one big pet peeve of mine is a poor person complaining about his/her situation and doing absolutely nothing to fix it i get that . i am in pain every morning and get up and go to work everyday . so it 's hard to find sympathy from me my point exactly . you 're a hard worker despite your physical pains . i was born in a third world country and am now self-employed with full financial autonomy , my own car , apartment , and supportive friends and family ... do n't tell me you ca n't fix your life . you just do n't want it bad enough exactly . it really drives me nuts when people feel like they entitled to this or that .
Dismissive attitude towards the person's struggles and challenges.