<s>[INST] I am archana. i am 28. i am working as an assistant professor in india. I have a relationship with a married man for more than 8 years. He is taking control of my all activities and finance but i am not even given a right to question him on any of his activities. he neither marries me nor leave me. My family is unaware of all this. Some time i feel like quitting the relationship but he dont want to break it. All this years i anyhow balanced it to survive, but its depressing me - he start to torture me i dont know what to do? [/INST] HiI understand your concern.It is adjustment issue rather then depression.stress  arises from relationship.1st to be very frank that you are deeply involve in this in spite of you know that he is married and further legal relationship is very difficult.you have to do mutual communication and leave him as early as possible because there is no future of this relationship.It will affect your future and your life.From today you will start discussing with him and if require then take help of your friends.Only you have to do this.There is no medicines help to break this medicines only help to reduce your stress.This kind of stress can be treated with anxiolytic like etizolam.So take help of common friends and family members and come out from this.Start your new life and concentrate over carrier and life.If needed then go for relationship counseling to psychiatrist.Best luck for it.Still have a query then feel free to ask.Thank you.Happy to help you. </s>