It is time to see the farce that marriage is and always has been. It is dysfunctional, the nuclear family is dysfunctional. 
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 Let's take all the legal aspect out of marriage, anyone can say they are married or divorced or what ever, there is no legal obligation. Same with child, you can have a child and have no obligation towards it. Let all the children be raise in communal villages, they need extended family of brothers, sister and male and female mentor role model. Modern society clearly can not provide anything close to this.