Kusho ukuthini ukuba umlutha wamakhasimende noma ukufinyelela umlutha wamakhasimende?
Ukuthambekela kwamakhasimende kuyisimo sengqondo. Ukuze umuntu abe nesimo sengqondo sokuthanda kakhulu ikhasimende, kumelwe acabangele ikhasimende elilithanda kakhulu kuzo zonke izinto. Ngokwesibonelo, lapho esitolo sokudla ubona isikhangiso somuntu oncintisana nekhasimende lakho, isimo sengqondo sokugxila kumakhasimende ngokwemvelo siyocabanga ngezindlela ikhasimende elingase lisebenzise, lidlule esikhangisweni esibukwe. Lapho uyolala, ikhasimende nezidingo zalo kuyizinto zokugcina eziphuma engqondweni yakho njengoba ulala. Lapho uvuka, ikhasimende kufanele kube umcabango wokuqala ovela ngokwemvelo njengoba uqala ukucabangela imisebenzi yakho. Lapho udla ukudla kwasemini, kufanele ucabange ukuthi ikhasimende lakho lidlani.  Lapho ikhasimende lakho lisengqondweni yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, usuke usuqalile ukuhamba endleleni yokuba umlutha wamakhasimende. Uma usuqalile ukuphupha ngamakhasimende akho, khona-ke uyobe usuthole ukugxila kwangempela kumakhasimende.