Gary, I am a white christian male (apparently without a soul or integrity).  I am just trying to better myself and my children's lives.  I notice that you have nice stuff and a nice house.  I am going to move in with you with the whole family.  We will eat your food and spend your money.  After a bit, I am going to call my brother and sister and invite them to move in to your house without your consent.  My brother married a nice Italian girl.  She only has 7 brothers and sisters.  They won't take up much more room.