The stereotypical white guy that has an Southeast/East Asian wife/girlfriend is like the comic book guy from the Simpsons - an unattractive white neckbeard loser that was "saved" by an Asian woman eager to be with him when no other woman wanted to. To believe that this is something that is actually happening is high offensive to all Asian women. This is becoming more and more popular in the American media and is wrong. In reality, these guys are open to women of any ethnicity or race, and Asian women appreciate the qualities of a good kind man. These guys have low self esteem and believe that they don't have a lot of options so would accept any woman, even if they aren't attracted to them.