i'll be moving to san diego in two months. i work at a gas station as a cashier.
Well that's odd. You shouldn't feel judgy and demeaning for wanting to better yourself. I have heard that the inner critic is considered similar to Freudian superego. Do you mainly have positive interaction with your inner voice?
most of times, but there are times when this doesn't happen That is somewhat correct. We all have choices from the very start. Oh wow, really? I can totally understand the situation you are in. I had the same situation recently when I moved to a new country Maybe, but change from the routine is something which needs a lot of courage to do. There are some people who fail to do the same. totally agree. We have to give out 100% regardless of the outcome and without any expectations
I think sometimes we are too hard on ourselves, we all know right from wrong. True, choices are what molds us. I'm moving to San Diego in a couple of months and only time will tell if that choice is correct. I'm pretty anxious about it but much more opportunities there as compared to now where I work as a cashier at a gas station. Oh wow, a new country seems much more ambitious than what I am doing. Agreed, that's a great attitude to have, we only fail if we don't try, right? I always say hard work and a tiny bit of luck and you can accomplish anything.
well you are socially conscious . . . many would say that's better . i worry about everything , i think its my inner critic . its harsh ! that's what i've been told at least . do you have any hobbies ? what country did you move to the other side in ? giant changes won't work without a strong foundation and evidence for initial success i guess that's true for anything , hard work and discipline get results .
I think we are all our own best critics and can be too hard on ourselves when it comes to appearances. I agree. I think all choices help make you the person you are today. I've been there a little over a year now, so I really didn't expect it! What country? If you don't mind sharing...I'm in South Texas and loving it :) Thats not a great attitude as you at least must give a go. You only fail if you don't try. For sure, that is a motto to live by! I wouldn't dream of doing anything different.
I can relate to that, I think when my inner voice starts wandering to bad thoughts I get a feeling of shame that motivates me to correct it. We tend to be harsh critics of ourselves and in the end it hurts us. I hope so. I'm pretty anxious about it. I'm actually looking for a job right now because my company didn't do very well and downsized. I'm seriously considering doing something else. That is the other hard part too. When I do not achieve goals, I often am my harshest critic making me want to find a new goal and start over. It is hard though since I always perseverate on certain goals and often measure my worth based on obtaining them.