### Human:\ncan being dry during sex cause you pain after? . i recently had sex for the very first time and i'm 22. i've had oral sex before. there was a lack of foreplay and i was dry when we had sex. i am now sore and feel like i have a uti. can you get that from your first time after having sex? was it just because of the lack of lubrication or is this an unusual feeling?\n\n### Assistant: sexual intercourse when "dry" can definitely cause pain. during and after. sex can also cause a uti. if you are having uti symptoms this will need to be checked. your partner needs to be more gentle; foreplay is an important part of intimacy and because women are very prone to intercourse-related urethritis and urinary tract infections you need to stress hygiene and make sure to urinate after intercourse. drink plenty of water too.