i always complain , nag , and treat my husband like crap . which makes me feel like crap . i need to change/ whoa , that is quite the confession . but you know , it 's good that you recognize that you need to change a behavior . very mature . not everyone has that same ability to be honest with themselves , and you should feel proud about that ! that 's true but it 's not much to be proud of . you say it is but i certainly do n't feel that way . i know , and i know it can be really hard to deal with that guilt . you want to solve the problem though , and that 's still worth something . being able to take the little victories will go a long way toward the goal you want in terms of how you treat your husband .
The cause of the guilty feeling is frequently mistreating her husband through complaining, nagging, and disrespectful behavior.