Here is the problem. Is it wrong to stand over Ms. Wong in a physically aggressive and intimidating matter? Of course. However the simple fact that Ms. Wong is female, Asian, and a senior, does not mean that the aggression should automatically be classified as sexist, racist, or elder abuse. If such was the case, one could be excused from engaging in any way shape or form with folks who are part of a particular gender, race, age, religion, or sexual orientation out of fear that if you even inadvertently offended that person, they would play their respective card. As Ms.  Wong is possibly doing?