Why is this a "thing"?  
If you are part of a parish that does that, and you want to, fine.  If you don't want to, don't.  If you are visiting a parish that does not do this, and you want to, curb your enthusiasm for the practice.  
If the bishop says don't, you have the duty, in charity to follow that lead.  
Sheesh - tempest and teapot come to mind.