Young men becoming priests may make a vow of celibacy, but they do so without knowing what their future is. Falling in love is sometimes a blindsided and unexpected miracle, and how can the vow of celibacy be made without more complete knowledge of the young man's future? Yes, the vow was made, the career was chosen, with free and full approval at the time, but a young man, spending much time in Church and seminary, may simply not know who is out there waiting to fall in love with him. And this matters. My principal in my Franciscan high school had this happen to him, and he spent the end of his life with his beloved. And that is, I'd say, the right choice.