OK...I guess I should Clarify: What I mean is that there was a time in the not too distant past that a man could follow a woman, approach her and express his desire to know her.
NOW that man would be "Stalking Her!"and "Harassing Her!" etc. 
Both men and women go to bars, etc. hoping to "hook up"- Predatory Behavior.  
That's all I'm saying-simple.
I have never raped or forced a women to have sex. I don't even understand how that could possibly be exciting or satisfying.

"A sexual predator is a person who attacks a victim." Your definition.