Bath University: angry wife's email to husband's law lecturer lover goes viral Her suspicions were raised when their youngest daughter found his Satnav that detailed all his trips. She wrote: "Clearly you are equally as dishonest as my husband, given he has admitted today that he has been sleeping with you since September. Perhaps you just like secretly s******g other people's husbands?, in between your demanding work and family schedule. The couple, who operate a Brighton-based fish supply business, have since separated. Mrs Lees attacked her husband's alledged lover for being "the catalyst that smashes apart a whole family" who also destroyed their trust and love. She added: "Well done. I hope your conscience copes, although given it appears to match your morals it probably will. Mrs Lees, who was married to her husband for 23 years, last night defended sending her email, insisting she had originally contacted her through a private email address. She told the newspaper that when she did not reply, she decided she "would not just sit back and be ignored." She had wanted to send a message to Miss Russell's college email address but because she didn't know what her exact address was, she instead sent it to everyone with the same surname. She emailed about 15 people having obtained their details through the university's website. It has since become the talking point of the campus. Mrs Lees told the newspaper that she didn't "really care if she's embarrassed - that's not my problem." Last night Miss Russell, also a consultant at Bespoke Legal Practice, Bath, declined to comment on the alleged affair or email. She added to the newspaper: "I do not know Donna Lees and have never met her. I understand from many who do know her, and from her actions so far, that she is someone who is unbalanced, and thrives on confrontation and drama. I do not think it is wise to indulge her and therefore have nothing to say. The University of Bath declined to comment, with a spokesman saying it was "personal and not a university matter." Mr Lees could not be reached for comment.