Being a stoner mom/dad is acceptable if you are married but be prepared to potentially lose custody of your kids if you end up getting a divorce.  Your ex will paint you as a drug addict (heroin and weed and both Schedule 1 after all) and next thing you know they will take all of your visitation away and you will be like, wtf just happened here?

Welcome to Multnomah Family Court.  Don't say I didn't warn you!