She wasn't saying that her Dad's love for her was more than for his wife. She was factually recounting comments that her mother made insinuating that that was the case and said that she felt disgusted (I'd read "disturbed and uncomfortable" into that as well.) by them. My goddaughter's mother was like this with her and actually insinuates to this day, to anyone unlucky enough to be within her range, that the father and and my goddaughter were in an incestuous relationship. It *is* disgusting and yes, immature, and very disturbing to the daughter. Blaming the above writer for stating the facts and her discomfort with her mother's (evidently continuing) statements doesn't equate to gloating, in my book.