I feel like I've done a good job raising my daughter up to this point since she doesn't trust strangers and shes aware that women are as good or better than men at most things and always tries to challenge prejudice. Plus, when I hear any stereotypes come out of her mouth I do my best to correct it. A good question to ask your kids is "what happened at school today" or "what were your peers talking about after class", etc. Its a safety net to help catch stereotypical gendered bullshit like women are inferior to men or women aren't good enough being imparted on them by comments or behavious that happen at school