I didnt say she was a selfish person.I said she was a selfish mother. I dont know what good stuff she gave her other kids. She gave Eli the need to kill her.I could b wrong but i believe that had she had been on medication she might still b alive & Eli would not experience the emotions & hardship of murdering his mother.I personally think the story was very inappropriate to honor her in light if the situation.Honor her a year or more for now not when her son is facing prison.The family is not telling the flip side of choosing not to take medication.People with mental illness like hers does not go without repercussions to the others around them.This story us also about mental illness.Tell me why he shot her. Did she ask to b put out of her misery?Did he decide she was too sick & n a state of exhaustion & sadness decide she needed to not suffer anymore. Personally & IF the two scenarios could b true i can relate to them.I wish my mom had taken medication but i did not kill her. Sad 4 Eli