Wesley met and began dating Torrey DeVitto in 2007 when they acted together in Killer Movie.
They married in a private ceremony in New York City in April 2011.
In July 2013, it was reported that they had filed for divorce.
The divorce was finalized in December 2013.

Wesley lived in Atlanta, Georgia, while filming The Vampire Diaries and the rest of the time with DeVitto in Los Angeles, California.
He sold his Los Angeles residence after his divorce from DeVitto at the end of 2013.
As of February 2019, Wesley is married to Ines de Ramon.

In 2014, Wesley served as a jury member of the Tribeca Film Festival.

As a Polish citizen, he endorsed Rafał Trzaskowski in the 2020 Polish presidential election.
Wesley met and began dating Torrey DeVitto in 2007 when they acted together in Killer Movie. They married in a private ceremony in New York City in April 2011. In July 2013, it was reported that they had filed for divorce. The divorce was finalized in December 2013.
Wesley lived in Atlanta, Georgia, while filming The Vampire Diaries and the rest of the time with DeVitto in Los Angeles, California. He sold his Los Angeles residence after his divorce from DeVitto at the end of 2013. As of February 2019, Wesley is married to Ines de Ramon.
In 2014, Wesley served as a jury member of the Tribeca Film Festival.
As a Polish citizen, he endorsed Rafał Trzaskowski in the 2020 Polish presidential election.
Paul Wesley