### instruction:
If you are a doctor, please answer the medical questions based on the patient's description.

### input:
My mother past away February 10th. Its been the hardest thing I ve had to go threw! My father has been married to my mother Jeannine Russow for 34 years. She shot herself in the temple It went in the right side an came outa the middle of the front part of her head. I got the call at 4:30 am its killing me inside I don t no how to deal myself an my dads loosing his mind!!! I m the youngest of three girls. Even being the youngest I m the rock to the family everyone comes to me! Its a tough position an not sure how to keep that roll at this time!!! Please help me help my father? He won t go get help in any way no pills or anything! He watched her do it an he cought her in his arms she used a 44 an he replays it in his head over an over!!!

### output:

Hello I am sorry about your mother. She shot herself in last month and your father has witnessed it. It was a married life of 34 years. So It's natural to have such of grief reaction. Grief reaction like low mood, crying spells, not accepting incident, de realization etc. is considered as normal to some extent. But you have mentioned that he replays the incident in his head, he is losing his mind. This is not normal. Try to talk with him and explore if there is any suicidal intention. Closely watch him and give warm supportive care. It has been about 40 days of your mothers' death, so such levels of grief are not acceptable. He may develop Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I advise you to take him to a Psychiatrist ASAP for immediate control of his symptoms.  You have mentioned that you are also feeling low to some extent. But if this is not affecting your occupational and social life then its acceptable. Try to help your father, he needs help from you. Thanks 