After Dai's death, his wife Wang Hexin (王荷馨) donated the entire death benefit of Fabi $200,000 she received from the Kuomintang government to build the Anlan Memorial School in Quanzhou, Guangxi.
When the Kuomintang lost the Chinese Civil War in 1949, Wang and her children were offered the chance to retreat to Taiwan with the government.
However, she chose to stay in mainland China to be near her husband's tomb.

Dai and his wife had three sons and a daughter: Dai Fudong, Dai Fanli (戴藩篱), Dai Jingdong (戴靖东), and Dai Chengdong (戴澄东).
Fudong became a distinguished architect who was elected an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering; Fanli, the only daughter, enlisted in the People's Volunteer Army during the Korean War; Jingdong was a professor of the Nanjing Institute of Technology, and Chengdong was a senior hydraulic engineer in Jiangsu province.
After Dai's death, his wife Wang Hexin (王荷馨) donated the entire death benefit of Fabi $200,000 she received from the Kuomintang government to build the Anlan Memorial School in Quanzhou, Guangxi. When the Kuomintang lost the Chinese Civil War in 1949, Wang and her children were offered the chance to retreat to Taiwan with the government. However, she chose to stay in mainland China to be near her husband's tomb.
Dai and his wife had three sons and a daughter: Dai Fudong, Dai Fanli (戴藩篱), Dai Jingdong (戴靖东), and Dai Chengdong (戴澄东). Fudong became a distinguished architect who was elected an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering; Fanli, the only daughter, enlisted in the People's Volunteer Army during the Korean War; Jingdong was a professor of the Nanjing Institute of Technology, and Chengdong was a senior hydraulic engineer in Jiangsu province.
Dai Anlan