yes, many young men feel this way. the age of virginity is going up. it's the kind of feeling you get from being a conquered people. i sense humiliation from letting down our ancestors, who bled and died trying to create and protect their home lands, while their descendants, us, didn't even put up a fight. we have no hope for the future, we can see fairly clearly what the biggest problems are, but the traitors in power refuse to lift a finger, we can see that things are only going to get worse. any hope of marriage and raising a family in this society is a pipe dream. it's financially difficult, but even worse, women are completely selfish, narcissistic psychopaths with out any maternal instinct. 50% of marriages end in divorce and women bring about over 70% of divorces, and the courts are completely in their favor, so they get the kids, the house, and half your wealth, and the men end up blowing their brains out. i'm sure most of us have seen this play out, best to avoid that whole mess and don't even attempt to settle with these unhinged, privileged and hateful women. there's no sense of commonality, no community, everything is balkanized and atomized.