he 's a good worker but not as reliable as i am . he is always calling in or not putting much effort into his work . i feel i should have gotten that position . that 's a shame , if that 's the case then i agree . thank you ! maybe i 'll get another chance down the road but it still hurts a little . has that ever happened to you ? not really , but i hope you 're alright . i have n't talked to anyone about it not even my wife . your words are definitely helping me a lot , thank you so much !
The cause seems to be a perceived romantic or emotional threat to their relationship.