In & Out stars a man.
Frank Oz ( born Frank Richard Oznowicz ; born May 25 , 1944 ) is an English-born American puppeteer , filmmaker and actor . In & Out is a 1997 American romantic comedy film directed by Frank Oz and starring Kevin Kline , Tom Selleck , Joan Cusack , Matt Dillon , Debbie Reynolds , and Wilford Brimley . Kevin Delaney Kline ( born October 24 , 1947 ) is an American film and stage actor and singer . He has won an Academy Award and two Tony Awards and is a 2003 American Theatre Hall of Fame inductee . Matthew Raymond Dillon ( born February 18 , 1964 ) is an American actor and film director .