Kungani abantu abaningi kangaka bethi ukuba ugogo nomkhulu kuyinto ekhethekile?
Abantu abaningi bathi ukuba ugogo nomkhulu kuyinto ekhethekile. Bathi ukuba ugogo nomkhulu kuyinto ekhethekile ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Esinye isizathu esithandwa kakhulu ukuthi bazizwa beziqhenya kakhulu ngokubona izingane zabo zikhula ziba abantu abadala futhi zithatha umthwalo wemfanelo wokuba nabantwana. Isizathu sesibili esenza ogogo nomkhulu bathi indima yabo ikhetheke kakhulu ukuthi bajabulela ukuba nabazukulu babo, bese bebabuyisela kubazali babo abanomthwalo oqhubekayo wokukhulisa izingane. Lokhu kwakha isibopho esikhethekile phakathi kogogo nomkhulu nabazukulu abaningi abasichaza ngokuthi sikhethekile. Isizathu sesithathu abaningi abathi sikhethekile ngokuba ugogo nomkhulu sihlobene nothando olungokwemvelo abalushoyo abanalo ngabazukulu babo. Ungase uzwe bethi, "Ngiye ngabathanda laba abazukulu kusukela ngomzuzu engazwa ngawo ukuthi bakhulelwe, futhi uthando aluhlangene nalutho nanoma ikuphi ukufaneleka, uthando nje ngoba bangabazukulu bami". Ukuba nalolu thando ngomunye umuntu kuyisici esiyinhloko esenza ukuba ugogo nomkhulu kukhetheke.