Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ngingavumelani nomngane, engisebenza naye noma ilungu lomkhaya ngento engiyithanda kakhulu, njengezombusazwe?
Kungaba nzima ukubona izinto ngendlela ehlukile kweyomuntu ovame ukuxhumana naye noma omkhathalelayo. Kungase futhi kube yinto enhle. Umuntu ngamunye kule planethi uhlukile futhi izinkolelo zakhe zisekelwe emasikweni akhe, ekukhuleni, kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe siqu, imfundo, indawo akuyo, njll. Ukuqaphela lokhu nokulalela ngempela umbono womunye umuntu kubalulekile. Ezimweni eziningi, lapho ukungaboni ngaso linye kukhula, kungenxa yokuthi oyedwa noma bobabili abahilelekile abamlalelanga noma abamhloniphanga omunye. Uma unengqondo encane, khona-ke ungase ulahlekelwe ukufunda okuthile okusha. Uma bobabili bengahambisani futhi kungeyona into ephambene ngokuphelele nezinkolelo zakho, isiko, noma izimiso zokuziphatha, lokho kulungile. Vumelana nokungavumelani bese uqhubeka. Ukuphila kufushane kakhulu ukuba uthukuthelele abantu obakhathalelayo ngoba nje ningaboni ngaso linye.