Man hunts down wife's alleged rapist through Facebook The alleged victim, who cannot be named for legal reasons, told her husband about the alleged 2001 rape by 27-year-old grocer Andrew Marsh in a conversation about their own relationship difficulties. Her husband then arranged a surprise party via Facebook and got in contact with Marsh, finding out where he lived. After beating up the alleged rapist, he presented his wife with a choice - either report the original crime or he would go to jail for assault.