My best friend used to call me all the time (many times per day) and we would talk for hours.  It's been three days and I haven't got a text, a call, nothing.  She just moved into a new home and I understand she is busy, but I feel ignored.
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Hi, I'm feeling sad
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Good afternoon
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Good afternoon to you
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Can I ask for a reason why
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Yes, my best friend has decided that I'm not that important...or as important as I thought I was....
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What is causing you to be sad
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She used to call me multiple times per day, it's been 3 days and nothing
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So this is a close friend
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
Yes, we have been friends for 10 years, best friends
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That could cause a sadness
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Absolutely...what do you think is wrong?
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Could it be for a reason you are unaware of
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I'm not sure, I don't think I have done anything wrong, or bad, we haven't had a fight
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Maybe she is busy and the timing is off Does your friend work
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Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question
Well, she did just move into a very large house, but she didn't even want me to help her, no she doesn't work
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May not be a fight but she is busy settling in Does she live with her family
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Self-disclosure,Question
Well, maybe, but does that really warrant her ignoring me? She lives with her husband.
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How long has it been since she moved in
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A week and a half ago, not long, but not like yesterday
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have you thought about a housewarming gift
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Hmm, no I didn't think about that, that may be a good idea
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So just a week and she is settling in
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Yes, but the home came furnished and honestly, I didn't think there was that much to do, but maybe I should get a gift, to break the ice.
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Friendship is important maybe she needs to hear from you
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Affirmation and Reassurance
Yes, it is very important, I just felt if I called I would be bothering her :(
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Could she she is arranging the house to fit her style
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That is possible, and it is a HUGE house, 4 stories
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Have you tried to visit her and see if you can help
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No, we are not seeing each other in person due to COVID. Do you think I should try calling or texting first?
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sometimes people get overwhelmed and need a friend to be there
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Yes, they certainly do, darn COVID stops everything
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That would be a great idea, especially with the holidays
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Would a text be more appropriate vs. a phone call? What do you think?
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Yeah the virus has stopped a lot of people
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I just feel so hurt and abandoned, like I don't mean anything to her
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Why not text her 1st to break the ice But maybe she is feeling like she is alone also
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Well, I think I will try that, I mean, it's not that intrusive. I hope she's not feeling alone, I hope she doesn't think I'm abandoning her!
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The virus is stopping people but we can find away Does she have other family
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Affirmation and Reassurance,Question
I am going to send her a message, do you think I should get her a digital gift card as a gift? Yes, she has a son in college.
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The card could be a nice gift
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I think I will text her and let her know I'm sending a gift card....maybe she will respond.
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Text and ask about her son
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That's a great idea! Thank you :)
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