Women like this don't want women to be "soft and quiet and forgiving." They want men to be "soft and quiet and forgiving". It's feminism gone mad in response to the patrimonial backlash of male power.
  Women have been the fortunate beneficiaries of a feminist revolution. But every revolution causes a reactionary backlash. Women need to work at preserving their newly won rights; but in their attempt to "have it all", they've instead taken the easy way of "sleeping with the enemy".