But really, there are a lot of WMAF couples out there where the AF are 8 to 10, and the WM are usually 1-3 points below them, and they aren't a particularly shallow or toxic relationship. But these relationships are just as toxic, and I think we need to acknowledge that there are many couples like these that exist but others that don't, and that we may need to do something about it. Adopt a more positive mentality to these relationships since they make us happy.