Oh, no! I‘m sorry you didn’t have the best experiences in Japan. Tbh, I love my country so much, but there’s just so many problems. Marriage and divorce rates, so many old people (very big societal problem with a very complex solution), cheating is super common (not getting any better), misogyny as you mentioned (getting better but there’s still workplace harassment and stuff), porn , brothels and prostitution (most people seem to be fine, to me it’s filth) and so much more...