Mary, if anyone is thrown off, it's because of your seemless synthesis of two different comments made by two different people. 

Just basic forum etiquette:  If you're going to reply to multiple commentor's replies in a single post - you should probably address your reply accordingly. 

For example, I talked about "psychologically stable," which you quoted.  It certainly sounds like your response was directed at me - because you started the response with a quote from me.  Then without breaking your train of thought, you cited to Kenneth's "1903" comment stating "[t]he 1903 statement you quoted[.]"  At no time did you mention anyone by name.  

With that said, you probably need to re-read what you wrote.  Your confusion is your own.  No need to blame others for "muddling" your response.