The last thing a person being dumped wants to hear is ìI really want to continue our relationship as just friendsî when they are still in love. It is best for all concerned to give the person you are breaking up with some time to get over you before trying to build a friendship with them. Also, don’t try to change a romantic relationship to a ìfriends with benefitsî relationship if you know the other person still harbors feelings for you. This may give the other person false hope that you want to rekindle the romance when, in reality, you don’t. This can lead to confusion and hurt feelings in the long run.
Kitu cha mwisho ambacho mtu anayeachwa anataka kusikia ni ìNataka sana kuendeleza uhusiano wetu kama marafiki tu wakati bado wanapendana. Ni vyema kwa wote wanaohusika kumpa mtu unayeachana naye muda fulani ili akusuluhishe kabla ya kujaribu kujenga urafiki naye. Pia, usijaribu kubadilisha uhusiano wa kimapenzi kuwa ìmarafiki wenye manufaaî ikiwa unajua mtu mwingine bado ana hisia kwa ajili yako. Hii inaweza kumpa mtu mwingine tumaini la uwongo kwamba unataka kufufua mapenzi wakati, kwa kweli, hutaki. Hii inaweza kusababisha kuchanganyikiwa na hisia za kuumiza kwa muda mrefu.