Yeah transactional sex is all they know or are aware exists out there. Among other things I notice, where even my professor from Germany (so is probably very left wing) said during class "my wife tells me to shut up and I do what she says". He said this to one of the female students in class, and he thinks this makes the girls in that class like him more but they just end up unbothered, but you can't reason with these types of men, you gotta just be nice to them and then slowly bring them to the truth.