Why travelling solo can be one of the best things you'll ever do You can make friends when travelling. Picture: Tatyana Leonov Source: NewsComAu It's so cool everybody's going to start doing it soon. I mean who needs a partner or friends when it's so fun to be on your own? The reality is ... that's probably not true. However, more and more people are still travelling on their own. What women really think about travelling with men There's a trend towards women travelling alone, and in response to this trend hotels, resorts, tour companies and even flight carriers are creating and updating products to appeal to the new market. The truth about travelling alone as a woman If you're new to it, I'll tell you a secret - it's not half as scary as it looks. Here are 10 tips to turn a (potentially) scary trip into an amazing one. 1) Talk to the locals It's easy. Just walk up and say hello. The worst that can happen is you'll get ignored, or laughed at. The best? You could make a new friend and gain valuable insider knowledge about wherever you are (locals always know the top places to go). Of course, remember to be safe (see point nine). Making friends with a local kanak woman in New Caledonia. 2) Embrace eating alone The first time you dine alone can be daunting, especially when you walk in and the waiter asks how many people are going to be dining ... and you smile (ever so confidently, of course) as you mumble one. The first few times I ate alone I fiddled around on my phone, awkwardly pretended I had heaps of people messaging me, but then one night I challenged myself to go without my phone. I slowly ate my food, drank a couple of glasses of nice wine and watched everyone else. The more I dined alone the more I noticed that waiters were more attentive and happy to chat, and now I really love eating solo. One of the many courses at a degustation dinner in Peru (I promise I didn't use my phone that much). 3) Don't be afraid to look like a dork Simply because it's fun. Why not? And remember you're alone so there's no one there to laugh at you (except people who don't know you, which it totally fine). If you take photos you can choose to show people at home at a later time, or not at all, or show everyone online if you dare. Swimming caps are so in ... not. Enjoying a hot bath at the thermal Szechenyi Bath and Spa in Budapest. 4) Take lots of photos Photos equal memories, and since you won't have anyone else reminding you about what you did and where, the photos you take will be your best reminder. Take hundreds of photos, take thousands - the beauty of digital cameras is that you can. If you ask strangers if you can take photos of them they will often say yes, and you might even make a friend (double points for a local who becomes a friend). Children almost always agree, just make sure their parents are OK with it. Schoolchildren in Peru. Don't forget to show the kids the photo as some will not be used to digital cameras and will love seeing themselves on screen. 5) Ask randoms to take photos of you It's another way to meet people, but also you'll cherish the memories when you look back upon them. There are only so many photos of sights, buildings, streets and people you can take until they all blur into one. It's photos of yourself that will jump out at you in years to come. Also by asking strangers to take photos of you implies you did meet people - so even if you didn't you can pretend you did. Sitting on a train in Austria. See I was there and I made a friend! 6) Go wherever you want and do whatever you want Even if it's Paris, or Venice, or some other city that no one checks in at alone. If you're single and dreaming of picnicking on baguettes and cheese in Paris, or whiling away an afternoon as your gondola "driver" weaves in and out of canals - just do it. Life is short and there's nothing wrong with taking the experience and embracing it - alone. Paris. Tick. Eiffel Tower. 7) Try new things Try things you wouldn't try at home (as long as they're safe). Whether it's horse riding or quad biking, or something more extreme like scuba diving or skydiving, if it's something you've always wanted to do then go ahead and book it in. However, don't forget to make sure your guide/teacher understands you (and vice versa) and ensure the experience is safe. Quad biking in New Caledonia. 8) Make an effort when going out Even if you're going out alone, you're still going out. If you usually wear makeup out to dinner then apply makeup. If you like frocks pack them. I'm a firm believer in taking what you wear at home when you travel. Why save the best clothing for a later date when you might be visiting some of the most amazing attractions in the world while travelling? I'm going out alone and I'm going to wear mascara. 9) Be safe This one is obvious, but really important. Travelling alone can be riskier and you always need to put your safety before anything else. Register where you are going with your embassy, keep friends and relatives in the loop with your itinerary, watch your drinks, be careful walking around alone at night and pay attention to local customs to make sure you are behaving appropriately. Don't talk to dodgy looking strangers, unlike these friendly looking folk in Switzerland. 10) Have fun If you're travelling your probably seeing some pretty amazing sights and doing things that you mightn't have the chance to do at home. Just flow with it, relax and have fun. Being silly with Spiderman in Madrid.