How do you tell that your potential mate is a good person or a stalker? Let's imagine a scenario. You go to a music venue and meet someone whom you assume is nice: (s)he speaks nice words, have no discernible issues, doesn't seem to lie to you etc. you are charmed by that person you've just met and want to have a one-night-stand or perhaps even a LTR. What are the signs that may potentially warn you? How can you tell ahead of time before it's too late and you jump to bed with someone like the You character