tourist destination, and in the small town that has grown up around the temples, there are many small hotels and restaurants catering to travelers. Shiva is a strikingly handsome young Indian man who looks as though he just stepped out of one of the ancient carvings. When he learned that I was an expert on polyamory from the United States, he asked me to have dinner at his restaurant and give him some . "It's easy to meet foreign women here," he told me. "Even the ten-year-old boys know that all you have to do is ask a woman if she wants to learn Tantra and you have a date."



Shiva has had many love affairs with tourists who end up staying anywhere from a few weeks to apromised. It's a lot of drama! What can we do?" I gave Shiva the links to the material on my website about managing , applauded his good intentions, and gave him the cardinal rule about dealing with jealousy: never try to reason with a jealous person. Instead, breathe through the emotional upset, find support from sympathetic friends or a therapist, and talk about it when the jealousy has subsided.



Khajuraho was the capital of the Chandella dynasty, known for the flourishing of arts that took place under their long and stable reign. These exquisite temples were built over a 200-year period, beginning in the tenth century. Twenty-five of the original eighty remain, spread over a twenty-one-square-kilometer area. Because they are located in such a remote area, invaders never completely