Your take is only true for you because your ego has convinced you it's true.  You may reject what I wrote about the self aware "I" as essentially a product of neuro biology, but I'm not so sure Jesus did.  He did tell us something about not being able to enter the Kingdom of Heaven unless we become as little children.  Very young children do not have a developed sense of "I".  That comes with maturing neural development and enculturation.  Western culture needs a self aware "I" as part of a member's personal survival strategy.  It's rare, but there are indigenous cultures whose language ds not have an "I" or first person pronoun.  It's all about the self reflective 'we'.  I would hazard to guess that such cultures understand the Trinity much better than those of us in the West, and probably get the Truth of selfless love much better too.