Again, I didn't attack you Tamara, you attacked me.  You're not a victim.   You're right, approach determines response.  Also content.  We've now established that, Trumplike, you lie. And I trust my DOC and other sources.  I think that's what really gets to you; that I know some of what goes on behind closed doors. If you didn't live in such an insular world you'd have the perspective necessary to develop insight into your own behavior and the reasons for it.  I understand it's hard for someone like you, who used to have the power of the state behind you to back your every move ( wrongly or rightly) to be questioned and criticized.  I get that. In a lot of ways, you're just as institutionalized as any long term inmate.