You react to Candace Cameron Bure, the proudly submissive wife FULL HOUSE star Candace Cameron Bure has controversial advice: be submissive to your husband. She spoke about the views in her book during this appearance on Fox and Friends. Courtesy: Fox News Candace Cameron Bure with her three children and the family's 'leader', dad Val. Candace is spruiking her second novel. WHEN Candace Cameron Bure proudly announced yesterday that she was a "submissive" wife, debate was inevitable. Her comments come with the release of her second book, Balancing it All, in which she writes about honouring her husband's "take-charge personality" and his "desire to have the final decision." "I am not a passive person, but I chose to fall into a more submissive role in our relationship because I wanted to do everything in my power to make my marriage and family work," the former Full House star writes. And didn't that get news.com.au readers' keyboards fired up? Agree or disagree, you all had some feelings about Candace Cameron Bure's marriage. Here are the main schools of thought. Right on, sister. Do whatever works for you. 1 have been happily married for 25 years last month and this is exactly how our marriage also runs. Very successful formula." - Rodger Brook of Brisbane She should be a role model for more women. Can't wait for all the scorned divorced unhappy women to tell her about their "ideal marriage." She has a happy fulfilled life as a mother and wife - the toughest job on the planet. Well done for having the guts and backbone to speak publicly about this whilst other weaker women follow the feminist ideal like a flock of sheep." - DM, no location given. But what happened to feminism? Men and women are equal. I have been happily together with my husband for 20 years & married for 15 of those. Not a chance in hell I'd let him have the final say in everything, imagine what we'd end up with?? A massive man shed!!! lol we make all the important decisions together. the way it should be especially since I am the main money earner." - Pffft of Sydney After reading these comments i feel so blessed to have a husband that is my equal. We share the driving. It's great not to have to be in charge about EVERYTHING. I love it when my husband takes charge with some issues. And I love that he trusts me to take charge on other issues." - Married 8 Years To My Best Friend of Perth My wife's submissiveness started when she took my surname. It didn't go any further, except for the odd spank, which she hands out in measured doses." - My Wife Has Same Surname, no location given What a glassy-eyed fembot. Just creepy." - Sigh, no location given Candace Cameron Bure on the red carpet. She's talking about the biblical meaning of submission. It's different. In this day and age of equality the media gets all fired up when there is a story about a wife who defines herself as being 'submissive'. But rarely do people really understand what the term actually involves. It's about honouring your partner, compromise, joint decisions (even if one parter makes the 'final' decision they are still JOINT decisions) love, respect, trust, negotiation, cohesion and true partnership." - Submissive But Happy, no location given Finally, a woman who knows the natural order of things. She is on the money. That's how you have a happy non cheating husband and how a good women avoids living with 8 cats!" - Jerry Smith, no location given Why are some of the women reading this getting so defensive. Its every mans right to lead, its what they are born to do. If I hadnt been such a know it all my marriage might of lasted longer than a mcdonalds cheeseburger left out in the sun..." - M Kerr of Lonely Candace is nobody's fool. "It's not so much letting the man "make the final decision" it's letting the man "think he's made the final decision" there is a difference and that is what makes for a happy and harmonious relationship." - Alex of Melbourne Here's a saying I heard that fits in with her approach: 'The man wears the pants. But she says what colour'" - Geri Flynn of Tasmania Of course it works because the husband listens and believes he is the decision maker and has final say. As Candace says, she makes her opinions very clear - without fight or argument - and he usually makes the decision she would have made. People will criticise but it works for her - and many others." - R Wilde of Sydney