my friend has a new friend
it went great
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hi, how are you? My friend, My best friend, has a new friend and hardly has time for me anymore, we have been friend for over ten years. this hurts
user
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I am sorry for my late reply, i did not hear the chat go off. Ive actually had that same situation happen to me before.
assistant
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its so annoying and hurtful
user
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Yeah i can tell you something you might not want to hear but it ended with us ending our friendship on that level
assistant
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i definitely do not want to end our friendship, that would be even more painful
user
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I didnt end it but we grew apart as people do over the years. We still hang out but it isnt like it was before. People move on to others and it hurts. They usually are not trying to hurt us though.
assistant
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I know, but its hard when you are the one still stuck, Im not ready for change.
user
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Yea it was hard for me too. Thats the thing about change it just happens. I would do something focusing on yourself. Trying to make yourself feel better.
assistant
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i could try to focus on myself
user
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Everyone needs to and everyone forgets too heh
assistant
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I agree, i need to focus more on myself
user
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Good, im glad you can realize that! Some people cant
assistant
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its hard to but I know that its time to focus on me more
user
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Great, any ideas on what you would like to focus on?
assistant
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focus on me, doing things by myself instead of with my friend. going to eat, spa time, me time, only with me. then allow myself to make new friends do you have any suggestions that i can focus on
user
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Those are great ideas actually, When i want some me time, i usually go for a nice long hike or run.
assistant
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i thinks hikes and runs are good too, they actually are peaceful and makes me focus on life
user
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Yeah, it helps i think even down to a chemical level. Kinda like a great reset for our minds
assistant
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reset of our minds, interesting. i will try hiking for sure. thanks for your input.
user
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