Ilungu elineminyaka engu-30 ubudala esikhungweni senu sokuzivocavoca liye laqeqeshwa ngesisindo izinyanga ezine futhi lithi liye lazuza kakhulu emandleni. Kabili ngesonto, wenza isethi eyodwa yokuphindaphinda okungu-12 kuya ku-15 esebenzisa imishini yokulinganisa engu-8. Emasontweni ayisithupha adlule, uye waqaphela ukuthi akazuzi amandla ayejwayele ukuwathola. Ungayishintsha kanjani indlela yakhe yokuziqeqesha ukuze akhulise amandla akhe emisipha?
Okokuqala, ubelokhu enza umsebenzi ofanayo ezinyangeni ezingu-4 ezedlule, okusho ukuthi umzimba wakhe kungenzeka uye wavumelana namaqoqo athile, ububanzi bokuphindaphinda, nezinhlobo zokuzivocavoca akwenzayo, okuholela ekwandeni kwamandla okuncane. Ngingamncoma ukuba ashintshe isimiso sakhe! Angase acabangele ukwenza amasethi amaningi ngomsebenzi ngamunye, isb. amasethi amathathu aphindwe izikhathi ezimbalwa, isb. izikhathi ezingu-8. Angase futhi acabangele ukushintsha imishini yesisindo ibe yizisindo zamahhala, ezingasiza ekuqondiseni imisipha eminingi namaqembu emisipha amakhulu. Angase futhi andise inani lezinsuku aziqeqesha ngazo ngesonto, lisuke kokubili liye kwamathathu. Kungase futhi kube kuhle ukuba akhumbule ukufudumala kahle, ukupholisa, ukwelula, nokuhlelela ukuvivinya kwakhe umzimba ngendlela efanele (kusuka emaqenjini emisipha emikhulu kuya emincane).