"Trumps presidency is on your candidate - Hillary Clinton - not on us."

No, Trump's presidency is on anyone who doesn't vote to prevent him from becoming president, and the only vote that matters in that respect is a vote for Hillary given the binary choice in our current political system.  You do not get to foist responsibility onto anybody else.  This is on everyone, those who choose to vote, and those who choose not to vote.  There is one responsible way to vote this time, and you are liable if you do not do the right thing.  Does it suck that this means voting for Hillary?  Guess so, depending on your perspective, but nobody ever promised the right thing would also be the easy or the feel-good thing.