i am become so angry and bitter . my brother is having it all while i am at a spot without making any progress that 's really tough . i can imagine how frustrated you are . just know that going through trials and struggling is always good for your character and you will end up that much better of a person for getting through it . you ca n't be too concerned with other 's lives , you just have to try not to compare . i am trying my best , but he lives so close to me and i can see all the progress and my mother do the comparison too . everyone does it oh well that 's too bad but their behavior is not right or fair , and they will deal with the consequences of that themselves . forgiving them is good for you and for them . just try your best to let go , i know it 's tough- but people everywhere are way more successful then you and way less successful and you do n't compare yourself to them i hope so why focus on one random guy just because he 's your brother .
Comparisons being made between the person's progress and someone else's perceived superior progress.