my old roommate got a boyfriend , and obviously , she started spending a lot more time with him than at our apartment . that happened my freshman year with my best friend . it really sucks at first , but eventually you get used to it . i eventually did , but i did n't realize how i really felt about her instead she was never around . i 'm still friends with my old roommate , but i found other people to spend my time with .
Her lack of availability and emotional distance caused feelings of jealousy.