this is why you always hold true to the phrase NO HYMEN NO DIAMOND, NO CHERRY DON'T MARRY. you will ALWAYS pay for someone else fucking your girlfriend. she will have hang ups. she will compare you to him. she will have temptations of fucking  other guys 'just one last time.' why did every traditional culture look down on women who slept with more than one man? because they recognize them as being broken. only the west made an exception to this. that's why the west is the source of feminism, mainstream homosexuality (greeks), and an entire civilization collapsing because people did not have enough children (romans)