Once it was known that he was gay, men from all walks of life confided in him about their own closeted sexuality.

After a visit with Graham Scott to leading cities in the United States looking at their gay quarters, in co-operation with Edinburgh and Lothian Tourist Board he proposed that Edinburgh boost its appeal to gay tourists.

When in 2002 his partner went to live in a nursing home and for the next four years, in Westminster, he set up a fee paying service for anyone wanting to explore their homosexuality and often with fetishes they would find difficult to explain to most people.
In 2003 a Sunday People article reported that Miln was running a rent boy S&M club in the flat he had shared with Pattinson.
The investigation revealed that Miln had rent boys on his books charging £200 each.
Miln told the undercover reporter that senior church figures, Westminster MP's, civil servants, and members of the royal household were amongst the clientele for his services and the monthly orgies he held.
According to the People, Miln tried to recruit the reporter as a rent boy and gave him an ecstasy tablet to help him relax.
Laboratory tests later confirmed it was the drug.
Miln also reportedly offered the journalist unprotected sex, telling him: "There is nothing better than dangerous sex.
I could have HIV but at my age I don't care.
If I then give it to someone it will be because of their stupidity."
The Sunday People commented that it was a strange attitude from Archbishop Robert Runcie's former special adviser on AIDS.
A spokesman for the Diocese of London said, "The property is no longer anything to do with us."
It is not known whether the conversations were recorded, a usual component of tabloid journalism, but the article was published without apparent complaint.
The sex club was briefly referenced in a book by Linda Woodhead and Andrew Brown, a Guardian journalist, in 2016.
Miln was also the feature of a BBC One television documentary  Men for Hire broadcast on Tuesday 5 April 2005.
It was reported that he was seeing between 20 and 30 clients a week for role-play in his "headmaster's study" and that most sessions usually ended with sex.
Magazine articles and photographs about his work included Zero in March 2005 and QX in September 2005.
Once it was known that he was gay, men from all walks of life confided in him about their own closeted sexuality.
After a visit with Graham Scott to leading cities in the United States looking at their gay quarters, in co-operation with Edinburgh and Lothian Tourist Board he proposed that Edinburgh boost its appeal to gay tourists.
When in 2002 his partner went to live in a nursing home and for the next four years, in Westminster, he set up a fee paying service for anyone wanting to explore their homosexuality and often with fetishes they would find difficult to explain to most people. In 2003 a Sunday People article reported that Miln was running a rent boy S&M club in the flat he had shared with Pattinson. The investigation revealed that Miln had rent boys on his books charging £200 each. Miln told the undercover reporter that senior church figures, Westminster MP's, civil servants, and members of the royal household were amongst the clientele for his services and the monthly orgies he held. According to the People, Miln tried to recruit the reporter as a rent boy and gave him an ecstasy tablet to help him relax. Laboratory tests later confirmed it was the drug. Miln also reportedly offered the journalist unprotected sex, telling him: "There is nothing better than dangerous sex. I could have HIV but at my age I don't care. If I then give it to someone it will be because of their stupidity." The Sunday People commented that it was a strange attitude from Archbishop Robert Runcie's former special adviser on AIDS. A spokesman for the Diocese of London said, "The property is no longer anything to do with us." It is not known whether the conversations were recorded, a usual component of tabloid journalism, but the article was published without apparent complaint. The sex club was briefly referenced in a book by Linda Woodhead and Andrew Brown, a Guardian journalist, in 2016. Miln was also the feature of a BBC One television documentary  Men for Hire broadcast on Tuesday 5 April 2005. It was reported that he was seeing between 20 and 30 clients a week for role-play in his "headmaster's study" and that most sessions usually ended with sex. Magazine articles and photographs about his work included Zero in March 2005 and QX in September 2005.
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