i am getting married in six months. i drive a mercedes.
I felt kind of irked when my friend kept bugging me for help. Why did you feel irritated? 
Because they knew how much I worked, and although I feel bad, I really didn't want to help. I work 65+ a week. I'm just tired.  Because they're my friend. I always feel obligated to help my friends.  So you don't think I'm a bad friend? I want to help them. I just wish I didn't work so much.  Maybe I can offer some sort of financial assistance instead. Since I can't offer my time, perhaps offering a little bit of money would still help them Maybe I'll offer to pay for a pizza and beer night. Instead of helping them move, I can offer to help them unpack on a Friday night.  Thanks for your advice. It seems you've experienced this before. 
Why did you feel so obligated to help? Friendship is a two-way street.   Friends help friends, but they also understand what is going on with each other. Maybe they aren't being good friends to you. If you want to chip in to hire movers, that could be great.  But, I wouldn't feel obligated if I were you. That sounds great.  If they are your friends, they should understand that you can't always help move. I've had a few different friends in several different similar situations.  So, I have seen this before.
why what did you do ? how about people you know and they annoyed you ? no not at all . you have every right to be angry . i have had money taken from me and it made me mad , because i owed them . sounds like a plan . we can watch the football game when they're gone too . a lot of times lately i think i had it so much better before them .
Did you try to reason with them? MAyabe you can do something nice for them when you get back on your feet. MAyabe you can do something nice for them when you get back on your feet. You can always give them some money once you get yourself back on your feet. Just keep your head up - things will get better. I suppose that works. Sorry you feel that way. Its hard to find people to help move.
That is not good. You should have better work ethic. Well that goes along with the Helper theory that when one helps another, the helper benefits as well.  You have a good head on your shoulders! Definitely. I do have some people I am close to, but it takes me a while to get there. The best way is to support them from a physical, emotional, and social standpoint. Sounds like a great idea. Hope you find something that works. No problem.    That kind of reminds me of Jimmy Fallon's pros and cons sketch on Tuesdays.