Angie Harmon splits from Jason Sehorn Angie Harmon just lost her partner, and we're not talking about Isles. The "Rizzoli & Isles" star (Harmon plays detective Jane Rizzoli) and her husband of 13 years, former football player Jason Sehorn, have called it quits. "For the sake of their children, they ask for respect and privacy as they navigate this time in their lives," her rep told People magazine. Harmon, 42, and Sehorn, 43, have three young kids. Their long-distance relationship may have taken its toll on the couple. In July, Harmon requested a restraining order against a woman she said was threatening her family, but the restraining order only covered Harmon and her children in their Los Angeles home, not Sehorn, as was living in their home in North Carolina and working as a sports analyst for ESPNU. Harmon works on "Rizzoli and Isles" in Los Angeles. She had been commuting back and forth between homes when she started in 2010. She told "Good Housekeeping" she felt "mommy guilt" over the decision, calling it "the hardest time in my life, for sure." The two had a high-profile "pop the question" to say the least: Sehorn proposed to her on bended knee as a surprise on "The Tonight Show." WATCH: What can Angie learn from Katie?