"I am trying to point out the reality of things."

This is so wrong. I refuse to accept that I or any one else should be expected to just sit back and accept assault because "that's reality."

"a person who knowingly puts oneself in a situation in which they could be a victim of a power imbalance"

Wow. Just wow. So, a student assaulted by a teacher--their own fault. An intern by their boss--their own fault. I am astonished. 

And "Farmgrrl" and others are right. A lot of people ARE supporting this whole "sit back and take it, stop complaining" sort of approach. Just boys being boys, and stop whining already! I agree, it's the dominant narrative--most people agree with this POV! It gets support everywhere! Why, maybe even enough to represent an aspect of culture! We could call it ra... oh. Wait. Hmmm.