it is funny how we perceive others and ourselves.  I think it is human nature and maybe a survival thing that we all have a brain and they all work so differently.  when I come across a post that so blows me out of the water because I am 180 on the other side opinion-wise. i can't imagine how people can think the way they do - and it's vice versa.  they think the same of me.  thanks for the response...