user13763: I have noticed in my meditation / mindfulness practice the following: as the idea of self dissolves, the ideas of compassion, happiness, sorrow, and basically everything that a "person" might experience also dissolve. 
This is disconcerting for a few reasons:

I stop caring about the suffering of others. After all, "no one" is really suffering, so there is no "person" to receive compassion. The "person" that I direct compassion to right now, is simply a volatile "soup of phenomenon" that won't even exist a few moments later.
I lose motivation to do things because I don't feel fear the way I used to. Because of my upbringing, fear of consequences was the primary motivation for doing anything. Example: in relationships, fear of letting people down would motivate me to pursue resolution to problems, resolve conflicts, etc. 
I don't enjoy things in life the way I used to. As negative emotions have dissipated, so have positive ones. I no longer enjoy eating a meal with good friends, or a sunset or a dozen other things I used to. No moment is particularly better or worse than any other moment. When I live life one moment at a time, there is nothing to "look forward to" because I am not doing anything I dislike that I am trying to "get done as quickly as possible."

Bottom line: the more I meditate and live moment by moment, the more dull and uninteresting the world becomes. Consequently, I don't know how to get from here to having compassion or even interest towards other living beings. 
Can anyone offer some guidance?

user-1: This has been familiar territory for me. Having a deep sense of meaninglessness has been a part of the growth process in me. I've come to see it as the falling away of the whole conceptual framework of life. I've learned to just be with it but not make too much of a story out it. It can be considered a form of purgation. Some refer to it as the dark night of the soul. It's quite close to being depressed. It's a dying and a very welcome one because if you allow it, an emergence out of it will pay spiritual dividends. In Buddhism, an unpleasant experience is not necessarily bad, and a blissful one is not necessarily good.

user4762: My own opinions on meditation are heavily shaped by the work of Alan Watts, a philosopher from the mid 1900's. You can follow a guided meditation he recorded in 1954 for your own enjoyment.  Or you can use it to judge his approach.  It matters not.  I do believe he avoided the three pitfalls you describe in his walk through life, and made it his passion to try to help others with that.  Personally, I love the chuckle in his voice, which all but screams out "This is it!  This is life!  You've found it!  Be it!"
In the comments on your post you say:

I care because the point of enlightenment is supposed to be developing compassion and empathy and my practice seems to be leading me in the opposite direction. I have reasonable doubts because the results are not what I expected.

One might say, as Alan Watts does in that recorded meditation, that meditation doesn't have a reason or a purpose and that, in that respect, it is completely unlike almost everything else we do.  But I do believe there's no reason one can't start from a purpose, as you have.  So we can start from there.
You clearly have two anchors in your mind.  One is what your meditation/mindfullness practice is.  It is a thing, and you can analyze it, and critique it.  It is the thing that it is; its a thing you do.  The other is what you believe it should be.  You state that you believe it should be developing compassion and empathy.  And so you strain these anchors.  You use the purpose of your practice to pull on what it is, saying "Come on.  Here's what you should be.  Become more like that in the future."  And you use your sense of what your practice is to restrain your idea of what it should be.  It must be the thing that is acquired through the practice, else it is not a "good ideal."
I would say this is highly normal.  I think everyone does it.  I find myself doing it right now, as I scan the text of what this answer is, and desperately try to tug on it with my mental image of what it should be when I hit "post."
One approach I find successful is to extend the concept of compassion not just to sentient beings, but to ideas themselves.  You have two ideas in your head, and they are under tension.  Practice having compassion to them.  Help them be happy together.  I find happiness to be a positive thing, in the sense of making positive statements about the world.  So show compassion to what your purpose of your practice is.  Find out what it wants things to be like.  Obviously right now there's a negatively phrased concern of "the current practice is not going in the right way," but focus on the positive phrasings.  What does it mean to be compassionate?  Why compassion?  You clearly have a part of your mind that is well aware of this idea.  Let it run free.  Or meditate on it.  Or do both!
Then you can show compassion to your current practice.  The fact that you find yourself on a path that projects towards nihilism suggests that your current practice has some negatively focused ideas on what meditation is not and what mindfulness is not.  They are "not attachment."  "Not clinging."  These negative statements are choking your path and you acknowledge that (or else you would not have come here with the question in the first place).
Compassionately encourage your current practice to shake it up a bit.  Lose some of its shackles and see where it leads you.  I know many who say that you can meditate at any point in your life, whether you are walking or driving to work or listening to your boss talk.  Focus more on what the practice is, and not what the practice isn't.
If you do this, you will find that you start naturally seeing ways to adjust your practice to go more in the direction of compassion, and your purpose for the practice will become more compassionate itself, decreasing the tension you feel right now.
And at some point, your practice and its purpose may find that they no longer need the negative statements to describe themselves.  They may be focused entirely on positive statements.  We can cast those negative statements away, and be left with something which is simply a being.
And we won't give it a name.

user13375: It is quite clear you have fallen to the extreme of nihilism in your conception of anatta and I would advise you to back away with all due haste. The doctrine of anatta and shunyata do not mean what you think they mean. The self does exist, karma does exist and suffering beings exist and compassion is necessary and the Buddha never said otherwise.
The doctrine of anatta and shunyata, when correctly understood does not contradict the need for compassion ... it is precisely the opposite. Based on this I would suggest you take seriously that you’ve misunderstood something and let go what you think you understand about anatta. Only by happily letting go of your current misunderstanding will you have the freedom necessary to achieve the correct understanding.

user-1: 
Entangling vines: Case 154
There was an old woman who supported a hermit. For twenty years she
  always had a girl, sixteen or seventeen years old, take the hermit his
  food and wait on him.
One day she told the girl to give the monk a close hug and ask, “What
  do you feel just now?”
The hermit responded,
An old tree on a cold cliff; Midwinter – no warmth.
The girl went back and told this to the old woman. The woman said,
  “For twenty years I’ve supported this vulgar good-for-nothing!” So
  saying, she threw the monk out and burned down the hermitage.

To truly experience what the Buddha meant by emptiness is to come face to face with limitless compassion and joy.  Practice isn't the chill of dispassion. It isn't dead wood of nihilism.  Practice is summer and the trees are in bloom.      
The great way is true intimacy with all experience...and all of the highs and lows that come with any intimate relationship.  Anything that takes you away from that isn't any kind of practice you would want to pursue.  
So my advice?  Put down your thoughts and put down your current practice.  Get off the cushion, go for a walk, and hug your loved ones.  Come back when you're warm and happy.  

user43: Very good and relevant question. Based on hearsay and my own experience, I suspect this problem is rather common with serious, sincere practitioners.
On one hand, it is totally normal to keep getting dispassionate and detached as you grow your "eye of no-self". After all, the Buddhist realization was described by the Buddha himself as "dispassionment, disillusionment, disenchantment, nibbana" (or something like that).
On the other hand, putting too much faith in this idea of no-self (and its concomitants of "no future to strive for", "no sentient beings to save" etc.) as some kind of Final Truth indicates incomplete understanding of Dharma, at best.
In fact, my teacher strongly insisted that "3D vision occurs when you look with both eyes". Meaning, the anatta view and the "atta" view - are the two eyes. In one, there is no sentient beings and no suffering, no Path, no Attainment etc (quote the rest of the Heart Sutra) - and in the other there are countless sentient beings who suffer and need help. Enlightenment is called "the knowledge of all modes" exactly because it involves going beyond a single perspective, and seeing all perspectives (all "worlds") at once. Enlightenment is the pinnacle of empathy because it involves appreciating all perspectives out there, including perspectives of the most unfortunate, confused, and suffering sentient beings.
As your realization of Emptiness matures, the idea of single correct point of view, or the idea of absolute truth should start making less and less sense to you. At the same time, being able to see things from other perspectives - and empathize their pain, which for them is certainly real! - is the foundation of enlightened compassion.
The dispassion that comes from liberation from any single point of view (atta, anatta, and all the others) and the compassion that comes from a realization that most of the sentient life is locked into a single point of view are the two signs of correct realization.
The above is about the View. As for the Action, this sense of apathy probably comes from an established habit of living a spiritually sterile life. The same exact principle is at work here. While you cling to a single point of view (that of spirituality), you try to be as honest to that as possible and this leads to this sterile lifestyle. Once you realize that Emptiness means no absolute reference point and this realization sinks in to the level of daily life, you will no longer be restricted by one model of behavior. Then your life can start getting back the colors -- without the passions that came from taking it all too seriously.

user254: I think that classical doctrine says that having (holding) a view of self (i.e. "me") is a cause of suffering; and so is attachment to impermanent things (i.e. "mine"); and therefore we're advised to view things as "not me" and "not mine".
BUT a view like "nothing exists, nothing matters", or something like that, is "wrong view":

And how is right view the forerunner? One discerns wrong view as wrong view, and right view as right view. This is one's right view. And what is wrong view? 'There is nothing given, nothing offered, nothing sacrificed. There is no fruit or result of good or bad actions. There is no this world, no next world, no mother, no father, no spontaneously reborn beings; no brahmans or contemplatives who, faring rightly & practicing rightly, proclaim this world & the next after having directly known & realized it for themselves.' This is wrong view...

I suppose the non-self doctrine is a form of detachment; but saying, "I don't have a fixed view of 'self'", is not the same as saying, "you don't exist" or "you're unable to suffer" -- I suppose that the former is "right" but that the latter is wrong.
Also Buddhism (perhaps especially Mahayana) has the concept of "sentient beings" -- feelings including pain and/or suffering.
At the risk of adding a side-track to the main topic (the question in the OP) I think that classical doctrine warns against having a self-view that one is a "being" (Vajira Sutta); and, that "becoming" is something to avoid ("bhava", i.e. the 10th of the 12 nidanas, see e.g. The Paradox of Becoming).
The point is though that, regardless of how you view or don't view your own "self", there are people in the world, sentient beings, who are able to suffer, able to not suffer, and so on.
ALSO you ought to remember sila (i.e. virtue, ethics). It's foundational. It includes the 5 (or more) precepts, which involve being harmless or acting harmlessly, in various ways: not causing harm. And it's arguably more complicated than that for lay-people (see e.g. Sigalovada Sutta or something this book), though of course it's also quite involved for monks or nuns (i.e. see the Vinaya).
Also relevant to the question are the Brahmaviharas (described here as "the answer to all situations arising from social contact", see also here).
I guess this answer isn't practical, I'm just hoping to share a view of what the doctrine says about views. I think the classic view is that it's unwise to have any view of self at all -- and that "I exist" and "I don't exist" are both examples of self-views (see also How is it wrong to believe that a self exists, or that it doesn't? for more).
As for "nothing exists" or "no-one is really suffering" there's quite a short Zen story on that subject which may be apposite:

Nothing Exists
Yamaoka Tesshu, as a young student of Zen, visited one master after another. He called upon Dokuon of Shokoku.
Desiring to show his attainment, he said: “The mind, Buddha, and sentient beings, after all, do not exist. The true nature of phenomena is emptiness. There is no realization, no delusion, no sage, no mediocrity. There is no giving and nothing to be received.”
Dokuon, who was smoking quietly, said nothing. Suddenly he whacked Yamaoka with his bamboo pipe. This made the youth quite angry.
“If nothing exists,” inquired Dokuon, “where did this anger come from?”

I think that this topic is important too -- How are 'conceit' and 'identity-view' not the same?

user-1: 
I have noticed in my meditation / mindfulness practice the following: as the idea of self dissolves, the ideas of compassion, happiness, sorrow, and basically everything that a "person" might experience also dissolve.

There might be some misunderstanding and a lack of clearly seeing in your practice, because the 'emptier' you are (for lack of better words) the more compassion should arise towards other beings.
Somehow you seem to attach ideas of compassion, happiness and so on to a person. Why? Compassion and happiness exist naturally. Anatta means that they have their own causes and conditions. They are not bound to a 'you'.
With a correct way of understanding you should be able to see that compassion, happiness and sorrow don't dissolve but what changes is your attitude towards and the way you relate to nature and others.
Freedom will lead naturally to more compassion and happiness.
In short: please examine your ideas about how things should be, let go of any of those and just be with experience itself.
I suspect that you suppress emotions, maybe because you (wrongly) think they shouldn't be there since there is no self. But I can't know for sure of course, only you can figure that out.

13763: <p>I have noticed in my meditation / mindfulness practice the following: as the idea of self dissolves, the ideas of compassion, happiness, sorrow, and basically everything that a "person" might experience also dissolve. </p>

<p>This is disconcerting for a few reasons:</p>

<ol>
<li>I stop caring about the suffering of others. After all, "no one" is really suffering, so there is no "person" to receive compassion. The "person" that I direct compassion to right now, is simply a volatile "soup of phenomenon" that won't even exist a few moments later.</li>
<li>I lose motivation to do things because I don't feel fear the way I used to. Because of my upbringing, fear of consequences was the primary motivation for doing anything. Example: in relationships, fear of letting people down would motivate me to pursue resolution to problems, resolve conflicts, etc. </li>
<li>I don't enjoy things in life the way I used to. As negative emotions have dissipated, so have positive ones. I no longer enjoy eating a meal with good friends, or a sunset or a dozen other things I used to. No moment is particularly better or worse than any other moment. When I live life one moment at a time, there is nothing to "look forward to" because I am not doing anything I dislike that I am trying to "get done as quickly as possible."</li>
</ol>

<p>Bottom line: the more I meditate and live moment by moment, the more dull and uninteresting the world becomes. Consequently, I don't know how to get from here to having compassion or even interest towards other living beings. </p>

<p>Can anyone offer some guidance?</p>
 -1: <p>This has been familiar territory for me. Having a deep sense of meaninglessness has been a part of the growth process in me. I've come to see it as the falling away of the whole conceptual framework of life. I've learned to just be with it but not make too much of a story out it. It can be considered a form of purgation. Some refer to it as the dark night of the soul. It's quite close to being depressed. It's a dying and a very welcome one because if you allow it, an emergence out of it will pay spiritual dividends. In Buddhism, an unpleasant experience is not necessarily bad, and a blissful one is not necessarily good.</p>
 4762: <p>My own opinions on meditation are heavily shaped by the work of Alan Watts, a philosopher from the mid 1900's. You can follow a <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVehL8oCOeY" rel="nofollow noreferrer">guided meditation</a> he recorded in 1954 for your own enjoyment.  Or you can use it to judge his approach.  It matters not.  I do believe he avoided the three pitfalls you describe in his walk through life, and made it his passion to try to help others with that.  Personally, I love the chuckle in his voice, which all but screams out "This is it!  This is life!  You've found it!  Be it!"</p>

<p>In the comments on your post you say:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>I care because the point of enlightenment is supposed to be developing compassion and empathy and my practice seems to be leading me in the opposite direction. I have reasonable doubts because the results are not what I expected.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>One might say, as Alan Watts does in that recorded meditation, that meditation doesn't have a reason or a purpose and that, in that respect, it is completely unlike almost everything else we do.  But I do believe there's no reason one can't start from a purpose, as you have.  So we can start from there.</p>

<p>You clearly have two anchors in your mind.  One is what your meditation/mindfullness practice <em>is</em>.  It is a thing, and you can analyze it, and critique it.  It is the thing that it is; its a thing you do.  The other is what you believe it <em>should be</em>.  You state that you believe it should be developing compassion and empathy.  And so you strain these anchors.  You use the purpose of your practice to pull on what it is, saying "Come on.  Here's what you should be.  Become more like that in the future."  And you use your sense of what your practice is to restrain your idea of what it should be.  It must be the thing that is acquired through the practice, else it is not a "good ideal."</p>

<p>I would say this is highly normal.  I think everyone does it.  I find myself doing it right now, as I scan the text of what this answer is, and desperately try to tug on it with my mental image of what it should be when I hit "post."</p>

<p>One approach I find successful is to extend the concept of compassion not just to sentient beings, but to ideas themselves.  You have two ideas in your head, and they are under tension.  Practice having compassion to them.  Help them be happy together.  I find happiness to be a positive thing, in the sense of making positive statements about the world.  So show compassion to what your purpose of your practice is.  Find out what it wants things to be like.  Obviously right now there's a negatively phrased concern of "the current practice is not going in the right way," but focus on the positive phrasings.  What does it mean to be compassionate?  Why compassion?  You clearly have a part of your mind that is well aware of this idea.  Let it run free.  Or meditate on it.  Or do both!</p>

<p>Then you can show compassion to your current practice.  The fact that you find yourself on a path that projects towards nihilism suggests that your current practice has some negatively focused ideas on what meditation <em>is not</em> and what mindfulness <em>is not</em>.  They are "not attachment."  "Not clinging."  These negative statements are choking your path and you acknowledge that (or else you would not have come here with the question in the first place).</p>

<p>Compassionately encourage your current practice to shake it up a bit.  Lose some of its shackles and see where it leads you.  I know many who say that you can meditate at any point in your life, whether you are walking or driving to work or listening to your boss talk.  Focus more on what the practice is, and not what the practice isn't.</p>

<p>If you do this, you will find that you start naturally seeing ways to adjust your practice to go more in the direction of compassion, and your purpose for the practice will become more compassionate itself, decreasing the tension you feel right now.</p>

<p>And at some point, your practice and its purpose may find that they no longer need the negative statements to describe themselves.  They may be focused entirely on positive statements.  We can cast those negative statements away, and be left with something which is simply a <em>being</em>.</p>

<p>And we won't give it a name.</p>
 13375: <p>It is quite clear you have fallen to the extreme of nihilism in your conception of anatta and I would advise you to back away with all due haste. The doctrine of anatta and shunyata do not mean what you think they mean. The self does exist, karma does exist and suffering beings exist and compassion is necessary and the Buddha never said otherwise.</p>

<p>The doctrine of anatta and shunyata, when correctly understood does not contradict the need for compassion ... it is precisely the opposite. Based on this I would suggest you take seriously that you’ve misunderstood something and let go what you think you understand about anatta. Only by happily letting go of your current misunderstanding will you have the freedom necessary to achieve the correct understanding.</p>
 -1: <blockquote>
  <p>Entangling vines: Case 154</p>
  
  <p>There was an old woman who supported a hermit. For twenty years she
  always had a girl, sixteen or seventeen years old, take the hermit his
  food and wait on him.</p>
  
  <p>One day she told the girl to give the monk a close hug and ask, “What
  do you feel just now?”</p>
  
  <p>The hermit responded,</p>
  
  <p>An old tree on a cold cliff; Midwinter – no warmth.</p>
  
  <p>The girl went back and told this to the old woman. The woman said,
  “For twenty years I’ve supported this vulgar good-for-nothing!” So
  saying, she threw the monk out and burned down the hermitage.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>To truly experience what the Buddha meant by emptiness is to come face to face with limitless compassion and joy.  Practice isn't the chill of dispassion. It isn't dead wood of nihilism.  Practice is summer and the trees are in bloom.      </p>

<p>The great way is true intimacy with all experience...and all of the highs and lows that come with any intimate relationship.  Anything that takes you away from that isn't any kind of practice you would want to pursue.  </p>

<p>So my advice?  Put down your thoughts and put down your current practice.  Get off the cushion, go for a walk, and hug your loved ones.  Come back when you're warm and happy.  </p>
 43: <p>Very good and relevant question. Based on hearsay and my own experience, I suspect this problem is rather common with serious, sincere practitioners.</p>

<p>On one hand, it is totally normal to keep getting dispassionate and detached as you grow your "eye of no-self". After all, the Buddhist realization was described by the Buddha himself as "dispassionment, disillusionment, disenchantment, nibbana" (or something like that).</p>

<p>On the other hand, putting too much faith in this idea of no-self (and its concomitants of "no future to strive for", "no sentient beings to save" etc.) as some kind of Final Truth indicates incomplete understanding of Dharma, at best.</p>

<p>In fact, my teacher strongly insisted that "3D vision occurs when you look with both eyes". Meaning, the anatta view and the "atta" view - are the two eyes. In one, there is no sentient beings and no suffering, no Path, no Attainment etc (quote the rest of the Heart Sutra) - and in the other there are countless sentient beings who suffer and need help. Enlightenment is called "the knowledge of all modes" exactly because it involves going beyond a single perspective, and seeing all perspectives (all "worlds") at once. Enlightenment is the pinnacle of empathy because it involves appreciating all perspectives out there, including perspectives of the most unfortunate, confused, and suffering sentient beings.</p>

<p>As your realization of Emptiness matures, the idea of single correct point of view, or the idea of absolute truth should start making less and less sense to you. At the same time, being able to see things from other perspectives - and empathize their pain, which for them is certainly real! - is the foundation of enlightened compassion.</p>

<p>The dispassion that comes from liberation from any single point of view (atta, anatta, and all the others) and the compassion that comes from a realization that most of the sentient life is locked into a single point of view are the two signs of correct realization.</p>

<p>The above is about the View. As for the Action, this sense of apathy probably comes from an established habit of living a spiritually sterile life. The same exact principle is at work here. While you cling to a single point of view (that of spirituality), you try to be as honest to that as possible and this leads to this sterile lifestyle. Once you realize that Emptiness means no absolute reference point and this realization sinks in to the level of daily life, you will no longer be restricted by one model of behavior. Then your life can start getting back the colors -- without the passions that came from taking it all too seriously.</p>
 254: <p>I think that classical doctrine says that having (holding) a view of self (i.e. &quot;me&quot;) is a cause of suffering; and so is attachment to impermanent things (i.e. &quot;mine&quot;); and therefore we're advised to view things as &quot;not me&quot; and &quot;not mine&quot;.</p>
<p>BUT a view like &quot;nothing exists, nothing matters&quot;, or something like that, is &quot;<a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sacca/sacca4/samma-ditthi/index.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">wrong view</a>&quot;:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>And how is right view the forerunner? One discerns wrong view as wrong view, and right view as right view. This is one's right view. And what is wrong view? 'There is nothing given, nothing offered, nothing sacrificed. There is no fruit or result of good or bad actions. There is no this world, no next world, no mother, no father, no spontaneously reborn beings; no brahmans or contemplatives who, faring rightly &amp; practicing rightly, proclaim this world &amp; the next after having directly known &amp; realized it for themselves.' This is wrong view...</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I suppose the non-self doctrine is a form of detachment; but saying, &quot;I don't have a fixed view of 'self'&quot;, is not the same as saying, &quot;you don't exist&quot; or &quot;you're unable to suffer&quot; -- I suppose that the former is &quot;right&quot; but that the latter is wrong.</p>
<p>Also Buddhism (perhaps especially Mahayana) has the concept of &quot;sentient beings&quot; -- feelings including pain and/or suffering.</p>
<p>At the risk of adding a side-track to the main topic (the question in the OP) I think that classical doctrine warns against having a self-view that one is a &quot;being&quot; (<a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/sn/sn05/sn05.010.bodh.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Vajira Sutta</a>); and, that &quot;becoming&quot; is something to avoid (&quot;<em>bhava</em>&quot;, i.e. the 10th of the 12 nidanas, see e.g. <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/thanissaro/paradoxofbecoming.pdf" rel="nofollow noreferrer">The Paradox of Becoming</a>).</p>
<p>The point is though that, regardless of how you view or don't view your own &quot;self&quot;, there are people in the world, sentient beings, who are able to suffer, able to not suffer, and so on.</p>
<p>ALSO you ought to remember <em><a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sila/index.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">sila</a></em> (i.e. virtue, ethics). It's foundational. It includes the 5 (or more) precepts, which involve being harmless or acting harmlessly, in various ways: not causing harm. And it's arguably more complicated than that for lay-people (see e.g. <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/dn/dn.31.0.ksw0.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Sigalovada Sutta</a> or something <a href="https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/a/25963/254">this book</a>), though of course it's also quite involved for monks or nuns (i.e. see the Vinaya).</p>
<p>Also relevant to the question are the Brahmaviharas (described <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/nyanaponika/wheel006.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">here</a> as &quot;the answer to all situations arising from social contact&quot;, see also <a href="https://accesstoinsight.org/search_results.html?q=brahmaviharas" rel="nofollow noreferrer">here</a>).</p>
<p>I guess this answer isn't practical, I'm just hoping to share a view of what the doctrine says about views. I think the classic view is that it's unwise to have any view of self at all -- and that &quot;I exist&quot; and &quot;I don't exist&quot; are both examples of self-views (see also <a href="https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/q/15898/254">How is it wrong to believe that a self exists, or that it doesn&#39;t?</a> for more).</p>
<p>As for &quot;nothing exists&quot; or &quot;no-one is really suffering&quot; there's quite a short Zen story on that subject which may be apposite:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>Nothing Exists</p>
<p>Yamaoka Tesshu, as a young student of Zen, visited one master after another. He called upon Dokuon of Shokoku.</p>
<p>Desiring to show his attainment, he said: “The mind, Buddha, and sentient beings, after all, do not exist. The true nature of phenomena is emptiness. There is no realization, no delusion, no sage, no mediocrity. There is no giving and nothing to be received.”</p>
<p>Dokuon, who was smoking quietly, said nothing. Suddenly he whacked Yamaoka with his bamboo pipe. This made the youth quite angry.</p>
<p>“If nothing exists,” inquired Dokuon, “where did this anger come from?”</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I think that this topic is important too -- <a href="https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/q/9415/254">How are &#39;conceit&#39; and &#39;identity-view&#39; not the same?</a></p>
 -1: <blockquote>
  <p>I have noticed in my meditation / mindfulness practice the following: as the idea of self dissolves, the ideas of compassion, happiness, sorrow, and basically everything that a "person" might experience also dissolve.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>There might be some misunderstanding and a lack of clearly seeing in your practice, because the 'emptier' you are (for lack of better words) the more compassion should arise towards other beings.</p>

<p>Somehow you seem to attach ideas of compassion, happiness and so on to a person. Why? Compassion and happiness exist naturally. Anatta means that they have their own causes and conditions. They are not bound to a 'you'.</p>

<p>With a correct way of understanding you should be able to see that compassion, happiness and sorrow don't dissolve but what changes is your attitude towards and the way you relate to nature and others.
Freedom will lead naturally to more compassion and happiness.</p>

<p>In short: please examine your ideas about how things should be, let go of any of those and just be with experience itself.</p>

<p>I suspect that you suppress emotions, maybe because you (wrongly) think they shouldn't be there since there is no self. But I can't know for sure of course, only you can figure that out.</p>
