Once you understand that women are not only for sex/entertainment you'll feel so liberated. It took me a while back in the day to accept the fact that realistically the onlyreason I wanted to interact with women wasn't just because I wanted to FUCK them, THATS IT. Having a nice chat??? YES, becoming good friends??? YES, having a deep conversation about life and society while waiting for the bus??? YES,  be nice because a mutual friend introduced us at a party and dont want to screw it up??? YES!.  Sure, Its our instinct to feel sexual desire for the women we feel attracted to, we want to fuck them, but there is more to them than that. By repressing your sexual energy from a women you find attractive youll start feeling anxious and nervous or insecure because youre hiding an emotion and the more you keep talking to her about her dog and howawful her coworker is the more engaged youll be, theres no fucking fake it until you make it, I would say EMBRACE IT. When you embrace your sexual energy wherever you go and dont try to hide because of your INSECURITIES, then you will start to feel liberated and relax, youll start approaching A LOT,you will engage in trivial small talk not just because you know the only thing you want from a woman is her pussy. Women are not jjust for sex and thats it, embrace everything about them. Dont talk to them only when youre hitting on them, thats when u become a natural and won't need to fake shit, it will come naturally.