I don't understand the gender identity issue, not to the point of involving the court system to make a legal change. My gender identity has little to do with what I order at a drive through, how much I enjoy a concert, whether I prefer hash browns or cottage fries. When I'm at the grocery store, I take things off the shelf, put them in a cart, check out, wish I had remembered my bags, put the stuff in my car, drive home, and think "Carp! I forgot laundry soap".  All so gnder neutral. My blue-jeans are gender neutral. So's my sweatshirt. If I want to, I can wear flannel, a more masculine item, or a dress, more feminine. But that's costuming. At the end of the day, I'll gender-neutrally brush my teeth and my head will hit a gender-neutral pillow.