My boyfriend is upset about my friendship with another guy
I have a friend that who I used to be in a relationship with. It was brief and turned into us being just good friends.  I spent the weekend with him and it upset my boyfriend. Was i wrong?
Rossana MagalhaesCouple & Family therapist
It is not the case of being right or wrong, in my view. If you are asking, I believe you truly care for your boyfriend. It seems like he is having difficulties in establishing trust in this relationship. The ideal would be to come closer to his upsetness and to show him that you are there for him. I hope all goes well. Rossana Mag.
Saya memiliki teman yang pernah saya jalin hubungan dengannya. Hubungan itu singkat dan berubah menjadi kami berdua hanya teman baik. Saya menghabiskan akhir pekan bersamanya dan itu membuat pacar saya kesal. Apakah saya salah?
Ini bukan soal benar atau salah, menurut pandangan saya. Jika Anda bertanya demikian, saya percaya Anda benar-benar peduli pada pacar Anda. Sepertinya dia mengalami kesulitan dalam membangun kepercayaan dalam hubungan ini. Idealnya, Anda harus lebih mendekat pada perasaannya yang kesal dan menunjukkan bahwa Anda ada untuknya. Saya berharap semuanya berjalan baik. Rossana Mag.