women have a number of reproduction strategies: the first is to get knocked up and make it someone else problem -- like grandma's, or her older siblings' -- in which case she doesn't need to reproduce with a stable guy who bring many meat and just fuck as much as possible, preferably with scary dark triad guys (the chad strat); this works best in times of plenty. the second is to first find a stable guy who bring many meat or make-grow foodplant, and thoughtfully produce the correct amount of offspring because she's going to care for them all (the beta strat). notice that some women will adopt both strategies at different times in their lives.