i was promised a big cuddly bear from my friend for my birthday . i was looking forward to the bear but i did not get it . what did he get you instead ? he did n't get me anything , he said he was short on cash . thats not ok i have been in that situation before and have made my girlfriend a card , wrote her a poem something . there you go , it is the thought that counts .
Lack of effort or thoughtfulness from the other person.