Well then you can either deal with reality or continue to live in fantasyland... your choice.

For most of us (if I may presume to speak for some), we agree and understand that Jesus taught indissolubility of marriage, and this remains the ideal for today... however, as with all of our daily sins, He never said to use the Lord's table as a weapon to punish those who fall short of this ideal. That is clearly Rome's extrapolation of a vague scripture passage and IMHO should be completely abandoned in favor of a more merciful, pastoral approach, which is fortunately what we see happening today--albeit with a long way to go completely rid ourselves of Rome's pernicious and imperial influence on the developing Church.