I have been struggling since I lost my job. I have been on the lookout for a new job, tried doing menial jobs just to get by, but nothing seems to be available.
I liked that there is a notification sound after every message from my partner.
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I think it is fine as is
Hello how are you today?
assistant
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Hi, I'm pretty much down trying to keep my head afloat
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im sorry to hear that. Would you care to talk about what is bothering you?
assistant
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I lost my job some months back and it hasn't really been easy for me
user
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I am sorry to hear that, loss of income can be very stressful. Have you been looking for work since then?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Question
Sometimes when I enter a place where my friends are, they tend to go silent when I enter the room. Yes. Its been months now and nothing yet
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Why do you think it is that they go silent?
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I'm pretty sure they were talking about me 2 of myy friends have been helping me with rent money and I'm pretty sure they must be fed up
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Have you tried picking up odd jobs maybe cleaning for someone or helping them move or organize there things?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Yes I have. That's what helps with feeding and getting some little things at home.
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Have you asked them if this is causing problems?
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and sometimes I pay back little of what they loan me since I know I cant pay all of it
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Maybe you could offer to do some things for them in return for the money so its not like they are just giving it to you.
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I've playfully asked why did they all go silent when I walked in, but they try changing the topic to something else I babysit sometimes
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I would let them know that i notice it happening and it is starting to concern you and if it is the problem you would gladly do some things for them to earn it rather them just giving it to you to help out.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
It's not as easy as you say it I feel I'm no longer needed like an outcast
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I am sure if it was a major problem when you brought it up one of them would have spoke up, I would try not to worry to much over that and focus more on finding a job.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Okay. Thanks
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Sometimes when i have to much free time on my hands i start to feel the same but when i find away to fill the time i no longer feel useless. No problem, I hope you feel better soon!
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I hope so too. Cause at this point, I think I'm going to lose it
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