user12056: I don't know how many Buddhists actually reckon with loneliness and the (very real) suffering associated with it. 
It seems to me that a lot of Buddhist teachings emphasize on the value of solitude and deem intimate/personal relationships to be unwholesome karma, which ought to be readily forsaken. 
So what should an aspiring Buddhist do if he/she feels perpetually alone, constantly challenged with the near-impossible task of building deep, trusting and long-lasting relationships that are emotionally nourishing and fulfilling? 
Should he/she simply forget about such worldly pursuits and learn to live the life of a recluse in a good forest monastery? Or try to do something about this somewhat-unbearable State of Being? If the latter, what can the Dharma teach us about forging human connections that are increasingly loving, kind and deeply meaningful? 

Some Afterthought:
From the Samana Johnann's comment and some of the answers below, it does show that Buddhism tend not to view Loneliness as a problem per se. 
We do need friends (and Teachers!) to provide consistent spiritual support in each of our paths towards Enlightenment, though. (And people who are lonely often find it hard to express and/or address their need in this respect.) 
Also, it is natural for humans, as social beings, to yearn for social bonding and some level of intimacy. 
I know many seasoned Yogi(ni)s can attest to the fact that one can be perfectly equanimous being alone in a meditative state. 
But are we missing out on something? 

user-1: This seems like a two-folded question to me.
People who experience difficulties in relationship to other people can learn to break out of it, how difficult it may seem. It is a type of training where buddhism can help to a certain degree. However, there are a lot of situations in our modern lives, that calls for - shall we say - modern skill building, in addition to buddhist practice.
Dealing with the pain associated with the above is - on the other hand - very much a topic to be dealt with the scope of buddhism. It is likely open to interpretation, but loneliness could arguably be described in different ways, dependent on the situation: 
Loneliness could be seen as painful in and of itself (dukkha dukkha). It is not a misconception that loneliness hurts, just as there is no misconception that a knife wound hurts, and therefore it is not necessarily caused by avijja. In this case, we may only be able to deal with the pain by stilling it temporarily through samatha in our worst moments. 
It is also a situation that calls for other interventions to break out of loneliness, just like a knife wound requires going to an ER. Generally speaking, it could mean the developing of new habits for activation, establishing contact with others, or developing social skills for those who need it. These are examples of skillbuilding outside the scope of buddhism, and i don't believe it would be helpful to simply dismiss the above as tanha/upadana. Buddhism has never been about subjecting ourselves to unnecessary suffering, provided that we can prevent it.
However, loneliness could also make us feel unsatisfied because we cling to involuntary false assumptions regarding ourselves and relationships (attavadupadana). For instance, a person who lacks the relationship he/she believes he/she deserves or needs. This is a trickier situation, since it is conditioned by avijja, tanha or upadana to a greater degree than the previous example. 
Using another strictly hypothetical example, if we feel unsatisfied by our loneliness because we have a strong belief that every person on the planet must like us, or that we are fundamentally impossible to be appreciated by others, it becomes another examples created by attavadupadana. 
Another hypothetical example: if we believe that a happy life can only be lived with no loneliness at all, we are bound to be unhappy as soon as we aren't surrounding ourselves with people at every price (vibhavatanha). 
These are some examples where one could benefit from buddhist insights regarding unhealthy expectations, desire or clinging, and consequently practicing nekkhamma for renunciating unbeneficial assumptions.
These are complicated issues, and dealing with them requires more than the Q&A format here. Also, these things doesn't rule each other out, and a way to less suffering could possibly consist of a combination of several things.
Please bear in mind that there are a lot of people struggling with this, and not everyone is willing to openly admit it. To me, the latter is a rather big step in a new direction, hopefully to a less painful life.

user471: Is companionship valued in Buddhism?
Yes, but only noble companionship. It's not just half of the holy life, but it is the entire holy life i.e. the journey to enlightenment.
From SN 45.2:

Then the Venerable Ānanda approached the Blessed One. Having
  approached, he paid homage to the Blessed One, sat down to one side,
  and said to him:
“Venerable sir, this is half of the holy life, that is, good
  friendship, good companionship, good comradeship.”
“Not so, Ānanda! Not so, Ānanda! This is the entire holy life, Ānanda,
  that is, good friendship, good companionship, good comradeship. When a
  bhikkhu has a good friend, a good companion, a good comrade, it is to
  be expected that he will develop and cultivate the Noble Eightfold
  Path.
“And how, Ānanda, does a bhikkhu who has a good friend, a good
  companion, a good comrade, develop and cultivate the Noble Eightfold
  Path? Here, Ānanda, a bhikkhu develops right view, which is based upon
  seclusion, dispassion, and cessation, maturing in release. He develops
  right intention … right speech … right action … right livelihood …
  right effort … right mindfulness … right concentration, which is based
  upon seclusion, dispassion, and cessation, maturing in release. It is
  in this way, Ānanda, that a bhikkhu who has a good friend, a good
  companion, a good comrade, develops and cultivates the Noble Eightfold
  Path.

Furthermore, you should choose your friends carefully according to AN 7.36:

A friend gives what is hard to give,
  and does what’s hard to do.
  They put up with your harsh words,
  and with things hard to endure.
They tell you their secrets,
  and keep your secrets for you.
  They don’t abandon you in times of trouble,
  or look down on you in times of loss.
The person in whom
  these things are found is your friend.
  If you want to have a friend,
  you should keep company with such a person.” 

And AN 7.37:

They’re lovable, respected, and admired,
  an admonisher who accepts admonishment,
  speaks on deep matters,
  and doesn’t urge you to do bad.
The person in whom
  these things are found is your friend.
  If you want to have a friend,
  benevolent and compassionate,
  you should keep company with such a person,
  even if they send you away.” 

On seclusion and pursuing the holy life alone, the famous sutta is the Rhinoceros Sutta (Sutta Nipata 1.3) which I quote below.
All of the following apply only to those who choose the monastic life. It's not necessary for lay Buddhists.
It tells to go forth alone (as a monk) fleeing ignoble companions:

In the midst of companions
  — when staying at home,
  when going out wandering —
  you are prey to requests.
  Valuing the freedom
  wander alone like a rhinoceros.
There is sporting (flirting) & love
  in the midst of companions,
  & abundant fondness for offspring.
  (While) feeling disgust
  at the prospect of parting
  from those who'd be dear,
  wander alone like a rhinoceros.
People follow & associate for a motive.
  Friends without a motive these days are rare.
  They're shrewd for their own ends, & impure.
  Wander alone like a rhinoceros.

However, it praises the company of noble companions and if there are none, better go alone:

If you gain a mature companion,
  a fellow traveler, right-living & wise,
  overcoming all dangers
  go with him, gratified, mindful.
If you don't gain a mature companion,
  a fellow traveler, right-living & wise,
  wander alone
  like a king renouncing his kingdom,
  like the elephant in the Matanga wilds,
  his herd.
We praise companionship — yes!
  Those on a par, or better,
  should be chosen as friends.
  If they're not to be found,
  living faultlessly,
  wander alone like a rhinoceros.

Sometimes the monks wandering alone in the forest become lonely, and they need to be reminded, as we see in SN 9.9 below.

On one occasion a certain monk, a Vajjian princeling, was dwelling
  near Vesali in a forest thicket. And on that occasion an all-night
  festival was being held in Vesali. The monk — lamenting as he heard
  the resounding din of wind music, string music, & gongs coming from
  Vesali, on that occasion recited this verse:

I live in the wilderness
    all alone
    like a log cast away in the forest.
    On a night like this,
    who could there be
    more miserable than me?

Then the devata inhabiting the forest thicket, feeling sympathy for
  the monk, desiring his benefit, desiring to bring him to his senses,
  approached him and addressed him with this verse:

As you live in the wilderness all alone
    like a log cast away in the forest,
    many are those who envy you,
    as hell-beings do,
    those headed for heaven.

The monk, chastened by the devata, came to his senses.


user-1: Here on the notion of solitude in Pali texts;

All the directions are obscure,
  The teachings are not clear to me;
  With our benevolent friend gone,
  It seems as if all is darkness.

For one whose friend has passed away,
  One whose teacher is gone for good,
  There is no friend that can compare
  With mindfulness of the body.
The old ones have all passed away;
  I do not fit in with the new.
  And so today I muse alone
  Like a bird who has gone to roost. (Ven Ananda's gatha)

Ananda, a monk does not shine if he delights in company, enjoys company, is committed to delighting in company; if he delights in a group, enjoys a group, rejoices in a group. Indeed, Ananda, it is impossible that a monk who delights in company, enjoys company, is committed to delighting in company; who delights in a group, enjoys a group, rejoices in a group, will obtain at will — without difficulty, without trouble — the pleasure of renunciation, the pleasure of seclusion, the pleasure of peace, the pleasure of self-awakening. But it is possible that a monk who lives alone, withdrawn from the group, can expect to obtain at will — without difficulty, without trouble — the pleasure of renunciation, the pleasure of seclusion, the pleasure of peace, the pleasure of self-awakening. (https://zugangzureinsicht.org/html/tipitaka/mn/mn.122.than_en.html)
...the Blessed One said to him, "Is it true, Elder, that you live alone and extol the virtues of living alone?"
"Yes, lord."
"But how do you live alone and extol the virtues of living alone?"
"Lord, alone I enter the village for alms, alone I return, alone I sit withdrawn [in meditation], alone I do walking meditation. That is how I live alone and extol the virtues of living alone."
"There is that way of living alone, Elder. I don't say that there isn't. Still, listen well to how your living alone is perfected in its details, and pay close attention. I will speak."
"As you say, lord," Ven. Elder responded.
The Blessed One said: "And how is living alone perfected in its details? There is the case where whatever is past is abandoned, whatever is future is relinquished, and any passion & desire with regard to states of being attained in the present is well subdued.[2] That is how living alone is perfected in its details." https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/sn/sn21/sn21.010.than.html#fn-1

These are relevant to the question and afaik have not been recited in the other answers. So i post to complement the other good answers which are based on texts known as true.

user19059: Loneliness is not being alone. You have yourself, and that is the best company in existence.
You just have to become familiar with yourself, your mind without following anything, without grasping at anything, in a state of pure non-action. Leave everything as it is, and allow your true self to arise with splendor. 

user13709: Overall, the Buddha says:

MN128:6.30: If you find an alert companion,  a wise and virtuous friend, then, overcoming all challenges, wander with them, joyful and mindful. If you find no alert companion, no wise and virtuous friend, then, like a king who flees his conquered realm, wander alone like a tusker in the wilds.

Rarely do we have to "wander alone like a tusker in the wilds." Spiritual friends often enter our lives when we take the time to recognize them as such.
But the above advice works best for those committed to and firmly on the path. For others struggling with day to day issues it's more challenging given the need to maintain relationships to simply survive. Surrounded by materialistic pursuits and people, alienation and loneliness can overwhelm. If sangha and/or teacher are not available to you locally or even online, then you may very well be a "tusker in the wild."
To build deep, trusting and long-lasting relationships requires ethics. On the path we practice ethics, immersion and wisdom. Ethics define our relationships with others. When we behave ethically, others trust us and relationships grow.
Ethics is surprisingly complicated. In MN8, the Buddha declares forty-four (44!) things to attend to. The list starts with:

MN8:12.2: ‘Others will be cruel, but here we will not be cruel.’

Indeed, for this online age, the following seem quite appropriate:

MN8:12.8: ‘Others will speak harshly, but here we will not speak harshly.’
MN8:12.9: ‘Others will talk nonsense, but here we will not talk nonsense.’
MN8:12.10: ‘Others will be covetous, but here we will not be covetous.’

There are a lot more in that sutta. I read it regularly to refresh my perspective. Perhaps that may help you as well.

12056: <p>I don't know how many Buddhists actually reckon with loneliness and the (very real) suffering associated with it. </p>

<p>It seems to me that a lot of Buddhist teachings emphasize on the value of solitude and deem intimate/personal relationships to be unwholesome karma, which ought to be readily forsaken. </p>

<p>So what should an aspiring Buddhist do if he/she feels perpetually alone, constantly challenged with the near-impossible task of building deep, trusting and long-lasting relationships that are emotionally nourishing and fulfilling? </p>

<p>Should he/she simply forget about such worldly pursuits and learn to live the life of a recluse in a good forest monastery? Or try to do something about this somewhat-unbearable State of Being? If the latter, what can the Dharma teach us about forging human connections that are increasingly loving, kind and deeply meaningful? </p>

<hr>

<h1>Some Afterthought:</h1>

<p>From the Samana Johnann's comment and some of the answers below, it does show that Buddhism tend not to view Loneliness as a <em>problem</em> per se. </p>

<p>We <em>do</em> need friends (and Teachers!) to provide consistent spiritual support in each of our paths towards Enlightenment, though. (And people who are lonely often find it hard to express and/or address their need in this respect.) </p>

<p>Also, it is natural for humans, as social beings, to yearn for social bonding and some level of intimacy. </p>

<p>I know many seasoned Yogi(ni)s can attest to the fact that one can be perfectly equanimous being alone in a meditative state. </p>

<p>But are we missing out on something? </p>
 -1: <p>This seems like a two-folded question to me.</p>

<p>People who experience difficulties in relationship to other people can learn to break out of it, how difficult it may seem. It is a type of training where buddhism can help to a certain degree. However, there are a lot of situations in our modern lives, that calls for - shall we say - modern skill building, in addition to buddhist practice.</p>

<p>Dealing with the pain associated with the above is - on the other hand - very much a topic to be dealt with the scope of buddhism. It is likely open to interpretation, but loneliness could arguably be described in different ways, dependent on the situation: </p>

<p>Loneliness could be seen as painful in and of itself (dukkha dukkha). It is not a misconception that loneliness hurts, just as there is no misconception that a knife wound hurts, and therefore it is not necessarily caused by avijja. In this case, we may only be able to deal with the pain by stilling it temporarily through samatha in our worst moments. </p>

<p>It is also a situation that calls for other interventions to break out of loneliness, just like a knife wound requires going to an ER. Generally speaking, it could mean the developing of new habits for activation, establishing contact with others, or developing social skills for those who need it. These are examples of skillbuilding outside the scope of buddhism, and i don't believe it would be helpful to simply dismiss the above as tanha/upadana. Buddhism has never been about subjecting ourselves to <em>unnecessary</em> suffering, provided that we can prevent it.</p>

<p>However, loneliness could also make us feel unsatisfied because we cling to involuntary false assumptions regarding ourselves and relationships (attavadupadana). For instance, a person who lacks the relationship he/she believes he/she <em>deserves or needs</em>. This is a trickier situation, since it is conditioned by avijja, tanha or upadana to a greater degree than the previous example. </p>

<p>Using another strictly hypothetical example, if we feel unsatisfied by our loneliness because we have a strong belief that every person on the planet must like us, or that we are fundamentally impossible to be appreciated by others, it becomes another examples created by attavadupadana. </p>

<p>Another hypothetical example: if we believe that a happy life can only be lived with no loneliness at all, we are bound to be unhappy as soon as we aren't surrounding ourselves with people at every price (vibhavatanha). </p>

<p>These are some examples where one could benefit from buddhist insights regarding unhealthy expectations, desire or clinging, and consequently practicing nekkhamma for renunciating unbeneficial assumptions.</p>

<p>These are complicated issues, and dealing with them requires more than the Q&amp;A format here. Also, these things doesn't rule each other out, and a way to less suffering could possibly consist of a combination of several things.</p>

<p>Please bear in mind that there are a lot of people struggling with this, and not everyone is willing to openly admit it. To me, the latter is a rather big step in a new direction, hopefully to a less painful life.</p>
 471: <p>Is companionship valued in Buddhism?</p>

<p>Yes, but only noble companionship. It's not just half of the holy life, but it is the entire holy life i.e. the journey to enlightenment.</p>

<p>From <a href="https://suttacentral.net/sn45.2/en/bodhi" rel="nofollow noreferrer">SN 45.2</a>:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>Then the Venerable Ānanda approached the Blessed One. Having
  approached, he paid homage to the Blessed One, sat down to one side,
  and said to him:</p>
  
  <p>“Venerable sir, this is half of the holy life, that is, good
  friendship, good companionship, good comradeship.”</p>
  
  <p>“Not so, Ānanda! Not so, Ānanda! <strong>This is the entire holy life, Ānanda,
  that is, good friendship, good companionship, good comradeship.</strong> When a
  bhikkhu has a good friend, a good companion, a good comrade, it is to
  be expected that he will develop and cultivate the Noble Eightfold
  Path.</p>
  
  <p>“And how, Ānanda, does a bhikkhu who has a good friend, a good
  companion, a good comrade, develop and cultivate the Noble Eightfold
  Path? Here, Ānanda, a bhikkhu develops right view, which is based upon
  seclusion, dispassion, and cessation, maturing in release. He develops
  right intention … right speech … right action … right livelihood …
  right effort … right mindfulness … right concentration, which is based
  upon seclusion, dispassion, and cessation, maturing in release. It is
  in this way, Ānanda, that a bhikkhu who has a good friend, a good
  companion, a good comrade, develops and cultivates the Noble Eightfold
  Path.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>Furthermore, you should choose your friends carefully according to <a href="https://suttacentral.net/an7.36/en/sujato" rel="nofollow noreferrer">AN 7.36</a>:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>A friend gives what is hard to give,<br>
  and does what’s hard to do.<br>
  They put up with your harsh words,<br>
  and with things hard to endure.</p>
  
  <p>They tell you their secrets,<br>
  and keep your secrets for you.<br>
  They don’t abandon you in times of trouble,<br>
  or look down on you in times of loss.</p>
  
  <p>The person in whom<br>
  these things are found is your friend.<br>
  If you want to have a friend,<br>
  you should keep company with such a person.” </p>
</blockquote>

<p>And <a href="https://suttacentral.net/an7.37/en/sujato" rel="nofollow noreferrer">AN 7.37</a>:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>They’re lovable, respected, and admired,<br>
  an admonisher who accepts admonishment,<br>
  speaks on deep matters,<br>
  and doesn’t urge you to do bad.</p>
  
  <p>The person in whom<br>
  these things are found is your friend.<br>
  If you want to have a friend,<br>
  benevolent and compassionate,<br>
  you should keep company with such a person,<br>
  even if they send you away.” </p>
</blockquote>

<p>On seclusion and pursuing the holy life alone, the famous sutta is the <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/kn/snp/snp.1.03.than.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">Rhinoceros Sutta (Sutta Nipata 1.3)</a> which I quote below.</p>

<p>All of the following apply only to those who choose the monastic life. It's not necessary for lay Buddhists.</p>

<p>It tells to go forth alone (as a monk) fleeing ignoble companions:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>In the midst of companions<br>
  — when staying at home,<br>
  when going out wandering —<br>
  you are prey to requests.<br>
  Valuing the freedom<br>
  wander alone like a rhinoceros.</p>
  
  <p>There is sporting (flirting) &amp; love<br>
  in the midst of companions,<br>
  &amp; abundant fondness for offspring.<br>
  (While) feeling disgust<br>
  at the prospect of parting<br>
  from those who'd be dear,<br>
  wander alone like a rhinoceros.</p>
  
  <p>People follow &amp; associate for a motive.<br>
  Friends without a motive these days are rare.<br>
  They're shrewd for their own ends, &amp; impure.<br>
  Wander alone like a rhinoceros.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>However, it praises the company of noble companions and if there are none, better go alone:</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>If you gain a mature companion,<br>
  a fellow traveler, right-living &amp; wise,<br>
  overcoming all dangers<br>
  go with him, gratified, mindful.</p>
  
  <p>If you don't gain a mature companion,<br>
  a fellow traveler, right-living &amp; wise,<br>
  wander alone<br>
  like a king renouncing his kingdom,<br>
  like the elephant in the Matanga wilds,<br>
  his herd.</p>
  
  <p>We praise companionship — yes!<br>
  Those on a par, or better,<br>
  should be chosen as friends.<br>
  If they're not to be found,<br>
  living faultlessly,<br>
  wander alone like a rhinoceros.</p>
</blockquote>

<p>Sometimes the monks wandering alone in the forest become lonely, and they need to be reminded, as we see in <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/sn/sn09/sn09.009.than.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">SN 9.9</a> below.</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>On one occasion a certain monk, a Vajjian princeling, was dwelling
  near Vesali in a forest thicket. And on that occasion an all-night
  festival was being held in Vesali. The monk — lamenting as he heard
  the resounding din of wind music, string music, &amp; gongs coming from
  Vesali, on that occasion recited this verse:</p>
  
  <blockquote>
    <p>I live in the wilderness<br>
    all alone<br>
    like a log cast away in the forest.<br>
    On a night like this,<br>
    who could there be<br>
    more miserable than me?</p>
  </blockquote>
  
  <p>Then the devata inhabiting the forest thicket, feeling sympathy for
  the monk, desiring his benefit, desiring to bring him to his senses,
  approached him and addressed him with this verse:</p>
  
  <blockquote>
    <p>As you live in the wilderness all alone<br>
    like a log cast away in the forest,<br>
    many are those who envy you,<br>
    as hell-beings do,<br>
    those headed for heaven.</p>
  </blockquote>
  
  <p>The monk, chastened by the devata, came to his senses.</p>
</blockquote>
 -1: <p>Here on the notion of solitude in Pali texts;</p>

<blockquote>
  <p>All the directions are obscure,
  The teachings are not clear to me;
  With our benevolent friend gone,
  It seems as if all is darkness.</p>
  
  <ol start="1035">
  <li><p>For one whose friend has passed away,
  One whose teacher is gone for good,
  There is no friend that can compare
  With mindfulness of the body.</p></li>
  <li><p>The old ones have all passed away;
  I do not fit in with the new.
  And so today I muse alone
  Like a bird who has gone to roost. (Ven Ananda's gatha)</p></li>
  </ol>
  
  <p>Ananda, a monk does not shine if he delights in company, enjoys company, is committed to delighting in company; if he delights in a group, enjoys a group, rejoices in a group. Indeed, Ananda, it is impossible that a monk who delights in company, enjoys company, is committed to delighting in company; who delights in a group, enjoys a group, rejoices in a group, will obtain at will — without difficulty, without trouble — the pleasure of renunciation, the pleasure of seclusion, the pleasure of peace, the pleasure of self-awakening. But it is possible that a monk who lives alone, withdrawn from the group, can expect to obtain at will — without difficulty, without trouble — the pleasure of renunciation, the pleasure of seclusion, the pleasure of peace, the pleasure of self-awakening. (<a href="https://zugangzureinsicht.org/html/tipitaka/mn/mn.122.than_en.html" rel="nofollow noreferrer">https://zugangzureinsicht.org/html/tipitaka/mn/mn.122.than_en.html</a>)</p>
  
  <p>...the Blessed One said to him, "Is it true, Elder, that you live alone and extol the virtues of living alone?"</p>
  
  <p>"Yes, lord."</p>
  
  <p>"But how do you live alone and extol the virtues of living alone?"</p>
  
  <p>"Lord, alone I enter the village for alms, alone I return, alone I sit withdrawn [in meditation], alone I do walking meditation. That is how I live alone and extol the virtues of living alone."</p>
  
  <p>"There is that way of living alone, Elder. I don't say that there isn't. Still, listen well to how your living alone is perfected in its details, and pay close attention. I will speak."</p>
  
  <p>"As you say, lord," Ven. Elder responded.</p>
  
  <p>The Blessed One said: "And how is living alone perfected in its details? There is the case where whatever is past is abandoned, whatever is future is relinquished, and any passion &amp; desire with regard to states of being attained in the present is well subdued.[2] That is how living alone is perfected in its details." <a href="https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/sn/sn21/sn21.010.than.html#fn-1" rel="nofollow noreferrer">https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/sn/sn21/sn21.010.than.html#fn-1</a></p>
</blockquote>

<p>These are relevant to the question and afaik have not been recited in the other answers. So i post to complement the other good answers which are based on texts known as true.</p>
 19059: <p>Loneliness is not being alone. You have yourself, and that is the best company in existence.</p>

<p>You just have to become familiar with yourself, your mind without following anything, without grasping at anything, in a state of pure non-action. Leave everything as it is, and allow your true self to arise with splendor. </p>
 13709: <p>Overall, the Buddha says:</p>
<blockquote>
<p><a href="https://suttacentral.net/mn128/en/sujato#mn128:6.30" rel="nofollow noreferrer">MN128:6.30</a>: If you find an alert companion,  a wise and virtuous friend, then, overcoming all challenges, wander with them, joyful and mindful. If you find no alert companion, no wise and virtuous friend, then, like a king who flees his conquered realm, wander alone like a tusker in the wilds.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Rarely do we have to &quot;wander alone like a tusker in the wilds.&quot; Spiritual friends often enter our lives when we take the time to recognize them as such.</p>
<p>But the above advice works best for those committed to and firmly on the path. For others struggling with day to day issues it's more challenging given the need to maintain relationships to simply survive. Surrounded by materialistic pursuits and people, alienation and loneliness can overwhelm. If sangha and/or teacher are not available to you locally or even online, then you may very well be a &quot;tusker in the wild.&quot;</p>
<p>To build deep, trusting and long-lasting relationships requires ethics. On the path we practice ethics, immersion and wisdom. Ethics define our relationships with others. When we behave ethically, others trust us and relationships grow.</p>
<p>Ethics is surprisingly complicated. In MN8, the Buddha declares forty-four (44!) things to attend to. The list starts with:</p>
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<p><a href="https://suttacentral.net/mn8/en/sujato#mn8:12.2" rel="nofollow noreferrer">MN8:12.2</a>: ‘Others will be cruel, but here we will not be cruel.’</p>
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<p>Indeed, for this online age, the following seem quite appropriate:</p>
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<p><a href="https://suttacentral.net/mn8/en/sujato#mn8:12.8" rel="nofollow noreferrer">MN8:12.8</a>: ‘Others will speak harshly, but here we will not speak harshly.’</p>
<p><a href="https://suttacentral.net/mn8/en/sujato#mn8:12.9" rel="nofollow noreferrer">MN8:12.9</a>: ‘Others will talk nonsense, but here we will not talk nonsense.’</p>
<p><a href="https://suttacentral.net/mn8/en/sujato#mn8:12.10" rel="nofollow noreferrer">MN8:12.10</a>: ‘Others will be covetous, but here we will not be covetous.’</p>
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<p>There are a lot more in that sutta. I read it regularly to refresh my perspective. Perhaps that may help you as well.</p>
