Alpha males do both. We acknowledge our heroes, but seem to ignore the same qualities in predators. Often intelligent, strong willed, confident. Those are much more dangerous than squirrely guys that shy off at being yelled at. Those are the ones that smile easily, tell the cops there was a misunderstanding, and leave it to the cops to victim blame. Those are the ones that are repeat offenders until finally someone calls all the victims forward and the pattern is evident.