im 16 years old. i have had anal sex for the first time. im male. it hurts when i sit(talking about my bottom), have bowel movements, it also burns in that area when i do have bowel movements.. i took a handheld mirror and looked at it. and i see this little red circle(ringworm looking thing but dark red/purplish in the center) and i squeezed it and it feels like a ball in my cheek.. i am in sooo much pain right now its unreal. i am unsure of what my condition is. and i need help..  is there any way i can get rid of it, if you know what it is?
Hi. It could be one of two things. Either it's a fissure which is a tear caused by undue stretching of the anal skin, or it could be a perianal hematoma which is a small blood collection due to the injury or pressure of the penis onto the anal verge. Either way it will take 5 to 7 days to settle down. The pain will slowly go away as the condition heals. You should sit in a pan of warm water 2 to 3 times a day and apply Lidocaine ointment over it after washing and Chat Doctor.  You can take stool softeners like Syrup Lactulose at night which will make the stool passing activity a little less painful. If still painful take oral painkiller tablets. Take care and avoid such misadventures in the future.