just got ditched by my friend for the third time this week , when trying to make plans . wish people were n't so flaky these days . why does it feel like i 'm putting in more effort to hang out with people than vice versa ? its definitely not fair . it seems almost as if people do not try to create a friendship or are playing both ends of the candle to see which bargain ( plans ) per friends are better , and then make a choice not sure how to approach it . on the one hand we used to be good friends , and hung out all the time in college . now after we graduated , they 've grown distant . i do n't want to be annoying , but i want to be available too , you know ? cause friendships are hard to maintain/create as you get older yes , true friends understand and will work around your schedule and wo n't put you off , or make you feel like you have done something wrong .
Feeling neglected and unimportant due to friends becoming distant and unresponsive.