Forget ownership of women, that concept never really applied and certainly does not now.  All humans are equal.  Now back to rational discussion of ranking criminal trespass and assigning proportionate punishment.  You ignore discussion of this important topic.  You could put a kid in jail for twenty years to prevent the child from stealing another Popsicle.  The question is whether based on impact to victim such action is rational and reasonable.  Sex crimes range from violent forcible rape to a brief touch of a "protected" body part.  The victim impact is thus radically different yet discussions tend to blur the distinction.  A wise society develops a rational method of determining severity of each transgression and applies sanction appropriately.