There is no reconciliation without firm purpose of amendment, no non-sacrilegious communion without reconciliation, and Canon 915 still applies.

If this is not so in your parish or diocese then your parish or diocese is in schism and its leaders leading the flock into error and to the extent they are culpable (like people who joined Episcopalianism because Episcopalianism is fine and dandy with leaving Ms Boelyn for Ms Seymour, seeking the place out because they can't possibly have sinned, sin is other people) leading them into grave sin.

The Church has no power to bind sins for which a sinner is perfectly contrite, or to loose sins where even imperfect contrition is absent.  What has lead you to think otherwise?