These f'in' lad's pieces of refuge don't deserve your attention. As soon as you hear he doesn't love you anymore even if you're married. Hire a lawyer as soon as you leave the guy's presence. Start the divorce process. The faster you get him out of your life the less he's gonna steal from you. 2-5 years is a lot better than 7 + years. They can steal your home at 7+ years. Even if you have a child, Fuck that nonsense. You don't want someone that's toxic. Men are T0x!c