Brian Entwistle: Husband of Alzheimer's victim has been 'banned from seeing his wife for years in care home' Brian Entwistle, 73, said he has been refused all access to his wife of 52 years, with police threatening to arrest him on last attempt He said he has been told a 'safeguard order' has been imposed by social services to protect his wife, Patricia, who he last saw in 2010 But he said he has never seen it, and he is not even allowed to call her The husband of an Alzheimer's victim has accused social workers of 'kidnapping' his wife, claiming they have banned him from seeing her for the last three years. Brian Entwistle, 73, said he has been refused all access to his wife of 52 years, with police threatening to arrest him on his last attempted visit. He said he has been told a 'safeguard order' has been imposed by social services to protect his wife, Patricia. But despite repeated requests he claims the order has never been produced and he is not even allowed to speak to her on the phone. Brian and Patricia Entwistle pictured together in 2010, the last time Mr Entwistle said he was allowed to see his wife. He claims he has been banned from seeing his wife in a care home for three years He said: 'My wife is being kept from me - it's as if she's been kidnapped. I don't want to go on another year like this - it is reducing me to a wreck. 'I would like to see her as soon as and as much as I can but I've been put through three years of hell when I've done nothing wrong.' Mr Entwistle, a graphic artist, said he and his wife were happily married for 40 years and raised three children. But around ten years ago he said she began developing Alzheimer's. He said he nursed her at their home on Anglesey for six years until she became too ill, when he agreed that she should move into a care home in Cambridgeshire 250 miles away because it was near her sister and their daughter Mishelle, 53. But during the last three years of caring for her at home he started a relationship with another woman which he describes as his own 'respite' to help him cope. He says this caused a family disagreement and a row with a social worker who was in charge of his wife's care. Mr Entwistle, outside Millfield Lodge Care Home where his wife is living. He claims this is the closest he can get to seeing her She was moved to the Millfield Lodge home in Cambridgeshire in May 2010 and Brian visited her two weeks later. He said they got on fine and he took a photo of them together. But it was to be the last image he had of his wife, as he was 'never allowed to see her again.' Brian Entwistle and his wife Patricia on their wedding day on 17th December 1960 Since then Mr Entwistle claims to have found himself barred from visiting, speaking to his wife on the phone or getting any information about her welfare when he rings the home. On his first visit he asked to take her out for the day but apparently was told he wasn't allowed because a 'guard order' had been put on her. He said despite repeated requests from he and his lawyer have repeatedly asked to see it but it has never been produced. He said on his next visit he was not even allowed inside the building - and staff refused to give him any information about his wife. Angry and confused at being barred entry, he went straight to police claiming his wife had been 'kidnapped'. Officers accompanied him to the home, entered it, and came out to tell him she 'was fine'. But they added that he could only discuss the situation with Anglesey Social Services - who were paying for her care. At the time he could still afford a solicitor but the social services also refused to give the lawyer any details of the 'control order'. Frustrated he made the 500-mile round trip to the home for a third time in September 2010 but was once more turned away. Mr Entwistle has started one-man demonstrations outside the home, holding placards and handing out leaflets about his plight. Police have been repeatedly called to speak to him but he has never been arrested. He has said she has not been allowed to speak to his wife since Christmas 2010 and staff have told him she no longer wants to see him or talk to him. They have now warned him his wife might be moved to a new home because of his 'continued harassment'. He tearfully said: "How can a man be shut out from his own wife and then accused of harassment? We used to have a great relationship with my family but this has torn us apart. 'I can assure you I've done nothing to deserve this. It's quite an horrific story and everyone I know can't believe that this can happen in this day and age. 'I've never done anything to harm my wife in 50 years of living together but now in her hour of need I'm not allowed to see her, or even get any news of her. I looked after her for seven years but no-one said I was doing an irresponsible job. We're now being kept apart for no reason other than they have listened to my daughter who has this issue with me and the social worker on Anglesey who was in cahoots with her.' Patricia and Brian Entwistle on holiday in happier times. Mr Entwistle said he has been refused all access to his wife of 52 years, with police threatening to arrest him on his last attempted visit Mr Entwistle, who says all three of his children have completely disowned him, added: 'I now feel that even if Pat died I wouldn't be allowed to go to her funeral.' Care home manager Anita Ram said: 'The best people to talk to are Anglesey Social Services. Our priority is a duty of care to our patients. We have a code of confidentiality to our patients and a duty to look after them and provide medical assistance if they need it. We do not go to any part of the country and bring people to our home. They come to us advised by the NHS or their local authority. Anglesey Social Services said: 'We are unable to comment on this matter due to client confidentiality.' Daughter Mishelle, 53, failed to respond to repeated requests for a comment.