Very true.  It's a common tactic among abusive people to project their abuse on others and deem themselves the true victim.  In addition, the other thing I'm noticing more and more is being called "PC" and the decrying of "PC" when bigots and racists etc are called out for their bigotry and racism.  It's funny to me...because it's very clear to those that know me in the real world that I am sooo far from "politically correct"....yet I get labeled as such in these forums for pointing out racist/misogynistic/bigoted speech.  

So I guess as an example...if I were to suggest that all Mexicans are indeed NOT rapists - I would be told that I'm just too PC and it's that kind of PC that's destroying this country...blah, blah, blah