I believe I am struggling to understand the statement that the female is more interested in pleasing the male. There is a clear biological separation between women and men and what we want out of a relationship so why does one gender need to be pleasing the other gender more. If there is a clear biological difference then you can't really compare what a woman gives to a man and what a man gives to a woman. Each gender should, from my point of view, bring everything to the table.