Respectfully, Trid, I don't often engage with you as there is zero hope of understanding or agreement.  Your vision and understanding of the RCC and all of its doctrines and practices froze solid in place before Vat II, whereas I was fortunate to be tutored in the Council's renewal of thought, developing theology and flourishing of freedom and imagination -- and not by wackos or "dissidents," but mainstream and holy priests, bishops and educators.  We are roughly the same age and were each raised in the Traditional Church.  I embraced the post-Vat II Church, which you don't recognize.  That's the difference.  I also feel obligated to call for ongoing reformation of areas I see  as sinful (misogyny, etc.), which action you see as her*tical.  I see your refusal to change with Vat II as scandalous as you see my "dissidence."  Peace to you.