I don't "admire" him - I respect him for the office he holds. The three divorces is what bothers me most about him, but I know people who have had had a genuine heart change in similar situations. He "said" he could grab.....I don't know if he actually did, but even if he did, it is a rare occurrence - I don't know what he actually did.  Pragmatically speaking, we have no choice but to give him a chance, he may fail. I like his cabinet picks FAR more than I like him, but I am going to respect his office.