My best friend's son died in a car accident.
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Hello. How are you?
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Hello, thank you for signing up to listen to me I could be better but thank you for asking
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What's on your mind?
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I am upset about the loss of my best friend's son dying in a car accident
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I'm really sorry to hear that. When did this happen?
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The accident was Thursday February 25th but he held on until Sunday the 28th He was only 26 years old
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There's nothing that can prepare you for unexpected tragedies like this. We just have to deal with them as they come.
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I understand what you are saying but that's the problem. How to deal with such a terrible unexpected loss I feel helpless because there is nothing I can do to make her feel better.
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It sounds like you're sticking close to your friend, although it doesn't feel like its helping. It's my experience that when someone has experienced a traumatic loss like that, making someone feel better, at least right away, isn't always an option. The most important thing you can do for her is just to be there for her and allow her to feel however she needs to feel right now.
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She is inconsolable..... and me also being upset is not helping matters either. You are exactly right...it's impossible to help. That is great advice...thank you I really appreciate you taking the time to listen
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Of course. These things are tough to face on your own, so you did the right thing by reaching out. I know you want to be there for your friend as much as possible, and I think that will help you to move through grief at the same time, but just be mindful to not overextend yourself too much. You have to be there for yourself too.
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I actually feel a little better. I will just sit with her and keep her company and be there to listen. I'm glad I accepted this survey today Enjoy the rest of your day and thank you again!
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You too, and best wishes.
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