Kufanele ngilungiselele kanjani i-ajenda yomhlangano wobuholi ozayo engizowusingatha?
Ukuze unqume ukuthi i-ajenda enhle izobukeka kanjani, kubalulekile ukuba uqale unqume ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyifeza phakathi nomhlangano wakho wobuholi. Imigomo ejwayelekile yomhlangano wabaholi iwukubuyekeza ukusebenza kweqembu esikhathini esedlule, ukuqondanisa izinto eziza kuqala kanye nezinhloso ozozigxila onyakeni ozayo, ukubhekana nezinkinga ongasebenza kuzo kangcono ngenkathi nonke nisegumbini elilodwa, nokwakha ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu nobungcweti ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo zokusebenzisana kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuvamile.  Okulandelayo, kufanele unqume ukuthi iyiphi kule migomo ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Ukube ubungakwazi ukufeza eyodwa kuphela yazo, iyiphi obungayenza? Qhubeka ukhomba umgomo olandelayo obaluleke kakhulu kuze kube yilapho usuzibekele ngokuphelele izinto eziza kuqala ohlwini lwakho lwemigomo.  Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukunquma ukuthi singakanani isikhathi okumelwe usisebenzisele isifundo ngasinye ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uyifinyelela ngokugcwele imigomo yakho.  Ekugcineni, nquma ukuthi zingaki izikhathi zokuphumula okudingeka uzenze ngesikhathi somhlangano wakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi amalungu eqembu awacindezeleki kakhulu ngokwengqondo. Enye indlela engcono kakhulu iwukuthatha ikhefu lemizuzu engu-15 kuya kwengu-30 njalo ngemva kwemizuzu engu-90, bese uthatha ikhefu lehora elilodwa njalo ngemva kwamahora amane.  Lapho usuyibonile yonke le mibandela, ungakha uhlelo lwakho lomhlangano wobuholi.