I never said it was based on emotion.  It is based on what is best for people.  There is nothing relativist about humanism.  God is a humanist or else he has feet of clay.  That has noting to do with Aces who do not own their own sexual identity and instead try to impose it on us because of their feelings as to what is natural.  What is natural for them is not for me.  Perfect happiness is in heaven, but human happiness is possible and God given.  Closeted Aces came up with a Platonic ideal which was good for them, but not for people who were not Asexual.  Indeed, it is objectively misogynistic.