i asked a friend i 'd had for a very long time to be in my wedding . she agreed and then completely disappeared from my life . i 'm sorry that 's rough . did you ever find out why ? no , i did n't . i even offered to pay for everything for her since she had to travel . i guess she was n't as good of a friend as i thought . i guess not , but i hope you still had ( or will have if it has n't happened yet ) a great wedding !
The friend's abrupt disappearance and failure to follow through on being in the wedding after initially agreeing.