If she isn't the one for you she's just the one for someone else. I could've saved myself from wasting precious time going on silly hikes and gone clubbing and met the same woman. Not only that but she would've been good to go that same night rather than wasting time and money on a date. Also she told be she tried to pursue something with another guy and he wasn't interested. Sidenote: as soon as she revealed her shady past to me I cheated on her but kept her around after that for easy sex.