"To be humble, one must be open to humiliation.  In fact, one must learn to seek it."

How SICK can we be?  In life, we will be embarrassed and humiliated, yes.  Accepting it well
is a grace.  But we don't have to seek it out.  It comes by itself.  This SEEKING of humiliation, sufferings and woes----is a spirituality that puts people into mental wards.  It certainly belongs in the category of  H -  R - S  Y.