>if you opt out theyll fall apart
Thats the whole point. Beta bucks and alpha fucks. 
They have fun wrecking society in their youth, and want your cucked ass to come around and scoop up her remains once shes had her fun.
You think it makes your argument appealing by calling it our "personal responsibility" to throw ourselves into the meat grinder.

Your mysitcal white aryan princess unicorn DOES NOT EXIST!
All white girls are trash. ALL.
You have never known one that wasnt (though your standards are clearly low) garbage, and neither have I. In fact no one has.
There exists a small clique of deranged beta male cucks who honest to God believe their dick hopping veteran of a wife is some kind of angel.
These cucks worship white women, and like the other loser anon ITT, they end up divorced.

You sacrifice yourself if you want, but don't drag other young men down with you.