As a student who works with refugees in Brussels, I can assure you that you are correct. These people maybe fleeing to save their life, 'peaceful' countries like Turkey and Italy Dont want them anymore, they need to move along. Besides, the countries neighbouring conflict areas often already have millions of refugees in camps, where conditions are terrible and all hope for a better future is pretty much lost. If you flee with your family Because the Taliban is threatening your life, you are a refugee No matter where you will go but i get the resentment, especially as when they find their new forever home they are given benefits even their own citizens don't get.