This not hatred, it is justified disapproval. A public official accepting expensive gifts from people who may deal with the government has always been considered wrong. Not necessarily a criminal offence. But certainly a firing offence for a public servant. It couldn't matter less whether the person doing the favour is a personal connection. You don't accept expensive favours while you are in office.  People used to understand that. My father was just an employee of a crown corporation, but  he refused an invitation to the Arctic fishing camp of a former client he had know for a long time. When he retired, he went fishing. It is not complicated. You stay clear. You don't accept expensive favours while you are in public office or have the authority to act for the government.