At the age of 18, Nabby met and fell in love with Royall Tyler.
Her father thought she was too young to have a suitor, but he eventually accepted it.
At one point the two were even engaged to be married.
But John Adams, then the U.S. minister to the Kingdom of Great Britain, eagerly called for his wife and daughter to join him in London.
 For a time, Nabby maintained a long-distance relationship with Tyler, but eventually broke off the engagement, leaving Tyler depressed.

Shortly afterward Nabby met Colonel William Stephens Smith, who was serving as her father's secretary and was 10 years her senior.
They would later be related by marriage—Col.
Smith's sister was the wife of Nabby's brother Charles Adams (1770–1800).
They were married at the American minister's residence in London on June 12, 1786.
Nabby's observations of European life and customs, and of many of the distinguished statesmen of the day, were later published.

Their courtship was thought to be too short by Nabby's parents, and historians have not considered it to be a good marriage.
While Colonel Smith was kind to his family, he never settled, continually seeking a better lot in life.
He spent more money than he earned and lost everything to real estate speculation in the early 1800s.
 This left them on a small farm along the Chenango River in central New York.

Their children were:
William Steuben Smith
John Adams Smith
Thomas Hollis Smith
Caroline Amelia Smith; married John Peter DeWint of Fishkill-on-Hudson.
At the age of 18, Nabby met and fell in love with Royall Tyler. Her father thought she was too young to have a suitor, but he eventually accepted it. At one point the two were even engaged to be married. But John Adams, then the U.S. minister to the Kingdom of Great Britain, eagerly called for his wife and daughter to join him in London.  For a time, Nabby maintained a long-distance relationship with Tyler, but eventually broke off the engagement, leaving Tyler depressed.
Shortly afterward Nabby met Colonel William Stephens Smith, who was serving as her father's secretary and was 10 years her senior. They would later be related by marriage—Col. Smith's sister was the wife of Nabby's brother Charles Adams (1770–1800). They were married at the American minister's residence in London on June 12, 1786. Nabby's observations of European life and customs, and of many of the distinguished statesmen of the day, were later published.
Their courtship was thought to be too short by Nabby's parents, and historians have not considered it to be a good marriage. While Colonel Smith was kind to his family, he never settled, continually seeking a better lot in life. He spent more money than he earned and lost everything to real estate speculation in the early 1800s.  This left them on a small farm along the Chenango River in central New York.
Their children were:
William Steuben Smith
John Adams Smith
Thomas Hollis Smith
Caroline Amelia Smith; married John Peter DeWint of Fishkill-on-Hudson.
Abigail Adams Smith