I'm right about what? Clearly, you have issues with someone questioning why your wife, who is haole, is more "Hawaiian" than an actual Native Hawaiian, because you have yet to answer my question, and have been ranting on and on about things that have nothing to do with what I'm asking.  Good on you that you are proud of all your ethnicities..you should be!  So am I! The question is, why are you so offended by my question? The bottom line is, if you don't have the koko, you are not Kanaka Maoli. Awesome that your wife exudes aloha..I have met many people across the world who live aloha as well. But that does NOT make them Hawaiian! Again, the question is, why are you offended by this?