my girlfriend and i had an argument this afternoon , while she 's about to go away to see relatives for a week . it 's kind of a bummer because we do n't really communicate that well , especially when it comes to arguments . it usually devolves into us rather not talking instead of trying to fully speak out our issues . i am sorry , i guess some friends just argue like that yeah , which is fine if we were just friends , but we 're significant others and we plan to get married , so it 's kind of worrisome that after years being together that we 're not better at communicating , or at least working through an argument . it 's hard for us to put aside our personal feelings and be objective , but only when it 's with one another , for some reason . i am sure you guys will make up
The inability to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts with their significant other caused the feeling of sadness.