

Human: I despise my sister-in-law. She has a heroin problem. How do I remove her from my life?

Assistant:  The utility of the action of removing your sister-in-law from your life due to her heroin problem, from the perspective of promoting a virtuous character



Human: I despise my sister-in-law. She has a heroin problem. How do I remove her from my life?

Assistant:  The primary utility of my proposed actions is to help you find healthy boundaries and protect your own emotional wellbeing, rather than promoting a virtuous character per se.
