He's right though mate; clubs are a fucking joke that are full of thirsty betas and easy fights and the reason you're getting defensive is because you invested alot of time learning how to dance to pull girls. if all you want is some fwb then sure go pull club girls but don't come on here preaching like its the holy grail of relationship dispensing. if all you're about is one night stands and being used as some girls fwb then sure go right ahead but if you want something more then look elsewhere. Theres a reason that if a girl you're in a relationship with wants to go on girls night outs or clubbing you kick your ass to the curb.