Agree a 100 percent.  I would  not have said it so diplomatically.  Sorry mom, but if your barmaid daughter goes to Somalia to become a "journalist", how and why does that become our collective problem when things go wrong?  Same with Omar Khadr ex-brother in law, who goes "backpacking" with his "mute" girlfriend in tow.   Both people have put themselves in harm's way.  Am all for the government stepping up, but in these two cases........