my younger sister is getting married before i am , i ca n't believe it . do you feel negative about it , or positive ? it 's hard to tell from your sentence . maybe you feel both ways . if i were in your shoes , i could see how you would start to feel some more pressure in that situation . i was always the youngest child , so i never had pressure on me to accomplish anything by a certain time . if you 're not happy about it , hopefully you can turn it into a positive so that your sister does n't get any undue negativity . it 's hard when all i can think about is being green with envy . what 's wrong with me ? i ca n't even get a date ! i can understand why you 'd start to feel that way . i think it 's good that you want to look inward instead of just blatantly blaming other people . that means you can start to look for ways to make you feel better about yourself , that are solutions ! but nothing has to be `` wrong with you . '' for some , it just takes time . for others , they find it easier to accept someone to settle down with .
Perceived lack of romantic success compared to others.