Selena Gomez doesn’t plan on getting back together with Justin Bieber,and a close pal exclusively tells RadarOnline.com the former Disney star is looking to date an older man this go around after splitting with “that toxic toddler.” 
 
 After dating on and off for nearly two years the couple finally split for good just before New Year’s Eve while vacationing in Mexico together, and Justin’s immature behavior was to blame. 
 
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 “Selena is looking to date an older man this time,” a pal of the 20-year-old singer and Spring Breakers actress exclusively told Radar. 
 
 “She finally realized how toxic it was to date a toddler like Justin.” 
 
 According to the friend, Selena has been focused sharply on her career and isn’t worrying so much about matters of the heart. 
 
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 “Selena is doing really well and feels like a weight has been lifted off her shoulders now that Justin is out of the picture,” the source said. 
 
 “She finds Justin to be embarrassing since their breakup. He’s turned into exactly the kind of person she’d never want to be with.” 
 
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 As RadarOnline.com exclusively reported last month, the Canadian pop star has been on a dangerous downward spiral since December with one source saying his reputation has been “drastically tarnished in a really short time span simply because of the company he’s keeping.” 
 
 Aside from recently being booed by British fans for arriving two hours late to his concert, a paparazzo was hit and killed while following Justin’s white Ferrari (driven by pal Lil Twist), photos leaked online of Justin smoking what appeared to be marijuana while surrounded by a group of friends, he embarked on a steamy sex romp with a nursing student named Milyn “Mimi” Jensen according to Star magazine, and his Ferrari was once again pulled over by police, twice in two days — both times with his pal Lil Za at the wheel without a valid driver’s license — and a photo of Justin allegedly groping a fan’s breast was published. 
 
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 “For now Selena isn’t concerned one bit with Justin’s boyish antics. It’s the last thing she cares about,” the pal said. 
 
 “Her sights are set on a much more mature man who won’t embarrass her or cause childish fights for no reason.” ||||| By Radar Staff 
 
 An attempted reconciliation dinner between Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez Friday night went terribly wrong. 
 
 They exited Yamato Japanese restaurant in Encino, where they were planning to dine, just minutes after arriving in separate cars, with Selena speeding off first. 
 
 Back at her house, Selena drove in first, and when Justin arrived, she wouldn’t let him in! 
 
 As you can see in the photos obtained by RadarOnline.com, Justin couldn’t get further than the locked gate blocking the driveway! 
 
 
 
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 The teen singer stood at the gate, shouting for Selena, and when she didn’t respond, he could be seen pouting, standing next to the open door of his white Ferrari. 
 
 The tantrum went on for several minutes, eyewitnesses say, with the Biebs literally hanging on to the gate and calling out for his estranged girlfriend. 
 
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 Maybe it was the bizarre harem pants Justin was wearing that turned her off but Selena apparently was having none of it. 
 
 When Justin finally walked back to his car, the actress was spotted looking out her walk-in gate at the Baby singer. 
 
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 At some point during the night, Selena finally relented and let Bieber in. Maybe it was his Tweet that won her over? “Things arent always easy. there is alot of pressure. im figuring it all out. im trying. but i care, i notice, i still hear u,” he wrote. 
 
 By early Saturday morning, his Ferrari was spotted inside the gate and by midway he was seen racing away from the house 
 
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– Are Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez getting back together? TMZ's sources spotted the erstwhile pair on what sounds like an epically romantic outing: They were riding around Justin's Calabasas, California, neighborhood together on Segways. Their 12mph activity apparently caused a traffic jam, according to tweets and tweeted pictures rounded up by E!: "Shoutout to @justinbieber for holding up all the traffic in the Oaks. Grow up ... his bodyguards blocked the road," one user posted. Last month, Bieber told an LA radio station he still loves Gomez, but that the two were "not talking" at the moment. Meanwhile, another possible celebrity reunion: Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones celebrated the new year together in Quebec, People reports. Douglas posted a picture of the family in ski gear, and he and Zeta-Jones were spotted together (and wearing their wedding rings) a few other times right before Christmas.