Wartime Enemies Do an About-Face in Peacetime In 1999 Dale Zelko, a husband and father from New Hampshire, was part of a NATO operation, flying an F-117A Nighthawk stealth fighter over Serbia. Zoltan Dani, a husband and father from Skorenovac, was a colonel in the Yugoslav Army. He shot down Mr. Zelko's stealth bomber, becoming a national hero, having proved that there is no such thing as an invisible plane. "The Second Meeting" is ostensibly the story of how the two men became friends years later, visited each other's families and set a heartwarming example of how we are all alike and can put down our weapons and live in peace. But their meeting was arranged by the filmmaker, and their encounters reek of false bonhomie. Mr. Zelko, to put it bluntly, comes off as something of a jerk. He is shown as an Ugly American stereotype: loud, self-involved, inarticulate and inordinately proud of his four seemingly hyperactive children. His wife cannot tell a story without bursting into tears. Mr. Dani, on the other hand, is the picture of dignity and competence. It takes a while to realize that those contrasting impressions may have been the intent of Zeljko Mirkovic, the young Serbian director and producer. If so, he has achieved that goal but also looks like a self-conscious filmmaker with a lazy editor. The scene in which the two men visit an aviation museum and see the contents of Mr. Zelko's plane on display ("Hey, that's my stuff!") is intriguing. And much too short.