Hmm. Love your stuff, Megs, but can't follow you here.  NONE of that sounds harmless!  Maybe not life-destroying but also not harmless. 

C. 

"All I can say is that most of the abuse my friends and I have encountered has been relatively harmless....  being trailed on the street at night, dates who wouldn't desist until we got really angry, a few flashers on the subway or in public parks who sometimes also masturbated, men who rubbed against us on the streetcar, bosses who tried to kiss us when we were teenage waitresses, a handful of overly friendly colleagues, someone's dad who made a pass when we were underage."