My boyfriend isn't sexually performing like he did before I found out he was cheating
Now that the other girl is out of the picture, our sex life isn't the same. Is it because he is still thinking about the other girl?
Sonya WilsonLicensed Professional Counselor
Or...better yet... Is it you still thinking about the other girl? I am sure his cheating hurt you emotionally and may have affected your sexual performance as well. Make sure the other girl is out the picture on your end as well. Sounds like something the both of you need to have a calm and adult conversation about.
Sekarang setelah gadis lain tidak ada, kehidupan seksual kami tidak sama. Apakah ini karena dia masih memikirkan gadis lain?
Atau... lebih baik lagi... Apakah kamu masih memikirkan gadis lain? Saya yakin perselingkuhannya menyakitimu secara emosional dan mungkin juga mempengaruhi performa seksualmu. Pastikan gadis lain sudah tidak ada dalam gambaranmu juga. Sepertinya ini adalah sesuatu yang perlu kalian berdua diskusikan dengan tenang dan dewasa.