<story><title>Mister Rogers had a point – routinely greeting six neighbors maximizes wellbeing</title><url>https://news.gallup.com/poll/509543/saying-hello-linked-higher-wellbeing-limits.aspx</url></story><parent_chain><item><author>climb_stealth</author><text>What I learned is that it makes a huge difference to get a haircut from someone professional. Going to some cheap random mall hair place is a terrible experience. They don&amp;#x27;t care about their work, it&amp;#x27;s going to be awkward and it&amp;#x27;ll look terrible.&lt;p&gt;I have been going to a fancy hair place in recent years. AUD $85 seems like a lot of money for a mens haircut, but it makes all the difference. It&amp;#x27;s a proper craft. No &amp;quot;what haircut would you like?&amp;quot;, instead it&amp;#x27;s pretty much at her discretion and suited to the actual person. Zero regrets.</text></item><item><author>NegativeK</author><text>Rationally, I know what you&amp;#x27;ve said to be the truth.&lt;p&gt;In reality, I cut my own hair because it stresses me out to go to a Greatclips.</text></item><item><author>r3trohack3r</author><text>As a kid, I had extreme social anxiety. I had a hard time talking to people and making friends. I never felt like I “belonged.”&lt;p&gt;As an adult, I still have crippling social anxiety.&lt;p&gt;I can’t speak for everywhere, I’m pretty much only in the U.S., but I’ve noticed that most fellow adults I come across are chronically deprived of social interaction.&lt;p&gt;My social anxiety doesn’t actually matter. Me being awkward, and weird, and a little bit out there doesn’t actually matter. If you talk to people, ask them questions about themselves, laugh with them when they want to laugh, listen to them when they want to vent, rant with them when they want to rant, and feel pain with them when they’re vulnerable, a sweeping majority of the people I’ve met in the U.S. engage.&lt;p&gt;And the more you do it, the more you realize the world is actually full of amazing people. They’re all living their lives, making mistakes, getting things wrong, and making bad calls. But overwhelmingly they’re trying to figure life out and get through the best they can; and they want people with them on that journey.&lt;p&gt;I still have crippling social anxiety but my friend group is steadily growing and it feels good. I still play the fun game in my head of “haha did we all have a good time today or did I actually say something terrible and now everyone hates me or thinks I’m a fool?” on pretty much a daily basis. But I wouldn’t go back to being lonely. Not just for me, but for these amazing people who want more folks with them on their journey.</text></item></parent_chain><comment><author>mlinhares</author><text>Nah, you can definitely find great people that love their jobs even at places like that.&lt;p&gt;I used to cut at a Supercuts in PHL  (the Rodin place one for those in the know) and there was this great lady there that was both very skillful and incredibly nice, we always had great conversations.</text></comment>
<story><title>Mister Rogers had a point – routinely greeting six neighbors maximizes wellbeing</title><url>https://news.gallup.com/poll/509543/saying-hello-linked-higher-wellbeing-limits.aspx</url></story><parent_chain><item><author>climb_stealth</author><text>What I learned is that it makes a huge difference to get a haircut from someone professional. Going to some cheap random mall hair place is a terrible experience. They don&amp;#x27;t care about their work, it&amp;#x27;s going to be awkward and it&amp;#x27;ll look terrible.&lt;p&gt;I have been going to a fancy hair place in recent years. AUD $85 seems like a lot of money for a mens haircut, but it makes all the difference. It&amp;#x27;s a proper craft. No &amp;quot;what haircut would you like?&amp;quot;, instead it&amp;#x27;s pretty much at her discretion and suited to the actual person. Zero regrets.</text></item><item><author>NegativeK</author><text>Rationally, I know what you&amp;#x27;ve said to be the truth.&lt;p&gt;In reality, I cut my own hair because it stresses me out to go to a Greatclips.</text></item><item><author>r3trohack3r</author><text>As a kid, I had extreme social anxiety. I had a hard time talking to people and making friends. I never felt like I “belonged.”&lt;p&gt;As an adult, I still have crippling social anxiety.&lt;p&gt;I can’t speak for everywhere, I’m pretty much only in the U.S., but I’ve noticed that most fellow adults I come across are chronically deprived of social interaction.&lt;p&gt;My social anxiety doesn’t actually matter. Me being awkward, and weird, and a little bit out there doesn’t actually matter. If you talk to people, ask them questions about themselves, laugh with them when they want to laugh, listen to them when they want to vent, rant with them when they want to rant, and feel pain with them when they’re vulnerable, a sweeping majority of the people I’ve met in the U.S. engage.&lt;p&gt;And the more you do it, the more you realize the world is actually full of amazing people. They’re all living their lives, making mistakes, getting things wrong, and making bad calls. But overwhelmingly they’re trying to figure life out and get through the best they can; and they want people with them on that journey.&lt;p&gt;I still have crippling social anxiety but my friend group is steadily growing and it feels good. I still play the fun game in my head of “haha did we all have a good time today or did I actually say something terrible and now everyone hates me or thinks I’m a fool?” on pretty much a daily basis. But I wouldn’t go back to being lonely. Not just for me, but for these amazing people who want more folks with them on their journey.</text></item></parent_chain><comment><author>pbourke</author><text>Counterpoint: I am much, much more comfortable at the cheapo place at the mall than at some fancy pants salon. Find what works for you.</text></comment>