I'm scared that my best friend and my boyfriend are doing something behind my back.
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hi! how are you doing today>
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Hello, I'm doing okay, wbu?
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ok it's been a stressful time for most of us but we are all doing the best we can
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Yeah that's true
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whats been the weirdest part of the pandemic for you?
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So I live with my boyfriend and my bestfriend. And I am afraid they are doing skethy stuff behind my back It sounds crazy, and I don't have any proof but I have this feeling. The way they talk around each other makes me nervous
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hmm, tell me more. what do you think is going on?
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I'm scared when it is just the two of them here at home. And they are jsut so much more friendly together than before we moved in
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living together can make people more comfortable with each other. has there been something specific that has caused you to wonder about them>
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Not really specifics. It's more of a just in general sort of thing. I know them both really really well, so I am just picking up on tiny little details
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i hear you. have you said anything to either one of them?
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I have talked to my boyfriend, but he just tells me that it's crazy I would think something like that. Idk... I don't want to sound crazy and blow it out of proportion if it's really nothing. I don't know if there is actually something I should be worried about, or if I am thinking these crazy thoughts for other reasons
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having doubts about relationships is rough. do you know brene brown?
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I don't know who that is
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she researches shame and vunerability
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Does she do live talks or videos? Or is she more in online writing
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she has a great TED talk!
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Oh that's cool! I will have to check that out. So you think maybe I am feeling this way is because I have shame or vulnerability in the relationship?
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anyway, i find her imspirational when I have doubts no, not really it's the doubting that is likely what's bothering you the most - the unknown
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Yeah.. that's true. I think it's a good idea to learn more about how I'm feeling before I make any rash decisions
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that's wise. theres a great youtube video with cartoon animals where brene talks about empathy
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Ohhh wait I think I have seen that one haha It was shown in my class in like 9th grade
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things are weird for everyone right now emotions are running high, covid is running rampant, it's a mess and understandable that we are all stressed
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Yeah you are right. I think I am just overthinking a lot. I will look into that TED talk. Thank you so much for the advice! I appreciate the conversation
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