Dave, you bring some perspective to this situation.  This couple has brought so much stress upon themselves with a large wedding and a honeymoon in Paris.  I have been to Paris, and with a few notable exceptions, it is expensive, dirty and full of rude people.  I hope they will learn to laugh at themselves and the situations they will find themselves in throughout their lives.  No point in getting one's knickers in a twist about something they will come to realize deserves more laughter than tears..