So there was this black guy at my school who somehow got my phone number and kept sending me highly sexual messages. He would talk metaphors about race-mixing, and all the content was highly racial. I had to change my number, and I did not want to go to school. This happened 10 years ago but I still feel uncomfortable when I remember it. At least, it was good to a certain extent because even though by that time I wasn't even racially conscious, this shaped my aversion to black people for dating.