My son has moved back from NYC and does not like my boyfriend.
It was actually really healpful.
nothing at all.
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hi I am stressed with my 25 year old moved back from NYC. . My boyfriend and I have a home and my son does not like him.
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I am sorry to hear that i can understand how you must be feeling Why does your son not like your boyfriend?
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He is going back to school and I am supporting him in that. The problem is that my boyfriend thinks my son should speak to me more respectfully. He gets upset when my son is swears and shows anger to me.
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Have you talked to your boyfriend about how you are feeling?
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He knows that I am torn. I am not going to put my son out of the house. I am also not one to get loud and angry. My son verbally is aggressive.
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I can understand why your boyfriend be getting upset if your son is disrespectful to you and is aggressive but you know that is your son and you going to be there for him no matter what
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Reflection of feelings
Yes, and I have gotten my son to go to a therapist weekly to try to express his anger about the pandemic and the changes it has brought in his lifestyle. He cannot take his frustrustations out on us.
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How long has this been going on? Is the therapist working for him?
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He came back last March for what we thought at the time would be a month or two.
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Have you had a conversation with your son about the way he is acting?
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He is difficult to get through to. He seems to have traded midwestern charm for NYC bullying.
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Maybe he should start seeing a therapist every day maybe that will help
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I am not sure that he can afford that, but I have seen small changes in his behavior since he started seeing her. I want him to stop seeing my boyfriend as the enemy.
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maybe your boyfriend and your son needs to sit down and have a talk
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Providing Suggestions
That may work with a therapist. I have tried to mediate and both were terribly bull headed and argumentative.
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or you know your boyfriend can plan out a day or something and your son and your boyfriend can go out and do something fun
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I am a quiet person and I want a happy household.
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They should have a talk because communication is key and that will solve a lot
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Thank you. You are right. I just want to get rid of the tension in the house.
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I am sure he will stop the way he is acting it just may take some time
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Thank you. I want him to grow him quickly. He is 25 and is doing okay. No need to be angry.
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You are right he still got a whole life ahead of him
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Thank you. Have a good evening.
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