Your gender isn't something you can change simply by waking up feeling manly on some days. No one has ever shown that there is systematic discrimination against the 100 or so people we are talking about ...trust me Fish no one cares who you are with or spoon ..with. A  person ...male or female, can claim that they are Batman or a Power Ranger or Ninja Turtle and we wouldn't care but please don't expect us to pretend that you are batman or a ninja turtle with you ...you will have to find a way to be OK with it just being your fantasy just like the "married' couples get to have theirs