Lorna Bukkland-Vitteta reveals the secret to keeping love alive and making it last MORE relationships are failing because people are falling out of love with the simple act of communication and forgetting the rules of love - caring more and stressing less. Couples are also failing to make time for each other and don't say sorry enough, according to body language and relationship management expert Lorna Bukkland-Vitteta. According to her, job and financial pressures are the biggest killer when it comes to making love last, followed by lack of time and stress. Mrs Bukkland-Vitteta said it was hardly surprising that the divorce rate in Australia was higher than ever with 27.6 per cent of all marriages ending in divorce in 2011. "People are busier, more stressed, wound up, time poor and anxious because of societal pressures, job pressures, and financial pressures of day to day living," she said. Generation Y people, in particular, are functioning in a tech savvy world via social media and smartphones, and as a result, society as a whole is finding an increase in dysfunctional relationships due to a communication fault. Her warning for couples that love can be tough comes as a study showed unreasonable behaviour is now responsible for more divorces than infidelity. UK-based company Co-operative Legal Services found warring lovers were now half as likely to list infidelity as the cause of their marriage break-down compared to 40 years ago. But according to the director of training and development firm Brisbane NLP, the good news is that a little bit of effort will go a long way to helping fuel the flames of a healthy relationship. Here are Mrs Bukkland-Vitteta's five tips for making love last: Put aside time every week to talk about issues, problems and anything that needs to be addressed in the relationship. Make an effort to do things together with your partner. Find common areas of interest - each person has to make an effort. Don't deal with important matters or communicate critical information or decisions via technology. Rather, agree to speak to each other in person or if absolutely necessary, talk in person on the phone. Don't judge your partner and learn to say I am sorry. In an argument, give in first. Humility is a trait that solves many of the world's problems - it usually solves pretty much everything.