BTW, Kath WAS in the courtroom, every day as well. And she also watched it, listened, AND she and her husband, scott, testified along with other victim parents. 
Sorry, but If this make her or any of the victims family more comfortable knowing that he is a hole that sounds more like something that Joe Black would met out for Drew, then we absolutely should tell them. Im not sure that you and I should know, but kathy and scott, along with the other familes, deserve to have whatever will ease their pain.