Having spent over half my life without Freedom of Speech, (Military and at DHS)  I resent anyone telling me what I can or cannot or should or should not say based solely on their personal beliefs and opinions.

That's precisely what genderspeak is.  

After biting my tongue for over 30 years, I have little sympathy if someone is too 'tender' in the ears for speech they find 'troubling' or 'concerning' or not 'correct'.