When the Apostle Paul found that some believers were offended because others were eating meat that had been used in sacrifices offered to pagan idols, he determined to never eat meat again if it caused anyone to be offended (1 Cor 8:13). He had to work to nurture and recover those whose faith was offended by the behavior of others in the church and I'm having to do the same with people who have pointed me to your postings in this forum as the reason for them no longer wanting to be part of the church. If Paul was willing to give-up eating meat if it prevented someone's faith from being harmed, why are you unwilling to do the same and quit arguing about debatable topics?