how stupid is the phrase NO HYMEN NO DIAMOND, NO CHERRY DON'T MARRY? people think they will ALWAYS pay for someone else fucking their girlfriend. that we will have hang ups, compare them to other sexual partners ... and that we will have temptations of fucking  other people 'just one last time.' why did every traditional culture look down on women who slept with more than one person? because they recognize us as being broken! we thought the west had made an exception to this cause that's why the west is the source of feminism but it's all bullshit and we're still treated like shit.