Caiside,
I wonder our relationship with others, be it with your friend, your family members, your spouse or with your God is our capacity to be one with the others.
I had this one special friends in college, I noticed something strangely different ability of hers with all of her friends.  I could not figure it out all these years.
Now I wonder if it was her ability to be one with others.  
She seemed to have this quiet trust and a mutual understanding with all her friends and her family.  
I was so sick of not being an equal in my relationship with my ex-husband.
After many years pasted, I noticed word being one in the bible.
I wondered how it would been different if I tried to be one instead being an equal?