I have seen a lot of online dating profiles of women who wrote down their real name somewhere in the profile, even if they used a fake name as their nickname. By putting in the effort to find out her real name, you show that you have read her profile. A lot of women don’t take this for granted and if you are one of the few guys who actually care about more than her picture, they are completely smitten.
Nimeona wasifu mwingi wa kuchumbiana mtandaoni wa wanawake ambao waliandika majina yao halisi mahali fulani kwenye wasifu, hata kama walitumia jina la uwongo kama lakabu yao. Kwa kuweka juhudi kutafuta jina lake halisi, unaonyesha kuwa umesoma wasifu wake. Wanawake wengi hawachukulii hii kwa urahisi na ikiwa wewe ni mmoja wa wavulana wachache ambao wanajali zaidi ya picha yake, wamepigwa kabisa.