user17744: In karniyametta sutta, Lord Buddha advised us to be relaxed and not to cling to the work.
How can I recognise relaxation from laziness ?

user17629: Well, if you can't recognize the difference it is laziness.
Relaxation is samadhi: the collection of mind around an object of meditation.
When we speak of conventional relaxation, what we really mean is letting the defilements do whatever they want to the mind. 

17744: <p>In karniyametta sutta, Lord Buddha advised us to be relaxed and not to cling to the work.</p>

<p>How can I recognise relaxation from laziness ?</p>
 17629: <p>Well, if you can't recognize the difference it is laziness.</p>

<p><strong>Relaxation is samadhi</strong>: the collection of mind around an object of meditation.</p>

<p>When we speak of conventional relaxation, what we really mean is letting the defilements do whatever they want to the mind. </p>
