Alexandra...I don't use those terms lightly (actually, practically never) but the issues you raise and the scene I see...surely don't suggest a loving relationship with Jesus. 

The Jesus I relate to, is enormously loving and inclusive and has a deep and abiding care for the vulnerable, the sick, the elderly and those with great needs...towards the end of his life (right before his death) in Matthew 25 he talks about wheat and chaff....who will be with him and what behavior is required....AND that behavior is NOT what's on the horizon for the most vulnerable amongst us...indeed the reverse.

AND the Jesus I relate to wants everyone respected....He is not into "self serving" sexual stuff and sexual abuse, he is not into denigrating women or folks from other cultures,. and turning away from them...he IS into the Good Samaritan....Francis had it right, Jesus is into bridges not walls!

I could go on and on...but my point is....that the creature who IS into such bedevilment is demonic.....