Patrick Sides With Boss Over Boyfriend on Blocking Danica Patrick sides with her boss over her boyfriend. Patrick laughed at the idea that Tony Stewart (her boss) wanted to choke Ricky Stenhouse Jr. (her boyfriend) for blocking in last week's race at Charlotte. In fact, she might have helped Stewart put his hands around Stenhouse's neck. Patrick had her race spoiled when she was wrecked by Stenhouse in their first on-track accident since they announced they were dating. If Patrick felt caught in the middle of the boss-boyfriend squabble, she didn't show it Friday at Dover International Speedway. "Don't you want to choke your kids every now and then?" she asked. I mean, everybody wants to choke their kids, or their dad, or son, or significant other at times. So, I think that is a comment out of love, no doubt. Stewart has said he loves Stenhouse like family, so this was more like dishing out some tough love rather than the start of a feud. Patrick said she took the comment as a sign that Stewart actually wants to help Stenhouse, a Sprint Cup rookie. "If there is anyone out there that he says something about, it's only because he knows they are going to be around and he wants them to learn how to play the game the way that he's learned how to play the game," she said. It's actually a good thing that he wants to help and that he would speak up, because at the end of the day we see each other every five days, not every couple of weeks. You need to take care of those relationships or else they could bite you in the end. Of course, Stenhouse doesn't have to see Stewart every day. But he does see Patrick. Stenhouse got a bit of the silent treatment from Patrick on the way home from the race because of the wreck. She was upset with him but they hashed it all out before they got home - even with some stretches of quiet time - even as the first "Stenica" collision led to stories in sports and entertainment outlets. Patrick is long used to the mainstream spotlight thanks to magazine shoots and Super Bowl commercials. She understands why fans are interested in how NASCAR's power couple got along after the accident. "I'm sure I would want to know how that all went down after the race, too," she said. We're an entertainment sport, so I get it.