"It is all about some in society who make others feel bad and enjoy the heck out of being self- righteous."
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This is true for both sides of the argument. The original article like your post argues that its ok to show bigotry towards those labelled bigots. To me, it makes as much sense as the sentence "I hate people that hate". 
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"I do not agree for religious reasons of their lifestyle, but I know they are human beings like me who have feelings and I wish them the best in their lives"
This does not accurately depict my beliefs or point of view. You are making a lot of erroneous assumptions in your post.
1) I'm not religious but I recognize they have the right to worship however they wish.
2) I do not care whom you spend your life with or even have casual sex with.
3) I do wish them (and you) the best in their lives.