Are you afraid of spending in charity before your private consultation (with him)? If then you do it not, and Allah has forgiven you, then (at least) perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat) and give Zakat and obey Allah (i.e. do all what Allah and His Prophet SAW order you to do). And Allah is All-Aware of what you do.
Mnachelea kutanguliza hiyo sadaka kabla ya kusemezana kwenu? Ikiwa hamkufanya hayo, na Mwenyezi Mungu akapokea toba yenu, basi shikeni Sala, na toeni Zaka, na mt'iini Mwenyezi Mungu na Mtume wake. Na Mwenyezi Mungu anazo khabari za mnayo yatenda.