"Done well."  That's always the standard that is rolled out, isn't it.  I have no problem with adoption of children who have already lost their parents; it's the creation of children with the intent to take them away from one or both parents that I have a problem with.  Frankly, once the child has suffered the loss of the parents, we do whatever we need to do to address the tragedy.  But creating the tragedy for the benefit of adult selfishness is horrible, regardless of how "well" the children do.

How is your child is going to learn about marriage, living with a spouse, and raising children together?