Demand community presence in the winter if people go crazy! They NEED SOMETHING TO DO! Like make quilts and make the loners and beautiful go. Make them feel love and like the kings and queens that they were born until secrets weigh heavy like dragging corpses. The secrets of others weighs heavy on people and everyone heals and grieves differently. Let them go and love them and hug them be nice! If I wave at you or smile I am not trying to steal your food. We have to love the misfits too. It's not their fault. Your making so they keep shitting on their own heads and they think you are shitting on their head. Let's all love and care and heal