TrueFaith your quote of Matt 10 is one of those passages that people have used for years to justify the most absurd doctrines that they want to brow beat others into believing.  Bible thumping is overly used by those who have no theological, psychological, scientific, or intellectual insights.  Lift your argumentation from a fundamentalist interpretation of scripture and you may be quite surprised at the "Sensus Plenior" meaning of these pericopes.