A ceremony at Madison Square Garden yesterday morning marked the graduation of 884 new officers into the New York Police Department. When Mayor Bill de Blasio took the podium to address the graduating class, praising them for their courage and determination, he was greeted like an unpopular high school principal: with boos, jeers, and the turning of backs. When he talked about the officers facing "problems [they] don't create," someone in the audience called back: "You created them!" 
 
 Don't blame any incoming officers for the outbreak, however—they were only mimicking the hysterical fits their elders have been throwing in public for the past month. Two days earlier, at the funeral of officer Rafael Ramos, uniformed members of the force turned around en masse when de Blasio began to deliver his eulogy. (What other group comes to mind when you think about protests at funerals?) A week before, officers had turned their backs when de Blasio entered One Police Plaza after the shocking and senseless killing of Ramos and his partner, Wenjian Liu. 
 
 Those symbolic displays of contempt were intended to demonstrate the department's lack of faith in its democratically elected leader. What they have communicated instead is that the New York Police Department is too childish and entitled to deserve its privileged status, and too aggrieved and resentful to be called "New York's Finest." The New York Police Department is an embarrassment to the city of New York. 
 
 After the non-indictment of Daniel Pantaleo, the officer who killed unarmed Staten Island man Eric Garner, the department has embarked on an apparent mission to make itself look as juvenile as possible. In addition to the turned backs, the union representing NYPD officers recently pushed a petition to bar the mayor from attending cops' funerals, then all but instructed officers to participate in a work stoppage. 
 
 Why? Because de Blasio had the temerity to admit in public that his son is at a higher risk of being killed by the NYPD because his son is black. Because de Blasio said out loud, as mayor of New York city, what American parents of black and Latino children have said in private for decades. (There was also an incomprehensible dustup about de Blasio's use of the word "allegedly.") 
 
 Four days before Christmas, a man named Ismaayil Brinsley grabbed a handgun, shot his girlfriend, took a bus to New York City, and murdered Wenjian Liu and Rafael Ramos while they were sitting in their car on a corner in Bed Stuy. Shortly thereafter, Brinsley fled into the Myrtle-Willoughby G Train station and committed suicide. Brinsley had made his intentions clear in an Instagram post earlier that day: He was going to kill some New York City cops, and he was going to do so because of the police killings of Eric Garner and Michael Brown. 
 
 It's hard to imagine something that could have changed the dynamic of the ongoing popular protests against police brutality more: Two men lost their lives. Two families had their husbands, fathers, and sons torn from them. Thousands of NYPD cops lost their colleagues. The tragedy was an immediate and clarifying humanization of a profession whose incompetents and villains had dominated the news. 
 
 But if the deaths of Liu and Ramos gave the police department a moment to solemnly reflect and an opportunity to reconnect with a citizenry it had alienated with abuse and violence, they were squandered within only a few hours, when Patrick Lynch, the head of the police department's largest union, told reporters that there was "blood on the hands" of the mayor and protesters. The willfully ignorant dolchstosslegende of de Blasio's culpability in the murders was ridiculous to anyone with even passing understanding of the story: Ismaayil Brinsley allegedly shot and wounded his girlfriend before the murder-suicide; he'd had a long list of past weapons and robbery charges; he was obviously sick and hurting. 
 
 And so while Lynch brayed, the rest of the city kept moving. De Blasio, recognizing the gravity of the moment, called for a temporary halt to the public protests that have filled streets around the city all month. Protesters declined to heed de Blasio's call, and returned to the streets a few nights later, some singing "This Little Light of Mine" and paying their respects at an impromptu memorial for officers Liu and Ramos. In a tremendous showing of grace, Eric Garner's daughter Emerald visited the memorial, telling reporters, "I just had to come out and let their family know that we stand with them, and I'm going to send my prayers and condolences to all the families who are suffering." 
 
 Not moving: The cops. Days before the murders, Lynch proudly said at a police union meeting that officers should respond to gentle criticism from the mayor and demonstrators by deliberately slowing down their patrols: "We're going to take that book, their rules and we're going to protect ourselves because they won't. We will do it the way they want us to do it. We will do it with their stupid rules, even the ones that don't work." Another PBA spokesman denied that Lynch was calling for a slowdown, but the union chief's language is clear enough. 
 
 That apparent slippage in enforcement is addressed in a pair of New York Post articles published this week. According to the emphatically pro-cop tabloid, since December 22, tickets and minor summonses are down 94 percent and overall arrests down 66 percent compared to the same period last year. But instead of framing the lack of action in terms of Lynch's raging ego, the Post and its sources posit that the recent unrest and the Liu-Ramos murder have left cops feeling afraid of being hurt on the job. 
 
 In truth, it's probably a little bit of both. Whether you're a good cop or a bad cop, waking up and starting your patrol in a city where two of your colleagues were killed on the job and where throngs of people express their displeasure with you every single night is surely a source of enormous anxiety and discomfort, and rightfully so. 
 
 But fearful as it may be, this is the job the cops signed up for: to protect and serve, as the motto on the side of every squad car in New York says, with courtesy, professionalism, and respect. This is why the angle that Lynch's vituperative rhetoric is really about a union contract dispute is so unconvincing. Despite what the NYPD would have you believe, a police officer is not an oppressed minority, but a special, protected class of person—just look at what happened to Daniel Pantaleo after he killed a man on video for clear evidence of that. And if the pressures of being a police officer ever become too great, cops are welcome to relieve themselves of that special status by turning in their guns and badges and quitting the force. 
 
 Eric Garner wasn't so privileged. When the pressures of being a black man in a racist police state became too great for him to bear, he didn't have the luxury of quitting. The greatest tool at his disposal in the moments before his death was his voice, and he used it. "I'm tired of it! This stops today," he pled with officers as they questioned him about allegedly selling a single loose cigarette. "Please, just leave me alone." For that simple request, he was executed in public without a trial. 
 
 This is the truth that black and Latino and queer and otherwise disenfranchised New Yorkers have known for decades, if not centuries: The NYPD has never been "New York's Finest." The life-threatening danger that New York's police department poses to its citizens of color is so clear, so well-tread, that discussing it here would be tiresome if it wasn't so necessary and so agonizing. This year, there was Eric Garner, the unarmed father of six who was choked to death by a cop with an alleged history of aggressive misconduct toward black men, and whose death went completely unprosecuted. There was also Akai Gurley, declared "a total innocent" by NYPD Commissioner Bill Bratton, but only after he was shot and killed by a rookie cop in the hallway of his own apartment building; Denise Stewart, dragged nearly naked from her home by a dozen cops who mistakenly knocked on her door after receiving a 911 call from another unit; Rosan Miller, given a mercifully nonfatal chokehold for grilling up food on the sidewalk in front of her house (this is what mercy toward black people looks like from the NYPD: a chokehold that doesn't kill you). Last year, there was Kimani Gray, shot dead in the street at 16 years old, and before that, Tamon Robinson, Shereese Francis, Ramarley Graham, Alberta Spruill, Amadou Diallo. The list goes on and horribly on. 
 
 But the world is changing. Stop-and-frisk has slowed, if not entirely ended. Thanks to collective action in the wake of Garner's death, outcry over the NYPD's brutality and recklessness became too loud for the department or the city or its white establishment to ignore this year. Mayor de Blasio's experience raising a son at high risk of NYPD killing makes him a compassionate and impassioned, if not always effective, advocate for change. His administration, the incisive editorials in the New York Times and the New York Daily News, and, most of all, the thrilling sight of people taking to the streets to demand justice have made New York feel like the city it wants to be—the greatest city in the world. 
 
 The infantile response from the NYPD and the unions that represent it is not worthy of it. It is hardly worthy of a schoolyard bully who can't believe he's finally been called on his bullshit. 
 
 Illustration by Jim Cooke ||||| Mayor Bill de Blasio has spent weeks expressing his respect and admiration for the New York Police Department, while calling for unity in these difficult days, but the message doesn’t seem to be sinking in. 
 
 When he spoke at a police graduation ceremony at Madison Square Garden on Monday, some in the crowd booed and heckled him. This followed the mass back-turning by scores of officers when the mayor spoke on Saturday at the funeral of Officer Rafael Ramos; the virtual back-turning the day before by an airplane-towed banner (“Our backs have turned to you”), and the original spiteful gesture by officers on the night Mr. de Blasio visited the hospital where Officer Ramos and his partner, Wenjian Liu, lay dead. 
 
 Mr. de Blasio isn’t going to say it, but somebody has to: With these acts of passive-aggressive contempt and self-pity, many New York police officers, led by their union, are squandering the department’s credibility, defacing its reputation, shredding its hard-earned respect. They have taken the most grave and solemn of civic moments — a funeral of a fallen colleague — and hijacked it for their own petty look-at-us gesture. In doing so, they also turned their backs on Mr. Ramos’s widow and her two young sons, and others in that grief-struck family. 
 
 These are disgraceful acts, which will be compounded if anyone repeats the stunt at Officer Liu’s funeral on Sunday. ||||| NYPD commissioner Bill Bratton called on the city’s cops to show some respect rather than their backs at Sunday’s funeral for slain colleague Wenjian Liu. 
 
 Bratton — while stressing there was no direct order or threat of discipline — made it clear he expected better from the city’s Finest when Mayor de Blasio appears at the service. 
 
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 “A hero’s funeral is about grieving, not grievance,” began the pointed Bratton internal message distributed Friday afternoon to citywide commands. 
 
 “I remind you that when you don the uniform of the department, you are bound by the tradition, honor and decency that go with it.” 
 
 During last Saturday’s funeral for Officer Rafael Ramos, hundreds of the more than 20,000 assembled cops from New York and around the nation turned their backs on de Blasio as he began to speak. 
 
 The wake for 32-year-old NYPD Officer Wenjian Liu was set for 1-9 p.m. Saturday at the Aievoli Funeral Home in Bensonhurst. (NYPD/AP) 
 
 The mayor’s remarks were beamed to the streets outside the Christ Tabernacle Church in Queens via large video screens, and the cops in the street spun away from the simulcast. 
 
 Participants said the demonstration was spontaneous, spreading quickly through the officers in their dress blues along Myrtle Ave. in Glendale. 
 
 De Blasio’s conciliatory remembrance of Ramos, the married 42-year-old father of two teen sons, was greeted with stone silence by the officers. 
 
 The snub was a repeat of the disdain directed at de Blasio when he arrived at Woodhull Hospital after the two officers were fatally shot in Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn, on Dec. 20. 
 
 The double murder racheted up the animosity between the police unions and City Hall, with Patrolmen’s Benevolent Association head Patrick Lynch saying the mayor had “blood on the hands.” 
 
 The lack of funeral etiquette overshadowed the day’s good will toward a fallen colleague and his mourning family, the commissioner said. 
 
 “The country’s consciousness of that funeral has focused on an act of disrespect shown by a portion of those . . . officers,” Bratton wrote. “It was not all the officers, and it was not disrespect directed at Detective Ramos. But all officers were painted by it.” 
 
 The commissioner said the mayoral rebuke took the spotlight off the heroic Ramos at a time when he deserved the full respect of his brothers and sisters in blue. 
 
 Bratton — while stressing there was no direct order or threat of discipline — made it clear he expected better from the city’s Finest when Mayor de Blasio appears at the service. (Andrew Lamberson for New York Daily News) 
 
 “It stole the valor, honor and attention that rightfully belonged to the memory of Detective Rafael Ramos’ life and sacrifice,” he said. “That was not the intent, I know. But it was the result.” 
 
 The union representing the NYPD’s captains has already encouraged its members to eschew turning their backs on de Blasio in favor of “cold, steely silence.” 
 
 The Detectives Endowment Association said it would not issue any directive to its members on how to behave at the funeral. 
 
 Police Commissioner Bratton said that the display some officers did at the funeral for Officer Rafael Ramos 'stole the valor, honor and attention' that Ramos deserved. (Debbie Egan-Chin/New York Daily News) 
 
 Liu and Ramos were killed during an ambush by a cop-hating gunman who traveled from the Baltimore area to New York with the intent to attack police. After killing the cops, Ismaaiyl Brinsley, 28, ran to a nearby subway station and shot himself to death. 
 
 “Cops have feelings too and are entitled to express them thanks to the same First Amendment right exercised by the protesters,” said DEA head Mike Palladino. 
 
 There was no immediate comment from Lynch, whose tirades against de Blasio increased tensions between the two sides. 
 
 'A hero’s funeral is about grieving, not grievance,' NYPD Commissioner William Bratton told his officers in a message distributed Friday. (VIOREL FLORESCU/North Jersey /Landov) 
 
 The wake for 32-year-old Liu was set for 1-9 p.m. Saturday at the Aievoli Funeral Home in Bensonhurst. The Sunday funeral, with FBI Director James Coney expected to attend, begins at 10 a.m. 
 
 The farewell comes more than two weeks after the shooting as officials arranged for Liu’s relatives from China to get to New York for the funeral. 
 
 The officer is a native of Guangzhou, China, and came to New York with his family in 1994. He joined the NYPD in December 2007 after working as an auxiliary cop in Brooklyn. Liu is survived by his wife of just three months, along with a large extended family that relied on his NYPD salary for support. 
 
 A steady stream of neighbors, colleagues and concerned citizens stopped by the Liu home in recent days, creating a makeshift memorial to the 7-year veteran with flowers, cards and pictures. 
 
 The NYPD and the first-term mayor are at odds over a number of issues that the city cops perceive as a lack of support from City Hall. Both sides met on Tuesday in an effort to resolve the rift as de Blasio started his second year in office, but there was no public truce after the get-together. 
 
 The mayor declined to apologize, and a source indicated de Blasio had no intention of giving the NYPD a mea culpa. The heads of five police unions spent 21/2 tense hours with the mayor, expressing their anger about some of his public comments after a Staten Island grand jury voted not to indict Officer Daniel Pantaleo in Eric Garner’s death. Garner, 43, in the midst of being arrested for peddling untaxed cigarettes, died in the clutches of a police chokehold. 
 
 Cops were infuriated when de Blasio — after the grand jury decision — said he warned his biracial son Dante to be careful in dealing with the NYPD. 
 
 When the mayor addressed newly installed cops at a Madison Square Garden graduation ceremony, he was booed as about a dozen attendees turned their backs toward him. 
 
 De Blasio, in his emotional eulogy last week, made sure to hail the NYPD as “the finest police force in this country” before extending condolences to Ramos’ colleagues. 
 
 The police commissioner invoked the Ramos funeral as an example of the department at its best — at least until cops turned on the mayor. 
 
 “The New York City Police Department buried a hero,” he said. “His family witnessed the kind of love that only his second family in blue could display.” 
 
 Bratton — who blasted last weekend’s police behavior as “very inappropriate” — said it was important for the department to put aside the lingering spat and focus on honoring Liu. 
 
 “On Sunday, we will gather together again, with the rest of New York city and law enforcement officials nationwide, to mourn for Detective First Grade Wenjian Liu,” said Bratton, who posthumously promoted the slain officers. 
 
 “We gather to support his parents, his widow, and everyone who is there to remember a life tragically cut short.” 
 
 Bratton's statement: 
 
 A hero's funeral is about grieving, not grievance. 
 
 Last Saturday, the New York City Police Department buried a hero. Tens of thousands of officers from our Department and hundreds of other departments came to show respect for Detective First Grade Rafael Ramos. His family witnessed the kind of love that only his second family in blue could display. 
 
 But for the last seven days, the city’s and the country’s consciousness of that funeral has focused on an act of disrespect shown by a portion of those tens of thousands of officers. It was not all the officers, and it was not disrespect directed at Detective Ramos. But all officers were painted by it, and it stole the valor, honor, and attention that rightfully belonged to the memory of Detective Rafael Ramos’s life and sacrifice. 
 
 That was not the intent, I know. But it was the result. 
 
 On Sunday, we will gather together again, with the rest of New York City and law enforcement officials nationwide, to mourn for Detective First Grade Wenjian Liu. We gather to support his parents, his widow, and everyone who is there to remember a life tragically cut short. 
 
 The assassination of Detectives Liu and Ramos was an attack on us all. As a cop, one who lived and worked through the assassination threats of the 1970s, I understand that emotions are high. I issue no mandates, and I make no threatsof discipline. 
 
 But I remind you that when you don the uniform of this Department, you are bound by the tradition, honor, and decency that go with it.
– New York City cops have literally turned their backs on Mayor de Blasio and jeered him in public, and, as the New York Post reports, they now seem to be engaging in a "virtual work stoppage" in terms of arrests. Some critics, however, say it's the NYPD that's in the wrong. At Gawker today, Andy Cush delivers this scathing assessment: The department "is too childish and entitled to deserve its privileged status, and too aggrieved and resentful to be called 'New York's Finest.' The New York Police Department is an embarrassment to the city of New York." De Blasio's main offense in the eyes of the NYPD came after the non-indictment in the Eric Garner case, when he said that his son needs to be especially careful around police because he's black. After the police union blamed the mayor for the subsequent murder of two officers, the New York Times made the case that rank-and-file officers deserve better from their union reps. "Mr. de Blasio isn’t going to say it, but somebody has to: With these acts of passive-aggressive contempt and self-pity, many New York police officers, led by their union, are squandering the department’s credibility, defacing its reputation, shredding its hard-earned respect," it says in an editorial. "They have taken the most grave and solemn of civic moments—a funeral of a fallen colleague—and hijacked it for their own petty look-at-us gesture." On the flip side, a New York Post editorial says de Blasio still owes the city an apology for "his public insinuations that the NYPD is a racist force." The mayor was meeting today with leaders of the five police unions to try to calm things down.