one time i went out to eat with my friend . and there was a customer who was just very rude and vulgar . my friend and i gave each other `` the look '' and realized we were having the same thoughts . i was surprised . ( thank you for your words ! i have a mom to talk too , so it helps but loads of trauma , abuse and death are hard to even talk about . thank you ! i hope you feel better too ! ) i have had to talk to customers who were nasty to clerks before ! it 's shocking . ( im glad to hear you have someone . but having someone who cant be biased always helps too ) it really is . some people can get so nasty and vicious over the smallest things ! im so glad i got out of the food industry . i know right ? oh lord- the food industry is the worst , especially for waitresses . yes ! specially when its something wrong with the food . like they did n't make the food ? the cook did . they get the heat for everything .
The speaker's empathy for restaurant workers who face criticism for issues beyond their control.