Write an article based on this "Give him a massage. Cook his favorite meal. Do something spontaneous. Make an effort with your appearance. Take the lead in bed."
Men love to be pampered from time to time, so pick an evening to treat your husband or boyfriend to a relaxing massage.  Choose a day when your man is feeling particularly tired or stressed out and get yourself set up with massage oil, candles, music -- anything that makes the experience more relaxing. Ask him to undress and lie face down on the bed, then work your magic. Gently knead his back, neck and shoulders, avoiding the spine. If you're feeling adventurous, you can attempt a full-body massage. Be generous with your time -- try to keep it up for at least 15 to 20 minutes until your man has completely relaxed. Be warned though -- all that skin-on-skin contact may leave your man feeling more turned-on than relaxed! Whoever said that the way to a man's heart was through his stomach never spoke a truer word. Men love food, especially when it's lovingly prepared by their other half.  Pick a recipe (or steal one from his mother) and prepare it some evening when he's least expecting it. Make it an occasion -- set the table nicely, open a good bottle of wine and pretend you're eating out at a restaurant! By the way, we're not advocating 50s housewife behavior here: "you must have a hot meal on the table when your man arrives home from work." We're talking about cooking a nice meal for you man because you want to and because it's a nice thing to do. If you're a terrible cook, improvise! Order his favorite take-out but serve it on nice dishes or take him out to his favorite restaurant for dinner, your treat! If you're in a long-term relationship, it's easy to let routine take over and stay in watching TV every Saturday night. Keep your man happy by doing something spontaneous or different instead!  Inject some fun into your man's life by planning date nights -- get concert tickets, go rock climbing, organize a wine tasting, go to an art exhibition, host a games night with some other couples -- anything as long as it's different. If you're feeling adventurous, plan something really crazy like a joint skydive, a whale-watching trip or a vacation or road trip. Take care of as many of the details beforehand as possible, so your man doesn't have to stress on the day. Again, we're not advocating a 50s housewife approach here, but taking some pride in your appearance and looking good for your man is definitely a good thing. You want him to feel proud that you are his wife or girlfriend!  We all have days when we want to laze around in our pajamas, with no make-up on and hair scraped back, but every so often it's nice to get dressed up for no other reason than wanting to look good for your man. He'll appreciate the effort! You should also make an effort to do the things you used to do when you first met -- whether that means shaving your legs, getting your hair styled once a month, or keeping your weight in check. Try to be the girl he fell in love with! No discussion of how to keep a man happy would be complete without some reference to sex! Although this may vary a little, most men love it when their lady takes charge in the bedroom.  This means something different in every relationship, whether it's simply initiating sex (especially if you don't normally) or tying your man down, dominatrix style. Give him a freebie every once in a while -- in other words, a sexual favor where you expect nothing in return. He'd prefer that to an actual gift any day of the week! Remember that being intimate (whatever that means for you) is an important part of any healthy, happy relationship -- it brings the two of you closer together and allows you to express your love for one another in a deeply personal way.
Skriv en artikel baserad på detta "Ge honom en massage. Laga mat till hans favoriträtt. Gör något spontant. Ansträng dig med ditt utseende. Ta ledningen i sängen."
Write an article based on this "Give him a massage. Cook his favorite dish. Do something spontaneous. Try to look your way. Take the lead in bed."
Män älskar att skämmas bort då och då, så välj en kväll för att behandla din man eller pojkvän till en avkopplande massage. Välj en dag när din man känner sig särskilt trött eller stressad och får dig själv att sätta upp med massageolja, ljus, musik -- allt som gör upplevelsen mer avkopplande. Be honom att klä av sig och lägga sig på sängen, och sen utföra din magi. Knåda försiktigt ryggen, halsen och axlarna och undvik ryggraden. Om du känner dig äventyrlig, kan du försöka en helkroppsmassage. Var generös med din tid -- försök att hålla den uppe i minst 15 till 20 minuter tills din man har helt avslappnat. Men varna dig -- all hud-på-hud kontakt kan lämna din man känner sig mer tänd-på än avslappnad! Den som sa att vägen till en mans hjärta gick genom hans mage talade aldrig ett sannare ord. Män älskar mat, speciellt när den är kärleksfullt tillagad av deras andra hälft. Välj ett recept (eller stjäl ett från hans mamma) och tillred det någon kväll när han minst anar det. Gör det till ett tillfälle -- duka bordet snyggt, öppna en bra flaska vin och låtsas att du äter ute på en restaurang! Vi förespråkar inte 50-talets hemmafrus beteende här: "Du måste ha en varm måltid på bordet när din man kommer hem från jobbet." Vi pratar om att laga en god måltid åt dig för att du vill och för att det är en bra sak att göra. Om du är en usel kock, improvisera! Beställ hans favorit hämtmat men servera den på fina rätter eller ta honom ut till hans favorit restaurang för middag, din godis! Om du är i ett långvarigt förhållande, är det lätt att låta rutinen ta över och stanna i att titta på TV varje lördag kväll. Håll din man glad genom att göra något spontant eller annorlunda istället! Injicera lite roligt i din mans liv genom att planera dejtkvällar -- skaffa konsertbiljetter, gå och klättra, organisera en vinprovning, gå på en konstutställning, vara värd för en spelkväll med några andra par -- vad som helst så länge det är annorlunda. Om du känner dig äventyrlig, planera något riktigt galet som ett gemensamt fallskärmshopp, en valskådningsresa eller en semester eller road trip. Ta hand om så många detaljer i förväg som möjligt, så att din man inte behöver stressa på dagen. Återigen, vi förespråkar inte en 50-tals hemmafru strategi här, men att ta lite stolthet i ditt utseende och ser bra ut för din man är definitivt en bra sak. Du vill att han ska känna sig stolt över att du är hans fru eller flickvän! Vi har alla dagar när vi vill lata oss i vår pyjamas, utan smink på och hår skrapas tillbaka, men då och då är det trevligt att klä upp sig av ingen annan anledning än att vilja se bra ut för din man. Han kommer att uppskatta ansträngningen! Du bör också anstränga dig för att göra de saker du brukade göra när du först träffades -- om det innebär att raka benen, få håret stylat en gång i månaden, eller att hålla din vikt i schack. Försök att vara flickan han blev kär i! Ingen diskussion om hur man skall hålla en man lycklig skulle vara fullständig utan någon som helst hänvisning till sex! Även om detta kan variera lite, de flesta män älskar när deras dam tar hand om i sovrummet. Detta betyder något annorlunda i varje relation, oavsett om det bara är att initiera sex (särskilt om du inte normalt) eller binda din man, dominatrix stil. Ge honom gratis då och då -- med andra ord, en sexuell tjänst där du inte förväntar dig något i gengäld. Han föredrar det framför en riktig gåva vilken dag som helst i veckan! Kom ihåg att vara intim (vad det än betyder för er) är en viktig del av en sund, lycklig relation – det för er två närmare varandra och gör det möjligt för er att uttrycka er kärlek till varandra på ett djupt personligt sätt.
Men love to be pampered from time to time, so choose an evening to treat your husband or boyfriend to a relaxing massage. Choose a day when your husband feels particularly tired or stressed and makes yourself put up with massage oil, candles, music -- anything that makes the experience more relaxing. Tell him to undress and lie down on the bed, and then perform your magic. Gently knead the back, neck and shoulders and avoid the spine. If you feel adventurous, you can try a whole body massage. Be generous with your time -- try to keep it up for at least 15 to 20 minutes until your husband has completely relaxed. But warn yourself -- any skin-on-skin contact can leave your husband feeling more lit-on than relaxed! The one who said that the way to a man's heart went through his stomach never spoke a truer word. Men love food, especially when it is lovingly prepared by their other half. Choose a recipe (or steal one from his mother) and prepare it some night when he least expects it. Make it an opportunity -- set the table neatly, open a good bottle of wine and pretend you eat out in a restaurant! We don't advocate the behaviour of the 50s housewife here: "You must have a warm meal on the table when your husband comes home from work." We're talking about making you a good meal because you want to and because it's a good thing to do. If you're a lousy cook, improvise! Order his favorite takeout but serve it on fine dishes or take him out to his favorite restaurant for dinner, your candy! If you are in a long - term relationship, it is easy to let the routine take over and stay in watching TV every Saturday night. Keep your husband happy by doing something spontaneous or different instead! Inject some fun into your husband's life by planning date nights -- getting concert tickets, climbing, organizing a wine tasting, going to an art exhibition, hosting a game night with some other couples -- anything as long as it's different. If you feel adventurous, plan something really crazy like a common parachute jump, a whale-watching trip or a vacation or road trip. Take care of as many details in advance as possible, so that your husband does not have to rush during the day. Again, we don't advocate a 50s housewife strategy here, but taking some pride in your appearance and looking good for your husband is definitely a good thing. You want him to feel proud that you're his wife or girlfriend! We all have days when we want to lark in our pajamas, without makeup on and hair scraped back, but occasionally it's nice to dress up for no other reason than to want to look good for your husband. He will appreciate the effort! You should also make an effort to do the things you used to do when you first met -- whether it means shaving your legs, getting your hair styled once a month, or keeping your weight at bay. Try to be the girl he fell in love with! No discussion of how to keep a man happy would be complete without any reference to sex! Although this may vary a little, most men love when their lady takes care of in the bedroom. This means something different in every relationship, whether it's just initiating sex (especially if you're not normal) or tying your husband, the dominatrix style. Give him free from time to time -- in other words, a sexual favor where you don't expect anything in return. He prefers it to a real gift any day of the week! Remember to be intimate (whatever it means to you) is an important part of a healthy, happy relationship—it brings you two closer to each other and enables you to express your love for each other in a deeply personal way.