukukondla futhi kancane kancane wafunda ukudla, futhi manje uyabona ukuthi udla ukudla wedwa ngokushesha okukhulu. Kunezinto eziningi kakhulu ozifundile njengokukhuluma, ukufunda, ukubhala, konke kwavela ngokuzijwayeza. Uyakhumbula ngesikhathi uqala ukugibela ibhayisikili ungakwazi ukulinganisela futhi waqhubeka uwela? Kodwa ubaba wakutshela ukuba uqhubeke uzama ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi waqhubeka uziqeqesha njalo ngoMgqibelo futhi manje usukwazi ukugibela ibhayisikili nokulinganisela kahle. Khumbula njalo lokhu, njalo lapho wenza into entsha, kuyoba nzima ekuqaleni, kungase kungasebenzi, kodwa akufanele ulahlekelwe ithemba futhi ube lusizi futhi uyeke. Akufanele ucabange ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza lokhu. Khumbula ukuthi uma uqhubeka uzama, uyokuthola. Ngakho-ke uma uphinde uthola okuthile okunzima, hlala uzolile, qhubeka uzama futhi uyokufeza.