You can all sit here with judgment and act like you know what's going on based on his social media and what was on the news. Well what if I told you all that he has been sober for just about a year. You might remember a story about him getting struck by a train last year. He was nearly killed, and that was his goal. He wanted to die. He was turned away from treatment after a week of being there because of the insurance we had, they didn't accept it. He wanted help, kept calling all of these different facilities and he was just getting the run around. I'm his wife, and the mother of his three small children. Coty is an amazing dad and husband but has a problem with alcohol and he is severely bi-polar. He made a mistake and he is paying for it. He has told me time and time again that he is so grateful he didn't hurt anyone and he just wants to apologize to the people he could have hurt. We all make mistakes and he isn't just some punk kid. He has a heart of gold & WE will get through it.