When this first became an issue with small business, like florists and bakers, I tried to see both sides. I understand a firm commitment to faith values....however, after much thought and prayer, I really don't see the small business side of this anymore. As Eye-Tee said below, why do the owners of these businesses focus on one area of life they don't agree with? They still bake cakes for thrice married people, and crazy bachelor parties, or single but not married people...so why do they focus on one group of people and say no? My conclusion is they are in business, they are not in the moral judgement business....they are in the cake making or flower arranging business. So bake the cake and arrange the flowers and leave people to decide how to live without judgement.