When a child returns to the nest its up to the parents to either become the caretaker again or lay down new rules.  And if they dont like the new rules, show them the door.  Otherwise, put your french maid outfit on and get me my coffee.  Kids lived their whole childhood with parents who took care of the details.....welfare.....and many people always look for "free" especially from mom and dad.  Time for a wakeup call for sonny.