The complaint was about the injustice of effectively desecrating graves of people who did nothing, who harmed no one, to achieve what is being called "justice".

Explain, despite your grief, how displacing the poor, closing parishes serving the poor and elderly, reducing even further the living standards of elderly retired religious, and so on provides "a shred of justice".

The path to accountability, even when we do not see it, lies with Him who reads everyone's hearts and knows all secrets.

Letting grief and a desire for justice turn into hatred and desire to hurt others is not the way to proceed.