I am not confusing anything.

You are confusing what is "legal" with what is "right and just."

Abortion is legal, currently. That is the the whole problem. The law does not reflect what abortion really is. That is why pro-lifers are trying to get the law changed/Roe overturned. 

I don't want to force women into anything. The women chooses to be a mother when she chooses to engage in the act that makes babies. Are pro-lifers asking the government to put a gun to the head of women and engage in the act that makes babies? If so, then you would have a point.