I'm not intolerant of ambiguity. If that's all we've got, I want Francis to say that and tell Paprocki to shut up. But he doesn't. He just says/writes one thing, then does another, or fails to do it, as the case may be. 
My situation with the Church is as ambiguous as all getout, and I'm perfectly fine with that because I don't let anyone tell me what I should believe about myself. My guess is that you do the same. But there are obviously folks who need the Church to take their side, and I'm not okay with Francis not saying what he means.