Finding out you are just a tool/provider for women (they don't care who provides it) will cause anxiety and depression. The red pill is a hard pill to swallow. But once you swallow it life becomes much easier. Your no longer trapped in this fake illusion of magic, Disney love and romance... living for her approval of you. That is psychological and financial slavery. Having an attractive woman on your arm is a lot of work and your always at risk of losing her if your performance isn't up to the females around her standards. She is probably told 3x a day to dump your ass by women she knows. This also causes anxiety and depression. So what are you really missing out on by not having this shit (and it is shit) in your life. Play the lotto...your odds are better and it's a lot cheaper.