I am so mad that my boyfriend broke up with me because I cheated on him once. He has cheated on me many times and I never broke up with him.
I am so mad that I can't see straight.
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Hello! What is on your mind today? Oh really? Why is that?
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Question,Question
Well, my boyfriend has cheated so many times that I cant count them. I then meet someone nice and cheat on him once and now he breaks up with me.
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being mad that your boyfriend cheated is normal. being mad when dumped is normal. don't you think you DESERVE better than he was treating you?
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question
Thank you! I can see that I am talking to someone who understands. I am wondering if I should beg him back?? I really do love him.
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I've been there too Expecially with covid, it can be hard realiing you may be alone and it may be frusterating dating someone new if you really love someone, shouldnt they love you back? did his actions show love?
assistant
Self-disclosure,Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance
Yeah, and we have been together since high school so it is really hard to think of ever marrying anyone else. He asked me to marry him but we never made it official or got rings.
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if you did get back together and get married, how do you know he wouldnt cheat again? what if you had kids? they would have to see you go through heartbreak i think its normal to want to marry your high school sweetheart
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He told me he never wants kids with me but acts like he would have them someday, somehow? I think you're right.
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i married mine. 3 years later he left me to move into his girlfriends house leaving me with our two month old daughter trust me, its not worth it in the long run maybe you can find someone deserving on someone like you!
assistant
Self-disclosure,Information,Question
Noway! That is my worst nightmare, I am so sorry. That is a real eye opener for me/ That is exactly what I don't think I could handle. I just am in the worst cycle ever and don't have any friends to turn to or anybody who wants to listen to the drama. I think I have wasted a lot of my life and I can't ever get the time back that I have invested in him.
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i think a lot of couples are feeling stuck with covid. once things open up and everyone is vaccinated and get togethers happen again, i bet there will be a LOT more breakups and a lot more options out there! all we can do is learn from our mistakes and not let the past repeat itself
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing,Providing Suggestions
Yeah, I can see your point. It is nice being able to vent to you and feel like I am being heard. I never got that in my relationship with him. I need to learn from the past this time and stop repeating it.
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with your newly aquired free time, you can focus on you! start a new hobby, dye your hair,do something you always wanted to do!
assistant
Providing Suggestions
I haven't even had the time to get myself cute and fixed up in forever! I love that idea! I need to get my haircut.
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know what the best part is?
assistant
Question
No, I have idea?
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get yourself fixed up and cute, and find a hot new guy. your ex will see on social media and know he messed up and see you happy. its quite theraputic :D
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HAHA!! YES!! I was thinking the exact same thing! The best revenge is moving on and looking good and with somebody hot!
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EXACTLY! You deserve so much better! Make yourself feel like it and everyone see it! :D :D
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Sounds great! I am revived and am going to schedule a spa day and reinvent myself! Out with the old! Thank you for your encouragement today. I am going to move on from this mess and make my life better. Thanks again!
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