Raising a good child requires rock solid frame so your kids looks up to and respects you. Similar to an LTR.  If your kid looks up to you, they will try to have your approval, and will mold themselves based on what earns your approval or disappointment. They'll prioritize this over whatever shit they're told at school.  Kids often don't respect their parents. Because so many are busy with no frame, their kids look for trouble as they give 0 fucks about their kids' approval or disappointment.  The wave of crimes we're seeing now is due to the mass lack of frame in parents.  Also combine that with a lack of social repercussions.