"Cant imagine a woman I'd like to spend time with". LOL, I bet that will really set them off. I remember talking to an aunt about how I'm not interested in getting involved with a woman again. She said something about how they may not even be interested in me or some such thing if I showd no interest whatsoever. I just told her "good, I don't care". Of course it was one of those games she used to play. A reverse psychology type nonsense that my aunts always uses. Like suddenly I'd feel motivated to prove her wrong. Why the fk would I want that and if II just wasn't interested in having a relationship at the time! I wouldn't care anyway. I'M DONE! I tried to have a serious relationship and got royally f'd over. I think it's important to try. But that's it. It was a failure and I have accepted it.