My wife and I have been married for over 3 years and we're tired of having sex
We make love once per month. Is it normal?
Rebecca WongRelationship Therapist & Connectfulness Consultant
To begin with, what's normal for one couple isn't going to be normal for the next, every couple has their own normal and that's important to keep in mind. Your sexual lives will ebb and flow. What I'd be more curious about is the quality rather than the quantity of the sex you are having. I'd also want you both to refocus on building up your little daily moments of connection, I wrote a post about exactly that a while back and you can find it here.
Kami berhubungan intim sekali sebulan. Apakah itu normal?
Pertama-tama, apa yang normal bagi satu pasangan tidak akan normal bagi pasangan lainnya, setiap pasangan memiliki standar normalnya sendiri dan itu penting untuk diingat. Kehidupan seksual kalian akan naik turun. Yang lebih ingin saya ketahui adalah kualitas daripada kuantitas dari hubungan intim yang kalian lakukan. Saya juga ingin kalian berfokus kembali membangun momen-momen kecil sehari-hari yang menghubungkan kalian, saya sudah menulis sebuah pos tentang hal itu beberapa waktu lalu dan kalian bisa menemukannya di sini.