it is so crazy to me . my best friend and her husband have an open marriage and i just can not fathom having another partner other than my husband . i always wondered how you start something like that up with your partner without hurting their feelings . i know it . they both apparently just do n't mind it . makes me wonder if they are really in love or just kind of creatures of comfort . whatever makes you happy i guess . to each their own .
Observing an open marriage between close friends and being unable to relate to that lifestyle.