All we ask, all we want is to enforce our existing laws, and go back to fair immigration policies as they stood for years.
Ask those who spend thousands of dollars, years of their lives, and followed the rules, how they feel about those who come in and as their first act break our laws and defy our law enforcement. That sure shows love.......  We have laws, we have rules, follow them. 
I find it amusing that the countries who criticize us most on this are the countries that have very strict policies on immigration - Australia, for example.