Kungani abafana bakamama bengabangane ababi kakhulu?
Amadodana kamama akhula abe abangane ababi ngoba awakhuli abe abantu abadala abasebenza ngokugcwele. Bakhuliswa becabanga ukuthi bangaphakathi nendawo yonke. Omama babo babebenza bakholelwe ukuthi abakwazi ukwenza okubi. Abazange bafunde ukucabangela imizwa yabanye abantu. Bafunda ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, umama uyohlale ekhona ukuze ahlanze imfucumfucu yabo - ngokoqobo nangokomfanekiso. Omama babo babewasha izingubo zabo baze bafika eminyakeni engamashumi amabili. Abazi ukuthi bangayenza kanjani imisebenzi eyisisekelo yasendlini njengokubilisa iqanda, ukupheka irayisi noma ukuqoqa udoti. Isibonakaliso esiphawulekayo somfana ongumama: ufika ekhaya ethenge into entsha, ayivule, ashiye wonke amaphakethe epulasitiki egcwele etafuleni lasekhishini. Akumhluphi lokho. Akayiboni nhlobo imfucumfucu ayishiyayo. Amadodana kamama awazi ukuthi angakhokha kanjani izikweletu zawo, aphathe ama-akhawunti awo, athenge ukudla nezinye izinto eziningi. Kodwa lezi zenzo ziwuphawu lokuntuleka okujule kakhulu: ubuhlakani babo obungokomzwelo empeleni abukho. Ngokuvamile, kuthatha amashumi eminyaka ukuqeqesha umfana ongumama ukuba abe umuntu omdala osebenza ngokugcwele ongase abe umngane womshado owamukelekayo. Kungenzeka kuphela uma ezimisele ukuvuma amaphutha akhe futhi azame nsuku zonke ukuba umuntu ongcono.