Linda McIver welcome to the lovely system called Civil Court/Divorce Court / Family Court were the one with money and a good lawyer prevail. Yes it is time the courts recognize the disparity but don't hold your breath. Until peer pressure is applied and phony  scum bag Lawyer's refuse to represent men and woman to obtain phony TRO's just like men and women who violate them it will never go away. Solution don't get married and use protection. BEEN THERE DONE THAT.