For those who have never been molested, abused or raped, let me tell you about the aftermath. Feeling so dirty, inside and out because there isn't enough soap or water hot enough to make you feel clean. The shame, the humiliation, the self loathing. Your body is no longer yours. You will never be safe. Anyone at anytime can decide they can use your body however they want and there isn't a goddamn thing you can ever do to stop it. Sexual abuse isn't like physical scars that heal, sexual abuse kills your very soul. The younger you are the more traumatizing. Sexual predators can somehow sense those who have been victimized. So those who are sexually abused will often become victims of other sexual predators. I did. I was molested by another child. A couple year later I was molested by my older god brother. When I was 17 I was brutally raped. I no longer cared about my body, it wasn't sacred, it wasn't even "my" body. Anyone could violate me at anytime. Sexual abuse scars last a lifetime.