I wish my white dad got more involved in my Japanese culture and heritage. He said he'll learn the language but that never happened. Even if he didn't speak the language, he could have tried to get to know the history, food, etc. so that he could educate me a bit more instead of being set on just keeping me to my white side so that 'I'm more accepted by society' (which is a bunch of bullcrap). I believe that more involvement would've helped me much more. I wish they accepted this fully so that I didn't have to grow up thinking I was fundamentally wrong and always different like I'm trans or something.