i just found out my sister in law 's husband was cheating on her for the past three years . as someone who is has been married for over 12 years and never even considered the idea of cheating , i 'm shocked . i do n't understand why people just do n't break up . why cheat ? that 's my line of thinking as well ! i 'd never cheat on my wife . i could n't hurt someone i love like that . and if he did n't love her , why not tell her first ? people are just so inconsiderate sometimes . even if you do n't love the person anymore , at least treat them like someone you used to love . absolutely ! if you ca n't stay dedicated to someone , just break it off before things get out of hand and you hurt them more .
The husband's infidelity and betrayal of his wife's trust triggered the feeling of faithfulness.