i work too much. i m a perfectionist.
Yes, its almost like setting yourself up for failure because not everything you do or everything you encounter can be perfect. So frustrating!   It is best conceptualized as a multidimensional characteristic, And it is kinda rare to have it,
it can definitely be bad to hold yourself to one standards without maintaining some flexibility yep. my daughter holds herself to a very high standard and just graduated top of her class, but i worry that she's too obsessive about grades yeah, she says that at university she is going to try some extracurricular stuff to try and branch out from just grades i met my wife through extracurricular activities and now we work together, so doing stuff outside of class can even be good for a career what kind of work do you do? we run an NGO that specializes in integration for refugees and asylum seekers
This is true. But it can also be bad to hold yourself to no standards. Standards are important Thats great to hear. Its good to care about your grades. but caring to much can be a concern. Have you mentioned it to her? Cool, I hope she continues to be successful. It's good you are encouraging her! I spend most of my time working. which leaves little time for other activities.  I work in IT. And like to have everything done as it should be. kind of a perfectionist. How about you? Thats great. you must meet so many people doing that?
i do not like standards , i can never live up to them you should focus on your own standards not someone elses ! i have a feeling you will succeed . because you are focused . that's great , common interests and things you like to do together definately helps ! mainly maintenance of mechanical systems . i like to be able to not pay for anything . you know ? that's great . you must meet so many people there .
Definitely - not all skills are rewarded equally. I am sure she will graduate with honors and get a great job Cool, I hope she continues to be successful. It's good you are encouraging her! If the journey is tough then you are in the right path. So, she is heading in right way. Great. I work in IT, what about you? Oh, very good, I work with a charity too
Yeah,  It is best conceptualized as a multidimensional characteristic I guess that some countries has 13 grades. I'm sure you'll do great. In second grade, that's where the kiddos will begin learning mathematics and science and social studies among other subjects That's great. Is she going here in the US? The education here is very different than in other parts of the world. I'm a financial analyst. Extremely boring work. She has a much more rewarding career lol. Oh that's nice, I have always known that efforts to promote, impede, or direct social, political, economic, or environmental reform. I want to change things I don't like in the society