This is an ignorant, selfish, thoughtless thing to say. She was a suvivor of sexual and physical abuse, and as much as we see OCS return victims to their abusers, this child was not - which means her abuse was above horrific and horrible. With the comment you just made you are DEFINETLY not anyone I would ever want to be around or spend time with. Every victim reacts to surviving abuse differently. Seems to me you are just another keyboard bully hiding behind an anonymous user name.