Your first paragraph is quite simply not true.

As far as your not being censored?  Why would you be? Your comments, such as this one, is very much in line with the behavior of many posters here. You excel at quick little jabs (your comment to TomZ? "Gee, what a lucky spouse...") that are putdowns of those with whom many disagree. There is a gang mentality here that let's some things pass with no problem. That is obvious.  And notable.