I found out an ex friend was talking behind my back to my current friends about me
it was fun!
no
Quite enjoyed it.
Seems good so far
Hi there. How are you today?
assistant
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I'm good. how r u?
user
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I'm doing good today. What brings you on here?
assistant
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I'm not happy with an ex friend who talks behind my back to my current friends .
user
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ugh. There's nothing worse than that. Have you confronted the ex friend?
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
nope. we are not on speaking terms. We have sued each other in court before. we are past talking.
user
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oh wow. that's not much of a friendship! So have you attempted at all to discuss it? What does the other friend think about it?
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they're still friends with me. if it gets bad enough i can sue her for slander
user
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that's an option but I hope it doesn't go that far again. Have you tried maybe a mediation with the ex friend and your current friend?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
no. i don't want anything to do with her. if i find out my friends take her side they will be my ex friend too
user
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I can understand that. You don't want two people disrespecting you.
assistant
Reflection of feelings
absolutely not. i have a strong constitution about myself and don't allow to be disrespected by anyone
user
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I hear that! What happened in court when you went? If you don't mind me asking
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i tried to get an order for her to stay away from me. the first judge passed it but the second judge said it wasn't strong enough.
user
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Sounds like maybe you should pursue it again if you can. Has she been in contact with you?
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no. she hasn't done anything lately for me to get a court order. if she starts anything again i will get a lawyer and sue her
user
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Seems like a good idea. Steer clear of her and don't associate with her! Sounds like you're doing the right thing. Keep your side of the street clean
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
absolutely will avoid her. if she ever convinces my friends should i tell them i don't want to associate with them anymore?
user
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I would if I were in your shoes. You don't need two of the same person. Know what I mean?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
yeah exactly. people need to realize who's side to stay on
user
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LOL if only everyone had that thought process. Some people don't get it!
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
it's easier said than done. a lot of people are afraid of being alone and will put up with garbage
user
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Definitely sounds like you have the right tools and mindset to do the right thing! I know about the alone thing especially in these times.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Reflection of feelings
yeah it sucks lol
user
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Take those tools you have, steer clear of her and do your own thing!
assistant
Providing Suggestions
i will. thank you for your advice
user
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Most definitely. I wish you the best. If you every wanna chat again just stop on by!
assistant
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thank ya! Likewise
user
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Take care!
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