This does seem to touch a deep issue in many ways, as there seems to be this strange kind of jealousy coming from some men because women carry the unborn instead of men.  A need to punish women for having an experience they don't have.

I have tried to explain to men that women really don't always feel happy not having the choice to experience the role men get to play in reproduction.  One where their bodies stay primarily unchanged while they support their spouse as they go thru the changes of pregnancy, & experience the movement of the baby from outside of the womb.  

I also try to explain to many older men that many younger men don't feel this jealousy now because young men experience the pregnancy of their children in far more involved ways.  Going to birth prep. classes, eating healthier foods together, comforting their wives w/massages etc., talking to their baby before birth & being present at birth.  God designed reproduction to involve 2 parents.  Eve had only Adam and God.