Hold on my hatred fuels me. It gives me drive. And I'm not even talking about it only towards men. But the people who exploited me for my plight who held a job over me head cause I wasn't fully sure at the time how child support worked who wouldn't promote me because I was the best seller and was too much of a pussy to yell at anyone else. No I have built my hatreds up over the years piece by piece. Hate does not dominate my life it makes it worth living.