How do I discuss my fetishes with wife when she is very sexually passive and insecure?
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Sherry Katz, LCSWCouples and Family Therapist, LCSW
Do you know whether the reason your wife is sexually passive and insecure is due to your fetishes?Maybe she'd be very turned on by your fetishes.Try to not mix up your hesitancy to speak about your fetishes which she hasn't yet directly heard from you, with your assumption that her sexual passivity necessarily means she will reject or withdraw from you when you speak of your fetishes to her.
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Apakah Anda tahu apakah alasan istri Anda pasif secara seksual dan merasa tidak aman disebabkan oleh fetish Anda? Mungkin dia akan sangat terangsang oleh fetish Anda. Cobalah untuk tidak mencampuradukkan keragu-raguan Anda untuk berbicara tentang fetish Anda yang belum dia dengar secara langsung dari Anda, dengan asumsi Anda bahwa pasif seksualnya berarti dia akan menolak atau menarik diri dari Anda ketika Anda berbicara tentang fetish Anda kepadanya.