<s>[INST] hi i had sex with a sex ,well i put a condom on but cudnt get an errection after i put it in her vagina so i took the condom n masterbated can i get hiv from that? i have had flu like sypmtons and a sore throat and white dots on my toungue and throat please help its been 3 weeks since this happened [/INST] Hello As you mentioned that there was not penetration , so no chance of any HIV infection. As  far as concerned about sore throat , white coating on tongue , flu like symptoms may be due to viral infection or allergy ( cold ) . So take some tyleno, 10 mg /kg body weight whenever require . In my opinion  no need of any tension about HIV .It will take some 7-10 days for complete recovery .Hope this will help you. </s>