JJ: thank goodness,  for a moment there I was afraid you had forgotten your place.....you need to understand that "playing with reckless abandon" is not a ladylike past-time.  It's a slippery slope.  The next thing you know you will want to be a Doctor instead of a nurse, or an attorney instead of a secretary...Take a deep breath, thumb through the latest issue of Vogue or Good Housekeeping, file your nails and apply a new coat of pink nail-polish and all will be well.  You simply must purge those gender-inappropriate thoughts from your mind.  Gary Crum