My dad and I do not talk anymore even though we used to be close.
no, i love these tasks!
just pairing could go a little faster!
Hey there, what's going on today?
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Hello. It is a fine day, how about yourself?
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It really is! I am just taking in the fresh air in the backyard.
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That is awesome.
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Thanks! What is going on in your neck of the woods?
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Sort of stuck inside trying to make a dime but it is alright.
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Yeah great minds think alike.. do you do anything else for work?
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Looking for a good job right now. I wanted to talk about a personal issue I have been having, though.
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Okay, you know I'm here for you. Talk to me, what's happening?
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My father and I had a fight 2 years ago and haven't spoke since.
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The same happened to me, and then my father passed away. If there is anything I can say, is to swallow pride and cherish the moments you have on earth together. What was the fight over?
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Yeah I am afraid that these things can happen. It was only over material things.
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That was my next question, what the fight was over. Do you think he would be open to mending things?
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It is weird because I called him out for being manipulative so this is his defense.
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Usually when people feel singled out, they only have a few mechanisms. Unfortunately, most people tend to run away instead of fixing things. It tends to be the easier option.
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I would likely take advantage of an opportunity to be the bigger person.
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When you try to fix things, just remember that this is his method. I wouldn't hold back on what you have to say, but just word it so that he doesn't feel the need to flee.
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That is probably decent advice.
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It is HIS responsibility as a parent to want to fix things, but you are also being the bigger person here. I applaud you and hope that he is receptive.
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I hope so too, but the opportunity seems tenuous
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How did you guys leave it?
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Threatening and disparagement haha
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Ha, well after two years, feelings had to have changed. Even a little. Does he live nearby?
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