It is about motive. If their motive is to disrespect the armed forces then there is a question of respect. If it is for any other reason (which it is) than you are twisting together two totally separate issues. Just because you see it as a sign of disrespect doesn't mean it is. I served in the military under Bush Jr. I didn't fight for a flag or song. I fought for values, and the liberty to express them. You are disrespecting that liberty.