And what happens when the child is three and the woman is still struggling to provide for the child while living in a rundown apartment in a bad part of the city and working at a minimum wage job?  

And I support and volunteer at many programs like food banks which help all sorts of poor people including single moms.  I don't support Crisis Pregnancy Centers because they don't provide contraceptives, which strikes me as one of the lynchpins to reducing abortions.