All you need to do is teach yrou daughter in university is that it is not her fault if she has too much to drink blame the last guy she talked to while drinking. It is not her fault if she vomits; blame the bar, the bar tender and the manger.. It is not her fault if she can't get home; blame the taxi company. Its not her fault if she has sex while intoxicated.; blame the guy she had sex with. But if she has sex with another woman who is also drunk, praise her for being open minded and non judgemental.