Young people these days are totally lost. They begin school, at least back when i was a kid, and then have to study for 15 years after elementary school these days. Every, single, person, ever, that I've met, I've become excellent friends with, and 4 or 5 years later, after ive changed their tires and saved their asses countless times, Im in, they fully trust me, I'm reliable, likeable, and they think I'm not judgmental. And then they open up honestly about their habits. Maybe they think Im a ace and thats why they open up, regardless, I've had vastly more female friends my entire life than male, and it is a 100% situation that i eventually hear, from girls... "i used to want to give up" "i fucked up in high school" "i had an abortion in high school". And it goes on, and on, and on. While previously they told no one these things. Their outter persona is of a modestly dressed, well mannered person. But back at home they have a lot of unhappy thoughts.