Your premise is wrong.  I said I pity the woman.  She's murdered her unborn child, the guilt for which will be with her for the rest of her life.  I can't imagine that sort of guilt.  Add to that the fact that she will have to answer to God for it. If she's contrite, has confessed and received absolution, she may still enter Heaven.  But if she isn't sorry, and dies with the stain of that mortal sin on her soul, she's going to Hell for eternity.

But she still has a chance at redemption, something of which she deprived her child, which is why I feel greater empathy toward the innocent victim.

You seem to have no empathy for the victim.