I have asked that question a few times about specific things.  Questions such as "Had Obama asked for the same voter data, how would you have reacted?" or "Had Obama said _______ about _______, how would you have reacted?"  The answers always seem to be this fantasy that they treated Obama with respect.  Every single time the answer is either, they would have agreed, or that they would have not had a problem.  The best I can tell, is that many folks are just not that self-aware.