The question is, are you in it for the long run with these ladies, or the short run. I think most guys here are approaching it with the perspective that you if you love a woman you wife them up. If you plan to wife them make sure that you treat them well and with respect to win in the long run because of the way it is in 2020. Even the guys with the money and driving the Lambo can still have their girl leave them for a musician or personal trainer