I'm scared of hurting my boyfriend after he had a cyst removed from his testicles
My boyfriend and I have not had sex in a couple of weeks. He had to have a cyst removed on his testicles. I have been wanting to have sex with him for a while now, and it drives me crazy not to be able to make love to him. I'm scared to touch him and get close to him because I'm afraid that I will hurt him.
Sherry Katz, LCSWCouples and Family Therapist, LCSW
Are you talking with your boyfriend about his doctor advises on starting to have sex again?Being able to talk together about topics that involve both of you, will establish a new type of intimacy on an emotional level.Also, there are many ways of making love. If your bf's cyst hasn't yet healed, then another way of both increasing your emotional intimacy and learning different love making suggestions, is to read about these together with him.I hope the two of you enjoy learning new ways of sexually taking care of one another, while developing more emotional closeness in the process.
Pacar saya dan saya sudah tidak berhubungan seks selama beberapa minggu. Dia harus mengangkat kista di testisnya. Saya sudah lama ingin berhubungan seks dengannya, dan itu membuat saya gila tidak bisa bercinta dengannya. Saya takut untuk menyentuhnya dan mendekatinya karena saya khawatir saya akan menyakitinya.
Apakah Anda berbicara dengan pacar Anda tentang saran dokter tentang memulai berhubungan seks lagi? Mampu berbicara bersama tentang topik yang melibatkan kalian berdua, akan membangun jenis keintiman baru pada tingkat emosional. Juga, ada banyak cara untuk bercinta. Jika kista pacar Anda belum sembuh, maka cara lain untuk meningkatkan keintiman emosional dan mempelajari berbagai saran bercinta, adalah dengan membaca tentang hal ini bersama dengannya. Saya berharap kalian berdua menikmati belajar cara-cara baru dalam menjaga satu sama lain secara seksual, sambil mengembangkan kedekatan emosional dalam prosesnya.