If you comment on this public forum, all are free to comment.  Comments and replies are not to specific people but rather the entire audience.  If you wish to privately communicate with your friends you need to go elsewhere.  You personally are nothing to me, all that exists here are ideas and discussion.  Are you going to seek a restraining order against my comments on this forum? To any that read this, her response demonstrates the depth of the problem faced in these stalking matters.