Ngingayithoba kanjani intukuthelo yengane esencane?
Izingane ezincane zinamathemba amakhulu nemizwa emikhulu kakhulu futhi azikabi nekhono lokuhlonza nokulawula imizwelo nezimpendulo zazo; kuwumsebenzi wabazali ukusiza izingane zabo ezincane ukuba zifunde ukubhekana nokuzivumelanisa nezimo. Akuzona zonke izingane ezifanayo, ngakho ayikho "ikhambi eliwumlingo" lokwehlisa intukuthelo yengane, kodwa kunezinto ezimbalwa ezingasiza lapho ingane yakho iquleka:  1. Izinkomo Khumbula ukuthi imizwa yabo ingokoqobo futhi abazami ukukusebenzisa. Izingane ezincane azinalo ikhono lokulawula 2. Izingelosi Qiniseka ukuthi le ndawo iphephile enganeni, nakunoma yiziphi ezinye izingane eziseduze. 3. Izindaba Ezinhle Ungaphakamisi izwi lakho ukuze uvumelane nolaka lwabo! Sebenzisa ithoni ezolile, engashintshashintshi nengane. Nakuba lokhu kungase kube nzima kakhulu lapho nawe ukhungathekile, ukwehlisa umsindo kuyosiza ingane ukuba nayo yehlise eyabo. 3. Izindaba Ezinhle Vumela ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo kuphele. 4. Izidakamizwa Nikeza ingane yakho ecasukile izingalo eziningi, lapho isilungele 5. Izingelosi Lapho ingane yakho seyehlise umoya, xoxa ngalokho okwenzekile! Yisho imizwa yabo (ukudabuka, intukuthelo, ukukhungatheka) ukuze usize ingane yakho ibone ukuthi imizwa iyini lapho iphinda ivela, futhi uxoxe nayo ngalokho okufanele ikwenze esikhundleni sokuphazamiseka (thatha ikhefu, utshele umuntu omdala / umzali, uphefumule ngokujulile, njll.)