i share a birthday with my cousin and sometimes as a kid i would get envious when we would get different presents of the same gift . we would get different colors and for some reason i would always want the same as her i can understand that . was there a reason one color was chosen for her and another for you ? no idea . but you know when you 're kids- she would get different barbies too and i was always envious . seems trivial now but as a kid- i hated it sounds like you wanted to be the same as your cousin and not set apart . it may seem trivial now , but i know it was n't trivial to you at the time .
Receiving different presents or toys than her cousin on their shared birthday.