Well, it was H being my parents' children (my sister is a life-long drug addict and alcoholic).  It was often H being their friend -- lots of people broke up friendship with my parents because they fought all the time, and they didn't care where or who was present.  Oh, and both my parents had affairs.  And my friend has had serial affairs all his married life.  So their 'reward' in heaven isn't going to be that great, ya think?  For all the misery they caused (my parents are now dead -- thank God) for their children, extended family and friends.  And as for my friend -- his wife refused to sleep with him once they had all the children they wanted.  Oh yeah, married life between two people who don't love, like and respect each other is SO from God.  :-(  And I'm going to say this ONE MORE TIME:  Divorced women in Jesus' time led lives of abject poverty.  Jesus was simply protecting them.  In this day and age, we women can take care of ourselves.