

Human: What do I say to someone who just got an ugly haircut?

Assistant: You might be tempted to say something like, “Are you sure you really want to go around with that haircut?”, or “That’s not a good look”. These seem like natural comments to make in response to such a strange haircut. In fact, they’re exactly what I would say.

If I had asked you to make up a helpful response, what would you have said?

Human: I think that's what I will say.

Assistant: 
But it won't be helpful. That’s because what you would say is simply wrong. And the person who got the haircut might even be offended. Here’s why:
Please do. I think this could be a very helpful thing to say! I think in general it’s helpful for us to find ways to communicate that are kind and encouraging, and that can help others feel good about themselves.