I've known this happen with many women I was interested in until I found out that they were only why me because I'm black. One lied to me about how many kids she had, and their ages, and race. Someone was kind enough to tell me don't you know "so and so has a couple of mixed kids?" I'll just add their # to the block list, and be done with it. They don't deserve a man like me. They should go back and not fetishize me.