What a sad, shallow and childish view expressed by the Hawaii GOP chairman, bummer - what would his mother say?  It's like telling our kids to let the bully beat up a girl every once in awhile to avoid a punch in the nose.  Hawaii's congressional delegation - take the punch!  Show our kids that you must stand up for others and what you believe in.  Show our kids how to do that, with statesmanship.  Politics is suppose to be about statesmanship, seeking compromise, finding common ground, and if no can, act on your conscience without rancor toward those that don't agree with you.  Good grief.