My aim isn't clear enough to you, clearly.  Some have no capacity to deal with subtlety.   Their self esteem has been so self-inflated they're incapable of detecting an opportunity to self-examine, sharply (and quietly). 

My aim is to convert all criticism I receive and most articles I read here into examination questions that might help me and help others remove pride, vanity, and love of self. 

Too tall an order for some, clearly.