Well I sure hope and pray you and yours or just you are never dealing with a mentally ill family member cause that's not a choice! Or a returning soldier suffering from constant breakdowns or a kid who ends up hooked on heroine. you know, cause that's a choice right? I advocate people take care of their own the best they can first before depending on anything else but sometimes it's impossible situation dependent. I'm not asking you suddenly develop compassion, I'm asking you to see the truth of the situation.