i had the worst and busiest day at work yesterday , and when i came home my house was a mess because my wife decided she didnt want to do anything that day . maybe she was tired or something . do n't make her feel bad , just encourage her ! i know its so hard though after you have had such a crap day , and then you come home to that . i wasnt hard on her just a little moody about it ! ugh i know that feeling . it 's part of being human though and i hope you guys worked it out !
The messy house after a stressful workday triggered the feeling of annoyance.