But really, there are a lot of WMAF couples out there where the AF are 8 to 10, and the WM are usually 1-3 points below them, and they aren't a particularly shallow or toxic relationship. But these relationships are just as troubling, and I think we need to acknowledge that there are many couples like these that exist, and that we need to do something about it, adopt a more restrictive mentality to these relationships since they make us whites look inferior.