Xavier:  May I add....My wife is involved in youth activities at her Church and, upon ocassion, I drive groups of youngsters to activities, including a youth camp in Washington state.  Your accusations could jeopardize my ability to support my wife and the youth program.  I would appreciate your public apology for making such an untrue and damaging comment.  The comment is damaging to my personal reputation and I will address it as such if you fail to make such apology on this site in a timely fashion.  
Gary Crum