user20623: I'm looking for a quote by Pema Chodron. In my memory, she's having a discussion with a Zen master, and the quote goes something like this;
Pema: "what do you do when things fall apart?"
Zen Master: "I stay"
I seem to remember it being in her book When Things Fall Apart, but I searched it for the word 'stay' and I couldn't find this anywhere.
Does anybody recognise where it comes from? Maybe it's from a video or an audio recording of an interview with her? Maybe it exists only in the recesses of my memory?

user20623: Here is the quote I was looking for last year,

I once asked the Zen master Kobun Chino Roshi how he related with fear, and he said, "I agree. I agree."

It is on page 9 of my copy, which is a 2005 edition printed on the Element imprint of HarperCollins.

20623: <p>I'm looking for a quote by Pema Chodron. In my memory, she's having a discussion with a Zen master, and the quote goes something like this;</p>
<p>Pema: &quot;what do you do when things fall apart?&quot;</p>
<p>Zen Master: &quot;I stay&quot;</p>
<p>I seem to remember it being in her book When Things Fall Apart, but I searched it for the word 'stay' and I couldn't find this anywhere.</p>
<p>Does anybody recognise where it comes from? Maybe it's from a video or an audio recording of an interview with her? Maybe it exists only in the recesses of my memory?</p>
 20623: <p>Here is the quote I was looking for last year,</p>
<blockquote>
<p>I once asked the Zen master Kobun Chino Roshi how he related with fear, and he said, &quot;I agree. I agree.&quot;</p>
</blockquote>
<p>It is on page 9 of my copy, which is a 2005 edition printed on the Element imprint of HarperCollins.</p>
