Zanele,
You and your mob are very big deal and full of bravado when 5 or 10 of you abuse 60 year old journalists outside their home and skinny Indian journalists outside SABC studios.

Let's see you try that at the Free state Afriforum meeting with a few 120 kg farmers in  attendance.

FYI the appropriate response when someone says "F**k you" is either to ignore it, or respond with "f**k you, too, and the horse that you rode in on".

My personal favourite is "F**k you very much, sir / madam" - it normally generates a bemused stare.