Who's who in the Petraeus scandal November 13, 2012 -- Updated 1840 GMT (0240 HKT) Holly Petraeus, 60, has been married for 38 years to retired Gen. David Petraeus, and has two children with him. In the wake of his admitted affair with 40-year-old Paula Broadwell, she has become the latest scorned wife caught up in a public scandal. Holly Petraeus has long carved out her own mission helping others, with a special focus on financial issues facing military families. Paula Broadwell Jill Kelley Gen. John Allen Holly Petraeus Mystery shirtless FBI agent