My last wife was third degree black belt in three disciplines. She tried domestic violence on me once, accompanied with all that "Hiyee" nonsense. I hung sheet-rock all day, seven days a week. I asked her if she had hurt her hands ... and she went off crying as most women do.
Women are just as physically violent as men, and more so towards their children. Most men will give their kid a swat, on their bottom, to get their attention. Some women will beat their kids with anything, until they can't walk.
Lets be more even-handed with these abuser and abused labels.