Should I wait for this guy to make a move, or just move on?
I told him I liked him. He called me lovely and pretty but he said he didn’t want a relationship. He would always flirt with me.
Sherry Katz, LCSWCouples and Family Therapist, LCSW
Well, as disappointed as you may very well feel from hearing this guy's answer, you know he doesn't want a relationship.What type of move would you like him to make?If you mean you'd be happy to have sex with this guy and not a relationship, then wait for as long as your patience allows.To wait for him to change his mind that he does want a relationship, doesn't have a very strong base on which to stand.Its possible to do this only consider the emotional price of your frustration to wait for someone to change their mind.
Saya bilang padanya bahwa saya menyukainya. Dia memanggil saya cantik dan menarik tetapi dia bilang dia tidak ingin menjalin hubungan. Dia selalu menggoda saya.
Yah, seberapapun kecewa yang mungkin Anda rasakan mendengar jawaban pria ini, Anda tahu dia tidak ingin menjalin hubungan. Jenis langkah apa yang Anda harapkan dia lakukan? Jika Anda bermaksud Anda akan senang untuk berhubungan seks dengan pria ini dan tidak menjalin hubungan, maka tunggulah selama kesabaran Anda mengizinkan. Menunggu dia berubah pikiran untuk ingin menjalin hubungan tidak memiliki dasar yang sangat kuat untuk bertahan. Ini mungkin dilakukan, hanya saja pertimbangkan harga emosional dari frustrasi Anda untuk menunggu seseorang mengubah pikirannya.