What do you say we help the people already here before we go helping unwanted ones that haven't seen the light or breathed the air.  Let's help those who already have responsibilities and obligations and let the parents decide what is right for their families, just as you wish to do.  There are so many people in such desperate straits these days, why do you want to overburden them further?  

Accidents happen, but that doesn't have to destroy multiple lives for the sake of a potential new one.