What should I do after finding my boyfriend flirting on dating websites?
I found the guy I’m dating on dating websites. He was telling women that they were beautiful. He said it wasn’t him and that the phone was hacked. It has since happened two other times. He says he loves me and I’m the only girl he wants to be with, but I feel he is not telling me the truth.
Sherry Katz, LCSWCouples and Family Therapist, LCSW
Tell him what you know and ask why he is lying to you.  If he tells you he isn't lying and you have proof that he is, then you can either accept that he denies the truth or not.
Saya menemukan pria yang saya kencani di situs kencan. Dia memberitahu wanita bahwa mereka cantik. Dia mengatakan itu bukan dia dan bahwa teleponnya telah diretas. Sejak saat itu, hal ini terjadi dua kali lagi. Dia mengatakan bahwa dia mencintai saya dan saya adalah satu-satunya gadis yang dia inginkan, tetapi saya merasa dia tidak jujur kepada saya.
Katakan padanya apa yang Anda ketahui dan tanyakan mengapa dia berbohong kepada Anda. Jika dia mengatakan bahwa dia tidak berbohong dan Anda memiliki bukti bahwa dia berbohong, maka Anda bisa menerima bahwa dia menyangkal kebenaran atau tidak.