i 'm in school right now and unable to pay for much since most of my money goes towards bills and that 's it . my girlfriend is out of school and working , and so when we do go out , she has to pay a lot of the time . i feel bad for making her do that , but i do n't have much of a choice aw , you should n't feel bad ! at some point you 'll have more cash and do the treating . there 's a lot of give and take in relationships . yeah , i know , i just hate people paying for me , or feeling like a burden . that 's like my # 1 thing . but it 's weird to say `` no , we ca n't go do this fun thing just because of me , even though you want to . '' so it 's a rock and a hard place . i guess i will just have to look forward to when i can return the favor i totally get it . i bet you think about it way more than she does , though i do n't know if that makes you feel any better lol
The person feels guilty about being a financial burden on others.