No chat-up lines for Tom Hardy British actor Tom Hardy has revealed when it comes to dating he does not use chat-up lines because "it's either on or it isn't." The Bronson star joked his top love tip is "identify the target and use any means possible of getting it." Speaking at the premiere of his new action comedy movie, This Means War, Hardy said his ideal girl was fiancée, Charlotte Riley. This Means War, also starring Chris Pine and Reese Witherspoon, is released on Friday March 2.