Dear Authors:  Please listen to the interview below. I'm not sure what you mean by the "hypothetical finger" but there is absolutely nothing "hypothetical" about this story. If there is ANY evidence that this story represents a pattern, then we need to take this VERY seriously. The use of the word "hypothetical" is in this context is misleading, inaccurate, unhelpful and even dangerous. It lends itself to the continued confusion and mixed messaging that could lead to such tragedies.  Recognizing the agency of young adults to make informed decisions is good, but we are doing them an injustice if we are not providing them with accurate information.  
Interview with Margaret Maier:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1HGnXXUMSg