You don't know why God does what he does - Babies are in Heaven when they die and are in perfect peace. Before you rant against me on that, 1. You do not know that that is untrue, so don't bother giving a long winded response 2. Death comes to everybody in one way or another, you have no basis for questioning God.

There is no reason why Abstinence cannot work, hundreds of thousands of people practice this method every year and it is 100% foolproof and has all kinds of other health benefits as well (I will spare you the details), handing out a bunch of condoms and telling kids to go right at it is absolute stupidity - they don't care. I was a young man once and I didn't and neither did any of my friends, as a matter of fact we tried everything we could NOT to have to use the things for various reasons.