my husband takes it out on me when he gets woken up and it makes me so mad . i think he should exercise more self-restraint when it comes to your relationship i agree , but he does n't think he is doing anything wrong . that is very dangerous attitude to have . i would be very cautious as it may bring much unintended social consequences yes , it already has in the past . i do the best i can .
The husband's behavior of taking out his anger on his wife when woken up triggers her feeling of anger.