my brother just got a new job , and he and his family are moving into a bigger house in a nicer city . kind of wish i had his success right now , but i 'm struggling to remain proud of him too . i do n't want to make it all about me . have you asked him how he feels about that entire situation ? he 's excited , of course . but i 'm sure he 's nervous , too . i watched him during the job search process -- it took a while . so i know he 's relieved , which i 'm happy about , too . life is a scary place , anything could happen at any time .
The success and better life circumstances of the brother triggered feelings of jealousy.