The whole problem is this intangible dynamic between the sexes. If you recognize that both are kinda to blame, and that there are no quick fixes, nor quick ways of thinking to mend it...then maybe you can move forward. A huge problem that we have now are fucking neets, and other assortments of retards who do not want to self improve. I used to be a fucking shitty ass neet shitbag myself, and somehow found myself to be with a woman. Only then I realized how useless I was for not being employed, for not participating in the workforce. For being fat and useless. It takes a lot of introspection and willpower to break free from being a useless shitbag cunt. Its probably easier just to completely blame the women. Though I have to say, at my stage when I got nearly to 100% of "proper male mode" I see very few able women who can match me.