You have not disputed what I said, but have merely expressed it in terms that may appear more palatable, but which in fact reflect a view which has long been rejected by the teaching of the Church - and thus is not at all palatable.  Forgiveness can be given to those who acknowledge their sin, repent of it, and resolve to avoid sin in future.  It cannot be given to those who do not acknowledge their sin, or do not repent of it, or do not resolve to avoid it in future.  Sure, life's situations can be difficult and complex, and yes pastors should engage with those in complex, sinful situations.  But until someone acknowledges their sin, repents of it, and resolves not to sin in future - the Church's norm for 2,000 years - the way to grant forgiveness has not been found.