Kungani kufanele uphume endaweni onethezekile kuyo?
Ukungakhululeki kuba lula uma uqaphela ukuthi yilokho ngempela okuhloswe ngakho. Kufana nokuzivocavoca. Uma uzivocavoca bese kuba lula kuwe, usuthole konke ongakwenza kulokho kuvivinya umzimba. Umzimba wakho uye walungiswa futhi unamandla ngokwanele okubhekana nakho manje. Awusathuthuka. Yingakho ukhuphula izinga lokuzivivinya ngokuzikhandla, lapho ungakhululeki khona futhi ungakabi namandla anele. Ngoba ekugcineni uyoba namandla anele. Kodwa uma kungeyona inselele, akukho okuzuzayo futhi yilokho kanye okwenzeka ezimweni ezingaphandle kwendawo yakho yokunethezeka. Lapho uzifaka kakhulu kuzo, kuba lula nakakhulu kodwa leso sigaba esiphakathi lapho ulwela khona sisasebenza ngokuphelele, kulungile futhi kungokwemvelo. Yilokho okufanele kwenzeke futhi yilokho okuzokuguqula njengomuntu. Futhi kufanele uqhubeke nokwenza kanjalo