Women that refuse to do it are worthless. I had one  claim someone rammed a dick into her throat when she was 16 and holding it there, so the fuck what? I gotta pay for someone else screwing you over? Not how it works. Same hoe tried to play the "legal virgin" game by only doing butt stuff. I bailed on her after a handjob that was ok, too many hangups. Any hangups on sexual services are just stupid excuses that translate as "I won't do that for you because I don't like you enough". And don't forget it.