Sure, if you want you can suppose that I cleared my reply with "the Church".

In some ways the law about sexual abuse is clear; anyone past their 18th birthday having any sexual actions or inappropriate communication with someone who has not reached their 18th birthday is a sexual offender, with variations of level of offense depending upon ages.  Many here on this board will say  all are "child rapists", "pedophiles".  My generation called promiscuous high school girls "jail bait".  I know not the current jargon.  Some states now have the "Romeo and Juliette" provision, which mitigates some of the blame for young people who are close to the same age.  I do not know if there are "Romeo and Jonathan" provisions, however.