The 10 Best guides to teens Divas & Door Slammers by Charlie Taylor £10.99, eburypublishing.co.uk In a Mumsnet favourite, Taylor clearly explains how to avoid parent-teen relationships ending up on a downward spiral. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish £11.99, piccadillypress.co.uk The message is simple: keep the communication lines with your son or daughter open. Help! My Teenager is an Alien by Sarah Newton £10, penguin.co.uk Sarah Newton, who hosted the ITV series My Teen's a Nightmare, advises on breaking down the barriers between parents and children. Surviving the Terrible Teens, edited by Roni Jay £7.99, crimsonbooks.co.uk Two psychologists and a youth worker have put their heads together to come up with this guide to how to teens think. Parenting a Teen Girl by Lucie Hemmen £12.99, newharbinger.com A psychologist explains how to raise happy and confident adolescent girls, without stress. Family Lives website familylives.org.uk/gotateenager OK, so this is not a book, but it is one of the most helpful resources for parents of teens around, with advice lines and online forums. The Terrible Teens by Kate Figes £16.99, penguin.co.uk Figes doesn't just concern herself with how to handle your teen, she also gives a practical analysis of the difficulties of growing up today. Raise a Happy Teenagerby Suzy Hayman £9.99, teachyourself.co.uk Counsellor Suzy Hayman offers easy-to-follow advice on conflict points and how talking and negotiating can help solve them. Teenagers by Rob Parsons £8.99, hodder.co.uk Parsons gives clear-sighted advice on coping with this disruptive time, while also giving a series of tips on maintaining relationships as your son or daughter grows up. Whatever! By Gill Hines & Alison Baverstock £8.99, piatkusbooks.net Advice on how to raise the thorny topics of sex, drugs and alcohol with your adolescent, and how much independence is too much.