it really shook me up when my wife filled for divorce 2 years ago . she gave me no warning and hired a lawyer right away . that 's terrible , you had no clue it was coming ? non whatsoever , when i found out she had already left to her moms house , no text or anything . she had left a note on the table what did the note say ? that she was taking the kids and leaving , that she was tired of the way things were going . and that she had hired a lawyer to begin filling for divorce .
The wife's sudden decision to file for divorce and take the kids without any prior warning.