Ingabe kuncomeka ukugqoka izingubo zokugqoka ukuze umuntu aye emdlalweni weshashalazi?
Cha, lokhu ngokuvamile akunconywa. Kuvame ukubhekwa "njengokweqisa" noma uphawu lomdlali ongenalwazi ukuza ocingweni egqoke isembatho esigcwele. Kunconywa ukuthi umlingisi agqoke ukuze azethembe, futhi athole induduzo nokunyakaza (ikakhulukazi uma kuzoba nesicelo sokudansa), Kodwa-ke, kuhlale kuyiseluleko esihle ukugcina ukubukeka, isitayela nobuntu bomlingiswa onentshisekelo enkulu lapho ukhetha ukuthi uzoziveza kanjani ekuhlolweni.