And I know of American women who have married Saudi men and moved there. And loved it there.

A lot of western women get used to the maids, nannies, chauffeurs, gardeners and servants (something only upper classes have in the west).

Immigration is driven by economics, then politics. Why else did millions of Europeans move to the Americas? Or Africa? Or Asia? No one wanted to emigrate to western Europe till the 20th century. When it became more prosperous than everyone else.