The perfect woman doesn't exist. So she must obey you. Some are more moldable than others. Every single hot girl has a personality disorder. They have attention on them as soon as they grow a pair of tits, and they continue to be drenched in attention until their late 20s to early 30s. Here's a major mindset shift for most guys: what would you rather do"¬¶ lavish attention on her, invest a ton of time money and energy, do all this work"¬¶ and possibly still not get anywhere with her"¬¶ or give less attention, that she values over almost everything else?