### Human:\nget bored having sex. sex has isn't very fun to me. it feels more like work than play. my boyfriend has been trying different things to help me but i just don't have fun. the first 5-10 minutes are fine but after that i'll hurry to fake an orgasm so he will ejaculate. he gets upset because he is always the one seducing me but the reason i don't seduce him is because i just don't like it! i don't know how to enhance my sex drive its really annoying.\n\n### Assistant: disinterest in sex is not uncommon but can be very complex. there can be many many different reasons -- impossible to sort out in the forum. if having a pleasurable sex life is important to you and i know that it is your first step would be to see your gynecologist to see if there is some organic reason for your lack of libido. the next step assuming a medical reason is not found would be to see a counselor -- a therapist that can help you uncover any psychological reasons for this issue. this problem can be fixed i am sure but you have to take the first step.