Well no doubt that being an Alaska grandma and being in state since 1976 I have a gun but I am not crazy to be packing at my local rural mailbox's while confronting and  accusing people of stealing my mail or anyone else's for that matter.  And you give yourself the excuse that you have no kids at home and you are old and can die to "save" the mail, which at least 90-95 % of delivered mail is junk mail. You are looking for trouble, and with all the things to do in this beautiful and exciting state that is great for women you need to cultivate a more positive way to express yourself.  Good luck.