my spouse gave me a gift , a watch . a friend of mine wanted to borrow my watch but i could not lend it to her . it values a lot to me if it is a treasured gift , your friend should not be asking for it ! how did you feel when she did ask you ? i was surprised because she knew who gave me the gift , but she insisted . did she understand when you gave her the reason you did n't want to lend it to her ? no ! she did n't speak to me for days , she said i was mean and selfish . she does n't sound like a good friend to me ! that 's exactly what my sister said . she should have understood the reason why i could not lend her the watch .
A disagreement or conflict with their sister regarding lending a watch.