i 'm long-distance with my girlfriend right now , where she lives almost 1,000 miles away . i live on the east coast , she lives in the midwest . she has a good job , and i 'll just be graduating college , so she 's established . she 's determined that i need to move to her , but i do n't feel great about the idea . that is a pretty big decision to make . did she spring this up on you or was this something you knew she 'd eventually want ? nah , was n't a surprise . we 've been long distance for like six years . but she does have a lot of logic on her side .. she has a good job . but i feel like i 'm closer with my family , and that the east coast is nicer to live near . i just do n't really want to move , is all i hope you can figure out a way to make things work out ! sounds like you 're stuck between a rock and a hard place .
Leaving familiar surroundings and being distant from family is causing the apprehension.