her bathroom built to match the one she was accustomed to using. Having a place to call home was a blessing for Anita and her family, but having the friendship and unwavering support of Emma and Claus meant the world to them.

A Love Story-1978

Now it just so happens that Anita's daughter, Lisa, and the Meissner's eldest son, Klaus, were close in age. When they first met there were some teenage butterflies, but as their families grew closer, their relationship developed into a good friendship. After graduating from high school, they went to college and graduate school, staying in touch and of course seeing each other at family gatherings.

When Lisa had begun working and Klaus was completing his graduate work at SUNY Albany, she would often come to visithim. During one of these visits, Klaus decided that he really wanted Lisa to become more than just a friend. He wanted a relationship. She pushed him away. It was just too complicated. They were practically family!

She left to drive home, but her car had other ideas. Shortly into the trip it broke down, leaving her stranded. She found a payphone and called Klaus for help. It was that gallant rescue that changed her mind and she agreed to try a relationship with him.

Having had plenty of time (10 years) to get to know one another, they quickly moved in together and in May of 1979 they were married. In the First Presbyterian Church of Northport, NY.

In 1980 my brother, Luke, was born and I followed 22 months