believed that the mother had had an affair with Wittenbrink, the college baseball player who lived in the parties' home in May 2001. However, the father admitted that he never asked Wittenbrink to leave the parties' home, that he went out drinking with Wittenbrink, that he worked out with Wittenbrink, and that he recommended Wittenbrink for admission into law school.
The father testified regarding his work schedule. He stated that he is in charge of the trauma unit that cares for all trauma patients at the University of South Alabama. His work involves critical care as well as surgery. The father testified that because of his work schedule he would have to hire help to care for the children if he were awarded custody. He stated that he couldnot control when he was called to the hospital for an emergency.
The father admitted that he had called the mother profane names on occasion. He admitted that there had been sporadic instances of physical violence between him and the mother, but he stated that the mother was the instigator and that he had defended himself. He admitted drinking alcohol to excess. The father testified that *261 he owned and watched pornographic videos, and he admitted that he watched pornography on the Internet.
The father admitted that he hid $10,000 in Jim Walker's bank account during the divorce proceedings. He said that he hid the money in Walker's account in order to hire an additional lawyer but that he did not want it known until he had hired the lawyer.