To be honest the disgusting reaction of people to this event made me wash my hands of social media at the time. I have Spur PTSD and I wasnt even there! Imagine how terrified her children must have been - and his child - who now knows she cant trust her dad to be a rational, reasonable and safe person to confide in. 

South Africa is not safe. And if you're not "ladylike" in response to attack, assault and intimidation, you arent worth protection. F that!