I've slept with a few women in my life and one thing I've realised is that I don't know whether I fancy them or not, in fact they make me feel confused. I don't know about you guys - but doesn't this occur to you yoo? It feels exhausting actually -- like I'm so attracted by how feminine and beautiful they are but little anxiety is ruining everything. In my opinion I think before sleeping with people, we need reassurance to give us more confidence when it comes to feelings.