Jaded, that was snide.  How I keep track of my female acquaintances?  Not even worth an answer.  The comments here demonstrate attitudes that in my opinion will lock in unfortunate behavior and perpetuate the perp-victim model, which many find so attractive, but provides no improvement in societal harmony.  We reap what we sow.  (Except when the darn zucchini cross pollinates with the cucumber and we get weirdness.)  I see the knee jerk reactions here as very juvenile.  Part of a broken system.