I think that's the issue.  For liberals the larger picture always seems to include the difficulty for Muslims from discrimination, and never includes the real threat of death to non-Muslims, particulaly in poor areas.  Wealthy people who generally interact with other wealthy people, including wealthy, highly assimilated Muslims for example, are easily convinced that the poor people who get killed by poor, unassimilated Muslims are "islamophobic."  At some point you have to realize that the poor people who get raped or killed were actually real people, and their deaths were real deaths, not paranoid delusions.  This is part of the difference between London and Birmingham, and in general why liberals have lost the working class in many countries.  Just because you in your own rich neighborhood don't need to be worried about getting killed doesn't mean the poor people who are getting killed in their own neighborhoods are paranoid.