"women wanting full equality as human beings"
That would also include women giving up privilege and advantage. Care to give any examples of feminists campaigning for that?
Your definition of what the actual feminist movement is doing can only be legitimate if you assume that in all situations men are in an equal or better situation relative to women. That belief is certainly what is being pushed and clearly what many, if not most or all, feminists do believe. Despite the obvious evidence to the contrary.