it so so unusual for you and i to disagree and of all subjects... "No woman should come to, wake up, gather her senses and realize that she has been sexually abused. Not under any circumstances, period"  my point jade, is that she put herself in very one of the situations she claimed she was in.   she had total control of what she was doing when she accepted a ride from "strangers - she had agreed to leave with them to go to the festival.   she willing went with the who, ( male strangers)  to achieve the what (more party) she knew where  (reggae fest in scio)  and when (1.a.m.).  why?  for me  - the story doesn't add up.  i believe she did party with these guys and thought better of it after the booze wore off.  IF she was raped - my deepest apologies to her - i have been there myself.  i would hope these guys get caught and fully prosecuted .  perhaps have a "come to bubba" moment while serving time.. and where is outsider77 when i need him?