<<"And so, families have to find a way to stay CLOSE to a child in this situation>>
A hypocritical, dishonest thing for Burke to say given that he recommends behavior that has the utterly foreseeable, if not intended, consequence of driving the son or daughter away. The scandal is that there are still priests who spew this drivel. Again: although I sadly recognize that there are some people who take Burke's point of view seriously, I gratefully recognize that not many do -- not even conservatives.
I'm reluctant to go much further with you on this, partly because we can each write the other's posts, and partly because I'm reluctant to be the foil that encourages you to advocate these truly repugnant ideas.