People move all the time to get a better job or for an education, Statistics show the average family moves every seven years. Supposedly we have 11 million illegal immigrants in the country who moved here to get a job, many paying smugglers to get them across the border. They left everything and everybody behind and they don't whine about it. They take crud jobs American and Native Hawaiians refuse to do. They better themselves and their communities, working and paying taxes.
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Sorry if I don't cry for the Native Hawaiians who choose to stay instead of moving. It's their choice so they can live with it, complaining about the inconvenience of moving is both funny and sad. 
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Maybe the homeless count here is so high because some here prefer to be homeless to moving. In any event not everybody automatically deserves sympathy and charity because they make bad life choices. Like you said.  NO TELL ME WHAT FO DO !