We have the same end, but are given different gifts to get there. 

To accept this doesn't mean our natures are different. 

Clearly our gifts differ, at least in the eyes of God Who made us.

We can try to deny these remarkably complementary differences, but it's really a waste of time and an act of pride. 

I am not at all "reducing them to sex objects".  I am actually pointing out that God created us with remarkably complementary designs (just physiologically...organs differ, some cells differ remarkably, antibiotic systems, and of course even most remarkably our genes). 

And I really would prefer you stop from shoe horning my points into your reduced buckets.

And God might say the same:  Don't blur what I made clearly different.