The "perfect" woman doesn't exist. let me you that. We are not objects moldable to your desires. Every single girl has her own personality. But we get attention from pervs as soon as we grow a pair of tits, and that continues to be the case until our late 20s to early 30s when men think we're expired meat. Here's a major mindset shift for you guys: what would think we rather  do, put all our attention on looks, invest a ton of time, money and energy,  and possibly still not get anywhere with you"≈° or give less attention, and put our values on something better?