It is not about numbers.  It is about doing what is right, for the glory of God and the good of souls.  The Anglican Communion is to be commended for doing what is right, and paying the price.  If we are not willing to pay the price, it is our problem, not theirs.  Patriarchal edicts, such as Humanae Vitae and Ordinatio Sacerdotalis, are no longer tenable.  Humanae Vitae is an unenforceable edict about a good doctrine.  Ordinatio Sacerdotalis is an enforceable edict about a bad doctrine.  As patriarchal edicts, both are pastorally disastrous even though they maintain a semblance of an ancient order of things that is passing away.  We don't need patriarchs anymore.  We need pastors, male and female.  For your consideration:

Appeal to Pope Francis ~ English
http://pelicanweb.org/CCC.TOB.120.html#english

The Catholic faith is that the Church is "one, holy, catholic, and apostolic."  The real disaster is to keep insisting that the apostolic mark of the Church is dogmatically patriarchal.