Being an ice maiden is the flip side to trying too hard. Some women know about mistake number 4 and so they take it to the other extreme and become too aloof and unavailable. Although they may be going for ‘hard to get’ and ‘high value’, if taken too far this approach can come off that you are uninterested, unavailable, unfriendly and even snobby. It can feel a bit cold to many men, and most men will give up pretty quickly with an ice maiden, except those who are just interested in the challenge of the chase, and you don’t want this type of man as he is likely to drop you once the chase is over and move on to another woman.
Kuwa msichana wa barafu ni upande wa kujaribu sana. Wanawake wengine wanajua kuhusu kosa namba 4 na hivyo wanalichukulia hadi lingine na kuwa wapweke sana na hawapatikani. Ingawa wanaweza kuwa wanatafuta 'ngumu kupata' na 'thamani ya juu', ikiwa inachukuliwa mbali sana mbinu hii inaweza kutokea kwamba hupendezwi, haupatikani, huna urafiki na hata mvivu. Inaweza kuhisi baridi kidogo kwa wanaume wengi, na wanaume wengi hukata tamaa haraka sana na msichana wa barafu, isipokuwa wale ambao wanapenda tu changamoto ya kufukuza, na hutaki mwanaume wa aina hii kwani ana uwezekano. kukuangusha mara baada ya kufukuza kumalizika na kwenda kwa mwanamke mwingine.