The laity cannot "make them {the bishops} see". They don't want to see. The laity need to voice their disapproval by withholding money - the only thing that gets the attention of the hierarchy. No voice, no money.
 
 Next the laity need to take charge at the parish level - if you want a good adult study on AL, then start one. Download the study guide in the sidebar.  If you have the type of priest who likes to wear cassocks, then prepare to take it offsite - organize groups to meet in their own homes. Then write summary reports of what the people think - the people who are married and who have children especially.  Send them to the bishops/Rome but don't expect a response, or action.  Don't sit around wringing your hands, waiting for the bishops to "listen". They won't - it's clear that with the exception of a few Francis bishops in the US, the majority of US bishops (JPII and B16 types) don't want to listen, they don't care what the laity think. But they do care about the money.