R&R: You'd be surprised to know that you have strong allies in the most ardent feminists and progressives who agree with you that looking at women with lust is wrong, debasing, demeaning, and degrading. It is part of the sinful objectification of women.

But there is a big, big difference between objectifying lust and natural, healthy, and human sexual attraction that should not be "reined in," resisted, repressed, apologized for, or considered sinful. Repression can be as demeaning and, yes, as harmfully damaging as lust. 

Preoccupation with resisting  healthy sexual attraction can be the most unhealthy violation of "Natural Law" that there is. When you receive a gift, appreciate it and treat it with respect and gratitude---but don't insult the gift or the giver by abusing it, or worse,by  not using it fully and often. 

Lust and repression are the sick polar enemies--albeit at different poles-- of  "making love."