Ngingawuhlela futhi ngiwuqhube kanjani umhlangano ophumelelayo?
Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuthi unemigomo ecacile ofuna ukuyifinyelela, futhi ungayisho ngokucacile. Nquma ukuthi ubani odingekayo ukuze umhlangano uphumelele, nendima edlalwa yilowo nalowo obambe iqhaza. Cabanga ngokuthumela ukwaziswa okungase kufundwe kusengaphambili ukuze ulungiselele umhlangano, ukuze ungasebenzisi isikhathi esiningi kakhulu phakathi nomhlangano ukuze ulethe abantu ngokushesha. Phakathi nomhlangano, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ingxoxo iqhubeke, futhi ungesabi ukubeka izingxoxo eceleni kuze kube kamuva. Qaphela isikhathi futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ushiya imizuzu embalwa ekugcineni ukuze ufingqe izinto okumele uzenze futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ngayinye inomnikazi ocacile nosuku okumele ifike ngalo. Okokugcina, thatha amanothi amahle ongawahlanganyela nethimba futhi ukhumbuze wonke umuntu ngengxoxo.