How can I make my mom love me the same as my siblings?
I have three siblings. My mom loves them and not me. She’s always yelling at me, but when it comes to my siblings, she talks to them. I’m always crying in my room.
Lauren Ostrowski, MA, LPC, NCC, BC-TMH, CCTP, CCHI tailor my therapeutic approach to each client's strengths and goals
Have you ever tried talking with her about this when she's not angry? While I hear you saying that it feels like she doesn't love you, there could be a lot of other pieces to this. Have you ever told her about how much she means to you (when she's not angry)?
Saya memiliki tiga saudara. Ibu saya mencintai mereka dan bukan saya. Dia selalu berteriak kepada saya, tetapi ketika berbicara tentang saudara-saudara saya, dia berbicara dengan mereka. Saya selalu menangis di kamar saya.
Apakah kamu pernah mencoba berbicara dengannya tentang ini saat dia tidak marah? Sementara saya mendengar kamu mengatakan bahwa seolah-olah dia tidak mencintaimu, mungkin ada banyak hal lain di sini. Apakah kamu pernah memberitahunya betapa dia berarti bagimu (saat dia tidak marah)?