cont.  

I ask people over and over and they can never come up with any difference other than those associated with creating children.  That being the case there should only be justice like Jesus demanded and same treatment of all members of our church.   We used to own slaves in our church because we believed the stereotype that black people had different roles than white people.  Black people have differences beyond just color compared to white people.  However, treating black people differently than white people is wrong & racist & hate and so is treating women differently and oppressively compared to men in our church.  It is pure sexism, it breaks Christ's command to treat all the same, and is both hate and sin.  

Admitting everyone has differences is right.  Using those differences to strip people of same and equal sacraments and opportunities is to demean the human dignity of that group.  This is not a hard question except for those who seek to be treated better than others.