I was most taken aback to learn that someone was not who I thought they were. It was more a statement on how I chose to see them, rather anything that was their fault. A good lesson.
I was disappointed when I realized someone close to me was not who I thought they were.
user
Did that person betrayed you in any way?
assistant
Well, in a sense. But to be fair, I may have had my own "vision" of who they were and held them to that standard -- not really seeing them for who they were. I have to accept some responsibility for that, you know?
user
Don't be so hard on yourself for being a frien and trust another people.
assistant
I've definitely worked through that! Happily, it hasn't affected my ability to trust -- just inspired me to be more truthful with myself and others ;-)
user