Hi, My step son is 7 years old. And for the past year and 1/2 he has been pooping in his pants. We have tried to talk to him to see if there is something going on at his house but he always says no. Its not only once a day he does it 2-3 time a day whenever he have him on the weekends. What can I do to help?
Hello, First, is to talk to him about this.there may be some event that happened in past and has started it altogether. Second, you can make him wash the spoiled clothes whenever this happens. You don't have to scold or use harsh voice or words but simply say that - "as you have spoiled them and I have several other works to look into can you please wash them yourself". Do this each and every time he spoils the clothes asking him very gently to wake them. Let him wash as he can and if you want you may rewash them properly. After few days you will surely notice that he will hesitate spoiling his pants and make talk you beforehand that r wants to go to toilet. Try doing this after telling all family members about the plan. Wish you good luck.