What have you done to deserve it? Is your race the only reason you should have this given to you? Is there any other reason that you are entitled to this? If so, and I disagree with that other reason, am I still a racist? Is it possible for anyone to say, "no, you can't have that, it's to expensive"  and not be a racist? Just asking, because it seems that when soneone says "no" to you, "racist" is all you hear.