an old friend wanted to get together . it was a guy , and he was someone i was involved with . i knew it would bother my husband so i did n't meet with him . that 's the best decision . i know mine would n't either . if he is a good guy , he will understand . i did n't want to make my husband uncomfortable , even if it would have been nice to catch up . but i have to respect him . that 's good . no sense in rocking the boat .
The desire to remain loyal and committed to one's spouse.