as soon as my friend came over she was showing off her two daughters talking about how beautiful they are and at one point even said that being part white and part black they are such a "beautiful mix". One daughter is quite shy, the other chattier but both had amazing hair with the younger one having finer darker hair. Even while she was going on about her daughters she says "The only problem is I can't do anything about their tantrums" . It just angers me knowing how the 'beauty" of kids is always celebrated yet no one talks about the worst part of being parents, like she had issues with their tantrums which I found humorous but sad at the same time.