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 As Hailey Glassman takes to the airwaves to tell her side of the ridiculous mess that has become Jon and Kate Gosselin’s lives, the former nanny and lover of Jon revealed another bombshell – that she is afraid of Jon having suicidal thoughts or tendencies if he and Hailey break up! Stephanie Santoro spoke exclusively to RadarOnline.com about her relationship with the father of eight and said she is afraid of what he might do to himself if he and the woman he has called the love of his life break up. 
 
 VIDEO: Tearful Hailey Glassman Continues To Open Up, John Responds 
 
 “He said he was going to kill himself,” Stephanie told RadarOnline.com. After Jon and Hailey broke up Stephanie said that he called her and revealed his dark and disturbing thoughts to her. He said “He was going to end it all the he couldn’t handle it anymore.” 
 
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 Hailey was tearful on The Insider as she said she believes Jon emotionally abuses her and she feels she has put “her entire life on hold” for Jon, and that she feels she can no longer deal with the constant whispering, pointing fingers and accusations of being a home wrecker from the public. 
 
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 Jon professed his love of Hailey to Stephanie Santoro, who told RadarOnline.com that the depressed father told her “All he wanted to do was be with Hailey,” but that the pressure of his life was getting to be too much for him. “He couldn’t handle it anymore, this was all too much for him,” Stephanie said about Jon. 
 
 VIDEO: Hailey Glassman Claims Jon Gosselin Emotionally Abuses Her 
 
 Stephanie said that she would hope that Jon is not at the same point of despair now, but that it is a fear of hers. Maybe Sunday’s meeting with Rabbie Schmuley will help Jon change his ways. Of course, maybe doing that in private would be better. 
 
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 Father of eight Jon Gosselin is embroiled in a “he-said she-said battle” with girlfriend Hailey Glassman and Octo-mom Nadya Suleman. 
 
 Hailey says he has emotionally abused her, and Nadya says he was talking about teaming with her for a new reality show. 
 
 Only one of these statements is true – and according to a source close to Gosselin, it isn’t Hailey’s. 
 
 A close confidante to Jon Gosselin tells Fox411 that last week’s taped confession by Hailey on “The Insider” was all designed for TV by Jon himself. 
 
 “Jon actually made the decision to have Hailey go on air and bad mouth him,” says the insider. “Jon and Hailey get paid for their appearances on these shows and they need the money. It was easy for Hailey to conjure tears, their lives are less than stellar right now, but Jon hasn’t abused [her].” 
 
 So why go on TV and say that he did? 
 
 “They agreed to have her go on and make the abuse allegations!” our shocked source says. “Jon doesn’t have much money left and he is not currently searching for a real job. Jon still seeks money through his fame and notoriety. He really wants a reality show of his own, and he is stretching out every moment of the drama for a dollar.” 
 
 Which means Hailey’s abuse allegation was just a “Balloon Boy” type stunt to attract reality-TV producer attention. 
 
 However, the other rumor of the week, that Jon would be involved with Octomom, was true, even though he denied it, says the source. 
 
 Jon released a statement on Thursday night denying he even heard about a reality show with Nadya Suleman. But emails seen by Fox411 and RadarOnline.com show Gosselin was contemplating the show and hoping to get close to a million dollars for a slew of fake dates with Octomom. 
 
 “His whole team heard of the project and was involved in brokering the possible deal,” the confidante tells Fox411. “His managers, lawyers and publicists need to get something rolling for him or he won’t be able to pay them. Jon doesn’t have a big bank account loaded with money. He has to do something and this would have been funny, plus Hailey had no problem going along with the fake dates and pretending to be upset. She is along for the ride and enjoys being on TV.” 
 
 The insider says Jon is still using excuses to explain his bad behavior and the poor example he’s setting for his children. 
 
 “Jon still believes he got married too young and had too many children that he wasn’t ready for – that’s what has led to the demise of his relationship and the TV show,” says the source. “Kate doesn’t even talk to him. She leads a totally separate life, and their schedules are worked out far in advance to completely avoid each other.” 
 
 Meanwhile, Jon Gosselin went public Sunday begging Kate for forgiveness, and Hailey Glassman Tweeted her followers that she and Gosselin are now kaput. 
 
 Just more grist for the rumor mill? 
 
 Stay tuned…
– Hailey Glassman's two-part Insider interview began last night, and she cried about putting "her entire life on hold" (including college) for Jon Gosselin. "I can't do this anymore, I can't take it," she said, adding that she's told Jon "If you really loved me, you would let me go," but he has begged her to stay. He's even threatened suicide if Glassman leaves him, ex-nanny Stephanie Santoro tells Radar. Jon, of course, responded to the Insider with a statement, thanking Hailey for her "emotional support" and asking the world at large for an "opportunity to prove myself." The best news of all comes from Star, with the seemingly inevitable revelation that this whole mess will be turned into a movie, courtesy of New Line Cinema. "Ideally they'd like Cameron Diaz for Kate and Johnny Depp for Jon," says a perhaps naively optimistic source.