Should I be concerned that my boyfriend will not introduce me to a female friend
He goes out with her to dinner/brunch/movies when we are not together (we live 2 hours apart).
Rebecca WongRelationship Therapist & Connectfulness Consultant
Would you have the same desire to meet this friend if she were a he? If you are concerned that their friendship is a substitute for you when you aren't present, talk to him. It sounds like you are concerned that he is building an emotional intimacy with her and spending time doing the sort of things with her that you'd otherwise be doing with him. Help him understand why this bothers you but try to also be open to allowing him to make friends. Is the issue that he hasn't introduced you? Is there another reason you don't trust their friendship?
Dia mengajak dia untuk makan malam/brunch/menonton film ketika kita tidak bersama (kita tinggal 2 jam terpisah).
Apakah Anda akan memiliki keinginan yang sama untuk bertemu teman ini jika dia adalah seorang pria? Jika Anda khawatir bahwa persahabatan mereka merupakan pengganti Anda ketika Anda tidak ada, bicaralah padanya. Sepertinya Anda khawatir bahwa dia membangun kedekatan emosional dengannya dan menghabiskan waktu melakukan hal-hal yang seharusnya Anda lakukan bersamanya. Bantu dia memahami mengapa ini mengganggu Anda tetapi coba juga untuk terbuka agar dia bisa berteman. Apakah masalahnya dia belum memperkenalkan Anda? Apakah ada alasan lain Anda tidak mempercayai persahabatan mereka?