I'm thinking your codependency is showing, Mr. Wathen.  One of the things I learned working in the weapons business is that governments and politicos do not define individuals or culture.  One of the things I've learned in traveling for work is that others rarely hold your government against you as a person - and often times they're more curious about what it's like as opposed to assuming you're all in for it.

Enjoy your vacation with your wife...hold your head up and act like you always have...just take some travel docs and a carry case for your laptop - who knows what rules will be in place when you try to return.