Well...I don't 'see' cuz again, those are your words, not mine.

This is what I consider when I am considering taxation: Need vs Want.

* Need: expressing necessity or obligation.
* Want: have a desire to possess or do (something); wish for.

We *need infrastructure for our society, we *need security for and in our country, etc. 

Those are Needs. 

We *want programs that teach teens how to not have a baby, we *want programs that help educate Migrant farm workers children as they migrate across the country and out of the country and back again. We *want programs that supply free phones to those of low income and so on...

Those are wants

They are not needs.

Yet our taxes fund them so it is a forced donation. Not ones I care to donate to. I donate to Habitat, I donate to the Humane Society. And a few others. By my own free will. --> Because I WANT to.