The memories came back to Frank in 1989 at the age of forty. My images came back to me in 1990 at the age of forty. Frank was married and had two kids. I was also married with two kids. So what were Franks' memories? It turns out that Frank had grown up in North Attleboro, Massachusetts, home to St. Mary's Church and the infamous Father James Porter. Father Porter, who was Franks' hero invited Frank to a Celtics game at the Boston Garden. Instead of taking him to the Garden, Father Porter took Frank to a mysterious white house where he drugged him and sexually assaulted him. So what did Frank do afterwards? " For three decades, Frank had locked all memory of that night in a sealed vault inside his head. He had done what many child victims of sexual abuse do: he had repressed from all conscious thought an encounter that made no sense to him, that filled his child's world with terror." It took Frank thirty years to unlock the vault. It took me twenty eight years.