What girls say: “I definitely find it attractive if a boy displays good manners both in small things, like opening the door for me, and larger things, like being kind and considerate not only to me but also to my family.”​—Tina, 20.*
Yale ambayo wasichana husema: “Kwa hakika mimi huvutiwa ikiwa mvulana anaonyesha adabu katika mambo madogo, kama vile kunifungulia mlango, na mambo makubwa zaidi, kama vile kuwa mwenye fadhili na ufikirio, si mimi tu bali pia familia yangu.”— Tina, 20.*