My friend is not treating me the way that a friend is supposed to be treating me
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Hello I am having pro\blems with a friend
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I am so so sorry to hear that. What has been going on?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Question
Sometimes she is very friendly, but sometimes she is super rude In a way that is so rude that it has never happened before by someone who I consider a friend
user
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Oh wow, it sounds like shes not a very good frined.
assistant
Reflection of feelings
As nice as she is, every once in a while show will be equally nasty
user
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Have you tried talking to her about it?
assistant
Question
Super snarky comments Yes I have tried But it still continues
user
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Have you tried seperating from her?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
I can't she is a colleague So unless I want to get a new job but she is super helpful and nice 99 percent of the time And when I have spoken with her, the last time I was very clear with her that it was inappropriate, and it hasn't been happening as often, but the whole situation is still very hurtful
user
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That's so hurtful. Do others feel the same as you?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Yes, I have heard these complaints from one other person Do you have any ideas or other suggestions for me
user
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Maybe you can try talking to yoru manager next time it happens? It is hard but you can only really control yourself, so you need to try to emotionally distance yourself from when she is terrible. You seem like a good persn.
assistant
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That is a good idea to talk to a manager but there is no avoiding working with her because of the nature of my job but that is an option that I didn't considerr before so thatnk you for your insight Thank you that is very nice Let me know if you have any other ideas as well
user
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Of course!! managers are erally helpful. I had a similar sitation with a coworker two years ago and the head of my group really helped me clear it up.
assistant
Self-disclosure
Did you try other things as well
user
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I tried really hard not to let her get to me. Which was really hard but doable.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Oh that is good, sometimes when a person sees that they are not getting under your skin they give up on pushing your buttons, was that what happened in your case
user
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Exactly!!!!
assistant
Reflection of feelings
How long did it take from starting to ending the issues
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