" I'm just looking for a man with money so I can be busy spending it on myself and the kids. Sorry. We can get divorced and you can start paying me alimony and child support later on lol"". - What's sadder is that she actually thinks comments like this will attract a high value man. Women think we interpret this as confidence, or humor. "Come on, it's a joke, laugh a little, I'm just kidding". No. This is snark, sarcasm, bitchiness, and cuntiness. It doesnt show confidence and it's not funny. It's the same as biting down on a fork, or toothpaste and orange juice, or fingernails on a chalkboard.