Not a fan of the hand holding. My social anxiety is on high alert. Before we even get to the our father, I'm stressing about holding a stranger's hand. Maybe they don't want to hold hands. What if they reject my extended hand? What if I insult them by not extending mine? Oy! Who needs this stress?!?! I'm good with the handshake. Let's leave it at that. 😝🤷‍♀️