On the contrary, I read you very well. First, you stated what was completely obvious, which is actually a binary condition, and then what happens virtually every time in these instances. No thought, just reflexive projection based on your experience. Once caught in your own rhetorical web, you've now resorted to obfuscation and deflection, common extraction techniques that rarely succeed even when wielded capably.

Though the headline suggests that gender is an important factor in this tableau, it isn't. One person stabbed another. We wonder why. Benign police inquiry suggests there was provocation, based on physical evidence and at least one eyewitness account. The investigation continues, yet note who keeps inserting male-female dynamics into the equation. Again, reflexively. More bread crumbs, as if they were needed.

Time to stop hating half the world's population for some slight that befell you. Occam's razor, dude. That's what's completely obvious.