Providing opportunity now means sending them to violin lessons, sending them to camp, getting a nanny for them, buying them electronics...everything but putting down their own electronics for them, or learning how to converse in depth with them, or telling them No occasionally. 

Walk down the residential areas of NYC and watch how parents are "providing opportunities for them"...kids playing on play equipment in a park, while the parents over their email, text messages. 

The most distracted and self-focused parents in history, who assuage their guilt by "providing opportunities" for their two or fewer children.