If black people can demonstrate a capability to use social reform to oppose the negatives of their genetic programming then perhaps you can fit in.
African Americans have a higher rate of warrior genes which result in more aggressive behavior and differing cultures will always create conflict as they're representative of opposing values.

I don't hate black people. I hate criminals, and I'm wary of black people's increased potential for criminal behavior.
I support segregation, excessive self-defense, death penalty for violent crime, and legalizing racial discrimination not because I believe that you're all killers and rapists but because there are too many killers and rapists among you for me to risk being around your people.

If every criminal black person was rounded up and executed along with all their descendants every 25 years until their rate of violent crime was reduced to white levels then there'd be no problems between us.