"It is high time someone explained to you about good manners. Yours are obvious by their absence and I feel sorry for you." These were the words that Carolyn Bourne e-mailed to her son's fiancee , Heidi Withers. The couple had just visited the Bourne family home in England. Within days, the e-mail was all over the Internet, and the subject of manners hit UK national news. Heidi, Mrs Bourne said, stayed in bed too late. She complained when she was hungry and was particular about food. She told rude jokes. Finally, she had never thanked Mrs Bourne for the weekend. But it wasn't just Heidi's behavior that got people talking. Facebook groups started up about the e-mail. The one with the most members was called "Carolyn Bourne needs to learn some manners". People said Mrs Bourne had been too direct. They thought she had been cruel when she told Heidi to go to "finishing school" -- a centre where badly-behaved young women used to be sent. Heidi's father wrote back to Mrs Bourne and called her a "snotty Miss Fancy Pants" -- someone who thinks they are socially better than anyone else. Everyone agreed that there are rules of "good" and "bad" behavior. Everyone agreed that these rules had been broken. However, no one could agree what these rules were -- or whether Heidi or Mrs Bourne was in the wrong. So what does politeness really mean? Is there a secret to social etiquette ? Shirley Schomaker runs a real-life finishing school. She said that both Mrs Bourne and Heidi had been impolite. The true secret, she said in a BBC interview, lies in making everyone feel comfortable. "Social etiquette isn't about being snotty and being in the know ," she said. "It's about making other people feel good. It's about communication. It's about making society get along better."

What are the answers to this following set of questions:

1. What did Heidi's father call Mrs Bourne?
2. which means?
3. What does Mrs Schomaker do?
4. What does she think?
5. who was she talking to
6. how many things does she mention when talking about social etiquette?
7. what's it about?
8. What had Heidi done wrong?
9. anythig else?
10. anything else?
11. was that it?
12. Did Mrs Bourne say all this to her son?
13. Did she speak to Heidi face to face?
1. snotty Miss Fancy Pants
2. someone who thinks they are socially better than anyone else
3. runs a real-life finishing school
4. She said that both Mrs Bourne and Heidi had been impolite
5. a BBC interview
6. Social etiquette isn't about being snotty and being in the know
7. It's about making other people feel good. It's about communication. It's about making society get along better
8. stayed in bed too late
9. She complained when she was hungry and was particular about food
10. She told rude jokes
11. Finally, she had never thanked Mrs Bourne for the weekend
12. No
13. No, she e-mailed it.
"Det är hög tid att någon förklarar för dig om gott uppförande. Din är uppenbar genom deras frånvaro och jag tycker synd om dig." Så här sa Carolyn Bourne till sin sons fästmö Heidi Withers. Paret hade just besökt familjen Bournes hem i England. Inom några dagar fanns e-posten över hela Internet, och ämnet manér slog ner på brittiska nationella nyheter. Heidi, sade fru Bourne, stannade i sängen för sent. Hon klagade när hon var hungrig och var noga med mat. Hon drog ohyfsade skämt. Slutligen hade hon aldrig tackat fru Bourne för helgen. Men det var inte bara Heidis beteende som fick folk att prata. Facebookgrupper startade upp om e-posten. Den med flest medlemmar kallades "Carolyn Bourne behöver lära sig lite hyfs". Folk sade att fru Bourne hade varit alltför direkt. De tyckte att hon hade varit grym när hon sa till Heidi att gå i "slutförskolan" -- ett centrum dit dåligt skötta unga kvinnor brukade skickas. Heidis far skrev tillbaka till fru Bourne och kallade henne en "snobbig fröken Fancy Pants" - någon som tycker att de är socialt bättre än någon annan. Alla var överens om att det finns regler för "bra" och "dåligt" beteende. Alla var överens om att dessa regler hade brutits. Ingen kunde dock komma överens om vilka dessa regler var -- eller om Heidi eller fru Bourne hade fel. Vad betyder då artighet egentligen? Finns det en hemlighet med social etikett? Shirley Schomaker driver en riktig skola. Hon sade att både fru Bourne och Heidi hade varit oartiga. Den sanna hemligheten, sade hon i en BBC-intervju, ligger i att få alla att känna sig bekväma. "Social etikett handlar inte om att vara snorig och att vara i vet", sa hon. "Det handlar om att få andra att må bra. Det handlar om kommunikation. Det handlar om att få samhället att komma bättre överens." Vilka är svaren på följande frågor: 1. Vad kallade Heidis far fru Bourne? 2. vilket betyder? 3. Vad gör fru Schomaker? 4. Vad tycker hon? 5. vem pratade hon med 6. hur många saker nämner hon när hon talar om social etikett? 7. Vad handlar det om? 8. Vad hade Heidi gjort för fel? 9. något annat? 10. Något annat? 11. Var det allt? 12. Sa mrs Bourne allt detta till sin son? 13. Pratade hon med Heidi ansikte mot ansikte?
"It's high time someone explained to you about good behavior. Yours is evident through their absence and I feel sorry for you." Carolyn Bourne told her son's fiancée Heidi Withers. The couple had just visited the home of the Bourne family in England. Within days, the e-mail was available all over the Internet, and the subject of manners struck down on British national news. Heidi, Mrs Bourne said, stayed in bed too late. She complained when she was hungry and was careful about food. She was making rude jokes. Finally, she had never thanked Mrs Bourne for the weekend. But it wasn't just Heidi's behavior that made people talk. Facebook groups started up about the email. The one with the most members was called "Carolyn Bourne needs to learn some manners". People said Mrs Bourne had been too direct. They thought she had been cruel when she told Heidi to go to "final school" -- a center where poorly managed young women used to be sent. Heidi's father wrote back to Mrs. Bourne calling her a "snobby Miss Fancy Pants" - someone who thinks they're socially better than anyone else. Everyone agreed that there are rules for "good" and "bad" behavior. Everyone agreed that these rules had been broken. However, no one could agree on what these rules were -- or whether Heidi or Mrs Bourne were wrong. What does courtesy mean, then? Is there a secret with social etiquette? Shirley Schomaker runs a real school. She said that both Mrs Bourne and Heidi had been rude. The true secret, she said in a BBC interview, lies in making everyone feel comfortable. "Social etiquette is not about being snotty and being in know," she said. "It's about making others feel good. It's about communication. It's about getting society to get along better." What are the answers to the following questions: 1. What did Heidi's father call Mrs. Bourne? 2. which means? 3. What's Mrs. Schomaker doing? 4. What does she think? 5. Who did she talk to 6. how many things does she mention when she talks about social etiquette? 7. What is it about? 8. What had Heidi done wrong? 9. Anything else? 10. Anything else? 11. That's it? 12. Did Mrs. Bourne say all this to her son? 13. Did she talk to Heidi face to face?
1. snoriga Miss Fancy Pants 2. någon som tror att de är socialt bättre än någon annan 3. driver en verklig skola efter avslutad skolgång 4. Hon sade att både fru Bourne och Heidi hade varit oartiga 5. en BBC intervju 6. Social etikett handlar inte om att vara snorig och känna igen 7. Det handlar om att få andra att må bra. Det handlar om kommunikation. Det handlar om att få samhället att komma bättre överens 8. stannade i sängen för sent 9. Hon klagade när hon var hungrig och var noga med mat 10. Hon drog oförskämda skämt 11. Slutligen hade hon aldrig tackat fru Bourne för helgen 12. Nr 13. Nej, hon mejlade det.
1. Snotty Miss Fancy Pants 2. someone who thinks they're socially better than anyone else 3. runs a real school after completing school 4. She said that both Mrs. Bourne and Heidi had been rude 5. a BBC interview 6. Social etiquette is not about being snotty and recognizing 7. It's about making others feel good. It's about communication. It's about getting society to get along better 8. stayed in bed too late 9. She complained when she was hungry and was careful with food 10. She made rude jokes 11. Finally, she had never thanked Mrs Bourne for the weekend 12. No. 13. No, she emailed it.