Shane, I didn't know Tommy well but I believe that he is proud of your response. Your heart shows a true understanding of what Jesus came to teach us. Compassion and surrender to His omnipotent will is the only real freedom we can have in this life. May He continue to surround you with His comfort and peace in the difficult days ahead. Tiauna is like a daughter to me and, as God's family, we are united in His strength and purpose. God be with you.