Why do I always get ignored by people?
Every time I send a message to someone or a group message on Instagram, iMessage, or snapchat people will read my messages but then they won't answer me.  Could it be that there is something they don't like about me? I don't understand why they won't answer my messages. How do I get people to respond to me?
Earl LewisRelationship Expert
Sorry to hear your friends aren't responding to you. If these friends are in-person as well as online, perhaps going to them in person and asking talking to them about your concern. Perhaps it's the way you send messages or the way they are receiving them. if they say no, then a simple request to respond to your messages. Measure the result and notice if there are even small differences. Also understand, why this is so important to you. Ask yourself, why it's so important for you to receive these messages from friends. What does it mean when they don't respond.
Setiap kali saya mengirim pesan kepada seseorang atau pesan grup di Instagram, iMessage, atau Snapchat, orang-orang akan membaca pesan saya tetapi kemudian mereka tidak akan menjawab saya. Apakah mungkin ada sesuatu yang mereka tidak suka tentang saya? Saya tidak mengerti mengapa mereka tidak menjawab pesan saya. Bagaimana saya bisa membuat orang-orang menjawab saya?
Maaf mendengar bahwa teman-teman Anda tidak merespons Anda. Jika teman-teman ini ada di dunia nyata serta online, mungkin Anda bisa pergi menemui mereka langsung dan berbicara kepada mereka tentang kekhawatiran Anda. Mungkin cara Anda mengirim pesan atau cara mereka menerimanya. Jika mereka bilang tidak, maka lakukan permintaan sederhana untuk merespons pesan Anda. Ukur hasilnya dan perhatikan jika ada perbedaan kecil. Juga, pahami mengapa ini sangat penting bagi Anda. Tanyakan pada diri sendiri, mengapa sangat penting bagi Anda untuk menerima pesan ini dari teman-teman. Apa artinya ketika mereka tidak merespons.