If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck....
Ms Lindsey, I presume you listened to the words spoken by your candidate and agreed with his proposals and believe he cares about your and the nations well-being in direct opposition to every evidence of his life and business dealings (as he has no public service we must judge his fitness for office based on them).  I presume you admire his personality and see nothing untoward in how he treats people and what he says about them.
You avow to "God-fearing" and voted for a man who's the antithesis of religious sympathy and that's not hypocritical?
Informed logic concludes that if you're not all those bad things you're accused of we're left with feeling that you seem confused about what's good for America.
There are rights and wrongs in human affairs independent of uninformed opinion.  Trump is wrong.  His supporters won't come together to resolve differences and move anything forward but the atavistic greed of his class and himself.