the kindness of strangers is truly amazing, generous and beautiful .  nothing against my friends and family, but at my most desperate, vulnerable, emotionally drained moments it has been someone i've never met that has pulled me up and out of whatever hole i had been in. 
 i'd be afraid to take this test.  we don't hear or see ourselves as others do...i know we are all self delusional to varying degrees - it's a survival thing -  fake it till you make it.  i do feel good doing "good deeds" but  wonder at my motivation.  is it really altruistic  - for the sole benefit of someone else?  or is it an ego trip on my part to make myself feel better about me.  me me me ..was my good deed more about me?  i find that human motivation is fascinating for some reason.