why is it so hard to make friends as an adult ? no one seems to like me and it 's discouraging . it is hard ! maybe they are n't right then . so many people are just not trustworthy . what have you tried ? i 've tried going to coffee shop meetups , joining some facebook groups interested in making friends in my city but no go ! maybe it 's time to move ? try church ? i would n't try a church , it 's not my style and i ca n't move , i 'll just keep plugging away at it .
Lack of social connections and meaningful relationships.