Its not the degree or the relational capital a person has that makes them big, its what they do or plan to to with it that separates the boys from men, women from girls.
Siyo hasa shahda au mtaji wa kimahusiano alionao mtu unaomfanya kuwa mkubwa, ni nini anachofanya nao au anavyopanga kuutumia ndiyo inayomtofautisha mtoto na mtu mzima.