This was a big guy with what used to be called "five o'clock shadow".  In a dress.  I've already provided my rationale for objecting to this guy walking in on her.  Until you address that, hold your questions.  I won't answer 'em otherwise.  Women in compromising positions are RIGHT to fear men who intrude of them.  And if you don't have kids (as seems likely considering your absurd "advice"), you and I have no common ground on which to discuss pretty much anything.  You don't care about children's safety.  I do.  We're not gonna agree.  In fact don't bother to reply.  Your arguments are already sufficiently inane to the point where I'll just get sent to the "uncivil zone" for answering further.