hi i m 30 years old man and i have problem with sex the problem is in normal time my penis stand properly but when i want to do sex with girls it does not stand and some water comes in my penis and it is difficult to stand ...because of this my sex activity is become weak..so can u tell me a solution and treatment please.
Hi, thank you for using Chat Doctor. I can understand your concerns As you reported your penis stand properly in normal time means there is nothing wrong with your body. But lack of erection while having sex with girls support some psychological issues. Lack of desire, lack of arousal, poor confidence, worrying about performance etc. may be the reason behind your problem. Feeling of water coming out of penis while erection may be the fluid coming from prostate, and you do not need to worry about it. For good erection while sex first be confident as you have no issue with physical. Proper arousal in both the partner is needed, for this time should be spent in foreplay. Do not worry about performance and enjoy the intimacy. Talk with your partner about your problem this will reduce significant amount of anxiety, and you will be able to perform better. Hope this will help you. Regards.