user19047: I feel like I was born in the wrong place and I'm surrounded by wrong people, ideals etc. 
I'm very much into buddhism, but with all the things I learned until now, that I'm 23 in Germany, I feel like this life I have right now is not right for me. 
Since I grew up in Germany in a normal house etc, I can't imagine myself as a monk. But I can't also imagine myself living like I do at the moment. I'm torn between two worlds so to say. Also, I wouldn't know where to go or how to get there. If I should continue working as a developer which doesn't fulfill me since I'm not helping people. I feel lost in this world, and since this pandemic is going on all the Buddhist monasteries around me are closed. 
Well, maybe you have a few tips.
EDIT: Thank you for all your replies. I did always know that I was much better off than others. I also know there are a lot of people that would love to trade places with me and give up everything they have. That day when I wrote this I was in a despair and felt quite lost. I didn't want to offend anybody or make anyone mad. If I did I am truly sorry about it. Currently I am in a existencial/spiritual crisis since I had a completely different world view just a few months ago. Where all I cared about was money, girls, sex, cars, clothes etc. and I realized that all this stuff will not make me happy in any way. So my whole world view crumbled. Then I started feeling like an alien and also started thinking about my mortality etc.
Well to get to the point: I am sorry if I offended anybody and I truly know that I am lucky now. I am working on myself a lot these past months. Thank you all I appreciate it greatly. 

user19059: Being a developer is a huge blessing because it will one day allow you to practice for enlightenment. You need to eat too, so those skills are valuable for your meditation practice as they support you.
Think long term, make a life-plan. Don't try to rush things during the pandemic. Be patient. 
Think what the life you want is, then make a list of the steps necessary to achieve them. Then think what person you need to become, and make a list of all the new habits / abilities you need to cultivate in yourself! 
If you believe you will make it and help the world, and be happy, then eventually you will. Believe in yourself. 

user17553: Why do you worry about things over which you have no control? You should be thankful for what you have. I once saw a beggar with no limbs!! At least you are better off.
Under the circumstances no one is living an ideal life. In fact there is no ideal life. You have to make compromises unless you are a true monk. You should rejoice. Rejoice for having found Buddha.
Do not feel lost. Buddha has shown the way. If you do not wish to leave your mundane life then at least devote your life for the well being of others. Develop compassion. Have compassion for all beings in existence.

user-1: You can look at your work as being for the purpose of getting you the nutriment, which in turn is for sustaining your development, which is for the benefit of all beings.
It's difficult to detach from the company one keeps and the general happy go lucky attitude. For me it usually takes an extraordinary event, a crossing of a line of sorts.
One can live a more or less secluded life without being a monk.
Ordaining nowadays isn't all sunshine & rainbows, there are many factors to consider like finding people with similar understanding as yourself, this doesn't come into play much in the beginning but as you learn much, the range of what is agreeable gets narrowed down accordingly.
If you want to get away from some external influences, do as you see fit. Perhaps some place with next to no people and next to no noise would work just as good or even better than the average monastery. There you can study and try getting some special attainments.

user19076: A tree cannot choose where it is planted. If its seed falls on bare land it doesn't have the luxury of travel. But instead it raises its branches, drops its leaves on the soil, breates air into the world. In time that tree and all the other trees around it will be a forest and the land will be beautiful.
You are not in the wrong place. What you see lacking is what you can give the world, what you are missing, others will give to you. There is not only beauty to be found, but to be made and lived.
Now, this 37 year old software developer needs to get back to his dull job and planning his new business venture! ;)

user471: 
OP: I feel like I was born in the wrong place and I'm surrounded by wrong
  people, ideals etc.
I'm very much into buddhism, but with all the things I learned until
  now, that I'm 23 in Germany, I feel like this life I have right now is
  not right for me.

I'm not German, but I've stayed in Germany before, and worked for German employers for many years.
Not all, but many Germans tend to like to follow rules, ignore superstitions, appreciate work-life balance and tend to believe in something only after doing research on it.
These are very Buddhist qualities.
The precepts (five, eight, ten) are like rules. You find the Buddha rejecting superstitions in suttas (see this answer). Work-life balance can be seen in practices like the Uposatha vs. normal life. And believing in something after researching it can be found in the Kalama Sutta.

OP: Since I grew up in Germany in a normal house etc, I can't imagine myself as a monk.

That's not because you're German. That's because you do not have enough renunciation (nekhamma). There are quite a few famous German monks in history like Bhikkhus Nyanaponika, Nyanatiloka and Analayo.
Then again, it is not required for you to become a monk. You can simply be a lay Buddhist observing the five precepts, and study and practise Buddhism at your own pace.
Have you read the question "Can a Buddhist own and run a billion dollar business?"? There's nothing wrong in being a lay Buddhist. There's also nothing wrong with being wealthy or being a businessman, if you are.
Also from the Ittha Sutta:

Long life, beauty, status, honor,
  heaven, high birth:
  To those who delight
  in aspiring for these things
  in great measure, continuously,
  The wise praise heedfulness
  in making merit.
The wise person, heedful,
  acquires a two-fold welfare:
  welfare in this life &
  welfare in the next.
  By breaking through to his welfare
  he's called prudent, wise.

The above sutta has advice for lay people and shows them what they can aspire towards.

OP: But I can't also imagine myself living like I do at the moment. I'm
  torn between two worlds so to say. Also, I wouldn't know where to go
  or how to get there. If I should continue working as a developer which
  doesn't fulfill me since I'm not helping people.

I'm not a monk, but I can help people in other ways. For e.g. I'm trying to help you here, by writing this answer.
You can also find ways to use your skills as a developer to help Buddhism. For e.g. have you noticed that SuttaCentral's source code can be found on GitHub? See here.

OP: I feel lost in this world, and since this pandemic is going on all the
  Buddhist monasteries around me are closed.

What??? There are Buddhist monasteries which are open on YouTube.
You can attend Ajahn Brahm's dhamma talks and guided meditation sessions on the BSWA YouTube Channel. Here's a video of Ajahn Brahm conducting a five precepts taking ceremony. People send questions during his live YouTube talks. Now, with the pandemic, all of BSWA's sessions are exclusively online. BSWA is the Buddhist Society of Western Australia.
Here's Yuttadhammo Bhikkhu's YouTube channel. You can find his profile here. He has created a Digital Pali Reader and a similar Android Tipitaka app which are used by Pali scholars around the world. Here's another example of using your skills as a developer.
Here's an interesting talk for you by Yuttadhammo Bhikkhu: "Social Distancing and Buddhism".

user2282: 
I feel like I was born in the wrong place and I'm surrounded by wrong people, ideals etc.
I'm very much into buddhism, but with all the things I learned until now, that I'm 23 in Germany, I feel like this life I have right now is not right for me.

Look a bit deeper and you'll see it's quite the opposite. The fact that you were born in Germany, not Syria, Iraq, or other war-torn regions in the MiddleEast or Africa is evidence. Imagine how much more difficult it'd be to try to cultivate the Dhamma there amid all the killings, rapings, famines and diseases, talking about being in the wrong place! And since you're a developer (assuming software developer), you're among the blessed few who are able to gain access to 99.99% of all the Buddha's teaching online, something even the most learned scholars in the old days couldn't even dream about. So, recognizing the good merit you're having now, try to take advantage of it to cultivate moral virtues, practice meditation, and develop insight/wisdom while it lasts, for as you probably already knew about the Buddhist teaching of Anicca, nothing lasts forever. At the same time, try to help others thru volunteer work. Your software skill can help in countless ways to do countless positive useful things, use it!

19047: <p>I feel like I was born in the wrong place and I'm surrounded by wrong people, ideals etc. </p>

<p>I'm very much into buddhism, but with all the things I learned until now, that I'm 23 in Germany, I feel like this life I have right now is not right for me. </p>

<p>Since I grew up in Germany in a normal house etc, I can't imagine myself as a monk. But I can't also imagine myself living like I do at the moment. I'm torn between two worlds so to say. Also, I wouldn't know where to go or how to get there. If I should continue working as a developer which doesn't fulfill me since I'm not helping people. I feel lost in this world, and since this pandemic is going on all the Buddhist monasteries around me are closed. </p>

<p>Well, maybe you have a few tips.</p>

<p>EDIT: Thank you for all your replies. I did always know that I was much better off than others. I also know there are a lot of people that would love to trade places with me and give up everything they have. That day when I wrote this I was in a despair and felt quite lost. I didn't want to offend anybody or make anyone mad. If I did I am truly sorry about it. Currently I am in a existencial/spiritual crisis since I had a completely different world view just a few months ago. Where all I cared about was money, girls, sex, cars, clothes etc. and I realized that all this stuff will not make me happy in any way. So my whole world view crumbled. Then I started feeling like an alien and also started thinking about my mortality etc.</p>

<p>Well to get to the point: I am sorry if I offended anybody and I truly know that I am lucky now. I am working on myself a lot these past months. Thank you all I appreciate it greatly. </p>
 19059: <p>Being a developer is a huge blessing because it will one day allow you to practice for enlightenment. You need to eat too, so those skills are valuable for your meditation practice as they support you.</p>

<p>Think long term, make a life-plan. Don't try to rush things during the pandemic. Be patient. </p>

<p>Think what the life you want is, then make a list of the steps necessary to achieve them. Then think what person you need to become, and make a list of all the new habits / abilities you need to cultivate in yourself! </p>

<p>If you believe you will make it and help the world, and be happy, then eventually you will. Believe in yourself. </p>
 17553: <p>Why do you worry about things over which you have no control? You should be thankful for what you have. I once saw a beggar with no limbs!! At least you are better off.
Under the circumstances no one is living an ideal life. In fact there is no ideal life. You have to make compromises unless you are a true monk. You should rejoice. Rejoice for having found Buddha.
Do not feel lost. Buddha has shown the way. If you do not wish to leave your mundane life then at least devote your life for the well being of others. Develop compassion. Have compassion for all beings in existence.</p>
 -1: <p>You can look at your work as being for the purpose of getting you the nutriment, which in turn is for sustaining your development, which is for the benefit of all beings.</p>

<p>It's difficult to detach from the company one keeps and the general happy go lucky attitude. For me it usually takes an extraordinary event, a crossing of a line of sorts.</p>

<p>One can live a more or less secluded life without being a monk.</p>

<p>Ordaining nowadays isn't all sunshine &amp; rainbows, there are many factors to consider like finding people with similar understanding as yourself, this doesn't come into play much in the beginning but as you learn much, the range of what is agreeable gets narrowed down accordingly.</p>

<p>If you want to get away from some external influences, do as you see fit. Perhaps some place with next to no people and next to no noise would work just as good or even better than the average monastery. There you can study and try getting some special attainments.</p>
 19076: <p>A tree cannot choose where it is planted. If its seed falls on bare land it doesn't have the luxury of travel. But instead it raises its branches, drops its leaves on the soil, breates air into the world. In time that tree and all the other trees around it will be a forest and the land will be beautiful.</p>

<p>You are not in the wrong place. What you see lacking is what you can give the world, what you are missing, others will give to you. There is not only beauty to be found, but to be made and lived.</p>

<p>Now, this 37 year old software developer needs to get back to his dull job and planning his new business venture! ;)</p>
 471: <blockquote>
  <p><strong>OP:</strong> I feel like I was born in the wrong place and I'm surrounded by wrong
  people, ideals etc.</p>
  
  <p>I'm very much into buddhism, but with all the things I learned until
  now, that I'm 23 in Germany, I feel like this life I have right now is
  not right for me.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>I'm not German, but I've stayed in Germany before, and worked for German employers for many years.</p>

<p>Not all, but many Germans tend to <a href="http://www.bbc.com/travel/story/20200531-what-makes-germans-so-orderly" rel="nofollow noreferrer">like to follow rules</a>, ignore superstitions, appreciate work-life balance and tend to believe in something only after doing research on it.</p>

<p>These are very Buddhist qualities.</p>

<p>The precepts (<a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sila/pancasila.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">five</a>, <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sila/atthasila.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">eight</a>, <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sila/dasasila.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">ten</a>) are like rules. You find the Buddha rejecting superstitions in suttas (see <a href="https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/a/28297/471">this answer</a>). Work-life balance can be seen in practices like the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uposatha" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Uposatha</a> vs. normal life. And believing in something after researching it can be found in the <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an03/an03.065.than.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Kalama Sutta</a>.</p>

<blockquote>
  <p><strong>OP:</strong> Since I grew up in Germany in a normal house etc, I can't imagine myself as a monk.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>That's not because you're German. That's because you do not have enough renunciation (<em><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nekkhamma" rel="nofollow noreferrer">nekhamma</a></em>). There are quite a few famous <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:German_Buddhist_monks" rel="nofollow noreferrer">German monks</a> in history like Bhikkhus Nyanaponika, Nyanatiloka and Analayo.</p>

<p>Then again, it is not required for you to become a monk. You can simply be a lay Buddhist observing the five precepts, and study and practise Buddhism at your own pace.</p>

<p>Have you read the question "<a href="https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/q/22800/471">Can a Buddhist own and run a billion dollar business?</a>"? There's nothing wrong in being a lay Buddhist. There's also nothing wrong with being wealthy or being a businessman, if you are.</p>

<p>Also from the <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an05/an05.043.than.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Ittha Sutta</a>:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>Long life, beauty, status, honor,<br>
  heaven, high birth:<br>
  To those who delight<br>
  in aspiring for these things<br>
  in great measure, continuously,<br>
  The wise praise heedfulness<br>
  in making merit.</p>
  
  <p>The wise person, heedful,<br>
  acquires a two-fold welfare:<br>
  welfare in this life &amp;<br>
  welfare in the next.<br>
  By breaking through to his welfare<br>
  he's called prudent, wise.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>The above sutta has advice for lay people and shows them what they can aspire towards.</p>

<blockquote>
  <p><strong>OP:</strong> But I can't also imagine myself living like I do at the moment. I'm
  torn between two worlds so to say. Also, I wouldn't know where to go
  or how to get there. If I should continue working as a developer which
  doesn't fulfill me since I'm not helping people.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>I'm not a monk, but I can help people in other ways. For e.g. I'm trying to help you here, by writing this answer.</p>

<p>You can also find ways to use your skills as a developer to help Buddhism. For e.g. have you noticed that <a href="https://suttacentral.net/" rel="nofollow noreferrer">SuttaCentral</a>'s source code can be found on GitHub? See <a href="https://github.com/suttacentral/suttacentral" rel="nofollow noreferrer">here</a>.</p>

<blockquote>
  <p><strong>OP:</strong> I feel lost in this world, and since this pandemic is going on all the
  Buddhist monasteries around me are closed.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>What??? There are Buddhist monasteries which are open on YouTube.</p>

<p>You can attend <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ajahn_Brahm" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Ajahn Brahm</a>'s dhamma talks and guided meditation sessions on the <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/BuddhistSocietyWA" rel="nofollow noreferrer">BSWA YouTube Channel</a>. <a href="https://youtu.be/N1bC3a2oI5Q" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Here's a video</a> of Ajahn Brahm conducting a five precepts taking ceremony. People send questions during his live YouTube talks. Now, with the pandemic, all of BSWA's sessions are exclusively online. BSWA is the Buddhist Society of Western Australia.</p>

<p>Here's <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/yuttadhammo" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Yuttadhammo Bhikkhu's YouTube channel</a>. You can find his profile <a href="https://www.sirimangalo.org/biography-of-ven-yuttadhammo-bhikkhu/" rel="nofollow noreferrer">here</a>. He has created a <a href="http://pali.sirimangalo.org/" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Digital Pali Reader</a> and a similar <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.yuttadhammo.tipitaka" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Android Tipitaka</a> app which are used by Pali scholars around the world. Here's another example of using your skills as a developer.</p>

<p>Here's an interesting talk for you by Yuttadhammo Bhikkhu: "<a href="https://youtu.be/721c9OUHEVI" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Social Distancing and Buddhism</a>".</p>
 2282: <blockquote>
<p>I feel like I was born in the wrong place and I'm surrounded by wrong people, ideals etc.</p>
<p>I'm very much into buddhism, but with all the things I learned until now, that I'm 23 in Germany, I feel like this life I have right now is not right for me.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Look a bit deeper and you'll see it's quite the opposite. The fact that you were born in Germany, not Syria, Iraq, or other war-torn regions in the MiddleEast or Africa is evidence. Imagine how much more difficult it'd be to try to cultivate the Dhamma there amid all the killings, rapings, famines and diseases, talking about being in the wrong place! And since you're a developer (assuming software developer), you're among the blessed few who are able to gain access to 99.99% of all the Buddha's teaching online, something even the most learned scholars in the old days couldn't even dream about. So, recognizing the good merit you're having now, try to take advantage of it to cultivate moral virtues, practice meditation, and develop insight/wisdom while it lasts, for as you probably already knew about the Buddhist teaching of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impermanence#Buddhism" rel="noreferrer">Anicca</a>, nothing lasts forever. At the same time, try to help others thru volunteer work. Your software skill can help in countless ways to do countless positive useful things, use it!</p>
