user23541: Regarding reincarnation, I have a few questions:

Unfortunately, because of a big mistake and peoples' interference, I lost the love of my life to another woman almost 30 years ago, but still love him deeply. He's moved on. But I am stuck and can't stop thinking about him  every single day of my life. Can I be finally united with him in my next life?
Will my parents be the same in my next life?
I don't like to study too much in this life. Can I be what I dream of being in my next life? I would love to be a doctor, to be part of Médecins sans frontièrs and cure people for free, but in this life I didn't succeed in doing so, as my IQ was not perfect in many fields of study.
I appreciate your answer.
-Farah


user471: Yes! You may be reborn in such a way that you can stay together with your life partner in future lives, if you both are in tune in conviction, virtue, generosity and discernment (wisdom).

And Nakula's mother said to the Blessed One: "Lord, ever since I as a
young girl was brought to Nakula's father [to be his wife] when he was
just a young boy, I am not conscious of being unfaithful to him even
in mind, much less in body. We want to see one another not only in the
present life but also in the life to come."
[The Blessed One said:] "If both husband & wife want to see one
another not only in the present life but also in the life to come,
they should be in tune [with each other] in conviction, in tune in
virtue, in tune in generosity, and in tune in discernment. Then they
will see one another not only in the present life but also in the life
to come."
AN 4.55


23541: <p>Regarding reincarnation, I have a few questions:</p>
<ol>
<li>Unfortunately, because of a big mistake and peoples' interference, I lost the love of my life to another woman almost 30 years ago, but still love him deeply. He's moved on. But I am stuck and can't stop thinking about him  every single day of my life. Can I be finally united with him in my next life?</li>
<li>Will my parents be the same in my next life?</li>
<li>I don't like to study too much in this life. Can I be what I dream of being in my next life? I would love to be a doctor, to be part of <em>Médecins sans frontièrs</em> and cure people for free, but in this life I didn't succeed in doing so, as my IQ was not perfect in many fields of study.
I appreciate your answer.
-Farah</li>
</ol>
 471: <p>Yes! You may be <a href="https://buddhism.stackexchange.com/a/45337/471">reborn</a> in such a way that you can stay together with your life partner in future lives, if you both are in tune in conviction, virtue, generosity and discernment (wisdom).</p>
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<p>And Nakula's mother said to the Blessed One: &quot;Lord, ever since I as a
young girl was brought to Nakula's father [to be his wife] when he was
just a young boy, I am not conscious of being unfaithful to him even
in mind, much less in body. We want to see one another not only in the
present life but also in the life to come.&quot;</p>
<p>[The Blessed One said:] &quot;If both husband &amp; wife want to see one
another not only in the present life but also in the life to come,
they should be in tune [with each other] in conviction, in tune in
virtue, in tune in generosity, and in tune in discernment. Then they
will see one another not only in the present life but also in the life
to come.&quot;<br />
<a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an04/an04.055.than.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">AN 4.55</a></p>
</blockquote>
