Hensley met John McCain in April 1979 at a military reception in Hawaii.
 He was the U.S. Navy liaison officer to the United States Senate and almost 18 years her senior.
 By her later description, each fudged the age they said they were to the other: "He made himself younger, and I made myself older, of course."

He had been married to Carol McCain for 14 years and they had three children (two of whom he adopted from her first marriage).

McCain and Hensley quickly began a relationship, traveling between Arizona and Washington to see each other.
 John McCain then pushed to end his marriage and the couple stopped cohabiting in January 1980, Carol McCain consented to a divorce in February 1980, it was finalized in April 1980.

Hensley and McCain were married on May 17, 1980 at the Arizona Biltmore Hotel in Phoenix.
They signed a prenuptial agreement that kept most of her family's assets under her name; they kept their finances apart and filed separate income tax returns.

Her father's business and political contacts helped her new husband to gain a foothold in Arizona politics.
She campaigned with her husband door to door during his successful first bid for U.S. Congress in 1982, and was heavily involved in campaign strategy.
Her wealth from an expired trust from her parents provided significant loans to the campaign and helped it survive a period of early debt.

Once her husband was elected, the McCains moved to Alexandria, Virginia.
 She spent two months in late 1983 writing handwritten notes on over 4,000 Christmas cards to be sent to constituents and others.
 She was considered an outsider who was snubbed by the Washington congressional social scene, in part because Carol McCain was a popular figure in town, and she grew homesick for Arizona.
 She had several miscarriages.

She moved back to Arizona in early 1984 and gave birth to the couple's daughter, Meghan, later that year.
 She subsequently gave birth to sons John Sidney IV (known as "Jack") in 1986 and James (known as "Jimmy") in 1988.
 Their fourth child, Bridget, was adopted in 1991.
  McCain's parents lived across the street and helped her raise the children; her husband was frequently in Washington and she typically only saw him on weekends and holidays.
 In his absence, she organized elaborate fund-raisers for him and expanded their home.

In April 1986, McCain and her father invested $359,100 in a shopping center project with Phoenix banker Charles Keating.
This, combined with her role as a bookkeeper who later had difficulty finding receipts for family trips on Keating's jet, caused complications for her husband during the Keating Five scandal, when he was being examined for his role regarding oversight of Keating's bank.
Hensley met John McCain in April 1979 at a military reception in Hawaii.  He was the U.S. Navy liaison officer to the United States Senate and almost 18 years her senior.  By her later description, each fudged the age they said they were to the other: "He made himself younger, and I made myself older, of course."
He had been married to Carol McCain for 14 years and they had three children (two of whom he adopted from her first marriage).
McCain and Hensley quickly began a relationship, traveling between Arizona and Washington to see each other.  John McCain then pushed to end his marriage and the couple stopped cohabiting in January 1980, Carol McCain consented to a divorce in February 1980, it was finalized in April 1980.
Hensley and McCain were married on May 17, 1980 at the Arizona Biltmore Hotel in Phoenix. They signed a prenuptial agreement that kept most of her family's assets under her name; they kept their finances apart and filed separate income tax returns.
Her father's business and political contacts helped her new husband to gain a foothold in Arizona politics. She campaigned with her husband door to door during his successful first bid for U.S. Congress in 1982, and was heavily involved in campaign strategy. Her wealth from an expired trust from her parents provided significant loans to the campaign and helped it survive a period of early debt.
Once her husband was elected, the McCains moved to Alexandria, Virginia.  She spent two months in late 1983 writing handwritten notes on over 4,000 Christmas cards to be sent to constituents and others.  She was considered an outsider who was snubbed by the Washington congressional social scene, in part because Carol McCain was a popular figure in town, and she grew homesick for Arizona.  She had several miscarriages.
She moved back to Arizona in early 1984 and gave birth to the couple's daughter, Meghan, later that year.  She subsequently gave birth to sons John Sidney IV (known as "Jack") in 1986 and James (known as "Jimmy") in 1988.  Their fourth child, Bridget, was adopted in 1991.   McCain's parents lived across the street and helped her raise the children; her husband was frequently in Washington and she typically only saw him on weekends and holidays.  In his absence, she organized elaborate fund-raisers for him and expanded their home.
In April 1986, McCain and her father invested $359,100 in a shopping center project with Phoenix banker Charles Keating. This, combined with her role as a bookkeeper who later had difficulty finding receipts for family trips on Keating's jet, caused complications for her husband during the Keating Five scandal, when he was being examined for his role regarding oversight of Keating's bank.
Cindy McCain