Share the Care groups are a wonderful invention. I was involved with such a group for a friend with a brain tumor for more than 2 years! Such groups are going to be more & more needed as society ages - and as there are more & more aging single adults. But Share the Care is not just for singles - caring for a family member with a debilitating illness is draining & Share the Care helps immensely! There's a book describing the process - easy to find by googling it!