On 11 July 1850, she and a prosperous local wool merchant, Robert Barr, married.
The couple emigrated to the U.S. in September 1853, landing in New York City.
In Chicago, Illinois, Barr tutored at home, and established a school for girls, though she was not involved for long as her husband's business prospects fell through and they traveled west, settled in Austin, Texas.
They remained there until after the American Civil War when they moved to Galveston, where Mr. Barr became an auditor for the state, before he and four sons were stricken with yellow fever and died.
Of their 12 children, several died young.

With her three remaining daughters, Mrs. Barr moved to Ridgewood, New Jersey, in 1868.
She came there to tutor the three sons of a prominent citizen, William Libby, in ancient and modern literature, music, and drawing; and opened a school in a small house.
This structure still stands at the southwest corner of Van Dien and Linwood Avenues.
Barr did not like Ridgewood and did not remain there for very long.
She left shortly after selling a story to a magazine.

Barr asked advice of Henry Ward Beecher, then editor of the Christian Union, in regard to contributions to magazines.
He encouraged her to write for his paper.
Through the Bouchers or Dr. Lyman Abbott, she met the Harpers and wrote for them many years.
After an accident confined her to a chair, unable to employ herself otherwise, she wrote her first novel, Jan Vedder's Wife.
Thereafter, she wrote a great deal.
In 1869, she moved to New York City, where she began to write for religious periodicals and to publish a series of semi-historical tales and novels.
By 1891, when she achieved greater success, she and her daughters moved up the Hudson River to Cornwall-on-Hudson, New York, where they renovated a house on the slopes of Storm King Mountain and named it Cherry Croft.
The name has been applied to that period of her career, the most productive and successful.
She remained there until moving in with her daughter Lilly in White Plains in her last years.

Barr had a sunstroke in July 1918 and never fully recovered.
She died on March 10, 1919, in Richmond Hill, Queens, New York, where she had moved in 1914.
She was buried in Sleepy Hollow Cemetery in Tarrytown, New York, near her friend, Louis Klopsch.
On 11 July 1850, she and a prosperous local wool merchant, Robert Barr, married. The couple emigrated to the U.S. in September 1853, landing in New York City. In Chicago, Illinois, Barr tutored at home, and established a school for girls, though she was not involved for long as her husband's business prospects fell through and they traveled west, settled in Austin, Texas. They remained there until after the American Civil War when they moved to Galveston, where Mr. Barr became an auditor for the state, before he and four sons were stricken with yellow fever and died. Of their 12 children, several died young.
With her three remaining daughters, Mrs. Barr moved to Ridgewood, New Jersey, in 1868. She came there to tutor the three sons of a prominent citizen, William Libby, in ancient and modern literature, music, and drawing; and opened a school in a small house. This structure still stands at the southwest corner of Van Dien and Linwood Avenues. Barr did not like Ridgewood and did not remain there for very long. She left shortly after selling a story to a magazine. 
Barr asked advice of Henry Ward Beecher, then editor of the Christian Union, in regard to contributions to magazines. He encouraged her to write for his paper. Through the Bouchers or Dr. Lyman Abbott, she met the Harpers and wrote for them many years. After an accident confined her to a chair, unable to employ herself otherwise, she wrote her first novel, Jan Vedder's Wife. Thereafter, she wrote a great deal. In 1869, she moved to New York City, where she began to write for religious periodicals and to publish a series of semi-historical tales and novels. By 1891, when she achieved greater success, she and her daughters moved up the Hudson River to Cornwall-on-Hudson, New York, where they renovated a house on the slopes of Storm King Mountain and named it Cherry Croft. The name has been applied to that period of her career, the most productive and successful. She remained there until moving in with her daughter Lilly in White Plains in her last years.
Barr had a sunstroke in July 1918 and never fully recovered. She died on March 10, 1919, in Richmond Hill, Queens, New York, where she had moved in 1914. She was buried in Sleepy Hollow Cemetery in Tarrytown, New York, near her friend, Louis Klopsch.
Amelia Edith Huddleston Barr