I have caught my BF cheating on me with his best friend that he told me not to worry about
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Hi
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how are you?
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Not too good sadly:/
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I'm sorry. what's going on?
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My and my long term boyfriend just ended Turns out he was cheating on me for the past 3 months with his best friend :(
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whoa, that's pretty messed up! how long were you together?
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Tell me about! We were planning on moving in together next year
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wow, I definitely wouldn't go through with that then. Are you sure he was cheating?
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I noticed a few signs and confronted him about it He didn’t even deny it ! He wasn’t remorseful at all... it’s like he doesn’t even love me How can you love someone yet betray the, somquiclu So quickly **
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did he admit to it? I would agree that he probably doesn't feel the way you want him to.
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Not at all
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but you know for certain?
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Yes HE ADMITTED IT
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oh gotcha. yeah that is really messed up. how long were you two together?
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We were together for 3 years I don’t know how he could just toss it down the drain
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That's horrible. Have you been able to talk to friends about it?
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No, that’s why I’m talking to u I haven’t been able to eat or sleep in a few days
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Do you have any friends who you can talk to it about it? Some people around you who know you really well?
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No he was my everything
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You definitely need to eat and sleep even though you don't feel like it. You have to take care of yourself even though it feels hard. Guys are a dime a dozen. I don't know what that really means but I think it has something to do with being able to get guys easily.
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I know..it’s hard when everything reminds me of him
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I think if you really focus on what you need right now, you'll be able to realize that you dodged a bullet. You don't want to be with a cheater. you should want to be with someone who respects you and treats you well
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Are righ... it just sucks i have to start all over again
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