The only thing I hate more than my in laws who are being snarky or sarcastic or bitchy, is somebody who'genuinely trying to use snark or sarcasm to be funny or sweet or attractive or ""cute"". let me tell you, Snark, sarcasm and bitchiness have nothing to do with you. you're annoying. you're tiresome. you're agitating. you're off-putting. you're the opposite of attractive. It doesn't make you look great. It just makes you look like crazy people.