Thanks but I have a hard time dealing with the parish liturgies and this "othering" that seems to have claimed a rock hold in many RC's mindset. 
Not all - but it's enough to make me feel uneasy in the pew at this point.
Not everyone is called 24/7 but we need to have a welcoming inclusive community that tries nothing more nothing else. Top down thinking is not modeling this.
When I see the hierarchy have dinner at a shelter every week. When they have a focus group for females called to ordination, when they help support trans kids in their schools, when they invite LBGQT folks to their homes and go to their homes, when they volunteer at a home for severely disabled infants and diaper and burp once a month,when they have eaten a poverty level diet for two weeks, when they visit prisoners and hire and support ex felons (no sexual offenders around children btw)
Then I will gladly come rushing back. Until I see less fear more love in action I wait.
It can be done.