Kwenzekani lapho uzindla?
Ubuciko bokuzindla bunomphumela omuhle ohlala isikhathi eside ekuziphatheni nasekucabangeni komuntu. Ingqondo ifaniswa nenkawu egxumayo engahlali ithule. Ukuphazamiseka okubangelwa yilokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni zempilo futhi ngezinye izikhathi ekuziphatheni okungalawuleki. Ngokuvamile, ukuzindla kuwukuzola ingqondo futhi ube umbukeli noma umqaphi wemibono ephakama ekwazini kwakho.  Manje, ake sikunikeze imininingwane eyengeziwe...  Kuqala ngokuqonda 'umuntu' okungalingana nengqondo ngokwemibandela engacacile. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwenzeka kuwe lapho uphapheme futhi ingqondo iqala ukufaka izinto amalebula. Okuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle kugxilile kakhulu kunokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle. Konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kancane kancane kuchaza indlela osabela ngayo ezimweni ezakha ubuntu bakho. Ingabe uyazi ukuthi kunombukeli ngaphakathi kwengqondo yakho ofana nobuntu obuphindwe kabili? uyisihloko - into. Umbukeli ongaphakathi kuwe ungumqaphi wezinto futhi ngokuvamile akanandaba.  Umqondo wokuzindla uwukuba uhlale ungumbukeli isikhathi eside futhi uvumele imicabango embalwa kakhulu ukuba ivele esimweni sakho sokuqaphela. Ekupheleni kushiya unomuzwa wokufeza okuthile ngoba njengombukeli ulindile futhi lokhu kuzama ngamabomu kwenza umcabango (obizwa ngokuthi udeveli) unyamalale.