When I was a kid, I realized that my parents along with the parents of my Asian peers have an attitude of "i dont want any trouble" and would never ever encourage their children to speak up, even when they are receiving unfavorable treatment or the short end of the stick. Not only are older generation of Asians suffer in silence. We, the children that they raised, also have a fucking stupid foot in our mouth and have no fucking clue how to navigate the society.