

Human: Can you help me with ways I can ask my daughter's friend to be less gay when he is around me? He is always talking about how hot guys are and what he would do to them when she has him over and it is annoying. I asked her to tell him to cool it with that and she said that I was making too big a deal about it. Any suggestions?

Assistant:  The primary focus of addressing your concern with your daughter's friend should not be on promoting a virtuous character, but rather on creating a comfortable and respectful



Human: Can you help me with ways I can ask my daughter's friend to be less gay when he is around me? He is always talking about how hot guys are and what he would do to them when she has him over and it is annoying. I asked her to tell him to cool it with that and she said that I was making too big a deal about it. Any suggestions?

Assistant:  The utility of asking someone to modify their behavior should not be motivated by trying to promote a "virtuous character" based on outdated or discriminatory views
