every time i tell my mom about something my child did that is so neat to me , my sister-in-law chimes in about something her child did to top it . it drives me crazy . that 's funny , likes it 's an extension as who they are as a person yeah , i try to be understanding because she seems like she feels like she has something to prove when i 'm all about not competing and having understanding for people 's lives . i have even said that in a nicer way and it does n't get through to her . its made being around her unbearable which is sad . i see , yeah sometimes you just got ta lead by example
Her sister-in-law's constant need to one-up and compete over their children's achievements.