In the long run govt benefits all of us. People who get help are not forced to take resouces from others. 

In a religious metaphor we are all stewards of this world. It all belongs to God. Hawaiians and many native Americans have shared this belief. It works today too.

Your belief is more like saying what's mine is mine and what's the government should be shared with me and tough on the poor. The poor don't give anything to anybody they just receive.