Michael, we live in a diverse society. One can just as easily say "stop dividing us by withholding the rights of others that are guaranteed under our Constitution." It is divisive to ask that our concerns be heard when we are not willing to listen to the concerns of others or another side. 

Isn't it divisive to say that "when things go my way, then I will be willing to not make any divisive remarks", which is what you seem to be saying. 

If you're concerned about who will use the bathroom your daughter uses,  please google a transman named Buck Angle and get back to me and tell me if you would rather have or Caitlyn Jenner use the same bathroom that your daughter is using.

Peace,

John David