I learned hate and bigotry early. In church. So I know where most Americans learn theirs. In church. It can be unlearned and discarded. I did. 

But it took work and self-awareness. I had to disavow the church. 

I had to learn to not judge my brethren and sisteren based on Christian principles. It takes work. It can be done. I also had to discard so-called Christian love and re-adopt my own Nativeness and spirituality. 

One doesn’t have to feel trapped in Trumpism. And continue to hate.