Just to state it, this is not "continued" on my screen, so I'm replying to what is here.

And there isn't much else to say. I stated my opinion three different times until you finally found a way to say, "No, the church is always right."  But it took you awhile to get there, so I'll be pleased about that.  I've stated this already as well -- your faith process makes thought and observation "evils" of subjectivity, emotionalism, and selfishness.  You posit yourself as the cool and rational and selfless follower.  At your best, I'm sure that is indeed who you are, and good on you for it.  However, when all of that doesn't meet with reality, doesn't pass the eye test or the smell test, when those systems and styles demand a small and hateful and shaming God......well, my faith allows me to find that blame in myself and in us, allowing God to indeed be God.  If it's ever needed, I offer it to you.  God bless you.