They really don't want to be part of a religion they don't believe in.

They want to be annoying and/or the boss. It's part of a pattern of behavior which also shows up on the other end of the spectrum with the so-called sedavacantists and so on.

The apparent calm among the Orthodox is something of a mirage. Because they tend not to engage in the legalism inherited from the Roman Empire, the lines are more smudged and therefore less likely to cause loud noises.

When you deal with them more closely you find lots of disagreement, although ordaining women seems to be a no-show.

That's because the ordination of women is a reflection of a Western political movement rather than an actual theological consideration, and has missed most of the rest of the world.