I WISH there were a link between out-group status & immunity from the flaws which plague conservatives ability to reason & argue based on facts/logic, not on bias. 

Everyone to look up a list of current gender id terms, as the list reads like weirdly beautiful post-modern poetry, and makes it seem silly for those like OP to take the issue so seriously that they get angry. Over the words other people use to self-describe. Srsly, one's self-esteem must be hyper-inflated for anyone to go around gifting strangers with an unsolicited opinion which holds zero value to anyone outside of one's own head...since most people only value opinions they respect (enough to ASK for) when considering how to communicate their gender identity, and how they'd care to be addressed (respect a person's wishes over which words to use to id them - that's literally the LEAST you can do as a person whose goal is anything less than "miserable fuck") - HOW HARD IS IT TO RESPECT PEOPLE, DESPITE YOUR OWN OPINION?