LW1:  Don't tell your families what to give you, or what NOT to give you.  Instead, at Thanksgiving, bring in boxes.  Fill them with existing toys they don't play with.  Donate the nicer ones to people collecting gifts for homeless children.  Donate the played with toys that are still good to charity.  Toss the broken stuff.  If you get too many new gifts, put back the excess, in packaging, to donate next year.