anger: no confidence to speak to girls until age 22
I had no confidence and didn't have a girlfriend until age 22. I carried a lot of hatred towards girls because of this
user
Oh man. Hopefully things are different now and you have the confidence that you need!
assistant
Oh yes. It all changed when I directed what was inside towards the gym
user
Nothing like taking it out on the weights and gaining the muscles in return! 
assistant