Women are masters at emotional manipulation and deception while her friends help her out with cheating there is no way you can find out if a woman is actually shitty unless you hire detectives or do nothing but spy on her for a while. They might just have enough determination to play it completely safe until you put the ring on then suddenly she does a 180 and ass rapes you in divorce court again there is absolutely zero guarantee she won't just leech off you and statistics show she likely will. Modern wymn are a fucking joke and only some hard resets will make marriage logical again