Wars have specific definitions. Having dozens or hundreds of advisors and operatives in a country is not a war. 
Again, Obama ended 2 wars. 
He has withstood tremendous pressure from Republicans to invade Syria/Iran.
I wonder how you'd feel if Romney had won and we now were in a shooting war in both of those countries? 
"The enemy of the good is the perfect." 
Imagine if Obama completely stopped all military operations in that zone and we suffered a terrorist attack. I wonder what your words would say, then?