i am 24 years old boy..from india.when i gets excited by watching porn my penis will not erect properly means it erects but erection is not enough to penetrate someone.it cant erect properly.and when i am with my girlfriend my underwear gets wet....when she come close to me means nearby my penis start leaking jelly type liquid..and leaking all the time until she is with me.so ples give suggestion for my problem and i also ejaculate within 4 to 5 stroke.what to do i feel very shy infront of her.ples give suggestion.
Hi. Thank you for using Chat Doctor. I can understand your concern. You reported erection is possible but not strong enough. This means you are physically ok, but the arousal is not enough. It is also possible that performance anxiety at your side increases the problem of erection.First you need to be confident about yourself as nothing wrong with you. Leaking jelly type liquid before ejaculation is a prostatic fluid and many times with excitement it starts leaking. Doing masturbation before actual meeting with your girlfriend will reduce many of your problem. Enjoy the intimacy rather than worrying about performance. Do not feel shy and actually talking with her about your concern will help in reducing your problem. Using start and stop technique, squeeze technique, keel exercise will reduce occurrence of premature ejaculation. Hope this will help you. Regards.