My curly hair is so unruly
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Hello, my name is Rose, how are you today?
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Hi Rose. I'm ok, but I get embarrassed about my curly hair
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What about your hair is embarrasing exactly? Curls seem like a lovely thing to have (mine is dead straight, lets trade lol) But no, seriously, what in particular don't you like about it? i admire people who have natural curls
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They are unruly and not the pretty kind of curls. Often get frizzy by the end of the day. It get's frustrating when I always look a mess.
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Oh I could see that being frustrating, if you can't keep them neat. is your hair short or long?
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It is long.
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have you thought of having it shorter, it might be easier to tame? Just a thought....you say you always look like a mess...is that your personal opinion or has anyone else commented on your hair?
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I started to cut it shorter last time, but my stylist said it would be big. It is hard to find the right product. It is my personal opinion.
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have you asked a friend for an honest opinion?
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My friend likes my hair, but also says she can see that it is hard to manage.
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I know I am my own worst enemy when it comes to my own appearance.
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I can totally relate to that. I think we always want what we dont have.
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One thing I have started doing, since my hair hasn't been cut for a year due to pandemic, is wearing hats. my hair is driving me crazy, so I get your frustration Is it long enough to braid?
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I went a year without cutting mine as well for the same reason. That is probably why it felt so out of control now that you say that. Now that I am vaccinated I just got it cut. Maybe I will like it better now. Yes, I do like braids. That is a good idea.
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yay! a haircut!!! Congrats
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Thank you. It does make it feel a little better. I hope you can get yours cut soon too.
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one last suggestion: ask more stylists' opinions perhaps? oh thankyou....had my shot yesterday....now I have to wait for our lockdown to expire (May 20) so I have a bit more shag to go
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Providing Suggestions,Self-disclosure
Yes, good idea. It seems it has been so long to be able to do this. Maybe I need to think of a new style. Had my second shot last Thursday so I hope opportunities like a new stylist happen soon.
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Have you googled images for short curly hairstyles?
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Providing Suggestions
I will look on Pinterest. Good idea.
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Second shot congrats!! Very exciting. Pinterest is a great source for hairstyles as I recall...there are boards and boards of them. Good idea!
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Thank you. I can't believe how relieved I feel knowing I've had it. Sick for a couple days but worth it. Now I will feel like looking at pinterest more. Maybe you are right and I need something new and fresh.
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