The confusion will continue as long as the conflation of sacramental theology with patriarchal gender ideology is not clarified.  St John Paul II's Theology of the Body provides a basis for the clarification that is required, but we must keep in mind that "they love truth when she shines on them; and hate her when she rebukes them" (Augustine, Confessions, Book 10, Chapter 23).  Consider this note:

http://pelicanweb.org/CCC.TOB.html#PGT&TOB