i am a widow. my parents were divorced.
What's bad is we weren't on good terms. We got in a terrible fight that night and he rolled his car, was pronounced dead on the spot. Sorry for the details but I have learned to live each day like it was the last. It could be Oh my gosh! That is so horrible! I'm so sorry for the pain you must feel. It breaks my heart! Widowhood is not a club people ever want to join.
Thank you.  But, I have learned to live with it. Yeah, people say look on the bright side, but I don't know if there is a bright side.  It's just about moving forward. I have tried hobbies.  I am learning to paint.  That takes my mind off things. It eases my mind and I am also finding that I am good at it.  I had a hidden talent.
That's really the best thing that you can do, only so much is in your control. That's true, there are plenty of effective coping methods, but nothing ever truly fixes the pain  That's good to hear, yes hobbies can help ease your mind when times are the toughest  Sometimes there is a bright side then! You may not have found that talent otherwise.
oh my gosh ! that is so terrible . i'm so sorry i'm a realist by nature . change what you can and accept what you can not . that's good ! some kind of creative expression might specifically help a lot too that's good ! some kind of creative expression might specifically help a lot too
Are your political views the same? and do you think this next fight will end well? It's good to always try and think positive. Maybe its time to launch your art career full time. Maybe its time to launch your art career full time.
I think he would probably tell you not to be so hard on yourself. Everyone says things they regret and I'm sure he knows that you cared for him. Still, I can understand how bad you must feel that that was your last interaction. Women typically outlive men, but what you went through was certainly traumatic. That is a great way of thinking about it. There is a great short film called embrace life that really helped my friend to start focussing on her issues. That's a good way to distract yourself. What kind of skills? That's a good way to distract yourself. What kind of skills?