I don't want to be told what to think by an institution, and, what is more important, I don't want to be told how to feel—how I am supposed to feel about things. When the Church or when a political organization does that routinely, I and others feel wronged and offended by the lack of respect and  the lack of appreciation of individual uniqueness. We are not wanted until we change, until we conform to someone else's ideas. This is, for example, the purpose of the Catechism, isn't it?