The only thing men hate more than a woman who's being snarky or sarcastic or bitchy, is a woman who's genuinely trying to use snark or sarcasm to be funny or sweet or attractive or ""cute"". Snark, sarcasm and bitchiness have nothing to do with these things. They're annoying. They're tiresome. They're agitating. They're off-putting. They're the opposite of attractive. It doesn't make her look attractive. It just makes her look like a crazy bitch.