First of all, let me say that I am sorry that the author has experienced so many social interactions that are tainted with sexual aspirations.  However, in order for this article to be useful for society as a whole, it is necessary to challenge some of the implicit assumptions and leaps of logic contained therein.  Firstly, the contention that sexual services offered in exchange for lodging is harassment requires the redefinition of the term harassment from a term that explicitly includes repeated or persistent verbal or physician conduct to one that fits the author's biases.  This is disingenuous at best and dangerous at worst.  If one can define standards and categorize responses solely in way that makes sense for themselves, then our society's fabric will fray and break.  Society has evolved as we developed standard definitions and understanding.  To tear at that is to contribute to the re-tribalization of our society and will lead to anarchy and chaos.