Current partner cheated on me in the past and I think he is doing it again.
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Hello there, can I help you with any today? *anything I am happy to talk to you about any problem that you might be having?
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I am having such a difficult time today!!!
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Can you tell me what is going on? I should be able to help you
assistant
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I think that my boyfriend is cheating on me again!!!
user
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Are you saying that he has cheated on you before? That does not sound very promising.
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
He has but it was a long time ago and was before we had a talk about exclusivity in our relationship but it still hurt.
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Have you considered getting some sort of couples counselling? Or do you just think that he is never going to change?
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We tried counselling once.. It was online and we got paid to do it.. I don't think he took it seriously at the time. He always said he felt like he was being attacked.
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I am sorry to hear that. So you feel that he is not really taking your problems as a couple seriously?
assistant
Reflection of feelings
Yes. I feel he thinks of me as some sort of trophy and he does not have to work now that he won me over in the first place.
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I have been in toxic relationships before and to be honest it does sound a little as though this is one of those situations.
assistant
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I have been as well but this time was supposed to be different. At first everything was great but now things are so distant I just don't know what to do next.
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Do you feel that perhaps it might be time to move on? People who will cheat twice are pretty unlikely to ever change their ways.
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That is true. But now we have a kid together and I feel like it would break her heart to lose her dad
user
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Ah you did not mention that! Maybe for the sake of your child it might be worth going to counselling again then.
assistant
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Maybe but a place that we won't get paid to go... I think he thought of it as a job or something. I got a lot out of the experience and still use the skills to this day. But with a unresponsive partner those skills will not work. Can you recomend a good site to find affordable services?
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You could ask your doctor to recommend something that will not cost you too much but will be effective?
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That is a great idea I had not thought of asking my dr.
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They should be able to provide you with a list of reputable services local to you . I hope that I have managed to be of some use to you today!
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absolutely best advice I have gotten in a while. It was nice talking to you.
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