i was very interested in a girl that lives near me . i ca n't seem to muster the courage to talk to her so i 'm feeling pretty down in the dumps . hopefully , one day i can let my mind stop racing and just go for it . what can you lose ? probably nothing but it 's still hard to go through with it . i need to man up ... you do . i mean it can only go one of two ways . and if it goes one way , you can try again with another girl .
Fear of rejection and lack of self-confidence in approaching the girl.