My wife doesn't want to have sex
My wife and I have a great relationship except for our sex lives. We are pretty transparent and honest, and basically, she feels bad because she never wants to have sex. She doesn't have the desire. She's also never orgasmed. She feels like a terrible wife and fears I'll cheat on her. She doesn't know why. Last time we had sex, she cried and felt bad and didn't know why she cried. However, she also told me that the last time we had sex, she felt me in her, but it just felt "ehh" and wanted to stop. That makes me feel really awful. We rarely have foreplay. Everything I try tickles her, so she makes me stop. We are both frustrated but very much in love. She and I are in our early 20s. We’re married and we have a baby on the way.
TINA R. DODSON
Have you guys ruled out medical disorders. There is new data that post part depression starts in the pregnancy before baby is delivered. There maybe those factors .Please check out those arenas, firstly. Then consider marital therapy services. Relationship changes with the time passing and with the time and care deposits of investment onto the relationship bank account. Thanks for this opportunity to answer some of ya.alls. relationship intimacy concerns.
Istri saya dan saya memiliki hubungan yang baik kecuali dalam kehidupan seks kami. Kami cukup terbuka dan jujur, dan pada dasarnya, dia merasa buruk karena dia tidak pernah ingin berhubungan seks. Dia tidak memiliki dorongan. Dia juga tidak pernah orgasme. Dia merasa seperti istri yang buruk dan takut saya akan berselingkuh darinya. Dia tidak tahu mengapa. Terakhir kali kami berhubungan seks, dia menangis dan merasa buruk dan tidak tahu mengapa dia menangis. Namun, dia juga memberitahuku bahwa terakhir kali kami berhubungan seks, dia merasakan keberadaanku di dalamnya, tetapi itu terasa "ehh" dan dia ingin berhenti. Itu membuatku merasa sangat buruk. Kami jarang melakukan pemanasan. Segala yang saya coba membuatnya geli, jadi dia membuat saya berhenti. Kami berdua frustrasi tetapi sangat saling mencintai. Dia dan saya masih di awal 20-an. Kami sudah menikah dan kami akan segera memiliki bayi.
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