If I was a girl and found the door to pastoring closed, I would join Toastmasters; thereby developing an opportunity to engage in public speaking on a regular basis.
I would find a Toastmasters club which would allow me to speak on topics of my own choosing, such as the evils of alcohol and tobacco, health issues, social justice, etc. I'd get acquainted with my community through simple means like blood pressure screenings, group exercise programs, door to door visitation. I'd start visiting former members, shut ins, media interests, family of existing members.

In short, I'd start acting like a pastor/church worker, elder, deacon, member, etc. I'd do "personal evangelism." After I discipled a number of interests successfully, I'd take them to an ordained minister and present them for baptism.

After I'd done everything I could in my local community, I'd start looking for opportunities overseas, of which there are many.  I'd happily wait on the Lord.